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That's What Love Looks Like: God's Plan for the Man Part 2

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September 8, 2016
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Matthew Hagee

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That's What Love Looks Like: God's Plan for the Man Part 2

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  • JOHN HAGEE MINISTRIES HAS BEEN
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  • REACHING OUT TO MILLIONS OF
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  • PEOPLE WORLDWIDE EVERY WEEK,
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  • DELIVERING ALL THE GOSPEL
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  • TO ALL THE WORLD
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  • AND TO ALL GENERATIONS.
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  • PASTOR MATTHEW HAGEE: HELLO
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  • AND WELCOME TO TODAY'S PROGRAM.
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  • I'M SO GLAD THAT YOU'RE
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  • WATCHING US
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  • ON THE HILLSONG NETWORK.
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  • AND I WANT YOU TO KNOW
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  • THAT GOD HAS A PLAN
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  • FOR EVERY FAMILY.
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  • THE TRUTH IS IT BEGINS
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  • WITH THE HEAD OF THE HOUSEHOLD.
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  • TODAY, YOU'RE WATCHING
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  • A MESSAGE ENTITLED
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  • "GOD'S PLAN FOR THE MAN."
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  • I KNOW A LOT OF HOUSEHOLDS
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  • WHO WISH THAT THEY WOULD
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  • FUNCTION UNDER THE BLESSINGS
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  • OF GOD.
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  • BUT IT WILL NOT TAKE PLACE
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  • UNTIL YOU, SIR,
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  • GET IN PROPER POSITION.
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  • TODAY' YOU'RE GOING TO SEE
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  • WHAT THE BIBLE HAS TO SAY
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  • ABOUT THE ROLE THAT GOD
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  • HAS GIVEN YOU TO PLAY
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  • AND HOW YOUR FAMILY
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  • CAN FUNCTION UNDER HIS BLESSING
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  • AS SOON AS YOU COME INTO
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  • ALIGNMENT.
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  • THANK YOU FOR WATCHING.
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  • AND ENJOY
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  • "GOD'S PLAN FOR THE MAN."
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  • STAY TUNED FOR THE CONCLUSION OF
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  • "GOD'S PLAN FOR THE MAN."
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  • DO YOU HAVE A GOD-GIVEN DREAM
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  • OR PROMISE THAT CONTINUES
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  • TO SEEM UNREACHABLE?
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  • HAVE PROBLEMS COME INTO
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  • YOUR LIFE TO DISCOURAGE YOU?
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  • DID YOU KNOW THAT IT'S HOW
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  • YOU RESPOND TO THE PROBLEM
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  • THAT DETERMINES HOW QUICKLY
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  • YOU GET THE PROVISION FROM GOD?
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  • THIS MONTH, FOR YOUR SUPPORT
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  • OF ANY AMOUNT,
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  • WE'LL SEND YOU A COPY
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  • OF PASTOR HAGEE'S MESSAGE
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  • "FIVE STEPS IN SOLVING
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  • THE PROBLEM."
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  • AND FOR YOUR GENEROUS GIFT
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  • OF $150 OR MORE,
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  • WE'LL SEND YOU PASTOR'S
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  • FULL TEACHING SERIES
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  • "PROMISE, PROBLEM, PROVISION"
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  • ALONG WITH AN AUTOGRAPHED,
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  • SPECIAL EDITION, LEATHER-BOUND
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  • COPY OF PASTOR'S 52-WEEK
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  • DEVOTIONAL AND PRAYER JOURNAL
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  • "LIFE LESSONS TO LIVE BY."
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  • PASTOR JOHN HAGEE: I WANT TO
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  • TAKE THIS OPPORTUNITY
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  • TO SAY THANK YOU TO ALL
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  • OF OUR FRIENDS AND PARTNERS
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  • ACROSS AMERICA FOR ALL THAT
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  • YOU DO IN SO MANY WAYS TO MAKE
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  • IT POSSIBLE FOR US TO SHARE
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  • THE GOSPEL OF JESUS CHRIST
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  • TO THIS NATION AND TO
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  • THE NATIONS OF THE WORLD.
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  • I LOVE YOU.
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  • THANK YOU.
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  • CALL 1-800-854-9899,
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  • OR VISIT JHM.ORG/PROVISION
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  • TODAY.
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  • CORNERSTONE CHURCH INVITES
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  • YOU AND YOUR FAMILY
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  • TO JOIN US AT
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  • FEAST OF TABERNACLES,
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  • OCTOBER 28TH THROUGH 30TH.
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  • EACH DAY, ALL DAY,
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  • THERE WILL BE A MIDWAY FULL
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  • OF GAMES, FOOD AND FREE RIDES.
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  • FRIDAY EVENING,
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  • WE WILL HAVE SPECIAL GUEST
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  • SPEAKER, MAX LUCADO.
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  • SATURDAY EVENING FEATURING
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  • PASTOR MATT HAGEE;
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  • SUNDAY MORNING FEATURING
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  • PASTOR JOHN HAGEE;
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  • AND SUNDAY EVENING FOR OUR
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  • NIGHT TO HONOR ISRAEL
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  • FEATURING SPECIAL GUEST,
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  • JOHN BOLTON.
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  • MARK YOUR CALENDAR.
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  • THIS IS GOING TO BE AN EXCITING
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  • EVENT YOU WON'T WANT TO MISS.
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  • FOR MORE INFO,
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  • CALL 1-800-854-9899,
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  • OR VISIT JHM.ORG.
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  • AND NOW, THE CONCLUSION OF
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  • PASTOR MATTHEW HAGEE'S SERMON
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  • "GOD'S PLAN FOR THE MAN."
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  • PASTOR MATTHEW HAGEE: WHAT PAUL
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  • IS SAYING TO US
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  • IS THAT WE ARE TO CARE FOR THEM
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  • AS MUCH AS WE CARE FOR
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  • OURSELVES.
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  • DO YOU KNOW WHERE DISSATISFIED
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  • WIVES COME FROM?
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  • DISSATISFYING HUSBANDS.
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  • MANY PEOPLE THINK THAT THEY GOT
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  • THEIR MARRIAGE LICENSE SIGNED
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  • AT THE WAR DEPARTMENT,
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  • AND THAT "I DO" IS AN EXCHANGE
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  • OF FIRE.
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  • I LOVE HISTORY.
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  • AND ONE OF MY FAVORITE
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  • CHARACTERS IN HISTORY IS
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  • WINSTON CHURCHILL.
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  • WINSTON CHURCHILL,
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  • NOT ONLY WAS A CHARACTER IN
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  • HISTORY,
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  • BUT HE WAS A CHARACTER JUST
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  • BEING HIMSELF.
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  • AND THERE WAS A PERSON IN
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  • PARLIAMENT THAT HATED HIM
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  • DEARLY.
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  • HER NAME WAS LADY ASTER.
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  • AND IF YOU'VE EVER READ THE
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  • CONVERSATIONS THAT LADY ASTER
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  • AND WINSTON CHURCHILL HAD,
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  • YOU WOULD KNOW THAT "HATE" IS
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  • NOT STRONG ENOUGH A WORD FOR
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  • WHAT THEY FELT FOR EACH OTHER.
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  • BUT ON ONE OCCASION,
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  • LADY ASTER LOOKED AT THE PRIME
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  • MINISTER OF ENGLAND,
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  • AND SHE SAID TO HIM,
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  • "SIR WINSTON,
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  • IF YOU WERE MY HUSBAND,
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  • I'D PUT ARSENIC IN YOUR TEA."
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  • AND HE QUICKLY LOOKED BACK AT
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  • HER, AND SAID, "LADY ASTER,
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  • IF YOU WERE MY WIFE,
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  • I'D GLADLY DRINK IT."
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  • (LAUGHTER & APPLAUSE)
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  • MANY PEOPLE ARE LIKE LADY ASTER
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  • AND WINSTON.
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  • INSTEAD OF TRYING TO GET ALONG,
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  • THEY'RE ALWAYS TRYING TO GET
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  • EVEN.
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  • IF SHE'S HAD A BAD DAY,
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  • YOU'RE GOING TO BE JUST AS MAD
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  • AS SHE IS SO THAT YOU CAN EVEN
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  • THE SCORE INSTEAD OF SETTLE IT.
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  • YOU CAN EITHER CHOOSE TO BE
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  • RIGHT OR YOU CAN CHOOSE TO BE
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  • RECONCILED,
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  • BECAUSE MARRIAGE IS NOT AN
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  • EXCHANGE OF FIRE FROM AN
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  • OPPOSING SIDE.
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  • MARRIAGE IS A PLACE WHERE A
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  • HUSBAND,
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  • WHO IS WILLING TO DEMONSTRATE
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  • SERVANT LEADERSHIP,
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  • IS THE FIRST TO FORGIVE BECAUSE
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  • HE'S GOT TO SUBMIT TO THE LORD.
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  • AND THE LORD WILL BRING HEALING
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  • TO HIS HOUSE.
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  • MEN LOVE TO KEEP SCORE.
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  • SHE YELLED AT ME.
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  • (LAUGHTER)
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  • YOU'RE THE LEADER;
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  • GET OVER IT!
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  • SAY, I'LL FORGIVE YOU FOR
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  • YELLING AT ME.
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  • COME INTO AGREEMENT WITH HER.
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  • LIVE WITH HER AS 1 PETER 3
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  • SAYS: ACCORDING TO
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  • UNDERSTANDING,
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  • GIVING HONOR TO THE WIFE AS THE
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  • WEAKER VESSEL,
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  • AND BEING HEIRS TOGETHER --
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  • SAY THAT WITH ME,
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  • AND BEING HEIRS TOGETHER.
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  • -- OF THE GRACE OF LIFE THAT
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  • YOUR PRAYERS MAY NOT BE
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  • HINDERED.
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  • NOW IN THIS ONE VERSE,
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  • WE SEE TWO THINGS THAT TAKE
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  • PLACE ABOUT THE DESCRIPTION OF
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  • THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A MAN
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  • AND A WOMAN.
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  • ONE,
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  • GOD SEES YOU IN ONE CONTEXT AS
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  • EQUALS.
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  • YOU ARE BOTH HEIRS,
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  • HEIRS TO THE GRACE OF LIFE THAT
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  • GOD HAS GIVEN.
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  • BUT IN THIS LIFE, SHE,
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  • THE WIFE, THE WOMAN,
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  • IS CALLED "THE WEAKER VESSEL."
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  • WHY?
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  • IT'S HOW GOD CREATED US.
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  • THE WEAKNESS IS NOT
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  • DEMONSTRATED IN JUST PHYSICAL
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  • STRENGTH IN THOSE CAPABILITIES.
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  • BUT THE WEAKNESS DRIVEN FROM
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  • THE HEAD AND THE HEART.
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  • WHEN WOMEN GET IN THE MIDDLE OF
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  • A SITUATION,
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  • NINE TIMES OUT OF TEN,
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  • THEY'RE IN THEIR HEART,
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  • AND MEN ARE IN THEIR HEAD.
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  • AND PETER IS MAKING IT VERY
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  • CLEAR,
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  • WHEN IT COMES TO LEADERSHIP,
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  • THERE ARE TIMES WHEN THE HEART
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  • HAS TO STEP ASIDE AND THE HEAD
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  • HAS TO TAKE OVER.
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  • AND YOU HAVE TO UNDERSTAND THAT
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  • WHEN YOU'RE SPEAKING WITH YOUR
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  • WIFE ABOUT SOLVING A PROBLEM.
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  • MANY PEOPLE ALLOW THEIR HEART
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  • TO DRIVE THEIR DECISIONS,
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  • RATHER THAN LET THE TRUTH OF
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  • GOD'S WORD DO THAT.
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  • BUT IN ORDER FOR THIS TO WORK,
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  • YOU HAVE GOT TO COME INTO
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  • AGREEMENT WITH EACH OTHER AND
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  • DWELL ACCORDING TO
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  • UNDERSTANDING.
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  • YOU'VE GOT TO UNDERSTAND HOW
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  • YOUR WIFE IS GOING TO RESPOND
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  • TO CERTAIN THINGS.
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  • AND LET ME TELL YOU,
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  • ONCE YOU KNOW WHAT SHE RESPONDS
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  • TO,
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  • DON'T POKE AT IT JUST TO SEE IF
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  • IT'LL GO OFF.
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  • (LAUGHTER)
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  • BE THE LEADER.
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  • WHY?
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  • LISTEN TO THIS.
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  • SO THAT YOUR PRAYERS MAY NOT BE
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  • HINDERED.
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  • HOW MANY OF YOU ARE INTERESTED
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  • IN GOD HEARING YOUR PRAYERS?
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  • DO YOU KNOW THE PLACE THAT GOD
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  • HOLDS PRIORITY FOR YOU IN
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  • PRAYER IS WITH YOUR SPOUSE?
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  • HE DOESN'T MIND IF SHE GOES AND
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  • GETS IN THE LADIES BIBLE STUDY
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  • AND PRAYS WITH THE GIRLS ABOUT
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  • YOU.
  • 00:07:23.110 --> 00:07:23.260
  • BUT HE WANTS HER TO PRAY WITH
  • 00:07:23.260 --> 00:07:26.030
  • YOU BEFORE SHE PRAYS WITH THEM.
  • 00:07:27.070 --> 00:07:30.070
  • IN ORDER FOR YOUR PRAYERS TO
  • 00:07:30.070 --> 00:07:31.080
  • NOT BE HINDERED,
  • 00:07:31.080 --> 00:07:31.290
  • YOU HAVE TO DWELL WITH HER
  • 00:07:31.290 --> 00:07:32.290
  • ACCORDING TO UNDERSTANDING AND
  • 00:07:32.290 --> 00:07:34.180
  • COME INTO AGREEMENT.
  • 00:07:34.180 --> 00:07:35.180
  • NOW AGREEMENT DOES NOT MEAN
  • 00:07:35.180 --> 00:07:37.110
  • THAT BOTH OF YOU SEE EVERYTHING
  • 00:07:37.110 --> 00:07:38.150
  • ALIKE.
  • 00:07:38.150 --> 00:07:39.260
  • "AGREEMENT" IS A SYNONYM FOR
  • 00:07:39.260 --> 00:07:41.260
  • THE WORD "HARMONY."
  • 00:07:41.260 --> 00:07:43.200
  • HOW MANY OF YOU UNDERSTAND
  • 00:07:43.200 --> 00:07:44.280
  • HARMONY?
  • 00:07:44.280 --> 00:07:46.200
  • HARMONY IS WHEN TWO THINGS THAT
  • 00:07:46.200 --> 00:07:48.050
  • ARE DIFFERENT AGREE WITH EACH
  • 00:07:48.050 --> 00:07:50.190
  • OTHER.
  • 00:07:50.190 --> 00:07:51.180
  • THEY COMPLIMENT EACH OTHER.
  • 00:07:51.180 --> 00:07:53.030
  • THEY DON'T COMPETE WITH EACH
  • 00:07:53.030 --> 00:07:54.240
  • OTHER.
  • 00:07:54.240 --> 00:07:55.060
  • AND OFTEN TIMES,
  • 00:07:55.060 --> 00:07:56.010
  • MARRIAGES ARE WAY TOO
  • 00:07:56.010 --> 00:07:57.150
  • COMPETITIVE AND NOT
  • 00:07:57.150 --> 00:07:58.200
  • COMPLIMENTARY ENOUGH.
  • 00:07:58.200 --> 00:08:00.170
  • I'LL DEMONSTRATE AGREEMENT AND
  • 00:08:00.170 --> 00:08:02.030
  • HARMONY THIS WAY.
  • 00:08:02.030 --> 00:08:04.030
  • WHENEVER YOU HAVE HARMONY,
  • 00:08:04.030 --> 00:08:05.270
  • YOU HAVE A CORD.
  • 00:08:05.270 --> 00:08:07.170
  • A CORD IS MADE UP OF THREE
  • 00:08:07.170 --> 00:08:08.290
  • DISTINCT NOTES.
  • 00:08:08.290 --> 00:08:09.270
  • THEY'RE NOT THE SAME NOTE BUT
  • 00:08:09.270 --> 00:08:10.290
  • THEY ALL WORK TOGETHER.
  • 00:08:10.290 --> 00:08:12.280
  • I'LL GIVE YOU AN IDEA.
  • 00:08:12.280 --> 00:08:14.020
  • RIGHT DOWN THE MIDDLE OF THE
  • 00:08:14.020 --> 00:08:15.030
  • SANCTUARY HERE,
  • 00:08:15.030 --> 00:08:16.060
  • I WANT EVERY ONE OF YOU ON THIS
  • 00:08:16.060 --> 00:08:17.130
  • SIDE OF THE ROOM TO SING THIS
  • 00:08:17.130 --> 00:08:18.280
  • NOTE WITH ME.
  • 00:08:18.280 --> 00:08:19.190
  • JUST MATCH THIS PITCH, BAAAAAH.
  • 00:08:22.100 --> 00:08:25.100
  • COME ON.
  • 00:08:25.100 --> 00:08:25.240
  • TAKE A DEEP BREATH.
  • 00:08:25.240 --> 00:08:26.190
  • BAAAAAH.
  • 00:08:26.190 --> 00:08:27.200
  • OKAY.
  • 00:08:27.200 --> 00:08:29.160
  • NOW I WANT EVERYONE ON THIS
  • 00:08:29.160 --> 00:08:30.220
  • SIDE OF THE SANCTUARY TO SING
  • 00:08:30.220 --> 00:08:32.200
  • THIS NOTE WITH ME, BAAAAAH.
  • 00:08:34.210 --> 00:08:37.210
  • BAAAAAH.
  • 00:08:37.210 --> 00:08:39.190
  • TWO DIFFERENT NOTES.
  • 00:08:39.190 --> 00:08:41.260
  • YOU REMEMBER YOUR NOTE?
  • 00:08:41.260 --> 00:08:43.180
  • BAAAAAH.
  • 00:08:43.180 --> 00:08:45.100
  • COME ON.
  • 00:08:45.100 --> 00:08:46.080
  • AND THIS NOTE, BAAAAAH.
  • 00:08:47.050 --> 00:08:50.050
  • A LITTLE LOUDER, BAAAAAH.
  • 00:08:53.160 --> 00:08:56.160
  • ALL RIGHT.
  • 00:08:56.160 --> 00:08:57.290
  • WE HAD THREE NOTES.
  • 00:08:57.290 --> 00:09:00.020
  • YOUR NOTE, YOUR NOTE,
  • 00:09:00.020 --> 00:09:01.240
  • AND MY NOTE.
  • 00:09:01.240 --> 00:09:03.030
  • THEY WERE DIFFERENT NOTES BUT
  • 00:09:03.030 --> 00:09:04.020
  • THEY WERE ALL IN HARMONY.
  • 00:09:04.020 --> 00:09:05.090
  • THEY WERE ALL IN AGREEMENT WITH
  • 00:09:05.090 --> 00:09:06.120
  • EACH OTHER.
  • 00:09:06.120 --> 00:09:07.260
  • WHEN YOUR HOME DWELLS WITH
  • 00:09:07.260 --> 00:09:09.030
  • EACH OTHER ACCORDING TO
  • 00:09:09.030 --> 00:09:10.010
  • UNDERSTANDING,
  • 00:09:10.010 --> 00:09:11.020
  • HEAVEN HEARS HARMONY
  • 00:09:11.020 --> 00:09:13.100
  • AND ENJOYS THE SOUND OF YOUR
  • 00:09:13.100 --> 00:09:15.120
  • PRAYERS WITH YOUR WIFE.
  • 00:09:15.120 --> 00:09:17.250
  • WHY DOESN'T GOD LIKE FOR YOU
  • 00:09:17.250 --> 00:09:19.220
  • TO BE IN DISCORD WITH YOUR
  • 00:09:19.220 --> 00:09:20.270
  • WIFE?
  • 00:09:20.270 --> 00:09:22.120
  • BECAUSE WHEN YOU AND SHE ARE IN
  • 00:09:22.120 --> 00:09:23.250
  • DISCORD,
  • 00:09:23.250 --> 00:09:24.160
  • HERE'S WHAT HEAVEN HEARS WHEN
  • 00:09:24.160 --> 00:09:25.220
  • YOU PRAY.
  • 00:09:25.220 --> 00:09:26.070
  • YOU REMEMBER YOUR NOTE?
  • 00:09:26.070 --> 00:09:27.180
  • BAAAAAH, BAAAAAH, AAAAAH!
  • 00:09:32.080 --> 00:09:35.080
  • (LAUGHTER & APPLAUSE)
  • 00:09:37.090 --> 00:09:40.090
  • AND GOD GOES, NO, NO, NO,
  • 00:09:40.190 --> 00:09:43.190
  • TURN THAT OFF.
  • 00:09:43.190 --> 00:09:45.140
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:09:45.140 --> 00:09:46.180
  • PUT THE MUTE BUTTON ON THEIR
  • 00:09:46.180 --> 00:09:48.020
  • ADDRESS UNTIL THEY GET THAT
  • 00:09:48.020 --> 00:09:49.110
  • SORTED OUT.
  • 00:09:49.110 --> 00:09:51.010
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:09:51.010 --> 00:09:52.030
  • I DON'T WANT TO HEAR THAT UP
  • 00:09:52.030 --> 00:09:53.040
  • HERE.
  • 00:09:53.040 --> 00:09:54.070
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:09:54.070 --> 00:09:55.100
  • AND MEN,
  • 00:09:56.080 --> 00:09:59.080
  • LAID SQUARELY ON YOUR SHOULDERS
  • 00:10:00.040 --> 00:10:03.040
  • IS THE RESPONSIBILITY TO DWELL
  • 00:10:03.040 --> 00:10:04.250
  • ACCORDING TO UNDERSTANDING.
  • 00:10:05.010 --> 00:10:08.010
  • 1 PETER 3:7: HUSBANDS --
  • 00:10:08.030 --> 00:10:11.030
  • SAY THAT WITH ME, HUSBANDS.
  • 00:10:11.110 --> 00:10:14.110
  • -- YOU DWELL WITH THEM IN
  • 00:10:14.110 --> 00:10:16.120
  • UNDERSTANDING.
  • 00:10:16.120 --> 00:10:18.270
  • IF THINGS ARE OUT OF ORDER,
  • 00:10:18.270 --> 00:10:21.020
  • THE BIBLE SAYS, YOU, SIR,
  • 00:10:21.020 --> 00:10:23.100
  • FIGURE OUT IT OUT AND PUT IT
  • 00:10:23.100 --> 00:10:24.270
  • BACK IN PLACE.
  • 00:10:24.270 --> 00:10:26.230
  • DON'T GO SIT IN THE LIVING ROOM
  • 00:10:26.230 --> 00:10:27.270
  • AND SULK UNTIL SHE COMES IN AND
  • 00:10:27.270 --> 00:10:29.130
  • SAYS, ARE YOU OKAY?
  • 00:10:29.130 --> 00:10:31.120
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:10:31.120 --> 00:10:32.240
  • BE A MAN.
  • 00:10:32.240 --> 00:10:35.120
  • SAY,
  • 00:10:35.120 --> 00:10:36.070
  • WE'VE GOT A PROBLEM AND WE NEED
  • 00:10:36.070 --> 00:10:37.180
  • TO GET BACK IN HARMONY,
  • 00:10:37.180 --> 00:10:39.190
  • SO THAT WE CAN COMPLIMENT EACH
  • 00:10:39.190 --> 00:10:40.210
  • OTHER;
  • 00:10:40.210 --> 00:10:42.020
  • AND THAT OUR FAMILY CAN MOVE
  • 00:10:42.020 --> 00:10:43.050
  • FORWARD IN GOD'S PLAN.
  • 00:10:43.110 --> 00:10:46.110
  • YOU HAVE A ROLE IN MAKING YOUR
  • 00:10:46.110 --> 00:10:47.250
  • HOUSE A HOME.
  • 00:10:47.250 --> 00:10:50.070
  • YOU HAVE A RESPONSIBILITY TO
  • 00:10:50.070 --> 00:10:52.190
  • COME INTO THAT ENVIRONMENT,
  • 00:10:52.190 --> 00:10:54.260
  • AND NOT WRECK IT,
  • 00:10:54.260 --> 00:10:55.240
  • BUT TO BRING PEACE AND COMFORT
  • 00:10:55.240 --> 00:10:57.240
  • IN IT.
  • 00:10:57.240 --> 00:10:59.240
  • THE MODERN CONCEPT OF THE ROLE
  • 00:10:59.240 --> 00:11:01.110
  • OF A HUSBAND IS, WELL,
  • 00:11:01.110 --> 00:11:02.110
  • I PAY THE BILLS.
  • 00:11:02.110 --> 00:11:03.060
  • I PROVIDE ALL THE MATERIAL
  • 00:11:03.060 --> 00:11:04.170
  • NEEDS; WE'RE GOOD.
  • 00:11:04.170 --> 00:11:05.270
  • NO, YOU'RE NOT.
  • 00:11:05.270 --> 00:11:07.290
  • ONE-THIRD OF THE ROLE OF BEING
  • 00:11:07.290 --> 00:11:10.070
  • A PROVIDER IS PAYING THE BILLS.
  • 00:11:10.070 --> 00:11:12.200
  • BUT YOU'VE GOT TO PROVIDE
  • 00:11:12.200 --> 00:11:13.180
  • FINANCIALLY.
  • 00:11:13.180 --> 00:11:14.110
  • YOU'VE GOT TO PROVIDE
  • 00:11:14.110 --> 00:11:15.050
  • SPIRITUALLY.
  • 00:11:15.050 --> 00:11:15.290
  • AND YOU'VE GOT TO PROVIDE
  • 00:11:15.290 --> 00:11:16.270
  • EMOTIONALLY.
  • 00:11:16.270 --> 00:11:18.250
  • AND IF TWO OUT OF THOSE THREE
  • 00:11:18.250 --> 00:11:20.000
  • ACCOUNTS ARE BANKRUPT,
  • 00:11:20.000 --> 00:11:21.040
  • YOU'RE NOT DOING YOUR JOB.
  • 00:11:21.040 --> 00:11:23.180
  • YOUR WIFE DIDN'T MARRY A BANK
  • 00:11:23.180 --> 00:11:25.010
  • ACCOUNT.
  • 00:11:25.010 --> 00:11:25.160
  • SHE DIDN'T MARRY A CREDIT
  • 00:11:25.160 --> 00:11:26.160
  • SCORE.
  • 00:11:26.160 --> 00:11:26.290
  • SHE DIDN'T MARRY A SALARY.
  • 00:11:26.290 --> 00:11:28.070
  • SHE MARRIED YOU; AND THEREFORE,
  • 00:11:28.070 --> 00:11:31.010
  • SHE WANTS TO KNOW THAT YOU ARE
  • 00:11:31.010 --> 00:11:32.180
  • GOING TO DO WHAT IS NECESSARY
  • 00:11:32.180 --> 00:11:33.280
  • TO DEMONSTRATE YOUR LOVE TO HER
  • 00:11:33.280 --> 00:11:35.270
  • AND TO YOUR CHILDREN.
  • 00:11:35.270 --> 00:11:37.180
  • YOU SAY, WELL,
  • 00:11:37.180 --> 00:11:38.130
  • HOW DO I DO THAT?
  • 00:11:38.130 --> 00:11:39.100
  • LET ME GIVE YOU A FRESH TIP.
  • 00:11:39.100 --> 00:11:40.010
  • GO HOME AND DO SOMETHING THAT'S
  • 00:11:40.010 --> 00:11:41.190
  • OUT OF THE ORDINARY.
  • 00:11:41.190 --> 00:11:43.130
  • TELL HER, HONEY, TONIGHT,
  • 00:11:43.130 --> 00:11:44.120
  • I'LL CLEAN THE KITCHEN.
  • 00:11:45.070 --> 00:11:48.070
  • WHAT?
  • 00:11:48.070 --> 00:11:49.240
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:11:49.240 --> 00:11:51.000
  • DON'T WORRY.
  • 00:11:51.000 --> 00:11:51.240
  • IF IT WASHES THE RAMBO OFF OF
  • 00:11:51.240 --> 00:11:53.070
  • YOU,
  • 00:11:53.070 --> 00:11:53.230
  • YOU WEREN'T ALL THAT RAMBO TO
  • 00:11:53.230 --> 00:11:54.190
  • BEGIN WITH.
  • 00:11:54.190 --> 00:11:56.070
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:11:56.070 --> 00:11:57.090
  • I'VE SEEN RAMBO SWIM THROUGH
  • 00:11:57.090 --> 00:11:58.170
  • SEWAGE,
  • 00:11:58.170 --> 00:11:59.050
  • SO A LITTLE DISH WATER AIN'T
  • 00:11:59.050 --> 00:12:00.070
  • GOING TO HURT YOU.
  • 00:12:00.070 --> 00:12:01.240
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:12:01.240 --> 00:12:02.260
  • SHOW YOUR WIFE THAT YOU DON'T
  • 00:12:02.260 --> 00:12:05.090
  • LIVE FOR THE JOB.
  • 00:12:05.090 --> 00:12:06.050
  • SHOW YOUR WIFE THAT YOU LIVE
  • 00:12:06.050 --> 00:12:07.080
  • FOR HER.
  • 00:12:07.080 --> 00:12:09.160
  • COME HOME AND CLOCK IN.
  • 00:12:09.160 --> 00:12:11.180
  • HELP OUT.
  • 00:12:11.180 --> 00:12:13.130
  • SHOW HER THAT YOU HAVEN'T GIVEN
  • 00:12:13.130 --> 00:12:14.190
  • THE BEST OF YOURSELF TO THE
  • 00:12:14.190 --> 00:12:15.250
  • REST OF THE WORLD,
  • 00:12:15.250 --> 00:12:16.210
  • BUT YOU SAVED SOMETHING FOR
  • 00:12:16.210 --> 00:12:18.080
  • HER.
  • 00:12:18.080 --> 00:12:19.270
  • YOU SEE,
  • 00:12:19.270 --> 00:12:20.160
  • I HAVE A GOAL IN MARRIAGE.
  • 00:12:20.160 --> 00:12:23.100
  • MY GOAL IS TO LIVE IN SUCH A
  • 00:12:23.100 --> 00:12:25.160
  • WAY THAT IF,
  • 00:12:25.160 --> 00:12:28.020
  • IN GOD'S SOVEREIGN AND
  • 00:12:28.020 --> 00:12:29.050
  • PROVIDENTIAL PLAN,
  • 00:12:29.050 --> 00:12:30.100
  • HE TAKES ME OUT OF THIS WORLD
  • 00:12:30.100 --> 00:12:31.230
  • BEFORE MY WIFE,
  • 00:12:31.230 --> 00:12:34.110
  • AND IF SHE SHOULD STILL BE OF
  • 00:12:34.110 --> 00:12:36.030
  • MARRYING AGE AFTER I'M GONE,
  • 00:12:36.060 --> 00:12:39.060
  • AND IF SHE SHOULD CHOOSE TO
  • 00:12:39.060 --> 00:12:41.010
  • REMARRY,
  • 00:12:41.010 --> 00:12:42.240
  • I WANT THAT GUY TO HATE MY
  • 00:12:42.240 --> 00:12:44.050
  • GUTS.
  • 00:12:44.050 --> 00:12:45.250
  • (LAUGHTER & APPLAUSE)
  • 00:12:50.260 --> 00:12:53.260
  • NOW I'M GOING TO BE IN HEAVEN
  • 00:12:53.260 --> 00:12:55.260
  • AND I'M NOT REALLY GOING TO BE
  • 00:12:55.260 --> 00:12:56.190
  • WORRIED ABOUT IT.
  • 00:12:56.190 --> 00:12:57.110
  • BUT ALL I WANT HIM TO HEAR IS
  • 00:12:57.110 --> 00:12:58.260
  • HER SAY,
  • 00:12:58.260 --> 00:12:59.250
  • WELL MATT USED TO DO THIS,
  • 00:12:59.250 --> 00:13:01.090
  • AND MATT USED TO DO THAT,
  • 00:13:01.090 --> 00:13:02.170
  • AND MATT USED TO DO THIS,
  • 00:13:02.170 --> 00:13:03.250
  • AND MATT USED TO DO THAT.
  • 00:13:03.250 --> 00:13:05.190
  • (APPLAUSE)
  • 00:13:05.190 --> 00:13:07.000
  • I WANT HIM TO LAY IN BED AND
  • 00:13:07.000 --> 00:13:08.170
  • STARE AT THE ROOM AND GO, MATT,
  • 00:13:08.170 --> 00:13:09.180
  • MATT, MATT, MATT, MATT.
  • 00:13:09.180 --> 00:13:11.070
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:13:16.190 --> 00:13:19.190
  • THE THIRD THING YOU CAN DO TO
  • 00:13:19.190 --> 00:13:21.110
  • LOVE YOUR WIFE IS UNDERSTAND
  • 00:13:21.110 --> 00:13:24.030
  • HER.
  • 00:13:24.030 --> 00:13:26.210
  • THE BIBLE SAYS SHE'S A WEAKER
  • 00:13:26.210 --> 00:13:27.220
  • VESSEL.
  • 00:13:27.220 --> 00:13:29.200
  • SO DON'T EXPLOIT THAT WEAKNESS;
  • 00:13:29.200 --> 00:13:32.090
  • STRENGTHEN IT.
  • 00:13:32.090 --> 00:13:34.090
  • HELP HER TO KNOW THAT YOU WILL
  • 00:13:34.090 --> 00:13:35.200
  • NOT LET THAT WEAKNESS BE A
  • 00:13:35.200 --> 00:13:37.020
  • HINDRANCE IN HER,
  • 00:13:37.020 --> 00:13:38.020
  • BUT THAT YOU'RE GOING TO USE
  • 00:13:38.020 --> 00:13:39.070
  • THAT TO COMPLIMENT WHO YOU ARE.
  • 00:13:39.140 --> 00:13:42.140
  • I SAID A STATEMENT THAT'S VERY
  • 00:13:42.140 --> 00:13:43.150
  • TRUE;
  • 00:13:43.150 --> 00:13:43.210
  • EVERY MAN SHOULD SPEND HIS
  • 00:13:43.210 --> 00:13:45.050
  • ENTIRE LIFE STUDYING TWO
  • 00:13:45.050 --> 00:13:46.130
  • THINGS, THE BIBLE AND HIS WIFE,
  • 00:13:47.060 --> 00:13:50.060
  • BECAUSE BOTH WILL BE HARD TO
  • 00:13:50.060 --> 00:13:51.130
  • UNDERSTAND.
  • 00:13:51.130 --> 00:13:53.090
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:13:53.090 --> 00:13:54.220
  • IF YOU STUDY SOMETHING,
  • 00:13:54.230 --> 00:13:57.230
  • YOU FOCUS ON IT.
  • 00:13:57.230 --> 00:13:59.260
  • YOU SET IT ASIDE, AND YOU SAY,
  • 00:13:59.260 --> 00:14:01.100
  • I'M GOING TO TAKE SOME TIME AND
  • 00:14:01.100 --> 00:14:02.280
  • I'M GOING TO LEARN YOU.
  • 00:14:02.280 --> 00:14:05.220
  • AND IT'S IMPORTANT THAT YOU DO
  • 00:14:05.220 --> 00:14:06.270
  • THAT IN YOUR MARRIAGE.
  • 00:14:06.270 --> 00:14:09.160
  • THE FOURTH THING YOU CAN DO
  • 00:14:09.160 --> 00:14:10.260
  • IS HONOR YOUR WIFE.
  • 00:14:10.260 --> 00:14:13.080
  • 1 PETER 3:7,
  • 00:14:13.080 --> 00:14:14.150
  • IT SAYS: GIVING HONOR.
  • 00:14:14.150 --> 00:14:15.280
  • SAY THAT WITH ME,
  • 00:14:15.280 --> 00:14:17.240
  • GIVING HONOR.
  • 00:14:17.240 --> 00:14:19.210
  • HOW DO YOU HONOR SOMEONE?
  • 00:14:19.210 --> 00:14:21.180
  • YOU ASSIGN THEM AN HONORABLE
  • 00:14:21.180 --> 00:14:24.100
  • POSITION.
  • 00:14:24.100 --> 00:14:25.290
  • IF YOU WANT TO BE THE KING OF
  • 00:14:25.290 --> 00:14:27.010
  • THE CASTLE,
  • 00:14:27.010 --> 00:14:27.200
  • YOU LET HER KNOW SHE'S THE
  • 00:14:27.200 --> 00:14:28.270
  • QUEEN OF THE CASTLE.
  • 00:14:28.270 --> 00:14:31.070
  • YOU MAKE HER FEEL SPECIAL.
  • 00:14:31.080 --> 00:14:34.080
  • YOU LET YOUR CHILDREN KNOW
  • 00:14:34.080 --> 00:14:35.210
  • THAT SHE'S JUST NOT ONE AMONGST
  • 00:14:35.210 --> 00:14:37.070
  • YOU; SHE IS "THE ONE" FOR YOU.
  • 00:14:37.070 --> 00:14:39.290
  • SHE'S NOT LIKE EVERYONE ELSE.
  • 00:14:39.290 --> 00:14:41.210
  • SHE'S THE ONE THAT YOU DEMAND
  • 00:14:41.210 --> 00:14:43.160
  • THEY RESPECT; THAT THEY HONOR;
  • 00:14:43.160 --> 00:14:45.020
  • THAT THEY TREAT WELL.
  • 00:14:45.020 --> 00:14:46.220
  • IF YOU'VE GOT SONS AND THEY
  • 00:14:46.220 --> 00:14:48.040
  • DON'T OPEN THE DOOR FOR YOUR
  • 00:14:48.040 --> 00:14:49.220
  • WIFE,
  • 00:14:49.220 --> 00:14:50.110
  • YOU OPEN THE DOOR WITH THEM FOR
  • 00:14:50.110 --> 00:14:52.160
  • HER.
  • 00:14:52.160 --> 00:14:53.220
  • GET OVER THERE AND OPEN THAT
  • 00:14:53.220 --> 00:14:54.270
  • DOOR FOR YOUR MOTHER.
  • 00:14:54.270 --> 00:14:56.120
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:14:56.120 --> 00:14:58.000
  • WHY?
  • 00:14:59.180 --> 00:15:02.200
  • BECAUSE WHEN CHIVALRY DIES,
  • 00:15:02.200 --> 00:15:04.260
  • THE MARRIAGE DIES.
  • 00:15:04.260 --> 00:15:06.290
  • THE BIBLE SAYS: FAITH WITHOUT
  • 00:15:06.290 --> 00:15:08.050
  • WORKS IS DEAD.
  • 00:15:08.280 --> 00:15:11.280
  • ONE OF THE THINGS THAT WE'VE
  • 00:15:11.280 --> 00:15:12.240
  • GOT AS A PROBLEM IN MARRIAGES
  • 00:15:12.240 --> 00:15:14.010
  • IN AMERICA TODAY IS THAT WOMEN
  • 00:15:14.010 --> 00:15:15.200
  • SPEND ALL OF THEIR TIME
  • 00:15:15.200 --> 00:15:16.240
  • EXPRESSING THEIR DEEP EMOTIONS
  • 00:15:16.240 --> 00:15:18.050
  • FOR THEIR HUSBANDS,
  • 00:15:18.050 --> 00:15:18.290
  • AND THEIR HUSBANDS SAY,
  • 00:15:18.290 --> 00:15:19.220
  • "ME, TOO."
  • 00:15:19.220 --> 00:15:21.130
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:15:21.130 --> 00:15:22.280
  • "I LOVE YOU DEAR."
  • 00:15:22.280 --> 00:15:24.210
  • "ME, TOO."
  • 00:15:24.210 --> 00:15:26.060
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:15:26.060 --> 00:15:27.180
  • "YOU'RE EVERYTHING TO ME."
  • 00:15:27.180 --> 00:15:28.150
  • "ME, TOO."
  • 00:15:28.150 --> 00:15:30.030
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:15:32.010 --> 00:15:35.010
  • SOME OF YOU'VE GOT SOME OF
  • 00:15:35.010 --> 00:15:36.040
  • THOSE "ME, TOO" MOMENTS THIS
  • 00:15:36.040 --> 00:15:38.000
  • PAST EVENING;
  • 00:15:38.000 --> 00:15:38.250
  • I'M GUESSING.
  • 00:15:38.250 --> 00:15:40.010
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:15:40.010 --> 00:15:41.070
  • HOW DO YOU HONOR YOUR WIFE?
  • 00:15:43.210 --> 00:15:46.210
  • WITH ACTIONS, WITH WORDS,
  • 00:15:47.080 --> 00:15:50.080
  • YOU SHOW IT, YOU SAY IT,
  • 00:15:50.080 --> 00:15:53.050
  • AND YOU SHOW IT AGAIN.
  • 00:15:53.050 --> 00:15:55.190
  • IT OUGHT TO BE SO OBVIOUS; THAT
  • 00:15:55.190 --> 00:15:57.080
  • PEOPLE THAT YOU'VE NEVER MET
  • 00:15:57.080 --> 00:15:58.160
  • LOOK AT THE TWO OF YOU AND GO,
  • 00:15:58.160 --> 00:15:59.230
  • MY GOODNESS; HE LOVES HER.
  • 00:16:01.250 --> 00:16:04.250
  • HONOR HER.
  • 00:16:04.250 --> 00:16:06.170
  • AND LASTLY,
  • 00:16:06.170 --> 00:16:08.130
  • PRAY WITH YOUR WIFE.
  • 00:16:09.180 --> 00:16:12.180
  • 1 PETER 3:7: THAT YOUR PRAYERS
  • 00:16:12.230 --> 00:16:15.230
  • MAY NOT BE HINDERED.
  • 00:16:16.150 --> 00:16:19.150
  • THE BIBLE SAYS THAT A
  • 00:16:19.150 --> 00:16:20.080
  • THREEFOLD CORD IS NOT EASILY
  • 00:16:20.080 --> 00:16:21.270
  • BROKEN.
  • 00:16:21.270 --> 00:16:22.170
  • AND GOD HAS DESIGNED,
  • 00:16:22.170 --> 00:16:23.280
  • IN EVERY MARRIAGE,
  • 00:16:23.280 --> 00:16:24.280
  • A THREEFOLD CORD.
  • 00:16:24.280 --> 00:16:25.270
  • IT IS ONE BETWEEN YOU,
  • 00:16:25.270 --> 00:16:27.220
  • YOUR WIFE, AND THE WORD.
  • 00:16:27.220 --> 00:16:30.150
  • FOR THE BIBLE SAYS THAT UNLESS
  • 00:16:30.150 --> 00:16:31.280
  • THE LORD BUILD THE HOUSE,
  • 00:16:31.280 --> 00:16:33.100
  • THEY LABOR IN VAIN WHO BUILD
  • 00:16:33.100 --> 00:16:34.280
  • IT.
  • 00:16:34.280 --> 00:16:36.030
  • SO WHEN YOU TAKE THIS WORD AND
  • 00:16:36.030 --> 00:16:38.050
  • YOU MAKE IT THE FOUNDATION OF
  • 00:16:38.050 --> 00:16:39.250
  • YOUR RELATIONSHIP,
  • 00:16:39.250 --> 00:16:40.270
  • AND YOU AND YOUR WIFE COME INTO
  • 00:16:40.270 --> 00:16:42.130
  • AGREEMENT CONCERNING THIS WORD,
  • 00:16:42.130 --> 00:16:44.090
  • LET ME TELL YOU SOMETHING.
  • 00:16:44.090 --> 00:16:45.230
  • ALL OF HELL CAN'T STOP YOU.
  • 00:16:46.100 --> 00:16:49.100
  • I HAVE SEEN THIS OVER AND OVER
  • 00:16:49.100 --> 00:16:51.250
  • AND OVER.
  • 00:16:51.250 --> 00:16:53.090
  • IF TWO SPOUSES,
  • 00:16:53.090 --> 00:16:54.240
  • A HUSBAND AND A WIFE,
  • 00:16:54.240 --> 00:16:55.240
  • ARE ARGUING ABOUT THEIR WILL,
  • 00:16:55.240 --> 00:16:57.220
  • THEY'RE WEAK.
  • 00:16:57.220 --> 00:16:58.170
  • BUT IF THEY COME INTO AGREEMENT
  • 00:16:58.170 --> 00:16:59.280
  • ON THE WORD,
  • 00:16:59.280 --> 00:17:01.020
  • HELL CAN'T STAND AGAINST THEM.
  • 00:17:02.150 --> 00:17:05.150
  • YEARS AGO, IN THIS CHURCH,
  • 00:17:06.020 --> 00:17:09.020
  • THERE WAS A COUPLE THAT CAME TO
  • 00:17:09.020 --> 00:17:10.000
  • PASTOR, AND THEY SAID, PASTOR,
  • 00:17:10.000 --> 00:17:11.110
  • OUR SON IS INVOLVED WITH
  • 00:17:11.110 --> 00:17:12.160
  • INDIVIDUALS WHO HAVE GOT HIM
  • 00:17:12.160 --> 00:17:15.050
  • INVOLVED IN A DRUG CULTURE.
  • 00:17:15.050 --> 00:17:17.200
  • SOME OF THEM ARE DEALING DRUGS.
  • 00:17:17.200 --> 00:17:19.040
  • SOME OF THEM ARE USING DRUGS.
  • 00:17:19.040 --> 00:17:20.180
  • AND BOTTOM LINE,
  • 00:17:20.180 --> 00:17:22.180
  • THEIR CHARACTER IS DESTROYING
  • 00:17:22.180 --> 00:17:24.020
  • OUR SON,
  • 00:17:24.020 --> 00:17:25.250
  • AND WE DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO.
  • 00:17:25.250 --> 00:17:28.060
  • PASTOR SAID,
  • 00:17:28.060 --> 00:17:28.210
  • HERE'S WHAT YOU'RE GOING TO DO.
  • 00:17:28.210 --> 00:17:29.170
  • YOU'RE GOING TO COME INTO
  • 00:17:29.170 --> 00:17:30.110
  • AGREEMENT ON THE WORD OF GOD,
  • 00:17:30.110 --> 00:17:31.230
  • AND YOU'RE GOING TO BEGIN
  • 00:17:31.230 --> 00:17:32.260
  • PRAYING TOGETHER, AS A COUPLE,
  • 00:17:32.260 --> 00:17:33.260
  • THAT THE STRONGHOLD THAT THESE
  • 00:17:33.260 --> 00:17:35.020
  • BOYS OVER YOUR SON IS BROKEN.
  • 00:17:36.170 --> 00:17:39.170
  • AND THEN YOU'RE GOING TO INVITE
  • 00:17:39.170 --> 00:17:40.260
  • THOSE BOYS TO YOUR HOUSE FOR A
  • 00:17:40.260 --> 00:17:42.140
  • MEAL --
  • 00:17:42.140 --> 00:17:43.110
  • NOW ALL OF THESE WERE YOUNG
  • 00:17:43.110 --> 00:17:45.030
  • MEN.
  • 00:17:45.030 --> 00:17:45.210
  • THEY WEREN'T BOYS.
  • 00:17:45.210 --> 00:17:46.160
  • THEY WERE OF AGE, YOUNG ADULTS.
  • 00:17:47.090 --> 00:17:50.090
  • -- AND YOU'RE GOING TO SERVE
  • 00:17:50.090 --> 00:17:51.060
  • THEM THIS MEAL,
  • 00:17:51.060 --> 00:17:52.210
  • AND YOU'RE GOING TO TREAT THEM
  • 00:17:52.210 --> 00:17:53.130
  • WITH HOSPITALITY.
  • 00:17:53.130 --> 00:17:54.130
  • AND WHEN THE MEAL IS OVER, YOU,
  • 00:17:54.130 --> 00:17:56.090
  • THE HUSBAND,
  • 00:17:56.090 --> 00:17:56.290
  • THE HEAD OF THE HOUSEHOLD,
  • 00:17:56.290 --> 00:17:57.270
  • ARE GOING TO TELL THOSE BOYS,
  • 00:17:57.270 --> 00:17:59.090
  • THIS IS YOUR GOING AWAY PARTY.
  • 00:17:59.120 --> 00:18:02.140
  • FROM THIS MOMENT FORWARD,
  • 00:18:02.140 --> 00:18:03.160
  • YOU'RE GOING TO LEAVE MY SON
  • 00:18:03.160 --> 00:18:04.170
  • ALONE.
  • 00:18:04.170 --> 00:18:06.030
  • YOU'RE NOT WELCOME IN HIS LIFE.
  • 00:18:06.030 --> 00:18:07.100
  • YOU'RE NOT WELCOME AT OUR
  • 00:18:07.100 --> 00:18:08.040
  • HOUSE.
  • 00:18:08.040 --> 00:18:08.210
  • YOU DON'T PICK UP THE PHONE AND
  • 00:18:08.210 --> 00:18:09.210
  • CALL HIM.
  • 00:18:09.210 --> 00:18:10.130
  • YOU DON'T CONTACT HIM FOR ANY
  • 00:18:10.130 --> 00:18:12.130
  • REASON.
  • 00:18:12.130 --> 00:18:12.290
  • IT'S OVER.
  • 00:18:12.290 --> 00:18:15.130
  • AND HE SAID,
  • 00:18:15.130 --> 00:18:15.220
  • YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND THESE
  • 00:18:15.220 --> 00:18:16.170
  • KINDS OF KIDS.
  • 00:18:16.170 --> 00:18:17.150
  • HE SAID,
  • 00:18:17.150 --> 00:18:17.280
  • THEY'RE JUST GOING TO LAUGH AT
  • 00:18:17.280 --> 00:18:18.180
  • US.
  • 00:18:18.180 --> 00:18:19.040
  • HE SAID, LET THEM LAUGH.
  • 00:18:19.040 --> 00:18:20.230
  • HE SAID,
  • 00:18:20.230 --> 00:18:21.000
  • AND AFTER THEY'VE HAD A GOOD
  • 00:18:21.000 --> 00:18:21.250
  • LAUGH,
  • 00:18:21.250 --> 00:18:22.060
  • YOU LOOK AT THEM, AND SAY,
  • 00:18:22.060 --> 00:18:23.160
  • BECAUSE MY WIFE AND I ARE GOING
  • 00:18:23.160 --> 00:18:24.270
  • TO PRAY EVERY DAY THAT YOU
  • 00:18:25.060 --> 00:18:28.060
  • EITHER LEAVE MY SON ALONE
  • 00:18:28.060 --> 00:18:29.170
  • OR GOD REMOVE YOU FROM HIS
  • 00:18:29.170 --> 00:18:31.040
  • LIFE.
  • 00:18:31.060 --> 00:18:34.060
  • AND HE SAID,
  • 00:18:34.060 --> 00:18:34.170
  • WELL THAT DOESN'T SOUND LIKE
  • 00:18:34.170 --> 00:18:35.200
  • MUCH.
  • 00:18:35.200 --> 00:18:36.070
  • LET ME TELL YOU WHAT HAPPENED.
  • 00:18:36.070 --> 00:18:37.060
  • THEY DID EXACTLY WHAT THEIR
  • 00:18:37.060 --> 00:18:39.000
  • PASTOR TOLD THEM TO DO.
  • 00:18:39.000 --> 00:18:41.040
  • DON'T EVER UNDERESTIMATE THE
  • 00:18:41.040 --> 00:18:42.250
  • INFUSION OF SPIRITUAL STRENGTH
  • 00:18:42.250 --> 00:18:44.130
  • YOU RECEIVE WHEN YOU SUBMIT TO
  • 00:18:44.130 --> 00:18:45.240
  • SPIRITUAL AUTHORITY.
  • 00:18:46.010 --> 00:18:49.010
  • THEY CAME INTO AGREEMENT ON THE
  • 00:18:49.010 --> 00:18:50.020
  • WORD OF GOD.
  • 00:18:50.020 --> 00:18:51.120
  • THEY INVITED THOSE BOYS OVER TO
  • 00:18:51.120 --> 00:18:52.210
  • THEIR HOUSE.
  • 00:18:52.210 --> 00:18:53.220
  • THEY FED THEM THE MEAL.
  • 00:18:53.220 --> 00:18:54.260
  • THEY GAVE THEM THE SPEECH.
  • 00:18:54.260 --> 00:18:56.070
  • THOSE BOYS LAUGHED JUST LIKE
  • 00:18:56.070 --> 00:18:57.160
  • THEY WERE SAID TO HAVE LAUGHED.
  • 00:18:57.160 --> 00:18:59.150
  • THEY WALKED OUT OF THE HOUSE.
  • 00:18:59.150 --> 00:19:00.220
  • AND IT WOULD HAVE SEEMED THAT
  • 00:19:00.220 --> 00:19:02.020
  • NOTHING CHANGED EXCEPT THAT
  • 00:19:02.020 --> 00:19:03.170
  • HUSBAND AND THAT WIFE CAME INTO
  • 00:19:03.170 --> 00:19:05.010
  • AGREEMENT ON THE WORD OF GOD
  • 00:19:05.010 --> 00:19:06.140
  • AND PRAYED.
  • 00:19:06.140 --> 00:19:08.110
  • THERE WERE FIVE OF THEM.
  • 00:19:08.110 --> 00:19:10.240
  • IN A MONTH,
  • 00:19:10.240 --> 00:19:11.180
  • THERE WERE THREE FUNERALS AND
  • 00:19:11.180 --> 00:19:13.060
  • TWO LEFT.
  • 00:19:13.060 --> 00:19:16.060
  • AND THOSE TWO THAT WERE LEFT
  • 00:19:16.060 --> 00:19:17.150
  • CAME AND KNOCKED ON THE DOOR
  • 00:19:17.150 --> 00:19:18.140
  • AND SAID,
  • 00:19:18.140 --> 00:19:19.000
  • PLEASE STOP DOING WHATEVER IT
  • 00:19:19.000 --> 00:19:20.110
  • IS YOU'RE DOING,
  • 00:19:20.110 --> 00:19:21.070
  • BECAUSE EVERYTHING IS FALLING
  • 00:19:21.070 --> 00:19:22.130
  • APART SINCE WE LEFT YOUR HOUSE
  • 00:19:22.130 --> 00:19:23.230
  • THAT NIGHT.
  • 00:19:23.230 --> 00:19:25.000
  • (APPLAUSE)
  • 00:19:29.280 --> 00:19:32.280
  • YOU HAVE NO IDEA THE KIND OF
  • 00:19:34.290 --> 00:19:37.290
  • SUPERNATURAL STRENGTH YOU HAVE
  • 00:19:37.290 --> 00:19:40.140
  • AT YOUR ADDRESS IF YOU WILL
  • 00:19:40.140 --> 00:19:43.090
  • BRING YOUR HOUSEHOLD INTO
  • 00:19:43.090 --> 00:19:45.000
  • ALIGNMENT WITH GOD'S PLAN AND
  • 00:19:45.000 --> 00:19:47.100
  • GOD'S PURPOSE.
  • 00:19:47.230 --> 00:19:50.230
  • MEN, GOD NEEDS YOU.
  • 00:19:52.030 --> 00:19:55.030
  • HE NEEDS YOU TO SUBMIT TO THE
  • 00:19:55.100 --> 00:19:58.100
  • ROLE THAT HE CREATED YOU TO
  • 00:19:58.100 --> 00:20:00.000
  • PLAY, SO THAT IN DOING SO,
  • 00:20:00.220 --> 00:20:03.220
  • HE CAN BUILD UPON YOU AND
  • 00:20:03.220 --> 00:20:06.190
  • DEPEND UPON YOU TO CHANGE THE
  • 00:20:07.250 --> 00:20:10.250
  • COURSE THAT THIS NATION IS ON.
  • 00:20:12.120 --> 00:20:15.120
  • (APPLAUSE)
  • 00:20:21.000 --> 00:20:24.000
  • SOME PEOPLE SAY, WELL,
  • 00:20:24.000 --> 00:20:26.050
  • MY MARRIAGE JUST WON'T WORK.
  • 00:20:26.050 --> 00:20:28.210
  • YOUR MARRIAGE WILL WORK IF
  • 00:20:28.210 --> 00:20:29.240
  • YOU'LL WORK AT YOUR MARRIAGE.
  • 00:20:30.000 --> 00:20:33.000
  • IF YOUR MARRIAGE IS GOING THE
  • 00:20:33.000 --> 00:20:34.010
  • WRONG WAY,
  • 00:20:34.010 --> 00:20:34.260
  • YOU CAN TURN IT AROUND.
  • 00:20:35.070 --> 00:20:38.070
  • AND YOUR WIFE WILL GLADLY
  • 00:20:38.100 --> 00:20:41.100
  • FOLLOW YOU,
  • 00:20:41.100 --> 00:20:43.160
  • BECAUSE YOU ARE FULFILLING
  • 00:20:43.160 --> 00:20:44.290
  • EVERY ROLE THAT THE WORD OF GOD
  • 00:20:44.290 --> 00:20:46.250
  • HAS GIVEN YOU TO FOLLOW.
  • 00:20:47.080 --> 00:20:50.080
  • CAN WE STAND?
  • 00:20:51.010 --> 00:20:54.010
  • MEN, YOU'RE IN THIS PLACE
  • 00:20:54.010 --> 00:20:54.280
  • TONIGHT,
  • 00:20:54.280 --> 00:20:55.100
  • AND YOU SAY,
  • 00:20:55.100 --> 00:20:55.250
  • MY MARRIAGE NEEDS TO TURN
  • 00:20:55.250 --> 00:20:57.290
  • AROUND,
  • 00:20:57.290 --> 00:21:00.100
  • AND IT'S MY RESPONSIBILITY TO
  • 00:21:00.100 --> 00:21:03.010
  • DO IT.
  • 00:21:03.010 --> 00:21:05.060
  • I HAVE NOT FULFILLED THE
  • 00:21:05.060 --> 00:21:06.130
  • BIBLICAL ROLE OF A HUSBAND.
  • 00:21:06.130 --> 00:21:09.000
  • AND TONIGHT,
  • 00:21:09.000 --> 00:21:10.260
  • I NO LONGER WANT TO BE A
  • 00:21:10.260 --> 00:21:12.050
  • HINDRANCE IN MY HOUSE,
  • 00:21:12.050 --> 00:21:14.200
  • BUT I WANT TO BE THE SPIRIT-LED
  • 00:21:14.200 --> 00:21:16.000
  • LEADER THAT THE WORD OF GOD
  • 00:21:16.000 --> 00:21:18.030
  • DESCRIBES.
  • 00:21:18.030 --> 00:21:20.150
  • I KNOW THAT MAY TAKE A LOT TO
  • 00:21:20.150 --> 00:21:21.280
  • ADMIT IN THIS MOMENT,
  • 00:21:21.280 --> 00:21:24.220
  • BUT I ASSURE YOU,
  • 00:21:24.220 --> 00:21:27.100
  • HAVING THE COURAGE TO DO SO
  • 00:21:27.100 --> 00:21:29.290
  • GIVES GOD THE OPPORTUNITY TO
  • 00:21:29.290 --> 00:21:31.150
  • CHANGE EVERYTHING.
  • 00:21:31.150 --> 00:21:34.120
  • IF YOU'RE WILLING TO MAKE THAT
  • 00:21:34.120 --> 00:21:35.110
  • CONFESSION TONIGHT,
  • 00:21:35.110 --> 00:21:36.060
  • I WANT YOU TO SLIP YOUR HAND
  • 00:21:36.060 --> 00:21:37.090
  • RIGHT WHERE YOU ARE.
  • 00:21:37.090 --> 00:21:39.060
  • JUST HOLD IT HIGH.
  • 00:21:39.100 --> 00:21:42.100
  • HOLD IT HIGH.
  • 00:21:42.120 --> 00:21:45.120
  • HERE'S HOW WE'RE GOING END THIS
  • 00:21:45.120 --> 00:21:46.100
  • SERVICE.
  • 00:21:46.100 --> 00:21:48.030
  • I WANT EVERY MAN IN THIS ROOM
  • 00:21:48.030 --> 00:21:50.220
  • TO REPEAT THIS PRAYER AFTER ME.
  • 00:21:50.220 --> 00:21:53.160
  • AND I WANT EVERY WOMAN IN THIS
  • 00:21:53.160 --> 00:21:54.230
  • ROOM,
  • 00:21:54.230 --> 00:21:55.090
  • IF YOU'RE MARRIED TO THE MAN
  • 00:21:55.090 --> 00:21:56.100
  • STANDING NEXT TO YOU,
  • 00:21:56.100 --> 00:21:57.120
  • TO TAKE HIM BY THE HAND.
  • 00:21:57.120 --> 00:22:00.130
  • AND IF YOU'RE NOT MARRIED,
  • 00:22:00.130 --> 00:22:01.130
  • JUST EXTEND YOUR HAND TOWARDS A
  • 00:22:01.130 --> 00:22:03.130
  • MAN.
  • 00:22:03.130 --> 00:22:06.100
  • DON'T WORRY;
  • 00:22:06.100 --> 00:22:06.220
  • YOU'RE NOT CLAIMING ANYTHING
  • 00:22:06.220 --> 00:22:07.220
  • THAT AIN'T YOURS.
  • 00:22:07.220 --> 00:22:09.070
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:22:10.150 --> 00:22:13.150
  • BUT YOU'RE GOING TO PRAY FOR
  • 00:22:14.140 --> 00:22:17.140
  • THEM WHILE THEY'RE TALKING TO
  • 00:22:17.140 --> 00:22:18.220
  • GOD,
  • 00:22:19.030 --> 00:22:22.030
  • BECAUSE WE HAVE GOT TO DO
  • 00:22:22.030 --> 00:22:23.180
  • SOMETHING TO SNATCH THE FAMILY
  • 00:22:23.180 --> 00:22:26.170
  • OFF THE ENDANGERED SPECIE'S
  • 00:22:26.170 --> 00:22:28.000
  • LIST AND PUT IT BACK IN THE
  • 00:22:28.000 --> 00:22:30.250
  • PLACE THAT IT NEEDS TO BE IN,
  • 00:22:30.250 --> 00:22:33.020
  • IN OUR SOCIETY.
  • 00:22:33.020 --> 00:22:34.280
  • SO MEN,
  • 00:22:34.280 --> 00:22:36.140
  • I WANT YOU TO LIFT YOUR HANDS
  • 00:22:36.140 --> 00:22:37.190
  • AND REPEAT THIS PRAYER WITH ME.
  • 00:22:37.190 --> 00:22:39.270
  • LORD JESUS CHRIST --
  • 00:22:39.270 --> 00:22:42.160
  • DON'T MUMBLE IT, MEN.
  • 00:22:42.160 --> 00:22:43.170
  • LET HIM HEAR YOU.
  • 00:22:43.170 --> 00:22:45.170
  • LORD JESUS CHRIST,
  • 00:22:45.170 --> 00:22:48.030
  • TONIGHT I ASK YOU
  • 00:22:48.040 --> 00:22:51.040
  • FOR HELP.
  • 00:22:51.040 --> 00:22:52.190
  • HELP ME
  • 00:22:52.190 --> 00:22:54.070
  • TO BE THE HUSBAND
  • 00:22:54.070 --> 00:22:56.050
  • THAT YOU NEED ME TO BE.
  • 00:22:56.050 --> 00:22:58.020
  • HELP ME
  • 00:22:58.020 --> 00:22:59.170
  • TO LOVE MY WIFE
  • 00:22:59.170 --> 00:23:01.200
  • LIKE YOU LOVE ME.
  • 00:23:01.200 --> 00:23:03.220
  • HELP ME
  • 00:23:03.220 --> 00:23:05.080
  • TO LEAD MY HOME
  • 00:23:05.080 --> 00:23:07.130
  • THE WAY THAT YOU WOULD HAVE ME
  • 00:23:07.130 --> 00:23:08.250
  • TO LEAD;
  • 00:23:08.250 --> 00:23:10.090
  • THAT I WOULD BE
  • 00:23:10.090 --> 00:23:12.060
  • THE KIND OF MAN
  • 00:23:12.060 --> 00:23:13.280
  • THAT YOU CAN DEPEND ON.
  • 00:23:13.280 --> 00:23:16.060
  • BRING SUPERNATURAL HEALING
  • 00:23:16.060 --> 00:23:19.010
  • WHERE I HAVE CAUSED HURT.
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  • BRING JOY
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  • WHERE THERE IS SORROW.
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  • BRING FORGIVENESS AND PEACE;
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  • THAT WE MIGHT LIVE IN HARMONY;
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  • AND THAT MY HOME
  • 00:23:29.290 --> 00:23:31.290
  • WOULD BE HEAVEN ON EARTH.
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  • I ASK YOU FOR THIS,
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  • IN JESUS' NAME.
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  • AND WITH ALL OF MY HEART,
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  • I COMMIT
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  • FROM THIS EVENING FORWARD,
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  • TO DO MY PART
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  • TO BE THE MAN OF GOD
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  • IN MY HOME,
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  • IN JESUS' NAME.
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  • AMEN.
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  • NOW I WANT EVERYONE TO GIVE
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  • THE LORD A HANDCLAP OF PRAISE.
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  • (APPLAUSE)
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  • HALLELUJAH.
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  • HALLELUJAH.
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  • HAVE YOU ENJOYED THE WORD OF
  • 00:24:06.120 --> 00:24:07.230
  • GOD TONIGHT?
  • 00:24:07.230 --> 00:24:09.130
  • PRAISE GOD.
  • 00:24:09.130 --> 00:24:10.140
  • (APPLAUSE)
  • 00:24:11.130 --> 00:24:14.130
  • RAISE YOUR HAND FOR THE
  • 00:24:14.240 --> 00:24:17.240
  • BLESSING.
  • 00:24:17.240 --> 00:24:19.120
  • NOW FATHER,
  • 00:24:19.120 --> 00:24:19.220
  • BLESS THEM AND KEEP THEM,
  • 00:24:19.220 --> 00:24:20.230
  • AND MAKE YOUR FACE TO SHINE
  • 00:24:20.230 --> 00:24:21.270
  • UPON THEM.
  • 00:24:21.270 --> 00:24:23.150
  • BE GRACIOUS UNTO THEM AND GIVE
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  • THEM YOUR PEACE.
  • 00:24:24.190 --> 00:24:26.170
  • LET A REVIVAL OF RIGHTEOUSNESS
  • 00:24:26.170 --> 00:24:28.010
  • BEGIN IN THE LIVING ROOMS OF
  • 00:24:28.010 --> 00:24:30.190
  • OUR CONGREGATIONS;
  • 00:24:30.190 --> 00:24:32.250
  • THAT WE MAY BUILD FAMILIES THAT
  • 00:24:32.250 --> 00:24:34.100
  • CHURCHES CAN STAND UPON THAT
  • 00:24:34.100 --> 00:24:37.000
  • CAN CHANGE THIS NATION AND
  • 00:24:37.000 --> 00:24:39.110
  • BRING IT BACK TO GOD.
  • 00:24:39.110 --> 00:24:41.140
  • LET EVERY MAN IN THIS PLACE
  • 00:24:41.140 --> 00:24:43.050
  • LEAVE ENDOWED WITH THE STRENGTH
  • 00:24:43.160 --> 00:24:46.160
  • OF OUR SAVIOR TO LEAD,
  • 00:24:46.160 --> 00:24:49.160
  • TO GUIDE,
  • 00:24:49.160 --> 00:24:50.170
  • TO LOVE AND PROVIDE ALL THAT
  • 00:24:50.170 --> 00:24:52.150
  • THEIR FAMILIES NEED.
  • 00:24:52.150 --> 00:24:54.070
  • THIS WE ASK, IN JESUS' NAME.
  • 00:24:54.070 --> 00:24:55.170
  • AND THIS,
  • 00:24:55.170 --> 00:24:56.040
  • WE RECEIVE IN FAITH BELIEVING.
  • 00:24:56.040 --> 00:24:57.110
  • AND ALL OF GOD'S CHILDREN SAID,
  • 00:24:57.110 --> 00:24:58.160
  • PRAISE THE LORD.
  • 00:24:58.160 --> 00:24:59.170
  • (PRAISE THE LORD.)
  • 00:24:59.170 --> 00:25:00.230
  • (APPLAUSE)
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  • AT AN EARLY AGE,
  • 00:25:04.010 --> 00:25:07.010
  • JOHN HAGEE HAD A HEART TO HELP
  • 00:25:07.010 --> 00:25:09.070
  • ORPHANS AND THE UNBORN.
  • 00:25:09.070 --> 00:25:11.150
  • FROM THAT DREAM, CAME A VISION.
  • 00:25:11.150 --> 00:25:14.050
  • AND NOW, "SANCTUARY OF HOPE"
  • 00:25:14.050 --> 00:25:16.160
  • IS BECOMING A REALITY,
  • 00:25:16.160 --> 00:25:18.260
  • A REFUGE FOR ORPHANED CHILDREN
  • 00:25:18.260 --> 00:25:20.260
  • SEEKING A LASTING AND LOVING
  • 00:25:20.260 --> 00:25:22.110
  • FAMILY,
  • 00:25:22.110 --> 00:25:23.030
  • A REFUGE FOR UNWED MOTHERS WHO
  • 00:25:23.030 --> 00:25:25.000
  • CHOOSE TO GIVE THE GIFT OF LIFE.
  • 00:25:25.140 --> 00:25:28.140
  • PASTOR JOHN HAGEE: WHILE WE
  • 00:25:28.140 --> 00:25:29.170
  • CAN'T HELP ALL OF THEM;
  • 00:25:29.170 --> 00:25:30.290
  • WE CAN HELP SOME OF THEM.
  • 00:25:30.290 --> 00:25:32.200
  • AND BECAUSE WE CAN,
  • 00:25:32.200 --> 00:25:34.090
  • WE SHOULD.
  • 00:25:34.090 --> 00:25:35.120
  • AND BECAUSE THIS IS
  • 00:25:35.120 --> 00:25:36.110
  • THE COMMISSION OF GOD,
  • 00:25:36.110 --> 00:25:37.250
  • WE ARE.
  • 00:25:37.250 --> 00:25:39.090
  • PASTOR MATT HAGEE: THE SANCTUARY
  • 00:25:39.090 --> 00:25:40.290
  • OF HOPE IS A PLACE WHERE
  • 00:25:40.290 --> 00:25:42.070
  • THE UNBORN WILL RECEIVE A LIFE
  • 00:25:42.070 --> 00:25:43.100
  • SENTENCE
  • 00:25:43.100 --> 00:25:44.040
  • INSTEAD OF A DEATH SENTENCE.
  • 00:25:44.040 --> 00:25:46.120
  • HELP US BUILD THE LEGACY
  • 00:25:46.120 --> 00:25:47.290
  • OUR NEXT GENERATIONS DESERVE
  • 00:25:47.290 --> 00:25:50.170
  • BUT CANNOT HAVE WITHOUT YOU.
  • 00:25:51.050 --> 00:25:54.050
  • HELP GIVE THE GIFT OF LIFE.
  • 00:25:54.050 --> 00:25:56.250
  • CALL THE NUMBER ON THE SCREEN,
  • 00:25:56.250 --> 00:25:58.200
  • OR VISIT OUR WEBSITE.
  • 00:25:58.200 --> 00:26:00.270
  • DO YOU DARE TO DREAM?
  • 00:26:04.010 --> 00:26:07.010
  • MAYBE THE BURDENS OF LIFE
  • 00:26:07.010 --> 00:26:08.010
  • HAVE CAUSED YOU TO GIVE UP ON
  • 00:26:08.010 --> 00:26:09.010
  • YOUR DREAMS,
  • 00:26:09.010 --> 00:26:09.240
  • OR MAYBE YOU'VE BEEN TOO SCARED
  • 00:26:09.240 --> 00:26:10.280
  • TO DREAM,
  • 00:26:10.280 --> 00:26:11.200
  • AFRAID OF THE POSSIBILITY OF
  • 00:26:11.200 --> 00:26:12.240
  • FAILURE.
  • 00:26:12.240 --> 00:26:13.240
  • PASTOR MATTHEW HAGEE HAS PUT
  • 00:26:13.240 --> 00:26:15.000
  • TOGETHER AN INSPIRING JOURNAL
  • 00:26:15.000 --> 00:26:16.130
  • FOR JUST THAT REASON.
  • 00:26:16.130 --> 00:26:17.250
  • FILLED WITH MOTIVATIONAL BIBLE
  • 00:26:17.250 --> 00:26:18.280
  • VERSES,
  • 00:26:18.280 --> 00:26:19.150
  • PRAYERS AND MESSAGES,
  • 00:26:19.150 --> 00:26:20.280
  • THE DREAM JOURNAL USES
  • 00:26:20.280 --> 00:26:21.270
  • PRACTICAL STEPS TO HELP YOU
  • 00:26:21.270 --> 00:26:23.120
  • ACHIEVE THE DREAM GOD HAS
  • 00:26:23.120 --> 00:26:24.240
  • PLACED IN YOUR HEART.
  • 00:26:24.240 --> 00:26:26.010
  • SO WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR?
  • 00:26:26.010 --> 00:26:27.110
  • STEP OUT AND HAVE THE COURAGE
  • 00:26:27.110 --> 00:26:28.120
  • TO BELIEVE THAT GOD WILL
  • 00:26:28.120 --> 00:26:29.100
  • COMPLETE WHAT HE HAS BEGUN IN
  • 00:26:29.100 --> 00:26:30.190
  • YOU.
  • 00:26:30.190 --> 00:26:31.110
  • ORDER THE DREAM JOURNAL TODAY.
  • 00:26:31.110 --> 00:26:32.220
  • CALL THE NUMBER ON THE SCREEN,
  • 00:26:32.220 --> 00:26:33.260
  • OR VISIT JHM.ORG.
  • 00:26:33.260 --> 00:26:35.180
  • PASTOR MATT HAGEE: THANK YOU
  • 00:26:35.180 --> 00:26:37.060
  • FOR BEING A PART OF
  • 00:26:37.060 --> 00:26:38.130
  • OUR PROGRAM TODAY.
  • 00:26:38.130 --> 00:26:39.050
  • I PRAY THAT YOU WERE BLESSED
  • 00:26:39.050 --> 00:26:40.020
  • BY IT.
  • 00:26:40.020 --> 00:26:41.010
  • IF YOU'D LIKE TO FIND OUT MORE
  • 00:26:41.010 --> 00:26:41.280
  • ABOUT JOHN HAGEE MINISTRIES,
  • 00:26:41.280 --> 00:26:43.020
  • YOU CAN DO THAT AT JHM.ORG.
  • 00:26:43.120 --> 00:26:46.120
  • I ALSO WANT TO ENCOURAGE YOU
  • 00:26:46.120 --> 00:26:48.130
  • TO CONSIDER A WAY THAT YOU CAN
  • 00:26:48.130 --> 00:26:49.170
  • SOW A SEED INTO THIS MINISTRY.
  • 00:26:49.170 --> 00:26:51.290
  • AND THANK YOU FOR ALL
  • 00:26:51.290 --> 00:26:53.010
  • WHO HAVE ALREADY DONE SO.
  • 00:26:53.010 --> 00:26:54.270
  • BY PARTICIPATING IN THE VISION
  • 00:26:54.270 --> 00:26:56.130
  • OF JOHN HAGEE MINISTRIES,
  • 00:26:56.130 --> 00:26:57.250
  • YOU ENABLE US TO TAKE
  • 00:26:57.250 --> 00:26:59.120
  • ALL OF THE GOSPEL
  • 00:26:59.120 --> 00:27:00.120
  • TO ALL OF THE WORLD
  • 00:27:00.120 --> 00:27:01.210
  • AND TO EVERY GENERATION
  • 00:27:01.210 --> 00:27:03.130
  • TO TOUCH HUNDREDS OF THOUSANDS
  • 00:27:03.130 --> 00:27:05.000
  • AND EVEN MILLIONS OF LIVES.
  • 00:27:05.000 --> 00:27:06.200
  • AND WITHOUT YOU,
  • 00:27:06.200 --> 00:27:07.210
  • IT SIMPLY WOULD BE POSSIBLE.
  • 00:27:07.210 --> 00:27:09.170
  • GOD BLESS YOU.
  • 00:27:09.170 --> 00:27:10.140
  • AND WE LOOK FORWARD TO SEEING
  • 00:27:10.140 --> 00:27:11.080
  • YOU AGAIN RIGHT HERE
  • 00:27:11.080 --> 00:27:13.000
  • ON THE HILLSONG NETWORK.
  • 00:27:13.000 --> 00:27:14.210
  • PASTOR JOHN HAGEE: THIS
  • 00:27:14.250 --> 00:27:17.250
  • TELECAST HAS BEEN BROUGHT
  • 00:27:17.250 --> 00:27:18.280
  • TO YOU IN ITS ENTIRETY
  • 00:27:18.280 --> 00:27:20.090
  • BY THE FAITHFUL SUPPORT
  • 00:27:20.090 --> 00:27:21.200
  • OF SALT COVENANT PARTNERS
  • 00:27:21.200 --> 00:27:22.290
  • WITH THIS MINISTRY.
  • 00:27:22.290 --> 00:27:24.190
  • THANK YOU, PARTNERS,
  • 00:27:24.190 --> 00:27:25.240
  • FOR YOUR FAITHFUL SUPPORT.
  • 00:27:25.240 --> 00:27:27.190
  • MUSIC
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