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Love One Another As I Have Loved You: Marriage

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February 13, 2018
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Matthew Hagee

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Love One Another As I Have Loved You: Marriage

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  • MUSIC
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  • JOHN HAGEE MINISTRIES HAS BEEN
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  • REACHING OUT TO MILLIONS
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  • OF PEOPLE WORLDWIDE EVERY WEEK,
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  • DELIVERING ALL THE GOSPEL
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  • MUSIC
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  • TO ALL THE WORLD
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  • MUSIC
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  • AND TO ALL GENERATIONS.
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  • MUSIC
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  • PASTOR MATT HAGEE: AND THE TRUTH
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  • IS YOU MAY HAVE
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  • SOME VERY LEGITIMATE NEEDS IN
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  • THAT MARRIAGE, AND YOU MAY HAVE
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  • SOME VERY SERIOUS THINGS THAT
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  • NEED TO BE WORKED ON.
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  • BUT THE POINT IS IF YOU'RE
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  • GOING TO LOVE LIKE GOD LOVED,
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  • IF HE LOVED YOU WHEN YOU
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  • WEREN'T RIGHT, THEN YOU'VE GOT
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  • TO LOVE THEM WHEN THEY'RE NOT
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  • RIGHT, BECAUSE THIS KIND OF
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  • LOVE IS A HEALING KIND OF LOVE.
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  • THIS KIND OF LOVE IS
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  • SACRIFICIAL.
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  • SACRIFICIAL LOVE MAKES ALL
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  • THINGS POSSIBLE.
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  • SACRIFICIAL LOVE IS BUILT ON
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  • THE WORD OF GOD.
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  • PSALM 127:1, IT SAYS: UNLESS
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  • THE LORD BUILD THE HOUSE, THEY
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  • LABOR IN VAIN WHO BUILD IT.
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  • YOU JUST HEARD A TESTIMONY FROM
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  • A COUPLE THAT WAS TRYING TO
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  • BUILD THEIR HOUSE, THEIR
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  • MARRIAGE RELATIONSHIP, WITHOUT
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  • THE WORD OF GOD IN IT.
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  • BUT WHENEVER THEY SURRENDERED
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  • THEIR LIVES TO CHRIST,
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  • THEY BEGAN TO GROW IN HIS WORD.
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  • AND THEN THEY BUILT THEIR
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  • MARRIAGE UPON HIS WORD.
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  • AND NOW --
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  • HOW MANY YEARS IS IT, TRAIL?
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  • NORMAN TRAIL: TWENTY YEARS.
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  • PASTOR MATTHEW HAGEE: TWENTY
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  • YEARS, TWO DECADES.
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  • GIVE THE LORD A HANDCLAP OF
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  • PRAISE.
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  • (APPLAUSE)
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  • NOW YOU GAVE GOD A HANDCLAP OF
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  • PRAISE FOR 20 YEARS OF MARRIAGE.
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  • GIVE TUJWANDA A HANDCLAP OF
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  • APPLAUSE FOR LIVING WITH TRAIL
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  • THAT LONG.
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  • (LAUGHTER & APPLAUSE)
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  • BUILD YOUR HOUSE UPON THE WORD
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  • OF GOD.
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  • WHAT DOES THAT MEAN?
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  • THAT MEANS BUILD THE COVENANT
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  • RELATIONSHIP THAT YOU HAVE
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  • BASED ON GOD'S DEFINITION OF
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  • MARRIAGE.
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  • BUILD YOUR RELATIONSHIPS WITH
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  • YOUR CHILDREN BASED ON GOD'S
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  • DEFINITION OF PARENTING.
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  • BUILD YOUR RELATIONSHIP ABOUT
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  • FINANCES, BASED ON WHAT GOD
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  • SAYS YOU SHOULD DO WITH YOUR
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  • FINANCES.
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  • BUILD YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH
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  • OTHERS BASED ON HOW GOD SAYS
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  • THAT YOU SHOULD BUILD YOUR
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  • RELATIONSHIP WITH OTHERS.
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  • GOD SAYS, WHEN IT COMES TO
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  • MARRIAGE THAT YOUR SPOUSE IS
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  • FIRST AND EVERYONE AROUND YOU
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  • IS LAST.
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  • REMEMBER THIS; YOU GOT MARRIED,
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  • NOT BECAUSE YOU HAD KIDS.
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  • YOU GOT MARRIED SO YOU COULD
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  • HAVE KIDS.
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  • THAT MEANS THAT WIVES, FROM
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  • TIME TO TIME, HAVE TO RECOGNIZE
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  • THAT THEIR HUSBAND IS NOT THEIR
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  • THIRD CHILD.
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  • I GET TO HEAR THAT ALL THE
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  • TIME.
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  • AND IT'S A VERY DISPARAGING
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  • STATEMENT EVEN THOUGH IT'S
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  • OFTEN SAID TONGUE AND CHEEK.
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  • HOW MANY KIDS DO YOU HAVE?
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  • WELL, FOUR IF YOU INCLUDE MY
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  • HUSBAND.
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  • (LAUGHTER)
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  • HAH, HAH, HAH, HAH, HAH.
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  • SO THE FOURTH ONE PAYS ALL THE
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  • BILLS?
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  • (LAUGHTER)
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  • YOU SEE Y'ALL ARE IN THIS
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  • TOGETHER OR Y'ALL AREN'T IN IT
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  • AT ALL.
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  • YOU'VE GOT TO LOVE
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  • SACRIFICIALLY,
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  • NOT BASED ON SOCIAL STATUS,
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  • NOT BASED ON PUBLIC OPINION,
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  • NOT BASED ON MATERIALISM.
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  • YOU'VE GOT TO BUILD EACH OTHER
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  • EVERY DAY, BECAUSE GOD HAS
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  • BROUGHT YOU TOGETHER FOR SUCH A
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  • REASON.
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  • SO WHERE DOES THIS KIND OF LOVE
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  • IN A MARRIAGE RELATIONSHIP
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  • BEGIN?
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  • YOUNG MAN, SIR, MISTER, DAD,
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  • IT STARTS WITH YOU.
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  • 1 CORINTHIANS 11:3, PAUL WRITES
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  • TO THE CORINTHIAN CHURCH.
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  • HE SAYS: I WANT YOU TO KNOW THE
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  • HEAD OF EVERY MAN IS CHRIST.
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  • SAY THAT WITH ME, THE HEAD OF
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  • EVERY MAN IS CHRIST.
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  • AND THE HEAD OF EVERY WOMAN IS
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  • THE HUSBAND.
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  • GOD DOESN'T BEGIN BY PUTTING
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  • HIM IN CHARGE OF HER.
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  • GOD BEGINS BY PUTTING THE MAN
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  • UNDERNEATH CHRIST.
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  • AND IN ORDER FOR A HUSBAND TO
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  • EXPECT HIS WIFE TO SUBMIT TO
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  • HIM, HE FIRST MUST SUBMIT
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  • HIMSELF TO THE LORD
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  • JESUS CHRIST.
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  • IF YOU'RE NOT WALKING IN PROPER
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  • SUBMISSION,
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  • HOW CAN YOU EXPECT HER TO DO
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  • WHAT YOU WILL NOT DO?
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  • WHY SHOULD SHE FOLLOW YOU IF
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  • YOU WON'T FOLLOW JESUS CHRIST?
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  • YOU'RE NOT SUBMITTED TO HIM
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  • SPIRITUALLY;
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  • YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO ASK HER
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  • TO FOLLOW YOU SPIRITUALLY.
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  • YOU'RE NOT SUBMITTED TO HIM
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  • FINANCIALLY;
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  • YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO ASK HER TO
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  • FOLLOW YOU FINANCIALLY.
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  • YOU'RE NOT LIVING A PHYSICALLY
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  • SUBJECTED LIFE TO HIM;
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  • YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO ASK HER TO
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  • PHYSICALLY SUBJECT HER LIFE.
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  • YOU SAY, WELL, IT'S MINE.
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  • NO, IT'S NOT.
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  • IT'S YOURS, BECAUSE THE BIBLE
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  • SAYS: GOD SEES BOTH OF YOU OR
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  • HE SEES NEITHER OF YOU.
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  • YOU SAY, SO HOW DO I DO THAT?
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  • FIRST, YOU MUST RECOGNIZE THAT
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  • SUBMISSION IS HOW YOU
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  • ACCOMPLISH THE MISSION.
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  • SAY THAT WITH ME, SUBMISSION IS
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  • HOW YOU ACCOMPLISH THE MISSION.
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  • JUST A FEW MOMENTS AGO,
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  • WE WERE TALKING ABOUT HOW MUCH
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  • GOD LOVES US.
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  • AND WE OFTEN HEAR ABOUT THE
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  • LOVE OF GOD IN OUR MODERN WORLD.
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  • PEOPLE SAY, WELL, IN SPITE OF
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  • OUR FAULTS, GOD LOVES US.
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  • THAT'S TRUE.
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  • GOD HAS ALWAYS DEMONSTRATED HIS
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  • LOVE FOR US.
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  • THE QUESTION THAT WE HAVE TO
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  • ASK AND ANSWER FOR OURSELVES
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  • IS: DO WE LOVE GOD ENOUGH TO
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  • QUIT?
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  • AND WHENEVER IT COMES TO
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  • HUSBANDS, THEY SHOULD ASK
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  • THEMSELVES THE SAME QUESTIONS
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  • ABOUT THEIR WIVES.
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  • DO WE LOVE OUR WIVES ENOUGH TO
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  • QUIT?
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  • BECAUSE WHEN YOU STOOD AND YOU
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  • GAVE THOSE VOWS,
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  • THAT'S EXACTLY WHAT YOU SAID.
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  • IT MIGHT HAVE SOUNDED A LOT
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  • PRETTIER AND MORE POETIC, BUT
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  • WHAT YOU BASICALLY SAID IS, I
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  • LOVE YOU ENOUGH THAT I'M GOING
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  • TO QUIT BEING THE MAN I USED TO
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  • BE AND I'M GOING TO BE THE MAN
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  • YOU NEED ME TO BE.
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  • (APPLAUSE)
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  • NOW THAT WAS PRETTY HALF
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  • HEARTED FROM THE GUYS AND IT
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  • WAS DEAD SILENT FROM THE GIRLS.
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  • DON'T WORRY; WE'VE GOT A LOT OF
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  • ROWING TO GO.
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  • (LAUGHTER)
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  • SUBMISSION IS HOW YOU
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  • ACCOMPLISH THE MISSION.
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  • JESUS CHRIST SUBMITTED HIMSELF
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  • TO GOD THE FATHER AND HE
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  • ACCOMPLISHED THE MISSION OF
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  • REDEEMING MANKIND.
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  • IN ORDER FOR MEN TO ACCOMPLISH
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  • THEIR JOB IN THE HOME,
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  • THEY MUST THEY MUST SUBMIT
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  • THEMSELVES TO JESUS CHRIST.
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  • IN ORDER FOR THE WIFE TO
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  • ACCOMPLISH HER MISSION IN THE
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  • HOME,
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  • SHE MUST SUBMIT HERSELF TO
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  • THE HUSBAND.
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  • ONCE A MAN SUBMITS TO CHRIST,
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  • HE HAS NO PROBLEM LIVING A LIFE
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  • OF SACRIFICIAL LOVE, BECAUSE
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  • THAT KIND OF LOVE LEADS TO A
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  • SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE.
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  • WHAT DOES SACRIFICIAL LOVE
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  • LOOK LIKE?
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  • I'LL GIVE YOU SOME PRACTICAL
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  • POINTS.
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  • YOU DON'T FIT YOUR WIFE INTO
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  • YOUR SCHEDULE;
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  • YOU PUT HER AT THE TOP OF THE
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  • SCHEDULE.
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  • OH, BABY, I'M JUST TOO BUSY
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  • TODAY.
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  • YOU MAY BE TOO BUSY FOR
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  • EVERYBODY ELSE,
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  • BUT SHE'S NOT NORMAL;
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  • YOU TREAT HER BETTER THAN
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  • NORMAL.
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  • YOU'RE NOT TOO BUSY FOR HER.
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  • YOU SAY, WELL I JUST DON'T KNOW
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  • IF I CAN DO THAT.
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  • SURE YOU CAN.
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  • HEB'S GIVEN YOU A GREAT
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  • ADVERTISING, "GO HOME A HERO."
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  • YOU EVER HEARD THAT ONE?
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  • YOU'RE LEAVING FROM WORK; PICK
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  • UP THE PHONE AND SAY, HEY,
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  • BABE, I'M ON MY WAY HOME FROM
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  • WORK.
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  • CAN I GET YOU ANYTHING AT THE
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  • STORE?
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  • OH, AIN'T THAT --
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  • AIN'T THAT JUST ROMANTIC TALK?
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  • (LAUGHTER)
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  • YOU KNOW WHAT SHE'LL SAY MOST
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  • OF THE TIME?
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  • NO, I'M FINE.
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  • BUT DO YOU KNOW WHAT YOU GOT
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  • CREDIT FOR?
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  • PUTTING HER AT THE TOP OF THE
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  • SCHEDULE.
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  • NOW GUESS WHAT.
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  • IF SHE SAYS, YES, YOU CAN GET
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  • BREAD, AND YOU CAN GET PICKLES,
  • 00:07:11.190 --> 00:07:12.280
  • AND YOU CAN GET CHEESE, AND YOU
  • 00:07:12.280 --> 00:07:14.060
  • CAN GET MILK, AND YOU CAN ALSO
  • 00:07:14.060 --> 00:07:15.230
  • GET THIS, AND YOU CAN ALSO GET
  • 00:07:15.230 --> 00:07:17.030
  • THAT, THAT'S WHENEVER YOU SAY,
  • 00:07:17.030 --> 00:07:18.160
  • BABY, I NEED YOU TO TEXT ME
  • 00:07:18.160 --> 00:07:20.100
  • BECAUSE I'M ABOUT TO HAVE A
  • 00:07:20.100 --> 00:07:21.100
  • WRECK.
  • 00:07:21.100 --> 00:07:22.250
  • (LAUGHTER & APPLAUSE)
  • 00:07:22.250 --> 00:07:24.230
  • AND THEN PULL THE BATTERY OUT
  • 00:07:24.230 --> 00:07:27.180
  • OF THE BACK OF YOUR PHONE AND
  • 00:07:27.180 --> 00:07:28.260
  • MAKE SURE IT'S NOT WORKING
  • 00:07:28.260 --> 00:07:30.020
  • WHENEVER THE --
  • 00:07:30.020 --> 00:07:30.270
  • NO, I'M KIDDING.
  • 00:07:30.270 --> 00:07:32.150
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:07:32.150 --> 00:07:34.000
  • YOU PUT HER AT THE FIRST OF
  • 00:07:37.010 --> 00:07:40.010
  • EVERYTHING,
  • 00:07:40.010 --> 00:07:40.250
  • NOT JUST THE SCHEDULE.
  • 00:07:40.250 --> 00:07:42.020
  • YOU PUT HER AT THE FIRST OF ALL
  • 00:07:42.020 --> 00:07:43.210
  • THINGS, BECAUSE YOU WANT HER TO
  • 00:07:43.210 --> 00:07:46.040
  • KNOW THAT THERE ISN'T ANYTHING
  • 00:07:46.040 --> 00:07:47.260
  • ABOUT HER THAT'S ORDINARY.
  • 00:07:47.260 --> 00:07:49.280
  • IN YOUR LIFE,
  • 00:07:49.280 --> 00:07:51.050
  • SHE'S EXTRAORDINARY.
  • 00:07:51.220 --> 00:07:54.220
  • THAT'S WHAT HAPPENS IN
  • 00:07:54.220 --> 00:07:55.230
  • EPHESIANS 5:26 WHENEVER WE READ
  • 00:07:55.230 --> 00:07:57.290
  • ABOUT JESUS CHRIST SANCTIFYING
  • 00:07:57.290 --> 00:08:00.060
  • THE CHURCH WITH THE WASHING OF
  • 00:08:00.060 --> 00:08:01.160
  • THE WATER OF HIS WORD.
  • 00:08:01.160 --> 00:08:02.220
  • WE ARE TO SANCTIFY OUR WIVES
  • 00:08:02.220 --> 00:08:04.200
  • BY SETTING THEM APART, LETTING
  • 00:08:04.200 --> 00:08:06.120
  • THEM KNOW THAT THERE ISN'T
  • 00:08:06.120 --> 00:08:07.230
  • ANYTHING NORMAL ABOUT THEM;
  • 00:08:07.230 --> 00:08:09.160
  • THEY ARE EVERYTHING US.
  • 00:08:09.160 --> 00:08:12.150
  • THEY'RE ONE OF A KIND,
  • 00:08:12.150 --> 00:08:13.180
  • THE RAREST OF TREASURES,
  • 00:08:13.180 --> 00:08:14.240
  • THE MOST PRICELESS OF GEMS;
  • 00:08:14.240 --> 00:08:17.140
  • THAT IT IS YOUR HIGH HONOR AND
  • 00:08:17.140 --> 00:08:19.040
  • PRIVILEGE TO BE HER HUSBAND.
  • 00:08:20.130 --> 00:08:23.130
  • AS A MATTER OF FACT, IF YOU
  • 00:08:23.130 --> 00:08:24.180
  • JUST WANT TO SCORE A QUICK
  • 00:08:24.180 --> 00:08:25.150
  • POINT, JUST LOOK AT HER AND SAY,
  • 00:08:25.150 --> 00:08:26.290
  • IT'S MY PRIVILEGE TO LOVE YOU.
  • 00:08:26.290 --> 00:08:28.240
  • GO AHEAD.
  • 00:08:28.240 --> 00:08:29.290
  • IT'S MY PRIVILEGE TO LOVE YOU.
  • 00:08:29.290 --> 00:08:32.030
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:08:32.030 --> 00:08:33.040
  • DON'T WORRY; THESE ARE ALL
  • 00:08:33.040 --> 00:08:34.160
  • FREE TIPS RIGHT HERE, GUYS.
  • 00:08:34.160 --> 00:08:35.150
  • YOU CAN BUY THE TAPE AND PUT
  • 00:08:35.150 --> 00:08:37.180
  • THEM IN AN ILLUSTRATED SERMON
  • 00:08:37.180 --> 00:08:39.070
  • LATER.
  • 00:08:39.070 --> 00:08:39.230
  • IT'LL BE GREAT.
  • 00:08:39.230 --> 00:08:41.060
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:08:41.060 --> 00:08:42.180
  • NOW AFTER YOU GIVE HER
  • 00:08:42.180 --> 00:08:44.210
  • SACRIFICIAL LOVE, WHICH PUTS
  • 00:08:44.210 --> 00:08:45.280
  • HER AT THE TOP OF YOUR PRIORITY
  • 00:08:45.280 --> 00:08:47.060
  • LIST, THE IMPORTANT THING THAT
  • 00:08:47.060 --> 00:08:48.210
  • YOU NEED TO RECOGNIZE IS THAT
  • 00:08:48.210 --> 00:08:50.000
  • THE BIBLE REQUIRES THAT WE
  • 00:08:50.000 --> 00:08:51.070
  • DWELL TOGETHER WITH
  • 00:08:51.070 --> 00:08:52.080
  • UNDERSTANDING.
  • 00:08:52.080 --> 00:08:54.130
  • THAT'S A COMMAND THAT WE'RE
  • 00:08:54.130 --> 00:08:55.080
  • GIVEN BY PETER TO THE NEW
  • 00:08:55.080 --> 00:08:56.260
  • TESTAMENT CHURCH.
  • 00:08:56.260 --> 00:08:58.090
  • THERE ARE TWO THINGS THAT EVERY
  • 00:08:58.090 --> 00:08:59.260
  • MAN SHOULD DEVOTE HIS LIFE TO
  • 00:08:59.260 --> 00:09:02.040
  • STUDYING.
  • 00:09:02.040 --> 00:09:03.100
  • ONE IS THE WORD OF GOD;
  • 00:09:03.100 --> 00:09:05.270
  • THE OTHER IS HIS WIFE, BECAUSE
  • 00:09:05.270 --> 00:09:08.210
  • IT WILL TAKE AN ETERNITY FOR
  • 00:09:08.210 --> 00:09:10.060
  • YOU TO GRASP BOTH OF THEM.
  • 00:09:10.150 --> 00:09:13.150
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:09:13.150 --> 00:09:15.130
  • NOW HERE'S WHAT IT MEANS TO
  • 00:09:15.130 --> 00:09:16.190
  • STUDY.
  • 00:09:16.190 --> 00:09:17.270
  • (APPLAUSE)
  • 00:09:17.270 --> 00:09:19.180
  • WHEN YOU STUDY SOMETHING, YOU
  • 00:09:19.220 --> 00:09:22.220
  • DO NOT JUST TAKE A GLANCE AT IT
  • 00:09:22.220 --> 00:09:25.180
  • WHILE EVERYTHING ELSE IN YOUR
  • 00:09:25.180 --> 00:09:26.290
  • LIFE IS TAKING PLACE.
  • 00:09:26.290 --> 00:09:29.180
  • AS A PASTOR, WHEN I STUDY THE
  • 00:09:29.180 --> 00:09:31.030
  • WORD OF GOD, IT NEEDS TO BE
  • 00:09:31.030 --> 00:09:32.230
  • QUIET AND I DO NOT NEED TO BE
  • 00:09:32.230 --> 00:09:34.180
  • DISTRACTED BECAUSE I AM HAVING
  • 00:09:34.180 --> 00:09:36.160
  • AN INTENSE CONVERSATION IN
  • 00:09:36.160 --> 00:09:38.040
  • WHICH I'M ASKING GOD TO SHOW ME
  • 00:09:38.040 --> 00:09:40.080
  • SOMETHING.
  • 00:09:40.080 --> 00:09:41.280
  • SO IF THAT'S HOW I STUDY THE
  • 00:09:41.280 --> 00:09:43.030
  • WORD, THEN WHEN IT COMES TIME
  • 00:09:43.030 --> 00:09:44.270
  • FOR ME TO STUDY MY WIFE,
  • 00:09:44.270 --> 00:09:46.190
  • I CANNOT JUST ASK HER TO BE A
  • 00:09:46.190 --> 00:09:49.000
  • PART OF ALL OF THE CHAOS THAT'S
  • 00:09:49.000 --> 00:09:50.190
  • HAPPENING AROUND ME.
  • 00:09:50.190 --> 00:09:51.220
  • I'VE GOT TO TAKE TIME, SET IT
  • 00:09:51.220 --> 00:09:53.160
  • ASIDE, AND I'VE GOT TO FOCUS ON
  • 00:09:53.160 --> 00:09:55.180
  • HER, WHICH MEANS THAT WHENEVER
  • 00:09:56.100 --> 00:09:59.100
  • THE KIDS GO TO BED, WE DON'T
  • 00:09:59.100 --> 00:10:01.020
  • TURN ON THE TV AND GET OUT OUR
  • 00:10:01.020 --> 00:10:02.240
  • CELL PHONES AND GO, LIKE, LIKE,
  • 00:10:02.240 --> 00:10:05.120
  • SHARE, LIKE; OH, LOOK WHAT THEY
  • 00:10:05.120 --> 00:10:07.250
  • DID; LIKE, LIKE, SHARE, LIKE.
  • 00:10:08.240 --> 00:10:11.240
  • THAT'S NOT STUDYING;
  • 00:10:11.240 --> 00:10:12.280
  • THAT'S COHABITATING.
  • 00:10:12.280 --> 00:10:15.240
  • STUDYING IS WHENEVER YOU PUT
  • 00:10:15.240 --> 00:10:17.010
  • ALL THAT STUFF ASIDE, AND YOU
  • 00:10:17.010 --> 00:10:18.240
  • LOOK AT THEM, AND YOU SAY,
  • 00:10:18.240 --> 00:10:19.290
  • HOW WAS YOUR DAY?
  • 00:10:19.290 --> 00:10:22.060
  • AND YOU HAVE WHAT THE OLD FOLKS
  • 00:10:22.060 --> 00:10:23.130
  • CALL "A CONVERSATION"
  • 00:10:23.250 --> 00:10:26.250
  • WHERE YOU USE WORDS,
  • 00:10:26.250 --> 00:10:29.240
  • NOT HASHTAGS.
  • 00:10:29.240 --> 00:10:31.180
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:10:31.180 --> 00:10:33.020
  • BECAUSE IT'S HERE WHERE YOU
  • 00:10:33.220 --> 00:10:36.220
  • BEGIN TO DWELL TOGETHER WITH
  • 00:10:36.220 --> 00:10:38.210
  • UNDERSTANDING.
  • 00:10:38.210 --> 00:10:40.200
  • HERE WAS ONE OF THE GREATEST
  • 00:10:40.200 --> 00:10:41.180
  • REVELATIONS THAT EVER CAME TO
  • 00:10:41.180 --> 00:10:42.250
  • ME IN MY MARRIAGE.
  • 00:10:42.250 --> 00:10:44.090
  • THERE ARE TIMES WHEN MY WIFE
  • 00:10:44.090 --> 00:10:45.280
  • JUST WANTS ME TO LISTEN.
  • 00:10:48.100 --> 00:10:51.100
  • WHEW.
  • 00:10:51.100 --> 00:10:52.280
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:10:52.280 --> 00:10:54.170
  • HERE'S WHY THAT'S HARD;
  • 00:10:55.270 --> 00:10:58.270
  • BECAUSE I LIKE TO SOLVE
  • 00:10:58.270 --> 00:11:01.010
  • PROBLEMS.
  • 00:11:01.010 --> 00:11:02.250
  • OH, I ENJOY IT.
  • 00:11:02.250 --> 00:11:03.290
  • YOU COME TO ME, AND YOU SAY,
  • 00:11:03.290 --> 00:11:05.030
  • "I'VE GOT A PROBLEM, PASTOR";
  • 00:11:05.030 --> 00:11:06.180
  • I'M ALL EARS.
  • 00:11:06.180 --> 00:11:08.150
  • YOU COME TO ME, AND YOU SAY,
  • 00:11:08.150 --> 00:11:09.190
  • "I'VE GOT SOMETHING WE NEED TO
  • 00:11:09.190 --> 00:11:10.210
  • FIGURE OUT"; I LOVE TO FIGURE
  • 00:11:10.210 --> 00:11:12.240
  • IT OUT.
  • 00:11:12.240 --> 00:11:13.110
  • BUT THERE ARE TIMES WHEN MY
  • 00:11:13.110 --> 00:11:14.230
  • WIFE JUST WANTS ME TO LISTEN.
  • 00:11:17.250 --> 00:11:20.250
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:11:20.250 --> 00:11:21.290
  • I'M LIKE A LABRADOR WITH A
  • 00:11:21.290 --> 00:11:23.100
  • PROBLEM TO A TENNIS BALL.
  • 00:11:23.100 --> 00:11:25.100
  • YOU PULL OUT A PROBLEM, I'M
  • 00:11:25.100 --> 00:11:26.100
  • LIKE A LAB LOOKING AT A BALL.
  • 00:11:26.100 --> 00:11:27.100
  • I'M GOING, THROW IT, THROW IT,
  • 00:11:27.100 --> 00:11:29.250
  • THROW IT, THROW IT.
  • 00:11:29.250 --> 00:11:31.210
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:11:31.210 --> 00:11:32.270
  • YOU THROW THE PROBLEM,
  • 00:11:32.270 --> 00:11:34.170
  • I GO GET THE PROBLEM,
  • 00:11:34.170 --> 00:11:35.250
  • I SOLVE THE PROBLEM,
  • 00:11:35.250 --> 00:11:36.270
  • I BRING IT BACK.
  • 00:11:36.270 --> 00:11:38.230
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:11:38.230 --> 00:11:39.220
  • AND WHEN KENDAL SAYS, "I JUST
  • 00:11:39.220 --> 00:11:41.010
  • WANT YOU TO LISTEN," SHE PULLS
  • 00:11:41.010 --> 00:11:42.110
  • OUT THIS TENNIS BALL, AND SHE
  • 00:11:42.110 --> 00:11:44.050
  • SHOWS IT TO ME, AND SHE THROWS
  • 00:11:44.050 --> 00:11:46.070
  • IT.
  • 00:11:46.070 --> 00:11:46.260
  • AND AFTER I GO TRY TO GET IT,
  • 00:11:46.260 --> 00:11:48.070
  • SHE SAYS, "STAY."
  • 00:11:48.070 --> 00:11:50.250
  • (LAUGHTER & APPLAUSE)
  • 00:11:50.250 --> 00:11:53.070
  • AND I GO --
  • 00:11:53.070 --> 00:11:54.210
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:11:54.210 --> 00:11:56.210
  • -- LET ME GO GET THE PROBLEM.
  • 00:11:56.210 --> 00:11:59.200
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:11:59.200 --> 00:12:00.290
  • AND IT TOOK US A WHILE,
  • 00:12:02.180 --> 00:12:05.180
  • BECAUSE WE USED TO ARGUE ABOUT
  • 00:12:05.180 --> 00:12:06.250
  • THIS.
  • 00:12:06.250 --> 00:12:08.140
  • I'D SAY, YOU'RE NOT LISTENING
  • 00:12:08.140 --> 00:12:09.140
  • TO ME.
  • 00:12:09.140 --> 00:12:09.260
  • AND SHE SAYS, I DON'T WANT TO
  • 00:12:09.260 --> 00:12:10.220
  • LISTEN TO YOU; I WANT YOU TO
  • 00:12:10.220 --> 00:12:11.200
  • LISTEN TO ME.
  • 00:12:11.200 --> 00:12:13.110
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:12:13.110 --> 00:12:14.210
  • AND THEN IT CLICKED.
  • 00:12:14.210 --> 00:12:17.060
  • SHE DOESN'T WANT EVERY PROBLEM
  • 00:12:17.060 --> 00:12:18.100
  • TO BE SOLVED.
  • 00:12:18.100 --> 00:12:19.060
  • SHE JUST WANTS SOMEBODY TO TELL
  • 00:12:19.060 --> 00:12:20.090
  • THAT PROBLEM TO.
  • 00:12:20.090 --> 00:12:21.140
  • AND IF THAT'S ME, I SHOULD
  • 00:12:21.140 --> 00:12:22.280
  • ACCEPT THE PRIVILEGE OF BEING
  • 00:12:22.280 --> 00:12:24.210
  • THAT PERSON.
  • 00:12:24.210 --> 00:12:27.000
  • THAT'S NOT MY RESPONSIBILITY TO
  • 00:12:27.000 --> 00:12:28.080
  • TELL HER,
  • 00:12:28.080 --> 00:12:29.010
  • YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW MUCH I
  • 00:12:29.010 --> 00:12:30.170
  • ENJOY SOLVING THAT PROBLEM.
  • 00:12:31.080 --> 00:12:34.080
  • IT'S MY RESPONSIBILITY TO DWELL
  • 00:12:34.080 --> 00:12:35.120
  • WITH HER ACCORDING TO
  • 00:12:35.120 --> 00:12:36.110
  • UNDERSTANDING AND KNOW WHEN SHE
  • 00:12:36.110 --> 00:12:37.200
  • JUST NEEDS ME TO LISTEN.
  • 00:12:37.200 --> 00:12:40.040
  • YOU SAY, WELL WHERE DOES THAT
  • 00:12:40.040 --> 00:12:41.100
  • COME INTO YOUR FAVOR?
  • 00:12:41.100 --> 00:12:42.070
  • BECAUSE IF I'M LEARNING HOW TO
  • 00:12:42.070 --> 00:12:43.210
  • LISTEN TO HER,
  • 00:12:43.210 --> 00:12:44.280
  • THEN SHE'LL LEARN HOW TO
  • 00:12:44.280 --> 00:12:45.230
  • FOLLOW ME.
  • 00:12:45.230 --> 00:12:46.140
  • AND WHEN IT COMES TIME THAT I
  • 00:12:46.140 --> 00:12:47.150
  • SAY, "HEY, I KNOW THAT YOU NEED
  • 00:12:47.150 --> 00:12:49.050
  • SOMEBODY TO LISTEN, BUT WE ALSO
  • 00:12:49.050 --> 00:12:50.090
  • HAVE TO SOLVE THAT,"
  • 00:12:50.090 --> 00:12:51.160
  • THEN WE CAN GO DO WHAT REALLY
  • 00:12:51.160 --> 00:12:52.170
  • NEEDS TO BE DONE.
  • 00:12:52.170 --> 00:12:55.090
  • THAT'S HOW YOU DWELL TOGETHER
  • 00:12:55.090 --> 00:12:56.240
  • ACCORDING TO UNDERSTANDING.
  • 00:12:56.240 --> 00:12:58.040
  • IT BEGINS WITH THE MAN.
  • 00:12:58.040 --> 00:12:59.180
  • HE HAS GOT TO SUBMIT HIMSELF TO
  • 00:12:59.180 --> 00:13:02.150
  • CHRIST BEFORE HIS WIFE IS
  • 00:13:02.150 --> 00:13:05.150
  • EXPECTED TO SUBMIT HERSELF TO
  • 00:13:05.150 --> 00:13:08.000
  • HIM.
  • 00:13:08.000 --> 00:13:09.220
  • NOW THAT DOESN'T MEAN THAT
  • 00:13:09.220 --> 00:13:10.180
  • WOMEN ARE NOT GIVEN
  • 00:13:10.180 --> 00:13:12.080
  • RESPONSIBILITY IN MARRIAGE.
  • 00:13:12.080 --> 00:13:13.210
  • REMEMBER, YOU'RE ONTOLOGICAL
  • 00:13:13.210 --> 00:13:15.050
  • EQUALS.
  • 00:13:15.050 --> 00:13:16.010
  • YOU ARE DIFFERENT BUT YOU'RE
  • 00:13:16.010 --> 00:13:17.280
  • THE SAME.
  • 00:13:17.280 --> 00:13:18.170
  • IF GOD HAS A ROLE FOR HIM,
  • 00:13:18.170 --> 00:13:20.020
  • HE'S GOT A ROLE FOR YOU.
  • 00:13:20.020 --> 00:13:22.120
  • AND THE ROLE THAT HE HAS FOR A
  • 00:13:22.120 --> 00:13:23.220
  • WIFE IS THAT SHE IS TO BE HIS
  • 00:13:23.220 --> 00:13:26.120
  • HELP MATE, NOT HIS HINDRANCE.
  • 00:13:26.140 --> 00:13:29.140
  • SHE IS TO BE HIS COMPLEMENT,
  • 00:13:29.140 --> 00:13:31.160
  • NOT HIS COMPETITOR.
  • 00:13:31.160 --> 00:13:33.210
  • 1 CORINTHIANS 11:3, IT SAYS:
  • 00:13:33.210 --> 00:13:35.080
  • THE HEAD OF A WOMAN IS MAN.
  • 00:13:35.080 --> 00:13:38.060
  • SAY THAT WITH ME, THE HEAD OF A
  • 00:13:38.060 --> 00:13:40.170
  • WOMAN --
  • 00:13:40.170 --> 00:13:41.230
  • (-- IS A MAN.)
  • 00:13:41.230 --> 00:13:42.250
  • JUST MAKING SURE IT DIDN'T GET
  • 00:13:42.250 --> 00:13:43.170
  • STUCK IN YOUR THROAT.
  • 00:13:43.170 --> 00:13:44.190
  • MUSIC
  • 00:13:44.190 --> 00:13:44.290
  • STAY TUNED FOR THE CONCLUSION
  • 00:13:44.290 --> 00:13:45.280
  • OF TODAY'S SERMON
  • 00:13:45.280 --> 00:13:46.290
  • BY PASTOR MATT HAGEE.
  • 00:13:46.290 --> 00:13:49.040
  • WHETHER YOU ARE NEWLY MARRIED
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  • OR CELEBRATING A MILESTONE
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  • ANNIVERSARY,
  • 00:13:52.130 --> 00:13:53.120
  • GOD DESIRES YOUR MARRIAGE
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  • TO PROSPER.
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  • AND "WHAT EVERY MAN WANTS
  • 00:14:08.220 --> 00:14:10.000
  • IN A WOMAN AND WHAT EVERY WOMAN
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  • BEAUTY,
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  • UNDENIABLE HISTORY,
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  • SPIRITUAL ENERGY MANY FEEL
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  • MUSIC
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  • AND NOW, THE CONCLUSION OF
  • 00:14:50.010 --> 00:14:51.050
  • PASTOR MATT HAGEE'S SERMON.
  • 00:14:51.050 --> 00:14:53.080
  • MUSIC
  • 00:14:53.080 --> 00:14:53.220
  • PSALM 128:3 IT DESCRIBES A
  • 00:14:53.220 --> 00:14:55.270
  • RIGHTEOUS WIFE.
  • 00:14:55.270 --> 00:14:56.240
  • IT SAYS THAT SHE, A RIGHTEOUS
  • 00:14:56.240 --> 00:14:58.030
  • WOMAN, IS LIKE A FRUITFUL VINE,
  • 00:14:58.030 --> 00:15:00.130
  • AND THE CHILDREN ARE LIKE OLIVE
  • 00:15:00.130 --> 00:15:01.250
  • PLANTS.
  • 00:15:01.250 --> 00:15:02.130
  • IT'S A BEAUTIFUL PICTURE OF HOW
  • 00:15:02.130 --> 00:15:04.110
  • PRODUCTIVE A GOD-CENTERED
  • 00:15:04.110 --> 00:15:06.070
  • RELATIONSHIP CAN BE.
  • 00:15:06.070 --> 00:15:07.220
  • AND SOMETIMES WHAT WE NEED TO
  • 00:15:07.220 --> 00:15:08.280
  • ASK OURSELVES IS: IS THE
  • 00:15:08.280 --> 00:15:10.260
  • QUALITY OF FRUIT EQUAL TO THE
  • 00:15:10.260 --> 00:15:12.210
  • QUALITY OF CARE?
  • 00:15:12.210 --> 00:15:15.030
  • IF YOUR HUSBAND IS GIVING YOU
  • 00:15:15.030 --> 00:15:16.120
  • QUALITY CARE, WIFE, DO YOU
  • 00:15:16.120 --> 00:15:18.210
  • PRODUCE WHAT GOD EXPECTS YOU TO
  • 00:15:18.210 --> 00:15:21.000
  • PRODUCE?
  • 00:15:21.000 --> 00:15:22.100
  • DOES HE TREAT YOU LIKE A
  • 00:15:22.100 --> 00:15:23.210
  • DIAMOND?
  • 00:15:23.210 --> 00:15:24.190
  • THEN SHINE; DON'T ACT LIKE A
  • 00:15:24.190 --> 00:15:26.180
  • LUMP OF COAL.
  • 00:15:26.180 --> 00:15:29.060
  • JUST AS MAN NEEDS TO HAVE A
  • 00:15:29.060 --> 00:15:30.180
  • PROPER PERSPECTIVE OF HIS ROLE
  • 00:15:30.180 --> 00:15:32.160
  • WHERE HE IS SUBMITTED TO THE
  • 00:15:32.160 --> 00:15:33.230
  • KING,
  • 00:15:33.230 --> 00:15:34.110
  • EVERY WIFE MUST HAVE A PROPER
  • 00:15:34.110 --> 00:15:35.280
  • PERSPECTIVE OF HER ROLE.
  • 00:15:35.280 --> 00:15:38.160
  • GOD GAVE YOU A ROLE.
  • 00:15:38.160 --> 00:15:41.090
  • GENESIS 1:28, IT SAYS: HE
  • 00:15:41.090 --> 00:15:43.130
  • BLESSED THEM.
  • 00:15:43.130 --> 00:15:44.130
  • HE CREATED THEM MALE AND
  • 00:15:44.130 --> 00:15:46.070
  • FEMALE, AND HE BLESSED -- WHO?
  • 00:15:46.070 --> 00:15:48.240
  • -- THEM.
  • 00:15:48.240 --> 00:15:49.290
  • IF GOD WANTED THIS BLESSING TO
  • 00:15:49.290 --> 00:15:51.160
  • COME FROM YOUR HUSBAND TO YOU,
  • 00:15:51.160 --> 00:15:53.140
  • IT WOULD SAY THAT GOD BLESSED
  • 00:15:53.140 --> 00:15:54.240
  • HIM AND TOLD HIM TO BLESS HER.
  • 00:15:55.100 --> 00:15:58.100
  • BUT GOD BLESSED THEM AND HE
  • 00:15:58.100 --> 00:16:01.050
  • SAID: BE FRUITFUL AND MULTIPLY.
  • 00:16:02.020 --> 00:16:05.020
  • THE BLESSING OF GOD IS
  • 00:16:05.020 --> 00:16:06.000
  • DISTRIBUTED EQUALLY WHEN A
  • 00:16:06.000 --> 00:16:07.170
  • GODLY WIFE IS SUBMITTED TO A
  • 00:16:07.170 --> 00:16:09.120
  • GODLY HUSBAND.
  • 00:16:09.120 --> 00:16:11.080
  • REMEMBER SUBMISSION IS HOW YOU
  • 00:16:11.080 --> 00:16:13.180
  • ACCOMPLISH THE MISSION.
  • 00:16:13.180 --> 00:16:16.100
  • SO HERE IS WHAT THE BIBLE SAYS
  • 00:16:16.100 --> 00:16:17.120
  • ABOUT SUBMISSION FOR A WIFE.
  • 00:16:17.120 --> 00:16:19.030
  • IT SAYS: AS IT WAS IN FORMER
  • 00:16:19.030 --> 00:16:21.230
  • TIMES, EVERY WIFE SHOULD SUBMIT
  • 00:16:25.160 --> 00:16:28.160
  • TO HER OWN HUSBANDS.
  • 00:16:29.210 --> 00:16:32.210
  • WHICH HUSBAND IS SHE TO SUBMIT
  • 00:16:32.210 --> 00:16:34.080
  • TO?
  • 00:16:34.080 --> 00:16:35.130
  • HER -- HER --
  • 00:16:36.160 --> 00:16:39.160
  • -- OWN, NOT SALLY'S.
  • 00:16:42.110 --> 00:16:45.110
  • SALLY'S HUSBAND TAKES HER OUT
  • 00:16:45.110 --> 00:16:46.180
  • EVERY FRIDAY.
  • 00:16:46.180 --> 00:16:48.190
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:16:48.190 --> 00:16:50.060
  • NOT JANIE'S. JANIE'S HUSBAND
  • 00:16:50.290 --> 00:16:53.290
  • WENT AND GOT HER A NEW CAR.
  • 00:16:55.090 --> 00:16:58.090
  • NOT SUE'S. SUE'S HUSBAND
  • 00:16:58.090 --> 00:17:00.230
  • KNOWS HOW TO DANCE.
  • 00:17:00.230 --> 00:17:02.140
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:17:02.140 --> 00:17:04.200
  • BUT TO HER OWN HUSBAND.
  • 00:17:06.150 --> 00:17:09.150
  • WHY?
  • 00:17:09.150 --> 00:17:11.010
  • BECAUSE THAT'S THE ONE YOU
  • 00:17:11.010 --> 00:17:12.020
  • PICKED.
  • 00:17:12.020 --> 00:17:14.110
  • EVERY CROOKED POT HAS A CROOKED
  • 00:17:14.110 --> 00:17:17.010
  • LID.
  • 00:17:17.010 --> 00:17:18.160
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:17:18.160 --> 00:17:20.040
  • YOU CHOSE HIM.
  • 00:17:20.040 --> 00:17:22.160
  • YOU WEREN'T ASSIGNED HIM ON THE
  • 00:17:22.160 --> 00:17:23.270
  • DAY THAT THEY PICKED NUMBERS.
  • 00:17:23.270 --> 00:17:25.140
  • YOU PICKED HIM OUT.
  • 00:17:25.140 --> 00:17:27.080
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:17:27.080 --> 00:17:28.180
  • THIS IS SOMETHING THAT YOU
  • 00:17:30.160 --> 00:17:33.160
  • NEED TOO UNDERSTAND CREATES A
  • 00:17:33.210 --> 00:17:36.210
  • GREAT BLESSING IN YOUR LIFE.
  • 00:17:37.180 --> 00:17:40.180
  • WHEN YOU SUBMIT TO YOUR OWN
  • 00:17:40.180 --> 00:17:41.220
  • HUSBAND, RECOGNIZE WHAT 1 PETER
  • 00:17:41.220 --> 00:17:43.150
  • SAYS, "AS IT WAS IN FORMER
  • 00:17:43.150 --> 00:17:45.070
  • TIMES." HE GOES BACK AND HE
  • 00:17:45.070 --> 00:17:47.130
  • PICKS OUT THE MOTHER OF ALL
  • 00:17:47.130 --> 00:17:50.060
  • MOTHERS, SARAH, THE WIFE OF ALL
  • 00:17:51.120 --> 00:17:54.120
  • WIVES, THE LADY OF ALL LADIES
  • 00:17:54.170 --> 00:17:57.170
  • IN THE JEWISH CULTURE; THE ONE
  • 00:17:57.170 --> 00:17:59.030
  • WHO BROUGHT ISAAC, WHO THEN
  • 00:17:59.030 --> 00:18:01.000
  • GAVE JACOB; AND JACOB, WHO HAD
  • 00:18:01.000 --> 00:18:02.230
  • THE TWELVE SONS FROM WHICH
  • 00:18:02.230 --> 00:18:04.160
  • ISRAEL WAS FORMED.
  • 00:18:04.160 --> 00:18:06.100
  • WHEN YOU WANT TO FIND THE
  • 00:18:06.100 --> 00:18:08.000
  • EXAMPLE OF ALL EXAMPLES IN
  • 00:18:08.000 --> 00:18:10.010
  • HEBREW, YOU GO BACK TO SARAH.
  • 00:18:10.010 --> 00:18:12.140
  • AND HERE'S WHAT IT SAYS ABOUT
  • 00:18:12.140 --> 00:18:13.270
  • SARAH.
  • 00:18:13.270 --> 00:18:15.210
  • SARAH SUBMITTED HERSELF TO
  • 00:18:16.080 --> 00:18:19.080
  • ABRAHAM.
  • 00:18:19.080 --> 00:18:22.050
  • WHEN THEY FACED IMPOSSIBILITIES,
  • 00:18:22.170 --> 00:18:25.170
  • SARAH DIDN'T REMIND ABRAHAM
  • 00:18:25.170 --> 00:18:27.180
  • WHAT SHE TOLD HIM FIVE YEARS
  • 00:18:27.180 --> 00:18:29.140
  • AGO.
  • 00:18:29.140 --> 00:18:32.090
  • WHEN THEY FACED CIRCUMSTANCES
  • 00:18:32.090 --> 00:18:33.270
  • THAT DIDN'T MAKE SENSE, SARAH
  • 00:18:33.270 --> 00:18:36.150
  • DIDN'T GO TO FACEBOOK AND POST
  • 00:18:36.150 --> 00:18:38.240
  • "HAVING A BAD DAY."
  • 00:18:38.240 --> 00:18:40.270
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:18:40.270 --> 00:18:42.150
  • WHEN IT SEEMED LIKE THEIR
  • 00:18:42.150 --> 00:18:44.000
  • RELATIONSHIP WAS NO LONGER
  • 00:18:44.000 --> 00:18:45.240
  • PRODUCTIVE, 1 PETER 3:6, IT
  • 00:18:46.160 --> 00:18:49.160
  • SAYS: SARAH OBEYED ABRAHAM,
  • 00:18:49.160 --> 00:18:52.140
  • CALLING HIM "LORD."
  • 00:18:53.150 --> 00:18:56.150
  • SHE WILLFULLY SUBMITTED
  • 00:18:56.150 --> 00:18:58.040
  • HERSELF TO THIS MAN.
  • 00:18:58.150 --> 00:19:01.170
  • NOT ONLY DID SHE SUBMIT
  • 00:19:01.170 --> 00:19:02.270
  • HERSELF, BUT SHE REVERED HIM.
  • 00:19:03.070 --> 00:19:06.070
  • YOU SAY, HOW DO YOU KNOW THAT?
  • 00:19:06.070 --> 00:19:07.070
  • SHE CALLED HIM "LORD."
  • 00:19:07.070 --> 00:19:09.270
  • THAT MEANS THAT SHE GAVE HIM
  • 00:19:09.270 --> 00:19:11.020
  • A TITLE OF HONOR.
  • 00:19:11.020 --> 00:19:12.070
  • SHE DIDN'T SAY, HEY, YOU!
  • 00:19:12.070 --> 00:19:15.060
  • SHE SAID, HEY, HONEY.
  • 00:19:16.150 --> 00:19:19.150
  • WIFE, WHAT DOES YOUR HUSBAND
  • 00:19:19.150 --> 00:19:20.250
  • EXPECT TO HEAR WHEN HE COMES
  • 00:19:20.250 --> 00:19:22.050
  • THROUGH THE BACK DOOR?
  • 00:19:22.210 --> 00:19:25.210
  • HI DEAR, WELCOME HOME FROM
  • 00:19:25.210 --> 00:19:27.000
  • WORK.
  • 00:19:27.000 --> 00:19:27.150
  • OR HEY YOU, GET IN HERE!
  • 00:19:28.260 --> 00:19:31.260
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:19:31.260 --> 00:19:34.130
  • SARAH WILLFULLY SUBMITTED TO
  • 00:19:36.160 --> 00:19:39.160
  • ABRAHAM.
  • 00:19:39.160 --> 00:19:41.070
  • SHE RESPECTED HIM.
  • 00:19:41.070 --> 00:19:42.080
  • SHE HONORED HIM.
  • 00:19:42.080 --> 00:19:43.160
  • SHE ENCOURAGED HIM.
  • 00:19:43.160 --> 00:19:46.060
  • SHE DIDN'T WALK INTO THE TENT
  • 00:19:46.060 --> 00:19:47.170
  • AND SAY, YOU OLD GOAT --
  • 00:19:47.170 --> 00:19:49.260
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:19:49.260 --> 00:19:51.130
  • -- I AM SO SICK AND TIRED OF
  • 00:19:51.130 --> 00:19:53.130
  • ALL OF THIS SAND AND ALL OF
  • 00:19:53.130 --> 00:19:55.050
  • THIS DUST.
  • 00:19:55.050 --> 00:19:56.110
  • YOU'RE TALKING ABOUT THIS CITY
  • 00:19:56.110 --> 00:19:57.290
  • WHO'S GOT A BUILDER WHO'S GOD.
  • 00:19:57.290 --> 00:20:00.050
  • WE DON'T EVEN HAVE A FLAT
  • 00:20:00.050 --> 00:20:02.010
  • SCREEN, ABRAHAM.
  • 00:20:02.100 --> 00:20:05.100
  • YOU PROMISED ME CHILDREN.
  • 00:20:05.100 --> 00:20:06.150
  • WE DON'T EVEN HAVE KIDS.
  • 00:20:06.150 --> 00:20:07.280
  • YOU PROMISED ME ALL OF THESE
  • 00:20:07.280 --> 00:20:09.080
  • WONDERFUL THINGS AND AN
  • 00:20:09.080 --> 00:20:10.190
  • INHERITANCE.
  • 00:20:10.190 --> 00:20:11.110
  • WE DON'T HAVE ANY OF THAT!
  • 00:20:13.090 --> 00:20:16.090
  • YEAR AFTER YEAR, DAY AFTER DAY,
  • 00:20:16.090 --> 00:20:18.040
  • WHEN IT SEEMED LIKE WHAT GOD
  • 00:20:18.040 --> 00:20:19.280
  • PROMISED WAS NOT GOING TO BE
  • 00:20:19.280 --> 00:20:21.130
  • PROVIDED, SHE CALLED HIM "LORD."
  • 00:20:22.280 --> 00:20:25.280
  • WHEN ABRAHAM BORE THE BURDEN OF
  • 00:20:25.280 --> 00:20:28.140
  • HIS OWN POWERLESSNESS,
  • 00:20:28.280 --> 00:20:31.280
  • HE'D WALK BACK INTO THE TENT.
  • 00:20:31.280 --> 00:20:33.240
  • AND SARAH WOULD SAY, HOW WAS
  • 00:20:33.240 --> 00:20:34.270
  • YOUR DAY?
  • 00:20:34.270 --> 00:20:37.000
  • IT'S GOOD TO SEE YOU, ABRAHAM.
  • 00:20:37.000 --> 00:20:39.160
  • I'M SO GLAD I'M YOUR WIFE.
  • 00:20:39.160 --> 00:20:42.050
  • I'M SO GLAD GOD PUT US
  • 00:20:42.050 --> 00:20:43.160
  • TOGETHER.
  • 00:20:43.160 --> 00:20:45.030
  • I KNOW THAT IT HADN'T BEEN
  • 00:20:45.030 --> 00:20:46.110
  • EVERYTHING WE THOUGHT IT WOULD
  • 00:20:46.110 --> 00:20:47.130
  • BE, BUT I THINK GOD IS STILL
  • 00:20:47.130 --> 00:20:48.250
  • GOING HONOR HIS ANSWER, AND
  • 00:20:48.250 --> 00:20:50.130
  • HE'S GOING TO SEND US A SON
  • 00:20:50.130 --> 00:20:51.180
  • SOME DAY.
  • 00:20:51.180 --> 00:20:54.070
  • IT DIDN'T MATTER HOW BAD, HOW
  • 00:20:54.070 --> 00:20:55.170
  • TOUGH, HOW WRONG ABRAHAM GOT.
  • 00:20:55.170 --> 00:20:57.290
  • PETER TELLS US SHE STILL CALLED
  • 00:20:57.290 --> 00:21:00.100
  • HIM "LORD."
  • 00:21:00.100 --> 00:21:02.200
  • YOU REMEMBER THAT TIME WHEN
  • 00:21:02.200 --> 00:21:03.180
  • ABRAHAM TOLD PHARAOH THAT
  • 00:21:03.180 --> 00:21:04.290
  • THAT WAS HIS SISTER?
  • 00:21:04.290 --> 00:21:07.160
  • SHE STILL CALLED HIM "LORD."
  • 00:21:09.200 --> 00:21:12.200
  • MY WIFE WOULD HAVE CALLED ME
  • 00:21:12.200 --> 00:21:14.080
  • "DEAD" --
  • 00:21:14.080 --> 00:21:15.190
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:21:15.190 --> 00:21:16.250
  • -- IN THE PAST TENSE.
  • 00:21:16.250 --> 00:21:19.190
  • WELL WHEN HE WAS HERE...
  • 00:21:19.190 --> 00:21:21.280
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:21:21.280 --> 00:21:23.170
  • BUT IN SPITE OF THESE TRAGIC
  • 00:21:23.170 --> 00:21:25.220
  • MISTAKES THAT ABRAHAM MADE,
  • 00:21:25.220 --> 00:21:27.190
  • SHE STILL CALLED HIM "LORD."
  • 00:21:30.000 --> 00:21:33.000
  • YOU SAY, SO WHAT'S THE POINT?
  • 00:21:33.000 --> 00:21:34.000
  • THE POINT IS THAT WHEN GOD
  • 00:21:34.000 --> 00:21:35.110
  • FINALLY MOVED UPON ABRAHAM AND
  • 00:21:35.110 --> 00:21:37.190
  • GAVE HIM THE POWER TO PERFORM
  • 00:21:37.190 --> 00:21:39.110
  • THE PROMISE; ABRAHAM WAS
  • 00:21:39.110 --> 00:21:41.080
  • WILLING TO PERFORM THE PROMISE
  • 00:21:41.080 --> 00:21:43.000
  • BECAUSE SARAH CALLED HIM
  • 00:21:43.000 --> 00:21:45.110
  • "LORD." WIFE, IF YOU DO NOT
  • 00:21:45.210 --> 00:21:48.210
  • COMPLIMENT THAT HUSBAND, IF YOU
  • 00:21:48.210 --> 00:21:50.150
  • DO NOT SUPPORT THAT HUSBAND AT
  • 00:21:50.150 --> 00:21:52.150
  • A TIME WHEN GOD CHOOSES TO MOVE
  • 00:21:52.150 --> 00:21:54.130
  • IN HIS LIFE, HE WILL NOT GO
  • 00:21:54.130 --> 00:21:56.160
  • WITH GOD BECAUSE HE DOESN'T
  • 00:21:56.160 --> 00:21:57.240
  • WANT TO GO WITH YOU.
  • 00:21:59.120 --> 00:22:02.140
  • GOD MOVES ON ABRAHAM AND SAYS,
  • 00:22:02.140 --> 00:22:03.250
  • IT'S TIME FOR ISAAC TO BE BORN.
  • 00:22:03.250 --> 00:22:05.140
  • AND ABRAHAM SAYS,
  • 00:22:05.140 --> 00:22:06.150
  • NOT WITH HER.
  • 00:22:06.150 --> 00:22:08.110
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:22:08.110 --> 00:22:09.200
  • BUT BECAUSE SHE SUBMITTED
  • 00:22:09.200 --> 00:22:12.120
  • HERSELF TO HER ROLE AS A WIFE,
  • 00:22:13.050 --> 00:22:16.050
  • WHEN GOD MOVED, THE PROMISE
  • 00:22:16.050 --> 00:22:18.100
  • ARRIVED, BECAUSE THEY WERE IN
  • 00:22:18.100 --> 00:22:20.230
  • IT TOGETHER.
  • 00:22:22.050 --> 00:22:25.050
  • BEHOLD HOW BLESSED AND GOOD IT
  • 00:22:25.050 --> 00:22:26.190
  • IS FOR BRETHREN --
  • 00:22:26.190 --> 00:22:29.010
  • TAKE OUT "BRETHREN" AND
  • 00:22:29.010 --> 00:22:30.000
  • CONSIDER "HUSBANDS AND WIVES."
  • 00:22:30.050 --> 00:22:33.050
  • -- TO DWELL TOGETHER IN UNITY.
  • 00:22:33.270 --> 00:22:36.270
  • THE DEVIL DOESN'T HAVE TO GET
  • 00:22:36.270 --> 00:22:38.120
  • YOU TO THROW IN THE TOWEL.
  • 00:22:38.120 --> 00:22:39.180
  • ALL HE'S GOT TO DO IS DIVIDE
  • 00:22:39.180 --> 00:22:41.050
  • YOU.
  • 00:22:41.050 --> 00:22:43.160
  • AND SOONER OR LATER, QUIT WILL
  • 00:22:43.160 --> 00:22:44.290
  • LOOK GOOD.
  • 00:22:44.290 --> 00:22:47.070
  • BUT IF YOU'LL LAY THAT DESIRE
  • 00:22:47.070 --> 00:22:48.220
  • ASIDE AND LIVE SUBMITTED TO GOD
  • 00:22:49.120 --> 00:22:52.120
  • AND SUBMITTED TO EACH OTHER,
  • 00:22:52.120 --> 00:22:55.090
  • THEN YOU'LL RECEIVE BLESSINGS
  • 00:22:55.090 --> 00:22:56.240
  • IN YOUR FAMILY LIKE YOU'VE
  • 00:22:56.240 --> 00:22:58.090
  • NEVER KNOWN BEFORE.
  • 00:22:58.090 --> 00:23:00.080
  • AND EVERY PROMISE THAT GOD HAS
  • 00:23:00.080 --> 00:23:01.240
  • MADE YOU,
  • 00:23:01.240 --> 00:23:02.170
  • BECAUSE YOU'RE IN IT TOGETHER,
  • 00:23:02.170 --> 00:23:04.280
  • THEY WILL BE FULFILLED.
  • 00:23:04.280 --> 00:23:07.120
  • GIVE THE LORD A HANDCLAP
  • 00:23:07.120 --> 00:23:08.060
  • OF PRAISE.
  • 00:23:08.060 --> 00:23:09.180
  • (APPLAUSE)
  • 00:23:12.170 --> 00:23:15.170
  • CAN WE STAND?
  • 00:23:15.170 --> 00:23:17.290
  • WITH EVERY HEAD BOWED AND EVERY
  • 00:23:17.290 --> 00:23:18.250
  • EYE CLOSED,
  • 00:23:18.250 --> 00:23:19.170
  • YOU'RE IN THIS PLACE,
  • 00:23:20.050 --> 00:23:23.050
  • AND YOU SAY,
  • 00:23:23.050 --> 00:23:23.240
  • PASTOR, TODAY I NEED TRUE LOVE,
  • 00:23:26.230 --> 00:23:29.230
  • SACRIFICIAL LOVE,
  • 00:23:29.230 --> 00:23:32.120
  • NOT SELF-SERVING LOVE,
  • 00:23:33.190 --> 00:23:36.190
  • TO BE A PART OF MY MARRIAGE.
  • 00:23:36.190 --> 00:23:39.190
  • IF THAT DESCRIBES YOU, I WANT
  • 00:23:39.190 --> 00:23:40.230
  • YOU TO RAISE YOUR HAND RIGHT
  • 00:23:40.230 --> 00:23:41.220
  • WHERE YOU ARE.
  • 00:23:43.110 --> 00:23:46.110
  • OTHERS OF YOU IN THIS PLACE
  • 00:23:46.110 --> 00:23:47.190
  • SAY, PASTOR, I NEED TO BECOME
  • 00:23:47.190 --> 00:23:49.130
  • THE HUSBAND THAT GOD CALLS ME
  • 00:23:49.130 --> 00:23:52.000
  • TO BE.
  • 00:23:52.000 --> 00:23:52.170
  • I NEED TO BE THE WIFE THAT GOD
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  • WANTS ME TO BE.
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  • AND I'M NOT DOING THAT RIGHT
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  • NOW.
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  • IF THAT'S YOU, I WANT YOU TO
  • 00:23:59.260 --> 00:24:00.230
  • RAISE YOUR HAND RIGHT WHERE YOU
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  • ARE.
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  • OR LASTLY, YOU'RE HERE TONIGHT
  • 00:24:05.120 --> 00:24:06.240
  • AND YOU SAY,
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  • PASTOR, MY WIFE AND I,
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  • MY HUSBAND AND I,
  • 00:24:08.260 --> 00:24:09.270
  • WE'RE BELIEVING GOD FOR A
  • 00:24:09.270 --> 00:24:11.050
  • PROMISE.
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  • AND TONIGHT WE WANT TO RECOMMIT
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  • OURSELVES, RIGHT HERE IN THIS
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  • PLACE, TO THE KIND OF POWERFUL
  • 00:24:18.280 --> 00:24:21.280
  • COVENANT LOVE THAT COMMANDS
  • 00:24:22.050 --> 00:24:25.050
  • THAT BLESSING IN OUR LIFE.
  • 00:24:26.070 --> 00:24:29.070
  • IF THAT DESCRIBES YOU AND YOU
  • 00:24:29.070 --> 00:24:30.150
  • WANT GOD'S POWER AND HIS
  • 00:24:30.150 --> 00:24:31.230
  • COVENANT LOVE IN YOUR LIFE,
  • 00:24:31.230 --> 00:24:34.170
  • IN YOUR MARRIAGE,
  • 00:24:34.170 --> 00:24:36.010
  • I WANT YOU TO RAISE YOUR HAND
  • 00:24:36.010 --> 00:24:37.000
  • RIGHT WHERE YOU ARE.
  • 00:24:37.040 --> 00:24:40.040
  • HANDS ALL OVER THIS ROOM.
  • 00:24:40.040 --> 00:24:41.120
  • SO TONIGHT I WANT EVERYONE TO
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  • RAISE BOTH HANDS AND REPEAT
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  • THIS PRAYER WITH ME.
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  • LORD JESUS CHRIST,
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  • YOU ARE MY CREATOR.
  • 00:24:48.130 --> 00:24:51.100
  • HELP ME TO BE
  • 00:24:51.100 --> 00:24:53.200
  • WHAT YOU HAVE CREATED ME TO BE.
  • 00:24:53.200 --> 00:24:56.200
  • HELP ME TO BE
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  • THE HUSBAND,
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  • THE WIFE,
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  • THE SPOUSE.
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  • THAT I NEED TO BE;
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  • TO DWELL WITH UNDERSTANDING
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  • SO THAT MY HOME
  • 00:25:07.210 --> 00:25:10.000
  • WOULD BE A UNIFIED HOME;
  • 00:25:10.000 --> 00:25:11.270
  • AND THAT WE MIGHT RECEIVE
  • 00:25:11.270 --> 00:25:14.110
  • THE BLESSING OF GOD
  • 00:25:14.110 --> 00:25:16.210
  • ON EVERY FACET
  • 00:25:16.210 --> 00:25:19.020
  • OF OUR RELATIONSHIP.
  • 00:25:19.020 --> 00:25:21.020
  • LORD WE NEED YOUR BLESSING.
  • 00:25:21.020 --> 00:25:23.280
  • NOW I WANT YOU TO TELL THE
  • 00:25:23.280 --> 00:25:24.190
  • LORD WHERE YOU WANT THAT
  • 00:25:24.190 --> 00:25:25.180
  • BLESSING.
  • 00:25:25.180 --> 00:25:26.060
  • WE NEED YOUR BLESSING IN OUR
  • 00:25:26.060 --> 00:25:27.050
  • FINANCES.
  • 00:25:27.050 --> 00:25:28.170
  • WE NEED YOUR BLESSING IN OUR
  • 00:25:28.170 --> 00:25:29.170
  • RELATIONSHIP.
  • 00:25:29.170 --> 00:25:30.170
  • WE NEED YOUR BLESSING IN OUR
  • 00:25:30.170 --> 00:25:32.070
  • EMOTIONS.
  • 00:25:32.070 --> 00:25:33.250
  • WE NEED YOUR BLESSING.
  • 00:25:33.250 --> 00:25:34.200
  • WHEREVER IT HAPPENS TO BE, IF
  • 00:25:34.200 --> 00:25:35.280
  • IT'S IN FORGIVING EACH OTHER,
  • 00:25:35.280 --> 00:25:37.140
  • ASK GOD TO GIVE YOU THE
  • 00:25:37.140 --> 00:25:38.160
  • STRENGTH TO FORGIVE.
  • 00:25:38.160 --> 00:25:40.120
  • IF IT'S IN PUTTING EACH OTHER
  • 00:25:40.120 --> 00:25:41.160
  • FIRST, ASK GOD TO GIVE YOU THE
  • 00:25:41.160 --> 00:25:43.090
  • STRENGTH TO WALK AWAY FROM
  • 00:25:43.090 --> 00:25:45.000
  • YOURSELF THAT YOU MIGHT EMBRACE
  • 00:25:45.000 --> 00:25:47.010
  • THE OTHER LIKE GOD WANTS YOU
  • 00:25:47.010 --> 00:25:48.130
  • TO.
  • 00:25:48.130 --> 00:25:50.080
  • WHATEVER IT IS, GOD KNOWS IT.
  • 00:25:50.080 --> 00:25:51.000
  • HE NEEDS TO HEAR YOU SAY IT, SO
  • 00:25:51.000 --> 00:25:53.170
  • THAT WITH THE CONFESSION OF
  • 00:25:53.170 --> 00:25:54.240
  • YOUR MOUTH, YOU HAVE SUBMITTED
  • 00:25:54.240 --> 00:25:56.060
  • IT TO THE NAME OF JESUS CHRIST.
  • 00:25:58.080 --> 00:26:01.100
  • NOW I WANT YOU TO CONTINUE IN
  • 00:26:01.100 --> 00:26:02.050
  • THIS PRAYER.
  • 00:26:02.050 --> 00:26:02.230
  • LORD, I THANK YOU
  • 00:26:02.230 --> 00:26:05.060
  • THAT YOU'VE HEARD ME.
  • 00:26:05.060 --> 00:26:07.020
  • AND THAT YOU'RE GOING ANSWER
  • 00:26:07.020 --> 00:26:08.040
  • ME;
  • 00:26:08.040 --> 00:26:09.100
  • AND THAT MY FAMILY
  • 00:26:09.100 --> 00:26:11.150
  • WILL BE A FAMILY THAT'S
  • 00:26:11.150 --> 00:26:12.110
  • UNIFIED
  • 00:26:12.110 --> 00:26:14.020
  • AND BLESSED OF GOD,
  • 00:26:14.020 --> 00:26:15.220
  • IN JESUS' NAME.
  • 00:26:15.220 --> 00:26:17.160
  • AMEN.
  • 00:26:17.160 --> 00:26:18.190
  • GIVE THE LORD A HANDCLAP
  • 00:26:18.190 --> 00:26:19.200
  • OF PRAISE.
  • 00:26:19.200 --> 00:26:20.170
  • (APPLAUSE)
  • 00:26:20.170 --> 00:26:21.100
  • WHAT MAKES THE COMMANDMENT
  • 00:26:21.100 --> 00:26:22.180
  • TO LOVE ONE ANOTHER
  • 00:26:22.180 --> 00:26:23.080
  • AS WE LOVE OURSELVES
  • 00:26:23.080 --> 00:26:23.290
  • SO DIFFICULT TO FOLLOW?
  • 00:26:23.290 --> 00:26:25.080
  • PASTOR MATT HAGEE: SOMETIMES
  • 00:26:25.080 --> 00:26:26.170
  • THE RELATIONSHIPS YOU'RE IN,
  • 00:26:26.170 --> 00:26:28.180
  • THE PEOPLE THAT GOD PULLS YOU
  • 00:26:28.180 --> 00:26:29.270
  • TO,
  • 00:26:29.270 --> 00:26:30.140
  • THOSE THAT HE CONNECTS YOU WITH,
  • 00:26:30.140 --> 00:26:32.030
  • THEY'RE JUST NOT NORMAL.
  • 00:26:32.190 --> 00:26:35.190
  • IN HIS SERIES, "LOVE ONE ANOTHER
  • 00:26:35.190 --> 00:26:36.210
  • AS I HAVE LOVED YOU,"
  • 00:26:36.210 --> 00:26:37.230
  • PASTOR MATT ASKS DIFFICULT
  • 00:26:37.230 --> 00:26:39.000
  • QUESTIONS IN SEARCH
  • 00:26:39.000 --> 00:26:39.260
  • OF THE ANSWER.
  • 00:26:39.260 --> 00:26:40.190
  • PASTOR MATT HAGEE: WHAT MADE YOU
  • 00:26:40.190 --> 00:26:42.080
  • WANT TO CHOOSE NORMAN
  • 00:26:42.080 --> 00:26:44.030
  • AS YOUR HUSBAND?
  • 00:26:44.030 --> 00:26:45.020
  • TUJWANDA TRAIL: SO IN THE
  • 00:26:45.020 --> 00:26:46.060
  • BEGINNING, UM,
  • 00:26:46.060 --> 00:26:47.100
  • I DON'T THINK I WAS REALLY
  • 00:26:47.100 --> 00:26:48.190
  • THAT INTERESTED IN HIM.
  • 00:26:48.190 --> 00:26:50.180
  • I REALLY WASN'T.
  • 00:26:50.180 --> 00:26:52.190
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:26:52.190 --> 00:26:53.100
  • PASTOR JOHN HAGEE: THEY HAD
  • 00:26:53.100 --> 00:26:54.030
  • THOSE REVIVALS THAT LASTED
  • 00:26:54.030 --> 00:26:55.030
  • THREE WEEKS.
  • 00:26:55.030 --> 00:26:56.140
  • WE DIDN'T SIN BECAUSE WE DIDN'T
  • 00:26:56.140 --> 00:26:57.280
  • HAVE TIME TO SIN;
  • 00:26:57.280 --> 00:26:59.050
  • WE WERE TOO TIRED TO SIN.
  • 00:26:59.050 --> 00:27:01.010
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:27:01.010 --> 00:27:01.170
  • PASTOR MATT HAGEE: THIS
  • 00:27:01.170 --> 00:27:02.150
  • GENERATION USED TO HAVE TO POSE
  • 00:27:02.150 --> 00:27:04.210
  • FOR PICTURES.
  • 00:27:04.210 --> 00:27:06.150
  • THIS GENERATION DOESN'T WANT
  • 00:27:06.150 --> 00:27:07.290
  • ANYONE ELSE IN PICTURES.
  • 00:27:08.210 --> 00:27:11.210
  • ORDER YOUR COPY TODAY
  • 00:27:11.210 --> 00:27:12.230
  • AND RECEIVE THIS FUN
  • 00:27:12.230 --> 00:27:13.270
  • AND REVEALING SERIES ON
  • 00:27:13.270 --> 00:27:15.080
  • LOVING OTHERS FOR WHO THEY ARE.
  • 00:27:15.080 --> 00:27:17.000
  • CALL THE NUMBER ON THE SCREEN
  • 00:27:17.000 --> 00:27:18.030
  • OR VISIT JHM.ORG FOR MORE INFO.
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  • MUSIC
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