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Do Not Reverse Your Circumcision Part 2

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September 5, 2019
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Steven Furtick

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Do Not Reverse Your Circumcision Part 2

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    • your job description
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    • your job description
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    • as a spouse today
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    • as a spouse today
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    • and said CEO;
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    • and said CEO;
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    • Chief Encouragement Officer?
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    • Chief Encouragement Officer?
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    • You think God would bless
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    • You think God would bless
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    • your marriage more?
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    • your marriage more?
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    • - When I focus on what God
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    • - When I focus on what God
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    • wants me to do
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    • wants me to do
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    • then I can let God work on him.
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    • then I can let God work on him.
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    • The way that I feel
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    • The way that I feel
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    • is setting the tone
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    • is setting the tone
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    • for our whole family.
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    • for our whole family.
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    • And when he feels like
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    • I'm unhappy then he feels
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    • I'm unhappy then he feels
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    • like he's failing.
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    • like he's failing.
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    • - And we're always feel
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    • - And we're always feel
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    • like we're failing somewhere.
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    • like we're failing somewhere.
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    • Paul said, he said,
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    • Paul said, he said,
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    • "In any situation,
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    • "In any situation,
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    • I can find
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    • I can find
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    • - I love what Shaunti Feldhahn
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    • - I love what Shaunti Feldhahn
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    • said in her book
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    • said in her book
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    • "For Women Only".
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    • "For Women Only".
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    • She said she surveyed
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    • hundreds of married people
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    • hundreds of married people
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    • and asked them "What is
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    • and asked them "What is
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    • the one most important thing
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    • the one most important thing
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    • you wished your spouse
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    • you wished your spouse
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    • understood about you but feel
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    • understood about you but feel
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    • that he or she doesn't?"
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    • that he or she doesn't?"
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    • And she said the overwhelming
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    • And she said the overwhelming
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    • response was "I wish she knew
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    • response was "I wish she knew
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    • how much I truly love her."
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    • how much I truly love her."
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    • And if we could just go
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    • And if we could just go
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    • back to that,
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    • filter everything through.
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    • filter everything through.
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    • You did this this morning.
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    • You did this this morning.
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    • And you might not have
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    • And you might not have
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    • even known it
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    • but I was rushing to get ready,
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    • but I was rushing to get ready,
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    • and kind of let the time
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    • get ahead of me,
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    • and rather than you go
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    • and rather than you go
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    • into this like
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    • "She doesn't respect my time."
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    • "She doesn't respect my time."
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    • You were very patient.
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    • You were very patient.
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    • And you were like
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    • And you were like
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    • "Okay, are you ready?"
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    • "Okay, are you ready?"
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    • - I just ate me a spoon
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    • - I just ate me a spoon
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    • of peanut butter
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    • and came on out.
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    • and came on out.
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    • Let's go to the next point.
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    • Let's go to the next point.
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    • I'm called to live
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    • I'm called to live
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    • with contentment.
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    • with contentment.
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    • How huge is this in our world
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    • How huge is this in our world
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    • of constant comparisons today?
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    • of constant comparisons today?
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    • Live with contentment.
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    • Live with contentment.
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    • I mean I'm going to preach
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    • I mean I'm going to preach
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    • about this at least
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    • about this at least
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    • every other week
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    • every other week
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    • for the next ten years,
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    • for the next ten years,
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    • in some way or another.
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    • in some way or another.
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    • This thing of contentment.
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    • This thing of contentment.
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    • This thing about enjoying
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    • This thing about enjoying
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    • where you are on the way
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    • where you are on the way
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    • to where God is taking you.
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    • to where God is taking you.
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    • I'm going to preach on it
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    • because I need it.
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    • because I need it.
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    • I'm going to preach about it
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    • because our world is
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    • because our world is
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    • antithetical to it.
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    • antithetical to it.
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    • I'm going to preach about it
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    • because comparison
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    • because comparison
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    • kills contentment.
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    • kills contentment.
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    • And with no contentment
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    • And with no contentment
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    • there can be no joy.
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    • there can be no joy.
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    • I don't care how much stuff
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    • you have.
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    • you have.
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    • And so I'm called to live
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    • And so I'm called to live
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    • with contentment.
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    • with contentment.
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    • Like that great Bible verse
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    • Like that great Bible verse
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    • Philippians 4:13 where it says,
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    • Philippians 4:13 where it says,
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    • "I can do all things through
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    • "I can do all things through
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    • Christ who strengthens me."
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    • Christ who strengthens me."
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    • And we use that verse
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    • And we use that verse
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    • to set goals for ourselves,
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    • to set goals for ourselves,
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    • you know?
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    • you know?
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    • I can do this and I can do that.
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    • I can do this and I can do that.
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    • But the verse right before it
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    • But the verse right before it
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    • He says, "I've learned
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    • He says, "I've learned
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    • the secret of being content
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    • the secret of being content
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    • in any situation.
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    • in any situation.
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    • No matter if I have little,
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    • to stop coming to church here
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    • to stop coming to church here
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    • if I make you miss
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    • if I make you miss
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    • football games.
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    • football games.
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    • I am called to let God be God.
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    • I am called to let God be God.
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    • Let's talk about that Holly.
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    • Let's talk about that Holly.
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    • Let God be God.
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    • Let God be God.
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    • Tell them that story about
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    • Tell them that story about
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    • the mom and the pancakes.
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    • the mom and the pancakes.
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    • Great story.
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    • Great story.
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    • - Okay.
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    • - Okay.
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    • So there's this mom,
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    • So there's this mom,
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    • you may have heard this story
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    • you may have heard this story
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    • before, she was making pancakes
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    • before, she was making pancakes
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    • for her two little boys.
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    • for her two little boys.
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    • And they started to argue
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    • And they started to argue
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    • about who would get
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    • about who would get
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    • the first pancake.
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    • the first pancake.
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    • And so the mom said to herself,
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    • "I'm going to take this and make
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    • "I'm going to take this and make
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    • this a teachable moment."
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    • this a teachable moment."
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    • She looked at her boys
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    • She looked at her boys
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    • and she said, "Boys, you know,
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    • and she said, "Boys, you know,
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    • if Jesus were here,
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    • if Jesus were here,
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    • He would want His brother
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    • He would want His brother
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    • to have the first pancake."
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    • to have the first pancake."
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    • And the older little boy looked
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    • And the older little boy looked
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    • at his younger brother
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    • at his younger brother
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    • and said, "You be Jesus."
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    • and said, "You be Jesus."
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    • - Nice.
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    • - Nice.
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    • Nice.
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    • Nice.
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    • - It's what we do in marriage
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    • - It's what we do in marriage
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    • you know?
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    • We don't want to focus
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    • on our own calling.
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    • on our own calling.
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    • We don't want to do the things
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    • We don't want to do the things
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    • that God has called us to do.
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    • that God has called us to do.
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    • We want to look at our spouses
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    • We want to look at our spouses
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    • and say, "You be Jesus."
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    • and say, "You be Jesus."
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    • You say I'm sorry.
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    • I'm not saying I'm sorry first.
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    • I'm going to wait this out.
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    • I'm going to wait this out.
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    • You be Jesus.
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    • You be Jesus.
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    • is "You be Jesus."
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    • is "You be Jesus."
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    • So I'm not saying don't tell him
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    • to be -- you,
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    • to be -- you,
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    • you be Jesus to your spouse.
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    • you be Jesus to your spouse.
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    • And then let God be God.
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    • And I love how Philippians 2:8
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    • says about Jesus,
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    • says about Jesus,
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    • "And being found
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    • in the appearance as a man
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    • he humbled himself
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    • by becoming obedient to death.
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    • by becoming obedient to death.
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    • Even death on a cross."
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    • So Jesus did his part.
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    • And then God exalted him
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    • to the highest place
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    • and gave him to the name
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    • that is above every name.
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    • wants me to do
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    • then I can let God work on him.
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    • And I love -- my boys
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    • always remind me of this
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    • because inevitably this happens,
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    • because inevitably this happens,
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    • probably once a week --
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    • probably once a week --
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    • - Of being like Jesus?
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    • - Of being like Jesus?
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    • - No.
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    • Letting God be God.
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    • Inevitably in our house,
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    • Inevitably in our house,
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    • probably about once a week,
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    • probably about once a week,
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    • I'll say, "Boys, go clean
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    • I'll say, "Boys, go clean
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    • your room."
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    • They share a room together.
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    • And, you know,
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    • they'll go upstairs, "Aww."
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    • they'll go upstairs, "Aww."
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    • They do the whole thing.
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    • They go upstairs
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    • and a few minutes will pass by.
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    • It will be quiet.
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    • to hear this fight brewing.
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    • to hear this fight brewing.
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    • yelling at each other.
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    • And then, in our house, Graham,
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    • who's the younger one,
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    • who's the younger one,
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    • he starts to cry.
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    • he starts to cry.
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    • And it's just this loud
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    • like "I'm hurt" cry.
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    • The whole drama thing.
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    • And so I go upstairs
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    • and the room is not clean,
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    • and the room is not clean,
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    • it looks exactly the same
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    • as it looked before.
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    • as it looked before.
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    • Graham's on the floor
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    • in a puddle of tears and drama.
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    • in a puddle of tears and drama.
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    • "He punched me."
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    • "He punched me."
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    • And I'll look at Elijah like,
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    • And I'll look at Elijah like,
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    • "What's going on?"
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    • "What's going on?"
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    • And he'll say,
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    • And he'll say,
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    • "Graham wouldn't clean up."
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    • "Graham wouldn't clean up."
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    • - You look at him like what?
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    • - You look at him like what?
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    • Say it the way
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    • Say it the way
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    • you really say it.
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    • you really say it.
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    • - "What did you do?"
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    • - "What did you do?"
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    • - That's halfway there.
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    • - That's halfway there.
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    • - And he'll say,
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    • - And he'll say,
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    • "Graham wouldn't clean up.
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    • "Graham wouldn't clean up.
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    • He wouldn't clean up."
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    • He wouldn't clean up."
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    • "Well Elijah, your bed
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    • "Well Elijah, your bed
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    • is unmade, your drawers
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    • is unmade, your drawers
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    • are all still open.
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    • are all still open.
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    • Your towels on the floor.
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    • Your towels on the floor.
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    • You've got to let me be the mom.
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    • You've got to let me be the mom.
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    • You're not the mom.
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    • You're not the mom.
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    • I'm the mom.
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    • I'm the mom.
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    • You do what you need to do
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    • You do what you need to do
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    • and let me take care of Graham
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    • and let me take care of Graham
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    • if he's not going to clean up
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    • his part."
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    • And don't you feel like
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    • that's what God is looking
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    • that's what God is looking
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    • - Oh my God.
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    • - Oh my God.
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    • Preach.
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    • Preach, Sister Holly.
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    • Preach, Sister Holly.
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    • God looks down on his children
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    • fighting and said, "Would you
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    • fighting and said, "Would you
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    • Quit trying to straighten
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    • you out.
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    • you out.
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    • come downstairs.
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    • I'll straighten ya'll both out."
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    • Let God be God.
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    • We gotta go to the next one.
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    • We gotta go to the next one.
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    • We could talk about that
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    • all day.
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    • He's way better at His job
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    • than you could ever be.
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    • And some of us are engaging
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    • to fix people and marriages
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    • that are above our pay grade,
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    • that are above our pay grade,
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    • frankly.
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    • He's way better at fixing
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    • that person than you are.
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    • If you'd get out of the way
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    • The very thing that you're
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    • freaking out about.
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    • - He can whisper in a minute
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    • - He can whisper in a minute
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    • the thing that it would take me
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    • the thing that it would take me
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    • months to nag you about.
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    • - Say it again.
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    • And everybody in the church
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    • tweeted at once.
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    • He can -- say it
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    • - He can whisper in just a snap
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    • - He can whisper in just a snap
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    • of a finger, he can whisper
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    • into my husband's ear,
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    • something that I've been nagging
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    • to him for months about.
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    • if you would just -- if I would
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    • just focus on me
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    • and let God work on him.
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    • - God could do it.
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    • God wants to whisper what
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    • God wants to whisper what
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    • you've been trying to shout.
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    • you've been trying to shout.
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    • If you'll shut your mouth.
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    • This is getting good.
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    • "Well, I bet your wife does.
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    • I bet you she tells you."
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    • And I said "No.
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    • That's stands for
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    • Chief Encouragement Officer."
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    • And you can do
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    • You don't have to listen to us
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    • you know, "That was a word."
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    • That was powerful.
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    • I think that would be one thing.
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    • But she shows it.
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    • But she shows it.
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    • Shows encouragement.
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    • Shows encouragement.
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    • Encourage means put courage in.
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    • And she puts courage in me
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    • by her presence.
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    • by her presence.
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    • Did you know that every weekend
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    • Did you know that every weekend
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    • she sits through
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    • she sits through
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    • all three of my sermons?
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    • all three of my sermons?
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    • This is the same sermon
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    • This is the same sermon
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    • every time.
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    • Course I change it a lot.
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    • Course I change it a lot.
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    • - It's good every time.
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    • - But she -- And you're like,
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    • "Oh, you're so sweet.
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    • Yeah right."
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    • Yeah right."
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    • And you know what's weird?
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    • And you know what's weird?
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    • "He doesn't have any strengths."
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    • It's like inception.
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    • It's like inception.
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    • Women, you have power
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    • "You're such a great dad."
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    • "You're such a great dad."
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    • Why?
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    • to tell her I love the way
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    • than just cook and look good.
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    • I have the power.
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    • You're doing a great job
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    • which is what she focuses on.
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    • And I am called to encourage
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    • your job description
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    • as a spouse today and wrote
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    • as a spouse today and wrote
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    • that you're going to make,
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    • and said CEO.
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    • Chief Encouragement Officer.
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    • Chief Encouragement Officer.
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    • You think God would bless
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    • You think God would bless
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    • your marriage more?
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    • your marriage more?
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    • You think some stuff
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    • would come alive?
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    • What if that was the main thing?
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    • What if you started
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    • What if you started
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    • with what you could?
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    • with what you could?
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    • when it comes from your spouse.
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    • when it comes from your spouse.
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    • Because I know everything
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    • Because I know everything
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    • there is to know about you.
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    • there is to know about you.
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    • But yet I'm telling you,
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    • "That was a great message."
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    • "That was a great message."
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    • Or "You're doing a great job."
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    • I want him to go to work
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    • and feel like I believe in him.
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    • I want my husband to know
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    • I want my husband to know
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    • that I believe in him.
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    • that I believe in him.
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    • But I have to tell him.
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    • And I also have to show him
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    • with my actions
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    • with my actions
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    • and with my attitude.
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    • and with my attitude.
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    • And I can encourage him.
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    • And I can encourage him.
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    • - Verbal.
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    • - Verbal.
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    • You can do it verbally.
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    • You can do it verbally.
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    • - Yeah.
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    • - Yeah.
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    • And I can do it non-verbally
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    • And I can do it non-verbally
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    • by attitude and my physically
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    • by attitude and my physically
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    • like supporting him.
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    • like supporting him.
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    • - Yes.
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    • - Yes.
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    • Yes you can.
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    • - And you can, you know,
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    • - And you can, you know,
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    • written.
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    • written.
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    • but text messages.
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    • but text messages.
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    • - Put a little more time
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    • - Put a little more time
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    • on my clock.
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    • on my clock.
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    • Let's talk about that part.
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    • Let's talk about that part.
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    • - Talk about
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    • - Talk about
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    • physical encouragement?
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    • physical encouragement?
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    • - Yes.
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    • - Yes.
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    • Let's talk about it.
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    • Let's talk about it.
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    • It's amazing.
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    • It really is so important.
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    • It really is so important.
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    • Encourage your strengths.
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    • Encourage your strengths.
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    • in that way.
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    • in that way.
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    • We're aware of our weaknesses.
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    • And we gotta cover each other.
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    • I'm not jumping on the one thing
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    • I'm not jumping on the one thing
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    • - I want to be like God
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    • - I want to be like God
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    • who takes us from strength
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    • to strength.
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    • to strength.
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    • From glory to glory.
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    • From glory to glory.
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    • You are not my project.
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    • You're my partner.
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    • - Yes.
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    • - We're in this together.
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    • - We're in this together.
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    • - We're a team.
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    • - We're a team.
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    • - And I want to build you up.
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    • - And I want to build you up.
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    • Not puff you up.
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    • That's when I use flattery
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    • of who God says you are.
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    • your strength.
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    • I'm called to do it anyway.
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    • - Yeah.
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    • when you feel like it.
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    • - Right.
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    • - If you only do it
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    • when they deserve it.
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    • Listen to me at every location.
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    • is built on my decision
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    • to do it anyway.
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    • Everybody say it out loud.
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    • Do it anyway.
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    • Do it anyway.
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    • contributed 25% of the problem
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    • contributed 25% of the problem
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    • But I'm going to do it anyway.
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    • sometimes I don't feel like
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