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Relationship Goals Part 4

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August 25, 2019
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Casey Treat

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Relationship Goals Part 4

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  • - Pastor Casey Treat: Hi, I'm
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  • Casey Treat.
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  • Thirty-five years ago, I was an
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  • addict with no hope and no
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  • future.
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  • It was then that I realized a
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  • simple truth that changed my
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  • life forever.
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  • The truth is you can change.
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  • Whatever the circumstance, you
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  • can make choices that change
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  • your life forever.
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  • Join me on this journey of
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  • change as we examine living in
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  • our world and finding out what
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  • - Casey Treat: Hey guys, great
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  • to have you with us today for
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  • another exciting broadcast.
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  • I have my main partner with me.
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  • - Wendy Treat: That's right.
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  • - Casey: Wendy Treat.
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  • - Wendy: That's right.
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  • - Casey: Good to have you.
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  • And this month, we're talking
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  • about relationship.
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  • - Wendy: I know and it's so
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  • important to understand the God
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  • principle of relationship.
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  • When you get an understanding of
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  • God's way, it's like, "Oh,
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  • that's what I do, that will
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  • bring about the win."
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  • And that's what we're teaching
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  • about the win, God's way in
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  • relationships.
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  • - Casey: You know, so many
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  • people don't know why they
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  • believe what they believe.
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  • Why do Christians believe in
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  • marriage?
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  • Why do we believe in lasting
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  • marriage, right?
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  • And so, we'll answer those
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  • questions, and we'll make it
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  • practical.
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  • We'll give you some ways you can
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  • overcome the problems because
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  • though we look perfect, we don't
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  • have the perfect marriage.
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  • - Wendy: Yeah, but a good one
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  • because I mean, like we've been
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  • married for over 40 years and
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  • it's because we really have
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  • dived into, "God, how do we have
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  • relationship, not just in
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  • marriage, but in relationships
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  • with people?"
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  • People that you work with,
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  • people that you're building
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  • friendship with, your mom, your
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  • dad, your brothers, your
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  • sisters?
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  • How do you have winning
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  • relationships?
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  • That's what we're talking about
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  • and it's gonna be great.
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  • - Casey: Yeah, you're gonna
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  • love it.
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  • Make sure you go to
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  • caseytreat.com.
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  • You can check out all the
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  • lessons on relationship, as well
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  • as other things there on the
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  • website.
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  • We're always there for you at
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  • caseytreat.com.
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  • And now, here is "Relationship
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  • - male announcer: From
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  • friendships to marriage, we are
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  • always in relationships with the
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  • people around us.
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  • However, not all of these
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  • relationships are healthy.
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  • Receive "Relationship Goals,"
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  • this is a profound series on
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  • how to live life building
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  • healthy, everyday relationships
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  • in your life.
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  • Also, receive "Healing the
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  • Orphaned Heart" by Casey Treat.
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  • As you allow your heart to be
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  • healed and made whole, you will
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  • break the negative cycles such
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  • as short-term relationships,
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  • debt, marriage, and family
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  • problems.
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  • Make a decision today to have a
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  • whole, healthy, healed heart.
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  • Receive both "Relationship
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  • Goals" and "Healing the Orphaned
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  • Heart" with your donation of
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  • Call us today at 800-294-0393.
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  • Also, don't forget to visit
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  • www.caseytreat.com for more
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  • - Casey: The prophet said that
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  • two are better than one.
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  • In other words, that agreement,
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  • that relationship, that
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  • commitment, and that covenant
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  • together will always make you
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  • stronger.
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  • Last thing I'll say about this
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  • question on your commitment, and
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  • I think it just has to do with
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  • does it matter?
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  • Well, what if it's not God's
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  • will, right?
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  • You're married, and you have
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  • decided to be together and then
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  • this thought comes to your mind,
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  • "What if it's not God's will?"
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  • I've had quite a few people say
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  • that to me through the years.
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  • "We were married before we were
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  • Christians.
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  • We met in the bar.
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  • We met at the club.
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  • We weren't living for God, and
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  • we got married."
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  • And now they're both Christians,
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  • and they wonder, "Is it God's
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  • will?"
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  • The fact is made in the likeness
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  • and image of God.
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  • When you said "I do," God said,
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  • "So do I."
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  • In other words, he put his hand
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  • on your marriage.
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  • Now, God wasn't shocked.
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  • God didn't say, "Oh, no, they
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  • married the wrong one.
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  • What am I gonna do?"
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  • No, he saw.
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  • He knows.
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  • Long before you were born he
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  • knew who you would marry even
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  • before you came to him.
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  • He worked that into the plan.
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  • He will bless it.
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  • He will help you.
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  • He will make it work.
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  • Now, if somebody goes and opts
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  • out and leaves, there's nothing
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  • you can do about it.
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  • You get forgiven, you get
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  • restored, you go on, but don't
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  • question and open a back door
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  • that would cause your marriage
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  • to be weakened.
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  • Okay, one more question.
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  • "Do you have agreement or
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  • harmony with your spouse
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  • concerning your visions, your
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  • dreams, your desires, all right?
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  • Have you two gotten in
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  • agreement?"
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  • - Wendy: Right.
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  • Well, do you wanna read that
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  • Scripture?
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  • That I love that Scripture
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  • you're gonna read.
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  • - Casey: Well, Matthew chapter
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  • 18 is always encouraging to us,
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  • because it says, "If two of you
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  • will agree concerning anything
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  • you ask, it shall be done for
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  • you by my Father in heaven."
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  • When Wendy and I pray together
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  • there is supernatural power,
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  • supernatural agreement, and we
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  • have a promise from God whatever
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  • we ask, it shall be done.
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  • The Amplified Bible said it like
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  • this, "If you agree on earth
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  • (harmonize together, make a
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  • symphony together) about
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  • [anything and everything] that
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  • you can ask, it will come to
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  • pass by our Father in heaven."
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  • - Wendy: You know, and getting
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  • in agreement is super hard.
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  • Like, it is an amazing thing in
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  • marriage, and I kinda had this
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  • picture in my mind that came to
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  • me when I was thinking about,
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  • you know, an agreement in
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  • marriage and how do we work this
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  • out and how do we have
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  • conversations to get to this
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  • place of agreement, and this
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  • just little thought came to
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  • mind.
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  • When you get married you don't
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  • see this, but pretend that when
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  • you get married you also carry
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  • into your front room, your place
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  • of--special place with you and
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  • your husband and your wife, and
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  • you walk in the front room, and
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  • you're carrying a thousand-piece
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  • puzzle.
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  • And then, what you do is you
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  • dump that thousand-piece puzzle
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  • on the middle of the floor, and
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  • then your husband, your wife
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  • walks in and they also throw
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  • their thousand-piece puzzle on
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  • the floor.
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  • Now, supernaturally God says
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  • that when you get married you
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  • become one, so that puzzle
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  • supernaturally is now a
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  • 2.000-piece puzzle.
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  • It's not a 1.000-piece.
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  • It's 2--it's 1 puzzle now with
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  • 2.000 pieces, but--
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  • - Casey: This is gonna be a
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  • long day.
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  • - Wendy: It's still 2.000
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  • pieces.
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  • It's still 2.000 pieces.
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  • It's still 2.000 pieces.
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  • That when you first get married
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  • now you've got 2.000 pieces of
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  • puzzles to begin to put together
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  • to create the picture that God
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  • has for you.
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  • It's still gonna take you one
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  • piece at a time, putting the
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  • piece together, and the thing
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  • about--if anybody does puzzles,
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  • which I used to do puzzles all
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  • the time, but puzzles are like
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  • this.
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  • You can have two pieces of
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  • puzzle, and they look very
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  • similar.
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  • Why?
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  • Because they're really close
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  • together, but they don't exactly
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  • fit in the wrong--at the right
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  • place sometimes, so in agreement
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  • of power a lotta times you don't
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  • realize you're working.
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  • You begin in this amazing
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  • marriage relationship, but you
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  • have all these pieces of this
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  • puzzle and too many of us--and I
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  • say this as nicely as possible,
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  • but too many of us are very lazy
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  • in giving space and time to
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  • having that conversation of
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  • life.
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  • Too many of us put our hobbies
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  • above conversation, put our
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  • Instagram and social media above
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  • that.
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  • We put our sports.
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  • We put watching TV.
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  • We put a lotta things above
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  • keeping this healthy, giving it
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  • space and time.
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  • You know, there are some of you
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  • that you just--you have to make
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  • a decision that in order to get
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  • those pieces of puzzle in your
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  • life and getting--consistently
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  • getting those pieces put into
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  • play, consistently building this
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  • puzzle that God has called you
  • 00:08:08.040 --> 00:08:09.240
  • to complete on your time on
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  • Earth, and it takes time.
  • 00:08:11.190 --> 00:08:13.030
  • It takes years and years of
  • 00:08:13.030 --> 00:08:14.120
  • putting this puzzle together,
  • 00:08:14.120 --> 00:08:15.280
  • but some of y'all need to make
  • 00:08:15.280 --> 00:08:17.060
  • certain decisions in your life,
  • 00:08:17.060 --> 00:08:18.220
  • and I would just challenge you
  • 00:08:18.220 --> 00:08:19.190
  • even today that some of you need
  • 00:08:19.190 --> 00:08:20.240
  • to reevaluate some of your extra
  • 00:08:20.240 --> 00:08:23.120
  • things that you're doing.
  • 00:08:23.120 --> 00:08:24.230
  • It's really easy to just sit
  • 00:08:24.230 --> 00:08:26.060
  • down, and you're with your
  • 00:08:26.060 --> 00:08:27.090
  • husband or your wife, and you
  • 00:08:27.090 --> 00:08:28.030
  • also got your phone, so you
  • 00:08:28.030 --> 00:08:29.080
  • actually have three people in
  • 00:08:29.080 --> 00:08:31.240
  • your relationship.
  • 00:08:32.120 --> 00:08:35.120
  • Yeah, yeah.
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  • - Casey: That was, kind of, a
  • 00:08:38.110 --> 00:08:39.020
  • quiet clap.
  • 00:08:39.020 --> 00:08:39.180
  • - Wendy: Yeah, that was a quiet
  • 00:08:39.180 --> 00:08:40.070
  • clap.
  • 00:08:40.070 --> 00:08:41.070
  • That was, "[inaudible]," but you
  • 00:08:41.070 --> 00:08:42.150
  • have three.
  • 00:08:42.150 --> 00:08:43.140
  • As soon as you pull your phone
  • 00:08:43.140 --> 00:08:44.210
  • into any conversation when
  • 00:08:44.210 --> 00:08:46.170
  • you're with a person, you have
  • 00:08:46.170 --> 00:08:47.180
  • added a person, and you've added
  • 00:08:47.180 --> 00:08:49.280
  • an unknown, because the other
  • 00:08:49.280 --> 00:08:51.190
  • person that's in that, in that
  • 00:08:51.190 --> 00:08:53.240
  • room, they don't get to see
  • 00:08:53.240 --> 00:08:54.260
  • what's--what you're talking
  • 00:08:54.260 --> 00:08:55.250
  • about.
  • 00:08:55.250 --> 00:08:56.280
  • They're not in that conversation
  • 00:08:56.280 --> 00:08:58.050
  • when you're on--when you're
  • 00:08:58.050 --> 00:08:59.080
  • holding your phone you've added
  • 00:08:59.080 --> 00:09:00.270
  • a person, but you have not
  • 00:09:00.270 --> 00:09:02.030
  • included the person that's only
  • 00:09:02.030 --> 00:09:04.170
  • looking at you holding that
  • 00:09:04.170 --> 00:09:05.160
  • phone.
  • 00:09:05.160 --> 00:09:07.000
  • So, you have to really be
  • 00:09:07.000 --> 00:09:08.020
  • respectful and think, "You know
  • 00:09:08.020 --> 00:09:09.010
  • what?
  • 00:09:09.010 --> 00:09:09.220
  • Maybe I need to--when I come
  • 00:09:09.220 --> 00:09:10.180
  • home I put my phone--I put it on
  • 00:09:10.180 --> 00:09:11.280
  • the charger, and I leave it
  • 00:09:11.280 --> 00:09:12.260
  • there."
  • 00:09:12.260 --> 00:09:13.220
  • And maybe there are certain
  • 00:09:13.220 --> 00:09:14.200
  • times zones of life that
  • 00:09:14.200 --> 00:09:15.200
  • we--anybody can bring out their
  • 00:09:15.200 --> 00:09:16.270
  • social--you know, your stuff,
  • 00:09:16.270 --> 00:09:19.020
  • but other than that leave it.
  • 00:09:19.020 --> 00:09:20.070
  • Leave it there.
  • 00:09:20.070 --> 00:09:21.250
  • 'Cause why?
  • 00:09:21.250 --> 00:09:22.210
  • Because putting the puzzle is
  • 00:09:22.210 --> 00:09:25.040
  • more important, together, than
  • 00:09:25.040 --> 00:09:27.170
  • me talking or looking at the
  • 00:09:27.170 --> 00:09:29.190
  • glass picture that we posted
  • 00:09:29.190 --> 00:09:31.130
  • that--who cares?
  • 00:09:31.130 --> 00:09:33.050
  • I mean, they only post the best
  • 00:09:33.050 --> 00:09:34.180
  • pictures, anyway.
  • 00:09:34.180 --> 00:09:35.120
  • I mean, come on.
  • 00:09:35.120 --> 00:09:36.090
  • They put all those apps on it
  • 00:09:36.090 --> 00:09:38.110
  • and make it all look good, you
  • 00:09:38.110 --> 00:09:39.200
  • know?
  • 00:09:39.200 --> 00:09:40.130
  • - Casey: I don't even know what
  • 00:09:40.130 --> 00:09:41.020
  • you're talking about because I
  • 00:09:41.020 --> 00:09:42.150
  • never look at that.
  • 00:09:42.150 --> 00:09:45.010
  • Vision.
  • 00:09:45.010 --> 00:09:46.190
  • Are you in agreement?
  • 00:09:46.190 --> 00:09:48.220
  • Purpose.
  • 00:09:48.220 --> 00:09:50.150
  • You know your purpose?
  • 00:09:50.150 --> 00:09:52.030
  • Purpose of your family, purpose
  • 00:09:52.030 --> 00:09:53.080
  • for your future.
  • 00:09:53.080 --> 00:09:55.180
  • Desires.
  • 00:09:55.180 --> 00:09:57.160
  • Are you clear, in agreement on
  • 00:09:57.160 --> 00:09:59.220
  • the things you desire?
  • 00:09:59.220 --> 00:10:01.260
  • I can't tell you how many
  • 00:10:01.260 --> 00:10:02.230
  • husbands have told me their
  • 00:10:02.230 --> 00:10:04.040
  • desires and then said, "I don't
  • 00:10:04.040 --> 00:10:06.170
  • think it will happen because my
  • 00:10:06.170 --> 00:10:07.220
  • wife isn't in agreement."
  • 00:10:07.220 --> 00:10:10.210
  • So, does that mean they're
  • 00:10:10.210 --> 00:10:11.170
  • living their lives sad because
  • 00:10:11.170 --> 00:10:14.130
  • there's no agreement, or they've
  • 00:10:14.130 --> 00:10:16.100
  • just never had the conversation
  • 00:10:16.100 --> 00:10:18.200
  • to find a place of agreement?
  • 00:10:18.200 --> 00:10:21.200
  • So, it's important.
  • 00:10:21.200 --> 00:10:23.030
  • Where there is no vision
  • 00:10:23.030 --> 00:10:24.160
  • marriages perish.
  • 00:10:24.160 --> 00:10:27.050
  • Where there's no agreement of
  • 00:10:27.050 --> 00:10:28.260
  • vision there is di-vision and
  • 00:10:28.260 --> 00:10:31.180
  • division kills vision.
  • 00:10:32.110 --> 00:10:35.110
  • So, find a place.
  • 00:10:35.110 --> 00:10:37.020
  • Find the time.
  • 00:10:37.020 --> 00:10:37.280
  • Like Wendy said, takes a while
  • 00:10:37.280 --> 00:10:40.070
  • to put those pieces together,
  • 00:10:40.070 --> 00:10:42.080
  • but it's worth it because then
  • 00:10:42.080 --> 00:10:43.190
  • you get to live the dream
  • 00:10:43.190 --> 00:10:45.130
  • together and experience the
  • 00:10:45.130 --> 00:10:46.190
  • amazing blessing from God.
  • 00:10:46.190 --> 00:10:48.220
  • All right, here is another
  • 00:10:48.220 --> 00:10:49.160
  • question for you.
  • 00:10:49.160 --> 00:10:51.120
  • "Who taught you what you believe
  • 00:10:51.120 --> 00:10:53.220
  • about marriage and family life?"
  • 00:10:53.290 --> 00:10:56.290
  • That's a good question.
  • 00:10:56.290 --> 00:10:58.220
  • "Who taught you what you
  • 00:10:58.220 --> 00:10:59.170
  • believe?"
  • 00:10:59.170 --> 00:11:00.140
  • Or maybe we could say it like
  • 00:11:00.140 --> 00:11:01.090
  • this: who are you following,
  • 00:11:01.090 --> 00:11:03.240
  • right?
  • 00:11:03.240 --> 00:11:04.150
  • Are you following a popular
  • 00:11:04.150 --> 00:11:06.080
  • television show host?
  • 00:11:06.080 --> 00:11:07.280
  • Are you following "The Big Bang
  • 00:11:07.280 --> 00:11:09.290
  • Theory"?
  • 00:11:09.290 --> 00:11:11.000
  • Are you following Uncle Billy
  • 00:11:11.000 --> 00:11:13.040
  • Bob that had four divorces?
  • 00:11:13.070 --> 00:11:16.070
  • Who are you--who subconsciously
  • 00:11:16.070 --> 00:11:18.270
  • taught you how to be a wife or
  • 00:11:18.270 --> 00:11:21.080
  • how to be a husband or how to be
  • 00:11:21.080 --> 00:11:23.040
  • a mother and a father?
  • 00:11:23.040 --> 00:11:24.250
  • - Wendy: Yeah, and I think the
  • 00:11:24.250 --> 00:11:25.230
  • older you get, the more you see
  • 00:11:25.230 --> 00:11:28.130
  • or hear your mom and dad coming
  • 00:11:28.130 --> 00:11:30.170
  • out of you at different times.
  • 00:11:30.170 --> 00:11:31.250
  • How many of you recognize it?
  • 00:11:31.250 --> 00:11:33.020
  • - Casey: Yeah, that's kinda
  • 00:11:33.020 --> 00:11:33.270
  • scary sometimes, isn't it?
  • 00:11:33.270 --> 00:11:34.290
  • - Wendy: It's scary sometimes.
  • 00:11:34.290 --> 00:11:36.010
  • All of a sudden you say
  • 00:11:36.010 --> 00:11:36.260
  • something, and you're like,
  • 00:11:36.260 --> 00:11:37.250
  • "Oops.
  • 00:11:37.250 --> 00:11:38.190
  • That was so my mom."
  • 00:11:38.190 --> 00:11:39.290
  • Or, "That was so my dad," and I
  • 00:11:39.290 --> 00:11:42.000
  • think it's a really valid thing
  • 00:11:42.000 --> 00:11:43.180
  • to consider and ponder.
  • 00:11:43.180 --> 00:11:45.100
  • Where are you getting your
  • 00:11:45.100 --> 00:11:47.010
  • information from?
  • 00:11:47.010 --> 00:11:48.130
  • Because right now our culture in
  • 00:11:48.130 --> 00:11:50.280
  • our secular world is getting so
  • 00:11:50.280 --> 00:11:52.260
  • much of what they believe off of
  • 00:11:52.260 --> 00:11:55.080
  • just reading wherever you get
  • 00:11:55.080 --> 00:11:56.280
  • your news.
  • 00:11:56.280 --> 00:11:57.260
  • I mean, wherever you get your
  • 00:11:57.260 --> 00:11:58.240
  • news is where so many of us are
  • 00:11:58.240 --> 00:12:00.200
  • getting our basic belief.
  • 00:12:00.200 --> 00:12:02.140
  • We're watching movies.
  • 00:12:02.140 --> 00:12:03.140
  • We're watching the TV shows that
  • 00:12:03.140 --> 00:12:05.000
  • are not written at all from a
  • 00:12:05.000 --> 00:12:07.040
  • biblical perspective.
  • 00:12:07.040 --> 00:12:08.120
  • They're not written at all from
  • 00:12:08.120 --> 00:12:09.140
  • a moral-character perspective.
  • 00:12:09.140 --> 00:12:12.050
  • They're written to entertain us
  • 00:12:12.050 --> 00:12:13.270
  • and to put--as they would say,
  • 00:12:13.270 --> 00:12:15.150
  • generally if you listen to
  • 00:12:15.150 --> 00:12:16.230
  • people in the entertainment and
  • 00:12:16.230 --> 00:12:17.280
  • news people, they try to push
  • 00:12:17.280 --> 00:12:19.120
  • the envelope and have you ever
  • 00:12:19.120 --> 00:12:21.100
  • asked yourself the question what
  • 00:12:21.100 --> 00:12:23.060
  • envelope do they keep trying to
  • 00:12:23.060 --> 00:12:24.100
  • push?
  • 00:12:24.100 --> 00:12:25.290
  • They're trying to push the
  • 00:12:25.290 --> 00:12:27.010
  • envelope of decency and honor
  • 00:12:27.010 --> 00:12:29.140
  • and kindness and forgiveness.
  • 00:12:29.140 --> 00:12:31.050
  • They don't want that.
  • 00:12:31.050 --> 00:12:32.080
  • They wanna push it to be as
  • 00:12:32.080 --> 00:12:34.140
  • nasty and exciting and as out
  • 00:12:34.140 --> 00:12:36.290
  • there as they can get, so we're
  • 00:12:36.290 --> 00:12:39.010
  • watching things that if you
  • 00:12:39.010 --> 00:12:40.180
  • really thought about it you'd
  • 00:12:40.180 --> 00:12:42.140
  • go, "Do I really want that life
  • 00:12:42.140 --> 00:12:44.000
  • that I am watching?"
  • 00:12:44.000 --> 00:12:45.110
  • Well, no, not at all.
  • 00:12:45.110 --> 00:12:46.130
  • "Do I believe what I'm
  • 00:12:46.130 --> 00:12:47.100
  • watching?"
  • 00:12:47.100 --> 00:12:48.030
  • But, no, not at all, but we
  • 00:12:48.030 --> 00:12:49.100
  • watch it, we listen to it, we
  • 00:12:49.100 --> 00:12:50.220
  • read it over and over and over.
  • 00:12:50.220 --> 00:12:52.270
  • So, you're like, "Well, what do
  • 00:12:52.270 --> 00:12:54.030
  • we do?
  • 00:12:54.030 --> 00:12:55.020
  • How do we combat that in our
  • 00:12:55.020 --> 00:12:57.040
  • life?"
  • 00:12:57.040 --> 00:12:57.260
  • Because the results of that is
  • 00:12:57.260 --> 00:13:00.270
  • lack of success.
  • 00:13:00.270 --> 00:13:02.280
  • The results of getting--feeding
  • 00:13:02.280 --> 00:13:04.240
  • that into the computer of your
  • 00:13:04.240 --> 00:13:06.070
  • heart is divorce, is separation,
  • 00:13:06.200 --> 00:13:09.200
  • is loneliness, is unforgiveness.
  • 00:13:09.200 --> 00:13:12.010
  • That's the result of what
  • 00:13:12.010 --> 00:13:13.230
  • that--and I'm always like, well,
  • 00:13:13.230 --> 00:13:15.010
  • the result--whatever you put
  • 00:13:15.010 --> 00:13:17.130
  • into your computer is going to
  • 00:13:17.130 --> 00:13:19.090
  • come out and that's the result
  • 00:13:19.090 --> 00:13:21.000
  • you're gonna get, so my question
  • 00:13:21.000 --> 00:13:22.160
  • is what kinda results do you
  • 00:13:22.160 --> 00:13:24.040
  • want in your life?
  • 00:13:24.040 --> 00:13:25.260
  • Not just this moment of life,
  • 00:13:25.260 --> 00:13:27.260
  • because you have to put into
  • 00:13:27.260 --> 00:13:29.050
  • your computer to get it out in
  • 00:13:29.050 --> 00:13:31.070
  • the next years to come, so I'm
  • 00:13:31.070 --> 00:13:32.220
  • like, "Man, I want successful
  • 00:13:32.220 --> 00:13:35.120
  • marriage, financial life.
  • 00:13:35.120 --> 00:13:36.280
  • I want successful children.
  • 00:13:36.280 --> 00:13:38.070
  • I want successful friendships,"
  • 00:13:38.070 --> 00:13:39.240
  • so I wanna read, listen, and
  • 00:13:39.240 --> 00:13:42.090
  • watch those that have had
  • 00:13:42.090 --> 00:13:44.090
  • success biblically based.
  • 00:13:44.090 --> 00:13:46.060
  • I don't want--and I'm not gonna
  • 00:13:46.060 --> 00:13:47.050
  • listen to somebody that they've
  • 00:13:47.050 --> 00:13:48.140
  • never been married, and they're
  • 00:13:48.140 --> 00:13:49.120
  • teaching me how to be married.
  • 00:13:49.120 --> 00:13:50.240
  • They've never had children, and
  • 00:13:50.240 --> 00:13:51.190
  • they're teaching me how to have
  • 00:13:51.190 --> 00:13:52.130
  • children.
  • 00:13:52.130 --> 00:13:53.040
  • They've never financially
  • 00:13:53.040 --> 00:13:53.280
  • prospered, and they're trying to
  • 00:13:53.280 --> 00:13:55.100
  • convince me how to do it their
  • 00:13:55.100 --> 00:13:56.150
  • financial way, and they're
  • 00:13:56.150 --> 00:13:57.150
  • living out of their car, you
  • 00:13:57.150 --> 00:13:58.220
  • know?
  • 00:13:58.220 --> 00:13:59.140
  • I'm like wait a minute.
  • 00:13:59.140 --> 00:14:01.050
  • Know who you're listening to and
  • 00:14:01.050 --> 00:14:03.140
  • listen wisely, you know?
  • 00:14:03.140 --> 00:14:05.000
  • Get in life groups.
  • 00:14:05.000 --> 00:14:06.120
  • Get in your--get around the
  • 00:14:06.120 --> 00:14:08.020
  • family of God and build
  • 00:14:08.020 --> 00:14:09.150
  • relationships that you encourage
  • 00:14:09.150 --> 00:14:11.210
  • each other in this way of
  • 00:14:11.210 --> 00:14:13.220
  • living, this amazing character
  • 00:14:13.220 --> 00:14:16.030
  • that God has for us.
  • 00:14:16.030 --> 00:14:17.250
  • - Casey: You know, when you
  • 00:14:17.250 --> 00:14:18.220
  • follow a person it's like
  • 00:14:18.220 --> 00:14:19.280
  • following a map, and there's
  • 00:14:19.280 --> 00:14:22.210
  • nothing worse than trying to
  • 00:14:22.240 --> 00:14:25.240
  • follow a map that's not
  • 00:14:25.240 --> 00:14:28.010
  • accurate.
  • 00:14:28.010 --> 00:14:29.170
  • Have you ever done that?
  • 00:14:29.170 --> 00:14:30.150
  • Where, you know, you turn on
  • 00:14:30.150 --> 00:14:31.260
  • your phone and you're following
  • 00:14:31.260 --> 00:14:33.200
  • the map, but something didn't
  • 00:14:33.260 --> 00:14:36.260
  • work right and you ended up in
  • 00:14:36.260 --> 00:14:38.190
  • the wrong place, and it's so
  • 00:14:38.190 --> 00:14:40.010
  • frustrating because you were
  • 00:14:40.010 --> 00:14:41.150
  • trusting the map.
  • 00:14:41.150 --> 00:14:44.010
  • So, you have to look at the
  • 00:14:44.010 --> 00:14:45.080
  • people that you're listening to,
  • 00:14:45.080 --> 00:14:47.170
  • see where they've gone, and then
  • 00:14:47.170 --> 00:14:49.280
  • ask yourself, "Do I wanna go
  • 00:14:49.280 --> 00:14:51.110
  • there?"
  • 00:14:51.110 --> 00:14:52.250
  • It's funny how much of our pop
  • 00:14:52.250 --> 00:14:54.200
  • culture, our popular television
  • 00:14:54.200 --> 00:14:56.260
  • shows, popular hosts are not
  • 00:14:57.040 --> 00:15:00.060
  • married, have not had children,
  • 00:15:00.060 --> 00:15:03.060
  • and yet are giving marriage and
  • 00:15:03.060 --> 00:15:05.060
  • parental advice, right?
  • 00:15:05.060 --> 00:15:07.190
  • Anybody that's wise would say,
  • 00:15:07.190 --> 00:15:10.080
  • "They're not going where I wanna
  • 00:15:10.080 --> 00:15:11.160
  • go.
  • 00:15:11.160 --> 00:15:12.200
  • They're not the map that I want
  • 00:15:12.200 --> 00:15:14.060
  • to follow," but even in our own
  • 00:15:14.060 --> 00:15:16.120
  • families.
  • 00:15:16.120 --> 00:15:17.200
  • I remember an uncle who was very
  • 00:15:17.200 --> 00:15:19.130
  • influential in my life.
  • 00:15:19.130 --> 00:15:21.070
  • He's passed away now, but he
  • 00:15:21.070 --> 00:15:23.120
  • literally was married 14 times.
  • 00:15:25.050 --> 00:15:28.050
  • That's not an exaggeration.
  • 00:15:28.050 --> 00:15:29.210
  • I don't even have to make this
  • 00:15:29.210 --> 00:15:30.210
  • stuff up.
  • 00:15:30.210 --> 00:15:32.060
  • I didn't meet most of his wives
  • 00:15:33.110 --> 00:15:36.110
  • 'cause he had a new one so
  • 00:15:36.110 --> 00:15:37.270
  • often, and he was so friendly
  • 00:15:39.060 --> 00:15:42.060
  • and so outgoing.
  • 00:15:42.060 --> 00:15:43.070
  • I guess so.
  • 00:15:43.070 --> 00:15:44.050
  • He could find a wife in a hurry,
  • 00:15:45.120 --> 00:15:48.120
  • and I always loved him because
  • 00:15:48.120 --> 00:15:49.220
  • he gave the best Christmas
  • 00:15:49.220 --> 00:15:51.060
  • presents, but it didn't take me
  • 00:15:51.060 --> 00:15:54.020
  • long to realize, "You can't
  • 00:15:54.020 --> 00:15:55.130
  • follow that guy, 'cause you're
  • 00:15:55.130 --> 00:15:57.130
  • gonna end up in a disaster."
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  • And maybe you're following
  • 00:15:59.270 --> 00:16:01.040
  • someone that didn't end up in
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  • the blessing and the favor of
  • 00:16:04.080 --> 00:16:05.220
  • God, so you have to ask
  • 00:16:05.220 --> 00:16:07.090
  • yourself, "Where did I learn
  • 00:16:07.090 --> 00:16:09.290
  • about being a wife, about being
  • 00:16:09.290 --> 00:16:12.030
  • a mother, being a husband, being
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  • a father?"
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  • The Scripture is clear.
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  • Husbands, love your wives.
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  • Have you ever been taught how to
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  • love your wife?
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  • Wives, respect your husbands.
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  • Have you ever been taught what
  • 00:16:27.030 --> 00:16:28.120
  • it means to respect?
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  • Parents, bring your children up
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  • in the nurture and admonition of
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  • the Lord.
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  • Have you ever worked it through?
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  • What does that really mean?
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  • We send them out to a public
  • 00:16:39.140 --> 00:16:40.210
  • school, just out into the world.
  • 00:16:40.220 --> 00:16:43.220
  • How do we bring them up in the
  • 00:16:43.220 --> 00:16:45.210
  • nurture and admonition of the
  • 00:16:45.210 --> 00:16:47.130
  • Lord?
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  • So, it's a good question for all
  • 00:16:48.190 --> 00:16:50.050
  • of us to answer for ourselves.
  • 00:16:50.050 --> 00:16:53.050
  • "Who taught me how I'm living?"
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  • Okay, let's go to our last
  • 00:16:56.160 --> 00:16:58.080
  • question.
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  • "Are you good at listening,
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  • understanding, and forgiving?"
  • 00:17:04.160 --> 00:17:07.160
  • Really, you should ask a person
  • 00:17:07.160 --> 00:17:09.150
  • on your first date, 'cause if
  • 00:17:09.150 --> 00:17:12.010
  • they're not good at listening,
  • 00:17:12.010 --> 00:17:14.230
  • understanding, and forgiving
  • 00:17:14.230 --> 00:17:17.050
  • there shouldn't be a second
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  • date.
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  • - Wendy: Well, yeah, yeah,
  • 00:17:19.290 --> 00:17:20.290
  • but--well, maybe.
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  • I'm just gonna say sometimes
  • 00:17:22.180 --> 00:17:23.150
  • you're so young, you're
  • 00:17:23.150 --> 00:17:24.160
  • learning, and you're so nervous.
  • 00:17:24.160 --> 00:17:25.290
  • We're just gonna give
  • 00:17:25.290 --> 00:17:26.220
  • nervousness a little bit of a
  • 00:17:26.220 --> 00:17:27.230
  • moment there, but I do think
  • 00:17:27.230 --> 00:17:29.280
  • those are extremely important,
  • 00:17:29.280 --> 00:17:32.120
  • of understanding what we need to
  • 00:17:32.190 --> 00:17:35.190
  • live the wholeness of our
  • 00:17:35.190 --> 00:17:38.100
  • married life.
  • 00:17:38.100 --> 00:17:39.080
  • I mean, forgiveness is--at first
  • 00:17:39.240 --> 00:17:42.240
  • forgiveness is just kinda like,
  • 00:17:42.240 --> 00:17:44.050
  • yes, forgive, but when you're
  • 00:17:44.050 --> 00:17:45.220
  • married for a long time you can
  • 00:17:45.220 --> 00:17:48.040
  • become very, "I'm complacent."
  • 00:17:48.040 --> 00:17:49.270
  • You can become very warm,
  • 00:17:49.270 --> 00:17:52.110
  • instead of, you know, passionate
  • 00:17:52.110 --> 00:17:54.230
  • about this amazing marriage and
  • 00:17:54.230 --> 00:17:56.240
  • relationship that God has
  • 00:17:56.240 --> 00:17:58.020
  • blessed you with, and I would
  • 00:17:58.020 --> 00:17:59.290
  • say it's one of those kinda
  • 00:17:59.290 --> 00:18:01.080
  • qualities that you have to
  • 00:18:01.080 --> 00:18:02.100
  • on-purpose.
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  • Yeah, you know, you have to
  • 00:18:03.120 --> 00:18:04.190
  • decide, not because they get
  • 00:18:04.190 --> 00:18:05.290
  • worse or they get bad or there
  • 00:18:05.290 --> 00:18:07.210
  • is more of this horrible, bad
  • 00:18:07.210 --> 00:18:08.280
  • sin, but you can just kinda get,
  • 00:18:08.280 --> 00:18:10.280
  • like, martyred the longer you're
  • 00:18:10.280 --> 00:18:12.270
  • married.
  • 00:18:12.270 --> 00:18:13.200
  • I think that I've seen
  • 00:18:13.200 --> 00:18:14.190
  • people--sometimes they get this
  • 00:18:14.190 --> 00:18:15.140
  • martyr image, just kinda like,
  • 00:18:15.140 --> 00:18:16.270
  • "Well, whatever," and then roll
  • 00:18:16.270 --> 00:18:18.130
  • their eyes, and then complain to
  • 00:18:18.130 --> 00:18:20.150
  • their friends or to somebody
  • 00:18:20.150 --> 00:18:22.250
  • that's around them.
  • 00:18:22.250 --> 00:18:23.220
  • And I'm like be careful of
  • 00:18:23.220 --> 00:18:25.170
  • complaints.
  • 00:18:25.170 --> 00:18:27.020
  • Be careful of speaking words
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  • that bring a spot onto your
  • 00:18:29.080 --> 00:18:31.260
  • husband, onto your wife, and
  • 00:18:31.260 --> 00:18:33.040
  • telling your friends about him,
  • 00:18:33.040 --> 00:18:34.190
  • because you go home and make it
  • 00:18:34.190 --> 00:18:36.160
  • okay, but they remember what you
  • 00:18:36.160 --> 00:18:39.120
  • said and that's what they
  • 00:18:39.120 --> 00:18:40.290
  • begin--that's all their image of
  • 00:18:40.290 --> 00:18:42.290
  • this person that you have.
  • 00:18:42.290 --> 00:18:44.120
  • And I'm like that's just--that
  • 00:18:44.120 --> 00:18:45.200
  • it's just not healthy, and I'm
  • 00:18:45.200 --> 00:18:47.000
  • like forgiveness is so
  • 00:18:47.000 --> 00:18:48.020
  • important.
  • 00:18:48.020 --> 00:18:49.030
  • That you decide.
  • 00:18:49.030 --> 00:18:50.090
  • Every single day you decide, "I
  • 00:18:50.090 --> 00:18:51.200
  • live with a spirit of
  • 00:18:51.200 --> 00:18:52.180
  • forgiveness," but I think
  • 00:18:52.180 --> 00:18:53.240
  • another thing that I really
  • 00:18:53.240 --> 00:18:55.050
  • believe in our society, in our
  • 00:18:55.050 --> 00:18:57.190
  • world today is kindness.
  • 00:18:57.190 --> 00:19:00.190
  • I think in marriage kindness is
  • 00:19:00.190 --> 00:19:02.240
  • important.
  • 00:19:02.240 --> 00:19:03.200
  • That we're kind.
  • 00:19:03.200 --> 00:19:05.210
  • It's sweet.
  • 00:19:05.210 --> 00:19:07.260
  • It's like, "I wanna help you.
  • 00:19:07.260 --> 00:19:10.160
  • I wanna--I sacrifice for you.
  • 00:19:10.160 --> 00:19:12.220
  • Oh, I'll help you with that."
  • 00:19:12.220 --> 00:19:13.260
  • Or, "I'll get up.
  • 00:19:13.260 --> 00:19:15.030
  • I'll move that.
  • 00:19:15.030 --> 00:19:16.280
  • I'll do this.
  • 00:19:16.280 --> 00:19:18.070
  • It's not comfortable for me.
  • 00:19:18.070 --> 00:19:19.260
  • I wanna be kind to help you."
  • 00:19:19.260 --> 00:19:22.040
  • And I would say for us that live
  • 00:19:22.040 --> 00:19:23.210
  • in the Northwest, you know, a
  • 00:19:23.210 --> 00:19:25.060
  • couple of weeks ago that report
  • 00:19:25.060 --> 00:19:26.150
  • came out.
  • 00:19:26.150 --> 00:19:27.180
  • That it's called Frozen Seattle.
  • 00:19:27.180 --> 00:19:29.270
  • You know, they do all these
  • 00:19:29.270 --> 00:19:30.210
  • studies about big cities, and
  • 00:19:30.210 --> 00:19:31.250
  • Seattle is called the "frozen
  • 00:19:31.250 --> 00:19:34.050
  • area" and that's not positive.
  • 00:19:34.050 --> 00:19:36.120
  • It's because no one is nice or
  • 00:19:36.120 --> 00:19:38.010
  • kind.
  • 00:19:38.010 --> 00:19:38.250
  • No one cares.
  • 00:19:38.250 --> 00:19:39.200
  • They don't wanna be your friend.
  • 00:19:39.200 --> 00:19:40.200
  • They're like, "I don't care.
  • 00:19:40.200 --> 00:19:41.190
  • Don't wanna be your friend."
  • 00:19:41.190 --> 00:19:42.160
  • And I thought this is where we
  • 00:19:42.160 --> 00:19:44.150
  • live, church.
  • 00:19:44.150 --> 00:19:45.220
  • Our mission field is called the
  • 00:19:45.220 --> 00:19:47.180
  • frozen area, and I thought,
  • 00:19:47.180 --> 00:19:49.200
  • "Yes, we--you know, we're just
  • 00:19:49.200 --> 00:19:51.170
  • in this place."
  • 00:19:51.170 --> 00:19:52.130
  • It's good to kinda identify
  • 00:19:52.130 --> 00:19:53.100
  • where you're at because it kinda
  • 00:19:53.100 --> 00:19:55.010
  • clarifies where many of us have
  • 00:19:55.010 --> 00:19:56.290
  • been, you know, kinda frozen by
  • 00:19:56.290 --> 00:19:58.180
  • people, but God's Spirit is
  • 00:19:58.180 --> 00:20:01.120
  • kindness and love, and it breaks
  • 00:20:01.120 --> 00:20:03.050
  • through that ice that the devil
  • 00:20:03.050 --> 00:20:06.000
  • sets up in people's heart, but
  • 00:20:06.000 --> 00:20:07.210
  • it starts at home.
  • 00:20:07.210 --> 00:20:09.110
  • Every good thing starts with you
  • 00:20:09.110 --> 00:20:12.010
  • in the most intimate
  • 00:20:12.010 --> 00:20:13.040
  • relationships of your life, that
  • 00:20:13.040 --> 00:20:14.290
  • you're kind to the person that
  • 00:20:14.290 --> 00:20:16.090
  • you're married to, that you go
  • 00:20:16.090 --> 00:20:18.080
  • out of your way to do things,
  • 00:20:18.080 --> 00:20:20.180
  • instead of be lazy, and just do
  • 00:20:20.180 --> 00:20:22.100
  • it yourself, you know?
  • 00:20:22.100 --> 00:20:23.190
  • Just do it yourself.
  • 00:20:23.190 --> 00:20:24.220
  • Like, there is this place of
  • 00:20:24.220 --> 00:20:25.290
  • forgiveness and kindness that I
  • 00:20:25.290 --> 00:20:27.130
  • think bring--keeps that passion
  • 00:20:27.130 --> 00:20:29.240
  • in your marriage, keeps that
  • 00:20:29.240 --> 00:20:31.090
  • sweetness in your marriage, that
  • 00:20:31.090 --> 00:20:33.120
  • you just on purpose do nice
  • 00:20:33.120 --> 00:20:35.220
  • things.
  • 00:20:35.220 --> 00:20:37.000
  • - Casey: Yeah, amen.
  • 00:20:37.000 --> 00:20:38.090
  • We can thaw out the frozen
  • 00:20:38.090 --> 00:20:40.240
  • Seattle, right?
  • 00:20:40.240 --> 00:20:43.190
  • Bring the warmth of God's love.
  • 00:20:44.290 --> 00:20:47.290
  • How many were here when Bishop
  • 00:20:47.290 --> 00:20:49.160
  • Jakes was with us and taught
  • 00:20:49.160 --> 00:20:52.110
  • from his book called "Let It
  • 00:20:52.110 --> 00:20:53.240
  • Go"?
  • 00:20:53.240 --> 00:20:55.120
  • Let it go.
  • 00:20:55.120 --> 00:20:56.070
  • That's a great motto for life.
  • 00:20:56.070 --> 00:20:58.070
  • I'm not gonna hold grudges.
  • 00:20:58.070 --> 00:20:59.220
  • I'm not gonna remember
  • 00:20:59.220 --> 00:21:00.280
  • everything you did wrong.
  • 00:21:00.280 --> 00:21:02.150
  • I'm not gonna say "you always"
  • 00:21:02.150 --> 00:21:04.000
  • and "you never."
  • 00:21:04.000 --> 00:21:05.060
  • I'm gonna let it go so that I
  • 00:21:05.060 --> 00:21:07.100
  • can listen, understand, and
  • 00:21:08.130 --> 00:21:11.130
  • forgive.
  • 00:21:11.130 --> 00:21:13.130
  • And there's another great
  • 00:21:13.130 --> 00:21:15.040
  • author that wrote a book called
  • 00:21:15.040 --> 00:21:17.090
  • "Let It Go."
  • 00:21:17.090 --> 00:21:18.080
  • She also did a movie called
  • 00:21:18.080 --> 00:21:19.190
  • "Frozen."
  • 00:21:19.190 --> 00:21:21.040
  • Have you read Elsa's book "Let
  • 00:21:21.040 --> 00:21:23.070
  • It Go"?
  • 00:21:23.070 --> 00:21:24.150
  • Do you know why you cannot give
  • 00:21:24.150 --> 00:21:26.100
  • Elsa a helium balloon?
  • 00:21:26.100 --> 00:21:29.090
  • Because she will--
  • 00:21:29.090 --> 00:21:30.070
  • Let it go
  • 00:21:30.070 --> 00:21:31.260
  • Let it go
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  • Can't hold back anymore
  • 00:21:34.190 --> 00:21:37.190
  • Here is your Scripture.
  • 00:21:37.190 --> 00:21:38.130
  • James chapter 1.
  • 00:21:38.130 --> 00:21:40.240
  • "So, my beloved brethren, let
  • 00:21:40.240 --> 00:21:42.120
  • every man be swift to hear."
  • 00:21:42.260 --> 00:21:45.260
  • Boy, that's a good one, isn't
  • 00:21:45.260 --> 00:21:46.210
  • it?
  • 00:21:46.210 --> 00:21:47.180
  • "Swift to hear, slow to speak,
  • 00:21:48.280 --> 00:21:51.280
  • and slow to wrath; for the wrath
  • 00:21:51.290 --> 00:21:54.290
  • of man does not produce the
  • 00:21:54.290 --> 00:21:57.200
  • righteousness of God."
  • 00:21:57.200 --> 00:21:59.020
  • Every time you're angry,
  • 00:21:59.020 --> 00:22:01.180
  • frustrated, upset with your
  • 00:22:01.180 --> 00:22:03.030
  • spouse just remember, "This is
  • 00:22:03.030 --> 00:22:05.170
  • not producing the favor of God.
  • 00:22:05.170 --> 00:22:08.160
  • This is producing more negative
  • 00:22:08.160 --> 00:22:11.110
  • in my life, so I wanna be swift
  • 00:22:11.160 --> 00:22:14.160
  • to hear, slow to speak, and slow
  • 00:22:15.040 --> 00:22:18.040
  • to wrath."
  • 00:22:18.040 --> 00:22:20.050
  • 1 Peter chapter 3, "Husbands,
  • 00:22:20.050 --> 00:22:23.020
  • dwell with your wife with
  • 00:22:23.020 --> 00:22:24.180
  • understanding, that your prayers
  • 00:22:25.050 --> 00:22:28.050
  • be not hindered."
  • 00:22:28.050 --> 00:22:30.250
  • Maybe some of us are not
  • 00:22:30.250 --> 00:22:32.080
  • receiving what God has for us
  • 00:22:32.080 --> 00:22:34.170
  • because we're not walking in
  • 00:22:34.170 --> 00:22:36.290
  • that forgiveness and that
  • 00:22:36.290 --> 00:22:38.250
  • understanding that God calls us
  • 00:22:38.250 --> 00:22:40.270
  • to.
  • 00:22:40.270 --> 00:22:41.220
  • All right, last word, Wendy,
  • 00:22:41.220 --> 00:22:42.290
  • before we're outta time.
  • 00:22:42.290 --> 00:22:44.060
  • - Wendy: Well, I wanna say to
  • 00:22:44.060 --> 00:22:45.010
  • Mill Creek and Federal Way
  • 00:22:45.010 --> 00:22:46.020
  • campus and livestream across is
  • 00:22:46.020 --> 00:22:47.120
  • that God wants us to have
  • 00:22:47.120 --> 00:22:49.250
  • something that is amazing and
  • 00:22:50.020 --> 00:22:53.020
  • that is fulfilling, not perfect,
  • 00:22:53.020 --> 00:22:55.030
  • 'cause there's no such thing as
  • 00:22:55.030 --> 00:22:56.110
  • a marriage that's perfect.
  • 00:22:56.110 --> 00:22:57.150
  • There is no such marriage that
  • 00:22:57.150 --> 00:22:59.080
  • doesn't have arguments or
  • 00:22:59.080 --> 00:23:00.180
  • challenges, 'cause you take
  • 00:23:00.180 --> 00:23:01.250
  • those 2.000 puzzle pieces and
  • 00:23:01.250 --> 00:23:04.210
  • you begin to move those and make
  • 00:23:04.210 --> 00:23:06.140
  • them, you realize there's
  • 00:23:06.140 --> 00:23:07.200
  • conflict in making them fit
  • 00:23:07.200 --> 00:23:09.070
  • well.
  • 00:23:09.070 --> 00:23:09.290
  • There is conflict in getting the
  • 00:23:09.290 --> 00:23:11.050
  • right piece at the right time.
  • 00:23:11.050 --> 00:23:12.190
  • There is all kinds of things
  • 00:23:12.190 --> 00:23:14.110
  • that happen in marriage, and
  • 00:23:14.110 --> 00:23:16.050
  • there is all kinds of things
  • 00:23:16.050 --> 00:23:17.030
  • that happen in your marriage,
  • 00:23:17.030 --> 00:23:18.030
  • and we just really wanna
  • 00:23:18.030 --> 00:23:19.120
  • encourage you to keep fighting
  • 00:23:19.170 --> 00:23:22.170
  • for what God has for you.
  • 00:23:22.170 --> 00:23:24.030
  • You that aren't married and
  • 00:23:24.030 --> 00:23:25.040
  • you've had really sad situations
  • 00:23:25.040 --> 00:23:27.050
  • in your past, we believe that
  • 00:23:27.050 --> 00:23:29.240
  • the redemption power of God
  • 00:23:29.240 --> 00:23:31.200
  • brings forgiveness and a
  • 00:23:31.200 --> 00:23:32.220
  • wholeness in a whole new way.
  • 00:23:32.220 --> 00:23:34.270
  • And that God--you have all this
  • 00:23:34.270 --> 00:23:36.210
  • stuff in your past, and you
  • 00:23:36.210 --> 00:23:38.140
  • think, "Well, I've just blown
  • 00:23:38.140 --> 00:23:39.140
  • it.
  • 00:23:39.140 --> 00:23:40.060
  • I can never have something in my
  • 00:23:40.060 --> 00:23:40.280
  • future."
  • 00:23:40.280 --> 00:23:41.230
  • Yes, you can.
  • 00:23:41.230 --> 00:23:42.240
  • You can--we believe that God can
  • 00:23:42.240 --> 00:23:45.110
  • have the most amazing person
  • 00:23:45.110 --> 00:23:47.050
  • come into your life and world.
  • 00:23:47.050 --> 00:23:48.140
  • You can marry 'em and create
  • 00:23:48.140 --> 00:23:49.120
  • something that is so beautiful
  • 00:23:49.120 --> 00:23:50.290
  • even in the last part of your
  • 00:23:50.290 --> 00:23:52.100
  • life.
  • 00:23:52.100 --> 00:23:53.080
  • There is never without hope, but
  • 00:23:53.080 --> 00:23:54.280
  • we are for you to have the best
  • 00:23:54.280 --> 00:23:56.120
  • relationships, friendships,
  • 00:23:56.120 --> 00:23:58.060
  • marriage relationship, have the
  • 00:23:58.060 --> 00:23:59.280
  • best things at your work, 'cause
  • 00:23:59.280 --> 00:24:01.030
  • all these principles are true in
  • 00:24:01.030 --> 00:24:02.160
  • life, that we as believers we
  • 00:24:02.160 --> 00:24:05.080
  • live kind.
  • 00:24:05.080 --> 00:24:06.190
  • We live forgiving.
  • 00:24:06.190 --> 00:24:07.270
  • We live with understanding.
  • 00:24:07.270 --> 00:24:09.150
  • We live with a redemption
  • 00:24:09.150 --> 00:24:10.160
  • understanding that people are
  • 00:24:10.160 --> 00:24:12.230
  • not perfect and that we give
  • 00:24:12.230 --> 00:24:14.080
  • grace to people in building
  • 00:24:14.080 --> 00:24:16.150
  • relationships all around us,
  • 00:24:16.150 --> 00:24:18.110
  • because without Casey's grace to
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  • me in our marriage I just--I
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  • don't know what would have
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  • happened.
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  • His grace and his mercy and his
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  • love and his kindness, because
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  • I've sure been irritable.
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  • I've sure been angry.
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  • I have sure been out of order.
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  • I have sure just slapped him
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  • down when he had a really good
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  • idea.
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  • I didn't believe in him all the
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  • time.
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  • That has been true in our
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  • marriage, but he didn't just
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  • say, "Oh, well, I'm not gonna be
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  • around her anymore because she's
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  • just too negative."
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  • No, grace, love, and mercy were
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  • given and out of that comes
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  • back, like, this sense of, wow,
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  • we can do this together.
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  • We can put those pieces together
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  • and continue on and have what
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  • God wants us to have, and so
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  • does God have that for each and
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  • every one of us.
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  • - Casey: Amen.
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  • All right, let's pray.
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  • Thank you, Father, for every
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  • father here today, for every
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  • husband, every wife.
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  • We pray for our marriages.
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  • We pray for our families.
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  • We believe, God, that you are
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  • working, you are healing, you
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  • are helping in Jesus' name.
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  • -Casey: Well, we're praying
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  • that these Scriptures, these
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  • truths, this message on
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  • relationship's gonna help you,
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  • right, and that's why we do what
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  • we do.
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  • We want to help people make a
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  • difference in your life, make
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  • your message better, make your
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  • life better.
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  • It's possible when you follow
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  • God's way.
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  • - Wendy: Yeah, and, you know,
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  • we get it that relationships
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  • have a lot of different like
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  • hard spots and challenges.
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  • And sometimes you kind of feel
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  • like, "Man, I'm trying to do
  • 00:25:53.090 --> 00:25:54.070
  • this alone and I'm frustrated, I
  • 00:25:54.070 --> 00:25:56.140
  • got my feelings hurt, or I feel
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  • abandoned."
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  • But God does have a pathway of
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  • relationships and if you learn
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  • God's pathway, which we were
  • 00:26:04.060 --> 00:26:05.150
  • just talking about, it's like
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  • you begin to feel the wind in
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  • your life and not be a victim,
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  • but be a person that lives in
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  • victory of having these great
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  • God relationships in your life.
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  • We're so glad that you joined in
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  • with us.
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  • - Casey: Yeah, choose not to be
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  • a victim.
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  • Choose to overcome and get
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  • better and get to what God
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  • really wants for you, which is
  • 00:26:23.170 --> 00:26:25.250
  • abundant life, right?
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  • That's his will for your
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  • marriage, for every part of your
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  • life, abundant life.
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  • He has that planned for you.
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