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- - WHEN I FOUND OUT I WAS PREGNANT, IT WAS REALLY
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- HARD TO TELL MY FAMILY, AND I FIRST TOLD MY MOM.
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- AND MY MOM TOLD MY DAD, AND THEN MY DAD DIDN'T
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- REALLY WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH ME FOR A LONG
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- TIME, SO THAT WAS REALLY HARD ON ME.
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- - SOCIETY HAS ALWAYS TOLD THESE TEENS THAT IF
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- YOU GET PREGNANT, YOUR LIFE IS OVER.
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- YOU'RE GOING TO HAVE TO DROP OUT OF SCHOOL.
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- YOU'RE GOING TO LIVE ON WELFARE FOR THE REST OF
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- YOUR LIFE.
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- YOU CAN'T DO ANYTHING POSITIVE.
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- YOU MIGHT AS WELL JUST CONTINUE HAVING BABIES
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- BECAUSE THAT'S ALL YOU'RE EVER GOING TO BE GOOD FOR.
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- - IT'S LIKE YOU ARE THE GATE KEEPER OF WHAT
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- YOUR SUCCESS WILL LOOK LIKE, AND ONE OF THE
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- THINGS I SAY TO EVERY PARENT AND STUDENT I MEET
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- WITH, IT'S NOT ABOUT YOU ANYMORE.
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- IT'S ABOUT YOU TO THE EXTENT THAT IT AFFECTS
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- THE CHILD.
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- AND STUDENTS SIT UP WITH THAT BECAUSE THEY'RE LIKE
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- WOW, YOU'RE TALKING ABOUT MY BABY. YES.
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- BECAUSE IF I CAN GET YOU TO DO WHAT YOU NEED TO DO
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- TO MAKE YOURSELF SUCCESSFUL, THAT BABY IS
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- JUST GOING TO FLOURISH, AND THAT'S IMPORTANT TO US.
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- - I REMEMBER ONE PERSON IN PARTICULAR TELLING ME
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- THAT I WOULD END UP ON GOVERNMENT ASSISTANCE AND
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- I WOULD LIVE IN PUBLIC HOUSING FOREVER AND I
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- WOULD NEVER GRADUATE HIGH SCHOOL, AND I WOULD HAVE
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- THREE MORE CHILDREN BY THE TIME THAT I WAS 18.
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- AND PERHAPS THAT'S THE STEREOTYPE ASSOCIATED
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- WITH TEENAGE PREGNANCY, BUT THOSE ARE THE THINGS
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- THAT PEOPLE WERE SPEAKING INTO MY LIFE.
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- [MUSIC]
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- TAKING CARE OF BUSINESS ...
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- TAKING CARE OF BUSINESS ...
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- - KELLY WRIGHT: FOR DECADES HERE IN THE UNITED STATES,
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- PARENTS, SCHOOLS AND GOVERNMENT INSTITUTIONS
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- HAVE BEEN WAGING WAR AGAINST THE CRISIS OF
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- TEEN PREGNANCY.
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- AND THE GOOD NEWS IS THAT THE TIDE HAS
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- DEFINITELY TURNED.
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- THE TEEN BIRTHRATE HAS BEEN IN STEEP DECLINE
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- SINCE THE EARLY 1990'S, AND THE RATE OF UNPLANNED
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- TEEN PREGNANCY IS AT ITS LOWEST RATE IN HISTORY.
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- BUT STILL 3 IN 10 TEENAGE AMERICAN GIRLS WILL GET
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- PREGNANT AT LEAST ONCE BEFORE THE AGE OF 20.
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- NOW, THAT'S NEARLY 750.000 TEENAGE
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- PREGNANCIES EVERY YEAR, AND WHAT HAPPENS TO THEM?
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- WELL, MORE THAN 50% OF TEEN MOTHERS NEVER
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- GRADUATE FROM HIGH SCHOOL, AND LESS THAN 2%
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- OF TEEN MOMS EARN A COLLEGE DEGREE BY AGE 30.
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- WITHOUT QUESTION, THE RATES OF UNPLANNED
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- TEENAGE PREGNANCY MUST BE FURTHER REDUCED, BUT JUST
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- AS IMPORTANTLY WHAT HAPPENS TO THOSE YOUNG
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- WOMEN WHO FIND THEMSELVES ON THE WRONG SIDE OF
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- THOSE STATISTICS?
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- - YEARS AGO IT WAS TO HIDE IT.
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- NOBODY NEEDS TO KNOW ABOUT YOU BEING A TEEN MOM.
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- AT THE SAME TIME, STUDENTS FELT LIKE I
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- GUESS MY LIFE'S OVER, AND I FEEL LIKE AS A SOCIETY
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- THERE ARE STILL PEOPLE THAT FEEL THAT WHEN YOU
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- BECOME A TEEN MOM, LIKE YOUR LIFE ENDS.
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- I STILL THINK THAT EXISTS, BUT I THINK MORE
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- AND MORE PEOPLE ARE COMING AROUND TO
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- IT HAPPENS.
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- OF COURSE, NOBODY -- I DON'T THINK ANY GIRL SETS
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- OUT TO SAY I WANT TO BE A TEEN MOM BECAUSE THEY
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- DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT THAT LOOKS LIKE AS FAR AS WHAT
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- THE WORKLOAD LOOKS LIKE UNTIL THEY ACTUALLY GIVE
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- BIRTH TO THAT CHILD, RIGHT.
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- BUT I THINK IT'S BECOMING MORE OF A CONVERSATION
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- WHERE PEOPLE DON'T LOOK DOWN ON THEM.
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- IT'S BECOMING MORE OF HOW CAN WE HELP SUPPORT THAT
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- BECAUSE IT'S HAPPENED.
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- - SOCIETY HAS ALWAYS TOLD THESE TEENS THAT IF
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- YOU GET PREGNANT, YOUR LIFE IS OVER.
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- YOU'RE GOING TO HAVE TO DROP OUT OF SCHOOL.
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- YOU'RE GOING TO LIVE ON WELFARE FOR THE REST OF
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- YOUR LIFE, YOU CAN'T DO ANYTHING POSITIVE.
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- YOU MIGHT AS WELL JUST CONTINUE HAVING BABIES
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- BECAUSE THAT'S ALL YOU'RE EVER GOING TO BE GOOD FOR.
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- SOCIETY HAS NOT BEEN SO KIND TO THESE FAMILIES.
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- - THE FIRST PERSON THAT I TOLD I WAS PREGNANT WAS
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- MY BEST FRIEND AMSEY.
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- AND SHE WAS REALLY SCARED FOR ME, AND SHE WAS
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- ASKING LIKE OH MY GOSH, WHEN ARE YOU GOING TO
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- TELL EVERYONE?
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- WHAT'S YOUR PLANS?
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- HOW ARE YOU GOING TO DEAL WITH THIS?
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- AND I KNEW I WANTED TO KEEP SERENITY, AND I KNEW
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- THAT I HAD TO DO WELL IN SCHOOL BECAUSE I HAD TO
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- MAKE A GOOD LIFE FOR HER EVEN THOUGH SHE WASN'T
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- HERE YET.
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- I JUST KNEW THAT EVERYTHING THAT I WAS
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- DOING WOULD LEAD UP TO HOW HER LIFE WOULD GO.
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- - FOR ME, I KIND OF HAD A NEGATIVE REACTION GOING
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- TO A SCHOOL WHERE I'M PREGNANT AND EVERYBODY
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- ELSE IS JUST NORMAL TEENAGERS.
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- IT WAS KIND OF HARD FOR ME TO SHOW MYSELF AS I
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- DID BEFORE.
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- I HAD TO KIND OF HIDE THE FACT THAT I WAS PREGNANT
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- BECAUSE OF ALL THE DRAMA AND THE REGULAR TEEN
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- STUFF THAT WAS GOING ON.
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- I DIDN'T WANT TO LET MYSELF, YOU KNOW, ENTER
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- ALL THAT NEGATIVITY.
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- - WHEN I STARTED RECEIVING REACTIONS FROM
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- FAMILY MEMBERS PARTICULARLY ABOUT THE
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- PREGNANCY, MOST OF THE RESPONSES WERE
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- NOT POSITIVE.
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- IN FACT, I CAN'T REMEMBER ANY RESPONSES THAT
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- WERE POSITIVE.
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- I REMEMBER ONE PERSON IN PARTICULAR TELLING ME
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- THAT I WOULD END UP ON GOVERNMENT ASSISTANCE,
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- AND I WOULD LIVE IN PUBLIC HOUSING FOREVER,
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- AND I WOULD NEVER GRADUATE HIGH SCHOOL, AND
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- I WOULD HAVE THREE MORE CHILDREN BY THE TIME THAT
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- I WAS 18.
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- AND PERHAPS THAT'S THE STEREOTYPE ASSOCIATED
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- WITH TEENAGE PREGNANCY, BUT THOSE ARE THE THINGS
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- THAT PEOPLE WERE SPEAKING INTO MY LIFE.
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- - PROBABLY THE WORST EXPERIENCE I HAD LIKE
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- DURING MY PREGNANCY WAS JUST LIKE WOW, YOU LOOK
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- SO YOUNG, LIKE YOU'RE PREGNANT, AND HOW OLD
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- ARE YOU?
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- AND JUST THINGS LIKE THAT.
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- THAT WAS KIND OF -- IT WAS KIND OF EMBARRASSING, SO
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- I KIND OF TRIED TO HIDE MY PREGNANCY AS MUCH AS I
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- COULD, BUT NOW EVERYBODY KNOWS I HAVE A CHILD.
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- - THE NEED FOR THIS POPULATION IS TO BE
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- SURROUNDED BY AN AREA OF POSITIVITY.
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- OUR SOCIETY STILL HAS A SITUATION OF SHAMING THIS
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- POPULATION WHEN THEY FIND OUT THEY ARE PREGNANT.
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- MANY OF THESE TEENS ARE ISOLATED AND SHAMED FOR
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- THE SITUATION THAT THEY ARE IN.
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- - BEING A PARENT IS HARD BECAUSE IT TAKES A LOT OF
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- TIME AND EFFORT.
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- IT CHANGES THE WAY PEOPLE SEE YOU LIKE THEY MIGHT
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- NOT HANG OUT WITH YOU BECAUSE YOU HAVE A KID OR
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- THEY MIGHT NOT HANG OUT WITH YOU BECAUSE YOU
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- DON'T HAVE TIME TO HANG OUT WITH THEM BECAUSE YOU
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- HAVE A KID, AND IT'S MORE OF JUST BEING POSITIVE,
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- SO THAT'S ALL IT TAKES, POSITIVITY.
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- [MUSIC]
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- - TEEN PREGNANCY MAY BE A SOCIETAL PROBLEM, BUT
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- THE STORIES ARE INDIVIDUAL.
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- YOU SEE, EACH TEEN PREGNANCY REPRESENTS A
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- SPECIFIC YOUNG WOMAN WITH HER OWN HOPES AND DREAMS.
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- EACH PREGNANCY PRESENTS ITS OWN COMPLICATED SET
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- OF CHALLENGES TO EVERY YOUNG MOTHER, AND EVERY
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- TEEN PREGNANCY AFFECTS A SPECIFIC FAMILY CAUSING A
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- DRAMATIC IMPACT ON THEIR LIVES, BUT HIDING BEHIND
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- THE ALARMING STATISTICS ARE THE STORIES OF
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- COUNTLESS UNIQUE YOUNG WOMEN, AND WHEN TAKE THE
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- TIME TO LISTEN VERY CLOSELY TO THEIR STORIES
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- OF ADVERSITY, WE MIGHT RECOGNIZE IN THEM THE
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- ASTOUNDING SPIRIT THAT WE ALL NEED TO OVERCOME
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- CHALLENGES AND ACHIEVE OUR PERSONAL BEST.
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- - I GREW UP IN EAST CHATTANOOGA, AND MY
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- PARENTS WERE MARRIED.
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- THEY GOT MARRIED WHEN I WAS AROUND THREE YEARS OLD.
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- IT WAS A VERY VERY ABUSIVE ENVIRONMENT
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- PRIMARILY FOR MY MOTHER.
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- IT WAS BOTH PHYSICALLY ABUSIVE,
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- EMOTIONALLY, MENTALLY.
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- YOU NAME IT, SHE WAS EXPERIENCING IT.
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- BY THE TIME MY MOTHER FINALLY GOT THE COURAGE
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- TO WALK AWAY FROM HIM, SHE WAS SEVERELY
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- DEPRESSED TO SAY THE LEAST, AND SHE WASN'T
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- REALLY CAPABLE OF FOCUSING ON ME AND
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- SUDDENLY SHE WAS A SINGLE MOTHER WITH ONE INCOME,
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- AND IT WASN'T ENOUGH TO MAKE ENDS MEET, SO MOST
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- OF THE TIME SHE WAS WORKING TWO JOBS AND
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- TRYING TO FINISH HER EDUCATION AND MAKE A NEW
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- WAY OF LIFE FOR US, BUT IT WAS ALL VERY
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- OVERWHELMING FOR HER.
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- AROUND THE AGE OF 14 I FOUND MYSELF PREGNANT NOT
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- INTENTIONALLY, BUT IT WAS SOMETHING THAT HAPPENED.
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- I WAS A FRESHMAN IN HIGH SCHOOL.
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- HE WAS A SENIOR, AND I WAS 14.
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- HE WAS 18.
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- AND HE SHOWED ME THE ATTENTION THAT NO ONE
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- ELSE DID.
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- - IT WAS REALLY HARD TO TELL MY FAMILY.
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- I ACTUALLY WAITED A WHILE, NOT TOO LONG BUT
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- LIKE A MONTH OR SO, AND I FIRST TOLD MY MOM.
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- MY MOM TOLD MY DAD, AND THEN MY DAD DIDN'T REALLY
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- WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH ME FOR A LONG TIME, SO
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- THAT WAS REALLY HARD ON ME.
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- - I DIDN'T REALLY TELL ANYBODY BESIDES MY
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- CHILD'S FATHER, BUT MY MOM AND GRANDMA KIND OF
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- FIGURED IT OUT BECAUSE WHENEVER I WENT TO THEIR
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- HOUSE I ALWAYS ASKED THEM FOR A CERTAIN THING, AND
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- THEY'D BE LIKE, ARE YOU PREGNANT?
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- AND I DIDN'T LIKE ACTUALLY TELL THEM.
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- THEY JUST FIGURED IT OUT.
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- WHEN I REALIZED THAT I WAS PREGNANT, THE FIRST
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- THING THAT I DID WAS TELL MY MOTHER AND ALSO THE
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- OTHER GRANDMOTHER, THE MOTHER OF MY CHILD'S
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- FATHER, AND IT WAS SHOCKING TO SAY THE LEAST.
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- IN MY FAMILY NO ONE HAS BABIES AS TEENAGERS.
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- ON EITHER SIDE, ON MY MOTHER'S OR FATHER'S SIDE
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- I WAS THE FIRST TO GET PREGNANT AS A TEENAGER
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- AND HAVE A CHILD THIS YOUNG.
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- AND INITIALLY IT SEEMED AS EVERYONE WAS IN
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- DENIAL, AND THEN AROUND SIX OR SEVEN MONTHS I
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- STARTED SHOWING, AND THAT'S WHEN IT BECAME
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- REAL TO EVERYONE, PROBABLY MYSELF INCLUDED.
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- - WHEN I TOLD SERENITY'S FATHER, HE WAS KIND OF
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- MIND BLOWN AND WHAT ARE WE GOING TO DO?
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- HOW ARE WE GOING TO TELL OUR FAMILY?
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- BUT HE WAS SUPPORTIVE.
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- HE'S BEEN FROM EVER SINCE HE FOUND OUT AND HE'S
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- STILL IN OUR LIVES SO THAT'S GOOD.
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- - WE GOT ENGAGED FIRST, AND THEN I
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- BECAME PREGNANT.
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- IN MY CULTURE, IF YOU ARE PREGNANT IN THE RIGHT
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- WAY, LIKE YOU CAN GET ENGAGED OR MARRIED OF
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- COURSE EVERYBODY IS GOING TO BE HAPPY FOR YOU.
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- MY PARENTS, MY GRANDMA, MY DAD THEY WERE ALL
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- EXCITED FOR ME.
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- I WAS EXCITED FOR MYSELF, TOO.
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- - I DID HAVE A REALLY LOW POINT ABOUT TEN DAYS
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- AFTER MY CHILD WAS BORN.
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- MY LABOR WAS INDUCED ON FATHER'S DAY IN 2001,
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- AND HIS FATHER OPTED NOT TO TAKE OFF OF WORK TO
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- COME TO THE HOSPITAL.
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- AND HE JUST SO HAPPENED TO MAKE IT ABOUT 30
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- MINUTES BEFORE I GAVE BIRTH.
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- AFTER HE LEFT THAT DAY THAT I GAVE BIRTH, I
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- DIDN'T HEAR FROM HIM FOR TEN DAYS.
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- AND THEN WHEN I HEARD FROM HIM AGAIN IT WAS HIM
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- TELLING ME THAT HAVING A BABY HE WAS WRONG.
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- THAT WAS NOT WHAT HE WANTED.
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- HEARING FROM HIM THAT HE MADE A MISTAKE AND THAT
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- HE DID NOT ACTUALLY WANT A CHILD AFTER ALL WAS
- 00:12:45.260 --> 00:12:48.290
- DEVASTATING, BUT I HAD THIS BEAUTIFUL LIVING
- 00:12:49.010 --> 00:12:55.140
- CREATURE THAT NEEDED ME FOR ABSOLUTELY
- 00:12:55.160 --> 00:12:58.210
- EVERYTHING, AND SO IT WAS A LOW POINT FOR ME, BUT I
- 00:12:58.230 --> 00:13:02.100
- COULD ONLY ALLOW IT TO GET ME DOWN FOR SO LONG.
- 00:13:02.120 --> 00:13:05.060
- - BEFORE I GOT PREGNANT I WASN'T REALLY AS
- 00:13:05.080 --> 00:13:08.180
- FOCUSED IN SCHOOL.
- 00:13:08.200 --> 00:13:10.170
- IT WAS JUST KIND OF LIKE I'M HERE BECAUSE I HAVE
- 00:13:10.190 --> 00:13:13.140
- TO BE HERE AND I DON'T KNOW WHEN I'M EVER GOING
- 00:13:13.160 --> 00:13:16.160
- TO USE THESE THINGS THAT I'M LEARNING, BUT I
- 00:13:16.180 --> 00:13:19.290
- DIDN'T REALLY HAVE A VERY STRONG MOTIVATION
- 00:13:20.010 --> 00:13:22.090
- IN SCHOOL.
- 00:13:22.110 --> 00:13:23.210
- AND THEN AS SOON AS I FOUND OUT I WAS PREGNANT
- 00:13:23.230 --> 00:13:26.290
- SOMETHING JUST HIT ME, LIKE OKAY, I HAVE TO BE
- 00:13:27.010 --> 00:13:29.090
- THE BEST I CAN BE.
- 00:13:29.110 --> 00:13:31.030
- AND I PRETTY MUCH HAVE BEEN DOING REALLY GOOD IN
- 00:13:31.050 --> 00:13:33.210
- SCHOOL EVER SINCE BECAUSE I CARE ABOUT IT NOW.
- 00:13:33.230 --> 00:13:36.200
- I HAVE A REASON TO CARE ABOUT IT, AND I HAVE A
- 00:13:36.220 --> 00:13:39.190
- REASON TO KEEP GOING EVERYDAY I WAKE UP WITH A
- 00:13:39.210 --> 00:13:43.060
- BEAUTIFUL LITTLE GIRL, AND SHE'S MY MOTIVATION
- 00:13:43.080 --> 00:13:46.180
- TO KEEP GOING.
- 00:13:46.200 --> 00:13:48.030
- - BEFORE I GOT PREGNANT, I DIDN'T--
- 00:13:48.050 --> 00:13:50.030
- I WASN'T MYSELF.
- 00:13:50.050 --> 00:13:51.130
- I WAS JUST ON A JOURNEY TO SEARCH FOR MYSELF.
- 00:13:51.150 --> 00:13:54.070
- I DIDN'T DO THINGS THE WAY THAT MY PARENTS WANTED.
- 00:13:54.090 --> 00:14:00.060
- I DIDN'T WANT TO ATTEND SCHOOL OR DO ANYTHING
- 00:14:00.080 --> 00:14:03.280
- THAT HELPED ME BECOME SUCCESSFUL IN LIFE.
- 00:14:04.000 --> 00:14:07.190
- - IF I NEVER WANTED ANYTHING FROM MYSELF
- 00:14:07.210 --> 00:14:09.240
- BEFORE, I ABSOLUTELY DID AT THAT POINT AND MORE
- 00:14:09.260 --> 00:14:13.190
- IMPORTANTLY, EVEN THOUGH I WAS 14, I RECOGNIZED
- 00:14:13.210 --> 00:14:17.160
- THAT THE CHILD, THE LIFE THAT I WAS GROWING INSIDE
- 00:14:17.180 --> 00:14:21.040
- OF ME DESERVED MUCH MORE.
- 00:14:21.060 --> 00:14:24.030
- I IMMEDIATELY STOPPED ALL OF THE NEGATIVE BEHAVIORS
- 00:14:24.050 --> 00:14:27.140
- THAT I WAS DOING AT THE TIME.
- 00:14:27.160 --> 00:14:29.200
- I STARTED-- I STOPPED HANGING OUT WITH THE
- 00:14:29.220 --> 00:14:32.200
- WRONG PEOPLE AND DOING THE WRONG THINGS, AND I
- 00:14:32.220 --> 00:14:36.150
- STARTED RESEARCHING WHAT DID I NEED TO EAT NOW
- 00:14:36.170 --> 00:14:40.050
- THAT I WAS PREGNANT?
- 00:14:40.070 --> 00:14:41.290
- I DIDN'T REALLY KNOW THE ANSWER TO THAT, SO I
- 00:14:42.010 --> 00:14:44.100
- STARTED EATING BAKED POTATOES AND SALADS
- 00:14:44.120 --> 00:14:47.010
- RELIGIOUSLY BECAUSE THAT SEEMED LIKE THE
- 00:14:47.030 --> 00:14:48.260
- RIGHT THING TO DO.
- 00:14:48.280 --> 00:14:52.080
- - AS BEING A MOTHER, I LEARNED THAT I HAVE MORE
- 00:14:52.100 --> 00:14:54.050
- RESPONSIBILITIES THAN JUST TAKING CARE OF
- 00:14:54.070 --> 00:14:56.180
- THINGS FOR MYSELF.
- 00:14:56.200 --> 00:14:57.250
- I HAVE THE RESPONSIBILITY, I HAVE A
- 00:14:57.270 --> 00:14:59.240
- WHOLE CHILD THAT I NEED TO TAKE CARE OF, AND I
- 00:14:59.260 --> 00:15:01.280
- HAVE TO SET A GOOD EXAMPLE FOR HIM, SO I
- 00:15:02.000 --> 00:15:05.290
- HAVE TO FOCUS ON SCHOOL, FINISH SCHOOL, HAVE A
- 00:15:06.010 --> 00:15:08.080
- CAREER PLAN, AND JUST MAKE LIFE EASIER FOR HIM
- 00:15:08.100 --> 00:15:11.140
- AND HE CAN JUST LOOK UP AND SAY MY MOM DID THIS,
- 00:15:11.160 --> 00:15:14.130
- AND I CAN JUST BE LIKE I DID THIS FOR YOU AND
- 00:15:14.150 --> 00:15:16.210
- FOR US, AND AS A FAMILY, YOU KNOW?
- 00:15:16.230 --> 00:15:20.180
- - AS A SOCIETY, WE NEED TO LOOK BEHIND THE
- 00:15:20.200 --> 00:15:23.030
- STATISTICS OF TEEN PREGNANCY.
- 00:15:23.050 --> 00:15:24.270
- WE NEED TO COME FACE-TO-FACE WITH THE
- 00:15:24.290 --> 00:15:26.230
- YOUNG WOMEN WHO ARE STRUGGLING AGAINST THE
- 00:15:26.250 --> 00:15:29.040
- DAUNTING CHALLENGES BUT ARE STILL CAPABLE OF
- 00:15:29.060 --> 00:15:32.010
- ACHIEVING HAPPY AND PRODUCTIVE LIVES FOR
- 00:15:32.030 --> 00:15:34.280
- THEMSELVES AND THEIR CHILDREN.
- 00:15:35.000 --> 00:15:37.060
- AND WHEN WE DO, WE HAVE NO CHOICE BUT TO ASK WHAT
- 00:15:37.080 --> 00:15:40.260
- CAN WE DO TO HELP?
- 00:15:40.280 --> 00:15:43.240
- - TAPP MEANS TEENAGE PARENT PROGRAMS, JUST AN
- 00:15:43.260 --> 00:15:46.040
- ACRONYM FOR TEENAGE PARENT PROGRAMS.
- 00:15:46.060 --> 00:15:48.240
- TAPP IS BUILT TO LET STUDENTS KNOW THAT TEEN
- 00:15:48.260 --> 00:15:52.000
- PREGNANCY HAPPENS SOMETIMES, RIGHT?
- 00:15:52.020 --> 00:15:54.050
- IT'S ALL ACROSS THE COUNTRY.
- 00:15:54.070 --> 00:15:55.200
- BUT THERE'S NOTHING TO BE ASHAMED OF, AND YOU CAN
- 00:15:55.220 --> 00:15:58.210
- STILL BE WITHIN THE JEFFERSON COUNTY PUBLIC
- 00:15:58.230 --> 00:16:00.090
- SCHOOL AND HAVE SOMEWHERE WHERE YOU HAVE, IT'S JUST
- 00:16:00.110 --> 00:16:03.270
- THE RESOURCES ARE JUST CRAZY, AND YOU CAN BE
- 00:16:03.290 --> 00:16:07.290
- SUCCESSFUL, AND YOU'VE GOT TO HAVE THAT DESIRE,
- 00:16:08.010 --> 00:16:10.240
- AND IF YOU DON'T WE TRY TO HELP YOU UNDERSTAND
- 00:16:10.260 --> 00:16:13.090
- WHY IT'S SO IMPORTANT.
- 00:16:13.110 --> 00:16:14.170
- SO EXAMPLE, I HAVE SOCIAL WORKERS THAT WORK IN THIS
- 00:16:14.190 --> 00:16:17.260
- BUILDING, AND WE CALL THEM STUDENT ADVOCATES,
- 00:16:17.280 --> 00:16:20.090
- AND THEY'RE HERE TO HELP, SUPPORT, REMOVE BARRIERS
- 00:16:20.110 --> 00:16:22.130
- FROM STUDENTS BECAUSE THERE'S A LOT OF THINGS
- 00:16:22.150 --> 00:16:24.190
- THAT HAPPEN OUTSIDE OF SCHOOL THAT THEY MIGHT
- 00:16:24.210 --> 00:16:27.150
- NOT KNOW HOW TO NAVIGATE BECAUSE THEY'RE YOUNG
- 00:16:27.170 --> 00:16:29.160
- AND NOW THEY'RE MOMS.
- 00:16:29.180 --> 00:16:31.150
- IN ADDITION TO THAT, WE HAVE A CHILDCARE CENTER HERE.
- 00:16:31.170 --> 00:16:34.080
- EVERY STUDENT'S CHILD GOES TO OUR CHILDCARE CENTER.
- 00:16:34.100 --> 00:16:36.250
- SO THEY'RE RIGHT DOWN THE HALLWAY.
- 00:16:36.270 --> 00:16:39.110
- YOU THINK ABOUT MOMS THAT BREAST-FEED.
- 00:16:39.130 --> 00:16:41.250
- THEY COME FROM CLASS, THEY COME DOWN AND
- 00:16:41.270 --> 00:16:43.290
- BREAST-FEED, THEY GO BACK TO LEARN.
- 00:16:44.010 --> 00:16:45.120
- THEY KNOW THEY'RE RIGHT THERE.
- 00:16:45.140 --> 00:16:47.100
- IT'S A 30 SECOND MOVE TO GET TO YOUR CHILD.
- 00:16:47.120 --> 00:16:50.030
- IN ADDITION WE HAVE A CLINIC.
- 00:16:50.050 --> 00:16:52.010
- WE DO PEDIATRICS, WE DO PRE AND POST-PARTUM, AND
- 00:16:52.030 --> 00:16:56.030
- WE ALSO HAVE A WIC PROGRAM WHICH HELPS
- 00:16:56.050 --> 00:16:58.220
- SUPPORT STUDENTS WITH GETTING SERVICES FOR MILK
- 00:16:58.240 --> 00:17:01.200
- AND OTHER THINGS THAT THEY MIGHT NEED TO HELP
- 00:17:01.220 --> 00:17:04.050
- SUPPORT TAKING CARE OF THEIR CHILD.
- 00:17:04.070 --> 00:17:05.280
- - I'M WITH THE FAMILY MEDICINE DEPARTMENT,
- 00:17:06.000 --> 00:17:07.120
- UNIVERSITY OF LOUISVILLE.
- 00:17:07.140 --> 00:17:09.080
- WE PARTNER WITH TAPP TO PROVIDE MEDICAL SERVICES
- 00:17:09.100 --> 00:17:13.180
- TO THE GIRLS AND TO THEIR BABIES.
- 00:17:13.200 --> 00:17:16.180
- IF A GIRL IN JEFFERSON COUNTY PUBLIC SCHOOLS
- 00:17:16.200 --> 00:17:19.120
- GETS PREGNANT, WE WISH IT DIDN'T HAPPEN BUT IT
- 00:17:19.140 --> 00:17:22.240
- DOES, SHE CAN EITHER STAY IN HER HOME SCHOOL AND
- 00:17:22.260 --> 00:17:25.200
- KEEP GOING, OR SHE CAN TRANSFER TO A TAPP SCHOOL.
- 00:17:25.220 --> 00:17:30.040
- THE REASON GIRLS TRANSFER HERE IS THERE ARE MORE
- 00:17:30.060 --> 00:17:33.290
- RESOURCES TO HELP THEM WITH WHAT IS ALWAYS AN
- 00:17:34.010 --> 00:17:37.000
- UNINTENDED PREGNANCY, AND THOSE RESOURCES ARE EFFECTIVE.
- 00:17:37.020 --> 00:17:41.160
- - TEENAGE PARENT PREGNANCY SERVICES WAS
- 00:17:41.180 --> 00:17:43.230
- STARTED IN JULY OF 2000 IN TUSCAN, ARIZONA
- 00:17:43.250 --> 00:17:47.150
- SPECIFICALLY TO IMPROVE PREGNANCY AND BIRTH
- 00:17:47.170 --> 00:17:50.130
- OUTCOMES FOR TEEN MOMS.
- 00:17:50.150 --> 00:17:53.060
- THERE WAS A CATALYST SITUATION THAT OCCURRED
- 00:17:53.080 --> 00:17:58.190
- THAT REALLY PUSHED ME TOWARDS STARTING TEEN
- 00:17:58.210 --> 00:18:01.180
- OUTREACH PREGNANCY SERVICES, AND THAT WAS A
- 00:18:01.200 --> 00:18:03.230
- YOUNG LADY WHO HAD BEEN PREGNANT AND HID HER
- 00:18:03.250 --> 00:18:09.040
- PREGNANCY FROM HER FRIENDS AND FAMILY
- 00:18:09.060 --> 00:18:11.090
- BECAUSE SHE WAS SO FRIGHTENED, AND SHE
- 00:18:11.110 --> 00:18:13.200
- DIDN'T KNOW WHERE TO TURN OR WHERE TO GO.
- 00:18:13.220 --> 00:18:16.060
- SHE ENDED UP GOING INTO LABOR AND DELIVERING THE
- 00:18:16.080 --> 00:18:19.180
- BABY AT HOME BY HERSELF, AND THE BABY PASSED AWAY
- 00:18:19.200 --> 00:18:24.040
- AFTER DELIVERY, AND THE BABY ENDED UP
- 00:18:24.060 --> 00:18:26.070
- IN THE TRASH CAN.
- 00:18:26.090 --> 00:18:28.200
- AND WHEN THAT HIT THE NEWS, IT WAS DEVASTATING
- 00:18:28.220 --> 00:18:32.040
- FOR ALL OF THOSE OF US WHO WORK IN THIS INDUSTRY
- 00:18:32.060 --> 00:18:34.130
- AND WORK WITH MOMS AND BABIES.
- 00:18:34.150 --> 00:18:36.110
- IT REALLY PUSHED ME TO DO SOMETHING.
- 00:18:36.130 --> 00:18:42.180
- I WASN'T QUITE SURE WHAT THAT SOMETHING WAS GOING
- 00:18:42.200 --> 00:18:44.170
- TO BE. I JUST KNEW THAT I COULDN'T WAIT FOR ANOTHER
- 00:18:44.190 --> 00:18:47.260
- TEEN TO GO THROUGH AN EXPERIENCE LIKE THAT OR
- 00:18:47.280 --> 00:18:52.010
- FOR ANOTHER BABY TO NOT GET A CHANCE TO LIVE.
- 00:18:52.030 --> 00:18:55.110
- - I HAVE A LOT OF GOOD SUPPORT SYSTEMS NOW.
- 00:18:55.130 --> 00:18:59.240
- MY GRANDPARENTS HAVE DEFINITELY BEEN A REALLY
- 00:18:59.260 --> 00:19:01.150
- GOOD SUPPORT SYSTEM.
- 00:19:01.170 --> 00:19:03.120
- NO MATTER WHAT, THEY'RE ALWAYS STILL THERE FOR
- 00:19:03.140 --> 00:19:05.200
- ME, AND THEY'RE ALWAYS ENCOURAGING ME TO
- 00:19:05.220 --> 00:19:07.290
- DO THE RIGHT THING.
- 00:19:08.010 --> 00:19:10.020
- AND EVERY MORNING I GET UP, MY GRANDMA IS LIKE
- 00:19:10.040 --> 00:19:12.050
- "HAVE A GREAT DAY AT SCHOOL, LEARN SOMETHING TODAY."
- 00:19:12.070 --> 00:19:15.210
- AND WHEN I COME HOME FROM SCHOOL MY GRANDPA IS LIKE
- 00:19:15.230 --> 00:19:18.000
- "SO WHAT DID YOU LEARN AT SCHOOL TODAY?"
- 00:19:18.020 --> 00:19:20.080
- THEY'RE JUST HAPPY FOR ME THAT I'M DOING EVERYTHING
- 00:19:20.100 --> 00:19:24.170
- I NEED TO DO TO GRADUATE AND FURTHER MY CAREER.
- 00:19:24.190 --> 00:19:30.270
- - WE'RE REAL BIG ON NOT DOING IT FOR THEM BECAUSE
- 00:19:30.290 --> 00:19:34.170
- THE ONLY WAY THEY CAN REALLY MOVE FORWARD INTO
- 00:19:34.190 --> 00:19:36.100
- ADULTHOOD IS TO LEARN HOW TO DO IT THEMSELVES.
- 00:19:36.120 --> 00:19:39.270
- AND SOMETIMES IT'S HARD BECAUSE IT WOULD BE
- 00:19:39.290 --> 00:19:43.030
- EASIER SOMETIMES TO JUST DO IT FOR THEM, BUT FOR
- 00:19:43.050 --> 00:19:50.280
- THE LONG RANGE GOAL FOR THESE TEEN FAMILIES IS
- 00:19:51.000 --> 00:19:55.060
- FOR THEM TO LEARN HOW TO NAVIGATE THE HEALTH CARE
- 00:19:55.080 --> 00:19:57.270
- SYSTEM, THE EDUCATION SYSTEM, LEARN HOW TO DO
- 00:19:57.290 --> 00:20:01.140
- BASIC LIFE SKILLS, LEARN HOW TO MANAGE A BUDGET
- 00:20:01.160 --> 00:20:05.220
- AND HOW TO FILL OUT YOUR TAX FORMS.
- 00:20:05.240 --> 00:20:08.010
- SIMPLE THINGS LIKE THAT THAT YOU WOULD HOPE THAT
- 00:20:08.030 --> 00:20:10.200
- SCHOOLS ARE TEACHING AND UNFORTUNATELY MAYBE THE
- 00:20:10.220 --> 00:20:13.120
- SCHOOLS ARE NOT TEACHING BASIC LIFE SKILLS ANYMORE.
- 00:20:13.140 --> 00:20:16.130
- SO THERE'S A WHOLE PLETHORA OF THINGS THAT
- 00:20:16.150 --> 00:20:19.160
- WE CAN DO TO HELP THESE TEENS SUCCEED AND BECOME
- 00:20:19.180 --> 00:20:22.000
- AWESOME PARENTS.
- 00:20:22.020 --> 00:20:24.210
- - WHILE I WAS PREGNANT AND AFTER I GAVE BIRTH
- 00:20:24.230 --> 00:20:26.210
- WITH MY CHILD, IT WAS REALLY HARD BEING AWAY
- 00:20:26.230 --> 00:20:30.110
- FROM HIM THE NUMBER OF HOURS EACH DAY THAT I
- 00:20:30.130 --> 00:20:33.130
- WAS, WHETHER I WAS AT SCHOOL OR AT WORK, BUT I
- 00:20:33.150 --> 00:20:36.140
- WANTED TO MAKE THOSE HOURS COUNT.
- 00:20:36.160 --> 00:20:39.000
- IF I WAS GOING TO BE AWAY FROM MY CHILD TO GO TO
- 00:20:39.020 --> 00:20:41.250
- SCHOOL, THEN I WAS GOING TO BE THE BEST AT SCHOOL.
- 00:20:41.270 --> 00:20:44.150
- AND IF I WAS GOING TO BE AWAY FROM HIM TO GO TO
- 00:20:44.170 --> 00:20:46.250
- WORK, THEN I WAS GOING TO GIVE MY ALL THERE ALSO.
- 00:20:46.270 --> 00:20:50.290
- AND SO WHEN I GRADUATED FROM HIGH SCHOOL IN MAY
- 00:20:51.010 --> 00:20:55.120
- 2003, I GRADUATED AS VALEDICTORIAN.
- 00:20:55.140 --> 00:21:01.020
- - YOU ARE THE GATEKEEPER OF WHAT YOUR SUCCESS
- 00:21:01.040 --> 00:21:03.240
- WILL LOOK LIKE.
- 00:21:03.260 --> 00:21:05.060
- AND ONE OF THE THINGS I SAY TO EVERY PARENT AND STUDENT
- 00:21:05.080 --> 00:21:07.010
- THAT I MEET WITH, IT'S NOT ABOUT YOU ANYMORE.
- 00:21:07.030 --> 00:21:10.230
- IT'S ABOUT YOU TO THE EXTENT THAT
- 00:21:10.250 --> 00:21:12.280
- IT AFFECTS THE CHILD.
- 00:21:13.000 --> 00:21:14.220
- AND STUDENTS SIT UP WITH THAT BECAUSE THEY'RE LIKE
- 00:21:14.240 --> 00:21:16.270
- WOW, YOU'RE TALKING ABOUT MY BABY.
- 00:21:16.290 --> 00:21:19.000
- YES, BECAUSE IF I CAN GET YOU TO DO WHAT YOU NEED
- 00:21:19.020 --> 00:21:21.170
- TO DO TO MAKE YOURSELF SUCCESSFUL, THAT BABY IS
- 00:21:21.190 --> 00:21:24.210
- GONNA JUST FLOURISH, AND THAT'S IMPORTANT TO US.
- 00:21:24.230 --> 00:21:27.220
- SO THAT ASSUMPTION COMES IN AT THE POINT OF YOU
- 00:21:27.240 --> 00:21:32.000
- CAN DO IT, YOU CAN MAKE IT.
- 00:21:32.020 --> 00:21:33.200
- I DON'T WANT TO HEAR THE EXCUSES.
- 00:21:33.220 --> 00:21:35.250
- IT DOESN'T MATTER WHAT HAPPENED, DOESN'T MATTER
- 00:21:35.270 --> 00:21:38.230
- HOW YOU GOT HERE; YOU'RE HERE.
- 00:21:38.250 --> 00:21:41.240
- LET US HELP YOU NAVIGATE BECAUSE YOU CAN BE SUCCESSFUL.
- 00:21:41.260 --> 00:21:45.040
- - I GRADUATED LAW SCHOOL ON MOTHER'S DAY IN 2010,
- 00:21:45.060 --> 00:21:50.120
- AND SO I WAS REALLY FORTUNATE TO BE ABLE TO
- 00:21:50.140 --> 00:21:53.240
- GRADUATE AND MOVE BACK HOME TO CHATTANOOGA AND
- 00:21:53.260 --> 00:21:57.010
- START PRACTICING IN ONE OF THE LARGER FIRMS THERE.
- 00:21:57.030 --> 00:22:01.020
- I CONTINUED TO WORK AT THE BIG LAW FIRM FOR
- 00:22:01.040 --> 00:22:03.260
- ABOUT FIVE YEARS.
- 00:22:03.280 --> 00:22:05.290
- AFTER THAT, I HUNG MY OWN SHINGLE.
- 00:22:06.010 --> 00:22:09.030
- I STARTED MY OWN PRACTICE ABOUT THREE YEARS AGO,
- 00:22:09.050 --> 00:22:12.180
- AND AT THE TIME I HAD A ONE YEAR OLD, A THREE
- 00:22:12.200 --> 00:22:14.280
- YEAR OLD AND A 14 YEAR OLD, AND I WAS MARRIED TO
- 00:22:15.000 --> 00:22:19.000
- A CAPTAIN IN THE ARMY WHO EVERY TIME I BLINKED, HE
- 00:22:19.020 --> 00:22:21.260
- WAS AWAY FOR ONE REASON OR ANOTHER, AND IT WAS
- 00:22:21.280 --> 00:22:25.260
- ONE OF THE HARDER THINGS IN LIFE, BUT IT HAS BEEN
- 00:22:25.280 --> 00:22:30.030
- WORTH IT WITHOUT QUESTION.
- 00:22:30.050 --> 00:22:32.210
- - TEEN PREGNANCY HAS FAR REACHING CONSEQUENCES,
- 00:22:35.000 --> 00:22:37.290
- AND UNPLANNED PREGNANCY FOR A YOUNG TEENAGER CAN
- 00:22:38.010 --> 00:22:40.210
- BRING FEELINGS OF SHOCK, FEAR AND CONFUSION.
- 00:22:40.230 --> 00:22:43.260
- IT IS IMPORTANT TO PROVIDE SUPPORT FOR
- 00:22:43.280 --> 00:22:45.220
- PREGNANT AND PARENTING TEENS TO HELP THEM
- 00:22:45.240 --> 00:22:47.290
- RECEIVE ADEQUATE SOCIAL AND EMOTIONAL CARE AS
- 00:22:48.010 --> 00:22:51.030
- WELL AS MEDICAL AND ACADEMIC AID.
- 00:22:51.050 --> 00:22:53.070
- THERE ARE A VARIETY OF RESOURCES INCLUDING
- 00:22:53.090 --> 00:22:55.090
- ABSTINENCE EDUCATION AND CLINIC BASED PROGRAMS
- 00:22:55.110 --> 00:22:58.180
- DESIGNED FOR DIVERSE POPULATIONS THAT CAN HELP
- 00:22:58.210 --> 00:23:01.050
- EDUCATE STUDENTS OF THE RISKS OF TEENAGE PREGNANCY.
- 00:23:01.070 --> 00:23:04.240
- IN ADDITION TO THESE PROGRAMS, TEENS NEED
- 00:23:04.260 --> 00:23:07.010
- SUPPORT FROM PARENTS AND OTHER TRUSTED ADULTS WHO
- 00:23:07.030 --> 00:23:10.040
- CAN PLAY AN IMPORTANT ROLE IN HELPING THEM
- 00:23:10.060 --> 00:23:11.290
- MAKE WISE CHOICES.
- 00:23:12.010 --> 00:23:14.000
- FOR OVER A DECADE, ASCEND HAS HELPED THOUSANDS OF
- 00:23:14.020 --> 00:23:16.240
- AMERICA'S YOUTH MAKE SMART FORWARD-THINKING
- 00:23:16.260 --> 00:23:19.130
- CHOICES ABOUT THEIR RELATIONSHIPS.
- 00:23:19.150 --> 00:23:21.180
- IF YOU WANT MORE INFORMATION ABOUT
- 00:23:21.200 --> 00:23:23.020
- PROGRAMS THAT TEACH STUDENTS THE BENEFITS OF
- 00:23:23.040 --> 00:23:25.260
- PRACTICING ABSTINENCE, PLEASE CALL.
- 00:23:25.280 --> 00:23:29.030
- - YOU KNOW, NO ONE WOULD ARGUE THAT THE BEST TIME
- 00:23:35.170 --> 00:23:37.270
- TO CHOOSE TO BECOME A PARENT IS WHEN YOU'RE IN
- 00:23:37.290 --> 00:23:40.170
- A POSITION OF EMOTIONAL, RELATIONAL AND FINANCIAL
- 00:23:40.190 --> 00:23:44.130
- STABILITY, READY TO DEVOTE YOUR LIFE TO THE
- 00:23:44.150 --> 00:23:47.020
- SUPPORT OF ANOTHER HUMAN BEING.
- 00:23:47.040 --> 00:23:49.170
- BUT AS A SOCIETY, WE HAVE HISTORICALLY BEEN TOO
- 00:23:49.190 --> 00:23:53.000
- QUICK TO TURN OUR BACKS ON THOSE WHO HAVE FOR
- 00:23:53.020 --> 00:23:56.030
- WHATEVER REASON FOUND THEMSELVES HAVING A CHILD
- 00:23:56.050 --> 00:23:59.040
- AT AN EARLY AGE.
- 00:23:59.060 --> 00:24:01.110
- WITHOUT SUBSTANTIAL SUPPORT, THE FUTURE
- 00:24:01.130 --> 00:24:04.010
- PROSPECT FOR THOSE YOUNG PARENTS ARE INDEED VERY GRIM.
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- BUT AS YOU HAVE SEEN BOTH STATISTICS AND INDIVIDUAL
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- STORIES HAVE POWERFULLY DEMONSTRATED THAT WHEN
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- FAMILIES, COMMUNITIES AND GOVERNMENTAL PROGRAMS
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- ACTUALLY COME TOGETHER TO PROVIDE A NETWORK OF
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- LOVING AND STRUCTURED ASSISTANTS, WELL THESE
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- YOUNG PARENTS CAN RISE ABOVE THE CHALLENGES OF
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- TEEN PARENTHOOD AND IN FACT ENJOY A PRODUCTIVE
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- FUTURE FOR THEMSELVES AND MOST IMPORTANTLY
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- FOR THEIR CHILDREN.
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- - THE ONE THING THAT TEENS WHO MAY BE FACING A
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- PREGNANCY COULD DO TO POSSIBLY HAVE SOME OF
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- THESE AMAZING OUTCOMES THAT WE'RE TALKING ABOUT
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- OUR TEENS IN ARIZONA HAVE HAD IS FIRST AND FOREMOST
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- YOU'VE GOT TO TALK TO YOUR FAMILY.
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- THE SOONER YOU TALK TO YOUR FAMILY, THE BETTER
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- EVERYONE'S GOING TO BE.
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- THE PREGNANCY IS GOING TO BECOME NOTICEABLE, AND
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- HIDING IT IS NOT GONNA BE GOOD FOR YOU,
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- YOUR BODY OR THE BABY.
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- SO THE FIRST AND FOREMOST, IF YOU FIND
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- YOURSELF IN A PLANNED OR UNPLANNED PREGNANCY,
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- TALK TO YOUR FAMILY. GET SOME SUPPORT.
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- - PART OF ME COMING HERE AS PRINCIPAL, THERE WAS A
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- QUOTE THAT I ACTUALLY PUT ON MY EMAIL BECAUSE I
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- THOUGHT IT WAS POWERFUL, AND I'M NOT REALLY SURE
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- IF MY PREDECESSOR ACTUALLY CREATED THE
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- QUOTE OR IF IT JUST EXISTED AMONG THE SCHOOL,
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- IF THEY CAME UP WITH IT AS A GROUP, AND IT SAYS
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- "TEENAGE PREGNANCY IS NOT A REASON TO FAIL,
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- IT'S A REASON WHY YOU MUST SUCCEED".
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- AND I THINK THAT'S BECOME THE NORM.
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- NOW, I'M NOT SAYING THAT TEEN PREGNANCY, LIKE
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- WE'RE GLORIFYING TEEN PREGNANCY.
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- THAT IS NOT WHAT I'M SAYING.
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- BUT I'M SAYING ONCE IT HAPPENS AND THAT STUDENT
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- DECIDES TO KEEP THEIR CHILD, WE HAVE TO BE
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- SUPPORTIVE OF THAT.
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- WE HAVE TO SHOW THEM THAT IT'S NOT THE END OF THE
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- WORLD AND GIVE THEM HOPE FOR THEM AND THEIR CHILD.
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- - I'VE LEARNED NOT TO GIVE UP ON YOURSELF
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- BECAUSE ONLY YOU CAN DECIDE WHERE YOUR LIFE
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- GOES, AND YOU HAVE TO PUSH THROUGH ALL THE
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- STRUGGLES AND ALL OF THE BARRIERS THAT
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- HANG OVER YOUR SHOULDER.
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- YOU HAVE TO BE STRONG FOR YOURSELF BECAUSE YOU'RE
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- THE ONLY ONE THAT CAN GET YOU THROUGH THOSE
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- CHALLENGES AND BARRIERS.
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- AND I FEEL THAT NOW I AM A CONFIDENT PERSON.
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- - I HAVE BIG PLANS RIGHT NOW.
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- I REALLY WANT TO GO TO COLLEGE AND MAKE IT BIG.
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- I WANT TO SHOW MY PARENTS THE SUCCESS THAT I HAVE
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- ACCOMPLISHED. I JUST--
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- I WANT, I WANT MY FAMILY TO JUST RECOGNIZE
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- ACCOMPLISHMENTS THAT I HAVE MADE AND HOW
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- I HAVE CHANGED.
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- - NOW MY KIDS ARE FOUR, SIX AND 17, AND IT'S
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- REALLY CRAZY BUT IT'S CRAZY ON MY TERMS.
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- IT'S CRAZY WHEN I ALLOW IT TO BE CRAZY.
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- I WORK LATE WHEN I CHOOSE TO WORK LATE, NOT BECAUSE
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- I'M BEING MADE TO DO SO.
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- AND I'M PRESENT FOR ABSOLUTELY EVERYTHING,
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- AND IT'S AMAZING.
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- IT'S NOT EASY BY ANY CHANCE, BUT IT'S AMAZING,
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- AND I'M THANKFUL.
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