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August 14, 2019
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Pastor Robert Morris Ministries

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    • ROBERT MORRIS: Think
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    • ROBERT MORRIS: Think a
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    • ROBERT MORRIS: Think about
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    • ROBERT MORRIS: Think about i
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    • ROBERT MORRIS: Think about it.
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    • If they're adults, then they're not children.
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    • And we have all of these problems because people
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    • And we have all of these problems because people
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    • don't understand, and I really think parents
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    • don't understand, and I really think parents
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    • get in the way sometimes when God's trying
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    • get in the way sometimes when God's trying
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    • to do something in an adult's life.
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    • to do something in an adult's life.
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    • ROBERT: I want to talk to you today about
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    • ROBERT: I want to talk to you today about
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    • "Blessed Sons and Daughters," and I specifically named
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    • "Blessed Sons and Daughters," and I specifically named
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    • this "Sons and Daughters," because we're all sons
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    • this "Sons and Daughters," because we're all sons
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    • and daughters of God, even though we are sons
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    • and daughters of God, even though we are sons
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    • and daughters on this earth.
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    • and daughters on this earth.
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    • But as sons and daughters, we go through three phases,
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    • But as sons and daughters, we go through three phases,
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    • and these phases are actually outlined in the Bible.
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    • and these phases are actually outlined in the Bible.
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    • God designed these three phases and I want to talk about how
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    • God designed these three phases and I want to talk about how
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    • we relate to sons and daughters in these three phases.
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    • we relate to sons and daughters in these three phases.
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    • The three phases, just so you know, are childhood,
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    • The three phases, just so you know, are childhood,
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    • adolescence, and adulthood.
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    • adolescence, and adulthood.
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    • Childhood is birth to 12, adolescence 13 to 19,
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    • Childhood is birth to 12, adolescence 13 to 19,
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    • and these ages I'm getting from the Bible,
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    • and these ages I'm getting from the Bible,
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    • and adulthood is 20 and above.
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    • and adulthood is 20 and above.
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    • So, I'll show you these three, and I'm gonna give you a word,
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    • So, I'll show you these three, and I'm gonna give you a word,
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    • so there will be three words today
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    • so there will be three words today
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    • that hopefully you can remember the key word about
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    • that hopefully you can remember the key word about
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    • how to relate to sons and daughters
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    • how to relate to sons and daughters
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    • in each of phases, all right?
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    • in each of phases, all right?
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    • So, in Ephesians 6, we're gonna start with three verses.
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    • So, in Ephesians 6, we're gonna start with three verses.
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    • I think these three phases of life are actually
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    • I think these three phases of life are actually
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    • in these three verses, so I think you'll see them.
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    • in these three verses, so I think you'll see them.
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    • I think you'll see childhood, adolescence,
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    • I think you'll see childhood, adolescence,
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    • and adulthood. All right?
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    • and adulthood. All right?
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    • So, Ephesians 6, look at Verse 1.
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    • So, Ephesians 6, look at Verse 1.
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    • It says, "Children," so we're talking about childhood,
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    • It says, "Children," so we're talking about childhood,
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    • "obey your parents in the Lord,
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    • "obey your parents in the Lord,
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    • for this is right."
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    • for this is right."
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    • So, this is the first thing children need to learn
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    • So, this is the first thing children need to learn
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    • during this 0 to 12.
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    • during this 0 to 12.
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    • They need to learn to obey their parents.
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    • They need to learn to obey their parents.
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    • I think Verse 2 is actually referring to adolescence.
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    • I think Verse 2 is actually referring to adolescence.
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    • "Honor your father and mother."
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    • "Honor your father and mother."
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    • I think teenagers need to learn to honor one another
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    • I think teenagers need to learn to honor one another
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    • and honor other people.
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    • and honor other people.
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    • I think honor is the biggest thing they need to learn
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    • I think honor is the biggest thing they need to learn
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    • at that time, during that adolescent phase.
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    • at that time, during that adolescent phase.
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    • "Which is the first commandment with promise."
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    • "Which is the first commandment with promise."
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    • And then Verse 3, I think is referring to adulthood.
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    • And then Verse 3, I think is referring to adulthood.
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    • Watch this.
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    • Watch this.
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    • "That it may be well with you
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    • "That it may be well with you
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    • and you may live long on the earth."
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    • and you may live long on the earth."
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    • In other words, as adults, that things may go well
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    • In other words, as adults, that things may go well
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    • with you and you may live long on the earth.
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    • with you and you may live long on the earth.
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    • I have thought about this, because a lot of times
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    • I have thought about this, because a lot of times
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    • when you ask people, "What's the promise
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    • when you ask people, "What's the promise
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    • if you honor your mother and father,"
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    • if you honor your mother and father,"
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    • they seem to all say, "Oh, the promise
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    • they seem to all say, "Oh, the promise
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    • is that you may live long on the earth."
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    • is that you may live long on the earth."
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    • Well, the promise is actually that things
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    • Well, the promise is actually that things
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    • may go well with you,
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    • may go well with you,
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    • and that you may live long on the earth.
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    • and that you may live long on the earth.
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    • And I don't mean this wrong, but who wants to live long
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    • And I don't mean this wrong, but who wants to live long
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    • if things aren't going well?
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    • if things aren't going well?
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    • So, that's a bigger promise to me,
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    • So, that's a bigger promise to me,
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    • "that things may go well with you," all right?
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    • "that things may go well with you," all right?
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    • So, we're gonna look at these three phases
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    • So, we're gonna look at these three phases
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    • and how we relate to sons and daughters, all right?
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    • and how we relate to sons and daughters, all right?
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    • So, number one phase, this is the word to try
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    • So, number one phase, this is the word to try
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    • to help you to remember, is training.
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    • to help you to remember, is training.
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    • This refers to childhood, the childhood phase -- training.
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    • This refers to childhood, the childhood phase -- training.
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    • Now, we stopped at Verse 4.
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    • Now, we stopped at Verse 4.
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    • We read Verses 1 through 3 of Ephesians 6.
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    • We read Verses 1 through 3 of Ephesians 6.
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    • Look at Verse 4.
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    • Look at Verse 4.
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    • "And you, fathers, do not provoke your children to wrath,
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    • "And you, fathers, do not provoke your children to wrath,
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    • but bring them up in the training
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    • and admonition of the Lord."
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    • Training -- think about this Scripture
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    • that all of you know, Proverbs 22:6.
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    • that all of you know, Proverbs 22:6.
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    • "Train"..."Train up a child." You train children.
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    • "Train up a child in the way he should go,
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    • and when he is old, he will not depart from it."
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    • and when he is old, he will not depart from it."
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    • Now, we're gonna talk about training,
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    • Now, we're gonna talk about training,
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    • and so I'm gonna talk about biblical training,
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    • and so I'm gonna talk about biblical training,
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    • and I don't have time to... I could devote an entire message
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    • and I don't have time to... I could devote an entire message
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    • to each of these three points, okay?
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    • to each of these three points, okay?
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    • So, I'm gonna talk a little about biblical training,
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    • So, I'm gonna talk a little about biblical training,
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    • and then we're gonna talk a little bit about spanking,
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    • and then we're gonna talk a little bit about spanking,
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    • because the Bible talks about spanking.
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    • because the Bible talks about spanking.
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    • Now, I know that there are books against spanking.
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    • Now, I know that there are books against spanking.
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    • We had some friends of ours that, years ago the wife
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    • said to my wife, to Debbie, you know, she had read
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    • said to my wife, to Debbie, you know, she had read
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    • some book and she said, "We stopped spanking in our home."
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    • some book and she said, "We stopped spanking in our home."
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    • And just a few weeks later, Debbie talked to her again
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    • And just a few weeks later, Debbie talked to her again
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    • and she said, "We started spanking again."
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    • and she said, "We started spanking again."
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    • [Laughter]
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    • Because this is the best book on raising children.
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    • Because this is the best book on raising children.
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    • I remember my son, James, he used to say to me,
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    • I remember my son, James, he used to say to me,
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    • you know, when I'd say, "Son, you disobeyed," and I'd
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    • you know, when I'd say, "Son, you disobeyed," and I'd
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    • explain it to him, "You're going to get a spanking,"
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    • explain it to him, "You're going to get a spanking,"
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    • he'd say, "Daddy, can I tell you something first?
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    • he'd say, "Daddy, can I tell you something first?
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    • Can I just tell you one thing before you spank me?"
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    • Can I just tell you one thing before you spank me?"
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    • And I'd say, "Okay, you can tell me one thing."
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    • And then you could see him trying to think
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    • And then you could see him trying to think
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    • of something then, see?
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    • of something then, see?
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    • He was simply trying to, you know, postpone.
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    • He was simply trying to, you know, postpone.
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    • He said, "I love you. I love you, Daddy."
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    • He said, "I love you. I love you, Daddy."
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    • And I'd say, "Okay, now it's..." He said, "Well, wait.
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    • And I'd say, "Okay, now it's..." He said, "Well, wait.
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    • I love you, and I have $4, and I want to give you...
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    • I love you, and I have $4, and I want to give you...
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    • I want to give you my $4.
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    • I want to give you my $4.
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    • And Daddy, when I grow up, I'm gonna build you
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    • And Daddy, when I grow up, I'm gonna build you
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    • and Mommy a big house and let you live in it for free."
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    • and Mommy a big house and let you live in it for free."
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    • You know, so he did whatever he could to get out of it,
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    • You know, so he did whatever he could to get out of it,
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    • but he never got out of it. All right, here's the --
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    • but he never got out of it. All right, here's the --
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    • Let me read you a Scripture.
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    • Let me read you a Scripture.
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    • I'm gonna read it out of "The Message,"
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    • I'm gonna read it out of "The Message,"
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    • because I just like the way that this translates this.
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    • because I just like the way that this translates this.
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    • Proverbs 23:13-14, "Don't be afraid
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    • Proverbs 23:13-14, "Don't be afraid
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    • to correct your young ones. A spanking won't kill them.
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    • to correct your young ones. A spanking won't kill them.
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    • A good spanking, in fact, might save them
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    • A good spanking, in fact, might save them
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    • from something worse than death."
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    • from something worse than death."
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    • "A good spanking might save them from something,"
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    • "A good spanking might save them from something,"
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    • now watch this, "worse than death."
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    • now watch this, "worse than death."
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    • What would be worse than death?
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    • What would be worse than death?
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    • So, let me show you what it says in the New King James.
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    • So, let me show you what it says in the New King James.
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    • It says, "And deliver his soul from hell."
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    • It says, "And deliver his soul from hell."
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    • So see, if I have a choice whether to listen
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    • So see, if I have a choice whether to listen
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    • to the experts out there that don't know God
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    • to the experts out there that don't know God
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    • or listen to God, and it says that spanking
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    • could deliver my child's soul from hell,
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    • could deliver my child's soul from hell,
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    • that's pretty important.
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    • that's pretty important.
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    • Matter of fact, again the Bible is strong on this point,
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    • Matter of fact, again the Bible is strong on this point,
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    • and again, we try to dilute it.
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    • and again, we try to dilute it.
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    • And let me just clarify, when I talk about spanking,
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    • And let me just clarify, when I talk about spanking,
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    • obviously I'm not talking about abuse, or anger,
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    • obviously I'm not talking about abuse, or anger,
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    • or anything like that, and there's a whole message
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    • or anything like that, and there's a whole message
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    • that I did years ago on this, so you could listen
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    • that I did years ago on this, so you could listen
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    • to that if you want to reference it.
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    • to that if you want to reference it.
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    • But, we think the Bible says spare the rod, spoil the child.
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    • But, we think the Bible says spare the rod, spoil the child.
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    • The Bible does not say that.
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    • The Bible does not say that.
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    • It makes it much stronger, and see, because we think,
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    • It makes it much stronger, and see, because we think,
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    • "Oh, I wouldn't mind spoiling the child a little bit."
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    • It doesn't say if you spare the rod,
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    • you spoil the child.
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    • Here's what it actually says.
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    • Here's what it actually says.
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    • Proverbs 13:24, "He who spares his rod hates his son,
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    • but he who loves him disciplines him promptly."
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    • So, let me give you three, just three thoughts
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    • about discipline that might help you
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    • about discipline that might help you
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    • if you're in this phase of life. One is be clear.
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    • if you're in this phase of life. One is be clear.
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    • Be clear in your communication.
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    • I remember one time I walked out in the backyard.
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    • James, my son, was throwing rocks in the swimming pool.
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    • James, my son, was throwing rocks in the swimming pool.
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    • I said to him, "James, do not throw any rocks
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    • I said to him, "James, do not throw any rocks
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    • in the swimming pool."
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    • He looked at me, went over and grabbed
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    • his brother's bicycle, and threw it in the swimming pool.
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    • his brother's bicycle, and threw it in the swimming pool.
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    • I didn't say, "Don't throw bicycles in the pool."
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    • So, I had to be clear -- "Don't throw anything in the pool.
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    • including other people, I'm going to spank you."
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    • including other people, I'm going to spank you."
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    • I had to be very clear with him, all right?
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    • I had to be very clear with him, all right?
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    • So, one is be clear.
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    • The other thing is be convincing.
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    • "Daddy is going to spank you.
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    • Let me tell you why Daddy is going to spank you --
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    • Let me tell you why Daddy is going to spank you --
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    • because Daddy loves you.
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    • because Daddy loves you.
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    • Bad things happen to people who do bad things."
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    • That's what I would tell my children.
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    • "I don't want bad things to happen to you,
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    • so I am training you now not to do bad things,
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    • so I am training you now not to do bad things,
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    • because when you get older and you do bad things,
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    • because when you get older and you do bad things,
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    • you go to prison.
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    • you go to prison.
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    • Things happen to you, bad things happen
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    • Things happen to you, bad things happen
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    • to people who do bad things.
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    • to people who do bad things.
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    • The only reason I'm doing this is because I love you,"
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    • The only reason I'm doing this is because I love you,"
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    • and I'd be very convincing.
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    • "Daddy will spank you if you hit your sister
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    • "Daddy will spank you if you hit your sister
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    • with that plastic bat.
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    • with that plastic bat.
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    • You stop swinging the plastic bat in the house,
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    • You stop swinging the plastic bat in the house,
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    • because you could hit your sister accidentally,
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    • because you could hit your sister accidentally,
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    • like you have already done four times.
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    • like you have already done four times.
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    • So, Daddy will spank you.
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    • So, Daddy will spank you.
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    • You will get a spanking if you do this."
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    • You will get a spanking if you do this."
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    • Be convincing.
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    • Be convincing.
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    • And the last thing is be compassionate.
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    • And the last thing is be compassionate.
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    • Never spank in anger.
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    • Never spank in anger.
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    • If you have to cool down some, cool down.
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    • If you have to cool down some, cool down.
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    • Explain to them. Take them to another room.
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    • Explain to them. Take them to another room.
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    • Never spank in public.
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    • Never spank in public.
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    • Never, ever, ever, because shame
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    • Never, ever, ever, because shame
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    • is never a part of discipline with God.
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    • is never a part of discipline with God.
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    • God never shames us.
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    • God never shames us.
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    • We shame ourselves, but God doesn't shame us.
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    • We shame ourselves, but God doesn't shame us.
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    • We humiliate ourselves, but God humbles us.
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    • We humiliate ourselves, but God humbles us.
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    • So, I'm just letting you know, don't do it in public.
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    • So, I'm just letting you know, don't do it in public.
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    • Go somewhere else. Be compassionate.
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    • Go somewhere else. Be compassionate.
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    • I would have fun with them afterwards.
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    • I would have fun with them afterwards.
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    • Every time after I would spank them, I would do
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    • Every time after I would spank them, I would do
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    • something fun with them.
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    • It takes time for godly discipline,
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    • It takes time for godly discipline,
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    • because I wanted them to know it was over.
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    • because I wanted them to know it was over.
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    • So, the first phase is training, all right?
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    • So, the first phase is training, all right?
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    • It refers to childhood.
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    • It refers to childhood.
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    • Second phase, here's number two: teaching.
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    • Second phase, here's number two: teaching.
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    • This refers to adolescence.
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    • This refers to adolescence.
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    • From 13 to 19, we move from training to teaching.
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    • From 13 to 19, we move from training to teaching.
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    • Ephesians 6:4, let's go back to that verse.
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    • Ephesians 6:4, let's go back to that verse.
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    • "And you, fathers, do not provoke your children
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    • "And you, fathers, do not provoke your children
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    • to wrath, but bring them up in the training,"
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    • we already talked about that, "and admonition of the Lord."
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    • we already talked about that, "and admonition of the Lord."
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    • Let me tell you why I use the word "teaching".
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    • Let me tell you why I use the word "teaching".
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    • That's what this word means.
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    • That's what this word means.
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    • Admonition means instruction or teaching.
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    • Admonition means instruction or teaching.
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    • Bring them up in the teaching of the Lord.
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    • Bring them up in the teaching of the Lord.
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    • Deuteronomy 4:9, "Teach them," them refers to statutes.
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    • Deuteronomy 4:9, "Teach them," them refers to statutes.
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    • "Teach them to your children and your grandchildren."
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    • Deuteronomy 6:7, "You shall teach them
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    • Deuteronomy 6:7, "You shall teach them
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    • diligently to your children."
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    • diligently to your children."
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    • So, think about this, all right?
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    • So, think about this, all right?
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    • Adolescence refers to the transition of a child
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    • Adolescence refers to the transition of a child
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    • becoming an adult.
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    • becoming an adult.
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    • We refer to it as teenage years, but it refers to that time.
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    • We refer to it as teenage years, but it refers to that time.
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    • This is a time when we go to teaching.
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    • This is a time when we go to teaching.
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    • It begins at 12 or 13, somewhere around that age.
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    • It begins at 12 or 13, somewhere around that age.
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    • You see it in Jewish culture as well.
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    • You see it in Jewish culture as well.
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    • There becomes a time of teaching.
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    • There becomes a time of teaching.
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    • We even see it in Jesus' life,
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    • We even see it in Jesus' life,
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    • and there's a really famous story about Jesus
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    • and there's a really famous story about Jesus
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    • that I think we miss something very important.
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    • that I think we miss something very important.
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    • When Jesus was in the temple, remember?
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    • When Jesus was in the temple, remember?
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    • And there's a great part of it, and I'm not minimizing
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    • And there's a great part of it, and I'm not minimizing
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    • this part, but because of this part,
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    • this part, but because of this part,
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    • I think we miss the other part.
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    • I think we miss the other part.
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    • But, the teachers and the rabbis in the temple
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    • were so impressed with His answers.
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    • were so impressed with His answers.
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    • Now, that's a great thing, but I want you
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    • Now, that's a great thing, but I want you
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    • to notice something that Jesus Himself did
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    • to notice something that Jesus Himself did
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    • as He's making a transition from childhood to adolescence.
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    • as He's making a transition from childhood to adolescence.
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    • Luke 2:42, "And when He was twelve years old,
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    • Luke 2:42, "And when He was twelve years old,
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    • they went to Jerusalem according to the custom of the feast."
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    • they went to Jerusalem according to the custom of the feast."
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    • And then, Verse 46, "Now so it was that after three days,"
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    • And then, Verse 46, "Now so it was that after three days,"
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    • remember they left and then they came back
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    • remember they left and then they came back
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    • and found him, "they found Him in the temple,
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    • sitting in the midst of the teachers,"
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    • watch what Jesus was doing, "both listening to them
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    • and asking them questions."
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    • "Listening to them and asking them questions."
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    • "Listening to them and asking them questions."
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    • That's what Jesus was doing, Jesus Himself.
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    • That's what Jesus was doing, Jesus Himself.
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    • This is a time when teenagers are going
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    • This is a time when teenagers are going
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    • to begin to ask questions.
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    • to begin to ask questions.
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    • You need to understand something.
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    • You need to understand something.
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    • This is the time for you to help them transition
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    • This is the time for you to help them transition
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    • from being a child, and think about this.
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    • from being a child, and think about this.
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    • How many times though do we say something like this,
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    • How many times though do we say something like this,
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    • or a teenager says something like this to us?
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    • or a teenager says something like this to us?
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    • "You're treating me like a child."
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    • You ever hear that?
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    • You ever hear that?
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    • And of course, what's our response?
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    • And of course, what's our response?
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    • "Well, you're acting like a child," and they probably are.
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    • "Well, you're acting like a child," and they probably are.
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    • But, it's our responsibility to teach them
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    • But, it's our responsibility to teach them
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    • not to act like a child.
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    • not to act like a child.
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    • It's to begin to train them, to teach them.
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    • It's to begin to train them, to teach them.
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    • Let me say it another way.
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    • Let me say it another way.
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    • We tell a child what to think,
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    • We tell a child what to think,
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    • or we train a child what to think.
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    • or we train a child what to think.
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    • We teach, in adolescence, how to think.
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    • We teach, in adolescence, how to think.
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    • Let me say that again.
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    • Let me say that again.
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    • We tell a child what to think.
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    • We tell a child what to think.
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    • We tell them.
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    • We tell them.
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    • This is what you're going to do.
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    • This is what you're going to do.
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    • We tell a child what to think, but we teach,
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    • We tell a child what to think, but we teach,
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    • in adolescence, how to think.
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    • in adolescence, how to think.
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    • So, you begin to move in this transitional time
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    • So, you begin to move in this transitional time
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    • where you begin to ask your teenagers questions.
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    • where you begin to ask your teenagers questions.
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    • "What kind of criteria are you going to use?"
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    • "What kind of criteria are you going to use?"
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    • This is what you would ask a teenager.
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    • This is what you would ask a teenager.
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    • "What kind of criteria are you going to use
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    • "What kind of criteria are you going to use
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    • when you choose your friends?"
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    • when you choose your friends?"
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    • See, they start thinking then, "What do they mean?
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    • See, they start thinking then, "What do they mean?
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    • I've never thought before about that."
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    • I've never thought before about that."
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    • "What type of study habits are you trying to develop now
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    • "What type of study habits are you trying to develop now
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    • that are going to help you later in life?"
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    • that are going to help you later in life?"
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    • Here's a question I wish someone had asked me
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    • Here's a question I wish someone had asked me
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    • when I was a teenager.
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    • when I was a teenager.
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    • "Do you think the choices that you make now
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    • "Do you think the choices that you make now
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    • will affect you as an adult?"
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    • will affect you as an adult?"
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    • I never thought that I would deal with some of the things
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    • I've had to deal with as an adult
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    • I've had to deal with as an adult
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    • because of things I did as a teenager.
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    • because of things I did as a teenager.
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    • This is a time to ask questions.
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    • This is a time to ask questions.
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    • When our children were making this transition
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    • When our children were making this transition
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    • to adolescence, at the age of 13
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    • to adolescence, at the age of 13
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    • we had a covenant ceremony with them.
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    • we had a covenant ceremony with them.
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    • I did it with the guys, Debbie did it with our daughter.
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    • I did it with the guys, Debbie did it with our daughter.
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    • We would take them on an overnight trip.
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    • We would take them on an overnight trip.
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    • We had a ring for them.
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    • We had a ring for them.
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    • So, I did both our boys, Debbie did our daughter.
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    • So, I did both our boys, Debbie did our daughter.
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    • We made a covenant with them.
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    • We made a covenant with them.
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    • Now, part of the things that we talked about
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    • Now, part of the things that we talked about
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    • in our covenant -- we talked about a lot of things,
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    • in our covenant -- we talked about a lot of things,
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    • but let me just use one as an example.
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    • but let me just use one as an example.
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    • We talked about dating.
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    • We talked about dating.
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    • We went through the facts of life with them.
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    • We did it when they were 10 and 13.
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    • The reason we did it when they were 10
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    • is because they were gonna hear things at school.
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    • is because they were gonna hear things at school.
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    • So, we went through the facts of life,
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    • So, we went through the facts of life,
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    • but at 13 was when we made the covenant.
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    • but at 13 was when we made the covenant.
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    • And when we went through that, we said,
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    • And when we went through that, we said,
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    • "Now, here are some things you need to understand.
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    • "Now, here are some things you need to understand.
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    • You're going to begin to start being attracted
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    • to the opposite sex, and when that happens,
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    • we want to tell you some things that's going
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    • we want to tell you some things that's going
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    • to happen in your body.
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    • to happen in your body.
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    • We're gonna tell you some things that will happen
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    • We're gonna tell you some things that will happen
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    • in your emotions," and so we told them.
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    • And then we said, "We want to make a covenant with you.
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    • You have a part and we have a part."
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    • You have a part and we have a part."
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    • And we said, "Your part is that you'll talk to us
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    • and be open and honest with us when you're attracted
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    • and be open and honest with us when you're attracted
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    • to someone, that you'll keep yourself pure,
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    • to someone, that you'll keep yourself pure,
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    • that you won't cross these boundaries that God
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    • that you won't cross these boundaries that God
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    • has set in place for your protection before marriage."
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    • has set in place for your protection before marriage."
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    • We went through all of the things
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    • We went through all of the things
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    • of this is your part of the covenant.
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    • of this is your part of the covenant.
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    • Then I said, "This is my part of the covenant.
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    • Then I said, "This is my part of the covenant.
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    • My part of the covenant is that I commit myself to pray
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    • My part of the covenant is that I commit myself to pray
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    • with you about your spouse," and we explained to them why.
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    • So, we're gonna help you in this process".
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    • And so, I said, "And part of my covenant is...
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    • Whatever it is, I'll pay for all of it.
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    • You'll have no student debt, no matter what.
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    • I'll take on the student debt if I have to."
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    • And then I said, "And I'm going to help you buy
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    • Now, I look back on that now...
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    • because I wouldn't have been able to keep all
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    • of these promises that I made,
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    • and I don't know why I did that!"
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    • But, we've been able to help our children financially.
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    • But, we've been able to help our children financially.
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    • But, I remember with Josh, my oldest son,
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    • when he was 13 I wanted to teach him something
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    • about God's grace during this time.
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    • And so, I went through this and I said,
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    • "Now, we're making a covenant.
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    • You have a part and I have a part."
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    • And I said to him, "And my part is very big, too.
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    • It's a big financial commitment on my part."
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    • I said, "But what's going to happen
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    • I said, "But what's going to happen
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    • if you don't do your part?"
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    • "Well, then you won't do your part.
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    • "Well, my 13 year old son surprised me.
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    • "Well, my 13 year old son surprised me.
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    • "You'll probably still do your part."
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    • And I remember thinking, "You stole my thunder!"
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    • You stole my teaching moment, you know?
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    • You stole my teaching moment, you know?
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    • And I said, "Well, if you don't do your part,
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    • why do you think that I'll do my part?"
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    • why do you think that I'll do my part?"
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    • And he said, "Because you've taught me
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    • that even when we do things wrong, God still loves us.
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    • that even when we do things wrong, God still loves us.
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    • And I think you're like God, Daddy,
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    • And I think you're like God, Daddy,
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    • and I think you're gonna love me anyway."
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    • This is what we do.
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    • This is what we do.
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    • This is a time of life we take our young people
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    • This is a time of life we take our young people
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    • and it's very important.
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    • And then the last, adulthood, I'm using the word "trusting."
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    • these three words: training, teaching, trusting.
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    • Let me say it another way. Children are trained.
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    • Teenagers are taught. Adults are trusted.
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    • Adulthood, again in the Bible, starts at 20 years old.
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    • Adulthood, again in the Bible, starts at 20 years old.
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    • I don't have time to give you all of the Scriptures,
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    • but I'll give you just a few references
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    • but I'll give you just a few references
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    • that you can look at later, all right?
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    • that you can look at later, all right?
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    • Exodus 30:14 says at 20, they would begin to give offerings.
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    • to give offerings, but this was actually referring
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    • to give offerings, but this was actually referring
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    • They were required to start paying this when they turned 20.
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    • They were required to start paying this when they turned 20.
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    • God saw them as adults.
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    • They didn't have to go to war until they were 20 years old.
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    • God saw them as adults.
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    • Numbers 14:29-32 -- at 20, they were held responsible
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    • Numbers 14:29-32 -- at 20, they were held responsible
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    • for their sin, at 20. This is how He said it.
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    • He said, "Your little ones, who have no knowledge
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    • of good and evil, will still go into the Promised Land.
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    • other than Joshua and Caleb, will die in the wilderness."
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    • So, God sets an age at 20.
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    • So, God sets an age at 20.
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    • Now, one of the things that many of us have done
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    • say this: "Well, once they're married, they're adults."
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    • say this: "Well, once they're married, they're adults."
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    • No, that's not true.
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    • They're adults when they turn 20.
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    • So, one of the Scriptures that people will use is,
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    • "Therefore, a man shall leave his father and mother
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    • and cleave to his wife."
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    • In other words, they're under my authority
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    • No, take the Scripture for what it says.
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    • Listen to what it says.
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    • "Therefore, a man shall leave his father and mother."
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    • It doesn't say a boy. He's already a man.
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    • And think about this.
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    • What if they never get married?
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    • Some people are not called to marriage.
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    • Some are called to celibacy, that Jesus even talked
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    • Some are called to celibacy, that Jesus even talked
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    • about that Himself.
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    • about that Himself.
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    • So, what if they never get married?
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    • Are they gonna have to, you know, when they're 65,
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    • they're gonna have to ask your permission
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    • they're gonna have to ask your permission
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    • to retire, you know?
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    • to retire, you know?
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    • So, they're grown and they need to be treated as adults.
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    • So, they're grown and they need to be treated as adults.
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    • This is the reason that I made this message
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    • This is the reason that I made this message
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    • "Blessed Sons and Daughters," not "Blessed Children."
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    • "Blessed Sons and Daughters," not "Blessed Children."
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    • I am calling them adult sons and daughters,
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    • I am calling them adult sons and daughters,
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    • and I don't even like the term "adult children."
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    • It's an oxymoron. Think about it.
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    • It's an oxymoron. Think about it.
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    • If they're adults, then they're not children.
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    • And we have all of these problems because people
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    • And we have all of these problems because people
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    • don't understand, and I really think parents
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    • don't understand, and I really think parents
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    • get in the way sometimes when God's trying
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    • get in the way sometimes when God's trying
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    • to do something in an adult's life.
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    • to do something in an adult's life.
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    • They're adults now.
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    • They're adults now.
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    • Our parenting role is over." Parent, the word "parent,"
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    • Our parenting role is over." Parent, the word "parent,"
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    • can be a noun and it can be a verb.
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    • can be a noun and it can be a verb.
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    • In other words, yes, I am a parent,
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    • In other words, yes, I am a parent,
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    • but I do not parent anymore, because I don't have
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    • but I do not parent anymore, because I don't have
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    • children anymore, I have adult sons and daughters.
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    • children anymore, I have adult sons and daughters.
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    • Are you all following this? Okay.
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    • Are you all following this? Okay.
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    • And I've got to see them as that way.
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    • And I've got to see them as that way.
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    • Let me tell you another thing.
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    • Let me tell you another thing.
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    • You might not have ever thought about this.
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    • My sons and daughters, this might blow you away.
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    • My sons and daughters, this might blow you away.
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    • My sons and daughters are now my brothers and sisters in Christ.
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    • My sons and daughters are now my brothers and sisters in Christ.
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    • In Christ, there is no male nor female.
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    • In Christ, there is no male nor female.
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    • In Christ, they're my -- listen, this is why
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    • In Christ, they're my -- listen, this is why
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    • I say sons and daughters.
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    • Yes, I have sons and daughters.
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    • Yes, I have sons and daughters.
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    • They all have children of their own.
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    • They're parents now.
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    • Yes, they're my sons and daughters,
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    • but they're mothers and fathers.
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    • So, they're not my kids anymore,
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    • they're my brothers and sisters in Christ.
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    • That means that they can come to me for advice,
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    • That means that they can come to me for advice,
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    • but what they're actually doing is they're coming
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    • to a brother in Christ!
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    • to a brother in Christ!
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    • Do you realize that some sons and daughters,
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    • some grown sons and daughters, won't go to their parents
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    • some grown sons and daughters, won't go to their parents
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    • anymore for advice? There are two reasons why.
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    • that's dishonoring me. That's not honoring me.
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    • and we said no, but you did it anyway, and the Bible says
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    • and we said no, but you did it anyway, and the Bible says
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    • Let me just talk to some of you about that right there.
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    • Let me just talk to some of you about that right there.
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    • Let me tell you what that actually is.
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    • Let me tell you what that actually is.
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    • That's spiritual abuse.
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    • When you quote Scripture to get your way, that's wrong.
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    • You don't have any more authority in that person's life.
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    • adult sons and daughters, won't go to their parents for counsel,
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    • but then sometimes it's the other way around, too.
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    • Sometimes there is a dishonoring,
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    • because you ought to honor them and ask for their counsel.
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    • "Honor your mother and father."
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    • It doesn't mean you have to do it.
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    • Because you're an adult, you have to hear God.
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    • Because you're an adult, you have to hear God.
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    • I've known adult sons and daughters
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    • that have just announced, made an announcement --
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    • "We've decided we're moving," or "I've decided to quit my job,"
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    • and they never even asked them.
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    • That is dishonoring.
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    • That is dishonoring.
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    • "Well, thank you, we'll go back and pray again."
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    • but we know for sure this is what God has spoken to us."
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    • This would solve about 99% of family marriage counseling
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    • This would solve about 99% of family marriage counseling
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    • and serving God, but you've probably heard me talk about it
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    • before that there was a time when my daughter
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    • I just have a real burden on my heart to pray for you.
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    • I just have a real burden on my heart to pray for you.
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    • with you today that God does a work
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    • and that we can see our children loving and serving God,
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    • as the Bible says, "to a thousand generations."
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    • as the Bible says, "to a thousand generations."
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    • God really does want to bless our families.
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    • God really does want to bless our families.
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    • I'm going to continue this series next week.
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    • I'm going to continue this series next week.
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    • Every family is different with their own personalities
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    • Every family is different with their own personalities
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    • and struggles and destinies, but what's the secret
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    • and struggles and destinies, but what's the secret
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    • In the five-part series, "Blessed Families,"
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    • Pastor Robert talks about God's design of how to live
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    • Pastor Robert talks about God's design of how to live
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    • in His blessing for your family.
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    • You will learn how to live in a blessed family,
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    • You'll also discover the life transforming benefits
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    • You'll also discover the life transforming benefits
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    • of being adopted into a new spiritual family
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    • ANNOUNCER: Living your best life isn't about having a dream home,
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    • ANNOUNCER: Living your best life isn't about having a dream home,
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    • Pastor Robert presents,
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    • "The Secrets of Living Your Best Life."
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    • "The Secrets of Living Your Best Life."
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