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- - What if you changed " data-timeend="">
- - What if you changed -->
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- your job description " data-timeend="">
- your job description -->
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- as a spouse today " data-timeend="">
- as a spouse today -->
- 00:00:04.040 --> 00:00:05.110 " data-timeend="">
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- and said CEO; " data-timeend="">
- and said CEO; -->
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- Chief Encouragement Officer? " data-timeend="">
- Chief Encouragement Officer? -->
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- You think God would bless " data-timeend="">
- You think God would bless -->
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- your marriage more? " data-timeend="">
- your marriage more? -->
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- - When I focus on what God " data-timeend="">
- - When I focus on what God -->
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- wants me to do " data-timeend="">
- wants me to do -->
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- then I can let God work on him. " data-timeend="">
- then I can let God work on him. -->
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- The way that I feel " data-timeend="">
- The way that I feel -->
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- is setting the tone " data-timeend="">
- is setting the tone -->
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- for our whole family. " data-timeend="">
- for our whole family. -->
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- And when he feels like " data-timeend="">
- And when he feels like -->
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- I'm unhappy then he feels " data-timeend="">
- I'm unhappy then he feels -->
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- like he's failing. " data-timeend="">
- like he's failing. -->
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- - And we're always feel " data-timeend="">
- - And we're always feel -->
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- like we're failing somewhere. " data-timeend="">
- like we're failing somewhere. -->
- 00:00:29.230 --> 00:00:30.230 " data-timeend="">
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- Paul said, he said, " data-timeend="">
- Paul said, he said, -->
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- "In any situation, " data-timeend="">
- "In any situation, -->
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- I can find " data-timeend="">
- I can find -->
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- - I love what Shaunti Feldhahn " data-timeend="">
- - I love what Shaunti Feldhahn -->
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- said in her book " data-timeend="">
- said in her book -->
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- "For Women Only". " data-timeend="">
- "For Women Only". -->
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- She said she surveyed " data-timeend="">
- She said she surveyed -->
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- hundreds of married people " data-timeend="">
- hundreds of married people -->
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- and asked them "What is " data-timeend="">
- and asked them "What is -->
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- the one most important thing " data-timeend="">
- the one most important thing -->
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- you wished your spouse " data-timeend="">
- you wished your spouse -->
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- understood about you but feel " data-timeend="">
- understood about you but feel -->
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- that he or she doesn't?" " data-timeend="">
- that he or she doesn't?" -->
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- And she said the overwhelming " data-timeend="">
- And she said the overwhelming -->
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- response was "I wish she knew " data-timeend="">
- response was "I wish she knew -->
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- how much I truly love her." " data-timeend="">
- how much I truly love her." -->
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- And if we could just go " data-timeend="">
- And if we could just go -->
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- back to that, " data-timeend="">
- back to that, -->
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- filter everything through. " data-timeend="">
- filter everything through. -->
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- You did this this morning. " data-timeend="">
- You did this this morning. -->
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- And you might not have " data-timeend="">
- And you might not have -->
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- even known it " data-timeend="">
- even known it -->
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- but I was rushing to get ready, " data-timeend="">
- but I was rushing to get ready, -->
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- and kind of let the time " data-timeend="">
- and kind of let the time -->
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- get ahead of me, " data-timeend="">
- get ahead of me, -->
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- and rather than you go " data-timeend="">
- and rather than you go -->
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- into this like " data-timeend="">
- into this like -->
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- "She doesn't respect my time." " data-timeend="">
- "She doesn't respect my time." -->
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- You were very patient. " data-timeend="">
- You were very patient. -->
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- And you were like " data-timeend="">
- And you were like -->
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- "Okay, are you ready?" " data-timeend="">
- "Okay, are you ready?" -->
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- - I just ate me a spoon " data-timeend="">
- - I just ate me a spoon -->
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- of peanut butter " data-timeend="">
- of peanut butter -->
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- and came on out. " data-timeend="">
- and came on out. -->
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- Let's go to the next point. " data-timeend="">
- Let's go to the next point. -->
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- I'm called to live " data-timeend="">
- I'm called to live -->
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- with contentment. " data-timeend="">
- with contentment. -->
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- How huge is this in our world " data-timeend="">
- How huge is this in our world -->
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- of constant comparisons today? " data-timeend="">
- of constant comparisons today? -->
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- Live with contentment. " data-timeend="">
- Live with contentment. -->
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- I mean I'm going to preach " data-timeend="">
- I mean I'm going to preach -->
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- about this at least " data-timeend="">
- about this at least -->
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- every other week " data-timeend="">
- every other week -->
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- for the next ten years, " data-timeend="">
- for the next ten years, -->
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- in some way or another. " data-timeend="">
- in some way or another. -->
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- This thing of contentment. " data-timeend="">
- This thing of contentment. -->
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- This thing about enjoying " data-timeend="">
- This thing about enjoying -->
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- where you are on the way " data-timeend="">
- where you are on the way -->
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- to where God is taking you. " data-timeend="">
- to where God is taking you. -->
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- I'm going to preach on it " data-timeend="">
- I'm going to preach on it -->
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- because I need it. " data-timeend="">
- because I need it. -->
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- I'm going to preach about it " data-timeend="">
- I'm going to preach about it -->
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- because our world is " data-timeend="">
- because our world is -->
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- antithetical to it. " data-timeend="">
- antithetical to it. -->
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- I'm going to preach about it " data-timeend="">
- I'm going to preach about it -->
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- because comparison " data-timeend="">
- because comparison -->
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- kills contentment. " data-timeend="">
- kills contentment. -->
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- And with no contentment " data-timeend="">
- And with no contentment -->
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- there can be no joy. " data-timeend="">
- there can be no joy. -->
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- I don't care how much stuff " data-timeend="">
- I don't care how much stuff -->
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- you have. " data-timeend="">
- you have. -->
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- And so I'm called to live " data-timeend="">
- And so I'm called to live -->
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- with contentment. " data-timeend="">
- with contentment. -->
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- Like that great Bible verse " data-timeend="">
- Like that great Bible verse -->
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- Philippians 4:13 where it says, " data-timeend="">
- Philippians 4:13 where it says, -->
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- "I can do all things through " data-timeend="">
- "I can do all things through -->
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- Christ who strengthens me." " data-timeend="">
- Christ who strengthens me." -->
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- And we use that verse " data-timeend="">
- And we use that verse -->
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- to set goals for ourselves, " data-timeend="">
- to set goals for ourselves, -->
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- you know? " data-timeend="">
- you know? -->
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- I can do this and I can do that. " data-timeend="">
- I can do this and I can do that. -->
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- But the verse right before it " data-timeend="">
- But the verse right before it -->
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- He says, "I've learned " data-timeend="">
- He says, "I've learned -->
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- the secret of being content " data-timeend="">
- the secret of being content -->
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- in any situation. " data-timeend="">
- in any situation. -->
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- No matter if I have little, " data-timeend="">
- No matter if I have little, -->
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- if I have a lot, " data-timeend="">
- if I have a lot, -->
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- if I'm abounding, " data-timeend="">
- if I'm abounding, -->
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- if I'm in need. " data-timeend="">
- if I'm in need. -->
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- I can do all things." " data-timeend="">
- I can do all things." -->
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- What? " data-timeend="">
- What? -->
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- I can do all things " data-timeend="">
- I can do all things -->
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- because I'm content. " data-timeend="">
- because I'm content. -->
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- So in any situation " data-timeend="">
- So in any situation -->
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- I'm called to contentment. " data-timeend="">
- I'm called to contentment. -->
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- And I guess, I'm not trying " data-timeend="">
- And I guess, I'm not trying -->
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- to divide men and women in this " data-timeend="">
- to divide men and women in this -->
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- because we respond " data-timeend="">
- because we respond -->
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- in different ways but, " data-timeend="">
- in different ways but, -->
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- like when I don't feel like " data-timeend="">
- like when I don't feel like -->
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- your content I feel that " data-timeend="">
- your content I feel that -->
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- that is you saying " data-timeend="">
- that is you saying -->
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- that I'm a bad provider. " data-timeend="">
- that I'm a bad provider. -->
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- And I probably shouldn't feel " data-timeend="">
- And I probably shouldn't feel -->
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- that way, shouldn't make it " data-timeend="">
- that way, shouldn't make it -->
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- about me, but I do. " data-timeend="">
- about me, but I do. -->
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- And then I become miserable. " data-timeend="">
- And then I become miserable. -->
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- - Yeah. " data-timeend="">
- - Yeah. -->
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- It's taken me a long time " data-timeend="">
- It's taken me a long time -->
- 00:03:01.210 --> 00:03:02.270 " data-timeend="">
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- to figure this out " data-timeend="">
- to figure this out -->
- 00:03:02.270 --> 00:03:04.020 " data-timeend="">
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- because I understand " data-timeend="">
- because I understand -->
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- that at his core, " data-timeend="">
- that at his core, -->
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- at a man's core, " data-timeend="">
- at a man's core, -->
- 00:03:07.080 --> 00:03:08.070 " data-timeend="">
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- is this need to provide. " data-timeend="">
- is this need to provide. -->
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- To provide for his wife, " data-timeend="">
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- to provide for his family. " data-timeend="">
- to provide for his family. -->
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- But I always took that to mean " data-timeend="">
- But I always took that to mean -->
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- he just wants to make sure " data-timeend="">
- he just wants to make sure -->
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- that our bills are paid " data-timeend="">
- that our bills are paid -->
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- every month. " data-timeend="">
- every month. -->
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- But it really goes way " data-timeend="">
- But it really goes way -->
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- beyond him providing financially " data-timeend="">
- beyond him providing financially -->
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- for us every month. " data-timeend="">
- for us every month. -->
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- I mean you have this need to, " data-timeend="">
- I mean you have this need to, -->
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- yeah I mean obviously, provide " data-timeend="">
- yeah I mean obviously, provide -->
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- for our needs every month. " data-timeend="">
- for our needs every month. -->
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- But then you want to provide " data-timeend="">
- But then you want to provide -->
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- stability for us. " data-timeend="">
- stability for us. -->
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- You want to provide " data-timeend="">
- You want to provide -->
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- for our future. " data-timeend="">
- for our future. -->
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- But even more than that " data-timeend="">
- But even more than that -->
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- a man feels like he wants " data-timeend="">
- a man feels like he wants -->
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- to provide happiness " data-timeend="">
- to provide happiness -->
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- for his wife, " data-timeend="">
- for his wife, -->
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- and for his family. " data-timeend="">
- and for his family. -->
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- And I think for women " data-timeend="">
- And I think for women -->
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- we really struggle with this. " data-timeend="">
- we really struggle with this. -->
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- Because it's so easy to let " data-timeend="">
- Because it's so easy to let -->
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- one thing upset us and let it " data-timeend="">
- one thing upset us and let it -->
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- just set the trajectory " data-timeend="">
- just set the trajectory -->
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- of our day " data-timeend="">
- of our day -->
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- in a terrible direction. " data-timeend="">
- in a terrible direction. -->
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- And I think sometimes " data-timeend="">
- And I think sometimes -->
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- I really fight this " data-timeend="">
- I really fight this -->
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- because it feels unfair. " data-timeend="">
- because it feels unfair. -->
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- Because whether I like it or not " data-timeend="">
- Because whether I like it or not -->
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- as a woman I am the thermostat " data-timeend="">
- as a woman I am the thermostat -->
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- of my home. " data-timeend="">
- of my home. -->
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- - True. " data-timeend="">
- - True. -->
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- - I set the tone. " data-timeend="">
- - I set the tone. -->
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- I set the mood. " data-timeend="">
- I set the mood. -->
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- - It's true. " data-timeend="">
- - It's true. -->
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- - And you can either -- " data-timeend="">
- - And you can either -- -->
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- I mean it is was it is. " data-timeend="">
- I mean it is was it is. -->
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- Is that fair? " data-timeend="">
- Is that fair? -->
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- No. " data-timeend="">
- No. -->
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- Why can't I be in a bad mood? " data-timeend="">
- Why can't I be in a bad mood? -->
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- Why can't I just have a bad day " data-timeend="">
- Why can't I just have a bad day -->
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- and everybody else just not be " data-timeend="">
- and everybody else just not be -->
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- in a bad mood too? " data-timeend="">
- in a bad mood too? -->
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- It's just not the way " data-timeend="">
- It's just not the way -->
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- that it works. " data-timeend="">
- that it works. -->
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- And so the way that I feel " data-timeend="">
- And so the way that I feel -->
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- is setting the tone " data-timeend="">
- is setting the tone -->
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- for our whole family. " data-timeend="">
- for our whole family. -->
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- And when he feels like " data-timeend="">
- And when he feels like -->
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- I'm unhappy then he feels " data-timeend="">
- I'm unhappy then he feels -->
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- like he's failing. " data-timeend="">
- like he's failing. -->
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- And I didn't even realize this. " data-timeend="">
- And I didn't even realize this. -->
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- Early on in our marriage " data-timeend="">
- Early on in our marriage -->
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- we had a conversation " data-timeend="">
- we had a conversation -->
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- that was really helpful for me. " data-timeend="">
- that was really helpful for me. -->
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- I was going through " data-timeend="">
- I was going through -->
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- a really difficult stage " data-timeend="">
- a really difficult stage -->
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- of life. " data-timeend="">
- of life. -->
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- I was knee deep in babies. " data-timeend="">
- I was knee deep in babies. -->
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- We had Elijah and Graham, " data-timeend="">
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- are two years apart. " data-timeend="">
- are two years apart. -->
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- So I spent over a year " data-timeend="">
- So I spent over a year -->
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- where I had two children " data-timeend="">
- where I had two children -->
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- in diapers. " data-timeend="">
- in diapers. -->
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- And so I was just knee deep " data-timeend="">
- And so I was just knee deep -->
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- in diapers and mommyness. " data-timeend="">
- in diapers and mommyness. -->
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- You know? " data-timeend="">
- You know? -->
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- Like where these little things " data-timeend="">
- Like where these little things -->
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- just control everything " data-timeend="">
- just control everything -->
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- about your life. " data-timeend="">
- about your life. -->
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- They tell you when you wake up. " data-timeend="">
- They tell you when you wake up. -->
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- They tell you when you can go " data-timeend="">
- They tell you when you can go -->
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- to sleep. " data-timeend="">
- to sleep. -->
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- They tell you when " data-timeend="">
- They tell you when -->
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- you can take a shower. " data-timeend="">
- you can take a shower. -->
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- They tell you when you can eat. " data-timeend="">
- They tell you when you can eat. -->
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- And after a while it was " data-timeend="">
- And after a while it was -->
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- just compounding on me. " data-timeend="">
- just compounding on me. -->
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- And I was just feeling " data-timeend="">
- And I was just feeling -->
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- disappointed with motherhood. " data-timeend="">
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- Like "This isn't what I thought " data-timeend="">
- Like "This isn't what I thought -->
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- it was going to be." " data-timeend="">
- it was going to be." -->
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- And I was just every day. " data-timeend="">
- And I was just every day. -->
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- And he would come home and " data-timeend="">
- And he would come home and -->
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- I was just overwhelmed " data-timeend="">
- I was just overwhelmed -->
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- with how long the day had been " data-timeend="">
- with how long the day had been -->
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- and you're finally here. " data-timeend="">
- and you're finally here. -->
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- And he sat me down one day " data-timeend="">
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- and he was like "I just -- " data-timeend="">
- and he was like "I just -- -->
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- I feel like you're not happy. " data-timeend="">
- I feel like you're not happy. -->
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- And I feel like you're not happy " data-timeend="">
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- with me." " data-timeend="">
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- And I -- this has nothing " data-timeend="">
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- to do with you. " data-timeend="">
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- But then I realized it does " data-timeend="">
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- have everything to do with him. " data-timeend="">
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- And because he's feeling " data-timeend="">
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- like he needs to help me. " data-timeend="">
- like he needs to help me. -->
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- How can I help you get happy? " data-timeend="">
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- And I realized in that moment " data-timeend="">
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- that I can change the way " data-timeend="">
- that I can change the way -->
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- that I feel. " data-timeend="">
- that I feel. -->
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- I can -- it's all about " data-timeend="">
- I can -- it's all about -->
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- my perspective " data-timeend="">
- my perspective -->
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- and what I'm looking at. " data-timeend="">
- and what I'm looking at. -->
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- Philippians 4:8 says, " data-timeend="">
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- "Finally brothers and sister " data-timeend="">
- "Finally brothers and sister -->
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- whatever is true, " data-timeend="">
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- whatever is noble, " data-timeend="">
- whatever is noble, -->
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- whatever is right, " data-timeend="">
- whatever is right, -->
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- whatever is pure, " data-timeend="">
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- whatever is lovely, " data-timeend="">
- whatever is lovely, -->
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- whatever is admirable, " data-timeend="">
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- if there's anything excellent " data-timeend="">
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- or praiseworthy " data-timeend="">
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- think about such things." " data-timeend="">
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- And sometimes it just takes " data-timeend="">
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- a few seconds to just hit " data-timeend="">
- a few seconds to just hit -->
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- the reset button and say, " data-timeend="">
- the reset button and say, -->
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- "Wait, wait, wait. " data-timeend="">
- "Wait, wait, wait. -->
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- I have two healthy kids. " data-timeend="">
- I have two healthy kids. -->
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- Well, now we have three. " data-timeend="">
- Well, now we have three. -->
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- And I have a husband " data-timeend="">
- And I have a husband -->
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- that loves me. " data-timeend="">
- that loves me. -->
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- And this is good. " data-timeend="">
- And this is good. -->
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- This is good. " data-timeend="">
- This is good. -->
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- In this moment I'm feeling " data-timeend="">
- In this moment I'm feeling -->
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- frustrated but I'm happy." " data-timeend="">
- frustrated but I'm happy." -->
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- And being able to communicate " data-timeend="">
- And being able to communicate -->
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- that to you. " data-timeend="">
- that to you. -->
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- And just being able to say " data-timeend="">
- And just being able to say -->
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- to you like, "I love our family. " data-timeend="">
- to you like, "I love our family. -->
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- I love my life." " data-timeend="">
- I love my life." -->
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- And just taking a moment " data-timeend="">
- And just taking a moment -->
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- to express to him " data-timeend="">
- to express to him -->
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- that I am content. " data-timeend="">
- that I am content. -->
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- - 'Cause I want to help " data-timeend="">
- - 'Cause I want to help -->
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- the men out and say something " data-timeend="">
- the men out and say something -->
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- to your woman. " data-timeend="">
- to your woman. -->
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- Most of us feel like " data-timeend="">
- Most of us feel like -->
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- we're failing most of the time. " data-timeend="">
- we're failing most of the time. -->
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- We don't show you that. " data-timeend="">
- We don't show you that. -->
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- But in at least one area, " data-timeend="">
- But in at least one area, -->
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- and maybe you can relate " data-timeend="">
- and maybe you can relate -->
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- and maybe you can't, " data-timeend="">
- and maybe you can't, -->
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- but we live by scorecards. " data-timeend="">
- but we live by scorecards. -->
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- And we feel like we're failing " data-timeend="">
- And we feel like we're failing -->
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- at everything if we're failing " data-timeend="">
- at everything if we're failing -->
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- at anything. " data-timeend="">
- at anything. -->
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- So if we're doing well at work " data-timeend="">
- So if we're doing well at work -->
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- we probably feel like " data-timeend="">
- we probably feel like -->
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- we're cheating something " data-timeend="">
- we're cheating something -->
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- that needs to happen at home. " data-timeend="">
- that needs to happen at home. -->
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- And if we're doing great " data-timeend="">
- And if we're doing great -->
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- at home, you know, we're making " data-timeend="">
- at home, you know, we're making -->
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- pancakes but we're broke. " data-timeend="">
- pancakes but we're broke. -->
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- And we're always feel " data-timeend="">
- And we're always feel -->
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- like we're failing somewhere. " data-timeend="">
- like we're failing somewhere. -->
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- You have the power to give " data-timeend="">
- You have the power to give -->
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- your man a win just by pointing " data-timeend="">
- your man a win just by pointing -->
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- out something that you like " data-timeend="">
- out something that you like -->
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- that he made possible for you. " data-timeend="">
- that he made possible for you. -->
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- And if you want him to be " data-timeend="">
- And if you want him to be -->
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- a winner give him a win. " data-timeend="">
- a winner give him a win. -->
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- If you want him to be a winner " data-timeend="">
- If you want him to be a winner -->
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- give him a win. " data-timeend="">
- give him a win. -->
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- But the power of this is not " data-timeend="">
- But the power of this is not -->
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- when you, who really do love " data-timeend="">
- when you, who really do love -->
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- everything that's happening " data-timeend="">
- everything that's happening -->
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- in your life and your content. " data-timeend="">
- in your life and your content. -->
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- Men and women now. " data-timeend="">
- Men and women now. -->
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- It's when you do what Paul said. " data-timeend="">
- It's when you do what Paul said. -->
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- He said, "In any situation, " data-timeend="">
- He said, "In any situation, -->
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- in any situation I can find " data-timeend="">
- in any situation I can find -->
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- something to celebrate " data-timeend="">
- something to celebrate -->
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- in that situation." " data-timeend="">
- in that situation." -->
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- And you just -- you do " data-timeend="">
- And you just -- you do -->
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- a touchdown dance you know? " data-timeend="">
- a touchdown dance you know? -->
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- Even if you're not anywhere " data-timeend="">
- Even if you're not anywhere -->
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- near the end zone. " data-timeend="">
- near the end zone. -->
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- And it's amazing how that energy " data-timeend="">
- And it's amazing how that energy -->
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- just energizes that thing " data-timeend="">
- just energizes that thing -->
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- of contentment. " data-timeend="">
- of contentment. -->
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- But it's hard. " data-timeend="">
- But it's hard. -->
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- I think it's hard to live " data-timeend="">
- I think it's hard to live -->
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- with contentment. " data-timeend="">
- with contentment. -->
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- I appreciate, though, " data-timeend="">
- I appreciate, though, -->
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- that you made me feel " data-timeend="">
- that you made me feel -->
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- this way every season " data-timeend="">
- this way every season -->
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- of our life. " data-timeend="">
- of our life. -->
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- Because God has blessed us " data-timeend="">
- Because God has blessed us -->
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- in a lot of ways now. " data-timeend="">
- in a lot of ways now. -->
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- We pastor a church " data-timeend="">
- We pastor a church -->
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- that's growing. " data-timeend="">
- that's growing. -->
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- A large church. " data-timeend="">
- A large church. -->
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- God has blessed us " data-timeend="">
- God has blessed us -->
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- in ways materially. " data-timeend="">
- in ways materially. -->
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- God has blessed us " data-timeend="">
- God has blessed us -->
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- with influence. " data-timeend="">
- with influence. -->
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- But I felt like you've, " data-timeend="">
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- aside from that one six months " data-timeend="">
- aside from that one six months -->
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- where you seemed very sad " data-timeend="">
- where you seemed very sad -->
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- and I felt bad for you, " data-timeend="">
- and I felt bad for you, -->
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- I feel like on balance. " data-timeend="">
- I feel like on balance. -->
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- Not every day but you've always " data-timeend="">
- Not every day but you've always -->
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- made me feel when we moved " data-timeend="">
- made me feel when we moved -->
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- into that apartment " data-timeend="">
- into that apartment -->
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- in Juniper Terrace, " data-timeend="">
- in Juniper Terrace, -->
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- you made me feel like that " data-timeend="">
- you made me feel like that -->
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- 720 square feet was a palace. " data-timeend="">
- 720 square feet was a palace. -->
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- I was proud because I was " data-timeend="">
- I was proud because I was -->
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- able to put down " data-timeend="">
- able to put down -->
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- the security deposit. " data-timeend="">
- the security deposit. -->
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- And I felt like the man. " data-timeend="">
- And I felt like the man. -->
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- And in that season " data-timeend="">
- And in that season -->
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- we got furniture " data-timeend="">
- we got furniture -->
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- from Eric Phillips' dad, " data-timeend="">
- from Eric Phillips' dad, -->
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- who's gone to be with Lord, " data-timeend="">
- who's gone to be with Lord, -->
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- Mr. Rob he had a mobile -- " data-timeend="">
- Mr. Rob he had a mobile -- -->
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- he would go repossess furniture " data-timeend="">
- he would go repossess furniture -->
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- from mobile homes. " data-timeend="">
- from mobile homes. -->
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- That's our first furniture. " data-timeend="">
- That's our first furniture. -->
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- That was our first bedroom. " data-timeend="">
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- Did I get that right? " data-timeend="">
- Did I get that right? -->
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- That was our first -- I was " data-timeend="">
- That was our first -- I was -->
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- so proud of that furniture. " data-timeend="">
- so proud of that furniture. -->
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- 'Cause I had the hookup, " data-timeend="">
- 'Cause I had the hookup, -->
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- I had the street smarts to find " data-timeend="">
- I had the street smarts to find -->
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- the man who repossesses " data-timeend="">
- the man who repossesses -->
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- the furniture " data-timeend="">
- the furniture -->
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- from the mobile homes. -->
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- Come on. " data-timeend="">
- Come on. -->
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- That takes skills. " data-timeend="">
- That takes skills. -->
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- That's OG. " data-timeend="">
- That's OG. -->
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- Come on. " data-timeend="">
- Come on. -->
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- And we were celebrating " data-timeend="">
- And we were celebrating -->
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- that ugly furniture, " data-timeend="">
- that ugly furniture, -->
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- that nasty furniture. " data-timeend="">
- that nasty furniture. -->
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- And so contentment " data-timeend="">
- And so contentment -->
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- breeds celebration " data-timeend="">
- breeds celebration -->
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- which breeds success. " data-timeend="">
- which breeds success. -->
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- And if you get happy about " data-timeend="">
- And if you get happy about -->
- 00:09:38.070 --> 00:09:39.290 " data-timeend="">
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- what you have, " data-timeend="">
- what you have, -->
- 00:09:39.290 --> 00:09:41.100 " data-timeend="">
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- and where you are... " data-timeend="">
- and where you are... -->
- 00:09:41.100 --> 00:09:42.290 " data-timeend="">
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- I'm called to live " data-timeend="">
- I'm called to live -->
- 00:09:42.290 --> 00:09:43.230 " data-timeend="">
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- with contentment. " data-timeend="">
- with contentment. -->
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- Next one. " data-timeend="">
- Next one. -->
- 00:09:44.210 --> 00:09:45.050 " data-timeend="">
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- We gotta move because " data-timeend="">
- We gotta move because -->
- 00:09:45.050 --> 00:09:46.070 " data-timeend="">
- 00:09:45.050 --> 00:09:46.070 -->
- I preached so long winded " data-timeend="">
- I preached so long winded -->
- 00:09:46.070 --> 00:09:47.070 " data-timeend="">
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- last week all of you are going " data-timeend="">
- last week all of you are going -->
- 00:09:47.070 --> 00:09:48.100 " data-timeend="">
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- to stop coming to church here " data-timeend="">
- to stop coming to church here -->
- 00:09:48.100 --> 00:09:49.060 " data-timeend="">
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- if I make you miss " data-timeend="">
- if I make you miss -->
- 00:09:49.060 --> 00:09:49.290 " data-timeend="">
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- football games. " data-timeend="">
- football games. -->
- 00:09:49.290 --> 00:09:50.270 " data-timeend="">
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- I am called to let God be God. " data-timeend="">
- I am called to let God be God. -->
- 00:09:51.070 --> 00:09:54.070 " data-timeend="">
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- Let's talk about that Holly. " data-timeend="">
- Let's talk about that Holly. -->
- 00:09:54.070 --> 00:09:55.160 " data-timeend="">
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- Let God be God. " data-timeend="">
- Let God be God. -->
- 00:09:55.160 --> 00:09:56.200 " data-timeend="">
- 00:09:55.160 --> 00:09:56.200 -->
- Tell them that story about " data-timeend="">
- Tell them that story about -->
- 00:09:56.200 --> 00:09:57.230 " data-timeend="">
- 00:09:56.200 --> 00:09:57.230 -->
- the mom and the pancakes. " data-timeend="">
- the mom and the pancakes. -->
- 00:09:57.230 --> 00:09:59.050 " data-timeend="">
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- Great story. " data-timeend="">
- Great story. -->
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- - Okay. " data-timeend="">
- - Okay. -->
- 00:10:00.010 --> 00:10:00.190 " data-timeend="">
- 00:10:00.010 --> 00:10:00.190 -->
- So there's this mom, " data-timeend="">
- So there's this mom, -->
- 00:10:00.190 --> 00:10:02.120 " data-timeend="">
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- you may have heard this story " data-timeend="">
- you may have heard this story -->
- 00:10:02.120 --> 00:10:03.090 " data-timeend="">
- 00:10:02.120 --> 00:10:03.090 -->
- before, she was making pancakes " data-timeend="">
- before, she was making pancakes -->
- 00:10:03.090 --> 00:10:04.130 " data-timeend="">
- 00:10:03.090 --> 00:10:04.130 -->
- for her two little boys. " data-timeend="">
- for her two little boys. -->
- 00:10:04.130 --> 00:10:06.060 " data-timeend="">
- 00:10:04.130 --> 00:10:06.060 -->
- And they started to argue " data-timeend="">
- And they started to argue -->
- 00:10:06.060 --> 00:10:07.170 " data-timeend="">
- 00:10:06.060 --> 00:10:07.170 -->
- about who would get " data-timeend="">
- about who would get -->
- 00:10:07.170 --> 00:10:08.150 " data-timeend="">
- 00:10:07.170 --> 00:10:08.150 -->
- the first pancake. " data-timeend="">
- the first pancake. -->
- 00:10:08.150 --> 00:10:09.080 " data-timeend="">
- 00:10:08.150 --> 00:10:09.080 -->
- And so the mom said to herself, " data-timeend="">
- And so the mom said to herself, -->
- 00:10:09.080 --> 00:10:11.290 " data-timeend="">
- 00:10:09.080 --> 00:10:11.290 -->
- "I'm going to take this and make " data-timeend="">
- "I'm going to take this and make -->
- 00:10:11.290 --> 00:10:13.080 " data-timeend="">
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- this a teachable moment." " data-timeend="">
- this a teachable moment." -->
- 00:10:13.080 --> 00:10:14.070 " data-timeend="">
- 00:10:13.080 --> 00:10:14.070 -->
- She looked at her boys " data-timeend="">
- She looked at her boys -->
- 00:10:14.070 --> 00:10:15.030 " data-timeend="">
- 00:10:14.070 --> 00:10:15.030 -->
- and she said, "Boys, you know, " data-timeend="">
- and she said, "Boys, you know, -->
- 00:10:15.030 --> 00:10:16.250 " data-timeend="">
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- if Jesus were here, " data-timeend="">
- if Jesus were here, -->
- 00:10:16.250 --> 00:10:18.070 " data-timeend="">
- 00:10:16.250 --> 00:10:18.070 -->
- He would want His brother " data-timeend="">
- He would want His brother -->
- 00:10:18.070 --> 00:10:19.270 " data-timeend="">
- 00:10:18.070 --> 00:10:19.270 -->
- to have the first pancake." " data-timeend="">
- to have the first pancake." -->
- 00:10:19.270 --> 00:10:21.180 " data-timeend="">
- 00:10:19.270 --> 00:10:21.180 -->
- And the older little boy looked " data-timeend="">
- And the older little boy looked -->
- 00:10:21.180 --> 00:10:23.000 " data-timeend="">
- 00:10:21.180 --> 00:10:23.000 -->
- at his younger brother " data-timeend="">
- at his younger brother -->
- 00:10:23.000 --> 00:10:23.260 " data-timeend="">
- 00:10:23.000 --> 00:10:23.260 -->
- and said, "You be Jesus." " data-timeend="">
- and said, "You be Jesus." -->
- 00:10:23.260 --> 00:10:26.120 " data-timeend="">
- 00:10:23.260 --> 00:10:26.120 -->
- - Nice. " data-timeend="">
- - Nice. -->
- 00:10:26.120 --> 00:10:28.220 " data-timeend="">
- 00:10:26.120 --> 00:10:28.220 -->
- Nice. " data-timeend="">
- Nice. -->
- 00:10:28.220 --> 00:10:30.250 " data-timeend="">
- 00:10:28.220 --> 00:10:30.250 -->
- - It's what we do in marriage " data-timeend="">
- - It's what we do in marriage -->
- 00:10:30.250 --> 00:10:32.010 " data-timeend="">
- 00:10:30.250 --> 00:10:32.010 -->
- you know? " data-timeend="">
- you know? -->
- 00:10:32.010 --> 00:10:32.260 " data-timeend="">
- 00:10:32.010 --> 00:10:32.260 -->
- We don't want to focus " data-timeend="">
- We don't want to focus -->
- 00:10:32.260 --> 00:10:33.220 " data-timeend="">
- 00:10:32.260 --> 00:10:33.220 -->
- on our own calling. " data-timeend="">
- on our own calling. -->
- 00:10:33.220 --> 00:10:35.020 " data-timeend="">
- 00:10:33.220 --> 00:10:35.020 -->
- We don't want to do the things " data-timeend="">
- We don't want to do the things -->
- 00:10:35.020 --> 00:10:36.020 " data-timeend="">
- 00:10:35.020 --> 00:10:36.020 -->
- that God has called us to do. " data-timeend="">
- that God has called us to do. -->
- 00:10:36.020 --> 00:10:37.110 " data-timeend="">
- 00:10:36.020 --> 00:10:37.110 -->
- We want to look at our spouses " data-timeend="">
- We want to look at our spouses -->
- 00:10:37.110 --> 00:10:38.140 " data-timeend="">
- 00:10:37.110 --> 00:10:38.140 -->
- and say, "You be Jesus." " data-timeend="">
- and say, "You be Jesus." -->
- 00:10:38.140 --> 00:10:40.000 " data-timeend="">
- 00:10:38.140 --> 00:10:40.000 -->
- You say I'm sorry. " data-timeend="">
- You say I'm sorry. -->
- 00:10:40.000 --> 00:10:42.090 " data-timeend="">
- 00:10:40.000 --> 00:10:42.090 -->
- I'm not saying I'm sorry first. " data-timeend="">
- I'm not saying I'm sorry first. -->
- 00:10:42.090 --> 00:10:43.200 " data-timeend="">
- 00:10:42.090 --> 00:10:43.200 -->
- I'm going to wait this out. " data-timeend="">
- I'm going to wait this out. -->
- 00:10:43.200 --> 00:10:44.220 " data-timeend="">
- 00:10:43.200 --> 00:10:44.220 -->
- You be Jesus. " data-timeend="">
- You be Jesus. -->
- 00:10:44.220 --> 00:10:45.150 " data-timeend="">
- 00:10:44.220 --> 00:10:45.150 -->
- But then the second part of it " data-timeend="">
- But then the second part of it -->
- 00:10:45.150 --> 00:10:46.110 " data-timeend="">
- 00:10:45.150 --> 00:10:46.110 -->
- is "You be Jesus." " data-timeend="">
- is "You be Jesus." -->
- 00:10:46.110 --> 00:10:48.230 " data-timeend="">
- 00:10:46.110 --> 00:10:48.230 -->
- So I'm not saying don't tell him " data-timeend="">
- So I'm not saying don't tell him -->
- 00:10:48.230 --> 00:10:50.030 " data-timeend="">
- 00:10:48.230 --> 00:10:50.030 -->
- to be -- you, " data-timeend="">
- to be -- you, -->
- 00:10:50.030 --> 00:10:50.240 " data-timeend="">
- 00:10:50.030 --> 00:10:50.240 -->
- you be Jesus to your spouse. " data-timeend="">
- you be Jesus to your spouse. -->
- 00:10:50.240 --> 00:10:53.000 " data-timeend="">
- 00:10:50.240 --> 00:10:53.000 -->
- And then let God be God. " data-timeend="">
- And then let God be God. -->
- 00:10:53.000 --> 00:10:55.090 " data-timeend="">
- 00:10:53.000 --> 00:10:55.090 -->
- And I love how Philippians 2:8 " data-timeend="">
- And I love how Philippians 2:8 -->
- 00:10:55.090 --> 00:10:57.220 " data-timeend="">
- 00:10:55.090 --> 00:10:57.220 -->
- says about Jesus, " data-timeend="">
- says about Jesus, -->
- 00:10:57.220 --> 00:10:58.270 " data-timeend="">
- 00:10:57.220 --> 00:10:58.270 -->
- "And being found " data-timeend="">
- "And being found -->
- 00:10:58.270 --> 00:10:59.100 " data-timeend="">
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- in the appearance as a man " data-timeend="">
- in the appearance as a man -->
- 00:10:59.100 --> 00:11:00.160 " data-timeend="">
- 00:10:59.100 --> 00:11:00.160 -->
- he humbled himself " data-timeend="">
- he humbled himself -->
- 00:11:00.160 --> 00:11:01.250 " data-timeend="">
- 00:11:00.160 --> 00:11:01.250 -->
- by becoming obedient to death. " data-timeend="">
- by becoming obedient to death. -->
- 00:11:01.250 --> 00:11:03.210 " data-timeend="">
- 00:11:01.250 --> 00:11:03.210 -->
- Even death on a cross." " data-timeend="">
- Even death on a cross." -->
- 00:11:03.210 --> 00:11:05.040 " data-timeend="">
- 00:11:03.210 --> 00:11:05.040 -->
- So Jesus did his part. " data-timeend="">
- So Jesus did his part. -->
- 00:11:05.040 --> 00:11:06.230 " data-timeend="">
- 00:11:05.040 --> 00:11:06.230 -->
- He was obedient. " data-timeend="">
- He was obedient. -->
- 00:11:06.230 --> 00:11:07.160 " data-timeend="">
- 00:11:06.230 --> 00:11:07.160 -->
- And then God exalted him " data-timeend="">
- And then God exalted him -->
- 00:11:07.160 --> 00:11:09.190 " data-timeend="">
- 00:11:07.160 --> 00:11:09.190 -->
- to the highest place " data-timeend="">
- to the highest place -->
- 00:11:09.190 --> 00:11:10.280 " data-timeend="">
- 00:11:09.190 --> 00:11:10.280 -->
- and gave him to the name " data-timeend="">
- and gave him to the name -->
- 00:11:10.280 --> 00:11:12.020 " data-timeend="">
- 00:11:10.280 --> 00:11:12.020 -->
- that is above every name. " data-timeend="">
- that is above every name. -->
- 00:11:12.020 --> 00:11:13.270 " data-timeend="">
- 00:11:12.020 --> 00:11:13.270 -->
- When I focus on what God " data-timeend="">
- When I focus on what God -->
- 00:11:13.270 --> 00:11:16.070 " data-timeend="">
- 00:11:13.270 --> 00:11:16.070 -->
- wants me to do " data-timeend="">
- wants me to do -->
- 00:11:16.070 --> 00:11:17.200 " data-timeend="">
- 00:11:16.070 --> 00:11:17.200 -->
- then I can let God work on him. " data-timeend="">
- then I can let God work on him. -->
- 00:11:18.120 --> 00:11:21.120 " data-timeend="">
- 00:11:18.120 --> 00:11:21.120 -->
- And I love -- my boys " data-timeend="">
- And I love -- my boys -->
- 00:11:21.120 --> 00:11:22.290 " data-timeend="">
- 00:11:21.120 --> 00:11:22.290 -->
- always remind me of this " data-timeend="">
- always remind me of this -->
- 00:11:22.290 --> 00:11:24.170 " data-timeend="">
- 00:11:22.290 --> 00:11:24.170 -->
- because inevitably this happens, " data-timeend="">
- because inevitably this happens, -->
- 00:11:24.170 --> 00:11:27.070 " data-timeend="">
- 00:11:24.170 --> 00:11:27.070 -->
- probably once a week -- " data-timeend="">
- probably once a week -- -->
- 00:11:27.070 --> 00:11:28.010 " data-timeend="">
- 00:11:27.070 --> 00:11:28.010 -->
- - Of being like Jesus? " data-timeend="">
- - Of being like Jesus? -->
- 00:11:28.010 --> 00:11:28.270 " data-timeend="">
- 00:11:28.010 --> 00:11:28.270 -->
- - No. " data-timeend="">
- - No. -->
- 00:11:28.270 --> 00:11:30.050 " data-timeend="">
- 00:11:28.270 --> 00:11:30.050 -->
- Letting God be God. " data-timeend="">
- Letting God be God. -->
- 00:11:30.050 --> 00:11:31.060 " data-timeend="">
- 00:11:30.050 --> 00:11:31.060 -->
- Inevitably in our house, " data-timeend="">
- Inevitably in our house, -->
- 00:11:31.060 --> 00:11:33.080 " data-timeend="">
- 00:11:31.060 --> 00:11:33.080 -->
- probably about once a week, " data-timeend="">
- probably about once a week, -->
- 00:11:33.080 --> 00:11:34.140 " data-timeend="">
- 00:11:33.080 --> 00:11:34.140 -->
- I'll say, "Boys, go clean " data-timeend="">
- I'll say, "Boys, go clean -->
- 00:11:34.140 --> 00:11:35.230 " data-timeend="">
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- your room." " data-timeend="">
- your room." -->
- 00:11:35.230 --> 00:11:36.090 " data-timeend="">
- 00:11:35.230 --> 00:11:36.090 -->
- They share a room together. " data-timeend="">
- They share a room together. -->
- 00:11:36.090 --> 00:11:37.050 " data-timeend="">
- 00:11:36.090 --> 00:11:37.050 -->
- And, you know, " data-timeend="">
- And, you know, -->
- 00:11:37.050 --> 00:11:39.030 " data-timeend="">
- 00:11:37.050 --> 00:11:39.030 -->
- they'll go upstairs, "Aww." " data-timeend="">
- they'll go upstairs, "Aww." -->
- 00:11:39.030 --> 00:11:41.110 " data-timeend="">
- 00:11:39.030 --> 00:11:41.110 -->
- They do the whole thing. " data-timeend="">
- They do the whole thing. -->
- 00:11:41.110 --> 00:11:42.070 " data-timeend="">
- 00:11:41.110 --> 00:11:42.070 -->
- They go upstairs " data-timeend="">
- They go upstairs -->
- 00:11:42.070 --> 00:11:43.240 " data-timeend="">
- 00:11:42.070 --> 00:11:43.240 -->
- and a few minutes will pass by. " data-timeend="">
- and a few minutes will pass by. -->
- 00:11:43.240 --> 00:11:44.250 " data-timeend="">
- 00:11:43.240 --> 00:11:44.250 -->
- It will be quiet. " data-timeend="">
- It will be quiet. -->
- 00:11:44.250 --> 00:11:45.160 " data-timeend="">
- 00:11:44.250 --> 00:11:45.160 -->
- And then inevitably you start " data-timeend="">
- And then inevitably you start -->
- 00:11:45.160 --> 00:11:46.290 " data-timeend="">
- 00:11:45.160 --> 00:11:46.290 -->
- to hear this fight brewing. " data-timeend="">
- to hear this fight brewing. -->
- 00:11:46.290 --> 00:11:48.290 " data-timeend="">
- 00:11:46.290 --> 00:11:48.290 -->
- And you start to hear them " data-timeend="">
- And you start to hear them -->
- 00:11:48.290 --> 00:11:50.260 " data-timeend="">
- 00:11:48.290 --> 00:11:50.260 -->
- yelling at each other. " data-timeend="">
- yelling at each other. -->
- 00:11:50.260 --> 00:11:52.090 " data-timeend="">
- 00:11:50.260 --> 00:11:52.090 -->
- And then the yelling " data-timeend="">
- And then the yelling -->
- 00:11:52.090 --> 00:11:53.000 " data-timeend="">
- 00:11:52.090 --> 00:11:53.000 -->
- gets louder. " data-timeend="">
- gets louder. -->
- 00:11:53.000 --> 00:11:53.230 " data-timeend="">
- 00:11:53.000 --> 00:11:53.230 -->
- And then, in our house, Graham, " data-timeend="">
- And then, in our house, Graham, -->
- 00:11:53.230 --> 00:11:56.000 " data-timeend="">
- 00:11:53.230 --> 00:11:56.000 -->
- who's the younger one, " data-timeend="">
- who's the younger one, -->
- 00:11:56.000 --> 00:11:56.180 " data-timeend="">
- 00:11:56.000 --> 00:11:56.180 -->
- he starts to cry. " data-timeend="">
- he starts to cry. -->
- 00:11:56.180 --> 00:11:58.030 " data-timeend="">
- 00:11:56.180 --> 00:11:58.030 -->
- And it's just this loud " data-timeend="">
- And it's just this loud -->
- 00:11:58.030 --> 00:11:59.110 " data-timeend="">
- 00:11:58.030 --> 00:11:59.110 -->
- like "I'm hurt" cry. " data-timeend="">
- like "I'm hurt" cry. -->
- 00:11:59.110 --> 00:12:00.230 " data-timeend="">
- 00:11:59.110 --> 00:12:00.230 -->
- The whole drama thing. " data-timeend="">
- The whole drama thing. -->
- 00:12:00.230 --> 00:12:02.110 " data-timeend="">
- 00:12:00.230 --> 00:12:02.110 -->
- And so I go upstairs " data-timeend="">
- And so I go upstairs -->
- 00:12:02.110 --> 00:12:04.010 " data-timeend="">
- 00:12:02.110 --> 00:12:04.010 -->
- and the room is not clean, " data-timeend="">
- and the room is not clean, -->
- 00:12:04.010 --> 00:12:06.070 " data-timeend="">
- 00:12:04.010 --> 00:12:06.070 -->
- it looks exactly the same " data-timeend="">
- it looks exactly the same -->
- 00:12:06.070 --> 00:12:07.280 " data-timeend="">
- 00:12:06.070 --> 00:12:07.280 -->
- as it looked before. " data-timeend="">
- as it looked before. -->
- 00:12:07.280 --> 00:12:09.050 " data-timeend="">
- 00:12:07.280 --> 00:12:09.050 -->
- Graham's on the floor " data-timeend="">
- Graham's on the floor -->
- 00:12:09.050 --> 00:12:10.130 " data-timeend="">
- 00:12:09.050 --> 00:12:10.130 -->
- in a puddle of tears and drama. " data-timeend="">
- in a puddle of tears and drama. -->
- 00:12:10.130 --> 00:12:12.210 " data-timeend="">
- 00:12:10.130 --> 00:12:12.210 -->
- And he's saying, " data-timeend="">
- And he's saying, -->
- 00:12:12.210 --> 00:12:14.150 " data-timeend="">
- 00:12:12.210 --> 00:12:14.150 -->
- "He punched me." " data-timeend="">
- "He punched me." -->
- 00:12:14.150 --> 00:12:15.190 " data-timeend="">
- 00:12:14.150 --> 00:12:15.190 -->
- And I'll look at Elijah like, " data-timeend="">
- And I'll look at Elijah like, -->
- 00:12:15.190 --> 00:12:17.130 " data-timeend="">
- 00:12:15.190 --> 00:12:17.130 -->
- "What's going on?" " data-timeend="">
- "What's going on?" -->
- 00:12:17.130 --> 00:12:19.240 " data-timeend="">
- 00:12:17.130 --> 00:12:19.240 -->
- And he'll say, " data-timeend="">
- And he'll say, -->
- 00:12:19.240 --> 00:12:20.250 " data-timeend="">
- 00:12:19.240 --> 00:12:20.250 -->
- "Graham wouldn't clean up." " data-timeend="">
- "Graham wouldn't clean up." -->
- 00:12:20.250 --> 00:12:21.270 " data-timeend="">
- 00:12:20.250 --> 00:12:21.270 -->
- - You look at him like what? " data-timeend="">
- - You look at him like what? -->
- 00:12:21.270 --> 00:12:23.100 " data-timeend="">
- 00:12:21.270 --> 00:12:23.100 -->
- Say it the way " data-timeend="">
- Say it the way -->
- 00:12:23.100 --> 00:12:24.130 " data-timeend="">
- 00:12:23.100 --> 00:12:24.130 -->
- you really say it. " data-timeend="">
- you really say it. -->
- 00:12:24.130 --> 00:12:25.230 " data-timeend="">
- 00:12:24.130 --> 00:12:25.230 -->
- - "What did you do?" " data-timeend="">
- - "What did you do?" -->
- 00:12:25.230 --> 00:12:28.070 " data-timeend="">
- 00:12:25.230 --> 00:12:28.070 -->
- - That's halfway there. " data-timeend="">
- - That's halfway there. -->
- 00:12:29.040 --> 00:12:32.040 " data-timeend="">
- 00:12:29.040 --> 00:12:32.040 -->
- - And he'll say, " data-timeend="">
- - And he'll say, -->
- 00:12:32.040 --> 00:12:32.210 " data-timeend="">
- 00:12:32.040 --> 00:12:32.210 -->
- "Graham wouldn't clean up. " data-timeend="">
- "Graham wouldn't clean up. -->
- 00:12:32.210 --> 00:12:34.090 " data-timeend="">
- 00:12:32.210 --> 00:12:34.090 -->
- He wouldn't clean up." " data-timeend="">
- He wouldn't clean up." -->
- 00:12:34.090 --> 00:12:35.240 " data-timeend="">
- 00:12:34.090 --> 00:12:35.240 -->
- "Well Elijah, your bed " data-timeend="">
- "Well Elijah, your bed -->
- 00:12:35.240 --> 00:12:37.230 " data-timeend="">
- 00:12:35.240 --> 00:12:37.230 -->
- is unmade, your drawers " data-timeend="">
- is unmade, your drawers -->
- 00:12:37.230 --> 00:12:39.100 " data-timeend="">
- 00:12:37.230 --> 00:12:39.100 -->
- are all still open. " data-timeend="">
- are all still open. -->
- 00:12:39.100 --> 00:12:40.090 " data-timeend="">
- 00:12:39.100 --> 00:12:40.090 -->
- Your towels on the floor. " data-timeend="">
- Your towels on the floor. -->
- 00:12:40.090 --> 00:12:43.080 " data-timeend="">
- 00:12:40.090 --> 00:12:43.080 -->
- You've got to let me be the mom. " data-timeend="">
- You've got to let me be the mom. -->
- 00:12:43.080 --> 00:12:45.260 " data-timeend="">
- 00:12:43.080 --> 00:12:45.260 -->
- You're not the mom. " data-timeend="">
- You're not the mom. -->
- 00:12:45.260 --> 00:12:47.040 " data-timeend="">
- 00:12:45.260 --> 00:12:47.040 -->
- I'm the mom. " data-timeend="">
- I'm the mom. -->
- 00:12:47.040 --> 00:12:48.060 " data-timeend="">
- 00:12:47.040 --> 00:12:48.060 -->
- You do what you need to do " data-timeend="">
- You do what you need to do -->
- 00:12:48.060 --> 00:12:50.070 " data-timeend="">
- 00:12:48.060 --> 00:12:50.070 -->
- and let me take care of Graham " data-timeend="">
- and let me take care of Graham -->
- 00:12:50.070 --> 00:12:52.020 " data-timeend="">
- 00:12:50.070 --> 00:12:52.020 -->
- if he's not going to clean up " data-timeend="">
- if he's not going to clean up -->
- 00:12:52.020 --> 00:12:53.120 " data-timeend="">
- 00:12:52.020 --> 00:12:53.120 -->
- his part." " data-timeend="">
- his part." -->
- 00:12:53.120 --> 00:12:54.150 " data-timeend="">
- 00:12:53.120 --> 00:12:54.150 -->
- And don't you feel like " data-timeend="">
- And don't you feel like -->
- 00:12:54.150 --> 00:12:56.160 " data-timeend="">
- 00:12:54.150 --> 00:12:56.160 -->
- that's what God is looking " data-timeend="">
- that's what God is looking -->
- 00:12:56.160 --> 00:12:57.190 " data-timeend="">
- 00:12:56.160 --> 00:12:57.190 -->
- down at us? " data-timeend="">
- down at us? -->
- 00:12:57.190 --> 00:12:58.070 " data-timeend="">
- 00:12:57.190 --> 00:12:58.070 -->
- - Oh my God. " data-timeend="">
- - Oh my God. -->
- 00:12:58.070 --> 00:12:58.250 " data-timeend="">
- 00:12:58.070 --> 00:12:58.250 -->
- Preach. " data-timeend="">
- Preach. -->
- 00:12:58.250 --> 00:13:00.220 " data-timeend="">
- 00:12:58.250 --> 00:13:00.220 -->
- Preach, Sister Holly. " data-timeend="">
- Preach, Sister Holly. -->
- 00:13:07.040 --> 00:13:10.040 " data-timeend="">
- 00:13:07.040 --> 00:13:10.040 -->
- God looks down on his children " data-timeend="">
- God looks down on his children -->
- 00:13:10.040 --> 00:13:11.090 " data-timeend="">
- 00:13:10.040 --> 00:13:11.090 -->
- fighting and said, "Would you " data-timeend="">
- fighting and said, "Would you -->
- 00:13:11.090 --> 00:13:12.240 " data-timeend="">
- 00:13:11.090 --> 00:13:12.240 -->
- let me be the Father? " data-timeend="">
- let me be the Father? -->
- 00:13:12.280 --> 00:13:15.280 " data-timeend="">
- 00:13:12.280 --> 00:13:15.280 -->
- Quit trying to straighten " data-timeend="">
- Quit trying to straighten -->
- 00:13:15.280 --> 00:13:17.000 " data-timeend="">
- 00:13:15.280 --> 00:13:17.000 -->
- them out. " data-timeend="">
- them out. -->
- 00:13:17.000 --> 00:13:17.210 " data-timeend="">
- 00:13:17.000 --> 00:13:17.210 -->
- Maybe I'd like to straighten " data-timeend="">
- Maybe I'd like to straighten -->
- 00:13:17.210 --> 00:13:18.160 " data-timeend="">
- 00:13:17.210 --> 00:13:18.160 -->
- you out. " data-timeend="">
- you out. -->
- 00:13:18.160 --> 00:13:19.170 " data-timeend="">
- 00:13:18.160 --> 00:13:19.170 -->
- Don't make me -- don't make me " data-timeend="">
- Don't make me -- don't make me -->
- 00:13:19.170 --> 00:13:22.020 " data-timeend="">
- 00:13:19.170 --> 00:13:22.020 -->
- come downstairs. " data-timeend="">
- come downstairs. -->
- 00:13:22.020 --> 00:13:24.170 " data-timeend="">
- 00:13:22.020 --> 00:13:24.170 -->
- I'll straighten ya'll both out." " data-timeend="">
- I'll straighten ya'll both out." -->
- 00:13:24.170 --> 00:13:26.180 " data-timeend="">
- 00:13:24.170 --> 00:13:26.180 -->
- Let God be God. " data-timeend="">
- Let God be God. -->
- 00:13:26.180 --> 00:13:27.200 " data-timeend="">
- 00:13:26.180 --> 00:13:27.200 -->
- We gotta go to the next one. " data-timeend="">
- We gotta go to the next one. -->
- 00:13:27.200 --> 00:13:28.220 " data-timeend="">
- 00:13:27.200 --> 00:13:28.220 -->
- We could talk about that " data-timeend="">
- We could talk about that -->
- 00:13:28.220 --> 00:13:29.140 " data-timeend="">
- 00:13:28.220 --> 00:13:29.140 -->
- all day. " data-timeend="">
- all day. -->
- 00:13:29.140 --> 00:13:30.070 " data-timeend="">
- 00:13:29.140 --> 00:13:30.070 -->
- But let God be God. " data-timeend="">
- But let God be God. -->
- 00:13:30.070 --> 00:13:32.240 " data-timeend="">
- 00:13:30.070 --> 00:13:32.240 -->
- He's way better at His job " data-timeend="">
- He's way better at His job -->
- 00:13:32.240 --> 00:13:34.070 " data-timeend="">
- 00:13:32.240 --> 00:13:34.070 -->
- than you could ever be. " data-timeend="">
- than you could ever be. -->
- 00:13:34.070 --> 00:13:36.200 " data-timeend="">
- 00:13:34.070 --> 00:13:36.200 -->
- And some of us are engaging " data-timeend="">
- And some of us are engaging -->
- 00:13:36.200 --> 00:13:37.140 " data-timeend="">
- 00:13:36.200 --> 00:13:37.140 -->
- in things of trying " data-timeend="">
- in things of trying -->
- 00:13:37.140 --> 00:13:38.080 " data-timeend="">
- 00:13:37.140 --> 00:13:38.080 -->
- to fix people and marriages " data-timeend="">
- to fix people and marriages -->
- 00:13:38.080 --> 00:13:39.030 " data-timeend="">
- 00:13:38.080 --> 00:13:39.030 -->
- that are above our pay grade, " data-timeend="">
- that are above our pay grade, -->
- 00:13:39.030 --> 00:13:39.260 " data-timeend="">
- 00:13:39.030 --> 00:13:39.260 -->
- frankly. " data-timeend="">
- frankly. -->
- 00:13:39.260 --> 00:13:41.080 " data-timeend="">
- 00:13:39.260 --> 00:13:41.080 -->
- And God wants His job back. " data-timeend="">
- And God wants His job back. -->
- 00:13:41.080 --> 00:13:43.250 " data-timeend="">
- 00:13:41.080 --> 00:13:43.250 -->
- And if you be Jesus " data-timeend="">
- And if you be Jesus -->
- 00:13:43.250 --> 00:13:44.150 " data-timeend="">
- 00:13:43.250 --> 00:13:44.150 -->
- and let God be God " data-timeend="">
- and let God be God -->
- 00:13:44.150 --> 00:13:45.100 " data-timeend="">
- 00:13:44.150 --> 00:13:45.100 -->
- then he'll take care of the -- " data-timeend="">
- then he'll take care of the -- -->
- 00:13:45.100 --> 00:13:47.030 " data-timeend="">
- 00:13:45.100 --> 00:13:47.030 -->
- He's way better at fixing " data-timeend="">
- He's way better at fixing -->
- 00:13:47.030 --> 00:13:48.050 " data-timeend="">
- 00:13:47.030 --> 00:13:48.050 -->
- that person than you are. " data-timeend="">
- that person than you are. -->
- 00:13:48.050 --> 00:13:49.230 " data-timeend="">
- 00:13:48.050 --> 00:13:49.230 -->
- If you'd get out of the way " data-timeend="">
- If you'd get out of the way -->
- 00:13:49.230 --> 00:13:50.260 " data-timeend="">
- 00:13:49.230 --> 00:13:50.260 -->
- He might do it. " data-timeend="">
- He might do it. -->
- 00:13:50.260 --> 00:13:52.130 " data-timeend="">
- 00:13:50.260 --> 00:13:52.130 -->
- The very thing that you're " data-timeend="">
- The very thing that you're -->
- 00:13:52.130 --> 00:13:53.120 " data-timeend="">
- 00:13:52.130 --> 00:13:53.120 -->
- freaking out about. " data-timeend="">
- freaking out about. -->
- 00:13:53.120 --> 00:13:54.110 " data-timeend="">
- 00:13:53.120 --> 00:13:54.110 -->
- - He can whisper in a minute " data-timeend="">
- - He can whisper in a minute -->
- 00:13:54.110 --> 00:13:55.130 " data-timeend="">
- 00:13:54.110 --> 00:13:55.130 -->
- the thing that it would take me " data-timeend="">
- the thing that it would take me -->
- 00:13:55.130 --> 00:13:56.120 " data-timeend="">
- 00:13:55.130 --> 00:13:56.120 -->
- months to nag you about. " data-timeend="">
- months to nag you about. -->
- 00:13:56.120 --> 00:13:58.240 " data-timeend="">
- 00:13:56.120 --> 00:13:58.240 -->
- - Say it again. " data-timeend="">
- - Say it again. -->
- 00:13:58.240 --> 00:14:00.120 " data-timeend="">
- 00:13:58.240 --> 00:14:00.120 -->
- And everybody in the church " data-timeend="">
- And everybody in the church -->
- 00:14:00.120 --> 00:14:01.140 " data-timeend="">
- 00:14:00.120 --> 00:14:01.140 -->
- tweeted at once. " data-timeend="">
- tweeted at once. -->
- 00:14:01.140 --> 00:14:03.030 " data-timeend="">
- 00:14:01.140 --> 00:14:03.030 -->
- He can -- say it " data-timeend="">
- He can -- say it -->
- 00:14:03.030 --> 00:14:04.270 " data-timeend="">
- 00:14:03.030 --> 00:14:04.270 -->
- I don't remember. " data-timeend="">
- I don't remember. -->
- 00:14:04.270 --> 00:14:05.130 " data-timeend="">
- 00:14:04.270 --> 00:14:05.130 -->
- - He can whisper in just a snap " data-timeend="">
- - He can whisper in just a snap -->
- 00:14:05.160 --> 00:14:08.160 " data-timeend="">
- 00:14:05.160 --> 00:14:08.160 -->
- of a finger, he can whisper " data-timeend="">
- of a finger, he can whisper -->
- 00:14:08.160 --> 00:14:10.190 " data-timeend="">
- 00:14:08.160 --> 00:14:10.190 -->
- into my husband's ear, " data-timeend="">
- into my husband's ear, -->
- 00:14:10.190 --> 00:14:11.290 " data-timeend="">
- 00:14:10.190 --> 00:14:11.290 -->
- something that I've been nagging " data-timeend="">
- something that I've been nagging -->
- 00:14:11.290 --> 00:14:13.030 " data-timeend="">
- 00:14:11.290 --> 00:14:13.030 -->
- to him for months about. " data-timeend="">
- to him for months about. -->
- 00:14:13.030 --> 00:14:15.230 " data-timeend="">
- 00:14:13.030 --> 00:14:15.230 -->
- if you would just -- if I would " data-timeend="">
- if you would just -- if I would -->
- 00:14:15.230 --> 00:14:17.140 " data-timeend="">
- 00:14:15.230 --> 00:14:17.140 -->
- just focus on me " data-timeend="">
- just focus on me -->
- 00:14:17.140 --> 00:14:19.010 " data-timeend="">
- 00:14:17.140 --> 00:14:19.010 -->
- and let God work on him. " data-timeend="">
- and let God work on him. -->
- 00:14:19.010 --> 00:14:21.000 " data-timeend="">
- 00:14:19.010 --> 00:14:21.000 -->
- And trust that God will work " data-timeend="">
- And trust that God will work -->
- 00:14:21.000 --> 00:14:22.140 " data-timeend="">
- 00:14:21.000 --> 00:14:22.140 -->
- on him. " data-timeend="">
- on him. -->
- 00:14:22.140 --> 00:14:23.090 " data-timeend="">
- 00:14:22.140 --> 00:14:23.090 -->
- - God could do it. " data-timeend="">
- - God could do it. -->
- 00:14:23.090 --> 00:14:26.060 " data-timeend="">
- 00:14:23.090 --> 00:14:26.060 -->
- God wants to whisper what " data-timeend="">
- God wants to whisper what -->
- 00:14:26.180 --> 00:14:29.180 " data-timeend="">
- 00:14:26.180 --> 00:14:29.180 -->
- you've been trying to shout. " data-timeend="">
- you've been trying to shout. -->
- 00:14:29.180 --> 00:14:31.140 " data-timeend="">
- 00:14:29.180 --> 00:14:31.140 -->
- If you'll shut your mouth. " data-timeend="">
- If you'll shut your mouth. -->
- 00:14:32.070 --> 00:14:35.070 " data-timeend="">
- 00:14:32.070 --> 00:14:35.070 -->
- This is getting good. " data-timeend="">
- This is getting good. -->
- 00:14:35.070 --> 00:14:37.070 " data-timeend="">
- 00:14:35.070 --> 00:14:37.070 -->
- This is getting good. " data-timeend="">
- This is getting good. -->
- 00:14:37.070 --> 00:14:38.220 " data-timeend="">
- 00:14:37.070 --> 00:14:38.220 -->
- I'm called to encourage " data-timeend="">
- I'm called to encourage -->
- 00:14:38.220 --> 00:14:41.000 " data-timeend="">
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- your strengths. " data-timeend="">
- your strengths. -->
- 00:14:41.000 --> 00:14:41.260 " data-timeend="">
- 00:14:41.000 --> 00:14:41.260 -->
- We're almost home now. " data-timeend="">
- We're almost home now. -->
- 00:14:41.260 --> 00:14:43.040 " data-timeend="">
- 00:14:41.260 --> 00:14:43.040 -->
- I am called to encourage " data-timeend="">
- I am called to encourage -->
- 00:14:43.040 --> 00:14:45.020 " data-timeend="">
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- your strengths. " data-timeend="">
- your strengths. -->
- 00:14:45.020 --> 00:14:45.290 " data-timeend="">
- 00:14:45.020 --> 00:14:45.290 -->
- We need to point this out " data-timeend="">
- We need to point this out -->
- 00:14:45.290 --> 00:14:48.120 " data-timeend="">
- 00:14:45.290 --> 00:14:48.120 -->
- because as we've been saying " data-timeend="">
- because as we've been saying -->
- 00:14:48.120 --> 00:14:49.170 " data-timeend="">
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- our tendency is to feel " data-timeend="">
- our tendency is to feel -->
- 00:14:49.170 --> 00:14:51.020 " data-timeend="">
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- that I am called to fix " data-timeend="">
- that I am called to fix -->
- 00:14:51.020 --> 00:14:52.080 " data-timeend="">
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- your weaknesses. " data-timeend="">
- your weaknesses. -->
- 00:14:52.080 --> 00:14:53.200 " data-timeend="">
- 00:14:52.080 --> 00:14:53.200 -->
- Or expose your weaknesses. " data-timeend="">
- Or expose your weaknesses. -->
- 00:14:53.200 --> 00:14:56.080 " data-timeend="">
- 00:14:53.200 --> 00:14:56.080 -->
- And there's times in marriage " data-timeend="">
- And there's times in marriage -->
- 00:14:56.080 --> 00:14:57.260 " data-timeend="">
- 00:14:56.080 --> 00:14:57.260 -->
- to talk about things. " data-timeend="">
- to talk about things. -->
- 00:14:57.260 --> 00:14:59.210 " data-timeend="">
- 00:14:57.260 --> 00:14:59.210 -->
- You know, Holly helps me " data-timeend="">
- You know, Holly helps me -->
- 00:14:59.210 --> 00:15:01.060 " data-timeend="">
- 00:14:59.210 --> 00:15:01.060 -->
- with my temper. " data-timeend="">
- with my temper. -->
- 00:15:01.060 --> 00:15:03.080 " data-timeend="">
- 00:15:01.060 --> 00:15:03.080 -->
- But not in the middle " data-timeend="">
- But not in the middle -->
- 00:15:03.080 --> 00:15:04.010 " data-timeend="">
- 00:15:03.080 --> 00:15:04.010 -->
- of my temper tantrum. " data-timeend="">
- of my temper tantrum. -->
- 00:15:04.010 --> 00:15:05.070 " data-timeend="">
- 00:15:04.010 --> 00:15:05.070 -->
- As she said it's about timing. " data-timeend="">
- As she said it's about timing. -->
- 00:15:05.070 --> 00:15:07.000 " data-timeend="">
- 00:15:05.070 --> 00:15:07.000 -->
- She helps me. " data-timeend="">
- She helps me. -->
- 00:15:07.000 --> 00:15:09.080 " data-timeend="">
- 00:15:07.000 --> 00:15:09.080 -->
- And one of the greatest ways " data-timeend="">
- And one of the greatest ways -->
- 00:15:09.080 --> 00:15:10.150 " data-timeend="">
- 00:15:09.080 --> 00:15:10.150 -->
- that she helps me is not " data-timeend="">
- that she helps me is not -->
- 00:15:10.150 --> 00:15:12.010 " data-timeend="">
- 00:15:10.150 --> 00:15:12.010 -->
- by going straight to the C's " data-timeend="">
- by going straight to the C's -->
- 00:15:12.010 --> 00:15:13.080 " data-timeend="">
- 00:15:12.010 --> 00:15:13.080 -->
- and D's and F's " data-timeend="">
- and D's and F's -->
- 00:15:13.080 --> 00:15:14.100 " data-timeend="">
- 00:15:13.080 --> 00:15:14.100 -->
- on my report card " data-timeend="">
- on my report card -->
- 00:15:14.100 --> 00:15:15.170 " data-timeend="">
- 00:15:14.100 --> 00:15:15.170 -->
- but talking about the A's. " data-timeend="">
- but talking about the A's. -->
- 00:15:15.170 --> 00:15:18.100 " data-timeend="">
- 00:15:15.170 --> 00:15:18.100 -->
- We call this and I got this " data-timeend="">
- We call this and I got this -->
- 00:15:18.100 --> 00:15:19.200 " data-timeend="">
- 00:15:18.100 --> 00:15:19.200 -->
- from a book about changing " data-timeend="">
- from a book about changing -->
- 00:15:19.200 --> 00:15:21.010 " data-timeend="">
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- things when change is hard. " data-timeend="">
- things when change is hard. -->
- 00:15:21.010 --> 00:15:22.150 " data-timeend="">
- 00:15:21.010 --> 00:15:22.150 -->
- And the books is called "Switch" " data-timeend="">
- And the books is called "Switch" -->
- 00:15:22.150 --> 00:15:24.010 " data-timeend="">
- 00:15:22.150 --> 00:15:24.010 -->
- and they talk about " data-timeend="">
- and they talk about -->
- 00:15:24.010 --> 00:15:24.200 " data-timeend="">
- 00:15:24.010 --> 00:15:24.200 -->
- bright spots. " data-timeend="">
- bright spots. -->
- 00:15:24.200 --> 00:15:26.010 " data-timeend="">
- 00:15:24.200 --> 00:15:26.010 -->
- And they talk about an epidemic. " data-timeend="">
- And they talk about an epidemic. -->
- 00:15:26.010 --> 00:15:28.140 " data-timeend="">
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- There was a starvation epidemic. " data-timeend="">
- There was a starvation epidemic. -->
- 00:15:28.140 --> 00:15:30.150 " data-timeend="">
- 00:15:28.140 --> 00:15:30.150 -->
- Somebody went in to try " data-timeend="">
- Somebody went in to try -->
- 00:15:30.150 --> 00:15:31.120 " data-timeend="">
- 00:15:30.150 --> 00:15:31.120 -->
- to fix it. " data-timeend="">
- to fix it. -->
- 00:15:31.120 --> 00:15:31.280 " data-timeend="">
- 00:15:31.120 --> 00:15:31.280 -->
- They couldn't fix it. " data-timeend="">
- They couldn't fix it. -->
- 00:15:31.280 --> 00:15:32.130 " data-timeend="">
- 00:15:31.280 --> 00:15:32.130 -->
- Somebody else came in to try " data-timeend="">
- Somebody else came in to try -->
- 00:15:32.130 --> 00:15:33.090 " data-timeend="">
- 00:15:32.130 --> 00:15:33.090 -->
- to fix it, they couldn't fix it. " data-timeend="">
- to fix it, they couldn't fix it. -->
- 00:15:33.090 --> 00:15:34.080 " data-timeend="">
- 00:15:33.090 --> 00:15:34.080 -->
- Somebody else came in " data-timeend="">
- Somebody else came in -->
- 00:15:34.080 --> 00:15:35.040 " data-timeend="">
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- and tried to fix it, " data-timeend="">
- and tried to fix it, -->
- 00:15:35.040 --> 00:15:35.260 " data-timeend="">
- 00:15:35.040 --> 00:15:35.260 -->
- they couldn't fix it. " data-timeend="">
- they couldn't fix it. -->
- 00:15:35.260 --> 00:15:37.130 " data-timeend="">
- 00:15:35.260 --> 00:15:37.130 -->
- One person came in " data-timeend="">
- One person came in -->
- 00:15:37.130 --> 00:15:38.110 " data-timeend="">
- 00:15:37.130 --> 00:15:38.110 -->
- and tried to fix it " data-timeend="">
- and tried to fix it -->
- 00:15:38.110 --> 00:15:39.090 " data-timeend="">
- 00:15:38.110 --> 00:15:39.090 -->
- and they began to fix it. " data-timeend="">
- and they began to fix it. -->
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- Because everybody came in " data-timeend="">
- Because everybody came in -->
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- the first several times " data-timeend="">
- the first several times -->
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- trying to fix what was wrong. " data-timeend="">
- trying to fix what was wrong. -->
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- They would find out " data-timeend="">
- They would find out -->
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- the problems. " data-timeend="">
- the problems. -->
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- Why were these people starving? " data-timeend="">
- Why were these people starving? -->
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- Trying to fix it. " data-timeend="">
- Trying to fix it. -->
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- Couldn't fix it systemically. " data-timeend="">
- Couldn't fix it systemically. -->
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- But then one person had " data-timeend="">
- But then one person had -->
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- the foresight to find " data-timeend="">
- the foresight to find -->
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- one family that was " data-timeend="">
- one family that was -->
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- in the same situation " data-timeend="">
- in the same situation -->
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- with limited resources " data-timeend="">
- with limited resources -->
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- that was not starving. " data-timeend="">
- that was not starving. -->
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- And find out what they were " data-timeend="">
- And find out what they were -->
- 00:16:00.060 --> 00:16:01.060 " data-timeend="">
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- doing right and then teach that " data-timeend="">
- doing right and then teach that -->
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- to the surrounding village. " data-timeend="">
- to the surrounding village. -->
- 00:16:03.040 --> 00:16:05.150 " data-timeend="">
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- Bright spots. " data-timeend="">
- Bright spots. -->
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- If you look at the bright spots " data-timeend="">
- If you look at the bright spots -->
- 00:16:07.020 --> 00:16:08.220 " data-timeend="">
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- -- like somebody said to me " data-timeend="">
- -- like somebody said to me -->
- 00:16:08.220 --> 00:16:09.190 " data-timeend="">
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- the other day, "Who tells you " data-timeend="">
- the other day, "Who tells you -->
- 00:16:09.190 --> 00:16:11.240 " data-timeend="">
- 00:16:09.190 --> 00:16:11.240 -->
- when your sermon isn't good?" " data-timeend="">
- when your sermon isn't good?" -->
- 00:16:11.240 --> 00:16:14.200 " data-timeend="">
- 00:16:11.240 --> 00:16:14.200 -->
- And I'm like, "God. " data-timeend="">
- And I'm like, "God. -->
- 00:16:14.200 --> 00:16:17.150 " data-timeend="">
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- Holy Spirit." " data-timeend="">
- Holy Spirit." -->
- 00:16:17.150 --> 00:16:18.130 " data-timeend="">
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- I feel that way. " data-timeend="">
- I feel that way. -->
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- You know I did a survey " data-timeend="">
- You know I did a survey -->
- 00:16:19.110 --> 00:16:20.050 " data-timeend="">
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- of preachers, I'm getting " data-timeend="">
- of preachers, I'm getting -->
- 00:16:20.050 --> 00:16:20.210 " data-timeend="">
- 00:16:20.050 --> 00:16:20.210 -->
- way off track and we gotta close " data-timeend="">
- way off track and we gotta close -->
- 00:16:20.210 --> 00:16:21.290 " data-timeend="">
- 00:16:20.210 --> 00:16:21.290 -->
- but I did a survey of preachers, " data-timeend="">
- but I did a survey of preachers, -->
- 00:16:21.290 --> 00:16:23.040 " data-timeend="">
- 00:16:21.290 --> 00:16:23.040 -->
- and I was telling you this, " data-timeend="">
- and I was telling you this, -->
- 00:16:23.040 --> 00:16:24.030 " data-timeend="">
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- of some of the top preachers " data-timeend="">
- of some of the top preachers -->
- 00:16:24.030 --> 00:16:25.070 " data-timeend="">
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- that you would know their name. " data-timeend="">
- that you would know their name. -->
- 00:16:25.070 --> 00:16:26.120 " data-timeend="">
- 00:16:25.070 --> 00:16:26.120 -->
- And I've been asking them, " data-timeend="">
- And I've been asking them, -->
- 00:16:26.120 --> 00:16:28.000 " data-timeend="">
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- "How many times do you feel " data-timeend="">
- "How many times do you feel -->
- 00:16:28.000 --> 00:16:29.180 " data-timeend="">
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- like you preached great " data-timeend="">
- like you preached great -->
- 00:16:29.180 --> 00:16:30.160 " data-timeend="">
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- when you walk off the stage?" " data-timeend="">
- when you walk off the stage?" -->
- 00:16:30.160 --> 00:16:31.260 " data-timeend="">
- 00:16:30.160 --> 00:16:31.260 -->
- And the most common answer was " data-timeend="">
- And the most common answer was -->
- 00:16:31.260 --> 00:16:33.130 " data-timeend="">
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- "One out of five at best." " data-timeend="">
- "One out of five at best." -->
- 00:16:33.130 --> 00:16:35.200 " data-timeend="">
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- Wow that's crazy. " data-timeend="">
- Wow that's crazy. -->
- 00:16:35.200 --> 00:16:36.130 " data-timeend="">
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- These are the best guys " data-timeend="">
- These are the best guys -->
- 00:16:36.130 --> 00:16:37.140 " data-timeend="">
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- in their whole field. " data-timeend="">
- in their whole field. -->
- 00:16:37.140 --> 00:16:39.070 " data-timeend="">
- 00:16:37.140 --> 00:16:39.070 -->
- And they said, "One out of five " data-timeend="">
- And they said, "One out of five -->
- 00:16:39.070 --> 00:16:40.240 " data-timeend="">
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- at best." " data-timeend="">
- at best." -->
- 00:16:40.240 --> 00:16:41.160 " data-timeend="">
- 00:16:40.240 --> 00:16:41.160 -->
- So somebody was asking one day, " data-timeend="">
- So somebody was asking one day, -->
- 00:16:41.160 --> 00:16:42.180 " data-timeend="">
- 00:16:41.160 --> 00:16:42.180 -->
- they said, "Who tells you " data-timeend="">
- they said, "Who tells you -->
- 00:16:42.180 --> 00:16:43.200 " data-timeend="">
- 00:16:42.180 --> 00:16:43.200 -->
- when your sermon wasn't great?" " data-timeend="">
- when your sermon wasn't great?" -->
- 00:16:43.200 --> 00:16:44.220 " data-timeend="">
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- "Well usually I don't think " data-timeend="">
- "Well usually I don't think -->
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- it was anyway so nobody " data-timeend="">
- it was anyway so nobody -->
- 00:16:46.030 --> 00:16:47.090 " data-timeend="">
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- has to tell me. " data-timeend="">
- has to tell me. -->
- 00:16:47.090 --> 00:16:48.090 " data-timeend="">
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- I'm beating up on myself way " data-timeend="">
- I'm beating up on myself way -->
- 00:16:48.090 --> 00:16:49.090 " data-timeend="">
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- more than anybody else could." " data-timeend="">
- more than anybody else could." -->
- 00:16:49.090 --> 00:16:50.100 " data-timeend="">
- 00:16:49.090 --> 00:16:50.100 -->
- And they said, " data-timeend="">
- And they said, -->
- 00:16:50.100 --> 00:16:51.150 " data-timeend="">
- 00:16:50.100 --> 00:16:51.150 -->
- "Well, I bet your wife does. " data-timeend="">
- "Well, I bet your wife does. -->
- 00:16:51.150 --> 00:16:52.230 " data-timeend="">
- 00:16:51.150 --> 00:16:52.230 -->
- I bet you she tells you." " data-timeend="">
- I bet you she tells you." -->
- 00:16:52.230 --> 00:16:54.150 " data-timeend="">
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- And I said "No. " data-timeend="">
- And I said "No. -->
- 00:16:54.150 --> 00:16:55.230 " data-timeend="">
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- She's my CEO. " data-timeend="">
- She's my CEO. -->
- 00:16:56.220 --> 00:16:59.220 " data-timeend="">
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- That's stands for " data-timeend="">
- That's stands for -->
- 00:16:59.220 --> 00:17:00.090 " data-timeend="">
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- Chief Encouragement Officer." " data-timeend="">
- Chief Encouragement Officer." -->
- 00:17:00.180 --> 00:17:03.180 " data-timeend="">
- 00:17:00.180 --> 00:17:03.180 -->
- And you can do " data-timeend="">
- And you can do -->
- 00:17:03.180 --> 00:17:04.130 " data-timeend="">
- 00:17:03.180 --> 00:17:04.130 -->
- what you want to do. " data-timeend="">
- what you want to do. -->
- 00:17:04.130 --> 00:17:05.030 " data-timeend="">
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- You don't have to listen to us " data-timeend="">
- You don't have to listen to us -->
- 00:17:05.030 --> 00:17:07.030 " data-timeend="">
- 00:17:05.030 --> 00:17:07.030 -->
- but there's something about " data-timeend="">
- but there's something about -->
- 00:17:07.030 --> 00:17:08.200 " data-timeend="">
- 00:17:07.030 --> 00:17:08.200 -->
- when I walk off that stage " data-timeend="">
- when I walk off that stage -->
- 00:17:08.200 --> 00:17:10.100 " data-timeend="">
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- with her and she tells me, " data-timeend="">
- with her and she tells me, -->
- 00:17:10.100 --> 00:17:12.200 " data-timeend="">
- 00:17:10.100 --> 00:17:12.200 -->
- you know, "That was a word." " data-timeend="">
- you know, "That was a word." -->
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- That was powerful. " data-timeend="">
- That was powerful. -->
- 00:17:14.290 --> 00:17:16.110 " data-timeend="">
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- You know she doesn't " data-timeend="">
- You know she doesn't -->
- 00:17:16.110 --> 00:17:17.150 " data-timeend="">
- 00:17:16.110 --> 00:17:17.150 -->
- just say it. " data-timeend="">
- just say it. -->
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- I think that would be one thing. " data-timeend="">
- I think that would be one thing. -->
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- But she shows it. " data-timeend="">
- But she shows it. -->
- 00:17:19.190 --> 00:17:21.000 " data-timeend="">
- 00:17:19.190 --> 00:17:21.000 -->
- Shows encouragement. " data-timeend="">
- Shows encouragement. -->
- 00:17:21.000 --> 00:17:22.120 " data-timeend="">
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- Encourage means put courage in. " data-timeend="">
- Encourage means put courage in. -->
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- And she puts courage in me " data-timeend="">
- And she puts courage in me -->
- 00:17:25.210 --> 00:17:27.050 " data-timeend="">
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- by her presence. " data-timeend="">
- by her presence. -->
- 00:17:27.050 --> 00:17:28.170 " data-timeend="">
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- Did you know that every weekend " data-timeend="">
- Did you know that every weekend -->
- 00:17:28.170 --> 00:17:29.240 " data-timeend="">
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- she sits through " data-timeend="">
- she sits through -->
- 00:17:29.240 --> 00:17:30.290 " data-timeend="">
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- all three of my sermons? " data-timeend="">
- all three of my sermons? -->
- 00:17:30.290 --> 00:17:32.110 " data-timeend="">
- 00:17:30.290 --> 00:17:32.110 -->
- This is the same sermon " data-timeend="">
- This is the same sermon -->
- 00:17:32.110 --> 00:17:33.050 " data-timeend="">
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- every time. " data-timeend="">
- every time. -->
- 00:17:33.050 --> 00:17:33.280 " data-timeend="">
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- Course I change it a lot. " data-timeend="">
- Course I change it a lot. -->
- 00:17:33.280 --> 00:17:35.090 " data-timeend="">
- 00:17:33.280 --> 00:17:35.090 -->
- - It's good every time. " data-timeend="">
- - It's good every time. -->
- 00:17:35.090 --> 00:17:36.270 " data-timeend="">
- 00:17:35.090 --> 00:17:36.270 -->
- - But she -- And you're like, " data-timeend="">
- - But she -- And you're like, -->
- 00:17:36.270 --> 00:17:37.230 " data-timeend="">
- 00:17:36.270 --> 00:17:37.230 -->
- "Oh, you're so sweet. " data-timeend="">
- "Oh, you're so sweet. -->
- 00:17:37.230 --> 00:17:39.020 " data-timeend="">
- 00:17:37.230 --> 00:17:39.020 -->
- Yeah right." " data-timeend="">
- Yeah right." -->
- 00:17:39.020 --> 00:17:40.100 " data-timeend="">
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- She talks to me that way " data-timeend="">
- She talks to me that way -->
- 00:17:40.100 --> 00:17:41.240 " data-timeend="">
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- all the time. " data-timeend="">
- all the time. -->
- 00:17:41.240 --> 00:17:42.290 " data-timeend="">
- 00:17:41.240 --> 00:17:42.290 -->
- And you know what's weird? " data-timeend="">
- And you know what's weird? -->
- 00:17:42.290 --> 00:17:45.240 " data-timeend="">
- 00:17:42.290 --> 00:17:45.240 -->
- You can trick a man " data-timeend="">
- You can trick a man -->
- 00:17:45.240 --> 00:17:46.240 " data-timeend="">
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- into believing he's brilliant. " data-timeend="">
- into believing he's brilliant. -->
- 00:17:49.170 --> 00:17:52.170 " data-timeend="">
- 00:17:49.170 --> 00:17:52.170 -->
- "He doesn't have any strengths." " data-timeend="">
- "He doesn't have any strengths." -->
- 00:17:52.170 --> 00:17:54.170 " data-timeend="">
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- Make something up and he'll get " data-timeend="">
- Make something up and he'll get -->
- 00:17:54.170 --> 00:17:57.030 " data-timeend="">
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- good at it with enough repeat -- " data-timeend="">
- good at it with enough repeat -- -->
- 00:17:57.030 --> 00:17:59.030 " data-timeend="">
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- It's like inception. " data-timeend="">
- It's like inception. -->
- 00:17:59.030 --> 00:18:00.190 " data-timeend="">
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- Women, you have power " data-timeend="">
- Women, you have power -->
- 00:18:00.190 --> 00:18:01.270 " data-timeend="">
- 00:18:00.190 --> 00:18:01.270 -->
- to just plant stuff. " data-timeend="">
- to just plant stuff. -->
- 00:18:01.270 --> 00:18:03.130 " data-timeend="">
- 00:18:01.270 --> 00:18:03.130 -->
- We will think we're good " data-timeend="">
- We will think we're good -->
- 00:18:03.130 --> 00:18:04.210 " data-timeend="">
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- at stuff. " data-timeend="">
- at stuff. -->
- 00:18:04.210 --> 00:18:05.050 " data-timeend="">
- 00:18:04.210 --> 00:18:05.050 -->
- "You're such a great dad." " data-timeend="">
- "You're such a great dad." -->
- 00:18:05.050 --> 00:18:06.180 " data-timeend="">
- 00:18:05.050 --> 00:18:06.180 -->
- Why? " data-timeend="">
- Why? -->
- 00:18:06.180 --> 00:18:07.110 " data-timeend="">
- 00:18:06.180 --> 00:18:07.110 -->
- "You came home." " data-timeend="">
- "You came home." -->
- 00:18:12.100 --> 00:18:15.100 " data-timeend="">
- 00:18:12.100 --> 00:18:15.100 -->
- - So true. " data-timeend="">
- - So true. -->
- 00:18:15.100 --> 00:18:16.210 " data-timeend="">
- 00:18:15.100 --> 00:18:16.210 -->
- - Yeah. " data-timeend="">
- - Yeah. -->
- 00:18:16.210 --> 00:18:17.120 " data-timeend="">
- 00:18:16.210 --> 00:18:17.120 -->
- Encourage. " data-timeend="">
- Encourage. -->
- 00:18:17.120 --> 00:18:17.290 " data-timeend="">
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- And so what gives me a lot " data-timeend="">
- And so what gives me a lot -->
- 00:18:17.290 --> 00:18:19.250 " data-timeend="">
- 00:18:17.290 --> 00:18:19.250 -->
- of boldness a lot of times is, " data-timeend="">
- of boldness a lot of times is, -->
- 00:18:19.250 --> 00:18:21.210 " data-timeend="">
- 00:18:19.250 --> 00:18:21.210 -->
- you know we run around in life " data-timeend="">
- you know we run around in life -->
- 00:18:21.210 --> 00:18:23.170 " data-timeend="">
- 00:18:21.210 --> 00:18:23.170 -->
- looking for likes " data-timeend="">
- looking for likes -->
- 00:18:23.170 --> 00:18:25.040 " data-timeend="">
- 00:18:23.170 --> 00:18:25.040 -->
- from a bunch of people. " data-timeend="">
- from a bunch of people. -->
- 00:18:25.040 --> 00:18:26.090 " data-timeend="">
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- Social media analogy. " data-timeend="">
- Social media analogy. -->
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- But if you get the right like " data-timeend="">
- But if you get the right like -->
- 00:18:27.250 --> 00:18:29.210 " data-timeend="">
- 00:18:27.250 --> 00:18:29.210 -->
- from the person that you love " data-timeend="">
- from the person that you love -->
- 00:18:29.210 --> 00:18:30.230 " data-timeend="">
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- the most? " data-timeend="">
- the most? -->
- 00:18:30.230 --> 00:18:32.150 " data-timeend="">
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- You don't need " data-timeend="">
- You don't need -->
- 00:18:32.150 --> 00:18:33.100 " data-timeend="">
- 00:18:32.150 --> 00:18:33.100 -->
- all the other stuff. " data-timeend="">
- all the other stuff. -->
- 00:18:33.100 --> 00:18:35.050 " data-timeend="">
- 00:18:33.100 --> 00:18:35.050 -->
- And you have the power, " data-timeend="">
- And you have the power, -->
- 00:18:35.050 --> 00:18:37.190 " data-timeend="">
- 00:18:35.050 --> 00:18:37.190 -->
- and I have the power, " data-timeend="">
- and I have the power, -->
- 00:18:37.190 --> 00:18:39.060 " data-timeend="">
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- to tell her I love the way " data-timeend="">
- to tell her I love the way -->
- 00:18:39.060 --> 00:18:41.290 " data-timeend="">
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- you look. " data-timeend="">
- you look. -->
- 00:18:41.290 --> 00:18:43.050 " data-timeend="">
- 00:18:41.290 --> 00:18:43.050 -->
- I love the way you look. " data-timeend="">
- I love the way you look. -->
- 00:18:43.050 --> 00:18:44.140 " data-timeend="">
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- I love the way -- no I love " data-timeend="">
- I love the way -- no I love -->
- 00:18:44.140 --> 00:18:47.140 " data-timeend="">
- 00:18:44.140 --> 00:18:47.140 -->
- the way you cook. " data-timeend="">
- the way you cook. -->
- 00:18:47.140 --> 00:18:48.090 " data-timeend="">
- 00:18:47.140 --> 00:18:48.090 -->
- I love -- she does more " data-timeend="">
- I love -- she does more -->
- 00:18:48.090 --> 00:18:49.100 " data-timeend="">
- 00:18:48.090 --> 00:18:49.100 -->
- than just cook and look good. " data-timeend="">
- than just cook and look good. -->
- 00:18:49.100 --> 00:18:50.180 " data-timeend="">
- 00:18:49.100 --> 00:18:50.180 -->
- I have the power. " data-timeend="">
- I have the power. -->
- 00:18:50.180 --> 00:18:51.250 " data-timeend="">
- 00:18:50.180 --> 00:18:51.250 -->
- You're doing a great job " data-timeend="">
- You're doing a great job -->
- 00:18:51.250 --> 00:18:53.060 " data-timeend="">
- 00:18:51.250 --> 00:18:53.060 -->
- creating the culture " data-timeend="">
- creating the culture -->
- 00:18:53.060 --> 00:18:54.120 " data-timeend="">
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- of our church for staff spouses, " data-timeend="">
- of our church for staff spouses, -->
- 00:18:54.120 --> 00:18:56.120 " data-timeend="">
- 00:18:54.120 --> 00:18:56.120 -->
- which is what she focuses on. " data-timeend="">
- which is what she focuses on. -->
- 00:18:56.120 --> 00:18:57.160 " data-timeend="">
- 00:18:56.120 --> 00:18:57.160 -->
- And I am called to encourage " data-timeend="">
- And I am called to encourage -->
- 00:18:57.160 --> 00:18:59.090 " data-timeend="">
- 00:18:57.160 --> 00:18:59.090 -->
- her strengths. " data-timeend="">
- her strengths. -->
- 00:18:59.090 --> 00:19:00.030 " data-timeend="">
- 00:18:59.090 --> 00:19:00.030 -->
- What if you changed " data-timeend="">
- What if you changed -->
- 00:19:00.030 --> 00:19:02.050 " data-timeend="">
- 00:19:00.030 --> 00:19:02.050 -->
- your job description " data-timeend="">
- your job description -->
- 00:19:02.050 --> 00:19:02.270 " data-timeend="">
- 00:19:02.050 --> 00:19:02.270 -->
- as a spouse today and wrote " data-timeend="">
- as a spouse today and wrote -->
- 00:19:02.270 --> 00:19:05.000 " data-timeend="">
- 00:19:02.270 --> 00:19:05.000 -->
- at the top of the thing, " data-timeend="">
- at the top of the thing, -->
- 00:19:05.000 --> 00:19:06.170 " data-timeend="">
- 00:19:05.000 --> 00:19:06.170 -->
- the job description " data-timeend="">
- the job description -->
- 00:19:06.170 --> 00:19:07.060 " data-timeend="">
- 00:19:06.170 --> 00:19:07.060 -->
- that you're going to make, " data-timeend="">
- that you're going to make, -->
- 00:19:07.060 --> 00:19:08.010 " data-timeend="">
- 00:19:07.060 --> 00:19:08.010 -->
- and said CEO. " data-timeend="">
- and said CEO. -->
- 00:19:08.010 --> 00:19:09.150 " data-timeend="">
- 00:19:08.010 --> 00:19:09.150 -->
- Chief Encouragement Officer. " data-timeend="">
- Chief Encouragement Officer. -->
- 00:19:09.150 --> 00:19:11.200 " data-timeend="">
- 00:19:09.150 --> 00:19:11.200 -->
- You think God would bless " data-timeend="">
- You think God would bless -->
- 00:19:11.200 --> 00:19:12.280 " data-timeend="">
- 00:19:11.200 --> 00:19:12.280 -->
- your marriage more? " data-timeend="">
- your marriage more? -->
- 00:19:12.280 --> 00:19:14.190 " data-timeend="">
- 00:19:12.280 --> 00:19:14.190 -->
- You think some stuff " data-timeend="">
- You think some stuff -->
- 00:19:14.190 --> 00:19:16.080 " data-timeend="">
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- would come alive? " data-timeend="">
- would come alive? -->
- 00:19:16.080 --> 00:19:17.030 " data-timeend="">
- 00:19:16.080 --> 00:19:17.030 -->
- What if that was the main thing? " data-timeend="">
- What if that was the main thing? -->
- 00:19:17.030 --> 00:19:19.130 " data-timeend="">
- 00:19:17.030 --> 00:19:19.130 -->
- What if you started " data-timeend="">
- What if you started -->
- 00:19:19.130 --> 00:19:20.210 " data-timeend="">
- 00:19:19.130 --> 00:19:20.210 -->
- with what you could? " data-timeend="">
- with what you could? -->
- 00:19:20.210 --> 00:19:22.000 " data-timeend="">
- 00:19:20.210 --> 00:19:22.000 -->
- - It means so much " data-timeend="">
- - It means so much -->
- 00:19:22.000 --> 00:19:23.090 " data-timeend="">
- 00:19:22.000 --> 00:19:23.090 -->
- when it comes from your spouse. " data-timeend="">
- when it comes from your spouse. -->
- 00:19:23.090 --> 00:19:25.100 " data-timeend="">
- 00:19:23.090 --> 00:19:25.100 -->
- Because I know everything " data-timeend="">
- Because I know everything -->
- 00:19:25.100 --> 00:19:27.020 " data-timeend="">
- 00:19:25.100 --> 00:19:27.020 -->
- there is to know about you. " data-timeend="">
- there is to know about you. -->
- 00:19:27.020 --> 00:19:28.100 " data-timeend="">
- 00:19:27.020 --> 00:19:28.100 -->
- But yet I'm telling you, " data-timeend="">
- But yet I'm telling you, -->
- 00:19:28.100 --> 00:19:30.250 " data-timeend="">
- 00:19:28.100 --> 00:19:30.250 -->
- "That was a great message." " data-timeend="">
- "That was a great message." -->
- 00:19:30.250 --> 00:19:32.270 " data-timeend="">
- 00:19:30.250 --> 00:19:32.270 -->
- Or "You're doing a great job." " data-timeend="">
- Or "You're doing a great job." -->
- 00:19:32.270 --> 00:19:35.080 " data-timeend="">
- 00:19:32.270 --> 00:19:35.080 -->
- I want him to go to work " data-timeend="">
- I want him to go to work -->
- 00:19:35.080 --> 00:19:36.110 " data-timeend="">
- 00:19:35.080 --> 00:19:36.110 -->
- and feel like I believe in him. " data-timeend="">
- and feel like I believe in him. -->
- 00:19:36.110 --> 00:19:39.110 " data-timeend="">
- 00:19:36.110 --> 00:19:39.110 -->
- I want my husband to know " data-timeend="">
- I want my husband to know -->
- 00:19:39.110 --> 00:19:41.040 " data-timeend="">
- 00:19:39.110 --> 00:19:41.040 -->
- that I believe in him. " data-timeend="">
- that I believe in him. -->
- 00:19:41.040 --> 00:19:42.240 " data-timeend="">
- 00:19:41.040 --> 00:19:42.240 -->
- But I have to tell him. " data-timeend="">
- But I have to tell him. -->
- 00:19:42.240 --> 00:19:44.110 " data-timeend="">
- 00:19:42.240 --> 00:19:44.110 -->
- And I also have to show him " data-timeend="">
- And I also have to show him -->
- 00:19:44.110 --> 00:19:46.010 " data-timeend="">
- 00:19:44.110 --> 00:19:46.010 -->
- with my actions " data-timeend="">
- with my actions -->
- 00:19:46.010 --> 00:19:46.230 " data-timeend="">
- 00:19:46.010 --> 00:19:46.230 -->
- and with my attitude. " data-timeend="">
- and with my attitude. -->
- 00:19:46.230 --> 00:19:48.180 " data-timeend="">
- 00:19:46.230 --> 00:19:48.180 -->
- And I can encourage him. " data-timeend="">
- And I can encourage him. -->
- 00:19:48.180 --> 00:19:50.090 " data-timeend="">
- 00:19:48.180 --> 00:19:50.090 -->
- - Verbal. " data-timeend="">
- - Verbal. -->
- 00:19:50.090 --> 00:19:51.050 " data-timeend="">
- 00:19:50.090 --> 00:19:51.050 -->
- You can do it verbally. " data-timeend="">
- You can do it verbally. -->
- 00:19:51.050 --> 00:19:52.120 " data-timeend="">
- 00:19:51.050 --> 00:19:52.120 -->
- - Yeah. " data-timeend="">
- - Yeah. -->
- 00:19:52.120 --> 00:19:52.290 " data-timeend="">
- 00:19:52.120 --> 00:19:52.290 -->
- And I can do it non-verbally " data-timeend="">
- And I can do it non-verbally -->
- 00:19:52.290 --> 00:19:54.020 " data-timeend="">
- 00:19:52.290 --> 00:19:54.020 -->
- by attitude and my physically " data-timeend="">
- by attitude and my physically -->
- 00:19:54.020 --> 00:19:57.020 " data-timeend="">
- 00:19:54.020 --> 00:19:57.020 -->
- like supporting him. " data-timeend="">
- like supporting him. -->
- 00:19:57.020 --> 00:19:58.070 " data-timeend="">
- 00:19:57.020 --> 00:19:58.070 -->
- - Yes. " data-timeend="">
- - Yes. -->
- 00:19:58.070 --> 00:20:01.000 " data-timeend="">
- 00:19:58.070 --> 00:20:01.000 -->
- Yes you can. " data-timeend="">
- Yes you can. -->
- 00:20:01.070 --> 00:20:04.070 " data-timeend="">
- 00:20:01.070 --> 00:20:04.070 -->
- - And you can, you know, " data-timeend="">
- - And you can, you know, -->
- 00:20:04.070 --> 00:20:05.070 " data-timeend="">
- 00:20:04.070 --> 00:20:05.070 -->
- written. " data-timeend="">
- written. -->
- 00:20:05.070 --> 00:20:05.230 " data-timeend="">
- 00:20:05.070 --> 00:20:05.230 -->
- Not just notes " data-timeend="">
- Not just notes -->
- 00:20:05.230 --> 00:20:07.120 " data-timeend="">
- 00:20:05.230 --> 00:20:07.120 -->
- but text messages. " data-timeend="">
- but text messages. -->
- 00:20:07.120 --> 00:20:08.030 " data-timeend="">
- 00:20:07.120 --> 00:20:08.030 -->
- - Put a little more time " data-timeend="">
- - Put a little more time -->
- 00:20:08.030 --> 00:20:08.290 " data-timeend="">
- 00:20:08.030 --> 00:20:08.290 -->
- on my clock. " data-timeend="">
- on my clock. -->
- 00:20:08.290 --> 00:20:09.190 " data-timeend="">
- 00:20:08.290 --> 00:20:09.190 -->
- Let's talk about that part. " data-timeend="">
- Let's talk about that part. -->
- 00:20:09.190 --> 00:20:12.030 " data-timeend="">
- 00:20:09.190 --> 00:20:12.030 -->
- - Talk about " data-timeend="">
- - Talk about -->
- 00:20:12.030 --> 00:20:12.250 " data-timeend="">
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- physical encouragement? " data-timeend="">
- physical encouragement? -->
- 00:20:12.250 --> 00:20:14.050 " data-timeend="">
- 00:20:12.250 --> 00:20:14.050 -->
- - Yes. " data-timeend="">
- - Yes. -->
- 00:20:14.050 --> 00:20:15.080 " data-timeend="">
- 00:20:14.050 --> 00:20:15.080 -->
- Yes. " data-timeend="">
- Yes. -->
- 00:20:15.080 --> 00:20:15.280 " data-timeend="">
- 00:20:15.080 --> 00:20:15.280 -->
- Let's talk about it. " data-timeend="">
- Let's talk about it. -->
- 00:20:15.280 --> 00:20:16.230 " data-timeend="">
- 00:20:15.280 --> 00:20:16.230 -->
- It's amazing. " data-timeend="">
- It's amazing. -->
- 00:20:17.180 --> 00:20:20.180 " data-timeend="">
- 00:20:17.180 --> 00:20:20.180 -->
- It really is so important. " data-timeend="">
- It really is so important. -->
- 00:20:20.180 --> 00:20:22.280 " data-timeend="">
- 00:20:20.180 --> 00:20:22.280 -->
- Encourage your strengths. " data-timeend="">
- Encourage your strengths. -->
- 00:20:22.280 --> 00:20:25.090 " data-timeend="">
- 00:20:22.280 --> 00:20:25.090 -->
- You know I try to preach " data-timeend="">
- You know I try to preach -->
- 00:20:25.090 --> 00:20:26.170 " data-timeend="">
- 00:20:25.090 --> 00:20:26.170 -->
- in that way. " data-timeend="">
- in that way. -->
- 00:20:26.170 --> 00:20:27.230 " data-timeend="">
- 00:20:26.170 --> 00:20:27.230 -->
- We're aware of our weaknesses. " data-timeend="">
- We're aware of our weaknesses. -->
- 00:20:27.230 --> 00:20:28.220 " data-timeend="">
- 00:20:27.230 --> 00:20:28.220 -->
- And we gotta cover each other. " data-timeend="">
- And we gotta cover each other. -->
- 00:20:28.220 --> 00:20:30.130 " data-timeend="">
- 00:20:28.220 --> 00:20:30.130 -->
- But I'm encourage -- " data-timeend="">
- But I'm encourage -- -->
- 00:20:30.130 --> 00:20:31.210 " data-timeend="">
- 00:20:30.130 --> 00:20:31.210 -->
- I'm not jumping on the one thing " data-timeend="">
- I'm not jumping on the one thing -->
- 00:20:31.210 --> 00:20:33.020 " data-timeend="">
- 00:20:31.210 --> 00:20:33.020 -->
- you did wrong. " data-timeend="">
- you did wrong. -->
- 00:20:33.020 --> 00:20:34.070 " data-timeend="">
- 00:20:33.020 --> 00:20:34.070 -->
- - Yeah. " data-timeend="">
- - Yeah. -->
- 00:20:34.070 --> 00:20:34.230 " data-timeend="">
- 00:20:34.070 --> 00:20:34.230 -->
- - I want to be like God " data-timeend="">
- - I want to be like God -->
- 00:20:34.230 --> 00:20:35.260 " data-timeend="">
- 00:20:34.230 --> 00:20:35.260 -->
- who takes us from strength " data-timeend="">
- who takes us from strength -->
- 00:20:35.260 --> 00:20:37.200 " data-timeend="">
- 00:20:35.260 --> 00:20:37.200 -->
- to strength. " data-timeend="">
- to strength. -->
- 00:20:37.200 --> 00:20:38.080 " data-timeend="">
- 00:20:37.200 --> 00:20:38.080 -->
- From glory to glory. " data-timeend="">
- From glory to glory. -->
- 00:20:38.080 --> 00:20:40.140 " data-timeend="">
- 00:20:38.080 --> 00:20:40.140 -->
- You are not my project. " data-timeend="">
- You are not my project. -->
- 00:20:40.140 --> 00:20:42.210 " data-timeend="">
- 00:20:40.140 --> 00:20:42.210 -->
- You're my partner. " data-timeend="">
- You're my partner. -->
- 00:20:42.210 --> 00:20:44.120 " data-timeend="">
- 00:20:42.210 --> 00:20:44.120 -->
- - Yes. " data-timeend="">
- - Yes. -->
- 00:20:44.120 --> 00:20:46.070 " data-timeend="">
- 00:20:44.120 --> 00:20:46.070 -->
- - We're in this together. " data-timeend="">
- - We're in this together. -->
- 00:20:46.070 --> 00:20:47.110 " data-timeend="">
- 00:20:46.070 --> 00:20:47.110 -->
- - We're a team. " data-timeend="">
- - We're a team. -->
- 00:20:47.110 --> 00:20:48.170 " data-timeend="">
- 00:20:47.110 --> 00:20:48.170 -->
- - And I want to build you up. " data-timeend="">
- - And I want to build you up. -->
- 00:20:48.170 --> 00:20:50.020 " data-timeend="">
- 00:20:48.170 --> 00:20:50.020 -->
- Not puff you up. " data-timeend="">
- Not puff you up. -->
- 00:20:50.020 --> 00:20:51.110 " data-timeend="">
- 00:20:50.020 --> 00:20:51.110 -->
- That's when I use flattery " data-timeend="">
- That's when I use flattery -->
- 00:20:51.110 --> 00:20:53.030 " data-timeend="">
- 00:20:51.110 --> 00:20:53.030 -->
- to get my way. " data-timeend="">
- to get my way. -->
- 00:20:53.030 --> 00:20:54.050 " data-timeend="">
- 00:20:53.030 --> 00:20:54.050 -->
- That's when I use encouragement " data-timeend="">
- That's when I use encouragement -->
- 00:20:54.050 --> 00:20:56.010 " data-timeend="">
- 00:20:54.050 --> 00:20:56.010 -->
- as a tool to manipulate " data-timeend="">
- as a tool to manipulate -->
- 00:20:56.010 --> 00:20:56.260 " data-timeend="">
- 00:20:56.010 --> 00:20:56.260 -->
- a situation. " data-timeend="">
- a situation. -->
- 00:20:56.260 --> 00:20:58.070 " data-timeend="">
- 00:20:56.260 --> 00:20:58.070 -->
- Not that. " data-timeend="">
- Not that. -->
- 00:20:58.070 --> 00:20:59.080 " data-timeend="">
- 00:20:58.070 --> 00:20:59.080 -->
- But build you up with the truth " data-timeend="">
- But build you up with the truth -->
- 00:20:59.080 --> 00:21:01.070 " data-timeend="">
- 00:20:59.080 --> 00:21:01.070 -->
- of who God says you are. " data-timeend="">
- of who God says you are. -->
- 00:21:01.070 --> 00:21:03.150 " data-timeend="">
- 00:21:01.070 --> 00:21:03.150 -->
- I'm called to encourage " data-timeend="">
- I'm called to encourage -->
- 00:21:03.150 --> 00:21:05.010 " data-timeend="">
- 00:21:03.150 --> 00:21:05.010 -->
- your strength. " data-timeend="">
- your strength. -->
- 00:21:05.010 --> 00:21:06.100 " data-timeend="">
- 00:21:05.010 --> 00:21:06.100 -->
- And finally, most important, " data-timeend="">
- And finally, most important, -->
- 00:21:06.100 --> 00:21:07.110 " data-timeend="">
- 00:21:06.100 --> 00:21:07.110 -->
- I'm called to do it anyway. " data-timeend="">
- I'm called to do it anyway. -->
- 00:21:07.110 --> 00:21:08.200 " data-timeend="">
- 00:21:07.110 --> 00:21:08.200 -->
- - Yeah. " data-timeend="">
- - Yeah. -->
- 00:21:08.200 --> 00:21:09.270 " data-timeend="">
- 00:21:08.200 --> 00:21:09.270 -->
- - Because everything " data-timeend="">
- - Because everything -->
- 00:21:09.270 --> 00:21:11.000 " data-timeend="">
- 00:21:09.270 --> 00:21:11.000 -->
- I just said will not work " data-timeend="">
- I just said will not work -->
- 00:21:11.000 --> 00:21:12.030 " data-timeend="">
- 00:21:11.000 --> 00:21:12.030 -->
- if you only do it " data-timeend="">
- if you only do it -->
- 00:21:12.030 --> 00:21:13.020 " data-timeend="">
- 00:21:12.030 --> 00:21:13.020 -->
- when you feel like it. " data-timeend="">
- when you feel like it. -->
- 00:21:13.020 --> 00:21:13.220 " data-timeend="">
- 00:21:13.020 --> 00:21:13.220 -->
- - Right. " data-timeend="">
- - Right. -->
- 00:21:13.220 --> 00:21:14.180 " data-timeend="">
- 00:21:13.220 --> 00:21:14.180 -->
- - If you only do it " data-timeend="">
- - If you only do it -->
- 00:21:14.180 --> 00:21:15.150 " data-timeend="">
- 00:21:14.180 --> 00:21:15.150 -->
- when they deserve it. " data-timeend="">
- when they deserve it. -->
- 00:21:15.150 --> 00:21:16.140 " data-timeend="">
- 00:21:15.150 --> 00:21:16.140 -->
- Listen to me at every location. " data-timeend="">
- Listen to me at every location. -->
- 00:21:16.140 --> 00:21:19.000 " data-timeend="">
- 00:21:16.140 --> 00:21:19.000 -->
- The success of this relationship " data-timeend="">
- The success of this relationship -->
- 00:21:19.000 --> 00:21:21.290 " data-timeend="">
- 00:21:19.000 --> 00:21:21.290 -->
- is built on my decision " data-timeend="">
- is built on my decision -->
- 00:21:21.290 --> 00:21:24.080 " data-timeend="">
- 00:21:21.290 --> 00:21:24.080 -->
- to do it anyway. " data-timeend="">
- to do it anyway. -->
- 00:21:24.080 --> 00:21:25.170 " data-timeend="">
- 00:21:24.080 --> 00:21:25.170 -->
- Everybody say it out loud. " data-timeend="">
- Everybody say it out loud. -->
- 00:21:25.170 --> 00:21:26.150 " data-timeend="">
- 00:21:25.170 --> 00:21:26.150 -->
- Do it anyway. " data-timeend="">
- Do it anyway. -->
- 00:21:26.150 --> 00:21:27.290 " data-timeend="">
- 00:21:26.150 --> 00:21:27.290 -->
- Sometimes I don't feel " data-timeend="">
- Sometimes I don't feel -->
- 00:21:27.290 --> 00:21:28.260 " data-timeend="">
- 00:21:27.290 --> 00:21:28.260 -->
- like saying I'm sorry, " data-timeend="">
- like saying I'm sorry, -->
- 00:21:28.260 --> 00:21:29.250 " data-timeend="">
- 00:21:28.260 --> 00:21:29.250 -->
- when I feel like I only " data-timeend="">
- when I feel like I only -->
- 00:21:29.250 --> 00:21:30.220 " data-timeend="">
- 00:21:29.250 --> 00:21:30.220 -->
- contributed 25% of the problem " data-timeend="">
- contributed 25% of the problem -->
- 00:21:30.220 --> 00:21:31.280 " data-timeend="">
- 00:21:30.220 --> 00:21:31.280 -->
- and you were 75. " data-timeend="">
- and you were 75. -->
- 00:21:31.280 --> 00:21:32.270 " data-timeend="">
- 00:21:31.280 --> 00:21:32.270 -->
- But I'm going to do it anyway. " data-timeend="">
- But I'm going to do it anyway. -->
- 00:21:32.270 --> 00:21:34.230 " data-timeend="">
- 00:21:32.270 --> 00:21:34.230 -->
- sometimes I don't feel like " data-timeend="">
- sometimes I don't feel like -->
- 00:21:34.230 --> 00:21:35.280 " data-timeend="">
- 00:21:34.230 --> 00:21:35.280 -->
- pointing out the thing " data-timeend="">
- pointing out the thing -->
- 00:21:35.280 --> 00:21:37.000 " data-timeend="">
- 00:21:35.280 --> 00:21:37.000 -->
- that was right because I've got " data-timeend="">
- that was right because I've got -->
- 00:21:37.000 --> 00:21:38.040 " data-timeend="">
- 00:21:37.000 --> 00:21:38.040 -->
- a file of 15 things " data-timeend="">
- a file of 15 things -->
- 00:21:38.040 --> 00:21:39.080 " data-timeend="">
- 00:21:38.040 --> 00:21:39.080 -->
- that I've been wanting " data-timeend="">
- that I've been wanting -->
- 00:21:39.080 --> 00:21:39.290 " data-timeend="">
- 00:21:39.080 --> 00:21:39.290 -->
- to get around to, " data-timeend="">
- to get around to, -->
- 00:21:39.290 --> 00:21:41.030 " data-timeend="">
- 00:21:39.290 --> 00:21:41.030 -->
- but I see that you're struggling " data-timeend="">
- but I see that you're struggling -->
- 00:21:41.030 --> 00:21:42.000 " data-timeend="">
- 00:21:41.030 --> 00:21:42.000 -->
- so I'm going to speak " data-timeend="">
- so I'm going to speak -->
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- to something that you did well. " data-timeend="">
- to something that you did well. -->
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- I'm going to -- " data-timeend="">
- I'm going to -- -->
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- - Do it anyway. " data-timeend="">
- - Do it anyway. -->
- 00:21:44.180 --> 00:21:45.170 " data-timeend="">
- 00:21:44.180 --> 00:21:45.170 -->
- - Touch somebody, say, " data-timeend="">
- - Touch somebody, say, -->
- 00:21:45.170 --> 00:21:46.060 " data-timeend="">
- 00:21:45.170 --> 00:21:46.060 -->
- "Do it anyway." " data-timeend="">
- "Do it anyway." -->
- 00:21:46.060 --> 00:21:46.270 " data-timeend="">
- 00:21:46.060 --> 00:21:46.270 -->
- - Do it anyway. " data-timeend="">
- - Do it anyway. -->
- 00:21:46.270 --> 00:21:47.290 " data-timeend="">
- 00:21:46.270 --> 00:21:47.290 -->
- - If you're going to fulfill " data-timeend="">
- - If you're going to fulfill -->
- 00:21:47.290 --> 00:21:48.260 " data-timeend="">
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- your assignment, " data-timeend="">
- your assignment, -->
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- if you're going to do this, " data-timeend="">
- if you're going to do this, -->
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- if this is a special assignment, " data-timeend="">
- if this is a special assignment, -->
- 00:21:50.180 --> 00:21:51.250 " data-timeend="">
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- if you're going to have " data-timeend="">
- if you're going to have -->
- 00:21:51.250 --> 00:21:52.190 " data-timeend="">
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- super powers in marriage -- " data-timeend="">
- super powers in marriage -- -->
- 00:21:52.190 --> 00:21:53.210 " data-timeend="">
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- and I believe that this union " data-timeend="">
- and I believe that this union -->
- 00:21:53.210 --> 00:21:54.290 " data-timeend="">
- 00:21:53.210 --> 00:21:54.290 -->
- is meant to be something " data-timeend="">
- is meant to be something -->
- 00:21:54.290 --> 00:21:56.020 " data-timeend="">
- 00:21:54.290 --> 00:21:56.020 -->
- that we can do more together " data-timeend="">
- that we can do more together -->
- 00:21:56.020 --> 00:21:57.100 " data-timeend="">
- 00:21:56.020 --> 00:21:57.100 -->
- than we can apart. " data-timeend="">
- than we can apart. -->
- 00:21:57.100 --> 00:21:58.150 " data-timeend="">
- 00:21:57.100 --> 00:21:58.150 -->
- God put us together " data-timeend="">
- God put us together -->
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- for a reason. " data-timeend="">
- for a reason. -->
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- I'm better because " data-timeend="">
- I'm better because -->
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- you're in my life. " data-timeend="">
- you're in my life. -->
- 00:22:01.180 --> 00:22:02.110 " data-timeend="">
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- But if we're going to fulfill " data-timeend="">
- But if we're going to fulfill -->
- 00:22:02.110 --> 00:22:03.290 " data-timeend="">
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- God's purpose together, " data-timeend="">
- God's purpose together, -->
- 00:22:03.290 --> 00:22:05.080 " data-timeend="">
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- it's not just going to be " data-timeend="">
- it's not just going to be -->
- 00:22:05.080 --> 00:22:07.000 " data-timeend="">
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- through the times " data-timeend="">
- through the times -->
- 00:22:07.000 --> 00:22:08.000 " data-timeend="">
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- that we feel it. " data-timeend="">
- that we feel it. -->
- 00:22:08.000 --> 00:22:08.240 " data-timeend="">
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- We gotta fake it sometimes " data-timeend="">
- We gotta fake it sometimes -->
- 00:22:08.240 --> 00:22:10.090 " data-timeend="">
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- until we feel it. " data-timeend="">
- until we feel it. -->
- 00:22:10.090 --> 00:22:12.210 " data-timeend="">
- 00:22:10.090 --> 00:22:12.210 -->
- And have faith in God. " data-timeend="">
- And have faith in God. -->
- 00:22:12.210 --> 00:22:15.050 " data-timeend="">
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- Do it anyway. " data-timeend="">
- Do it anyway. -->
- 00:22:15.050 --> 00:22:16.110 " data-timeend="">
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- Do it anyway. " data-timeend="">
- Do it anyway. -->
- 00:22:16.110 --> 00:22:17.130 " data-timeend="">
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- Let's review. " data-timeend="">
- Let's review. -->
- 00:22:17.130 --> 00:22:18.020 " data-timeend="">
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- I am called, I am called. " data-timeend="">
- I am called, I am called. -->
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- Everybody say, "I am called " data-timeend="">
- Everybody say, "I am called -->
- 00:22:19.070 --> 00:22:20.260 " data-timeend="">
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- to carry your burdens, " data-timeend="">
- to carry your burdens, -->
- 00:22:20.260 --> 00:22:23.140 " data-timeend="">
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- to assume the best, " data-timeend="">
- to assume the best, -->
- 00:22:23.140 --> 00:22:24.270 " data-timeend="">
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- to live with contentment, " data-timeend="">
- to live with contentment, -->
- 00:22:24.270 --> 00:22:26.200 " data-timeend="">
- 00:22:24.270 --> 00:22:26.200 -->
- to let God be God, " data-timeend="">
- to let God be God, -->
- 00:22:26.200 --> 00:22:28.240 " data-timeend="">
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- to encourage your strengths, " data-timeend="">
- to encourage your strengths, -->
- 00:22:28.250 --> 00:22:31.250 " data-timeend="">
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- and to do it anyway." " data-timeend="">
- and to do it anyway." -->
- 00:22:31.250 --> 00:22:33.270 " data-timeend="">
- 00:22:31.250 --> 00:22:33.270 -->
- - Alright, let's interact " data-timeend="">
- - Alright, let's interact -->
- 00:22:40.140 --> 00:22:41.180 " data-timeend="">
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- for a moment. " data-timeend="">
- for a moment. -->
- 00:22:41.180 --> 00:22:42.140 " data-timeend="">
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- Just pretend like " data-timeend="">
- Just pretend like -->
- 00:22:42.140 --> 00:22:42.290 " data-timeend="">
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- I'm there with you. " data-timeend="">
- I'm there with you. -->
- 00:22:42.290 --> 00:22:43.240 " data-timeend="">
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- Have you ever experienced " data-timeend="">
- Have you ever experienced -->
- 00:22:43.240 --> 00:22:45.240 " data-timeend="">
- 00:22:43.240 --> 00:22:45.240 -->
- a challenging relationship? " data-timeend="">
- a challenging relationship? -->
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- Holly, do this, do this. " data-timeend="">
- Holly, do this, do this. -->
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- Okay, be careful how you respond " data-timeend="">
- Okay, be careful how you respond -->
- 00:22:50.030 --> 00:22:51.220 " data-timeend="">
- 00:22:50.030 --> 00:22:51.220 -->
- if you're sitting " data-timeend="">
- if you're sitting -->
- 00:22:51.220 --> 00:22:52.060 " data-timeend="">
- 00:22:51.220 --> 00:22:52.060 -->
- in your living room " data-timeend="">
- in your living room -->
- 00:22:52.060 --> 00:22:52.220 " data-timeend="">
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- watching this with your spouse " data-timeend="">
- watching this with your spouse -->
- 00:22:52.220 --> 00:22:54.130 " data-timeend="">
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- or someone that you love. " data-timeend="">
- or someone that you love. -->
- 00:22:54.130 --> 00:22:56.120 " data-timeend="">
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- the truth is relationships " data-timeend="">
- the truth is relationships -->
- 00:22:56.120 --> 00:22:58.070 " data-timeend="">
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- are challenging by design. " data-timeend="">
- are challenging by design. -->
- 00:22:58.070 --> 00:23:00.130 " data-timeend="">
- 00:22:58.070 --> 00:23:00.130 -->
- It's how God grows us, " data-timeend="">
- It's how God grows us, -->
- 00:23:00.130 --> 00:23:02.000 " data-timeend="">
- 00:23:00.130 --> 00:23:02.000 -->
- but it's He's intention for you " data-timeend="">
- but it's He's intention for you -->
- 00:23:02.000 --> 00:23:04.060 " data-timeend="">
- 00:23:02.000 --> 00:23:04.060 -->
- to do more than just survive " data-timeend="">
- to do more than just survive -->
- 00:23:04.060 --> 00:23:05.130 " data-timeend="">
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- your relationships. " data-timeend="">
- your relationships. -->
- 00:23:05.130 --> 00:23:06.290 " data-timeend="">
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- I believe He wants you " data-timeend="">
- I believe He wants you -->
- 00:23:06.290 --> 00:23:08.040 " data-timeend="">
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- to thrive in them, " data-timeend="">
- to thrive in them, -->
- 00:23:08.040 --> 00:23:09.000 " data-timeend="">
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- and He's Word " data-timeend="">
- and He's Word -->
- 00:23:09.000 --> 00:23:09.190 " data-timeend="">
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- gives us the tools " data-timeend="">
- gives us the tools -->
- 00:23:09.190 --> 00:23:10.120 " data-timeend="">
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- to make that possible. " data-timeend="">
- to make that possible. -->
- 00:23:10.120 --> 00:23:11.240 " data-timeend="">
- 00:23:10.120 --> 00:23:11.240 -->
- So, today, I have special " data-timeend="">
- So, today, I have special -->
- 00:23:11.240 --> 00:23:13.240 " data-timeend="">
- 00:23:11.240 --> 00:23:13.240 -->
- most requested resource " data-timeend="">
- most requested resource -->
- 00:23:13.240 --> 00:23:15.230 " data-timeend="">
- 00:23:13.240 --> 00:23:15.230 -->
- that I want to send to you. " data-timeend="">
- that I want to send to you. -->
- 00:23:15.230 --> 00:23:16.280 " data-timeend="">
- 00:23:15.230 --> 00:23:16.280 -->
- It's called, "Meant to Be." " data-timeend="">
- It's called, "Meant to Be." -->
- 00:23:16.280 --> 00:23:18.240 " data-timeend="">
- 00:23:16.280 --> 00:23:18.240 -->
- It will show you " data-timeend="">
- It will show you -->
- 00:23:18.240 --> 00:23:19.150 " data-timeend="">
- 00:23:18.240 --> 00:23:19.150 -->
- some of the Bible's " data-timeend="">
- some of the Bible's -->
- 00:23:19.150 --> 00:23:20.110 " data-timeend="">
- 00:23:19.150 --> 00:23:20.110 -->
- best kept secrets " data-timeend="">
- best kept secrets -->
- 00:23:20.110 --> 00:23:23.000 " data-timeend="">
- 00:23:20.110 --> 00:23:23.000 -->
- about sex, shh, " data-timeend="">
- about sex, shh, -->
- 00:23:23.000 --> 00:23:25.060 " data-timeend="">
- 00:23:23.000 --> 00:23:25.060 -->
- marriage, and being single. " data-timeend="">
- marriage, and being single. -->
- 00:23:25.060 --> 00:23:27.080 " data-timeend="">
- 00:23:25.060 --> 00:23:27.080 -->
- - It's so good, " data-timeend="">
- - It's so good, -->
- 00:23:27.080 --> 00:23:28.070 " data-timeend="">
- 00:23:27.080 --> 00:23:28.070 -->
- and it's really not " data-timeend="">
- and it's really not -->
- 00:23:28.070 --> 00:23:29.070 " data-timeend="">
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- just a relationship series. " data-timeend="">
- just a relationship series. -->
- 00:23:29.070 --> 00:23:31.110 " data-timeend="">
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- This resource truly " data-timeend="">
- This resource truly -->
- 00:23:31.110 --> 00:23:32.280 " data-timeend="">
- 00:23:31.110 --> 00:23:32.280 -->
- has the power " data-timeend="">
- has the power -->
- 00:23:32.280 --> 00:23:33.180 " data-timeend="">
- 00:23:32.280 --> 00:23:33.180 -->
- to impact your life. " data-timeend="">
- to impact your life. -->
- 00:23:33.180 --> 00:23:34.180 " data-timeend="">
- 00:23:33.180 --> 00:23:34.180 -->
- We've heard storied of marriages " data-timeend="">
- We've heard storied of marriages -->
- 00:23:34.180 --> 00:23:36.090 " data-timeend="">
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- that were restored, " data-timeend="">
- that were restored, -->
- 00:23:36.090 --> 00:23:37.180 " data-timeend="">
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- and single people that learned " data-timeend="">
- and single people that learned -->
- 00:23:37.180 --> 00:23:39.040 " data-timeend="">
- 00:23:37.180 --> 00:23:39.040 -->
- to embrace the season " data-timeend="">
- to embrace the season -->
- 00:23:39.040 --> 00:23:40.080 " data-timeend="">
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- that they're in instead " data-timeend="">
- that they're in instead -->
- 00:23:40.080 --> 00:23:41.110 " data-timeend="">
- 00:23:40.080 --> 00:23:41.110 -->
- of focusing on the relationships " data-timeend="">
- of focusing on the relationships -->
- 00:23:41.110 --> 00:23:42.250 " data-timeend="">
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- that they don't have. " data-timeend="">
- that they don't have. -->
- 00:23:42.250 --> 00:23:44.060 " data-timeend="">
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- I know that this series " data-timeend="">
- I know that this series -->
- 00:23:44.060 --> 00:23:45.160 " data-timeend="">
- 00:23:44.060 --> 00:23:45.160 -->
- is going to help you " data-timeend="">
- is going to help you -->
- 00:23:45.160 --> 00:23:46.270 " data-timeend="">
- 00:23:45.160 --> 00:23:46.270 -->
- like it has so many already. " data-timeend="">
- like it has so many already. -->
- 00:23:46.270 --> 00:23:48.290 " data-timeend="">
- 00:23:46.270 --> 00:23:48.290 -->
- - And we want to help you, " data-timeend="">
- - And we want to help you, -->
- 00:23:48.290 --> 00:23:49.290 " data-timeend="">
- 00:23:48.290 --> 00:23:49.290 -->
- we're here to help to you. " data-timeend="">
- we're here to help to you. -->
- 00:23:49.290 --> 00:23:50.250 " data-timeend="">
- 00:23:49.290 --> 00:23:50.250 -->
- so, I'm going to send you " data-timeend="">
- so, I'm going to send you -->
- 00:23:50.250 --> 00:23:51.230 " data-timeend="">
- 00:23:50.250 --> 00:23:51.230 -->
- this resource "Meant to be" " data-timeend="">
- this resource "Meant to be" -->
- 00:23:51.230 --> 00:23:53.150 " data-timeend="">
- 00:23:51.230 --> 00:23:53.150 -->
- with your gift of any amount " data-timeend="">
- with your gift of any amount -->
- 00:23:53.150 --> 00:23:54.250 " data-timeend="">
- 00:23:53.150 --> 00:23:54.250 -->
- to the ministry today. " data-timeend="">
- to the ministry today. -->
- 00:23:54.250 --> 00:23:56.240 " data-timeend="">
- 00:23:54.250 --> 00:23:56.240 -->
- Just go online right now " data-timeend="">
- Just go online right now -->
- 00:23:56.240 --> 00:23:58.110 " data-timeend="">
- 00:23:56.240 --> 00:23:58.110 -->
- or call the number " data-timeend="">
- or call the number -->
- 00:23:58.110 --> 00:23:59.180 " data-timeend="">
- 00:23:58.110 --> 00:23:59.180 -->
- on the screen right now, " data-timeend="">
- on the screen right now, -->
- 00:23:59.180 --> 00:24:01.180 " data-timeend="">
- 00:23:59.180 --> 00:24:01.180 -->
- and request your copy " data-timeend="">
- and request your copy -->
- 00:24:01.180 --> 00:24:02.200 " data-timeend="">
- 00:24:01.180 --> 00:24:02.200 -->
- of "Meant to Be". " data-timeend="">
- of "Meant to Be". -->
- 00:24:02.200 --> 00:24:04.000 " data-timeend="">
- 00:24:02.200 --> 00:24:04.000 -->
- Say, "I want it," " data-timeend="">
- Say, "I want it," -->
- 00:24:04.000 --> 00:24:04.290 " data-timeend="">
- 00:24:04.000 --> 00:24:04.290 -->
- and we'll get it out " data-timeend="">
- and we'll get it out -->
- 00:24:04.290 --> 00:24:05.260 " data-timeend="">
- 00:24:04.290 --> 00:24:05.260 -->
- to you right away. " data-timeend="">
- to you right away. -->
- 00:24:05.260 --> 00:24:06.220 " data-timeend="">
- 00:24:05.260 --> 00:24:06.220 -->
- Here's some more info as well as " data-timeend="">
- Here's some more info as well as -->
- 00:24:06.220 --> 00:24:08.150 " data-timeend="">
- 00:24:06.220 --> 00:24:08.150 -->
- some additional resources " data-timeend="">
- some additional resources -->
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- 00:24:08.150 --> 00:24:09.190 -->
- - ANNOUNCER: When it comes " data-timeend="">
- - ANNOUNCER: When it comes -->
- 00:24:11.200 --> 00:24:12.090 " data-timeend="">
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- to seeking advice " data-timeend="">
- to seeking advice -->
- 00:24:12.090 --> 00:24:13.040 " data-timeend="">
- 00:24:12.090 --> 00:24:13.040 -->
- about relationships, marriage, " data-timeend="">
- about relationships, marriage, -->
- 00:24:13.040 --> 00:24:14.190 " data-timeend="">
- 00:24:13.040 --> 00:24:14.190 -->
- and sex, we tend to look " data-timeend="">
- and sex, we tend to look -->
- 00:24:14.190 --> 00:24:16.020 " data-timeend="">
- 00:24:14.190 --> 00:24:16.020 -->
- in all the wrong places. " data-timeend="">
- in all the wrong places. -->
- 00:24:16.020 --> 00:24:18.020 " data-timeend="">
- 00:24:16.020 --> 00:24:18.020 -->
- The world claims " data-timeend="">
- The world claims -->
- 00:24:18.020 --> 00:24:18.250 " data-timeend="">
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- to have the answers, " data-timeend="">
- to have the answers, -->
- 00:24:18.250 --> 00:24:19.270 " data-timeend="">
- 00:24:18.250 --> 00:24:19.270 -->
- but maybe we've been focusing " data-timeend="">
- but maybe we've been focusing -->
- 00:24:19.270 --> 00:24:20.280 " data-timeend="">
- 00:24:19.270 --> 00:24:20.280 -->
- on the wrong problem all along. " data-timeend="">
- on the wrong problem all along. -->
- 00:24:20.280 --> 00:24:23.120 " data-timeend="">
- 00:24:20.280 --> 00:24:23.120 -->
- In our series, "Meant to Be", " data-timeend="">
- In our series, "Meant to Be", -->
- 00:24:23.120 --> 00:24:25.030 " data-timeend="">
- 00:24:23.120 --> 00:24:25.030 -->
- Pastor Steven Furtick " data-timeend="">
- Pastor Steven Furtick -->
- 00:24:25.030 --> 00:24:26.050 " data-timeend="">
- 00:24:25.030 --> 00:24:26.050 -->
- has open conversations " data-timeend="">
- has open conversations -->
- 00:24:26.050 --> 00:24:27.220 " data-timeend="">
- 00:24:26.050 --> 00:24:27.220 -->
- to help us uncover " data-timeend="">
- to help us uncover -->
- 00:24:27.220 --> 00:24:29.050 " data-timeend="">
- 00:24:27.220 --> 00:24:29.050 -->
- the Bible's best kept secrets " data-timeend="">
- the Bible's best kept secrets -->
- 00:24:29.050 --> 00:24:30.160 " data-timeend="">
- 00:24:29.050 --> 00:24:30.160 -->
- about sex, marriage, " data-timeend="">
- about sex, marriage, -->
- 00:24:30.160 --> 00:24:31.200 " data-timeend="">
- 00:24:30.160 --> 00:24:31.200 -->
- and being single. " data-timeend="">
- and being single. -->
- 00:24:31.200 --> 00:24:33.010 " data-timeend="">
- 00:24:31.200 --> 00:24:33.010 -->
- - Most of the emphasis, " data-timeend="">
- - Most of the emphasis, -->
- 00:24:33.010 --> 00:24:34.130 " data-timeend="">
- 00:24:33.010 --> 00:24:34.130 -->
- when you talk about dating, " data-timeend="">
- when you talk about dating, -->
- 00:24:34.130 --> 00:24:35.230 " data-timeend="">
- 00:24:34.130 --> 00:24:35.230 -->
- and marriage, and singleness, " data-timeend="">
- and marriage, and singleness, -->
- 00:24:35.230 --> 00:24:37.040 " data-timeend="">
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- in culture seems to be " data-timeend="">
- in culture seems to be -->
- 00:24:37.040 --> 00:24:38.060 " data-timeend="">
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- on finding the right one. " data-timeend="">
- on finding the right one. -->
- 00:24:38.060 --> 00:24:40.100 " data-timeend="">
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- Most of the emphasis, " data-timeend="">
- Most of the emphasis, -->
- 00:24:40.100 --> 00:24:41.220 " data-timeend="">
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- when you come to the scripture, " data-timeend="">
- when you come to the scripture, -->
- 00:24:41.220 --> 00:24:43.010 " data-timeend="">
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- tends to be on being " data-timeend="">
- tends to be on being -->
- 00:24:43.010 --> 00:24:44.220 " data-timeend="">
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- the right one. " data-timeend="">
- the right one. -->
- 00:24:44.220 --> 00:24:46.040 " data-timeend="">
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- - For your gift of any amount " data-timeend="">
- - For your gift of any amount -->
- 00:24:46.040 --> 00:24:47.070 " data-timeend="">
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- we'll send you " data-timeend="">
- we'll send you -->
- 00:24:47.070 --> 00:24:47.260 " data-timeend="">
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- the five-part " data-timeend="">
- the five-part -->
- 00:24:47.260 --> 00:24:48.140 " data-timeend="">
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- Meant To Be series, " data-timeend="">
- Meant To Be series, -->
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- which includes a message " data-timeend="">
- which includes a message -->
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- with Pastor Steven " data-timeend="">
- with Pastor Steven -->
- 00:24:50.240 --> 00:24:51.190 " data-timeend="">
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- and his wife Holly, " data-timeend="">
- and his wife Holly, -->
- 00:24:51.190 --> 00:24:52.290 " data-timeend="">
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- where they share " data-timeend="">
- where they share -->
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- personal examples " data-timeend="">
- personal examples -->
- 00:24:53.190 --> 00:24:54.140 " data-timeend="">
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- and scriptural insight on how " data-timeend="">
- and scriptural insight on how -->
- 00:24:54.140 --> 00:24:56.110 " data-timeend="">
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- we can invite God to work " data-timeend="">
- we can invite God to work -->
- 00:24:56.110 --> 00:24:57.140 " data-timeend="">
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- in our everyday " data-timeend="">
- in our everyday -->
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- relationship challenges. " data-timeend="">
- relationship challenges. -->
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- Pastor Steven also explains " data-timeend="">
- Pastor Steven also explains -->
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- the unnecessary complications " data-timeend="">
- the unnecessary complications -->
- 00:25:02.040 --> 00:25:04.000 " data-timeend="">
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- that sidetrack us " data-timeend="">
- that sidetrack us -->
- 00:25:04.000 --> 00:25:04.290 " data-timeend="">
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- in relationships, " data-timeend="">
- in relationships, -->
- 00:25:04.290 --> 00:25:06.070 " data-timeend="">
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- and he shows us " data-timeend="">
- and he shows us -->
- 00:25:06.070 --> 00:25:07.080 " data-timeend="">
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- what is truly meant to be " data-timeend="">
- what is truly meant to be -->
- 00:25:07.080 --> 00:25:08.140 " data-timeend="">
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- in our lives " data-timeend="">
- in our lives -->
- 00:25:08.140 --> 00:25:09.150 " data-timeend="">
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- when we have Jesus " data-timeend="">
- when we have Jesus -->
- 00:25:09.150 --> 00:25:10.080 " data-timeend="">
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- as our foundation. " data-timeend="">
- as our foundation. -->
- 00:25:10.080 --> 00:25:11.210 " data-timeend="">
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- - I've been told all my life " data-timeend="">
- - I've been told all my life -->
- 00:25:11.210 --> 00:25:12.210 " data-timeend="">
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- to put Jesus first, " data-timeend="">
- to put Jesus first, -->
- 00:25:12.210 --> 00:25:13.220 " data-timeend="">
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- but that doesn't work, " data-timeend="">
- but that doesn't work, -->
- 00:25:13.220 --> 00:25:15.160 " data-timeend="">
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- because that separates him out " data-timeend="">
- because that separates him out -->
- 00:25:15.160 --> 00:25:16.160 " data-timeend="">
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- from everything else. " data-timeend="">
- from everything else. -->
- 00:25:16.160 --> 00:25:18.150 " data-timeend="">
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- Live as if Jesus " data-timeend="">
- Live as if Jesus -->
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- was not first on your list, " data-timeend="">
- was not first on your list, -->
- 00:25:20.240 --> 00:25:23.010 " data-timeend="">
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- but that He was " data-timeend="">
- but that He was -->
- 00:25:23.010 --> 00:25:23.240 " data-timeend="">
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- the center of your world. " data-timeend="">
- the center of your world. -->
- 00:25:23.240 --> 00:25:26.030 " data-timeend="">
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- - Visit us online " data-timeend="">
- - Visit us online -->
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- 00:25:26.030 --> 00:25:27.060 -->
- at stevenfurtick.com, " data-timeend="">
- at stevenfurtick.com, -->
- 00:25:27.060 --> 00:25:28.220 " data-timeend="">
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- or call us at the number " data-timeend="">
- or call us at the number -->
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- on your screen " data-timeend="">
- on your screen -->
- 00:25:29.200 --> 00:25:30.150 " data-timeend="">
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- to get your copy " data-timeend="">
- to get your copy -->
- 00:25:30.150 --> 00:25:31.080 " data-timeend="">
- 00:25:30.150 --> 00:25:31.080 -->
- - The Father's arms " data-timeend="">
- - The Father's arms -->
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- are open wide " data-timeend="">
- are open wide -->
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- Forgiveness " data-timeend="">
- Forgiveness -->
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- was bought with " data-timeend="">
- was bought with -->
- 00:25:40.120 --> 00:25:42.240 " data-timeend="">
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- The precious blood " data-timeend="">
- The precious blood -->
- 00:25:43.070 --> 00:25:46.070 " data-timeend="">
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- Oh what a savior " data-timeend="">
- Oh what a savior -->
- 00:25:47.100 --> 00:25:50.100 " data-timeend="">
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- Isn't He wonderful " data-timeend="">
- Isn't He wonderful -->
- 00:25:52.080 --> 00:25:55.080 " data-timeend="">
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- Sing hallelujah " data-timeend="">
- Sing hallelujah -->
- 00:25:55.290 --> 00:25:58.290 " data-timeend="">
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- Christ is risen " data-timeend="">
- Christ is risen -->
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- Bow down before Him " data-timeend="">
- Bow down before Him -->
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- For He is Lord of all " data-timeend="">
- For He is Lord of all -->
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- Sing Hallelujah " data-timeend="">
- Sing Hallelujah -->
- 00:26:16.000 --> 00:26:19.000 " data-timeend="">
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- Christ is risen " data-timeend="">
- Christ is risen -->
- 00:26:24.230 --> 00:26:27.230 " data-timeend="">
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- O come to the altar " data-timeend="">
- O come to the altar -->
- 00:26:29.140 --> 00:26:32.140 " data-timeend="">
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- The Father's arms " data-timeend="">
- The Father's arms -->
- 00:26:32.140 --> 00:26:34.260 " data-timeend="">
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- are open wide open " data-timeend="">
- are open wide open -->
- 00:26:34.260 --> 00:26:37.250 " data-timeend="">
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- Forgiveness " data-timeend="">
- Forgiveness -->
- 00:26:37.250 --> 00:26:40.050 " data-timeend="">
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- was bought with " data-timeend="">
- was bought with -->
- 00:26:40.050 --> 00:26:42.170 " data-timeend="">
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- The precious blood " data-timeend="">
- The precious blood -->
- 00:26:42.170 --> 00:26:44.270 " data-timeend="">
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- of Jesus Christ " data-timeend="">
- of Jesus Christ -->
- 00:26:44.270 --> 00:26:47.150 " data-timeend="">
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- O come to the altar " data-timeend="">
- O come to the altar -->
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- The Father's arms " data-timeend="">
- The Father's arms -->
- 00:26:52.100 --> 00:26:54.120 " data-timeend="">
- 00:26:52.100 --> 00:26:54.120 -->
- are open wide " data-timeend="">
- are open wide -->
- 00:26:54.120 --> 00:26:57.030 " data-timeend="">
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- Forgiveness " data-timeend="">
- Forgiveness -->
- 00:26:57.030 --> 00:26:59.230 " data-timeend="">
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- was bought with " data-timeend="">
- was bought with -->
- 00:26:59.230 --> 00:27:02.050 " data-timeend="">
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- The precious blood " data-timeend="">
- The precious blood -->
- 00:27:02.050 --> 00:27:04.040 " data-timeend="">
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- of Jesus Christ " data-timeend="">
- of Jesus Christ -->
- 00:27:07.060 --> 00:27:10.060 " data-timeend="">
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- Oh " data-timeend="">
- Oh -->
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- Great is Your love " data-timeend="">
- Great is Your love -->
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