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The War On Men Part 2

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September 10, 2019
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Victory with Paul Daugherty

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The War On Men Part 2

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  • - Today, specifically for the men,
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  • there's a war going on for who God's called you to be
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  • and what God's called you to do.
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  • Don't you walk away from the battle
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  • just because you beat that addiction.
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  • Go pull other boys out of that addiction.
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  • Go get other men out of that problem.
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  • Go help other men that are battling divorce.
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  • Go help other men that are in the middle of depression.
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  • Hi, I'm Paul.
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  • Almost 10 years ago my dad, my hero,
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  • my pastor, passed away unexpectedly.
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  • He built a big church
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  • and left some pretty large shoes to fill.
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  • When he died, I didn't just lose my dad,
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  • I lost my faith.
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  • I lost my purpose and my future.
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  • But God showed up and restored my faith
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  • and he gave me a message of hope to share with you.
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  • (applauding)
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  • You're here on purpose.
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  • God's not finished with you yet.
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  • Your best days are right in front of you
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  • and you have victory in your life
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  • because Jesus lives in you.
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  • (applauding)
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  • Nehemiah said, "Fight for your brothers,
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  • "fight for your sons, fight for your daughters,
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  • "fight for your wives, fight for your home."
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  • Then he says this in verse 20.
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  • He says, "And remember when the trumpet blasts,
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  • "rush to the sound and our God will fight for us."
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  • You see, when you fight for your family, God fights for you.
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  • When you fight for your sons, God fights for you.
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  • You're not in this fight all by yourself.
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  • You've got a Father in heaven.
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  • He says, "This is a fixed fight.
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  • "I've given you victory.
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  • "You've just gotta show up.
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  • "You gotta get in church.
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  • "You gotta get in the word.
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  • "You have the victory in your thoughts."
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  • We are not a defeated generation.
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  • We are not a defeated gender.
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  • We have victory as men.
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  • We have victory over our thoughts,
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  • victory in our hearts, victory over addictions.
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  • We were not created to live in defeat
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  • but to walk in victory.
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  • This is a battle for your soul, though, men.
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  • This is a battle for your soul.
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  • This is a battle for your purpose.
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  • If you're taking notes, this is a battle for your purpose.
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  • The enemy does not want you to fulfill your purpose.
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  • The enemy wants to steal your soul
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  • so he can steal your purpose.
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  • He knows the calling on your life.
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  • Why did Pharaoh try to kill all the Hebrew boys
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  • during that time of Moses?
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  • Because he knew there was power in the seed of man.
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  • He knew what the man could accomplish.
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  • He knew, "If I get rid of the men,
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  • "I can get rid of the homes.
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  • "I can get rid of the next generations."
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  • The men carry something inside them
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  • that the world needs.
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  • When Herod put a genocide out on all the baby boys of Israel
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  • during Jesus' time,
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  • the enemy knew, If I can get rid.
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  • There's a boy in this generation
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  • that's gonna change the world.
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  • There's a boy out there that's gonna change his family
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  • and change his community,
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  • and go on to turn the world upside down.
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  • This is a battle for your purpose.
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  • Number three, this is a battle for your marriage and family.
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  • The enemy is after territory.
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  • It's not just about you, it's about who's connected to you.
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  • And number four, this is a battle for your future
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  • and the futures that are connected to you.
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  • I'm standing in the footprints.
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  • I followed the footprints
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  • of my father.
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  • Like, this is where my dad stood 10 years ago
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  • before he passed.
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  • Where are your footprints leading your kids?
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  • And whose footprints are you following right now?
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  • We've got to set the footprints of righteousness,
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  • the footprints of integrity,
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  • that we're going to lead our lives with wisdom,
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  • with honor, with honesty, with hope,
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  • with encouragement,
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  • we're gonna speak right to people.
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  • You see real men, real men go to church,
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  • Real men, real men listen to God.
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  • Real men walk in victory over sin.
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  • Real men treat women with respect.
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  • Real men speak life to their children.
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  • Real men live with compassion.
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  • Real men live with generosity.
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  • Real men walk in integrity.
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  • Real men keep their promises even when it hurts.
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  • Real men take responsibility.
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  • Real men cry.
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  • Real men honor their father and mother.
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  • Real men honor those that are in authority.
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  • Real men stand up for those who can't defend themselves.
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  • Real men take the initiative
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  • to be the spiritual leader in the house.
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  • Is there any real men here today?
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  • Come on, say I'm that man.
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  • (congregation clapping)
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  • If you're a guy today say, I'm that man.
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  • - [Congregation] I'm that man.
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  • - Ladies, if you're sitting next to a guy today,
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  • say you are the man.
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  • - [Congregation] You are the man.
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  • - You are the man.
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  • There's a story that was stirred in my heart
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  • that I wanted to share with you today from the Word of God.
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  • It's the story of Joash.
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  • It's in 2 Chronicles.
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  • It's buried in the book of 2 Chronicles.
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  • So many people miss this story,
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  • but I think it's one of the most powerful stories
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  • when it comes to,
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  • restoring
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  • men
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  • and restoring who men are called to be.
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  • And what happens is, Joash has a father named Ahaziah.
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  • Ahaziah was a wicked man.
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  • He ruled for about one year and he was killed.
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  • He was killed when Joash was a baby.
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  • Joash was one of several children he had.
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  • I mean, Ahaziah had several kids, several boys.
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  • Joash was about nine months old when his father was killed.
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  • And when his father died,
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  • the grandmother, her name was Athaliah,
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  • she said, "I'm going to kill all of the king's kids.
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  • "I'm gonna get rid of all the royal blood,
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  • "so that I can rule the land."
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  • The Bible is full of amazing stories.
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  • If you haven't read it, is better than the Game of Thrones.
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  • I don't know much about it, but I'm just saying is amazing.
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  • The Bible has so much powerful drama,
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  • and just incredible stories of overcoming tragedy
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  • and walking through persevering,
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  • and I'm telling you, it'll jump off the pages
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  • and speak directly to your story.
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  • And so, Athaliah kills all the royal blood.
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  • She kills all the boys, except one.
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  • Joash had an older sister.
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  • And,
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  • her name was Jehoshebeath,
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  • and she found Joash,
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  • and she hid him.
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  • She grabbed this nine month old baby,
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  • and she ran when the grandmother was killing all the kids.
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  • She ran with her little brother,
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  • and she hid him in the temple.
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  • And she handed him to a priest named Jehoiada.
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  • Jehoiada closed the doors of the temple.
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  • Athaliah would never go in the temple.
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  • She was a wicked woman.
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  • She didn't want to have anything to do with God.
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  • She was bringing idols and idolatry
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  • and immorality in the land.
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  • She was setting up all kinds of just dark practices
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  • and things to get the nation
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  • just completely turned from God.
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  • So she wouldn't even go looking in the temple.
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  • She wouldn't even think
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  • that there might be royal blood in the temple.
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  • But there Joash was, he was hidden in the temple.
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  • Being raised not by his biological father,
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  • but by another man.
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  • Give it up for the men that are raising other kids
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  • that they didn't birth but they're standing father's,
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  • step fathers, fathers who come in, come on.
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  • God's gonna use you men to raise kids to speak life,
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  • to raise the standard,
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  • to show them what it means to be a man.
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  • And so Jehoiada took Joash and he begin to teach him,
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  • "You have a calling on your life.
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  • "You have a purpose on your life.
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  • "Your sister sees something in you.
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  • "I see something in you.
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  • "You don't know it, but outside the walls of this temple,
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  • "there's a throne that's waiting for you.
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  • "And at the right time, you're gonna step into authority.
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  • "And this nation will forever be changed
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  • "because there's a boy left in Israel."
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  • There's a king left in Israel.
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  • There's a king left in your house,
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  • there's kings in the hearts of every boy in this room,
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  • there's a king in you.
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  • Turn to the boy next to you, say, there's a king in you.
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  • To every boy in the room, every man in here,
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  • there's a king in you.
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  • The enemy would try to squash it, would try to steal it,
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  • would try to kill it,
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  • would try to get rid of all the males,
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  • but Jehoiada began to speak to him.
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  • And the time came when Joash was seven years old.
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  • He was hitting in the temple.
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  • If you're gonna raise kids, raise them in the house of God.
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  • Get them around the people of God,
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  • get them in the Word of God.
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  • Listen, is so important.
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  • You coming church,
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  • bringing your kids to children's church,
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  • it is so important.
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  • Boys become men in the house of God.
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  • Jehoiada knew this is the best place to raise a boy
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  • to help him become a man,
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  • it's right here in the house of God,
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  • in the Word of God, in the presence of God.
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  • I remember sitting next to this woman who had,
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  • I was coming back from a mission's trip and she asked me,
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  • "Who are you? What do you do?" I said, "I'm a pastor."
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  • And she said, "I'm done with religion."
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  • I said," What?
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  • "Why?"
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  • She said, "Why,
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  • "grew up in the Catholic Church my whole life.
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  • "And when I had kids, you know, my husband left me.
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  • "And then all this stuff that's happened
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  • "in the Catholic Church, I just can't trust any priest,
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  • "I just can't trust anyone.
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  • "And so, I got my family
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  • "as far away from the church as possible."
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  • This is what the enemy does.
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  • He takes the mistakes of a few men,
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  • and says, "This is how all men are.
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  • "You can't trust males.
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  • "Don't get your boys around any fathers."
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  • Can I just say not all men are perverts?
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  • Not all men are jacked up, messed up?
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  • There's mighty men of god sitting right here in this house.
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  • The kids need to be around godly men.
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  • (congregation clapping)
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  • It was never meant to be
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  • a one gender society raising children.
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  • We need men and women raising boys and girls.
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  • The enemy is trying to destroy the household,
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  • ripping apart kids from fathers.
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  • Creating this, "I don't even trust men anymore."
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  • I said to this to myself,
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  • I pray that you'll give men another chance
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  • because there are godly men out there.
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  • You should come to Victory sometime.
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  • We need
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  • kids to grow up
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  • with spiritual fathers in their life.
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  • If not a biological, there's got to be someone,
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  • an older man is gonna say,
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  • "all content I'll stand in the gap."
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  • You know, God spoke to the prophet Ezekiel.
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  • In Ezekiel 22:30,
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  • He said, "I sought for a man
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  • "who would rebuild the walls of righteousness,
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  • "who would guard the land.
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  • "I searched for a man who would stand in the gap."
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  • This is what Nehemiah was looking for.
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  • He's looking for people who would fill in the gaps.
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  • Fill in the gaps, fill in the gaps.
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  • I searched for a man who would fill in the gaps,
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  • in fatherless homes.
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  • I searched for a man who would fill in the gaps,
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  • where boys don't know what it looks like to be a man of God.
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  • I searched for a man in the church
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  • who would go on a mission's trip.
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  • By the way, did you know churches around the world,
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  • not just in America,
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  • women are leading the charge in connect groups,
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  • volunteering missions trips.
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  • Great job, ladies you're amazing.
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  • But men,
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  • we need you.
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  • (congregation clapping)
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  • Rise up.
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  • (congregation clapping)
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  • I don't mean to break our sound system,
  • 00:10:40.190 --> 00:10:42.060
  • but I'm so passionate about this.
  • 00:10:42.060 --> 00:10:44.240
  • I literally looked at our pastoral team this week,
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  • and I said, "I am so mad,
  • 00:10:47.290 --> 00:10:49.180
  • "I could say a bad word right now,
  • 00:10:49.180 --> 00:10:51.170
  • "but I'm not going to."
  • 00:10:51.170 --> 00:10:52.280
  • I'm saying, where's the men?
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  • Where are you?
  • 00:10:56.140 --> 00:10:57.190
  • And I see you man, I see you, I see you,
  • 00:10:58.260 --> 00:11:00.200
  • because there's many of you that are, you're here.
  • 00:11:00.200 --> 00:11:03.090
  • You're rising up, we need you.
  • 00:11:03.090 --> 00:11:05.030
  • We need men that are becoming connect group leaders.
  • 00:11:05.030 --> 00:11:07.180
  • We need men that are teaching Bible studies.
  • 00:11:07.180 --> 00:11:09.220
  • We need more men that are mentoring teenagers.
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  • We need men that are volunteer to children's church.
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  • We need men who have a pure mind.
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  • We need men who have a pure mouth.
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  • We need men who are walking in integrity.
  • 00:11:18.200 --> 00:11:20.260
  • We need men who are leading businesses.
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  • We need men who are rising up as fathers in houses.
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  • We need men that are reaching out.
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  • Listen, the world is trying to push men out,
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  • saying, "they're not necessary anymore,
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  • "just get rid of the men."
  • 00:11:32.020 --> 00:11:33.170
  • But we've got to wage war for manhood in this church,
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  • and it's not gonna be defined by the world,
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  • is gonna be defined by God's word.
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  • (congregation clapping)
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  • God's looking for some mighty men
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  • that will take their place of authority.
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  • God's looking for some mighty young boys
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  • that will step into the place God's called them to stand
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  • and they will raise the standard.
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  • I say on my watch, we're changing a generation.
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  • - And so Jehoiada, he called together the captains.
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  • And they didn't know that Joash was alive.
  • 00:13:35.270 --> 00:13:38.100
  • They didn't know that there was still one royal blood,
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  • baby boy that was still alive.
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  • By this time he was seven.
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  • And Jehoiada...
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  • I I need to borrow.
  • 00:13:45.230 --> 00:13:47.220
  • I need some help.
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  • Liam, will you be in this part?
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  • Can I call you up here?
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  • Come up here.
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  • (congregation clapping)
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  • And so Jehoiada, he said,
  • 00:13:58.180 --> 00:14:00.090
  • he pulled together the captains,
  • 00:14:00.090 --> 00:14:01.160
  • he said, "There's still one boy left."
  • 00:14:01.160 --> 00:14:04.000
  • They were amazed, they were shocked.
  • 00:14:04.000 --> 00:14:05.120
  • They said, "We thought Athaliah killed all the boys."
  • 00:14:05.120 --> 00:14:07.150
  • He said, "No, no.
  • 00:14:07.150 --> 00:14:08.250
  • "This is royal blood.
  • 00:14:08.250 --> 00:14:10.020
  • "He's called the lead.
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  • "He's got a destiny on his life."
  • 00:14:11.170 --> 00:14:13.250
  • And watch this.
  • 00:14:13.250 --> 00:14:14.240
  • This is wild, you should read.
  • 00:14:14.240 --> 00:14:16.010
  • I'm gonna summarize it for you.
  • 00:14:16.010 --> 00:14:17.080
  • But in chapter 23 of 2 Chronicles, he said,
  • 00:14:17.080 --> 00:14:19.240
  • "I need as many mighty men as possible
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  • "to form a circle around Joash."
  • 00:14:23.150 --> 00:14:26.030
  • I want you to form a ring around the future king.
  • 00:14:26.030 --> 00:14:29.120
  • And so I need some help today.
  • 00:14:29.120 --> 00:14:30.190
  • Can I get some mighty men of God
  • 00:14:30.190 --> 00:14:32.010
  • to just form a ring around Liam today?
  • 00:14:32.010 --> 00:14:34.090
  • Can I get some of you grown mighty men of God?
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  • All different ages.
  • 00:14:37.080 --> 00:14:39.090
  • Caitlin, you're gonna stand in the middle?
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  • (congregation clapping) And I want you guys to surround him.
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  • Liam, you stay right there.
  • 00:14:45.080 --> 00:14:46.090
  • They're gonna surround you.
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  • They're gonna protect you.
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  • I want you to form a circle.
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  • Fill in the gaps, no gaps.
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  • I want you to face the outside too, face the outside.
  • 00:14:52.150 --> 00:14:56.020
  • Yeah, yeah, turn around.
  • 00:14:56.020 --> 00:14:57.170
  • And this is what Jehoiada said.
  • 00:14:59.010 --> 00:15:00.180
  • He said, "I want you to form a ring around the young king.
  • 00:15:00.180 --> 00:15:03.140
  • "He's not King yet, but he's on his way there,
  • 00:15:03.140 --> 00:15:05.250
  • and he's gonna need all the help he can get"
  • 00:15:05.250 --> 00:15:08.010
  • Fill in the gaps.
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  • I don't want any gaps for this young boy.
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  • I need you to fill in the gap
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  • of what it looks like to treat women.
  • 00:15:13.190 --> 00:15:15.160
  • I need you to fill in the gap
  • 00:15:15.160 --> 00:15:16.240
  • of what it looks like to honor your mother.
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  • I need you to fill in the gap
  • 00:15:18.190 --> 00:15:20.030
  • of what it looks like to be a good steward of money.
  • 00:15:20.030 --> 00:15:22.070
  • I need you to fill in the gaps
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  • of what it looks like to be an honest man.
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  • I need you to fill in the gaps of how to treat older men.
  • 00:15:25.180 --> 00:15:28.110
  • I need you to fill in the gaps of showing up to church.
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  • I need you to fill in the gap.
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  • Don't let any gaps be left.
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  • My boy needs to know, there's a future on his life.
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  • The enemy's trying to take him out.
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  • Don't leave any gaps.
  • 00:15:38.180 --> 00:15:41.000
  • And Jehoiada said this.
  • 00:15:41.000 --> 00:15:42.210
  • (congregation clapping)
  • 00:15:42.210 --> 00:15:44.050
  • He said, "I want you to form a ring around the king
  • 00:15:44.050 --> 00:15:46.150
  • "at the altar."
  • 00:15:46.150 --> 00:15:48.040
  • When?
  • 00:15:49.020 --> 00:15:49.270
  • When I saw that, I just started crying
  • 00:15:51.110 --> 00:15:53.000
  • 'cause I realized the greatest place for boys to become men
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  • is at the altar.
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  • The greatest place for men to be restored
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  • in the true masculinity that God's called us to walk in.
  • 00:16:00.250 --> 00:16:04.240
  • I'm not talking about what ABC CBS and...
  • 00:16:04.240 --> 00:16:08.120
  • I'm not talking about what the Sitcom Show,
  • 00:16:08.120 --> 00:16:10.030
  • men looking like, and acting like,
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  • I'm not talking about Netflix's definition of men,
  • 00:16:12.040 --> 00:16:14.250
  • I'm not talking about the comedians out there,
  • 00:16:14.250 --> 00:16:16.200
  • their definition of men,
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  • they can make some funny jokes about men,
  • 00:16:17.260 --> 00:16:19.130
  • I'm talking about what God says a man is,
  • 00:16:19.130 --> 00:16:21.280
  • (congregation clapping)
  • 00:16:21.280 --> 00:16:23.210
  • at the altar, at the altar.
  • 00:16:23.210 --> 00:16:25.180
  • He says, "form a ring around the altar,
  • 00:16:25.180 --> 00:16:27.160
  • "and you're gonna walk with them together."
  • 00:16:27.160 --> 00:16:30.110
  • And it says, they walked towards the throne.
  • 00:16:30.110 --> 00:16:34.130
  • And when Athaliah heard the noise,
  • 00:16:34.130 --> 00:16:36.240
  • the city began to rejoice,
  • 00:16:36.240 --> 00:16:38.230
  • because something was changing in the atmosphere.
  • 00:16:38.230 --> 00:16:41.150
  • It had been dark for a long time.
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  • Have y'all seen "Lion King" before?
  • 00:16:43.030 --> 00:16:44.160
  • You've seen "Lion King?"
  • 00:16:44.160 --> 00:16:45.240
  • You remember that part where Scar takes over,
  • 00:16:45.240 --> 00:16:47.160
  • it's dark, is best like Narnia when the Wicked Witch,
  • 00:16:47.160 --> 00:16:49.270
  • which is dark,
  • 00:16:49.270 --> 00:16:51.160
  • but when the right king steps in, the light comes in,
  • 00:16:51.160 --> 00:16:54.140
  • it shifts the atmosphere, the rain comes down,
  • 00:16:54.140 --> 00:16:57.260
  • the vegetation starts to grow.
  • 00:16:57.260 --> 00:16:59.250
  • God's looking for some mighty men
  • 00:16:59.250 --> 00:17:01.250
  • that will take their place of authority.
  • 00:17:01.250 --> 00:17:03.270
  • God's looking for some mighty young boys
  • 00:17:03.270 --> 00:17:06.060
  • that will step into the place God's called them to stand in.
  • 00:17:06.060 --> 00:17:09.030
  • They will raise this standard.
  • 00:17:09.030 --> 00:17:10.270
  • I say on my watch, we're changing a generation.
  • 00:17:10.270 --> 00:17:14.040
  • And so Joash steps in.
  • 00:17:15.000 --> 00:17:16.100
  • And get this,
  • 00:17:16.100 --> 00:17:17.080
  • he remains king for 40 years.
  • 00:17:17.080 --> 00:17:19.040
  • Jehoiada is the spiritual father for Joash.
  • 00:17:19.040 --> 00:17:22.210
  • But if you read the story,
  • 00:17:23.170 --> 00:17:24.250
  • Jehoiada passes away.
  • 00:17:27.010 --> 00:17:28.180
  • One out of five men died before 65.
  • 00:17:30.070 --> 00:17:32.050
  • In Jesus name, I pray for a reverse on that statistic.
  • 00:17:32.050 --> 00:17:35.070
  • I pray that men would live long.
  • 00:17:35.070 --> 00:17:37.280
  • Honor your father and mother,
  • 00:17:37.280 --> 00:17:40.030
  • and you will live a long life,
  • 00:17:40.030 --> 00:17:42.100
  • and it will go well with you.
  • 00:17:42.100 --> 00:17:43.230
  • When Jehoiada passed away,
  • 00:17:45.140 --> 00:17:47.110
  • Joash couldn't find a spiritual mentor.
  • 00:17:47.110 --> 00:17:50.020
  • And Joash died when he was 47 years old.
  • 00:17:51.100 --> 00:17:54.070
  • He reigned for 40 years.
  • 00:17:54.070 --> 00:17:55.090
  • That's a long time.
  • 00:17:55.090 --> 00:17:56.220
  • But 47 is way too young to die.
  • 00:17:56.220 --> 00:17:58.270
  • We've got to have spiritual men
  • 00:18:02.000 --> 00:18:04.170
  • that are rising up as fathers.
  • 00:18:04.170 --> 00:18:07.040
  • Give these guys a big hand.
  • 00:18:07.040 --> 00:18:08.070
  • Thank you Liam so much.
  • 00:18:08.070 --> 00:18:09.190
  • (congregation clapping)
  • 00:18:09.190 --> 00:18:12.270
  • Turn to the guy who is next to say and say, we need you.
  • 00:18:16.100 --> 00:18:19.070
  • We need, you you're a mighty man of God.
  • 00:18:19.070 --> 00:18:21.030
  • say it to him, you're a mighty man of God.
  • 00:18:21.030 --> 00:18:23.060
  • As we end today, let me give you just some last thoughts.
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  • How do we win this war?
  • 00:18:27.100 --> 00:18:28.170
  • Number one, we've got to know who we are.
  • 00:18:28.170 --> 00:18:30.090
  • True masculinity comes from true identity.
  • 00:18:30.090 --> 00:18:32.150
  • We've got to know who we are. How do we know who we are?
  • 00:18:32.150 --> 00:18:34.270
  • This is number one. How do we win this war?
  • 00:18:34.270 --> 00:18:36.170
  • We know who we are.
  • 00:18:36.170 --> 00:18:37.270
  • It comes from knowing who's we are.
  • 00:18:37.270 --> 00:18:39.220
  • When we know who's we are.
  • 00:18:39.220 --> 00:18:41.170
  • Who's your daddy?
  • 00:18:41.170 --> 00:18:43.010
  • My daddy is the King of kings and the Lord of lords.
  • 00:18:43.010 --> 00:18:45.130
  • Who's your daddy?
  • 00:18:45.130 --> 00:18:46.110
  • Your daddy is the King of kings.
  • 00:18:46.110 --> 00:18:47.270
  • You got royal blood inside you.
  • 00:18:47.270 --> 00:18:49.250
  • You're called to reign in this life.
  • 00:18:49.250 --> 00:18:51.220
  • You got kings royalty inside you.
  • 00:18:51.220 --> 00:18:54.100
  • When you know who you are,
  • 00:18:54.100 --> 00:18:55.170
  • you've got power against the enemy.
  • 00:18:55.170 --> 00:18:57.140
  • The right identity defeats the enemy.
  • 00:18:57.140 --> 00:18:59.220
  • The right identity, the right masculinity,
  • 00:18:59.220 --> 00:19:02.010
  • comes from knowing who's you are.
  • 00:19:02.010 --> 00:19:04.190
  • I'm a child of God.
  • 00:19:04.190 --> 00:19:06.040
  • You're not a child of an addict,
  • 00:19:06.040 --> 00:19:07.180
  • you're not a child of a confused person,
  • 00:19:07.180 --> 00:19:10.000
  • you are a child of God.
  • 00:19:10.000 --> 00:19:12.030
  • You got royal blood inside you.
  • 00:19:12.030 --> 00:19:13.220
  • You got a calling on your life.
  • 00:19:13.220 --> 00:19:15.100
  • Number two, we got to know who we're fighting against.
  • 00:19:15.100 --> 00:19:17.260
  • You're not fighting against women,
  • 00:19:17.260 --> 00:19:19.120
  • you're not fighting against your wife,
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  • you're not fighting against females in the workplace.
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  • Listen, this is not a gender war.
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  • God needs both men and women to rise up
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  • into their authority.
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  • God needs both men and women to be empowered.
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  • This is not a fight against genders.
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  • This is a fight against demonic powers,
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  • trying to push men out,
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  • trying to get men to stop being men,
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  • to turn boys integral.
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  • We've got to restore.
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  • We got to know who our enemy is.
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  • By the way, now that you know who your enemy is,
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  • know that you've got the power to defeat him.
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  • He's not stronger than you.
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  • You're more than a conqueror.
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  • And when you get your power,
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  • number three,
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  • your power comes from stain surrendered to God.
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  • Our power comes as men.
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  • Go to the gym, workout, get strong on the outside,
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  • but the spiritual power comes from prayer.
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  • The spiritual power comes from surrendering to God.
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  • Saying, "Lord, I need your help.
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  • "Guard my eyes guard my heart, Lord, I repent."
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  • By the way, there were righteous man falls seven times,
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  • he will rise again.
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  • Don't let the enemy think that you're defeated.
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  • You're gonna rise up out of that.
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  • You're gonna get past that.
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  • You're not addicted, you're not oppressed,
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  • you're not afflicted, you are a warrior.
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  • Number four, get dressed for war.
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  • Get dressed for war.
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  • We got a lot of soldiers walking out on the battlefield
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  • without all their armor on.
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  • Pants on the ground, pants on the ground,
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  • looking like a fool with your pants on the ground.
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  • I'm gonna take it back, 10 years ago.
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  • Y'all are like, that was 10 years ago, Paul.
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  • Okay, I got it.
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  • We got to get our belt of truth on,
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  • our breastplate of righteousness, our helmet of salvation,
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  • our shoes that are shod with the gospel of peace,
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  • our shield of faith, our sword of the Spirit.
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  • We have armor, we've got to wear it.
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  • Okay, number five, fight together with your fellow soldiers.
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  • This is not a battle to fight solo.
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  • This is not a battle to be isolated.
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  • So many men say, "I don't need friends in my life.
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  • "That's for ladies, ladies have friends."
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  • You've got to have friends, men.
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  • I need my friends.
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  • I need my brothers.
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  • They're fighting for me.
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  • And maybe you said, "Well, Paul, how do I get that?"
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  • You got to get out of your comfort zone.
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  • You gotta go to a connect group.
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  • Come to our men's discipleship class.
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  • Linger a little bit after church.
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  • Introduce yourself to some guys on the road.
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  • Say, "Hey, we should get together,
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  • "we should go pray together.
  • 00:21:22.020 --> 00:21:23.090
  • "We should meet up here at the church sometime
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  • "and pray before service."
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  • You got to pursue that accountability.
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  • Iron sharpens iron.
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  • So another man sharpens his brother.
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  • Number six, take your place of authority.
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  • Take your place of authority.
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  • When I'm walking in the authority
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  • of who God's called me to be,
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  • my wife is like, "Yes, that's attractive."
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  • I'm like, "That's right.
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  • "I'm your man."
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  • She's like, "You're the man."
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  • I'm like, "I am the man in Jesus name."
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  • (congregation laughing)
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  • You know, waking up early, praying, going to the gym,
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  • working out, getting a full day's working,
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  • you gotta kick laziness in the rear.
  • 00:21:59.040 --> 00:22:02.060
  • You gotta kick apathetic,
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  • complacent Christianity in the rear.
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  • We've got to rise up and take our authority.
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  • Numbers seven, the victory is yours.
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  • You're not fighting for victory,
  • 00:22:11.180 --> 00:22:12.250
  • you're fighting from a victory.
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  • So let's stand up on our feet all over this house.
  • 00:22:14.100 --> 00:22:16.240
  • And I want to invite every man in the room, every male.
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  • You are not just a male by biology,
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  • you are a man by the calling
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  • and the stamp in the approval of God.
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  • I'm gonna ask you to come to the altar.
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  • Would you leave your seat?
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  • Men, men.
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  • I wanna pray for the men in the house.
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  • Ladies, would you cheer on your men?
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  • Would you cheer on your brothers, your sons, your husband,
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  • the father of your kids.
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  • We're gonna pray today.
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  • We're gonna wage war today.
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  • (congregation clapping)
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  • Come on, real men go to the altar.
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  • Real men go to the altar.
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  • Real men go to the altar.
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  • Real men, real men pray.
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  • Yeah.
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  • We got some real man in the house today.
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  • We got some mighty men in the house today.
  • 00:22:57.240 --> 00:23:00.060
  • We got so much men.
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  • I want some of you guys come up on stage.
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  • We got to make room for more man.
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  • Come on, come on up stage, come on up stage,
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  • come on up on stage.
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  • Come on up. Come on up.
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  • Come on up.
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  • Cheer on your men today.
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  • Cheer on the mighty men today.
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  • They're coming all the way from the back.
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  • Coming all the way down every row, (mumbles).
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  • Oh, Jesus, this is amazing.
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  • This is amazing.
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  • This is a dream.
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  • (applauding)
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  • A church, that's fully alive with mighty men.
  • 00:23:25.100 --> 00:23:28.200
  • (applauding)
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  • Well, hey, I pray that message spoke to you,
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  • encouraged you and reminded you that God is for you,
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  • He's not against you.
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  • And maybe you feel like you're under attack.
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  • Maybe you feel like your son or your husband
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  • or your father's under attack.
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  • As you were listening to the message today,
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  • I want you to know this, that there is a father in heaven
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  • who loves you, who loves your kids,
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  • who loves your family,
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  • who has the best interest in mind for your future.
  • 00:23:53.090 --> 00:23:56.200
  • The Word of God says that,
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  • the plans He has for us our plans of good and not of evil,
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  • plans to give us a hope and a future.
  • 00:24:01.170 --> 00:24:04.090
  • So I wanna encourage you today.
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  • Take heart, whatever you're facing,
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  • whatever your family is facing,
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  • maybe your family for your son,
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  • or you're praying for your husband,
  • 00:24:10.280 --> 00:24:12.060
  • or you're praying for your father,
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  • or maybe you're watching this right now and you feel like,
  • 00:24:14.170 --> 00:24:17.010
  • man that's me,
  • 00:24:17.010 --> 00:24:18.070
  • my heart just feels like it's being attacked
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  • on all these different sides.
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  • I wanna invite you to pray this prayer with me right now.
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  • Just say, Jesus,
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  • I put my trust in You,
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  • Lord, I lean not to my own understanding.
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  • I acknowledge you as my Lord and Savior.
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  • God direct my steps.
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  • Give me victory in every area of my life.
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  • In Jesus name, amen.
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  • Hey, the Word of God says that,
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  • when we call on the name of the Lord, we will be saved.
  • 00:24:41.260 --> 00:24:44.240
  • And that there is power in the name of Jesus.
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  • So just today as you are praying
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  • and calling on the name of the Lord,
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  • I believe it's gonna help you, It's gonna strengthen you,
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  • it's gonna give you victory in those areas
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  • that you're believing for.
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