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Meant to Be Part 2

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September 6, 2019
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Steven Furtick

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Meant to Be Part 2

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  • - Whether you're married
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    • or single, the real gift is not
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    • or single, the real gift is not
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    • the marriage or the singleness.
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    • the marriage or the singleness.
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    • That is a gift
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    • That is a gift
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    • but it's not the greatest gift.
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    • but it's not the greatest gift.
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    • The greatest gift that
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    • The greatest gift that
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    • God gives is called grace.
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    • God gives is called grace.
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    • He says, "One person
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    • He says, "One person
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    • has one gift, one has another.
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    • has one gift, one has another.
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    • But no matter which gift
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    • But no matter which gift
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    • you have,
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    • you have,
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    • here's what you really need.
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    • here's what you really need.
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    • You're going to need grace
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    • You're going to need grace
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    • - We're starting this series
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    • - We're starting this series
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    • today, which I have boldly
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    • today, which I have boldly
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    • called -- well the title is
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    • called -- well the title is
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    • "Meant to Be" but the subtitle
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    • "Meant to Be" but the subtitle
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    • says, "It's the Bible's
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    • says, "It's the Bible's
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    • Best Kept Secrets About Sex,
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    • Best Kept Secrets About Sex,
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    • Marriage, and Being Single."
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    • Marriage, and Being Single."
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    • 1 Corinthians 7:1-7.
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    • 1 Corinthians 7:1-7.
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    • "Paul says, 'Now for the matters
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    • "Paul says, 'Now for the matters
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    • you wrote about, it is good
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    • you wrote about, it is good
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    • for a man not to have
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    • for a man not to have
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    • sexual relations with a woman.
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    • sexual relations with a woman.
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    • But since sexual immorality
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    • But since sexual immorality
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    • is occurring, each man should
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    • is occurring, each man should
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    • have sexual relations
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    • have sexual relations
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    • with his own wife and each woman
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    • with his own wife and each woman
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    • with her own husband.'"
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    • with her own husband.'"
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    • The title of my
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    • The title of my
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    • message today, appropriately
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    • message today, appropriately
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    • I think, is "It Is Good
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    • I think, is "It Is Good
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    • for a Man Not to Have
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    • for a Man Not to Have
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    • Sexual Relations With a Woman."
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    • Sexual Relations With a Woman."
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    • But in order to understand
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    • But in order to understand
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    • the text, you do have to
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    • the text, you do have to
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    • understand the context.
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    • understand the context.
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    • The first thing --
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    • The first thing --
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    • I have four of these --
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    • I have four of these --
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    • that we want to talk about
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    • that we want to talk about
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    • today is the tension between
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    • today is the tension between
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    • questions and issues.
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    • questions and issues.
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    • Now historically the church
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    • Now historically the church
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    • has been really good
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    • has been really good
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    • at answering questions
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    • at answering questions
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    • that nobody is asking
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    • that nobody is asking
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    • while being silent about
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    • while being silent about
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    • the struggles that everybody
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    • the struggles that everybody
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    • is facing.
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    • is facing.
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    • I want to take five weeks
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    • I want to take five weeks
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    • with you and have conversations
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    • with you and have conversations
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    • about real issues,
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    • about real issues,
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    • because some of you,
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    • because some of you,
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    • the questions that
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    • you're asking are not indicative
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    • you're asking are not indicative
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    • of the real issues
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    • of the real issues
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    • that you're dealing with.
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    • that you're dealing with.
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    • I want to talk for a second
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    • I want to talk for a second
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    • about suggestions and standards.
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    • about suggestions and standards.
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    • Suggestions and standards.
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    • Suggestions and standards.
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    • Paul says, "In the church
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    • Paul says, "In the church
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    • there is sexual immorality
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    • there is sexual immorality
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    • that is occurring."
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    • that is occurring."
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    • That means there's
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    • still a standard.
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    • still a standard.
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    • If there's such a thing
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    • as sexual immorality,
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    • as sexual immorality,
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    • there's such a thing
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    • there's such a thing
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    • as sexual morality.
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    • as sexual morality.
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    • That means there's still
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    • That means there's still
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    • a right way to do sexuality.
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    • a right way to do sexuality.
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    • And here it is.
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    • And here it is.
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    • He defines it.
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    • He defines it.
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    • We don't have to make this stuff
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    • We don't have to make this stuff
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    • up because the bible gives
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    • up because the bible gives
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    • it to us straight.
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    • Here is God's sexual standard.
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    • Here is God's sexual standard.
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    • It's so clear.
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    • It's so clear.
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    • Verse two.
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    • Verse two.
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    • People ask us all the time,
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    • "What is the church's
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    • "What is the church's
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    • position on this....?"
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    • They say that all the time.
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    • That's exactly how they say it.
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    • [Mumbles]
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    • And so we say this.
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    • And so we say this.
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    • We say, "Okay.
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    • We say, "Okay.
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    • 1 Corinthians 7:2."
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    • 1 Corinthians 7:2."
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    • I'm not making something up.
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    • Each man should have
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    • Each man should have
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    • sexual relations
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    • with his own wife
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    • and each woman with her
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    • There's still a standard.
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    • There's still a standard.
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    • The next two words we'll talk
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    • about -- I only have four
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    • of these, so we're over
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    • uncomfortable sermon.
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    • Which is the least uncomfortable
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    • of all in
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    • the five-sermon series.
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    • the five-sermon series.
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    • See you next week.
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    • I'll talk about
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    • desire and duty.
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    • Desire and duty.
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    • Desire and duty.
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    • Look at verse three.
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    • Is it all right if I just teach
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    • Is it all right if I just teach
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    • you verse by verse like this?
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    • you verse by verse like this?
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    • - CONGREGATION: Yes.
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    • you got a job to do at home."
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    • Now I know this isn't
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    • he would see you as his duty?
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    • But before all of you men
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    • Inform the person next to you.
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    • for a time and devote yourselves
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    • "then you can do it,
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    • but make sure you come together
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    • coming to it for what you
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    • You can get right back to it.
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    • He says you can take
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    • a little prayer break if you
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    • Now listen, I know this sounds
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    • but you'd be amazed what happens
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    • to satisfy yourself.
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    • the ways that God can bless you,
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    • the ways that God can bless you,
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    • Paul says
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    • it's a beautiful thing.
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    • in the weeks to come.
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    • But I got to stop for today.
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    • But I got to stop for today.
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    • I want to show you
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    • one more thing.
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    • And I hope this'll speak to
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    • the heart of this series
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    • and God's intention for you.
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    • gifts and grace.
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    • gifts and grace.
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    • Gifts and grace.
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    • It's very interesting how Paul
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    • closes this particular section.
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    • closes this particular section.
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    • he answers their first question.
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    • He says, "Hey, if you're single,
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    • It's how you approach either one
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    • that determines what it'll be
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    • in your life."
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    • of you were as I am."
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    • Who says that?
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    • it's going to take grace.
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    • Come on.
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    • in our church today that need
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    • in our church today that need
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    • grace if they're going to work.
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    • We need grace to do this right.
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    • We need grace to do this right.
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    • It is not easy
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    • to stay committed.
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    • It is not easy to be faithful.
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    • It is not easy to be selfless.
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    • We need some grace.
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    • where you're crying at night
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    • where you're crying at night
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    • because there's nobody for you
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    • I'm not trivializing it.
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    • I'm just trying to bring it to
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    • a practical level.
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    • a practical level.
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    • It's not all the time some
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    • deep thing is just like,
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    • But did you know that the same
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    • grace that God gives to somebody
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    • grace that God gives to somebody
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    • for marriage is the same grace
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    • for marriage is the same grace
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    • that He will give you as a gift
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    • that He will give you as a gift
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    • in your singleness,
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    • in your times of loneliness,
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    • have somebody?
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    • It's the same grace.
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    • So watch this.
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    • God told me to tell you
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    • that the real gift is grace.
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    • that the real gift is grace.
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    • some of you are so focused on
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    • the gift that you want from God
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    • the gift that you want from God
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    • you're missing the grace
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    • that He's already given you.
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    • that He's already given you.
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    • I know some of you want a man,
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    • some of you want a woman.
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    • That's awesome.
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    • But don't miss the grace
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    • because you're so focused on
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    • because you're so focused on
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    • the gift you think you want.
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    • the gift you think you want.
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    • some things in your marriage
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    • right now, some real issues.
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    • right now, some real issues.
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    • But the real gift isn't that God
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    • would fix all the issues
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    • about your spouse.
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    • The real gift is that God
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    • The real gift is that God
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    • would give you the grace
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    • would give you the grace
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    • in the midst of the issues
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    • in the midst of the issues
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    • to trust Him and be faithful.
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    • to trust Him and be faithful.
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    • The gift is grace.
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    • The gift is grace.
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    • And I don't think there's
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    • anybody in the room today
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    • anybody in the room today
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    • who wouldn't say before
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    • the Lord, "I need
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    • the Lord, "I need
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    • this gift of grace."
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    • this gift of grace."
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    • if we're going to do
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    • it God's way,
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    • it God's way,
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    • it's going to take grace.
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    • it's going to take grace.
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    • Anybody in this place who
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    • needs the grace of God
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    • needs the grace of God
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    • for the season and situation
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    • for the season and situation
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    • you're in today,
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    • I want you to stand on your feet
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    • I want you to stand on your feet
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    • right now at all of
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    • right now at all of
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    • our locations.
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    • If you need grace.
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    • If you need grace.
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    • if you got it covered,
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    • if you got it covered,
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    • if you're good --
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    • but if you need grace,
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    • but if you need grace,
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    • stand on your feet today.
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    • stand on your feet today.
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    • Come on.
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    • Come on.
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    • Grace for the temptations
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    • Grace for the temptations
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    • that you're facing.
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    • that you're facing.
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    • Grace for the parts of your past
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    • Grace for the parts of your past
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    • that keep catching back up
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    • that keep catching back up
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    • with you again.
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    • with you again.
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    • Grace.
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    • Grace.
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    • Grace.
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    • God's great grace
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    • God's great grace
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    • is available today to everyone
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    • is available today to everyone
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    • who will receive it.
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    • who will receive it.
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    • Grace.
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    • Grace.
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    • Grace.
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    • Grace.
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    • of God.
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    • So the real gift is grace.
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    • So the real gift is grace.
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    • Grace.
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    • Grace.
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    • to change in your home.
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    • there's a gift called grace.
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    • there's a gift called grace.
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    • It's available to you.
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    • It's yours for the taking.
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    • Right now.
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    • Right here.
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    • You don't have to wait till
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    • you have a relationship with
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    • His grace is sufficient.
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    • His grace is sufficient.
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    • He simply calls it the thorn
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    • and that's where we start.
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    • and the gift is called grace.
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    • and the gift is called grace.
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    • So I came today not to offer you
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    • or how to get a guy in ten days.
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    • Seven easy steps to fix
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    • Seven easy steps to fix
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    • your marriage by Monday.
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    • Read the magazine.
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    • I came today to offer you
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    • I came today to offer you
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    • the inexhaustible supply of
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    • the inexhaustible supply of
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    • God's grace for whatever season
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    • and whatever struggle
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    • you're facing.
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    • If you want that grace,
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    • would you slip your hands
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    • if you want that grace?
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    • in this moment of ministry,
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    • "I need your grace Lord."
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    • "I need your grace Lord."
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    • - CONGREGATION: I need your
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    • - CONGREGATION: I need your
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    • grace Lord.
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    • grace Lord.
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    • - Say it again.
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    • - Say it again.
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    • I need your grace Lord.
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    • I need your grace Lord.
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    • - CONGREGATION: I need your
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    • - CONGREGATION: I need your
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    • grace Lord.
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    • grace Lord.
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    • - I need your grace Lord.
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    • - I need your grace Lord.
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    • - CONGREGATION: I need your
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    • - CONGREGATION: I need your
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    • grace Lord.
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    • grace Lord.
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    • - With your hands still lifted
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    • - With your hands still lifted
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    • high, now say, "I receive
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    • high, now say, "I receive
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    • some additional resources
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    • - ANNOUNCER: When it comes
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    • - ANNOUNCER: When it comes
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    • The world claims
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    • but maybe we've been focusing
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    • on the wrong problem all along.
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    • In our series, "Meant to Be",
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    • Pastor Steven Furtick
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    • has open conversations
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    • has open conversations
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    • to help us uncover
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    • the Bible's best kept secrets
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    • the Bible's best kept secrets
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    • about sex, marriage,
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    • - Most of the emphasis,
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    • in culture seems to be
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    • on finding the right one.
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    • when you come to the scripture,
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    • tends to be on being
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    • the right one.
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    • - For your gift of any amount
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    • - For your gift of any amount
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    • we'll send you
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    • the five-part
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    • which includes a message
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    • which includes a message
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    • with Pastor Steven
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    • with Pastor Steven
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    • and his wife Holly,
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    • where they share
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    • personal examples
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    • and scriptural insight on how
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    • we can invite God to work
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    • we can invite God to work
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    • in our everyday
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    • relationship challenges.
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    • relationship challenges.
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    • Pastor Steven also explains
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    • Pastor Steven also explains
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    • the unnecessary complications
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    • that sidetrack us
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    • that sidetrack us
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    • and he shows us
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    • what is truly meant to be
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    • in our lives
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    • in our lives
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    • when we have Jesus
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    • as our foundation.
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    • - I've been told all my life
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    • - I've been told all my life
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    • to put Jesus first,
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    • from everything else.
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    • Live as if Jesus
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    • Live as if Jesus
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    • but that He was
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    • the center of your world.
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    • - Visit us online
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    • - Visit us online
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    • at stevenfurtick.com,
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    • or call us at the number
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    • on your screen
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    • to get your copy
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    • to get your copy
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    • - Ustoppable God
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    • - Ustoppable God
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    • Let Your glory go
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    • Impossible things
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    • In Your name
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    • Unstoppable God
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    • Let Your glory go
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    • Impossible things
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    • In Your name
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