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Do Not Reverse Your Circumcision Part 2

Steven Furtick

September 5, 2019

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Steven Furtick

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Do Not Reverse Your Circumcision Part 2

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- What if you changed
- - What if you changed
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- your job description
- your job description
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- as a spouse today
- as a spouse today
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- and said CEO;
- and said CEO;
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- Chief Encouragement Officer?
- Chief Encouragement Officer?
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- You think God would bless
- You think God would bless
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- your marriage more?
- your marriage more?
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- - When I focus on what God
- - When I focus on what God
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- wants me to do
- wants me to do
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- then I can let God work on him.
- then I can let God work on him.
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- The way that I feel
- The way that I feel
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- is setting the tone
- is setting the tone
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- for our whole family.
- for our whole family.
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- And when he feels like
- And when he feels like
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- I'm unhappy then he feels
- I'm unhappy then he feels
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- like he's failing.
- like he's failing.
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- - And we're always feel
- - And we're always feel
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- like we're failing somewhere.
- like we're failing somewhere.
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- Paul said, he said,
- Paul said, he said,
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- "In any situation,
- "In any situation,
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- I can find
- I can find
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- - I love what Shaunti Feldhahn
- - I love what Shaunti Feldhahn
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- said in her book
- said in her book
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- "For Women Only".
- "For Women Only".
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- She said she surveyed
- She said she surveyed
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- hundreds of married people
- hundreds of married people
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- and asked them "What is
- and asked them "What is
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- the one most important thing
- the one most important thing
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- you wished your spouse
- you wished your spouse
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- understood about you but feel
- understood about you but feel
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- that he or she doesn't?"
- that he or she doesn't?"
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- And she said the overwhelming
- And she said the overwhelming
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- response was "I wish she knew
- response was "I wish she knew
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- how much I truly love her."
- how much I truly love her."
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- And if we could just go
- And if we could just go
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- back to that,
- back to that,
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- filter everything through.
- filter everything through.
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- You did this this morning.
- You did this this morning.
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- And you might not have
- And you might not have
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- even known it
- even known it
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- but I was rushing to get ready,
- but I was rushing to get ready,
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- and kind of let the time
- and kind of let the time
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- get ahead of me,
- get ahead of me,
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- and rather than you go
- and rather than you go
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- into this like
- into this like
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- "She doesn't respect my time."
- "She doesn't respect my time."
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- You were very patient.
- You were very patient.
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- And you were like
- And you were like
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- "Okay, are you ready?"
- "Okay, are you ready?"
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- - I just ate me a spoon
- - I just ate me a spoon
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- of peanut butter
- of peanut butter
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- and came on out.
- and came on out.
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- Let's go to the next point.
- Let's go to the next point.
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- I'm called to live
- I'm called to live
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- with contentment.
- with contentment.
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- How huge is this in our world
- How huge is this in our world
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- of constant comparisons today?
- of constant comparisons today?
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- Live with contentment.
- Live with contentment.
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- I mean I'm going to preach
- I mean I'm going to preach
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- about this at least
- about this at least
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- every other week
- every other week
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- for the next ten years,
- for the next ten years,
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- in some way or another.
- in some way or another.
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- This thing of contentment.
- This thing of contentment.
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- This thing about enjoying
- This thing about enjoying
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- where you are on the way
- where you are on the way
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- to where God is taking you.
- to where God is taking you.
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- I'm going to preach on it
- I'm going to preach on it
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- because I need it.
- because I need it.
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- I'm going to preach about it
- I'm going to preach about it
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- because our world is
- because our world is
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- antithetical to it.
- antithetical to it.
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- I'm going to preach about it
- I'm going to preach about it
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- because comparison
- because comparison
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- kills contentment.
- kills contentment.
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- And with no contentment
- And with no contentment
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- there can be no joy.
- there can be no joy.
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- I don't care how much stuff
- I don't care how much stuff
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- you have.
- you have.
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- And so I'm called to live
- And so I'm called to live
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- with contentment.
- with contentment.
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- Like that great Bible verse
- Like that great Bible verse
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- Philippians 4:13 where it says,
- Philippians 4:13 where it says,
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- "I can do all things through
- "I can do all things through
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- Christ who strengthens me."
- Christ who strengthens me."
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- And we use that verse
- And we use that verse
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- to set goals for ourselves,
- to set goals for ourselves,
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- you know?
- you know?
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- I can do this and I can do that.
- I can do this and I can do that.
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- But the verse right before it
- But the verse right before it
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- He says, "I've learned
- He says, "I've learned
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- the secret of being content
- the secret of being content
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- in any situation.
- in any situation.
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- No matter if I have little,
- No matter if I have little,
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- if I have a lot,
- if I have a lot,
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- if I'm abounding,
- if I'm abounding,
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- if I'm in need.
- if I'm in need.
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- I can do all things."
- I can do all things."
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- What?
- What?
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- I can do all things
- I can do all things
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- because I'm content.
- because I'm content.
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- So in any situation
- So in any situation
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- I'm called to contentment.
- I'm called to contentment.
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- And I guess, I'm not trying
- And I guess, I'm not trying
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- to divide men and women in this
- to divide men and women in this
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- because we respond
- because we respond
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- in different ways but,
- in different ways but,
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- like when I don't feel like
- like when I don't feel like
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- your content I feel that
- your content I feel that
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- that is you saying
- that is you saying
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- that I'm a bad provider.
- that I'm a bad provider.
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- And I probably shouldn't feel
- And I probably shouldn't feel
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- that way, shouldn't make it
- that way, shouldn't make it
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- about me, but I do.
- about me, but I do.
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- And then I become miserable.
- And then I become miserable.
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- - Yeah.
- - Yeah.
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- It's taken me a long time
- It's taken me a long time
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- to figure this out
- to figure this out
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- because I understand
- because I understand
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- that at his core,
- that at his core,
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- at a man's core,
- at a man's core,
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- is this need to provide.
- is this need to provide.
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- To provide for his wife,
- To provide for his wife,
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- to provide for his family.
- to provide for his family.
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- But I always took that to mean
- But I always took that to mean
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- he just wants to make sure
- he just wants to make sure
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- that our bills are paid
- that our bills are paid
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- every month.
- every month.
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- But it really goes way
- But it really goes way
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- beyond him providing financially
- beyond him providing financially
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- for us every month.
- for us every month.
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- I mean you have this need to,
- I mean you have this need to,
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- yeah I mean obviously, provide
- yeah I mean obviously, provide
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- for our needs every month.
- for our needs every month.
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- But then you want to provide
- But then you want to provide
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- stability for us.
- stability for us.
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- You want to provide
- You want to provide
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- for our future.
- for our future.
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- But even more than that
- But even more than that
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- a man feels like he wants
- a man feels like he wants
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- to provide happiness
- to provide happiness
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- for his wife,
- for his wife,
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- and for his family.
- and for his family.
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- And I think for women
- And I think for women
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- we really struggle with this.
- we really struggle with this.
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- Because it's so easy to let
- Because it's so easy to let
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- one thing upset us and let it
- one thing upset us and let it
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- just set the trajectory
- just set the trajectory
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- of our day
- of our day
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- in a terrible direction.
- in a terrible direction.
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- And I think sometimes
- And I think sometimes
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- I really fight this
- I really fight this
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- because it feels unfair.
- because it feels unfair.
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- Because whether I like it or not
- Because whether I like it or not
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- as a woman I am the thermostat
- as a woman I am the thermostat
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- of my home.
- of my home.
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- - True.
- - True.
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- - I set the tone.
- - I set the tone.
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- I set the mood.
- I set the mood.
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- - It's true.
- - It's true.
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- - And you can either --
- - And you can either --
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- I mean it is was it is.
- I mean it is was it is.
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- Is that fair?
- Is that fair?
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- No.
- No.
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- Why can't I be in a bad mood?
- Why can't I be in a bad mood?
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- Why can't I just have a bad day
- Why can't I just have a bad day
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- and everybody else just not be
- and everybody else just not be
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- in a bad mood too?
- in a bad mood too?
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- It's just not the way
- It's just not the way
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- that it works.
- that it works.
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- And so the way that I feel
- And so the way that I feel
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- is setting the tone
- is setting the tone
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- for our whole family.
- for our whole family.
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- And when he feels like
- And when he feels like
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- I'm unhappy then he feels
- I'm unhappy then he feels
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- like he's failing.
- like he's failing.
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- And I didn't even realize this.
- And I didn't even realize this.
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- Early on in our marriage
- Early on in our marriage
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- we had a conversation
- we had a conversation
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- that was really helpful for me.
- that was really helpful for me.
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- I was going through
- I was going through
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- a really difficult stage
- a really difficult stage
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- of life.
- of life.
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- I was knee deep in babies.
- I was knee deep in babies.
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- We had Elijah and Graham,
- We had Elijah and Graham,
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- are two years apart.
- are two years apart.
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- So I spent over a year
- So I spent over a year
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- where I had two children
- where I had two children
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- in diapers.
- in diapers.
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- And so I was just knee deep
- And so I was just knee deep
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- in diapers and mommyness.
- in diapers and mommyness.
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- You know?
- You know?
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- Like where these little things
- Like where these little things
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- just control everything
- just control everything
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- about your life.
- about your life.
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- They tell you when you wake up.
- They tell you when you wake up.
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- They tell you when you can go
- They tell you when you can go
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- to sleep.
- to sleep.
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- They tell you when
- They tell you when
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- you can take a shower.
- you can take a shower.
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- They tell you when you can eat.
- They tell you when you can eat.
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- And after a while it was
- And after a while it was
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- just compounding on me.
- just compounding on me.
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- And I was just feeling
- And I was just feeling
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- disappointed with motherhood.
- disappointed with motherhood.
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- Like "This isn't what I thought
- Like "This isn't what I thought
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- it was going to be."
- it was going to be."
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- And I was just every day.
- And I was just every day.
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- And he would come home and
- And he would come home and
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- I was just overwhelmed
- I was just overwhelmed
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- with how long the day had been
- with how long the day had been
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- and you're finally here.
- and you're finally here.
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- And he sat me down one day
- And he sat me down one day
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- and he was like "I just --
- and he was like "I just --
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- I feel like you're not happy.
- I feel like you're not happy.
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- And I feel like you're not happy
- And I feel like you're not happy
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- with me."
- with me."
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- And I -- this has nothing
- And I -- this has nothing
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- to do with you.
- to do with you.
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- But then I realized it does
- But then I realized it does
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- have everything to do with him.
- have everything to do with him.
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- And because he's feeling
- And because he's feeling
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- like he needs to help me.
- like he needs to help me.
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- How can I help you get happy?
- How can I help you get happy?
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- And I realized in that moment
- And I realized in that moment
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- that I can change the way
- that I can change the way
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- that I feel.
- that I feel.
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- I can -- it's all about
- I can -- it's all about
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- my perspective
- my perspective
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- and what I'm looking at.
- and what I'm looking at.
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- Philippians 4:8 says,
- Philippians 4:8 says,
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- "Finally brothers and sister
- "Finally brothers and sister
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- whatever is true,
- whatever is true,
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- whatever is noble,
- whatever is noble,
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- whatever is right,
- whatever is right,
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- whatever is pure,
- whatever is pure,
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- whatever is lovely,
- whatever is lovely,
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- whatever is admirable,
- whatever is admirable,
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- if there's anything excellent
- if there's anything excellent
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- or praiseworthy
- or praiseworthy
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- think about such things."
- think about such things."
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- And sometimes it just takes
- And sometimes it just takes
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- a few seconds to just hit
- a few seconds to just hit
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- the reset button and say,
- the reset button and say,
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- "Wait, wait, wait.
- "Wait, wait, wait.
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- I have two healthy kids.
- I have two healthy kids.
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- Well, now we have three.
- Well, now we have three.
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- And I have a husband
- And I have a husband
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- that loves me.
- that loves me.
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- And this is good.
- And this is good.
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- This is good.
- This is good.
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- In this moment I'm feeling
- In this moment I'm feeling
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- frustrated but I'm happy."
- frustrated but I'm happy."
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- And being able to communicate
- And being able to communicate
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- that to you.
- that to you.
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- And just being able to say
- And just being able to say
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- to you like, "I love our family.
- to you like, "I love our family.
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- I love my life."
- I love my life."
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- And just taking a moment
- And just taking a moment
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- to express to him
- to express to him
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- that I am content.
- that I am content.
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- - 'Cause I want to help
- - 'Cause I want to help
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- the men out and say something
- the men out and say something
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- to your woman.
- to your woman.
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- Most of us feel like
- Most of us feel like
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- we're failing most of the time.
- we're failing most of the time.
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- We don't show you that.
- We don't show you that.
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- But in at least one area,
- But in at least one area,
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- and maybe you can relate
- and maybe you can relate
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- and maybe you can't,
- and maybe you can't,
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- but we live by scorecards.
- but we live by scorecards.
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- And we feel like we're failing
- And we feel like we're failing
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- at everything if we're failing
- at everything if we're failing
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- at anything.
- at anything.
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- So if we're doing well at work
- So if we're doing well at work
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- we probably feel like
- we probably feel like
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- we're cheating something
- we're cheating something
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- that needs to happen at home.
- that needs to happen at home.
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- And if we're doing great
- And if we're doing great
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- at home, you know, we're making
- at home, you know, we're making
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- pancakes but we're broke.
- pancakes but we're broke.
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- And we're always feel
- And we're always feel
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- like we're failing somewhere.
- like we're failing somewhere.
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- You have the power to give
- You have the power to give
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- your man a win just by pointing
- your man a win just by pointing
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- out something that you like
- out something that you like
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- that he made possible for you.
- that he made possible for you.
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- And if you want him to be
- And if you want him to be
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- a winner give him a win.
- a winner give him a win.
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- If you want him to be a winner
- If you want him to be a winner
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- give him a win.
- give him a win.
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- But the power of this is not
- But the power of this is not
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- when you, who really do love
- when you, who really do love
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- everything that's happening
- everything that's happening
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- in your life and your content.
- in your life and your content.
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- Men and women now.
- Men and women now.
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- It's when you do what Paul said.
- It's when you do what Paul said.
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- He said, "In any situation,
- He said, "In any situation,
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- in any situation I can find
- in any situation I can find
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- something to celebrate
- something to celebrate
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- in that situation."
- in that situation."
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- And you just -- you do
- And you just -- you do
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- a touchdown dance you know?
- a touchdown dance you know?
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- Even if you're not anywhere
- Even if you're not anywhere
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- near the end zone.
- near the end zone.
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- And it's amazing how that energy
- And it's amazing how that energy
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- just energizes that thing
- just energizes that thing
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- of contentment.
- of contentment.
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- But it's hard.
- But it's hard.
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- I think it's hard to live
- I think it's hard to live
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- with contentment.
- with contentment.
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- I appreciate, though,
- I appreciate, though,
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- that you made me feel
- that you made me feel
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- this way every season
- this way every season
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- of our life.
- of our life.
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- Because God has blessed us
- Because God has blessed us
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- in a lot of ways now.
- in a lot of ways now.
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- We pastor a church
- We pastor a church
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- that's growing.
- that's growing.
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- A large church.
- A large church.
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- God has blessed us
- God has blessed us
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- in ways materially.
- in ways materially.
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- God has blessed us
- God has blessed us
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- with influence.
- with influence.
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- But I felt like you've,
- But I felt like you've,
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- aside from that one six months
- aside from that one six months
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- where you seemed very sad
- where you seemed very sad
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- and I felt bad for you,
- and I felt bad for you,
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- I feel like on balance.
- I feel like on balance.
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- Not every day but you've always
- Not every day but you've always
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- made me feel when we moved
- made me feel when we moved
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- into that apartment
- into that apartment
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- in Juniper Terrace,
- in Juniper Terrace,
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- you made me feel like that
- you made me feel like that
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- 720 square feet was a palace.
- 720 square feet was a palace.
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- I was proud because I was
- I was proud because I was
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- able to put down
- able to put down
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- the security deposit.
- the security deposit.
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- And I felt like the man.
- And I felt like the man.
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- And in that season
- And in that season
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- we got furniture
- we got furniture
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- from Eric Phillips' dad,
- from Eric Phillips' dad,
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- who's gone to be with Lord,
- who's gone to be with Lord,
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- 00:09:06.000 --> 00:09:07.020
- Mr. Rob he had a mobile --
- Mr. Rob he had a mobile --
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- he would go repossess furniture
- he would go repossess furniture
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- from mobile homes.
- from mobile homes.
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- That's our first furniture.
- That's our first furniture.
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- That was our first bedroom.
- That was our first bedroom.
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- Did I get that right?
- Did I get that right?
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- That was our first -- I was
- That was our first -- I was
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- so proud of that furniture.
- so proud of that furniture.
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- 'Cause I had the hookup,
- 'Cause I had the hookup,
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- 00:09:17.020 --> 00:09:18.010
- I had the street smarts to find
- I had the street smarts to find
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- the man who repossesses
- the man who repossesses
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- the furniture
- the furniture
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- from the mobile homes.
- from the mobile homes.
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- Come on.
- Come on.
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- That takes skills.
- That takes skills.
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- That's OG.
- That's OG.
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- Come on.
- Come on.
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- 00:09:26.180 --> 00:09:29.070
- And we were celebrating
- And we were celebrating
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- that ugly furniture,
- that ugly furniture,
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- that nasty furniture.
- that nasty furniture.
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- And so contentment
- And so contentment
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- breeds celebration
- breeds celebration
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- which breeds success.
- which breeds success.
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- And if you get happy about
- And if you get happy about
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- what you have,
- what you have,
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- 00:09:39.290 --> 00:09:41.100
- and where you are...
- and where you are...
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- I'm called to live
- I'm called to live
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- with contentment.
- with contentment.
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- Next one.
- Next one.
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- We gotta move because
- We gotta move because
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- I preached so long winded
- I preached so long winded
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- last week all of you are going
- last week all of you are going
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- to stop coming to church here
- to stop coming to church here
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- if I make you miss
- if I make you miss
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- football games.
- football games.
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- I am called to let God be God.
- I am called to let God be God.
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- Let's talk about that Holly.
- Let's talk about that Holly.
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- Let God be God.
- Let God be God.
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- Tell them that story about
- Tell them that story about
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- the mom and the pancakes.
- the mom and the pancakes.
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- Great story.
- Great story.
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- - Okay.
- - Okay.
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- 00:10:00.010 --> 00:10:00.190
- So there's this mom,
- So there's this mom,
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- you may have heard this story
- you may have heard this story
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- 00:10:02.120 --> 00:10:03.090
- before, she was making pancakes
- before, she was making pancakes
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- for her two little boys.
- for her two little boys.
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- 00:10:04.130 --> 00:10:06.060
- And they started to argue
- And they started to argue
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- about who would get
- about who would get
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- 00:10:07.170 --> 00:10:08.150
- the first pancake.
- the first pancake.
- 00:10:08.150 --> 00:10:09.080
- 00:10:08.150 --> 00:10:09.080
- And so the mom said to herself,
- And so the mom said to herself,
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- 00:10:09.080 --> 00:10:11.290
- "I'm going to take this and make
- "I'm going to take this and make
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- 00:10:11.290 --> 00:10:13.080
- this a teachable moment."
- this a teachable moment."
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- 00:10:13.080 --> 00:10:14.070
- She looked at her boys
- She looked at her boys
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- 00:10:14.070 --> 00:10:15.030
- and she said, "Boys, you know,
- and she said, "Boys, you know,
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- if Jesus were here,
- if Jesus were here,
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- He would want His brother
- He would want His brother
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- to have the first pancake."
- to have the first pancake."
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- 00:10:19.270 --> 00:10:21.180
- And the older little boy looked
- And the older little boy looked
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- 00:10:21.180 --> 00:10:23.000
- at his younger brother
- at his younger brother
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- 00:10:23.000 --> 00:10:23.260
- and said, "You be Jesus."
- and said, "You be Jesus."
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- - Nice.
- - Nice.
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- 00:10:26.120 --> 00:10:28.220
- Nice.
- Nice.
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- 00:10:28.220 --> 00:10:30.250
- - It's what we do in marriage
- - It's what we do in marriage
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- you know?
- you know?
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- We don't want to focus
- We don't want to focus
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- on our own calling.
- on our own calling.
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- 00:10:33.220 --> 00:10:35.020
- We don't want to do the things
- We don't want to do the things
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- that God has called us to do.
- that God has called us to do.
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- We want to look at our spouses
- We want to look at our spouses
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- 00:10:37.110 --> 00:10:38.140
- and say, "You be Jesus."
- and say, "You be Jesus."
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- You say I'm sorry.
- You say I'm sorry.
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- 00:10:40.000 --> 00:10:42.090
- I'm not saying I'm sorry first.
- I'm not saying I'm sorry first.
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- I'm going to wait this out.
- I'm going to wait this out.
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- You be Jesus.
- You be Jesus.
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- 00:10:44.220 --> 00:10:45.150
- But then the second part of it
- But then the second part of it
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- is "You be Jesus."
- is "You be Jesus."
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- 00:10:46.110 --> 00:10:48.230
- So I'm not saying don't tell him
- So I'm not saying don't tell him
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- to be -- you,
- to be -- you,
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- 00:10:50.030 --> 00:10:50.240
- you be Jesus to your spouse.
- you be Jesus to your spouse.
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- 00:10:50.240 --> 00:10:53.000
- And then let God be God.
- And then let God be God.
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- 00:10:53.000 --> 00:10:55.090
- And I love how Philippians 2:8
- And I love how Philippians 2:8
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- says about Jesus,
- says about Jesus,
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- 00:10:57.220 --> 00:10:58.270
- "And being found
- "And being found
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- in the appearance as a man
- in the appearance as a man
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- 00:10:59.100 --> 00:11:00.160
- he humbled himself
- he humbled himself
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- 00:11:00.160 --> 00:11:01.250
- by becoming obedient to death.
- by becoming obedient to death.
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- 00:11:01.250 --> 00:11:03.210
- Even death on a cross."
- Even death on a cross."
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- 00:11:03.210 --> 00:11:05.040
- So Jesus did his part.
- So Jesus did his part.
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- He was obedient.
- He was obedient.
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- 00:11:06.230 --> 00:11:07.160
- And then God exalted him
- And then God exalted him
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- to the highest place
- to the highest place
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- 00:11:09.190 --> 00:11:10.280
- and gave him to the name
- and gave him to the name
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- 00:11:10.280 --> 00:11:12.020
- that is above every name.
- that is above every name.
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- 00:11:12.020 --> 00:11:13.270
- When I focus on what God
- When I focus on what God
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- 00:11:13.270 --> 00:11:16.070
- wants me to do
- wants me to do
- 00:11:16.070 --> 00:11:17.200
- 00:11:16.070 --> 00:11:17.200
- then I can let God work on him.
- then I can let God work on him.
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- 00:11:18.120 --> 00:11:21.120
- And I love -- my boys
- And I love -- my boys
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- 00:11:21.120 --> 00:11:22.290
- always remind me of this
- always remind me of this
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- 00:11:22.290 --> 00:11:24.170
- because inevitably this happens,
- because inevitably this happens,
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- 00:11:24.170 --> 00:11:27.070
- probably once a week --
- probably once a week --
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- - Of being like Jesus?
- - Of being like Jesus?
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- 00:11:28.010 --> 00:11:28.270
- - No.
- - No.
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- 00:11:28.270 --> 00:11:30.050
- Letting God be God.
- Letting God be God.
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- 00:11:30.050 --> 00:11:31.060
- Inevitably in our house,
- Inevitably in our house,
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- 00:11:31.060 --> 00:11:33.080
- probably about once a week,
- probably about once a week,
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- 00:11:33.080 --> 00:11:34.140
- I'll say, "Boys, go clean
- I'll say, "Boys, go clean
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- 00:11:34.140 --> 00:11:35.230
- your room."
- your room."
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- 00:11:35.230 --> 00:11:36.090
- They share a room together.
- They share a room together.
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- 00:11:36.090 --> 00:11:37.050
- And, you know,
- And, you know,
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- 00:11:37.050 --> 00:11:39.030
- they'll go upstairs, "Aww."
- they'll go upstairs, "Aww."
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- 00:11:39.030 --> 00:11:41.110
- They do the whole thing.
- They do the whole thing.
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- 00:11:41.110 --> 00:11:42.070
- They go upstairs
- They go upstairs
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- and a few minutes will pass by.
- and a few minutes will pass by.
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- It will be quiet.
- It will be quiet.
- 00:11:44.250 --> 00:11:45.160
- 00:11:44.250 --> 00:11:45.160
- And then inevitably you start
- And then inevitably you start
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- 00:11:45.160 --> 00:11:46.290
- to hear this fight brewing.
- to hear this fight brewing.
- 00:11:46.290 --> 00:11:48.290
- 00:11:46.290 --> 00:11:48.290
- And you start to hear them
- And you start to hear them
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- 00:11:48.290 --> 00:11:50.260
- yelling at each other.
- yelling at each other.
- 00:11:50.260 --> 00:11:52.090
- 00:11:50.260 --> 00:11:52.090
- And then the yelling
- And then the yelling
- 00:11:52.090 --> 00:11:53.000
- 00:11:52.090 --> 00:11:53.000
- gets louder.
- gets louder.
- 00:11:53.000 --> 00:11:53.230
- 00:11:53.000 --> 00:11:53.230
- And then, in our house, Graham,
- And then, in our house, Graham,
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- 00:11:53.230 --> 00:11:56.000
- who's the younger one,
- who's the younger one,
- 00:11:56.000 --> 00:11:56.180
- 00:11:56.000 --> 00:11:56.180
- he starts to cry.
- he starts to cry.
- 00:11:56.180 --> 00:11:58.030
- 00:11:56.180 --> 00:11:58.030
- And it's just this loud
- And it's just this loud
- 00:11:58.030 --> 00:11:59.110
- 00:11:58.030 --> 00:11:59.110
- like "I'm hurt" cry.
- like "I'm hurt" cry.
- 00:11:59.110 --> 00:12:00.230
- 00:11:59.110 --> 00:12:00.230
- The whole drama thing.
- The whole drama thing.
- 00:12:00.230 --> 00:12:02.110
- 00:12:00.230 --> 00:12:02.110
- And so I go upstairs
- And so I go upstairs
- 00:12:02.110 --> 00:12:04.010
- 00:12:02.110 --> 00:12:04.010
- and the room is not clean,
- and the room is not clean,
- 00:12:04.010 --> 00:12:06.070
- 00:12:04.010 --> 00:12:06.070
- it looks exactly the same
- it looks exactly the same
- 00:12:06.070 --> 00:12:07.280
- 00:12:06.070 --> 00:12:07.280
- as it looked before.
- as it looked before.
- 00:12:07.280 --> 00:12:09.050
- 00:12:07.280 --> 00:12:09.050
- Graham's on the floor
- Graham's on the floor
- 00:12:09.050 --> 00:12:10.130
- 00:12:09.050 --> 00:12:10.130
- in a puddle of tears and drama.
- in a puddle of tears and drama.
- 00:12:10.130 --> 00:12:12.210
- 00:12:10.130 --> 00:12:12.210
- And he's saying,
- And he's saying,
- 00:12:12.210 --> 00:12:14.150
- 00:12:12.210 --> 00:12:14.150
- "He punched me."
- "He punched me."
- 00:12:14.150 --> 00:12:15.190
- 00:12:14.150 --> 00:12:15.190
- And I'll look at Elijah like,
- And I'll look at Elijah like,
- 00:12:15.190 --> 00:12:17.130
- 00:12:15.190 --> 00:12:17.130
- "What's going on?"
- "What's going on?"
- 00:12:17.130 --> 00:12:19.240
- 00:12:17.130 --> 00:12:19.240
- And he'll say,
- And he'll say,
- 00:12:19.240 --> 00:12:20.250
- 00:12:19.240 --> 00:12:20.250
- "Graham wouldn't clean up."
- "Graham wouldn't clean up."
- 00:12:20.250 --> 00:12:21.270
- 00:12:20.250 --> 00:12:21.270
- - You look at him like what?
- - You look at him like what?
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- 00:12:21.270 --> 00:12:23.100
- Say it the way
- Say it the way
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- 00:12:23.100 --> 00:12:24.130
- you really say it.
- you really say it.
- 00:12:24.130 --> 00:12:25.230
- 00:12:24.130 --> 00:12:25.230
- - "What did you do?"
- - "What did you do?"
- 00:12:25.230 --> 00:12:28.070
- 00:12:25.230 --> 00:12:28.070
- - That's halfway there.
- - That's halfway there.
- 00:12:29.040 --> 00:12:32.040
- 00:12:29.040 --> 00:12:32.040
- - And he'll say,
- - And he'll say,
- 00:12:32.040 --> 00:12:32.210
- 00:12:32.040 --> 00:12:32.210
- "Graham wouldn't clean up.
- "Graham wouldn't clean up.
- 00:12:32.210 --> 00:12:34.090
- 00:12:32.210 --> 00:12:34.090
- He wouldn't clean up."
- He wouldn't clean up."
- 00:12:34.090 --> 00:12:35.240
- 00:12:34.090 --> 00:12:35.240
- "Well Elijah, your bed
- "Well Elijah, your bed
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- 00:12:35.240 --> 00:12:37.230
- is unmade, your drawers
- is unmade, your drawers
- 00:12:37.230 --> 00:12:39.100
- 00:12:37.230 --> 00:12:39.100
- are all still open.
- are all still open.
- 00:12:39.100 --> 00:12:40.090
- 00:12:39.100 --> 00:12:40.090
- Your towels on the floor.
- Your towels on the floor.
- 00:12:40.090 --> 00:12:43.080
- 00:12:40.090 --> 00:12:43.080
- You've got to let me be the mom.
- You've got to let me be the mom.
- 00:12:43.080 --> 00:12:45.260
- 00:12:43.080 --> 00:12:45.260
- You're not the mom.
- You're not the mom.
- 00:12:45.260 --> 00:12:47.040
- 00:12:45.260 --> 00:12:47.040
- I'm the mom.
- I'm the mom.
- 00:12:47.040 --> 00:12:48.060
- 00:12:47.040 --> 00:12:48.060
- You do what you need to do
- You do what you need to do
- 00:12:48.060 --> 00:12:50.070
- 00:12:48.060 --> 00:12:50.070
- and let me take care of Graham
- and let me take care of Graham
- 00:12:50.070 --> 00:12:52.020
- 00:12:50.070 --> 00:12:52.020
- if he's not going to clean up
- if he's not going to clean up
- 00:12:52.020 --> 00:12:53.120
- 00:12:52.020 --> 00:12:53.120
- his part."
- his part."
- 00:12:53.120 --> 00:12:54.150
- 00:12:53.120 --> 00:12:54.150
- And don't you feel like
- And don't you feel like
- 00:12:54.150 --> 00:12:56.160
- 00:12:54.150 --> 00:12:56.160
- that's what God is looking
- that's what God is looking
- 00:12:56.160 --> 00:12:57.190
- 00:12:56.160 --> 00:12:57.190
- down at us?
- down at us?
- 00:12:57.190 --> 00:12:58.070
- 00:12:57.190 --> 00:12:58.070
- - Oh my God.
- - Oh my God.
- 00:12:58.070 --> 00:12:58.250
- 00:12:58.070 --> 00:12:58.250
- Preach.
- Preach.
- 00:12:58.250 --> 00:13:00.220
- 00:12:58.250 --> 00:13:00.220
- Preach, Sister Holly.
- Preach, Sister Holly.
- 00:13:07.040 --> 00:13:10.040
- 00:13:07.040 --> 00:13:10.040
- God looks down on his children
- God looks down on his children
- 00:13:10.040 --> 00:13:11.090
- 00:13:10.040 --> 00:13:11.090
- fighting and said, "Would you
- fighting and said, "Would you
- 00:13:11.090 --> 00:13:12.240
- 00:13:11.090 --> 00:13:12.240
- let me be the Father?
- let me be the Father?
- 00:13:12.280 --> 00:13:15.280
- 00:13:12.280 --> 00:13:15.280
- Quit trying to straighten
- Quit trying to straighten
- 00:13:15.280 --> 00:13:17.000
- 00:13:15.280 --> 00:13:17.000
- them out.
- them out.
- 00:13:17.000 --> 00:13:17.210
- 00:13:17.000 --> 00:13:17.210
- Maybe I'd like to straighten
- Maybe I'd like to straighten
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- 00:13:17.210 --> 00:13:18.160
- you out.
- you out.
- 00:13:18.160 --> 00:13:19.170
- 00:13:18.160 --> 00:13:19.170
- Don't make me -- don't make me
- Don't make me -- don't make me
- 00:13:19.170 --> 00:13:22.020
- 00:13:19.170 --> 00:13:22.020
- come downstairs.
- come downstairs.
- 00:13:22.020 --> 00:13:24.170
- 00:13:22.020 --> 00:13:24.170
- I'll straighten ya'll both out."
- I'll straighten ya'll both out."
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- 00:13:24.170 --> 00:13:26.180
- Let God be God.
- Let God be God.
- 00:13:26.180 --> 00:13:27.200
- 00:13:26.180 --> 00:13:27.200
- We gotta go to the next one.
- We gotta go to the next one.
- 00:13:27.200 --> 00:13:28.220
- 00:13:27.200 --> 00:13:28.220
- We could talk about that
- We could talk about that
- 00:13:28.220 --> 00:13:29.140
- 00:13:28.220 --> 00:13:29.140
- all day.
- all day.
- 00:13:29.140 --> 00:13:30.070
- 00:13:29.140 --> 00:13:30.070
- But let God be God.
- But let God be God.
- 00:13:30.070 --> 00:13:32.240
- 00:13:30.070 --> 00:13:32.240
- He's way better at His job
- He's way better at His job
- 00:13:32.240 --> 00:13:34.070
- 00:13:32.240 --> 00:13:34.070
- than you could ever be.
- than you could ever be.
- 00:13:34.070 --> 00:13:36.200
- 00:13:34.070 --> 00:13:36.200
- And some of us are engaging
- And some of us are engaging
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- 00:13:36.200 --> 00:13:37.140
- in things of trying
- in things of trying
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- 00:13:37.140 --> 00:13:38.080
- to fix people and marriages
- to fix people and marriages
- 00:13:38.080 --> 00:13:39.030
- 00:13:38.080 --> 00:13:39.030
- that are above our pay grade,
- that are above our pay grade,
- 00:13:39.030 --> 00:13:39.260
- 00:13:39.030 --> 00:13:39.260
- frankly.
- frankly.
- 00:13:39.260 --> 00:13:41.080
- 00:13:39.260 --> 00:13:41.080
- And God wants His job back.
- And God wants His job back.
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- 00:13:41.080 --> 00:13:43.250
- And if you be Jesus
- And if you be Jesus
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- 00:13:43.250 --> 00:13:44.150
- and let God be God
- and let God be God
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- 00:13:44.150 --> 00:13:45.100
- then he'll take care of the --
- then he'll take care of the --
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- 00:13:45.100 --> 00:13:47.030
- He's way better at fixing
- He's way better at fixing
- 00:13:47.030 --> 00:13:48.050
- 00:13:47.030 --> 00:13:48.050
- that person than you are.
- that person than you are.
- 00:13:48.050 --> 00:13:49.230
- 00:13:48.050 --> 00:13:49.230
- If you'd get out of the way
- If you'd get out of the way
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- 00:13:49.230 --> 00:13:50.260
- He might do it.
- He might do it.
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- 00:13:50.260 --> 00:13:52.130
- The very thing that you're
- The very thing that you're
- 00:13:52.130 --> 00:13:53.120
- 00:13:52.130 --> 00:13:53.120
- freaking out about.
- freaking out about.
- 00:13:53.120 --> 00:13:54.110
- 00:13:53.120 --> 00:13:54.110
- - He can whisper in a minute
- - He can whisper in a minute
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- 00:13:54.110 --> 00:13:55.130
- the thing that it would take me
- the thing that it would take me
- 00:13:55.130 --> 00:13:56.120
- 00:13:55.130 --> 00:13:56.120
- months to nag you about.
- months to nag you about.
- 00:13:56.120 --> 00:13:58.240
- 00:13:56.120 --> 00:13:58.240
- - Say it again.
- - Say it again.
- 00:13:58.240 --> 00:14:00.120
- 00:13:58.240 --> 00:14:00.120
- And everybody in the church
- And everybody in the church
- 00:14:00.120 --> 00:14:01.140
- 00:14:00.120 --> 00:14:01.140
- tweeted at once.
- tweeted at once.
- 00:14:01.140 --> 00:14:03.030
- 00:14:01.140 --> 00:14:03.030
- He can -- say it
- He can -- say it
- 00:14:03.030 --> 00:14:04.270
- 00:14:03.030 --> 00:14:04.270
- I don't remember.
- I don't remember.
- 00:14:04.270 --> 00:14:05.130
- 00:14:04.270 --> 00:14:05.130
- - He can whisper in just a snap
- - He can whisper in just a snap
- 00:14:05.160 --> 00:14:08.160
- 00:14:05.160 --> 00:14:08.160
- of a finger, he can whisper
- of a finger, he can whisper
- 00:14:08.160 --> 00:14:10.190
- 00:14:08.160 --> 00:14:10.190
- into my husband's ear,
- into my husband's ear,
- 00:14:10.190 --> 00:14:11.290
- 00:14:10.190 --> 00:14:11.290
- something that I've been nagging
- something that I've been nagging
- 00:14:11.290 --> 00:14:13.030
- 00:14:11.290 --> 00:14:13.030
- to him for months about.
- to him for months about.
- 00:14:13.030 --> 00:14:15.230
- 00:14:13.030 --> 00:14:15.230
- if you would just -- if I would
- if you would just -- if I would
- 00:14:15.230 --> 00:14:17.140
- 00:14:15.230 --> 00:14:17.140
- just focus on me
- just focus on me
- 00:14:17.140 --> 00:14:19.010
- 00:14:17.140 --> 00:14:19.010
- and let God work on him.
- and let God work on him.
- 00:14:19.010 --> 00:14:21.000
- 00:14:19.010 --> 00:14:21.000
- And trust that God will work
- And trust that God will work
- 00:14:21.000 --> 00:14:22.140
- 00:14:21.000 --> 00:14:22.140
- on him.
- on him.
- 00:14:22.140 --> 00:14:23.090
- 00:14:22.140 --> 00:14:23.090
- - God could do it.
- - God could do it.
- 00:14:23.090 --> 00:14:26.060
- 00:14:23.090 --> 00:14:26.060
- God wants to whisper what
- God wants to whisper what
- 00:14:26.180 --> 00:14:29.180
- 00:14:26.180 --> 00:14:29.180
- you've been trying to shout.
- you've been trying to shout.
- 00:14:29.180 --> 00:14:31.140
- 00:14:29.180 --> 00:14:31.140
- If you'll shut your mouth.
- If you'll shut your mouth.
- 00:14:32.070 --> 00:14:35.070
- 00:14:32.070 --> 00:14:35.070
- This is getting good.
- This is getting good.
- 00:14:35.070 --> 00:14:37.070
- 00:14:35.070 --> 00:14:37.070
- This is getting good.
- This is getting good.
- 00:14:37.070 --> 00:14:38.220
- 00:14:37.070 --> 00:14:38.220
- I'm called to encourage
- I'm called to encourage
- 00:14:38.220 --> 00:14:41.000
- 00:14:38.220 --> 00:14:41.000
- your strengths.
- your strengths.
- 00:14:41.000 --> 00:14:41.260
- 00:14:41.000 --> 00:14:41.260
- We're almost home now.
- We're almost home now.
- 00:14:41.260 --> 00:14:43.040
- 00:14:41.260 --> 00:14:43.040
- I am called to encourage
- I am called to encourage
- 00:14:43.040 --> 00:14:45.020
- 00:14:43.040 --> 00:14:45.020
- your strengths.
- your strengths.
- 00:14:45.020 --> 00:14:45.290
- 00:14:45.020 --> 00:14:45.290
- We need to point this out
- We need to point this out
- 00:14:45.290 --> 00:14:48.120
- 00:14:45.290 --> 00:14:48.120
- because as we've been saying
- because as we've been saying
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- 00:14:48.120 --> 00:14:49.170
- our tendency is to feel
- our tendency is to feel
- 00:14:49.170 --> 00:14:51.020
- 00:14:49.170 --> 00:14:51.020
- that I am called to fix
- that I am called to fix
- 00:14:51.020 --> 00:14:52.080
- 00:14:51.020 --> 00:14:52.080
- your weaknesses.
- your weaknesses.
- 00:14:52.080 --> 00:14:53.200
- 00:14:52.080 --> 00:14:53.200
- Or expose your weaknesses.
- Or expose your weaknesses.
- 00:14:53.200 --> 00:14:56.080
- 00:14:53.200 --> 00:14:56.080
- And there's times in marriage
- And there's times in marriage
- 00:14:56.080 --> 00:14:57.260
- 00:14:56.080 --> 00:14:57.260
- to talk about things.
- to talk about things.
- 00:14:57.260 --> 00:14:59.210
- 00:14:57.260 --> 00:14:59.210
- You know, Holly helps me
- You know, Holly helps me
- 00:14:59.210 --> 00:15:01.060
- 00:14:59.210 --> 00:15:01.060
- with my temper.
- with my temper.
- 00:15:01.060 --> 00:15:03.080
- 00:15:01.060 --> 00:15:03.080
- But not in the middle
- But not in the middle
- 00:15:03.080 --> 00:15:04.010
- 00:15:03.080 --> 00:15:04.010
- of my temper tantrum.
- of my temper tantrum.
- 00:15:04.010 --> 00:15:05.070
- 00:15:04.010 --> 00:15:05.070
- As she said it's about timing.
- As she said it's about timing.
- 00:15:05.070 --> 00:15:07.000
- 00:15:05.070 --> 00:15:07.000
- She helps me.
- She helps me.
- 00:15:07.000 --> 00:15:09.080
- 00:15:07.000 --> 00:15:09.080
- And one of the greatest ways
- And one of the greatest ways
- 00:15:09.080 --> 00:15:10.150
- 00:15:09.080 --> 00:15:10.150
- that she helps me is not
- that she helps me is not
- 00:15:10.150 --> 00:15:12.010
- 00:15:10.150 --> 00:15:12.010
- by going straight to the C's
- by going straight to the C's
- 00:15:12.010 --> 00:15:13.080
- 00:15:12.010 --> 00:15:13.080
- and D's and F's
- and D's and F's
- 00:15:13.080 --> 00:15:14.100
- 00:15:13.080 --> 00:15:14.100
- on my report card
- on my report card
- 00:15:14.100 --> 00:15:15.170
- 00:15:14.100 --> 00:15:15.170
- but talking about the A's.
- but talking about the A's.
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- 00:15:15.170 --> 00:15:18.100
- We call this and I got this
- We call this and I got this
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- 00:15:18.100 --> 00:15:19.200
- from a book about changing
- from a book about changing
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- 00:15:19.200 --> 00:15:21.010
- things when change is hard.
- things when change is hard.
- 00:15:21.010 --> 00:15:22.150
- 00:15:21.010 --> 00:15:22.150
- And the books is called "Switch"
- And the books is called "Switch"
- 00:15:22.150 --> 00:15:24.010
- 00:15:22.150 --> 00:15:24.010
- and they talk about
- and they talk about
- 00:15:24.010 --> 00:15:24.200
- 00:15:24.010 --> 00:15:24.200
- bright spots.
- bright spots.
- 00:15:24.200 --> 00:15:26.010
- 00:15:24.200 --> 00:15:26.010
- And they talk about an epidemic.
- And they talk about an epidemic.
- 00:15:26.010 --> 00:15:28.140
- 00:15:26.010 --> 00:15:28.140
- There was a starvation epidemic.
- There was a starvation epidemic.
- 00:15:28.140 --> 00:15:30.150
- 00:15:28.140 --> 00:15:30.150
- Somebody went in to try
- Somebody went in to try
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- 00:15:30.150 --> 00:15:31.120
- to fix it.
- to fix it.
- 00:15:31.120 --> 00:15:31.280
- 00:15:31.120 --> 00:15:31.280
- They couldn't fix it.
- They couldn't fix it.
- 00:15:31.280 --> 00:15:32.130
- 00:15:31.280 --> 00:15:32.130
- Somebody else came in to try
- Somebody else came in to try
- 00:15:32.130 --> 00:15:33.090
- 00:15:32.130 --> 00:15:33.090
- to fix it, they couldn't fix it.
- to fix it, they couldn't fix it.
- 00:15:33.090 --> 00:15:34.080
- 00:15:33.090 --> 00:15:34.080
- Somebody else came in
- Somebody else came in
- 00:15:34.080 --> 00:15:35.040
- 00:15:34.080 --> 00:15:35.040
- and tried to fix it,
- and tried to fix it,
- 00:15:35.040 --> 00:15:35.260
- 00:15:35.040 --> 00:15:35.260
- they couldn't fix it.
- they couldn't fix it.
- 00:15:35.260 --> 00:15:37.130
- 00:15:35.260 --> 00:15:37.130
- One person came in
- One person came in
- 00:15:37.130 --> 00:15:38.110
- 00:15:37.130 --> 00:15:38.110
- and tried to fix it
- and tried to fix it
- 00:15:38.110 --> 00:15:39.090
- 00:15:38.110 --> 00:15:39.090
- and they began to fix it.
- and they began to fix it.
- 00:15:39.090 --> 00:15:40.220
- 00:15:39.090 --> 00:15:40.220
- Because everybody came in
- Because everybody came in
- 00:15:40.220 --> 00:15:41.270
- 00:15:40.220 --> 00:15:41.270
- the first several times
- the first several times
- 00:15:41.270 --> 00:15:43.040
- 00:15:41.270 --> 00:15:43.040
- trying to fix what was wrong.
- trying to fix what was wrong.
- 00:15:43.040 --> 00:15:45.080
- 00:15:43.040 --> 00:15:45.080
- They would find out
- They would find out
- 00:15:45.080 --> 00:15:45.290
- 00:15:45.080 --> 00:15:45.290
- the problems.
- the problems.
- 00:15:45.290 --> 00:15:46.160
- 00:15:45.290 --> 00:15:46.160
- Why were these people starving?
- Why were these people starving?
- 00:15:46.160 --> 00:15:48.030
- 00:15:46.160 --> 00:15:48.030
- Trying to fix it.
- Trying to fix it.
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- 00:15:48.030 --> 00:15:49.170
- Couldn't fix it systemically.
- Couldn't fix it systemically.
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- But then one person had
- But then one person had
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- the foresight to find
- the foresight to find
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- one family that was
- one family that was
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- in the same situation
- in the same situation
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- with limited resources
- with limited resources
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- that was not starving.
- that was not starving.
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- And find out what they were
- And find out what they were
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- doing right and then teach that
- doing right and then teach that
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- to the surrounding village.
- to the surrounding village.
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- Bright spots.
- Bright spots.
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- If you look at the bright spots
- If you look at the bright spots
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- 00:16:07.020 --> 00:16:08.220
- -- like somebody said to me
- -- like somebody said to me
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- 00:16:08.220 --> 00:16:09.190
- the other day, "Who tells you
- the other day, "Who tells you
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- 00:16:09.190 --> 00:16:11.240
- when your sermon isn't good?"
- when your sermon isn't good?"
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- 00:16:11.240 --> 00:16:14.200
- And I'm like, "God.
- And I'm like, "God.
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- 00:16:14.200 --> 00:16:17.150
- Holy Spirit."
- Holy Spirit."
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- 00:16:17.150 --> 00:16:18.130
- I feel that way.
- I feel that way.
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- You know I did a survey
- You know I did a survey
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- 00:16:19.110 --> 00:16:20.050
- of preachers, I'm getting
- of preachers, I'm getting
- 00:16:20.050 --> 00:16:20.210
- 00:16:20.050 --> 00:16:20.210
- way off track and we gotta close
- way off track and we gotta close
- 00:16:20.210 --> 00:16:21.290
- 00:16:20.210 --> 00:16:21.290
- but I did a survey of preachers,
- but I did a survey of preachers,
- 00:16:21.290 --> 00:16:23.040
- 00:16:21.290 --> 00:16:23.040
- and I was telling you this,
- and I was telling you this,
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- 00:16:23.040 --> 00:16:24.030
- of some of the top preachers
- of some of the top preachers
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- 00:16:24.030 --> 00:16:25.070
- that you would know their name.
- that you would know their name.
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- 00:16:25.070 --> 00:16:26.120
- And I've been asking them,
- And I've been asking them,
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- 00:16:26.120 --> 00:16:28.000
- "How many times do you feel
- "How many times do you feel
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- 00:16:28.000 --> 00:16:29.180
- like you preached great
- like you preached great
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- 00:16:29.180 --> 00:16:30.160
- when you walk off the stage?"
- when you walk off the stage?"
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- 00:16:30.160 --> 00:16:31.260
- And the most common answer was
- And the most common answer was
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- "One out of five at best."
- "One out of five at best."
- 00:16:33.130 --> 00:16:35.200
- 00:16:33.130 --> 00:16:35.200
- Wow that's crazy.
- Wow that's crazy.
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- 00:16:35.200 --> 00:16:36.130
- These are the best guys
- These are the best guys
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- 00:16:36.130 --> 00:16:37.140
- in their whole field.
- in their whole field.
- 00:16:37.140 --> 00:16:39.070
- 00:16:37.140 --> 00:16:39.070
- And they said, "One out of five
- And they said, "One out of five
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- 00:16:39.070 --> 00:16:40.240
- at best."
- at best."
- 00:16:40.240 --> 00:16:41.160
- 00:16:40.240 --> 00:16:41.160
- So somebody was asking one day,
- So somebody was asking one day,
- 00:16:41.160 --> 00:16:42.180
- 00:16:41.160 --> 00:16:42.180
- they said, "Who tells you
- they said, "Who tells you
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- 00:16:42.180 --> 00:16:43.200
- when your sermon wasn't great?"
- when your sermon wasn't great?"
- 00:16:43.200 --> 00:16:44.220
- 00:16:43.200 --> 00:16:44.220
- "Well usually I don't think
- "Well usually I don't think
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- 00:16:44.220 --> 00:16:46.030
- it was anyway so nobody
- it was anyway so nobody
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- 00:16:46.030 --> 00:16:47.090
- has to tell me.
- has to tell me.
- 00:16:47.090 --> 00:16:48.090
- 00:16:47.090 --> 00:16:48.090
- I'm beating up on myself way
- I'm beating up on myself way
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- more than anybody else could."
- more than anybody else could."
- 00:16:49.090 --> 00:16:50.100
- 00:16:49.090 --> 00:16:50.100
- And they said,
- And they said,
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- 00:16:50.100 --> 00:16:51.150
- "Well, I bet your wife does.
- "Well, I bet your wife does.
- 00:16:51.150 --> 00:16:52.230
- 00:16:51.150 --> 00:16:52.230
- I bet you she tells you."
- I bet you she tells you."
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- 00:16:52.230 --> 00:16:54.150
- And I said "No.
- And I said "No.
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- 00:16:54.150 --> 00:16:55.230
- She's my CEO.
- She's my CEO.
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- 00:16:56.220 --> 00:16:59.220
- That's stands for
- That's stands for
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- 00:16:59.220 --> 00:17:00.090
- Chief Encouragement Officer."
- Chief Encouragement Officer."
- 00:17:00.180 --> 00:17:03.180
- 00:17:00.180 --> 00:17:03.180
- And you can do
- And you can do
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- 00:17:03.180 --> 00:17:04.130
- what you want to do.
- what you want to do.
- 00:17:04.130 --> 00:17:05.030
- 00:17:04.130 --> 00:17:05.030
- You don't have to listen to us
- You don't have to listen to us
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- 00:17:05.030 --> 00:17:07.030
- but there's something about
- but there's something about
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- 00:17:07.030 --> 00:17:08.200
- when I walk off that stage
- when I walk off that stage
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- 00:17:08.200 --> 00:17:10.100
- with her and she tells me,
- with her and she tells me,
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- 00:17:10.100 --> 00:17:12.200
- you know, "That was a word."
- you know, "That was a word."
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- That was powerful.
- That was powerful.
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- You know she doesn't
- You know she doesn't
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- 00:17:16.110 --> 00:17:17.150
- just say it.
- just say it.
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- I think that would be one thing.
- I think that would be one thing.
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- 00:17:18.110 --> 00:17:19.190
- But she shows it.
- But she shows it.
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- 00:17:19.190 --> 00:17:21.000
- Shows encouragement.
- Shows encouragement.
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- 00:17:21.000 --> 00:17:22.120
- Encourage means put courage in.
- Encourage means put courage in.
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- 00:17:22.210 --> 00:17:25.210
- And she puts courage in me
- And she puts courage in me
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- by her presence.
- by her presence.
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- Did you know that every weekend
- Did you know that every weekend
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- she sits through
- she sits through
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- all three of my sermons?
- all three of my sermons?
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- 00:17:30.290 --> 00:17:32.110
- This is the same sermon
- This is the same sermon
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- 00:17:32.110 --> 00:17:33.050
- every time.
- every time.
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- 00:17:33.050 --> 00:17:33.280
- Course I change it a lot.
- Course I change it a lot.
- 00:17:33.280 --> 00:17:35.090
- 00:17:33.280 --> 00:17:35.090
- - It's good every time.
- - It's good every time.
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- 00:17:35.090 --> 00:17:36.270
- - But she -- And you're like,
- - But she -- And you're like,
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- 00:17:36.270 --> 00:17:37.230
- "Oh, you're so sweet.
- "Oh, you're so sweet.
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- 00:17:37.230 --> 00:17:39.020
- Yeah right."
- Yeah right."
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- She talks to me that way
- She talks to me that way
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- 00:17:40.100 --> 00:17:41.240
- all the time.
- all the time.
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- 00:17:41.240 --> 00:17:42.290
- And you know what's weird?
- And you know what's weird?
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- 00:17:42.290 --> 00:17:45.240
- You can trick a man
- You can trick a man
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- 00:17:45.240 --> 00:17:46.240
- into believing he's brilliant.
- into believing he's brilliant.
- 00:17:49.170 --> 00:17:52.170
- 00:17:49.170 --> 00:17:52.170
- "He doesn't have any strengths."
- "He doesn't have any strengths."
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- 00:17:52.170 --> 00:17:54.170
- Make something up and he'll get
- Make something up and he'll get
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- 00:17:54.170 --> 00:17:57.030
- good at it with enough repeat --
- good at it with enough repeat --
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- It's like inception.
- It's like inception.
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- Women, you have power
- Women, you have power
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- 00:18:00.190 --> 00:18:01.270
- to just plant stuff.
- to just plant stuff.
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- We will think we're good
- We will think we're good
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- 00:18:03.130 --> 00:18:04.210
- at stuff.
- at stuff.
- 00:18:04.210 --> 00:18:05.050
- 00:18:04.210 --> 00:18:05.050
- "You're such a great dad."
- "You're such a great dad."
- 00:18:05.050 --> 00:18:06.180
- 00:18:05.050 --> 00:18:06.180
- Why?
- Why?
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- 00:18:06.180 --> 00:18:07.110
- "You came home."
- "You came home."
- 00:18:12.100 --> 00:18:15.100
- 00:18:12.100 --> 00:18:15.100
- - So true.
- - So true.
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- 00:18:15.100 --> 00:18:16.210
- - Yeah.
- - Yeah.
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- 00:18:16.210 --> 00:18:17.120
- Encourage.
- Encourage.
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- 00:18:17.120 --> 00:18:17.290
- And so what gives me a lot
- And so what gives me a lot
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- 00:18:17.290 --> 00:18:19.250
- of boldness a lot of times is,
- of boldness a lot of times is,
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- 00:18:19.250 --> 00:18:21.210
- you know we run around in life
- you know we run around in life
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- 00:18:21.210 --> 00:18:23.170
- looking for likes
- looking for likes
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- 00:18:23.170 --> 00:18:25.040
- from a bunch of people.
- from a bunch of people.
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- 00:18:25.040 --> 00:18:26.090
- Social media analogy.
- Social media analogy.
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- 00:18:26.090 --> 00:18:27.250
- But if you get the right like
- But if you get the right like
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- from the person that you love
- from the person that you love
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- 00:18:29.210 --> 00:18:30.230
- the most?
- the most?
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- 00:18:30.230 --> 00:18:32.150
- You don't need
- You don't need
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- 00:18:32.150 --> 00:18:33.100
- all the other stuff.
- all the other stuff.
- 00:18:33.100 --> 00:18:35.050
- 00:18:33.100 --> 00:18:35.050
- And you have the power,
- And you have the power,
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- 00:18:35.050 --> 00:18:37.190
- and I have the power,
- and I have the power,
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- 00:18:37.190 --> 00:18:39.060
- to tell her I love the way
- to tell her I love the way
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- you look.
- you look.
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- 00:18:41.290 --> 00:18:43.050
- I love the way you look.
- I love the way you look.
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- 00:18:43.050 --> 00:18:44.140
- I love the way -- no I love
- I love the way -- no I love
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- 00:18:44.140 --> 00:18:47.140
- the way you cook.
- the way you cook.
- 00:18:47.140 --> 00:18:48.090
- 00:18:47.140 --> 00:18:48.090
- I love -- she does more
- I love -- she does more
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- 00:18:48.090 --> 00:18:49.100
- than just cook and look good.
- than just cook and look good.
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- 00:18:49.100 --> 00:18:50.180
- I have the power.
- I have the power.
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- 00:18:50.180 --> 00:18:51.250
- You're doing a great job
- You're doing a great job
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- 00:18:51.250 --> 00:18:53.060
- creating the culture
- creating the culture
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- 00:18:53.060 --> 00:18:54.120
- of our church for staff spouses,
- of our church for staff spouses,
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- which is what she focuses on.
- which is what she focuses on.
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- 00:18:56.120 --> 00:18:57.160
- And I am called to encourage
- And I am called to encourage
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- 00:18:57.160 --> 00:18:59.090
- her strengths.
- her strengths.
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- 00:18:59.090 --> 00:19:00.030
- What if you changed
- What if you changed
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- 00:19:00.030 --> 00:19:02.050
- your job description
- your job description
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- 00:19:02.050 --> 00:19:02.270
- as a spouse today and wrote
- as a spouse today and wrote
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- 00:19:02.270 --> 00:19:05.000
- at the top of the thing,
- at the top of the thing,
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- 00:19:05.000 --> 00:19:06.170
- the job description
- the job description
- 00:19:06.170 --> 00:19:07.060
- 00:19:06.170 --> 00:19:07.060
- that you're going to make,
- that you're going to make,
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- 00:19:07.060 --> 00:19:08.010
- and said CEO.
- and said CEO.
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- 00:19:08.010 --> 00:19:09.150
- Chief Encouragement Officer.
- Chief Encouragement Officer.
- 00:19:09.150 --> 00:19:11.200
- 00:19:09.150 --> 00:19:11.200
- You think God would bless
- You think God would bless
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- 00:19:11.200 --> 00:19:12.280
- your marriage more?
- your marriage more?
- 00:19:12.280 --> 00:19:14.190
- 00:19:12.280 --> 00:19:14.190
- You think some stuff
- You think some stuff
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- 00:19:14.190 --> 00:19:16.080
- would come alive?
- would come alive?
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- 00:19:16.080 --> 00:19:17.030
- What if that was the main thing?
- What if that was the main thing?
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- 00:19:17.030 --> 00:19:19.130
- What if you started
- What if you started
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- 00:19:19.130 --> 00:19:20.210
- with what you could?
- with what you could?
- 00:19:20.210 --> 00:19:22.000
- 00:19:20.210 --> 00:19:22.000
- - It means so much
- - It means so much
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- 00:19:22.000 --> 00:19:23.090
- when it comes from your spouse.
- when it comes from your spouse.
- 00:19:23.090 --> 00:19:25.100
- 00:19:23.090 --> 00:19:25.100
- Because I know everything
- Because I know everything
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- 00:19:25.100 --> 00:19:27.020
- there is to know about you.
- there is to know about you.
- 00:19:27.020 --> 00:19:28.100
- 00:19:27.020 --> 00:19:28.100
- But yet I'm telling you,
- But yet I'm telling you,
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- 00:19:28.100 --> 00:19:30.250
- "That was a great message."
- "That was a great message."
- 00:19:30.250 --> 00:19:32.270
- 00:19:30.250 --> 00:19:32.270
- Or "You're doing a great job."
- Or "You're doing a great job."
- 00:19:32.270 --> 00:19:35.080
- 00:19:32.270 --> 00:19:35.080
- I want him to go to work
- I want him to go to work
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- 00:19:35.080 --> 00:19:36.110
- and feel like I believe in him.
- and feel like I believe in him.
- 00:19:36.110 --> 00:19:39.110
- 00:19:36.110 --> 00:19:39.110
- I want my husband to know
- I want my husband to know
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- 00:19:39.110 --> 00:19:41.040
- that I believe in him.
- that I believe in him.
- 00:19:41.040 --> 00:19:42.240
- 00:19:41.040 --> 00:19:42.240
- But I have to tell him.
- But I have to tell him.
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- 00:19:42.240 --> 00:19:44.110
- And I also have to show him
- And I also have to show him
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- 00:19:44.110 --> 00:19:46.010
- with my actions
- with my actions
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- 00:19:46.010 --> 00:19:46.230
- and with my attitude.
- and with my attitude.
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- 00:19:46.230 --> 00:19:48.180
- And I can encourage him.
- And I can encourage him.
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- 00:19:48.180 --> 00:19:50.090
- - Verbal.
- - Verbal.
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- You can do it verbally.
- You can do it verbally.
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- 00:19:51.050 --> 00:19:52.120
- - Yeah.
- - Yeah.
- 00:19:52.120 --> 00:19:52.290
- 00:19:52.120 --> 00:19:52.290
- And I can do it non-verbally
- And I can do it non-verbally
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- by attitude and my physically
- by attitude and my physically
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- 00:19:54.020 --> 00:19:57.020
- like supporting him.
- like supporting him.
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- 00:19:57.020 --> 00:19:58.070
- - Yes.
- - Yes.
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- Yes you can.
- Yes you can.
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- 00:20:01.070 --> 00:20:04.070
- - And you can, you know,
- - And you can, you know,
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- written.
- written.
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- 00:20:05.070 --> 00:20:05.230
- Not just notes
- Not just notes
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- 00:20:05.230 --> 00:20:07.120
- but text messages.
- but text messages.
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- 00:20:07.120 --> 00:20:08.030
- - Put a little more time
- - Put a little more time
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- 00:20:08.030 --> 00:20:08.290
- on my clock.
- on my clock.
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- 00:20:08.290 --> 00:20:09.190
- Let's talk about that part.
- Let's talk about that part.
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- 00:20:09.190 --> 00:20:12.030
- - Talk about
- - Talk about
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- physical encouragement?
- physical encouragement?
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- 00:20:12.250 --> 00:20:14.050
- - Yes.
- - Yes.
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- 00:20:14.050 --> 00:20:15.080
- Yes.
- Yes.
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- Let's talk about it.
- Let's talk about it.
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- It's amazing.
- It's amazing.
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- 00:20:17.180 --> 00:20:20.180
- It really is so important.
- It really is so important.
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- 00:20:20.180 --> 00:20:22.280
- Encourage your strengths.
- Encourage your strengths.
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- You know I try to preach
- You know I try to preach
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- 00:20:25.090 --> 00:20:26.170
- in that way.
- in that way.
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- 00:20:26.170 --> 00:20:27.230
- We're aware of our weaknesses.
- We're aware of our weaknesses.
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- 00:20:27.230 --> 00:20:28.220
- And we gotta cover each other.
- And we gotta cover each other.
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- 00:20:28.220 --> 00:20:30.130
- But I'm encourage --
- But I'm encourage --
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- 00:20:30.130 --> 00:20:31.210
- I'm not jumping on the one thing
- I'm not jumping on the one thing
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- 00:20:31.210 --> 00:20:33.020
- you did wrong.
- you did wrong.
- 00:20:33.020 --> 00:20:34.070
- 00:20:33.020 --> 00:20:34.070
- - Yeah.
- - Yeah.
- 00:20:34.070 --> 00:20:34.230
- 00:20:34.070 --> 00:20:34.230
- - I want to be like God
- - I want to be like God
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- who takes us from strength
- who takes us from strength
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- 00:20:35.260 --> 00:20:37.200
- to strength.
- to strength.
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- From glory to glory.
- From glory to glory.
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- You are not my project.
- You are not my project.
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- 00:20:40.140 --> 00:20:42.210
- You're my partner.
- You're my partner.
- 00:20:42.210 --> 00:20:44.120
- 00:20:42.210 --> 00:20:44.120
- - Yes.
- - Yes.
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- 00:20:44.120 --> 00:20:46.070
- - We're in this together.
- - We're in this together.
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- 00:20:46.070 --> 00:20:47.110
- - We're a team.
- - We're a team.
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- 00:20:47.110 --> 00:20:48.170
- - And I want to build you up.
- - And I want to build you up.
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- 00:20:48.170 --> 00:20:50.020
- Not puff you up.
- Not puff you up.
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- 00:20:50.020 --> 00:20:51.110
- That's when I use flattery
- That's when I use flattery
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- 00:20:51.110 --> 00:20:53.030
- to get my way.
- to get my way.
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- 00:20:53.030 --> 00:20:54.050
- That's when I use encouragement
- That's when I use encouragement
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- 00:20:54.050 --> 00:20:56.010
- as a tool to manipulate
- as a tool to manipulate
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- 00:20:56.010 --> 00:20:56.260
- a situation.
- a situation.
- 00:20:56.260 --> 00:20:58.070
- 00:20:56.260 --> 00:20:58.070
- Not that.
- Not that.
- 00:20:58.070 --> 00:20:59.080
- 00:20:58.070 --> 00:20:59.080
- But build you up with the truth
- But build you up with the truth
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- 00:20:59.080 --> 00:21:01.070
- of who God says you are.
- of who God says you are.
- 00:21:01.070 --> 00:21:03.150
- 00:21:01.070 --> 00:21:03.150
- I'm called to encourage
- I'm called to encourage
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- your strength.
- your strength.
- 00:21:05.010 --> 00:21:06.100
- 00:21:05.010 --> 00:21:06.100
- And finally, most important,
- And finally, most important,
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- 00:21:06.100 --> 00:21:07.110
- I'm called to do it anyway.
- I'm called to do it anyway.
- 00:21:07.110 --> 00:21:08.200
- 00:21:07.110 --> 00:21:08.200
- - Yeah.
- - Yeah.
- 00:21:08.200 --> 00:21:09.270
- 00:21:08.200 --> 00:21:09.270
- - Because everything
- - Because everything
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- 00:21:09.270 --> 00:21:11.000
- I just said will not work
- I just said will not work
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- 00:21:11.000 --> 00:21:12.030
- if you only do it
- if you only do it
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- 00:21:12.030 --> 00:21:13.020
- when you feel like it.
- when you feel like it.
- 00:21:13.020 --> 00:21:13.220
- 00:21:13.020 --> 00:21:13.220
- - Right.
- - Right.
- 00:21:13.220 --> 00:21:14.180
- 00:21:13.220 --> 00:21:14.180
- - If you only do it
- - If you only do it
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- 00:21:14.180 --> 00:21:15.150
- when they deserve it.
- when they deserve it.
- 00:21:15.150 --> 00:21:16.140
- 00:21:15.150 --> 00:21:16.140
- Listen to me at every location.
- Listen to me at every location.
- 00:21:16.140 --> 00:21:19.000
- 00:21:16.140 --> 00:21:19.000
- The success of this relationship
- The success of this relationship
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- 00:21:19.000 --> 00:21:21.290
- is built on my decision
- is built on my decision
- 00:21:21.290 --> 00:21:24.080
- 00:21:21.290 --> 00:21:24.080
- to do it anyway.
- to do it anyway.
- 00:21:24.080 --> 00:21:25.170
- 00:21:24.080 --> 00:21:25.170
- Everybody say it out loud.
- Everybody say it out loud.
- 00:21:25.170 --> 00:21:26.150
- 00:21:25.170 --> 00:21:26.150
- Do it anyway.
- Do it anyway.
- 00:21:26.150 --> 00:21:27.290
- 00:21:26.150 --> 00:21:27.290
- Sometimes I don't feel
- Sometimes I don't feel
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- 00:21:27.290 --> 00:21:28.260
- like saying I'm sorry,
- like saying I'm sorry,
- 00:21:28.260 --> 00:21:29.250
- 00:21:28.260 --> 00:21:29.250
- when I feel like I only
- when I feel like I only
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- 00:21:29.250 --> 00:21:30.220
- contributed 25% of the problem
- contributed 25% of the problem
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- 00:21:30.220 --> 00:21:31.280
- and you were 75.
- and you were 75.
- 00:21:31.280 --> 00:21:32.270
- 00:21:31.280 --> 00:21:32.270
- But I'm going to do it anyway.
- But I'm going to do it anyway.
- 00:21:32.270 --> 00:21:34.230
- 00:21:32.270 --> 00:21:34.230
- sometimes I don't feel like
- sometimes I don't feel like
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- 00:21:34.230 --> 00:21:35.280
- pointing out the thing
- pointing out the thing
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- 00:21:35.280 --> 00:21:37.000
- that was right because I've got
- that was right because I've got
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- 00:21:37.000 --> 00:21:38.040
- a file of 15 things
- a file of 15 things
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- 00:21:38.040 --> 00:21:39.080
- that I've been wanting
- that I've been wanting
- 00:21:39.080 --> 00:21:39.290
- 00:21:39.080 --> 00:21:39.290
- to get around to,
- to get around to,
- 00:21:39.290 --> 00:21:41.030
- 00:21:39.290 --> 00:21:41.030
- but I see that you're struggling
- but I see that you're struggling
- 00:21:41.030 --> 00:21:42.000
- 00:21:41.030 --> 00:21:42.000
- so I'm going to speak
- so I'm going to speak
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- 00:21:42.000 --> 00:21:42.240
- to something that you did well.
- to something that you did well.
- 00:21:42.240 --> 00:21:43.260
- 00:21:42.240 --> 00:21:43.260
- I'm going to --
- I'm going to --
- 00:21:43.260 --> 00:21:44.180
- 00:21:43.260 --> 00:21:44.180
- - Do it anyway.
- - Do it anyway.
- 00:21:44.180 --> 00:21:45.170
- 00:21:44.180 --> 00:21:45.170
- - Touch somebody, say,
- - Touch somebody, say,
- 00:21:45.170 --> 00:21:46.060
- 00:21:45.170 --> 00:21:46.060
- "Do it anyway."
- "Do it anyway."
- 00:21:46.060 --> 00:21:46.270
- 00:21:46.060 --> 00:21:46.270
- - Do it anyway.
- - Do it anyway.
- 00:21:46.270 --> 00:21:47.290
- 00:21:46.270 --> 00:21:47.290
- - If you're going to fulfill
- - If you're going to fulfill
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- 00:21:47.290 --> 00:21:48.260
- your assignment,
- your assignment,
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- 00:21:48.260 --> 00:21:49.170
- if you're going to do this,
- if you're going to do this,
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- 00:21:49.170 --> 00:21:50.180
- if this is a special assignment,
- if this is a special assignment,
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- 00:21:50.180 --> 00:21:51.250
- if you're going to have
- if you're going to have
- 00:21:51.250 --> 00:21:52.190
- 00:21:51.250 --> 00:21:52.190
- super powers in marriage --
- super powers in marriage --
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- 00:21:52.190 --> 00:21:53.210
- and I believe that this union
- and I believe that this union
- 00:21:53.210 --> 00:21:54.290
- 00:21:53.210 --> 00:21:54.290
- is meant to be something
- is meant to be something
- 00:21:54.290 --> 00:21:56.020
- 00:21:54.290 --> 00:21:56.020
- that we can do more together
- that we can do more together
- 00:21:56.020 --> 00:21:57.100
- 00:21:56.020 --> 00:21:57.100
- than we can apart.
- than we can apart.
- 00:21:57.100 --> 00:21:58.150
- 00:21:57.100 --> 00:21:58.150
- God put us together
- God put us together
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- 00:21:58.150 --> 00:21:59.160
- for a reason.
- for a reason.
- 00:21:59.160 --> 00:22:00.060
- 00:21:59.160 --> 00:22:00.060
- I'm better because
- I'm better because
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- 00:22:00.060 --> 00:22:01.180
- you're in my life.
- you're in my life.
- 00:22:01.180 --> 00:22:02.110
- 00:22:01.180 --> 00:22:02.110
- But if we're going to fulfill
- But if we're going to fulfill
- 00:22:02.110 --> 00:22:03.290
- 00:22:02.110 --> 00:22:03.290
- God's purpose together,
- God's purpose together,
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- 00:22:03.290 --> 00:22:05.080
- it's not just going to be
- it's not just going to be
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- 00:22:05.080 --> 00:22:07.000
- through the times
- through the times
- 00:22:07.000 --> 00:22:08.000
- 00:22:07.000 --> 00:22:08.000
- that we feel it.
- that we feel it.
- 00:22:08.000 --> 00:22:08.240
- 00:22:08.000 --> 00:22:08.240
- We gotta fake it sometimes
- We gotta fake it sometimes
- 00:22:08.240 --> 00:22:10.090
- 00:22:08.240 --> 00:22:10.090
- until we feel it.
- until we feel it.
- 00:22:10.090 --> 00:22:12.210
- 00:22:10.090 --> 00:22:12.210
- And have faith in God.
- And have faith in God.
- 00:22:12.210 --> 00:22:15.050
- 00:22:12.210 --> 00:22:15.050
- Do it anyway.
- Do it anyway.
- 00:22:15.050 --> 00:22:16.110
- 00:22:15.050 --> 00:22:16.110
- Do it anyway.
- Do it anyway.
- 00:22:16.110 --> 00:22:17.130
- 00:22:16.110 --> 00:22:17.130
- Let's review.
- Let's review.
- 00:22:17.130 --> 00:22:18.020
- 00:22:17.130 --> 00:22:18.020
- I am called, I am called.
- I am called, I am called.
- 00:22:18.020 --> 00:22:19.070
- 00:22:18.020 --> 00:22:19.070
- Everybody say, "I am called
- Everybody say, "I am called
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- 00:22:19.070 --> 00:22:20.260
- to carry your burdens,
- to carry your burdens,
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- 00:22:20.260 --> 00:22:23.140
- to assume the best,
- to assume the best,
- 00:22:23.140 --> 00:22:24.270
- 00:22:23.140 --> 00:22:24.270
- to live with contentment,
- to live with contentment,
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- 00:22:24.270 --> 00:22:26.200
- to let God be God,
- to let God be God,
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- 00:22:26.200 --> 00:22:28.240
- to encourage your strengths,
- to encourage your strengths,
- 00:22:28.250 --> 00:22:31.250
- 00:22:28.250 --> 00:22:31.250
- and to do it anyway."
- and to do it anyway."
- 00:22:31.250 --> 00:22:33.270
- 00:22:31.250 --> 00:22:33.270
- - Alright, let's interact
- - Alright, let's interact
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- 00:22:40.140 --> 00:22:41.180
- for a moment.
- for a moment.
- 00:22:41.180 --> 00:22:42.140
- 00:22:41.180 --> 00:22:42.140
- Just pretend like
- Just pretend like
- 00:22:42.140 --> 00:22:42.290
- 00:22:42.140 --> 00:22:42.290
- I'm there with you.
- I'm there with you.
- 00:22:42.290 --> 00:22:43.240
- 00:22:42.290 --> 00:22:43.240
- Have you ever experienced
- Have you ever experienced
- 00:22:43.240 --> 00:22:45.240
- 00:22:43.240 --> 00:22:45.240
- a challenging relationship?
- a challenging relationship?
- 00:22:45.240 --> 00:22:47.280
- 00:22:45.240 --> 00:22:47.280
- Holly, do this, do this.
- Holly, do this, do this.
- 00:22:47.280 --> 00:22:50.030
- 00:22:47.280 --> 00:22:50.030
- Okay, be careful how you respond
- Okay, be careful how you respond
- 00:22:50.030 --> 00:22:51.220
- 00:22:50.030 --> 00:22:51.220
- if you're sitting
- if you're sitting
- 00:22:51.220 --> 00:22:52.060
- 00:22:51.220 --> 00:22:52.060
- in your living room
- in your living room
- 00:22:52.060 --> 00:22:52.220
- 00:22:52.060 --> 00:22:52.220
- watching this with your spouse
- watching this with your spouse
- 00:22:52.220 --> 00:22:54.130
- 00:22:52.220 --> 00:22:54.130
- or someone that you love.
- or someone that you love.
- 00:22:54.130 --> 00:22:56.120
- 00:22:54.130 --> 00:22:56.120
- the truth is relationships
- the truth is relationships
- 00:22:56.120 --> 00:22:58.070
- 00:22:56.120 --> 00:22:58.070
- are challenging by design.
- are challenging by design.
- 00:22:58.070 --> 00:23:00.130
- 00:22:58.070 --> 00:23:00.130
- It's how God grows us,
- It's how God grows us,
- 00:23:00.130 --> 00:23:02.000
- 00:23:00.130 --> 00:23:02.000
- but it's He's intention for you
- but it's He's intention for you
- 00:23:02.000 --> 00:23:04.060
- 00:23:02.000 --> 00:23:04.060
- to do more than just survive
- to do more than just survive
- 00:23:04.060 --> 00:23:05.130
- 00:23:04.060 --> 00:23:05.130
- your relationships.
- your relationships.
- 00:23:05.130 --> 00:23:06.290
- 00:23:05.130 --> 00:23:06.290
- I believe He wants you
- I believe He wants you
- 00:23:06.290 --> 00:23:08.040
- 00:23:06.290 --> 00:23:08.040
- to thrive in them,
- to thrive in them,
- 00:23:08.040 --> 00:23:09.000
- 00:23:08.040 --> 00:23:09.000
- and He's Word
- and He's Word
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- 00:23:09.000 --> 00:23:09.190
- gives us the tools
- gives us the tools
- 00:23:09.190 --> 00:23:10.120
- 00:23:09.190 --> 00:23:10.120
- to make that possible.
- to make that possible.
- 00:23:10.120 --> 00:23:11.240
- 00:23:10.120 --> 00:23:11.240
- So, today, I have special
- So, today, I have special
- 00:23:11.240 --> 00:23:13.240
- 00:23:11.240 --> 00:23:13.240
- most requested resource
- most requested resource
- 00:23:13.240 --> 00:23:15.230
- 00:23:13.240 --> 00:23:15.230
- that I want to send to you.
- that I want to send to you.
- 00:23:15.230 --> 00:23:16.280
- 00:23:15.230 --> 00:23:16.280
- It's called, "Meant to Be."
- It's called, "Meant to Be."
- 00:23:16.280 --> 00:23:18.240
- 00:23:16.280 --> 00:23:18.240
- It will show you
- It will show you
- 00:23:18.240 --> 00:23:19.150
- 00:23:18.240 --> 00:23:19.150
- some of the Bible's
- some of the Bible's
- 00:23:19.150 --> 00:23:20.110
- 00:23:19.150 --> 00:23:20.110
- best kept secrets
- best kept secrets
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- 00:23:20.110 --> 00:23:23.000
- about sex, shh,
- about sex, shh,
- 00:23:23.000 --> 00:23:25.060
- 00:23:23.000 --> 00:23:25.060
- marriage, and being single.
- marriage, and being single.
- 00:23:25.060 --> 00:23:27.080
- 00:23:25.060 --> 00:23:27.080
- - It's so good,
- - It's so good,
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- and it's really not
- and it's really not
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- just a relationship series.
- just a relationship series.
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- This resource truly
- This resource truly
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- has the power
- has the power
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- to impact your life.
- to impact your life.
- 00:23:33.180 --> 00:23:34.180
- 00:23:33.180 --> 00:23:34.180
- We've heard storied of marriages
- We've heard storied of marriages
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- that were restored,
- that were restored,
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- and single people that learned
- and single people that learned
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- 00:23:37.180 --> 00:23:39.040
- to embrace the season
- to embrace the season
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- that they're in instead
- that they're in instead
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- 00:23:40.080 --> 00:23:41.110
- of focusing on the relationships
- of focusing on the relationships
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- 00:23:41.110 --> 00:23:42.250
- that they don't have.
- that they don't have.
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- I know that this series
- I know that this series
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- 00:23:44.060 --> 00:23:45.160
- is going to help you
- is going to help you
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- like it has so many already.
- like it has so many already.
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- 00:23:46.270 --> 00:23:48.290
- - And we want to help you,
- - And we want to help you,
- 00:23:48.290 --> 00:23:49.290
- 00:23:48.290 --> 00:23:49.290
- we're here to help to you.
- we're here to help to you.
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- 00:23:49.290 --> 00:23:50.250
- so, I'm going to send you
- so, I'm going to send you
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- this resource "Meant to be"
- this resource "Meant to be"
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- with your gift of any amount
- with your gift of any amount
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- 00:23:53.150 --> 00:23:54.250
- to the ministry today.
- to the ministry today.
- 00:23:54.250 --> 00:23:56.240
- 00:23:54.250 --> 00:23:56.240
- Just go online right now
- Just go online right now
- 00:23:56.240 --> 00:23:58.110
- 00:23:56.240 --> 00:23:58.110
- or call the number
- or call the number
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- on the screen right now,
- on the screen right now,
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- and request your copy
- and request your copy
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- of "Meant to Be".
- of "Meant to Be".
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- Say, "I want it,"
- Say, "I want it,"
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- 00:24:04.000 --> 00:24:04.290
- and we'll get it out
- and we'll get it out
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- to you right away.
- to you right away.
- 00:24:05.260 --> 00:24:06.220
- 00:24:05.260 --> 00:24:06.220
- Here's some more info as well as
- Here's some more info as well as
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- 00:24:06.220 --> 00:24:08.150
- some additional resources
- some additional resources
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- 00:24:08.150 --> 00:24:09.190
- - ANNOUNCER: When it comes
- - ANNOUNCER: When it comes
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- to seeking advice
- to seeking advice
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- 00:24:12.090 --> 00:24:13.040
- about relationships, marriage,
- about relationships, marriage,
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- 00:24:13.040 --> 00:24:14.190
- and sex, we tend to look
- and sex, we tend to look
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- 00:24:14.190 --> 00:24:16.020
- in all the wrong places.
- in all the wrong places.
- 00:24:16.020 --> 00:24:18.020
- 00:24:16.020 --> 00:24:18.020
- The world claims
- The world claims
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- to have the answers,
- to have the answers,
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- 00:24:18.250 --> 00:24:19.270
- but maybe we've been focusing
- but maybe we've been focusing
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- on the wrong problem all along.
- on the wrong problem all along.
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- 00:24:20.280 --> 00:24:23.120
- In our series, "Meant to Be",
- In our series, "Meant to Be",
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- Pastor Steven Furtick
- Pastor Steven Furtick
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- has open conversations
- has open conversations
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- to help us uncover
- to help us uncover
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- the Bible's best kept secrets
- the Bible's best kept secrets
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- about sex, marriage,
- about sex, marriage,
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- 00:24:30.160 --> 00:24:31.200
- and being single.
- and being single.
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- 00:24:31.200 --> 00:24:33.010
- - Most of the emphasis,
- - Most of the emphasis,
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- 00:24:33.010 --> 00:24:34.130
- when you talk about dating,
- when you talk about dating,
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- and marriage, and singleness,
- and marriage, and singleness,
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- in culture seems to be
- in culture seems to be
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- on finding the right one.
- on finding the right one.
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- Most of the emphasis,
- Most of the emphasis,
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- 00:24:40.100 --> 00:24:41.220
- when you come to the scripture,
- when you come to the scripture,
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- 00:24:41.220 --> 00:24:43.010
- tends to be on being
- tends to be on being
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- 00:24:43.010 --> 00:24:44.220
- the right one.
- the right one.
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- 00:24:44.220 --> 00:24:46.040
- - For your gift of any amount
- - For your gift of any amount
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- 00:24:46.040 --> 00:24:47.070
- we'll send you
- we'll send you
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- 00:24:47.070 --> 00:24:47.260
- the five-part
- the five-part
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- 00:24:47.260 --> 00:24:48.140
- Meant To Be series,
- Meant To Be series,
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- 00:24:48.140 --> 00:24:49.190
- which includes a message
- which includes a message
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- 00:24:49.190 --> 00:24:50.240
- with Pastor Steven
- with Pastor Steven
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- 00:24:50.240 --> 00:24:51.190
- and his wife Holly,
- and his wife Holly,
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- 00:24:51.190 --> 00:24:52.290
- where they share
- where they share
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- 00:24:52.290 --> 00:24:53.190
- personal examples
- personal examples
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- 00:24:53.190 --> 00:24:54.140
- and scriptural insight on how
- and scriptural insight on how
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- 00:24:54.140 --> 00:24:56.110
- we can invite God to work
- we can invite God to work
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- in our everyday
- in our everyday
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- relationship challenges.
- relationship challenges.
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- Pastor Steven also explains
- Pastor Steven also explains
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- the unnecessary complications
- the unnecessary complications
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- 00:25:02.040 --> 00:25:04.000
- that sidetrack us
- that sidetrack us
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- 00:25:04.000 --> 00:25:04.290
- in relationships,
- in relationships,
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- and he shows us
- and he shows us
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- what is truly meant to be
- what is truly meant to be
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- 00:25:07.080 --> 00:25:08.140
- in our lives
- in our lives
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- 00:25:08.140 --> 00:25:09.150
- when we have Jesus
- when we have Jesus
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- as our foundation.
- as our foundation.
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- 00:25:10.080 --> 00:25:11.210
- - I've been told all my life
- - I've been told all my life
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- to put Jesus first,
- to put Jesus first,
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- 00:25:12.210 --> 00:25:13.220
- but that doesn't work,
- but that doesn't work,
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- because that separates him out
- because that separates him out
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- from everything else.
- from everything else.
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- Live as if Jesus
- Live as if Jesus
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- was not first on your list,
- was not first on your list,
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- 00:25:20.240 --> 00:25:23.010
- but that He was
- but that He was
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- the center of your world.
- the center of your world.
- 00:25:23.240 --> 00:25:26.030
- 00:25:23.240 --> 00:25:26.030
- - Visit us online
- - Visit us online
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- 00:25:26.030 --> 00:25:27.060
- at stevenfurtick.com,
- at stevenfurtick.com,
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- 00:25:27.060 --> 00:25:28.220
- or call us at the number
- or call us at the number
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- 00:25:28.220 --> 00:25:29.200
- on your screen
- on your screen
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- to get your copy
- to get your copy
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- 00:25:30.150 --> 00:25:31.080
- - The Father's arms
- - The Father's arms
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- are open wide
- are open wide
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- 00:25:35.000 --> 00:25:37.260
- Forgiveness
- Forgiveness
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- was bought with
- was bought with
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- The precious blood
- The precious blood
- 00:25:43.070 --> 00:25:46.070
- 00:25:43.070 --> 00:25:46.070
- Oh what a savior
- Oh what a savior
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- 00:25:47.100 --> 00:25:50.100
- Isn't He wonderful
- Isn't He wonderful
- 00:25:52.080 --> 00:25:55.080
- 00:25:52.080 --> 00:25:55.080
- Sing hallelujah
- Sing hallelujah
- 00:25:55.290 --> 00:25:58.290
- 00:25:55.290 --> 00:25:58.290
- Christ is risen
- Christ is risen
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- Bow down before Him
- Bow down before Him
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- 00:26:07.240 --> 00:26:10.240
- For He is Lord of all
- For He is Lord of all
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- 00:26:12.160 --> 00:26:15.160
- Sing Hallelujah
- Sing Hallelujah
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- 00:26:16.000 --> 00:26:19.000
- Christ is risen
- Christ is risen
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- 00:26:24.230 --> 00:26:27.230
- O come to the altar
- O come to the altar
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- The Father's arms
- The Father's arms
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- 00:26:32.140 --> 00:26:34.260
- are open wide open
- are open wide open
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- 00:26:34.260 --> 00:26:37.250
- Forgiveness
- Forgiveness
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- 00:26:37.250 --> 00:26:40.050
- was bought with
- was bought with
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- 00:26:40.050 --> 00:26:42.170
- The precious blood
- The precious blood
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- 00:26:42.170 --> 00:26:44.270
- of Jesus Christ
- of Jesus Christ
- 00:26:44.270 --> 00:26:47.150
- 00:26:44.270 --> 00:26:47.150
- O come to the altar
- O come to the altar
- 00:26:49.100 --> 00:26:52.100
- 00:26:49.100 --> 00:26:52.100
- The Father's arms
- The Father's arms
- 00:26:52.100 --> 00:26:54.120
- 00:26:52.100 --> 00:26:54.120
- are open wide
- are open wide
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- 00:26:54.120 --> 00:26:57.030
- Forgiveness
- Forgiveness
- 00:26:57.030 --> 00:26:59.230
- 00:26:57.030 --> 00:26:59.230
- was bought with
- was bought with
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- 00:26:59.230 --> 00:27:02.050
- The precious blood
- The precious blood
- 00:27:02.050 --> 00:27:04.040
- 00:27:02.050 --> 00:27:04.040
- of Jesus Christ
- of Jesus Christ
- 00:27:07.060 --> 00:27:10.060
- 00:27:07.060 --> 00:27:10.060
- Oh
- Oh
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- 00:27:16.290 --> 00:27:19.290
- Great is Your love
- Great is Your love
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