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The Difference: The Hero Within

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May 4, 2018
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Matt Hagee

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The Difference: The Hero Within

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  • MUSIC
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  • KENDAL HAGEE: HELLO AND WELCOME
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  • TO THE DIFFERENCE.
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  • TODAY WE'RE TALKING ABOUT
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  • HEROES,
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  • NOT THE KIND OF HEROES YOU FIND
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  • IN A COMIC BOOK OR ON MOVIE
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  • SCREENS,
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  • BUT THE HEROES OF THE HOME.
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  • THAT'S RIGHT.
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  • TODAY WE'RE TALKING ABOUT
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  • FATHERS.
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  • MATT HAGEE: AND I KNOW THAT
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  • MANY OF YOU FATHERS UNDERSTAND
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  • WHAT THE BIBLE SAYS ABOUT
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  • TRAINING UP A CHILD IN THE WAY
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  • THAT THEY SHOULD GO.
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  • YOU KNOW IT'S THE FATHER WHO
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  • HAS A RESPONSIBILITY TO SHAPE,
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  • MOLD, AND DIRECT THE FUTURE.
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  • BECAUSE WHILE OUR CHILDREN ONLY
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  • REPRESENT A PORTION OF TODAY'S
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  • POPULATION,
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  • THEY ARE 100% OF OUR TOMORROW.
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  • KENDAL HAGEE: AMEN.
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  • THEY ARE.
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  • OUR GUEST TODAY IS A MOTHER
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  • AND BEST-SELLING AUTHOR,
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  • WHO HAS SPENT HER CAREER
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  • WORKING WITH COUNTLESS
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  • FAMILIES,
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  • PRACTICING PEDIATRICS FOR OVER
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  • 30 YEARS OF ADOLESCENT
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  • MEDICINE.
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  • SHE HAS BECOME ONE OF OUR
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  • COUNTRY'S LEADING AUTHORITIES
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  • ON PARENTING, TEENS,
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  • AND CHILDREN, AND HEALTH.
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  • PLEASE WELCOME DR. MEG MEEKER.
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  • MATT HAGEE: DR. MEEKER,
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  • IT'S GOOD TO SEE YOU.
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  • DAVID MARTIN: OH,
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  • IT'S SO FUN TO BE WITH YOU.
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  • THANK YOU FOR HAVING ME.
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  • MATT HAGEE: SO YOU KNOW WE'RE
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  • TALKING ABOUT HEROES AND DADS.
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  • AND I DON'T WANT TO TALK ABOUT
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  • ME, BUT I WANT YOU TO TELL ME.
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  • DR. MEG MEEKER: YOU WANT ME
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  • TO TALK ABOUT YOU.
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  • (LAUGHTER)
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  • MATT HAGEE: YOU'VE PICKED IT UP
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  • PERFECTLY.
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  • DR. MEG MEEKER: THERE YOU GO.
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  • KENDAL HAGEE: YOUR BRAND NEW
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  • BOOK TALKING ABOUT -- TELL US,
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  • WHY DID YOU DECIDE TO WRITE
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  • THIS BOOK FOR DADS?
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  • DR. MEG MEEKER: WELL,
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  • I'LL TELL YOU ONE OF
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  • THE GREATEST JOYS I HAVE
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  • AS A PEDIATRICIAN IS SPEAKING
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  • FOR KIDS.
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  • AND WHAT I TRY TO DO IS ALLOW --
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  • IS TO TEACH PARENTS HOW
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  • THEIR KIDS SEE THEM.
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  • YOU KNOW AND MANY FATHERS WILL
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  • LOOK AT THE TITLE OF THE BOOK
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  • "HERO" BEING A STRONG FATHER
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  • YOUR CHILDREN NEED,
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  • AND THEY GO, "I CAN'T DO THAT.
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  • I CAN'T DO THAT."
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  • MATT HAGEE: IT'S INTIMIDATING.
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  • DR. MEG MEEKER: IT'S VERY
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  • INTIMIDATING.
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  • BUT HERE'S THE POINT;
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  • IN YOUR CHILD'S EYES --
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  • MATT HAGEE: THAT'S WHO YOU ARE.
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  • DR. MEG MEEKER: -- YOU ARE
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  • A HERO.
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  • KENDAL HAGEE: YOU ARE.
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  • DR. MEG MEEKER: AND WHAT I'M
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  • REALLY TRYING TO DO
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  • WITH THE BOOK IS SAY,
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  • DADS, HERE'S WHO YOU ARE,
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  • NOT WHO YOU NEED TO BE.
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  • HERE'S WHO YOUR KIDS SEE YOU AS;
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  • STEP INTO IT.
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  • IT'S EASIER THAN YOU THINK.
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  • YOU'RE WIRED WITH EVERYTHING
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  • YOU NEED TO DO A GREAT JOB WITH
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  • YOUR CHILD NO MATTER WHERE YOU
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  • ARE,
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  • NO MATTER HOW OLD YOUR KIDS ARE.
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  • STEP INTO IT,
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  • BECAUSE GOD HAS CALLED YOU
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  • TO IT.
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  • AND IT'S EASIER THAN YOU THINK.
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  • MATT HAGEE: WELL, AND YOU KNOW,
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  • EVEN IF YOU JUST STAY
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  • IN THE ANALOGY OF HEROES,
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  • I THINK SOME TIMES THE MOST
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  • HEROIC THING THAT
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  • THAT INDIVIDUAL CAN DO IS
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  • DEMONSTRATE THE STRENGTH THAT
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  • THEY HAVE THROUGH WEAKNESS.
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  • DR. MEG MEEKER: COMPLETELY.
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  • YES.
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  • MATT HAGEE: YOU KNOW SUPER MAN
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  • HAD HIS KRYPTONITE; YOU KNOW?
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  • DR. MEG MEEKER: YES.
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  • MATT HAGEE: AND IF POPEYE
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  • DIDN'T HAVE SPINACH,
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  • WHAT WAS HE?
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  • YOU KNOW,
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  • SO IF A DAD RECOGNIZES, OKAY,
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  • MY KID SEES ME AS A HERO,
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  • BUT MY CHALLENGE IS TO
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  • DEMONSTRATE HOW I CAN OVERCOME
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  • MY WEAKNESSES AND GIVE THEM THE
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  • TRAINING THAT THEY NEED.
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  • WHERE DO YOU SEE THE ROLE
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  • OF FATHERS IN AMERICA TODAY?
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  • DR. MEG MEEKER: WELL IT'S
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  • ENORMOUS.
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  • I THINK THAT WE HAVE A COUNTRY
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  • WHO'S SUFFERING AND CRYING OUT.
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  • OUR KIDS ARE SCREAMING TO US,
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  • "PLEASE WE NEED OUR MEN.
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  • WE NEED OUR DADS."
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  • WE HAVE KIDS KILLING KIDS.
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  • WE HAVE KIDS SHOOTING UP
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  • SCHOOLS.
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  • AND YOU KNOW WE'RE QUICK
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  • TO TALK ABOUT GUNS,
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  • AND WE WANT GOVERNMENT
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  • TO FIX IT,
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  • BUT THE TRUTH OF THE MATTER IS;
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  • WE, AS PEOPLE, AND CHRISTIANS,
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  • AND THE CHURCH,
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  • NEED TO BE HELPING OUR FATHERS
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  • DO WHAT I KNOW THEY CAN DO.
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  • KENDAL HAGEE: THAT'S RIGHT.
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  • DR. MEG MEEKER: AND YOU KNOW
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  • IT'S THIS GAPING HOLE
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  • IN AMERICA.
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  • AND WE'VE DONE SOMETHING
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  • TO RELIEVE.
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  • TAKE OUR FATHERS DOWN
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  • TO DESTROY OUR FATHERS.
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  • YOU LOOK AT THE WAY FATHERS ARE
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  • PORTRAYED IN THE MEDIA.
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  • MATT HAGEE: CORRECT.
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  • THAT'S THE DUMMY ON THE COUCH.
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  • DR. MEG MEEKER: DAD IS
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  • THE DUMMY.
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  • DADS ARE THROWN INTO WHAT
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  • I CALL "ORBIT IN THE HOME."
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  • YOU KNOW IT'S MOM AND THE KIDS
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  • WHO ARE THE CENTER OF THE HOME,
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  • EVEN IN CHRISTIAN HOMES.
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  • WE FALL INTO THIS BECAUSE THIS
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  • IS WHAT OUR CULTURE TEACHES US
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  • HOW TO DO.
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  • AND WE HAVE THIS PUSH-AND-PULL
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  • RELATIONSHIP WITH DADS.
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  • WE WANT YOU THERE
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  • BUT WE DON'T WANT YOU THERE.
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  • WE WANT YOU THERE TO LEAD
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  • BUT WE DON'T WANT YOU TO LEAD,
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  • YOU KNOW.
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  • SO WE DON'T REALLY KNOW WHAT WE
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  • WANT.
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  • BUT WE'VE GOT TO CHANGE THIS.
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  • MATT HAGEE: WELL ISN'T IT KIND
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  • OF THAT'S THE POINT WHERE A DAD
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  • HAS TO STEP IN?
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  • DR. MEG MEEKER: YES.
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  • MATT HAGEE: AND BASICALLY,
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  • YOU KNOW YOU SAY,
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  • WE WANT YOU BUT WE DON'T WANT
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  • YOU,
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  • AND WE DON'T KNOW WHAT WE WANT.
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  • WELL, IT'S DAD'S JOB TO SAY,
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  • "THIS IS WHAT WE'RE GOING
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  • TO DO."
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  • KENDAL HAGEE: YOU'RE THE
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  • PRIEST OF THE HOME.
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  • MATT HAGEE: I MEAN I GREW UP
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  • WITH A --
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  • PEOPLE WOULD SAY, "OH,
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  • HE'S AN OLD SCHOOL DAD."
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  • WELL I WOULD SAY I GREW UP WITH
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  • A VERY BIBLICAL MODEL
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  • OF A FATHER THAT, YOU KNOW,
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  • WHILE HE HAD OUR RESPECT,
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  • AND OUR ADMIRATION,
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  • AND OUR LOVE,
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  • HE WAS NEVER AT THE LEVEL
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  • OF FRIEND.
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  • HE WAS NEVER MY BUDDY;
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  • YOU KNOW?
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  • HE WAS THE GUY THAT I RESPECTED
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  • HIS POSITION AND HIS AUTHORITY
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  • AS A FATHER ALL THE TIME.
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  • AND I FELT UNCONDITIONALLY
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  • LOVED BY HIM.
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  • BUT I ALWAYS KNEW THAT IF I
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  • NEEDED TO KNOW WHICH WAY TO GO,
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  • HE WOULD POINT ME IN THAT
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  • DIRECTION.
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  • AND EVEN IF I DIDN'T SEE IT,
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  • I COULD TRUST IT; YOU KNOW.
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  • AND I THINK THERE'S -- REALLY
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  • THAT WORD "TRUST" KIND OF COMES
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  • DOWN TO WHAT'S EATING AWAY AT
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  • THE RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN
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  • FATHERS AND FAMILIES IS ONE
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  • DOESN'T TRUST THE OTHER.
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  • DR. MEG MEEKER: EXACTLY.
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  • MATT HAGEE: THE FATHER DOESN'T
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  • TRUST THE FAMILY TO FOLLOW.
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  • AND THE FAMILY DOESN'T TRUST
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  • THE FATHER TO LEAD.
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  • DR. MEG MEEKER: EXACTLY.
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  • AND IF YOU HAVE A TEENAGE BOY,
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  • WHO DOESN'T HAVE A DAD OR A MAN
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  • HE CAN TRUST,
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  • HE FEELS OUT OF CONTROL.
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  • AND WHEN A BOY IS OUT OF
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  • CONTROL,
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  • NO MATTER HOW STRONG A MOTHER
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  • YOU HAVE IN THE HOME,
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  • IT'S VERY, VERY DIFFICULT
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  • FOR THE MOTHER TO HELP
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  • THE SON BECOME UNDER CONTROL.
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  • AND YOU KNOW REALLY MY MESSAGE
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  • TO DADS IS BECAUSE DADS FEEL
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  • INTIMIDATED,
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  • I THINK EVEN BY THE BIBLICAL
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  • MODEL.
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  • I HAVE A CHAPTER IN MY BOOK
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  • CALLED "GOD IS FATHER
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  • AND SO ARE YOU."
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  • GOD HAS CHOSEN MEN TO SHARE
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  • A NAME WITH YOU.
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  • WE DON'T SHARE A NAME WITH GOD,
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  • BUT YOU DO.
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  • AND THAT'S A HOLY CALLING,
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  • BUT IT'S A HOLY CALLING THAT
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  • ANY MAN CAN DO.
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  • AND A HERO TO A CHILD IS VERY
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  • DIFFERENT THAN A HERO TO YOU
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  • OR I.
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  • YOU WOULD THINK OF HERO AS
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  • A MAN LIKE BILLY GRAHAM OR YOU
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  • KNOW AN NBA PLAYER, NFL PLAYER.
  • 00:06:03.060 --> 00:06:05.180
  • BUT A HERO TO A CHILD IS
  • 00:06:05.180 --> 00:06:07.030
  • EXACTLY WHAT YOU'RE TALKING
  • 00:06:07.030 --> 00:06:08.060
  • ABOUT, MATTHEW;
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  • A MAN THEY CAN TRUST,
  • 00:06:09.150 --> 00:06:11.260
  • A MAN WHO'S GOING TO BE HONEST
  • 00:06:11.260 --> 00:06:13.140
  • AND TELL THEM THE TRUTH,
  • 00:06:13.140 --> 00:06:14.090
  • A MAN WHO'S GOING TO SHOW UP
  • 00:06:14.090 --> 00:06:15.210
  • FOR ALL THE HARD THINGS IN LIFE,
  • 00:06:15.210 --> 00:06:17.230
  • WHO'S NOT GOING TO BAIL
  • 00:06:17.230 --> 00:06:19.190
  • EVEN WHEN LIFE IS HARD AT HOME
  • 00:06:19.190 --> 00:06:22.170
  • IN YOUR MARRIAGE,
  • 00:06:22.170 --> 00:06:23.210
  • WITH WORK;
  • 00:06:23.210 --> 00:06:25.040
  • AND A MAN WHO SAYS,
  • 00:06:25.040 --> 00:06:26.020
  • YOU KNOW I'M STRUGGLING,
  • 00:06:26.020 --> 00:06:28.170
  • BUT I CAN LEAN ON GOD,
  • 00:06:28.170 --> 00:06:29.180
  • MY FATHER,
  • 00:06:29.180 --> 00:06:30.050
  • TO HELP ME THROUGH THIS.
  • 00:06:30.050 --> 00:06:31.080
  • AND I'M GOING TO HELP YOU, SON.
  • 00:06:31.080 --> 00:06:32.240
  • I'M GOING TO SHOW YOU,
  • 00:06:32.240 --> 00:06:33.170
  • SON AND DAUGHTER,
  • 00:06:33.170 --> 00:06:34.230
  • HOW YOU GET THROUGH HARD THINGS
  • 00:06:34.230 --> 00:06:36.090
  • IN LIFE.
  • 00:06:36.090 --> 00:06:37.100
  • AND EVERY CHILD CRAVES THAT
  • 00:06:37.100 --> 00:06:39.130
  • SO DEEPLY.
  • 00:06:39.130 --> 00:06:40.230
  • I SAY, YOU KNOW,
  • 00:06:40.230 --> 00:06:41.220
  • IF EVERY FATHER COULD SEE
  • 00:06:41.220 --> 00:06:43.100
  • HIMSELF FROM BEHIND HIS CHILD'S
  • 00:06:43.100 --> 00:06:44.250
  • EYES FOR JUST TEN MINUTES,
  • 00:06:44.250 --> 00:06:47.110
  • HE'D NEVER LIVE HIS LIFE
  • 00:06:47.110 --> 00:06:48.060
  • THE SAME WAY,
  • 00:06:48.060 --> 00:06:49.150
  • NEVER LIVE THE SAME WAY,
  • 00:06:49.150 --> 00:06:50.270
  • BECAUSE YOU'RE SO HUGE IN YOUR
  • 00:06:50.270 --> 00:06:52.240
  • CHILD'S LIFE;
  • 00:06:52.240 --> 00:06:53.230
  • YOU DON'T REALIZE IT.
  • 00:06:53.230 --> 00:06:54.290
  • MATT HAGEE: WELL AND I THINK
  • 00:06:54.290 --> 00:06:55.290
  • THAT THE MORE A FATHER BEGINS
  • 00:06:55.290 --> 00:06:58.110
  • TO PERCEIVE WHAT THE CHILD SEES
  • 00:06:58.190 --> 00:07:01.210
  • OF THEMSELVES,
  • 00:07:01.210 --> 00:07:03.040
  • THE MORE THAT A MAN WILL TURN
  • 00:07:03.040 --> 00:07:05.110
  • TO GOD --
  • 00:07:05.110 --> 00:07:06.040
  • DR. MEG MEEKER: YES.
  • 00:07:06.040 --> 00:07:06.250
  • MATT HAGEE: -- AND SAY,
  • 00:07:06.250 --> 00:07:07.170
  • I NEED YOUR HELP TO FULFILL
  • 00:07:07.170 --> 00:07:09.190
  • THAT LIST,
  • 00:07:09.190 --> 00:07:11.000
  • BECAUSE YOU KNOW THE LAST THING
  • 00:07:11.000 --> 00:07:13.050
  • THAT I WANT MY KIDS TO BELIEVE
  • 00:07:13.050 --> 00:07:15.110
  • IS THAT I'VE GOT IT ALL FIGURED
  • 00:07:15.110 --> 00:07:16.060
  • OUT.
  • 00:07:16.060 --> 00:07:17.040
  • DR. MEG MEEKER: RIGHT.
  • 00:07:17.040 --> 00:07:17.250
  • MATT HAGEE: BUT THE FIRST THING
  • 00:07:17.250 --> 00:07:18.210
  • THAT THEY THINK IS DAD'S GOT IT
  • 00:07:18.210 --> 00:07:19.220
  • ALL FIGURED OUT.
  • 00:07:19.220 --> 00:07:20.200
  • I MEAN MY DAUGHTER COMES TO ME
  • 00:07:20.200 --> 00:07:21.230
  • WITH A MATH BOOK THIS THICK,
  • 00:07:21.230 --> 00:07:23.160
  • AND SHE'S LIKE,
  • 00:07:23.160 --> 00:07:24.080
  • I NEED HELP WITH MATH.
  • 00:07:24.080 --> 00:07:25.030
  • AND I'M LOOK, SIRI,
  • 00:07:25.030 --> 00:07:26.250
  • HELP WITH MATH; YOU KNOW?
  • 00:07:26.250 --> 00:07:28.160
  • DR. MEG MEEKER: YEAH.
  • 00:07:28.160 --> 00:07:29.130
  • MATT HAGEE: AND YOU KNOW
  • 00:07:29.130 --> 00:07:30.100
  • YET IN HER EYES --
  • 00:07:30.100 --> 00:07:31.220
  • DR. MEG MEEKER: SHE KNOWS
  • 00:07:31.220 --> 00:07:32.170
  • YOU'RE SMARTER,
  • 00:07:32.170 --> 00:07:33.070
  • YOU'RE STRONGER,
  • 00:07:33.070 --> 00:07:34.120
  • YOU'RE WISER, YES.
  • 00:07:34.120 --> 00:07:35.070
  • MATT HAGEE: ON THAT PAGE
  • 00:07:35.070 --> 00:07:36.090
  • THAT SHE DOESN'T UNDERSTAND,
  • 00:07:36.090 --> 00:07:37.010
  • I'VE GOT IT AT THE DROP OF
  • 00:07:37.010 --> 00:07:37.260
  • A HAT; YOU KNOW?
  • 00:07:37.260 --> 00:07:38.290
  • DR. MEG MEEKER: RIGHT.
  • 00:07:38.290 --> 00:07:39.180
  • MATT HAGEE: AND SO I'LL DO WHAT
  • 00:07:39.180 --> 00:07:40.120
  • I CAN TO HELP HER, YOU KNOW,
  • 00:07:40.120 --> 00:07:41.030
  • EVEN IN THE LITTLE INTANGIBLES
  • 00:07:41.030 --> 00:07:42.200
  • LIKE MATH.
  • 00:07:42.200 --> 00:07:43.220
  • BUT AT THE SAME TIME,
  • 00:07:43.220 --> 00:07:44.100
  • I'M GOING, GOD,
  • 00:07:44.100 --> 00:07:45.020
  • HELP ME NOT DISAPPOINT THESE
  • 00:07:45.020 --> 00:07:46.190
  • KIDS, BECAUSE YOU KNOW,
  • 00:07:46.190 --> 00:07:48.040
  • I KNOW HOW DISAPPOINTING
  • 00:07:48.040 --> 00:07:49.010
  • I CAN BE; YOU KNOW?
  • 00:07:49.010 --> 00:07:51.000
  • DR. MEG MEEKER: BUT YOU KNOW
  • 00:07:51.000 --> 00:07:51.270
  • IT'S HARDER TO DISAPPOINT
  • 00:07:51.270 --> 00:07:52.200
  • YOUR KIDS THAN YOU THINK IT IS.
  • 00:07:52.200 --> 00:07:54.080
  • I SAY TO DADS,
  • 00:07:54.080 --> 00:07:55.120
  • THE MOST FORGIVING PERSON
  • 00:07:55.120 --> 00:07:56.230
  • YOU'LL EVER MEET IN YOUR LIFE
  • 00:07:56.230 --> 00:07:57.290
  • IS A DAUGHTER,
  • 00:07:57.290 --> 00:07:59.020
  • BECAUSE YOUR DAUGHTER IS
  • 00:07:59.020 --> 00:08:00.240
  • CONNECTED TO YOU BY A NEED
  • 00:08:00.240 --> 00:08:02.210
  • THAT'S BASED IN LOVE.
  • 00:08:02.210 --> 00:08:04.060
  • YOU'RE CONNECTED.
  • 00:08:04.060 --> 00:08:05.050
  • YOU DON'T NEED TO LOVE HER
  • 00:08:05.050 --> 00:08:07.050
  • AND YOU DON'T NEED HER,
  • 00:08:07.050 --> 00:08:08.060
  • BUT SHE NEEDS YOU IN A VERY
  • 00:08:08.060 --> 00:08:10.020
  • DIFFERENT WAY.
  • 00:08:10.020 --> 00:08:11.020
  • SO SHE NEEDS YOUR LOVE,
  • 00:08:11.020 --> 00:08:13.080
  • SO SHE NEEDS TO FORGIVE YOU,
  • 00:08:13.080 --> 00:08:14.150
  • SHE NEEDS TO LIKE YOU,
  • 00:08:14.150 --> 00:08:15.190
  • SHE NEEDS TO KIND OF GET ALONG
  • 00:08:15.190 --> 00:08:17.060
  • WITH YOU.
  • 00:08:17.060 --> 00:08:17.250
  • BUT AS SHE KIND OF GOES THROUGH
  • 00:08:17.250 --> 00:08:20.010
  • AND FIGURES OUT LIFE,
  • 00:08:20.010 --> 00:08:21.020
  • WHICH I KNOW SHE'S GETTING
  • 00:08:21.020 --> 00:08:22.260
  • READY TO DO, FIGURE OUT LIFE.
  • 00:08:22.260 --> 00:08:25.020
  • MATT HAGEE: WE'RE JUST GETTING
  • 00:08:25.020 --> 00:08:25.270
  • STARTED WITH HER LIFE.
  • 00:08:25.270 --> 00:08:26.220
  • AND WE'RE JUST GETTING STARTED
  • 00:08:26.220 --> 00:08:27.150
  • WITH MEG MEEKER.
  • 00:08:27.150 --> 00:08:28.240
  • FATHERS, YOU ARE NEEDED.
  • 00:08:28.240 --> 00:08:30.190
  • AND WHEN WE COME BACK,
  • 00:08:30.190 --> 00:08:31.180
  • WE'RE GOING TO TELL YOU SOME
  • 00:08:31.180 --> 00:08:32.280
  • MORE THINGS THAT YOU NEED
  • 00:08:32.280 --> 00:08:33.220
  • TO KNOW ABOUT WHAT YOU CAN DO
  • 00:08:33.220 --> 00:08:35.180
  • TO LEAD YOUR FAMILY AS GOD
  • 00:08:35.180 --> 00:08:36.220
  • WOULD ALLOW.
  • 00:08:36.220 --> 00:08:37.210
  • I WANT YOU TO FIND OUT RIGHT NOW
  • 00:08:37.210 --> 00:08:38.260
  • HOW YOU CAN GET
  • 00:08:38.260 --> 00:08:39.200
  • DR. MEEKER'S BOOK IN YOUR HAND
  • 00:08:39.200 --> 00:08:41.090
  • AND LET IT CHANGE THE OUTLOOK
  • 00:08:41.090 --> 00:08:42.120
  • OF YOUR LIFE AND YOUR FAMILY.
  • 00:08:42.120 --> 00:08:44.060
  • YOU'RE WATCHING THE DIFFERENCE.
  • 00:08:44.060 --> 00:08:45.290
  • MUSIC
  • 00:08:45.290 --> 00:08:47.260
  • WHEN YOU GIVE TO
  • 00:08:47.260 --> 00:08:48.140
  • SANCTUARY OF HOPE,
  • 00:08:48.140 --> 00:08:49.150
  • YOU ARE GIVING A CHILD A CHANCE
  • 00:08:49.150 --> 00:08:50.240
  • AT LIFE AND A HOPEFUL FUTURE.
  • 00:08:50.240 --> 00:08:53.020
  • FOR YOUR GIFT OF $50 OR MORE,
  • 00:08:53.020 --> 00:08:54.230
  • YOU WILL RECEIVE AS A GIFT,
  • 00:08:54.230 --> 00:08:56.060
  • A SPECIAL COFFEE MUG,
  • 00:08:56.060 --> 00:08:57.180
  • AN INSPIRING PRAYER JOURNAL,
  • 00:08:57.180 --> 00:08:59.040
  • AND DR. MEG MEEKER'S BOOK,
  • 00:08:59.040 --> 00:09:00.280
  • "HERO."
  • 00:09:00.280 --> 00:09:01.250
  • AND FOR A GIFT OF $150 OR MORE,
  • 00:09:01.250 --> 00:09:04.050
  • YOU WILL RECEIVE ALL THREE
  • 00:09:04.050 --> 00:09:05.150
  • GIFTS,
  • 00:09:05.150 --> 00:09:05.290
  • ALONG WITH A FRAMED WALL ART
  • 00:09:05.290 --> 00:09:07.090
  • FEATURING A FAMILIAR BLESSING
  • 00:09:07.090 --> 00:09:08.210
  • FROM PASTOR HAGEE.
  • 00:09:08.210 --> 00:09:09.270
  • PASTOR JOHN HAGEE: AND NOW MAY
  • 00:09:09.270 --> 00:09:10.210
  • THE LORD BLESS YOU AND KEEP
  • 00:09:10.210 --> 00:09:11.190
  • YOU.
  • 00:09:11.190 --> 00:09:12.230
  • MAY THE LORD MAKE HIS FACE...
  • 00:09:12.230 --> 00:09:13.200
  • CALL THE NUMBER ON THE SCREEN
  • 00:09:13.200 --> 00:09:14.160
  • OR VISIT JHM.ORG.
  • 00:09:14.200 --> 00:09:17.200
  • MUSIC
  • 00:09:17.200 --> 00:09:18.070
  • DEAR PASTOR HAGEE,
  • 00:09:18.070 --> 00:09:19.170
  • I JUST WANTED TO WRITE YOU
  • 00:09:19.170 --> 00:09:21.010
  • TO SAY HOW HONORED RAYLA JEAN
  • 00:09:21.010 --> 00:09:22.130
  • AND I ARE TO HAVE BEEN PARTNERS
  • 00:09:22.130 --> 00:09:24.040
  • IN YOUR MINISTRY
  • 00:09:24.040 --> 00:09:24.270
  • ALL THESE YEARS
  • 00:09:24.270 --> 00:09:25.290
  • AND TO SEE ALL THE AMAZING
  • 00:09:25.290 --> 00:09:27.000
  • THINGS YOU'VE ACCOMPLISHED
  • 00:09:27.000 --> 00:09:28.010
  • AROUND THE WORLD
  • 00:09:28.010 --> 00:09:28.290
  • WITH THE GIFTS WE AND OTHERS
  • 00:09:28.290 --> 00:09:30.030
  • LIKE US HAD GLADLY GIVEN
  • 00:09:30.030 --> 00:09:31.150
  • OVER THE YEARS.
  • 00:09:31.150 --> 00:09:32.150
  • PASTOR JOHN HAGEE: I WANT
  • 00:09:32.150 --> 00:09:33.180
  • TO THANK YOU FOR MAKING
  • 00:09:33.180 --> 00:09:34.100
  • IT POSSIBLE FOR US TO PREACH
  • 00:09:34.100 --> 00:09:35.140
  • THE GOSPEL TO THE NATIONS
  • 00:09:35.140 --> 00:09:36.230
  • OF THE WORLD.
  • 00:09:36.230 --> 00:09:37.240
  • THANK YOU AND GOD BLESS YOU.
  • 00:09:37.240 --> 00:09:39.230
  • BECOME A PARTNER TODAY.
  • 00:09:39.230 --> 00:09:41.100
  • CALL THE TOLL-FREE NUMBER
  • 00:09:41.100 --> 00:09:42.230
  • OR VISIT JHM.ORG.
  • 00:09:43.040 --> 00:09:46.040
  • MUSIC
  • 00:09:46.040 --> 00:09:47.270
  • SANCTUARY OF HOPE
  • 00:09:47.270 --> 00:09:49.080
  • WILL YOU HELP US CHANGE
  • 00:09:49.080 --> 00:09:50.080
  • THE WORLD ONE LIFE AT A TIME?
  • 00:09:50.080 --> 00:09:52.010
  • TO SHOW OUR APPRECIATION,
  • 00:09:52.010 --> 00:09:53.200
  • EVERY GIFT OF $500 OR MORE
  • 00:09:53.200 --> 00:09:55.220
  • WILL RECEIVE A FRAMED PAINTING
  • 00:09:55.220 --> 00:09:57.040
  • ENTITLED "HOPE AND LIBERTY;"
  • 00:09:57.040 --> 00:09:58.280
  • FOR $1500 OR MORE,
  • 00:09:58.280 --> 00:10:00.160
  • A "FOREVER FREE" BRONZE
  • 00:10:00.160 --> 00:10:01.190
  • STATUE;
  • 00:10:01.190 --> 00:10:02.120
  • AND FOR GIFTS OVER $2500,
  • 00:10:02.120 --> 00:10:04.250
  • A TREE PLANTED WITH
  • 00:10:04.250 --> 00:10:05.230
  • A PERSONALIZED PLAQUE
  • 00:10:05.230 --> 00:10:06.280
  • ON THE SANCTUARY OF HOPE CAMPUS,
  • 00:10:06.280 --> 00:10:09.010
  • PLUS YOUR CHOICE BETWEEN
  • 00:10:09.010 --> 00:10:10.120
  • THE PAINTING OR STATUE
  • 00:10:10.120 --> 00:10:11.210
  • AS A THANK YOU
  • 00:10:11.210 --> 00:10:12.100
  • FOR YOUR GENEROUS SUPPORT.
  • 00:10:12.100 --> 00:10:13.190
  • FOR MORE INFORMATION,
  • 00:10:13.190 --> 00:10:14.190
  • CALL THE NUMBER ON THE SCREEN
  • 00:10:14.190 --> 00:10:15.270
  • OR VISIT OUR WEBSITE.
  • 00:10:15.270 --> 00:10:17.200
  • MUSIC
  • 00:10:17.200 --> 00:10:19.080
  • MATT HAGEE: WELCOME BACK TO
  • 00:10:19.080 --> 00:10:20.070
  • THE DIFFERENCE.
  • 00:10:20.070 --> 00:10:21.000
  • WE'RE HERE WITH DR. MEG MEEKER.
  • 00:10:21.000 --> 00:10:21.220
  • AND SHE'S SHARING WITH US SOME
  • 00:10:21.220 --> 00:10:23.100
  • PERSPECTIVES ON FATHERHOOD.
  • 00:10:23.100 --> 00:10:24.280
  • YOU KNOW YOU MENTIONED IN OUR
  • 00:10:24.280 --> 00:10:26.060
  • FIRST SEGMENT HOW WE HAVE
  • 00:10:26.060 --> 00:10:28.050
  • A GENERATION THAT'S CRYING OUT
  • 00:10:28.050 --> 00:10:30.120
  • FOR THE RESPONSIBILITY
  • 00:10:30.120 --> 00:10:31.250
  • AND THE ROLE OF THE FATHER
  • 00:10:31.250 --> 00:10:33.060
  • IN THEIR LIFE.
  • 00:10:33.060 --> 00:10:34.150
  • MY QUESTION WOULD BE,
  • 00:10:34.150 --> 00:10:36.080
  • HOW LONG HAS THIS BEEN
  • 00:10:36.080 --> 00:10:37.250
  • A PROBLEM,
  • 00:10:37.250 --> 00:10:38.210
  • BECAUSE THERE'S CERTAINLY A LOT
  • 00:10:38.210 --> 00:10:40.150
  • THAT SAYS IT'S IMMEDIATE,
  • 00:10:40.150 --> 00:10:42.190
  • BUT IT'S BEEN BUILDING
  • 00:10:42.190 --> 00:10:43.220
  • FOR SEVERAL GENERATIONS?
  • 00:10:43.220 --> 00:10:45.030
  • DR. MEG MEEKER: YES.
  • 00:10:45.030 --> 00:10:46.020
  • I TRACE IT BACK TO THE 1960'S.
  • 00:10:46.020 --> 00:10:48.160
  • AND I'LL TELL YOU WHY.
  • 00:10:48.160 --> 00:10:49.140
  • THAT'S WHEN BIRTH CONTROL PILLS
  • 00:10:49.140 --> 00:10:51.070
  • CAME INTO THE POPULARITY
  • 00:10:51.070 --> 00:10:52.230
  • AND WOMEN STARTED TO SAY,
  • 00:10:52.230 --> 00:10:54.010
  • HEY, WAIT A MINUTE;
  • 00:10:54.010 --> 00:10:55.010
  • WE CAN TAKE CHARGE.
  • 00:10:55.010 --> 00:10:56.170
  • WE CAN TAKE CHARGE OF OUR
  • 00:10:56.170 --> 00:10:57.170
  • FERTILITY.
  • 00:10:57.170 --> 00:10:58.250
  • AND THEN IN THE 70'S,
  • 00:10:58.250 --> 00:11:00.030
  • WE HAD THE WOMEN'S MOVEMENT.
  • 00:11:00.030 --> 00:11:02.010
  • WE HAD FEMINISM.
  • 00:11:02.010 --> 00:11:02.280
  • WE HAD GLORIA STEINEM STANDING
  • 00:11:02.280 --> 00:11:04.200
  • UP AND SPEAKING OUT.
  • 00:11:04.200 --> 00:11:06.140
  • AND THEN WHEN WOMEN BEGAN
  • 00:11:06.140 --> 00:11:08.150
  • TO SORT OF DEMAND ATTENTION
  • 00:11:08.150 --> 00:11:11.120
  • AND FAVOR, AND INDEPENDENCE,
  • 00:11:11.120 --> 00:11:13.240
  • WHAT WE DID IS WHENEVER THERE'S
  • 00:11:13.240 --> 00:11:16.000
  • A REVOLUTION,
  • 00:11:16.000 --> 00:11:17.230
  • THERE ARE CASUALTIES.
  • 00:11:17.230 --> 00:11:18.270
  • AND THE CASUALTIES IN THE
  • 00:11:18.270 --> 00:11:20.100
  • SEXUAL REVOLUTION AND IN THE
  • 00:11:20.100 --> 00:11:22.010
  • FEMINIST MOVEMENT HAVE BEEN
  • 00:11:22.010 --> 00:11:23.010
  • OUR MEN, GOOD MEN.
  • 00:11:23.010 --> 00:11:24.180
  • THEY'VE BEEN PUSHED TO THE SIDE.
  • 00:11:24.180 --> 00:11:25.290
  • BECAUSE WHEN WOMEN DEMANDED
  • 00:11:25.290 --> 00:11:27.220
  • ATTENTION,
  • 00:11:27.220 --> 00:11:28.290
  • WE FELT WE CAN'T HAVE THE
  • 00:11:28.290 --> 00:11:30.180
  • ATTENTION UNLESS THEY PUSH MEN
  • 00:11:30.180 --> 00:11:32.080
  • ASIDE.
  • 00:11:32.080 --> 00:11:32.270
  • AND WE'RE CONTINUING TO
  • 00:11:32.270 --> 00:11:34.050
  • PERPETUATE THAT.
  • 00:11:34.050 --> 00:11:35.150
  • AND I WILL TELL YOU, YOU KNOW,
  • 00:11:35.150 --> 00:11:37.090
  • YOU KNOW THIS;
  • 00:11:37.090 --> 00:11:38.020
  • BEING A PUBLIC FIGURE,
  • 00:11:38.020 --> 00:11:39.120
  • WE HAVE SOME PEOPLE WHO LIKE US,
  • 00:11:39.120 --> 00:11:40.250
  • AND A LOT OF PEOPLE DON'T LIKE
  • 00:11:40.250 --> 00:11:41.220
  • US.
  • 00:11:41.220 --> 00:11:42.150
  • THERE ARE WOMEN WHO DON'T LIKE
  • 00:11:42.150 --> 00:11:43.170
  • ME AT ALL, BECAUSE --
  • 00:11:43.170 --> 00:11:45.040
  • AND I'VE GOTTEN DEATH THREATS;
  • 00:11:45.040 --> 00:11:46.020
  • BELIEVE IT OR NOT.
  • 00:11:46.020 --> 00:11:46.290
  • BECAUSE WHEN YOU SPEAK FOR MEN,
  • 00:11:46.290 --> 00:11:48.270
  • THERE ARE MANY WOMEN THAT SAY
  • 00:11:48.270 --> 00:11:50.090
  • YOU'RE SPEAKING AGAINST WOMEN,
  • 00:11:50.090 --> 00:11:51.290
  • AS THOUGH YOU CAN'T BE BOTH.
  • 00:11:51.290 --> 00:11:54.290
  • YOU KNOW AND IT'S --
  • 00:11:54.290 --> 00:11:55.260
  • MY HUSBAND AND I SHARE A
  • 00:11:55.260 --> 00:11:57.060
  • MEDICAL PRACTICE TOGETHER.
  • 00:11:57.060 --> 00:11:58.050
  • WE SHARE FIVE GRAND KIDS,
  • 00:11:58.050 --> 00:12:00.120
  • WHICH IS THE BIG PAYOFF.
  • 00:12:00.120 --> 00:12:01.240
  • AND WE HAVE FOUR ADULT KIDS.
  • 00:12:01.240 --> 00:12:03.190
  • BUT YOU KNOW THERE'S THIS REAL
  • 00:12:03.190 --> 00:12:04.260
  • SENSE IN AMERICA,
  • 00:12:04.260 --> 00:12:05.290
  • WHICH IS SO DIVIDED;
  • 00:12:05.290 --> 00:12:06.290
  • THAT IT'S EITHER GOT TO BE MOMS
  • 00:12:06.290 --> 00:12:08.190
  • OR DADS.
  • 00:12:08.190 --> 00:12:09.140
  • MATT HAGEE: IT'S ONE WAY
  • 00:12:09.140 --> 00:12:10.070
  • OR THE OTHER.
  • 00:12:10.070 --> 00:12:10.270
  • DR. MEG MEEKER: ONE WAY OR THE
  • 00:12:10.270 --> 00:12:11.190
  • OTHER, AND IT'S SO UNBIBLICAL.
  • 00:12:11.190 --> 00:12:12.150
  • MATT HAGEE: WELL AND YOU KNOW
  • 00:12:12.150 --> 00:12:13.130
  • YOU KIND OF -- YOU'RE
  • 00:12:13.130 --> 00:12:14.090
  • MENTIONING IN A WAY A SET
  • 00:12:14.090 --> 00:12:15.200
  • OF SCALES.
  • 00:12:15.200 --> 00:12:16.230
  • DR. MEG MEEKER: YES.
  • 00:12:16.230 --> 00:12:17.140
  • MATT HAGEE: AND THE THING THAT
  • 00:12:17.140 --> 00:12:18.130
  • GOT OUT OF BALANCE WAS A DESIRE
  • 00:12:18.130 --> 00:12:19.280
  • FOR CONTROL.
  • 00:12:19.280 --> 00:12:21.020
  • DR. MEG MEEKER: YES.
  • 00:12:21.020 --> 00:12:21.270
  • MATT HAGEE: YOU KNOW THERE WERE
  • 00:12:21.270 --> 00:12:22.200
  • CERTAINLY ASPECTS
  • 00:12:22.200 --> 00:12:23.180
  • OF THE CULTURE WHERE WOMEN
  • 00:12:23.180 --> 00:12:24.260
  • NEEDED A VOICE.
  • 00:12:24.260 --> 00:12:26.080
  • BUT RATHER THAN GETTING A VOICE,
  • 00:12:26.080 --> 00:12:27.270
  • THEY WANTED TO GAIN CONTROL OF
  • 00:12:27.270 --> 00:12:29.290
  • A DYNAMIC THAT IS BIBLICALLY
  • 00:12:29.290 --> 00:12:31.160
  • ESTABLISHED TO WORK
  • 00:12:31.160 --> 00:12:32.160
  • IN A CERTAIN BALANCE.
  • 00:12:32.160 --> 00:12:33.180
  • AND WHAT GOT THROWN OUT OF
  • 00:12:33.180 --> 00:12:34.240
  • BALANCE REALLY,
  • 00:12:34.240 --> 00:12:35.270
  • AS I SEE IT,
  • 00:12:35.270 --> 00:12:36.170
  • IS MASCULINITY.
  • 00:12:36.170 --> 00:12:37.200
  • DR. MEG MEEKER: YES.
  • 00:12:37.200 --> 00:12:38.090
  • MATT HAGEE: BECAUSE YOU KNOW
  • 00:12:38.090 --> 00:12:39.020
  • THERE'S STILL MEN IN THE WORLD,
  • 00:12:39.020 --> 00:12:40.130
  • BUT IF IT WALKS LIKE A MAN,
  • 00:12:40.130 --> 00:12:41.220
  • AND IT MAKES DECISIONS
  • 00:12:41.220 --> 00:12:42.140
  • LIKE A MAN,
  • 00:12:42.140 --> 00:12:43.080
  • AND IT ACTS LIKE A MAN,
  • 00:12:43.080 --> 00:12:44.150
  • IT IS RESISTED, RESENTED,
  • 00:12:44.150 --> 00:12:46.070
  • AND ATTACKED FOR BEING A MAN.
  • 00:12:46.070 --> 00:12:48.230
  • DR. MEG MEEKER: YES.
  • 00:12:48.230 --> 00:12:49.180
  • MATT HAGEE: YOU KNOW IF I WALK
  • 00:12:49.180 --> 00:12:50.220
  • INTO A ROOM,
  • 00:12:50.220 --> 00:12:51.160
  • AND WITH CONFIDENCE,
  • 00:12:51.160 --> 00:12:52.080
  • LOOK SOMEBODY IN THE EYE,
  • 00:12:52.080 --> 00:12:53.000
  • AND EXTEND MY HAND,
  • 00:12:53.000 --> 00:12:54.000
  • AND INTRODUCE MYSELF,
  • 00:12:54.000 --> 00:12:55.220
  • THEY'LL LOOK AT ME AND GO,
  • 00:12:55.220 --> 00:12:56.180
  • WHY ARE YOU BEING SO STRONG;
  • 00:12:56.180 --> 00:12:58.180
  • YOU KNOW?
  • 00:12:58.180 --> 00:12:59.060
  • AND I GO, THAT'S NOT STRONG;
  • 00:12:59.060 --> 00:13:00.180
  • THAT'S JUST --
  • 00:13:00.180 --> 00:13:01.140
  • DR. MEG MEEKER: THAT'S WHO I AM.
  • 00:13:01.140 --> 00:13:02.180
  • MATT HAGEE: THAT'S HOW I WAS
  • 00:13:02.180 --> 00:13:03.150
  • RAISED, TO SAY "HELLO,"
  • 00:13:03.150 --> 00:13:04.190
  • YOU KNOW.
  • 00:13:04.190 --> 00:13:05.090
  • DR. MEG MEEKER: EXACTLY.
  • 00:13:05.090 --> 00:13:05.290
  • MATT HAGEE: AND YET,
  • 00:13:05.290 --> 00:13:06.220
  • IN OUR CURRENT CULTURE,
  • 00:13:06.220 --> 00:13:07.290
  • THAT'S CONSIDERED ABRASIVE.
  • 00:13:07.290 --> 00:13:09.180
  • IT'S CONSIDERED OVERBEARING.
  • 00:13:09.180 --> 00:13:11.120
  • WHO DOES HE THINK HE IS?
  • 00:13:11.120 --> 00:13:12.210
  • HOW MUCH OF THAT HAS AN IMPACT
  • 00:13:12.210 --> 00:13:14.060
  • ON THE ROLE THAT DADS PLAY
  • 00:13:14.060 --> 00:13:16.010
  • IN THE HOUSE?
  • 00:13:16.010 --> 00:13:16.260
  • DR. MEG MEEKER: HUGE,
  • 00:13:16.260 --> 00:13:17.290
  • BECAUSE WHETHER DADS REALIZE IT
  • 00:13:17.290 --> 00:13:19.120
  • OR NOT,
  • 00:13:19.120 --> 00:13:20.010
  • THEY'RE FIGHTING THAT
  • 00:13:20.010 --> 00:13:20.280
  • INTERNALLY.
  • 00:13:20.280 --> 00:13:21.250
  • THEY WANT TO HAVE AUTHORITY,
  • 00:13:21.250 --> 00:13:24.200
  • A MASCULINE AUTHORITY,
  • 00:13:24.200 --> 00:13:26.190
  • BUT THEY DON'T WANT TO BE
  • 00:13:26.190 --> 00:13:27.190
  • OVERBEARING.
  • 00:13:27.190 --> 00:13:28.240
  • AND THEY'RE AFRAID IF THEY
  • 00:13:28.240 --> 00:13:29.280
  • EXERCISE GODLY AUTHORITY,
  • 00:13:29.280 --> 00:13:32.190
  • AND SAY,
  • 00:13:32.190 --> 00:13:33.110
  • THIS IS WHO I AM AND THIS
  • 00:13:33.110 --> 00:13:34.180
  • IS WHAT I BELIEVE,
  • 00:13:34.180 --> 00:13:35.190
  • AND THIS IS WHAT I THINK;
  • 00:13:35.190 --> 00:13:37.290
  • THAT THEY'RE GOING TO BE
  • 00:13:37.290 --> 00:13:38.190
  • OVERBEARING IN AND THEY'RE
  • 00:13:38.190 --> 00:13:39.180
  • GOING TO PUSH THEIR KIDS AWAY.
  • 00:13:39.180 --> 00:13:40.260
  • SO WE NEED TO TEACH THEM,
  • 00:13:40.260 --> 00:13:42.040
  • LOOK AT JESUS AS THE PERFECT
  • 00:13:42.040 --> 00:13:44.000
  • MODEL.
  • 00:13:44.000 --> 00:13:44.240
  • GOD IS THE PERFECT MODEL
  • 00:13:44.240 --> 00:13:46.100
  • OF A FATHER.
  • 00:13:46.100 --> 00:13:47.120
  • HE TEACHES US WHAT FEAR
  • 00:13:47.120 --> 00:13:49.040
  • IS REALLY ALL ABOUT.
  • 00:13:49.040 --> 00:13:50.110
  • IT'S THAT REVERENCE.
  • 00:13:50.110 --> 00:13:51.210
  • IT'S THAT AWE.
  • 00:13:51.210 --> 00:13:52.180
  • IT'S THAT RESPECT.
  • 00:13:52.180 --> 00:13:53.220
  • MATT HAGEE: IT'S HONOR.
  • 00:13:53.220 --> 00:13:55.050
  • DR. MEG MEEKER: IT'S HONOR
  • 00:13:55.050 --> 00:13:55.260
  • WHERE WE ARE DRAWN TOWARDS THEM
  • 00:13:55.260 --> 00:13:57.140
  • BECAUSE WE FEAR THEM,
  • 00:13:57.140 --> 00:13:58.200
  • NOT PUSHED AWAY FROM THEM.
  • 00:13:58.200 --> 00:14:00.270
  • SO THIS IS WHERE WE,
  • 00:14:00.270 --> 00:14:01.240
  • AS A CHURCH,
  • 00:14:01.240 --> 00:14:02.140
  • WE REALLY NEED TO BE TEACHING
  • 00:14:02.140 --> 00:14:03.230
  • OUR YOUNG FAMILIES,
  • 00:14:03.230 --> 00:14:05.010
  • THESE MILLENNIAL DADS AND MOMS.
  • 00:14:05.120 --> 00:14:08.120
  • THIS IS HOW YOU MAKE A GREAT
  • 00:14:08.120 --> 00:14:09.240
  • MARRIAGE WORK.
  • 00:14:09.240 --> 00:14:10.180
  • THIS IS HOW YOU PARENT
  • 00:14:10.180 --> 00:14:11.200
  • TOGETHER.
  • 00:14:11.200 --> 00:14:12.180
  • THIS IS WHAT A BIBLICAL MODEL
  • 00:14:12.180 --> 00:14:14.030
  • OF AUTHORITY LOOKS LIKE
  • 00:14:14.030 --> 00:14:15.240
  • IN THE HOME.
  • 00:14:15.240 --> 00:14:16.170
  • IT'S NOT OVERBEARING.
  • 00:14:16.170 --> 00:14:17.280
  • IT'S NOT OPPRESSIVE;
  • 00:14:17.280 --> 00:14:18.290
  • IT'S FREEING,
  • 00:14:18.290 --> 00:14:20.110
  • BECAUSE YOU'RE THE HIGH SERVANT
  • 00:14:20.110 --> 00:14:22.090
  • IN THE HOME NEXT TO CHRIST ONLY.
  • 00:14:22.090 --> 00:14:25.060
  • MATT HAGEE: AND REALLY IT DOES
  • 00:14:25.060 --> 00:14:26.110
  • FALL TO THE CHURCH IN MANY
  • 00:14:26.110 --> 00:14:27.090
  • WAYS --
  • 00:14:27.090 --> 00:14:28.050
  • DR. MEG MEEKER: YES.
  • 00:14:28.050 --> 00:14:28.240
  • MATT HAGEE: -- BECAUSE THERE
  • 00:14:28.240 --> 00:14:29.200
  • ARE SO MANY YOUNG CHRISTIAN MEN
  • 00:14:29.200 --> 00:14:31.130
  • THAT GREW UP WITHOUT A DAD.
  • 00:14:31.130 --> 00:14:33.150
  • AND IF THEY HAD A FATHER
  • 00:14:33.150 --> 00:14:34.230
  • IN THE HOME,
  • 00:14:34.230 --> 00:14:35.230
  • THEY EXISTED WITH HIM;
  • 00:14:35.230 --> 00:14:37.030
  • THEY DIDN'T ENGAGE WITH HIM.
  • 00:14:37.030 --> 00:14:38.240
  • DR. MEG MEEKER: RIGHT.
  • 00:14:38.240 --> 00:14:39.150
  • MATT HAGEE: AND SO THEY DON'T
  • 00:14:39.150 --> 00:14:40.070
  • HAVE A MODEL TO FOLLOW.
  • 00:14:40.070 --> 00:14:41.080
  • YOU KNOW I'VE FOUND THIS TO BE
  • 00:14:41.080 --> 00:14:42.290
  • SOMEWHAT TRUE IN THE
  • 00:14:42.290 --> 00:14:44.230
  • RELATIONSHIPS THAT I HAVE
  • 00:14:44.230 --> 00:14:45.160
  • WITH MY PEERS IS THAT I HAVE
  • 00:14:45.160 --> 00:14:47.050
  • A TOTALLY DIFFERENT CENTER,
  • 00:14:47.050 --> 00:14:49.050
  • BECAUSE OF THE RELATIONSHIP
  • 00:14:49.050 --> 00:14:50.020
  • I HAD WITH MY DAD.
  • 00:14:50.020 --> 00:14:51.120
  • AND THE CHALLENGES THAT THEY
  • 00:14:51.120 --> 00:14:52.250
  • HAVE AND THE DECISIONS THAT
  • 00:14:52.250 --> 00:14:54.020
  • THEY'RE STRUGGLING TO MAKE
  • 00:14:54.020 --> 00:14:55.260
  • AREN'T THAT DIFFICULT FROM
  • 00:14:55.260 --> 00:14:57.080
  • MY PERSPECTIVE BECAUSE I SAW
  • 00:14:57.080 --> 00:14:58.290
  • HOW A MAN DEALT WITH THAT,
  • 00:14:58.290 --> 00:15:00.100
  • AND THEN THE LIGHTBULB WENT OFF.
  • 00:15:00.100 --> 00:15:01.290
  • THEY'VE NEVER SEEN IT.
  • 00:15:01.290 --> 00:15:03.060
  • DR. MEG MEEKER: THEY'VE NEVER
  • 00:15:03.060 --> 00:15:04.020
  • SEEN IT.
  • 00:15:04.020 --> 00:15:04.270
  • IT'S VERY INTERESTING.
  • 00:15:04.270 --> 00:15:05.240
  • MATT HAGEE: AND MEN,
  • 00:15:05.240 --> 00:15:06.200
  • MEN WILL TYPICALLY RUN FROM
  • 00:15:06.200 --> 00:15:08.180
  • WHAT THEY DON'T UNDERSTAND.
  • 00:15:08.180 --> 00:15:10.150
  • DR. MEG MEEKER: EXACTLY.
  • 00:15:10.150 --> 00:15:11.140
  • MATT HAGEE: BETTER TO AVOID IT
  • 00:15:11.140 --> 00:15:12.130
  • THAN CONFRONT THE FACT THAT
  • 00:15:12.130 --> 00:15:13.090
  • I MIGHT NOT KNOW IT; YOU KNOW?
  • 00:15:13.090 --> 00:15:14.190
  • DR. MEG MEEKER: RIGHT.
  • 00:15:14.190 --> 00:15:15.120
  • I WAS RECRUITED ABOUT FIVE
  • 00:15:15.120 --> 00:15:16.110
  • YEARS AGO TO WORK WITH THE NFL.
  • 00:15:16.110 --> 00:15:18.150
  • AND I THOUGHT, THIS IS CRAZY.
  • 00:15:18.150 --> 00:15:20.050
  • WHY DO YOU WANT ME?
  • 00:15:20.050 --> 00:15:20.250
  • I'M A MIDDLE-AGED GRANDMOTHER.
  • 00:15:20.250 --> 00:15:22.150
  • YOU NEED A YOUNG, STRAPPING,
  • 00:15:22.150 --> 00:15:24.030
  • BLACK MAN.
  • 00:15:24.030 --> 00:15:24.280
  • MATT HAGEE: DID THEY GIVE YOU
  • 00:15:24.280 --> 00:15:25.160
  • A WHISTLE?
  • 00:15:25.160 --> 00:15:26.130
  • (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:15:26.130 --> 00:15:27.000
  • DR. MEG MEEKER: NO WHISTLE.
  • 00:15:27.000 --> 00:15:27.270
  • BUT HERE'S THE REASON.
  • 00:15:27.270 --> 00:15:28.200
  • IT'S VERY INTERESTING,
  • 00:15:28.200 --> 00:15:29.170
  • BECAUSE A LOT OF THE MEN DIDN'T
  • 00:15:29.170 --> 00:15:31.170
  • HAVE DADS GROWING UP.
  • 00:15:31.170 --> 00:15:33.240
  • AND THE ONE PERSON THEY WILL
  • 00:15:33.240 --> 00:15:35.180
  • LISTEN TO AND RESPECT IS
  • 00:15:35.180 --> 00:15:37.110
  • A WOMAN THEIR MOTHER'S AGE.
  • 00:15:37.110 --> 00:15:39.040
  • SO THEY RECRUITED ME,
  • 00:15:39.040 --> 00:15:40.040
  • A) BECAUSE I WROTE --
  • 00:15:40.040 --> 00:15:41.120
  • I WRITE FOR KIDS ON WHAT
  • 00:15:41.120 --> 00:15:43.100
  • DADS --
  • 00:15:43.100 --> 00:15:44.090
  • WHAT KIDS NEED FROM A FATHER,
  • 00:15:44.090 --> 00:15:46.130
  • FROM A CHILD'S PERSPECTIVE.
  • 00:15:46.130 --> 00:15:48.060
  • BUT ALSO BECAUSE THEY DIDN'T --
  • 00:15:48.060 --> 00:15:49.210
  • THEY DON'T HAVE FATHER MODELS.
  • 00:15:49.210 --> 00:15:51.260
  • AND WHAT I FOUND IS YOU KNOW
  • 00:15:51.260 --> 00:15:53.100
  • MEN ARE VERY VISUAL PEOPLE,
  • 00:15:53.100 --> 00:15:55.000
  • MUCH MORE VISUAL THAN WOMEN.
  • 00:15:55.000 --> 00:15:56.160
  • THEY'RE VISUAL LEARNERS.
  • 00:15:56.160 --> 00:15:57.250
  • THAT MEANS, AS A TEEN BOY,
  • 00:15:57.250 --> 00:15:59.100
  • YOU NEED TO SEE A MAN BEHAVE
  • 00:15:59.100 --> 00:16:01.130
  • AS A GOOD MAN IN ORDER TO BE
  • 00:16:01.130 --> 00:16:03.120
  • A GOOD MAN.
  • 00:16:03.120 --> 00:16:04.220
  • WOMEN, YOU CAN TALK US
  • 00:16:04.220 --> 00:16:05.250
  • THROUGH IT
  • 00:16:05.250 --> 00:16:06.240
  • AND WE'LL CATCH ON.
  • 00:16:06.240 --> 00:16:07.290
  • MEN NEED TO SEE IT.
  • 00:16:07.290 --> 00:16:09.100
  • AND THAT'S WHY THIS IS
  • 00:16:09.100 --> 00:16:10.060
  • SO CRITICAL AT THIS TIME
  • 00:16:10.060 --> 00:16:11.210
  • IN OUR COUNTRY.
  • 00:16:11.210 --> 00:16:12.200
  • WE, THE CHURCH,
  • 00:16:12.200 --> 00:16:13.240
  • ARE THE ONES WHO ARE GOING
  • 00:16:13.240 --> 00:16:14.230
  • TO SAVE AMERICA REALLY,
  • 00:16:14.230 --> 00:16:16.130
  • AND OUR KIDS.
  • 00:16:16.130 --> 00:16:17.140
  • WE CAN'T RELY ON THE GOVERNMENT.
  • 00:16:17.140 --> 00:16:19.010
  • WE CAN'T RELY ON LEGISLATION
  • 00:16:19.010 --> 00:16:20.230
  • AND LAWS.
  • 00:16:20.230 --> 00:16:21.230
  • WE CAN PROTECT OUR SCHOOLS.
  • 00:16:21.230 --> 00:16:23.010
  • IF WE DON'T GET OUR MEN
  • 00:16:23.010 --> 00:16:25.060
  • BACK IN OUR HOMES,
  • 00:16:25.060 --> 00:16:27.020
  • WOE TO US.
  • 00:16:27.020 --> 00:16:28.080
  • AND WHAT IS GOING TO HAPPEN
  • 00:16:28.080 --> 00:16:29.190
  • TO OUR COUNTRY?
  • 00:16:29.190 --> 00:16:30.210
  • BECAUSE THE FAMILY WILL FALL
  • 00:16:30.210 --> 00:16:32.100
  • APART.
  • 00:16:32.100 --> 00:16:33.100
  • YOU TAKE THE FATHER OUT OF
  • 00:16:33.100 --> 00:16:34.060
  • THE HOME,
  • 00:16:34.060 --> 00:16:35.050
  • AND YOU TAKE THE FATHER OUT OF
  • 00:16:35.050 --> 00:16:36.220
  • A NEIGHBORHOOD,
  • 00:16:36.220 --> 00:16:37.180
  • YOU TAKE THE FATHER OUT OF
  • 00:16:37.180 --> 00:16:38.160
  • A CITY OR A TOWN,
  • 00:16:38.160 --> 00:16:40.060
  • AND EVERYTHING BEGINS TO FALL
  • 00:16:40.060 --> 00:16:41.210
  • APART.
  • 00:16:41.210 --> 00:16:42.140
  • IT'S A REALITY WE HAVE TO FACE.
  • 00:16:42.140 --> 00:16:44.060
  • AND IF WE DON'T DO SOMETHING
  • 00:16:44.060 --> 00:16:45.030
  • ABOUT IT,
  • 00:16:45.030 --> 00:16:45.260
  • AS ONE MAN TO ONE MAN --
  • 00:16:45.260 --> 00:16:48.110
  • AND I ENCOURAGE EVERY MAN,
  • 00:16:48.110 --> 00:16:50.180
  • IF YOU DON'T HAVE A SON,
  • 00:16:50.180 --> 00:16:52.030
  • FIND A BOY AND HELP HIM.
  • 00:16:52.030 --> 00:16:54.060
  • YOU KNOW, BE THAT ROLE MODEL
  • 00:16:54.060 --> 00:16:55.260
  • IN HIS LIFE.
  • 00:16:55.260 --> 00:16:56.270
  • IF YOU'RE A COACH,
  • 00:16:56.270 --> 00:16:58.060
  • WORK HARDER WITH THE YOUNG MEN.
  • 00:16:58.060 --> 00:17:00.060
  • AND REALLY IT'S MORE IMPORTANT
  • 00:17:00.060 --> 00:17:01.150
  • FOR YOUNG BOYS.
  • 00:17:01.150 --> 00:17:03.210
  • IT'S VERY IMPORTANT FOR YOUNG
  • 00:17:03.210 --> 00:17:04.260
  • GIRLS TO HAVE A STRONG MALE
  • 00:17:04.260 --> 00:17:06.240
  • INFLUENCE.
  • 00:17:06.240 --> 00:17:08.040
  • BUT IT'S MORE IMPORTANT EVEN
  • 00:17:08.040 --> 00:17:09.040
  • FOR BOYS,
  • 00:17:09.040 --> 00:17:09.260
  • BECAUSE BOYS NEED TO SEE A GOOD
  • 00:17:09.260 --> 00:17:11.070
  • MAN TO BECOME A GOOD MAN.
  • 00:17:11.070 --> 00:17:13.060
  • AND GIRLS CAN BECOME A GOOD
  • 00:17:13.060 --> 00:17:14.210
  • WOMAN WITH A TEACHING.
  • 00:17:14.240 --> 00:17:17.240
  • MATT HAGEE: WELL,
  • 00:17:17.240 --> 00:17:18.160
  • WHEN WE COME BACK,
  • 00:17:18.160 --> 00:17:19.070
  • WE'RE GOING TO TALK WITH
  • 00:17:19.070 --> 00:17:20.080
  • DR. MEEKER,
  • 00:17:20.080 --> 00:17:21.030
  • NOT ONLY ABOUT THE IMPORTANCE
  • 00:17:21.030 --> 00:17:22.220
  • OF FATHERS,
  • 00:17:22.220 --> 00:17:23.170
  • BUT THE COMPLIMENT TO FATHERS,
  • 00:17:23.170 --> 00:17:25.210
  • WHICH IS MOTHERS.
  • 00:17:25.210 --> 00:17:26.230
  • SHE'S WRITTEN ABOUT THE ENTIRE
  • 00:17:26.230 --> 00:17:28.020
  • FAMILY.
  • 00:17:28.020 --> 00:17:28.220
  • AND I ASSURE YOU THERE'S
  • 00:17:28.220 --> 00:17:29.150
  • INFORMATION THAT YOU NEED TO
  • 00:17:29.150 --> 00:17:30.140
  • HEAR IN THIS NEXT SEGMENT ABOUT
  • 00:17:30.140 --> 00:17:32.200
  • WHAT IT TAKES TO BE A HAPPY
  • 00:17:32.200 --> 00:17:34.050
  • MOTHER.
  • 00:17:34.050 --> 00:17:35.000
  • YOU'RE WATCHING THE DIFFERENCE.
  • 00:17:35.000 --> 00:17:35.250
  • WE'LL BE RIGHT BACK AFTER THIS.
  • 00:17:35.250 --> 00:17:37.220
  • MUSIC
  • 00:17:37.220 --> 00:17:39.080
  • WHEN YOU GIVE TO
  • 00:17:39.080 --> 00:17:40.030
  • SANCTUARY OF HOPE,
  • 00:17:40.030 --> 00:17:40.280
  • YOU ARE GIVING A CHILD A CHANCE
  • 00:17:40.280 --> 00:17:42.070
  • AT LIFE AND A HOPEFUL FUTURE.
  • 00:17:42.070 --> 00:17:44.150
  • FOR YOUR GIFT OF $50 OR MORE,
  • 00:17:44.150 --> 00:17:46.060
  • YOU WILL RECEIVE AS A GIFT,
  • 00:17:46.060 --> 00:17:47.190
  • A SPECIAL COFFEE MUG,
  • 00:17:47.190 --> 00:17:49.010
  • AN INSPIRING PRAYER JOURNAL,
  • 00:17:49.010 --> 00:17:50.170
  • AND DR. MEG MEEKER'S BOOK,
  • 00:17:50.170 --> 00:17:52.090
  • "HERO."
  • 00:17:52.090 --> 00:17:53.060
  • AND FOR A GIFT OF $150 OR MORE,
  • 00:17:53.060 --> 00:17:55.160
  • YOU WILL RECEIVE ALL THREE
  • 00:17:55.160 --> 00:17:56.260
  • GIFTS,
  • 00:17:56.260 --> 00:17:57.100
  • ALONG WITH A FRAMED WALL ART
  • 00:17:57.100 --> 00:17:58.200
  • FEATURING A FAMILIAR BLESSING
  • 00:17:58.200 --> 00:18:00.040
  • FROM PASTOR HAGEE.
  • 00:18:00.040 --> 00:18:01.100
  • PASTOR JOHN HAGEE: AND NOW MAY
  • 00:18:01.100 --> 00:18:02.040
  • THE LORD BLESS YOU AND KEEP
  • 00:18:02.040 --> 00:18:03.020
  • YOU.
  • 00:18:03.020 --> 00:18:04.060
  • MAY THE LORD MAKE HIS FACE...
  • 00:18:04.060 --> 00:18:05.030
  • CALL THE NUMBER ON THE SCREEN
  • 00:18:05.030 --> 00:18:05.290
  • OR VISIT JHM.ORG.
  • 00:18:05.290 --> 00:18:08.110
  • MUSIC
  • 00:18:08.110 --> 00:18:09.090
  • SANCTUARY OF HOPE
  • 00:18:09.090 --> 00:18:10.200
  • WILL YOU HELP US CHANGE
  • 00:18:10.200 --> 00:18:11.200
  • THE WORLD ONE LIFE AT A TIME?
  • 00:18:11.200 --> 00:18:13.130
  • TO SHOW OUR APPRECIATION,
  • 00:18:13.130 --> 00:18:15.020
  • EVERY GIFT OF $500 OR MORE
  • 00:18:15.020 --> 00:18:17.040
  • WILL RECEIVE A FRAMED PAINTING
  • 00:18:17.040 --> 00:18:18.160
  • ENTITLED "HOPE AND LIBERTY;"
  • 00:18:18.160 --> 00:18:20.100
  • FOR $1500 OR MORE,
  • 00:18:20.100 --> 00:18:21.280
  • A "FOREVER FREE" BRONZE
  • 00:18:21.280 --> 00:18:23.010
  • STATUE;
  • 00:18:23.010 --> 00:18:23.240
  • AND FOR GIFTS OVER $2500,
  • 00:18:23.240 --> 00:18:26.070
  • A TREE PLANTED WITH
  • 00:18:26.070 --> 00:18:27.050
  • A PERSONALIZED PLAQUE
  • 00:18:27.050 --> 00:18:28.100
  • ON THE SANCTUARY OF HOPE CAMPUS,
  • 00:18:28.100 --> 00:18:30.130
  • PLUS YOUR CHOICE BETWEEN
  • 00:18:30.130 --> 00:18:31.240
  • THE PAINTING OR STATUE
  • 00:18:31.240 --> 00:18:33.030
  • AS A THANK YOU
  • 00:18:33.030 --> 00:18:33.220
  • FOR YOUR GENEROUS SUPPORT.
  • 00:18:33.220 --> 00:18:35.010
  • FOR MORE INFORMATION,
  • 00:18:35.010 --> 00:18:36.010
  • CALL THE NUMBER ON THE SCREEN
  • 00:18:36.010 --> 00:18:37.090
  • OR VISIT OUR WEBSITE.
  • 00:18:37.090 --> 00:18:39.020
  • MUSIC
  • 00:18:39.020 --> 00:18:39.210
  • DEAR PASTOR HAGEE,
  • 00:18:39.210 --> 00:18:41.010
  • I JUST WANTED TO WRITE YOU
  • 00:18:41.010 --> 00:18:42.150
  • TO SAY HOW HONORED RAYLA JEAN
  • 00:18:42.150 --> 00:18:43.270
  • AND I ARE TO HAVE BEEN PARTNERS
  • 00:18:43.270 --> 00:18:45.180
  • IN YOUR MINISTRY
  • 00:18:45.180 --> 00:18:46.110
  • ALL THESE YEARS
  • 00:18:46.110 --> 00:18:47.130
  • AND TO SEE ALL THE AMAZING
  • 00:18:47.130 --> 00:18:48.140
  • THINGS YOU'VE ACCOMPLISHED
  • 00:18:48.140 --> 00:18:49.150
  • AROUND THE WORLD
  • 00:18:49.150 --> 00:18:50.130
  • WITH THE GIFTS WE AND OTHERS
  • 00:18:50.130 --> 00:18:51.170
  • LIKE US HAD GLADLY GIVEN
  • 00:18:51.170 --> 00:18:52.290
  • OVER THE YEARS.
  • 00:18:52.290 --> 00:18:53.290
  • PASTOR JOHN HAGEE: I WANT
  • 00:18:53.290 --> 00:18:55.020
  • TO THANK YOU FOR MAKING
  • 00:18:55.020 --> 00:18:55.240
  • IT POSSIBLE FOR US TO PREACH
  • 00:18:55.240 --> 00:18:56.280
  • THE GOSPEL TO THE NATIONS
  • 00:18:56.280 --> 00:18:58.070
  • OF THE WORLD.
  • 00:18:58.070 --> 00:18:59.080
  • THANK YOU AND GOD BLESS YOU.
  • 00:18:59.080 --> 00:19:01.090
  • BECOME A PARTNER TODAY.
  • 00:19:01.090 --> 00:19:02.260
  • CALL THE TOLL-FREE NUMBER
  • 00:19:02.260 --> 00:19:04.090
  • OR VISIT JHM.ORG.
  • 00:19:04.090 --> 00:19:06.270
  • MUSIC
  • 00:19:08.100 --> 00:19:11.100
  • MATT HAGEE: KENDAL AND I HAVE
  • 00:19:11.100 --> 00:19:12.050
  • SO ENJOYED HAVING
  • 00:19:12.050 --> 00:19:13.000
  • DR. MEG MEEKER HERE WITH US
  • 00:19:13.000 --> 00:19:13.280
  • TODAY.
  • 00:19:13.280 --> 00:19:14.170
  • AND WE'VE BEEN TALKING ABOUT
  • 00:19:14.170 --> 00:19:15.270
  • "HERO,"
  • 00:19:15.270 --> 00:19:17.040
  • THE ROLE THAT FATHERS PLAY.
  • 00:19:17.040 --> 00:19:19.010
  • WITH FATHER'S DAY COMING UP,
  • 00:19:19.010 --> 00:19:20.070
  • I KNOW MANY OF YOU ARE
  • 00:19:20.070 --> 00:19:21.250
  • CERTAINLY INTERESTED IN
  • 00:19:21.250 --> 00:19:23.080
  • INSPIRING THE HERO IN YOUR LIFE.
  • 00:19:23.080 --> 00:19:25.110
  • BUT YOU ALSO WRITE ABOUT
  • 00:19:25.110 --> 00:19:27.010
  • THE ENTIRE FAMILY SPECTRUM.
  • 00:19:27.010 --> 00:19:28.130
  • AND ONE OF THE BOOKS THAT
  • 00:19:28.130 --> 00:19:29.290
  • YOU'VE WRITTEN THAT REALLY HAS
  • 00:19:29.290 --> 00:19:31.210
  • BEEN A TOPIC OF CONVERSATION
  • 00:19:31.210 --> 00:19:33.190
  • BETWEEN KENDAL AND I IS --
  • 00:19:33.190 --> 00:19:34.270
  • KENDAL HAGEE: YES.
  • 00:19:34.270 --> 00:19:35.200
  • I HAVE IT IN MY AUDIBLE APP,
  • 00:19:35.200 --> 00:19:36.150
  • "THE TEN HABITS OF HAPPY
  • 00:19:36.150 --> 00:19:37.260
  • MOTHERS."
  • 00:19:37.260 --> 00:19:38.190
  • AND THAT JUST RESONATED WITH ME,
  • 00:19:38.190 --> 00:19:40.130
  • BECAUSE I WAS ABLE TO LISTEN
  • 00:19:40.130 --> 00:19:41.120
  • TO IT.
  • 00:19:41.120 --> 00:19:41.260
  • AND YOU GAVE SPECIFIC TEN
  • 00:19:41.260 --> 00:19:43.160
  • HABITS THAT WE COULD PRACTICE
  • 00:19:43.160 --> 00:19:44.200
  • AT MOTHERS FROM OVERCOMING FEAR
  • 00:19:44.200 --> 00:19:47.140
  • TO OVERCOMING LIKE WE NEED
  • 00:19:47.140 --> 00:19:48.180
  • TO HAVE SOLITUDE.
  • 00:19:48.180 --> 00:19:49.150
  • WE DO NEED OUR LITTLE ALONE
  • 00:19:49.150 --> 00:19:50.210
  • SPACE TIME.
  • 00:19:50.210 --> 00:19:52.010
  • AND IT'S JUST A GREAT BOOK.
  • 00:19:52.010 --> 00:19:53.120
  • CAN YOU TELL US A LITTLE BIT
  • 00:19:53.120 --> 00:19:54.030
  • ABOUT THAT?
  • 00:19:54.030 --> 00:19:55.060
  • DR. MEG MEEKER: THANK YOU.
  • 00:19:55.060 --> 00:19:55.240
  • SURE.
  • 00:19:55.240 --> 00:19:56.150
  • YOU KNOW I'LL TELL YOU A LITTLE
  • 00:19:56.150 --> 00:19:57.080
  • SECRET.
  • 00:19:57.080 --> 00:19:58.000
  • I PATTERNED IT AFTER
  • 00:19:58.000 --> 00:19:58.230
  • RICHARD FOSTER'S,
  • 00:19:58.230 --> 00:19:59.110
  • CELEBRATION OF DISCIPLINE,
  • 00:19:59.110 --> 00:20:00.020
  • OF THE DISCIPLINES,
  • 00:20:00.020 --> 00:20:00.280
  • THE SPIRITUAL DISCIPLINES,
  • 00:20:00.280 --> 00:20:02.040
  • BECAUSE I REALLY,
  • 00:20:02.040 --> 00:20:04.150
  • SECOND TO READING SCRIPTURE,
  • 00:20:04.150 --> 00:20:05.280
  • THAT REALLY SPEAKS TO ME
  • 00:20:05.280 --> 00:20:07.050
  • AND HELPS ME CENTER
  • 00:20:07.050 --> 00:20:08.240
  • THE IDEA OF SIMPLICITY.
  • 00:20:08.240 --> 00:20:10.110
  • BUT REALLY ONE OF THE THINGS
  • 00:20:10.110 --> 00:20:11.160
  • I FOUND IS THAT MOTHERS
  • 00:20:11.160 --> 00:20:13.020
  • ARE RIDING THE CRAZY TRAIN
  • 00:20:13.020 --> 00:20:14.150
  • THESE DAYS;
  • 00:20:14.150 --> 00:20:15.150
  • YOU KNOW?
  • 00:20:15.150 --> 00:20:16.090
  • WE'RE ALL ABOARD.
  • 00:20:16.090 --> 00:20:17.090
  • KENDAL HAGEE: FROM ONE EVENT
  • 00:20:17.090 --> 00:20:18.000
  • TO THE NEXT.
  • 00:20:18.000 --> 00:20:18.240
  • DR. MEG MEEKER: WE GO FROM ONE,
  • 00:20:18.240 --> 00:20:19.190
  • AND WE'RE GOING FASTER, FASTER,
  • 00:20:19.190 --> 00:20:20.160
  • FASTER.
  • 00:20:20.160 --> 00:20:21.080
  • AND WE ALL KIND OF WANT TO GET
  • 00:20:21.080 --> 00:20:22.020
  • OFF,
  • 00:20:22.020 --> 00:20:22.250
  • BUT WE REALLY DON'T KNOW WHERE
  • 00:20:22.250 --> 00:20:23.180
  • TO START.
  • 00:20:23.180 --> 00:20:24.120
  • AND I FIND THAT MOTHERS ARE
  • 00:20:24.120 --> 00:20:25.150
  • SO FRAZZLED AND SO EXHAUSTED.
  • 00:20:25.150 --> 00:20:27.220
  • AND MANY MOTHERS GO TO BED AT
  • 00:20:27.220 --> 00:20:29.000
  • THE END OF THE DAY THINKING
  • 00:20:29.000 --> 00:20:30.160
  • YOU KNOW I JUST DIDN'T DO THIS
  • 00:20:30.160 --> 00:20:32.090
  • AND I DIDN'T DO THAT.
  • 00:20:32.090 --> 00:20:33.170
  • THEY HAVE A RUNNING LIST
  • 00:20:33.170 --> 00:20:34.220
  • IN THEIR HEAD OF ALL THE THINGS
  • 00:20:34.220 --> 00:20:36.030
  • THEY NEED TO DO AND
  • 00:20:36.030 --> 00:20:36.290
  • THEY'RE ALWAYS FALLING SHORT.
  • 00:20:36.290 --> 00:20:38.150
  • AND I THOUGHT,
  • 00:20:38.150 --> 00:20:39.070
  • THAT'S NOT THE WAY MOTHERS ARE
  • 00:20:39.070 --> 00:20:40.080
  • SUPPOSED TO LIVE.
  • 00:20:40.080 --> 00:20:41.130
  • WE'RE SUPPOSED TO LIVE
  • 00:20:41.130 --> 00:20:42.040
  • IN GRATITUDE.
  • 00:20:42.040 --> 00:20:43.090
  • WE'RE SUPPOSED TO SIMPLIFY.
  • 00:20:43.090 --> 00:20:44.270
  • WE'RE SUPPOSED TO LET GO.
  • 00:20:44.270 --> 00:20:46.120
  • AND I THINK THAT PARTICULARLY
  • 00:20:46.120 --> 00:20:47.120
  • CHRISTIAN MOTHERS,
  • 00:20:47.120 --> 00:20:48.120
  • BECAUSE OUR LIST IS JUST
  • 00:20:48.120 --> 00:20:49.220
  • A LITTLE LONGER THAN ALL
  • 00:20:49.220 --> 00:20:51.070
  • THE OTHER MOTHER'S LISTS,
  • 00:20:51.070 --> 00:20:52.290
  • BECAUSE WE HAVE TO ADD PRAYER
  • 00:20:52.290 --> 00:20:54.030
  • AND FELLOWSHIP AND DEVOTION,
  • 00:20:54.030 --> 00:20:56.000
  • AND ALL THE OTHER --
  • 00:20:56.000 --> 00:20:56.260
  • KENDAL HAGEE: AND CHURCH.
  • 00:20:56.260 --> 00:20:57.130
  • DR. MEG MEEKER: YES,
  • 00:20:57.130 --> 00:20:58.020
  • AND ALL THE OTHER THINGS,
  • 00:20:58.020 --> 00:20:58.260
  • SERVICE AND --
  • 00:20:58.260 --> 00:20:59.110
  • MATT HAGEE: FOOD.
  • 00:20:59.110 --> 00:21:00.130
  • DR. MEG MEEKER: WELL,
  • 00:21:00.130 --> 00:21:01.070
  • THAT'S HOW WE LOVE PEOPLE.
  • 00:21:01.070 --> 00:21:02.070
  • KENDAL HAGEE: WE DO.
  • 00:21:02.070 --> 00:21:03.000
  • DR. MEG MEEKER: THAT'S HOW
  • 00:21:03.000 --> 00:21:03.230
  • I LOVE PEOPLE IS BY COOKING
  • 00:21:03.230 --> 00:21:04.250
  • FOR THEM, YOU KNOW,
  • 00:21:04.250 --> 00:21:05.150
  • SO I LOVE IT.
  • 00:21:05.150 --> 00:21:06.100
  • MATT HAGEE: I LOVE BEING LOVED.
  • 00:21:06.100 --> 00:21:07.140
  • DR. MEG MEEKER: SO REALLY WHAT
  • 00:21:07.140 --> 00:21:08.100
  • I WANTED TO DO, KENDAL,
  • 00:21:08.100 --> 00:21:09.100
  • I WANTED TO WRITE A BOOK
  • 00:21:09.100 --> 00:21:10.110
  • THAT SAID TO MOTHERS,
  • 00:21:10.110 --> 00:21:11.060
  • OKAY; LET'S JUST TAKE A BIG,
  • 00:21:11.060 --> 00:21:12.200
  • DEEP BREATH AND LET'S FOCUS
  • 00:21:12.200 --> 00:21:14.160
  • ON THE THINGS THAT ARE REALLY
  • 00:21:14.160 --> 00:21:15.270
  • IMPORTANT IN LIFE THAT WILL
  • 00:21:15.270 --> 00:21:17.050
  • MAKE YOU FEEL CENTERED,
  • 00:21:17.050 --> 00:21:18.180
  • AND WHOLE, AND HAPPY.
  • 00:21:18.180 --> 00:21:20.270
  • BECAUSE IF YOU'RE HAPPY IN
  • 00:21:20.270 --> 00:21:22.130
  • THE HOME; GUESS WHAT ELSE?
  • 00:21:22.130 --> 00:21:24.030
  • KENDAL HAGEE: IF MAMA'S HAPPY,
  • 00:21:24.030 --> 00:21:24.230
  • EVERYONE'S HAPPY.
  • 00:21:24.230 --> 00:21:26.080
  • DR. MEG MEEKER: IT'S TRUE.
  • 00:21:26.080 --> 00:21:27.010
  • MATT HAGEE: THE BIBLE TALKS
  • 00:21:27.010 --> 00:21:27.260
  • ABOUT THAT IN PSALMS.
  • 00:21:27.260 --> 00:21:28.250
  • IT SAYS, YOU KNOW,
  • 00:21:28.250 --> 00:21:29.170
  • THAT YOUR WIFE IS A FRUITFUL
  • 00:21:29.170 --> 00:21:30.120
  • VINE.
  • 00:21:30.120 --> 00:21:31.070
  • AND THAT YOUR CHILDREN ARE
  • 00:21:31.070 --> 00:21:32.050
  • LITTLE PLANTS AROUND YOUR
  • 00:21:32.050 --> 00:21:32.260
  • TABLE.
  • 00:21:32.260 --> 00:21:33.160
  • WELL, THE VINE DETERMINES
  • 00:21:33.160 --> 00:21:34.120
  • THE QUALITY OF THE FRUIT.
  • 00:21:34.120 --> 00:21:35.180
  • IF SHE'S HAPPY,
  • 00:21:35.180 --> 00:21:36.100
  • THE FRUIT'S HAPPY,
  • 00:21:36.100 --> 00:21:37.080
  • AND DAD'S HAPPY.
  • 00:21:37.080 --> 00:21:38.170
  • DR. MEG MEEKER: EXACTLY.
  • 00:21:38.170 --> 00:21:39.060
  • MATT HAGEE: IF SHE'S BITTER,
  • 00:21:39.060 --> 00:21:39.270
  • THE FRUIT'S BITTER,
  • 00:21:39.270 --> 00:21:40.210
  • AND NOTHING GOOD GETS MADE OUT
  • 00:21:40.210 --> 00:21:41.230
  • OF THAT.
  • 00:21:41.230 --> 00:21:42.200
  • AND THE THING THAT I REALLY
  • 00:21:42.200 --> 00:21:44.170
  • HAVE APPRECIATED,
  • 00:21:44.170 --> 00:21:45.150
  • AND IT WAS AN AFFIRMATION
  • 00:21:45.150 --> 00:21:46.110
  • FOR KENDAL AND I,
  • 00:21:46.110 --> 00:21:48.110
  • SHE COMES FROM A MEDICAL
  • 00:21:48.110 --> 00:21:49.200
  • BACKGROUND.
  • 00:21:49.200 --> 00:21:50.090
  • SHE'S A NURSE.
  • 00:21:50.090 --> 00:21:52.000
  • AND AS YOU KNOW IN MEDICINE,
  • 00:21:52.000 --> 00:21:53.130
  • HABIT IS EVERYTHING.
  • 00:21:53.130 --> 00:21:54.230
  • DR. MEG MEEKER: YES.
  • 00:21:54.230 --> 00:21:55.160
  • MATT HAGEE: ROUTINE IS
  • 00:21:55.160 --> 00:21:56.110
  • EVERYTHING.
  • 00:21:56.110 --> 00:21:57.010
  • DR. MEG MEEKER: YES.
  • 00:21:57.010 --> 00:21:57.210
  • MATT HAGEE: YOU KNOW WHEN I
  • 00:21:57.210 --> 00:21:58.190
  • FIRST MARRIED KENDAL AND WHEN
  • 00:21:58.190 --> 00:21:59.090
  • WE BECAME PARENTS,
  • 00:21:59.090 --> 00:22:00.210
  • I THOUGHT I WAS FILLING OUT
  • 00:22:00.210 --> 00:22:01.160
  • MEDICAL CHARTS ABOUT WHAT
  • 00:22:01.160 --> 00:22:02.210
  • THE BABY ATE,
  • 00:22:02.210 --> 00:22:03.120
  • AND WHEN THEY WOKE UP,
  • 00:22:03.120 --> 00:22:04.020
  • AND WHEN THEY DID ALL THIS.
  • 00:22:04.020 --> 00:22:05.120
  • BUT IT WAS THOSE HABITS THAT
  • 00:22:05.120 --> 00:22:06.220
  • REALLY ESTABLISHED A PATTERN
  • 00:22:06.220 --> 00:22:08.170
  • OF PEACE IN OUR HOME;
  • 00:22:08.270 --> 00:22:11.270
  • THAT EVEN OUR CHILDREN,
  • 00:22:11.270 --> 00:22:12.290
  • AS THEY'VE GOTTEN OLDER,
  • 00:22:12.290 --> 00:22:14.120
  • YOU KNOW,
  • 00:22:14.120 --> 00:22:15.020
  • IT'S THE FUNNIEST THING
  • 00:22:15.020 --> 00:22:15.220
  • IN THE WORLD.
  • 00:22:15.220 --> 00:22:16.090
  • IF MY FIVE YEAR OLD IS UP PAST
  • 00:22:16.090 --> 00:22:18.120
  • HER BEDTIME AND GETS UPSET,
  • 00:22:18.120 --> 00:22:20.120
  • SHE'S LIKE, I SHOULD BE IN BED.
  • 00:22:20.120 --> 00:22:22.150
  • YOU KNOW EVEN SHE KNOWS
  • 00:22:22.150 --> 00:22:23.200
  • THE HABIT.
  • 00:22:23.200 --> 00:22:25.020
  • AND IT BECOMES THIS SOURCE OF
  • 00:22:25.020 --> 00:22:27.280
  • COMFORT THAT REALLY BRINGS
  • 00:22:27.280 --> 00:22:30.000
  • A STABILITY TO LIFE INSTEAD
  • 00:22:30.000 --> 00:22:31.130
  • OF WHAT'S NEXT; YOU KNOW?
  • 00:22:31.130 --> 00:22:33.070
  • DR. MEG MEEKER: EXACTLY.
  • 00:22:33.070 --> 00:22:34.060
  • KENDAL HAGEE: I ALSO THINK
  • 00:22:34.060 --> 00:22:34.270
  • THERE'S A BALANCE,
  • 00:22:34.270 --> 00:22:35.160
  • BECAUSE SOMETIMES I FEEL LIKE
  • 00:22:35.160 --> 00:22:36.090
  • I WAS TOO STRUCTURED;
  • 00:22:36.090 --> 00:22:37.100
  • THAT I SHOULD BE MORE RELAXED,
  • 00:22:37.100 --> 00:22:38.220
  • OR YOU KNOW TAKEN OFF THE
  • 00:22:38.220 --> 00:22:40.050
  • LABELS OF "AM I DOING ENOUGH."
  • 00:22:40.050 --> 00:22:41.210
  • YOU KNOW I HAVE THAT LIST AND
  • 00:22:41.210 --> 00:22:43.060
  • MY LIST KEEPS GOING ON AND ON.
  • 00:22:43.060 --> 00:22:45.030
  • BUT HOW DOES A MOTHER --
  • 00:22:45.030 --> 00:22:45.250
  • HOW DOES SHE JUST, YOU KNOW,
  • 00:22:45.250 --> 00:22:47.160
  • KNOW WHO SHE IS?
  • 00:22:47.160 --> 00:22:48.130
  • AND LIKE EVEN TAKING THE KIDS
  • 00:22:48.130 --> 00:22:49.110
  • TO SCHOOL THIS MORNING,
  • 00:22:49.110 --> 00:22:50.130
  • I TURNED OFF THE DVD'S.
  • 00:22:50.130 --> 00:22:51.200
  • THERE'S SO MUCH ELECTRONIC
  • 00:22:51.200 --> 00:22:52.270
  • NOISE AT OUR KIDS,
  • 00:22:52.270 --> 00:22:54.000
  • AND THEIR PHONES.
  • 00:22:54.000 --> 00:22:54.250
  • AND I'M JUST LIKE,
  • 00:22:54.250 --> 00:22:55.250
  • HOW DO I JUST MAKE SURE THAT I
  • 00:22:55.250 --> 00:22:57.060
  • KEEP EVERYBODY IN CHECK,
  • 00:22:57.060 --> 00:22:59.010
  • IN BALANCE,
  • 00:22:59.010 --> 00:22:59.220
  • AND STILL BE --
  • 00:22:59.220 --> 00:23:00.190
  • DR. MEG MEEKER: WELL,
  • 00:23:00.190 --> 00:23:01.120
  • I THINK THAT QUIET AND SOLITUDE,
  • 00:23:01.120 --> 00:23:02.270
  • YOU KNOW WHICH GO HAND IN HAND,
  • 00:23:02.270 --> 00:23:04.020
  • ARE VERY, VERY IMPORTANT.
  • 00:23:04.020 --> 00:23:05.110
  • IF YOU THINK ABOUT THE WAY WE
  • 00:23:05.110 --> 00:23:06.080
  • GO THROUGH OUR DAYS,
  • 00:23:06.080 --> 00:23:07.090
  • THERE'S SO MUCH NOISE,
  • 00:23:07.090 --> 00:23:09.050
  • SO MUCH STIMULATION.
  • 00:23:09.050 --> 00:23:10.220
  • WE'RE REALLY IN FLIGHT MODE ALL
  • 00:23:10.220 --> 00:23:12.120
  • THE TIME, WAITING, WAITING,
  • 00:23:12.120 --> 00:23:13.280
  • WAITING, GETTING READY,
  • 00:23:13.280 --> 00:23:14.240
  • GETTING READY.
  • 00:23:14.240 --> 00:23:15.140
  • AND I DON'T THINK THAT GOD
  • 00:23:15.140 --> 00:23:16.110
  • WANTS US TO LIVE THAT WAY.
  • 00:23:16.110 --> 00:23:17.270
  • SO EVEN TAKING WHAT I TRY
  • 00:23:17.270 --> 00:23:19.080
  • TO TALK ABOUT IN THE BOOK IS
  • 00:23:19.080 --> 00:23:20.080
  • TAKING SMALL, LITTLE STEPS,
  • 00:23:20.080 --> 00:23:22.010
  • TURNING OFF THE RADIO.
  • 00:23:22.010 --> 00:23:23.140
  • IF YOU'RE IN A CAR WAITING
  • 00:23:23.140 --> 00:23:24.110
  • TO PICK UP YOUR KIDS,
  • 00:23:24.110 --> 00:23:25.090
  • TURN THE RADIO OFF AND JUST SIT
  • 00:23:25.090 --> 00:23:26.220
  • THERE QUIETLY.
  • 00:23:26.220 --> 00:23:27.260
  • LEARN TO LIVE WITH A LITTLE BIT
  • 00:23:27.260 --> 00:23:29.130
  • OF STILLNESS.
  • 00:23:29.130 --> 00:23:30.240
  • AND THAT'S -- AND THAT DRAWS US
  • 00:23:30.240 --> 00:23:32.170
  • SO MUCH CLOSER TO CHRIST.
  • 00:23:32.170 --> 00:23:34.230
  • KENDAL HAGEE: IT DOES.
  • 00:23:34.230 --> 00:23:35.150
  • DR. MEG MEEKER: BECAUSE THAT'S
  • 00:23:35.150 --> 00:23:36.110
  • WHEN HE CAN REALLY,
  • 00:23:36.110 --> 00:23:37.050
  • REALLY SPEAK TO US,
  • 00:23:37.050 --> 00:23:38.090
  • AND WE CAN REALLY LISTEN,
  • 00:23:38.090 --> 00:23:39.160
  • AND HE CAN REALLY LISTEN TO US.
  • 00:23:39.160 --> 00:23:41.100
  • AND I THINK THAT REALLY,
  • 00:23:41.100 --> 00:23:43.120
  • YOU KNOW, QUIET BEGETS QUIET.
  • 00:23:43.120 --> 00:23:45.130
  • THE MORE SOLITUDE AND THE MORE
  • 00:23:45.130 --> 00:23:46.200
  • QUIET YOU HAVE,
  • 00:23:46.200 --> 00:23:47.160
  • THE MORE YOU WANT,
  • 00:23:47.160 --> 00:23:48.220
  • BECAUSE YOU REALIZE THAT IT
  • 00:23:48.220 --> 00:23:49.180
  • FEELS GOOD.
  • 00:23:49.180 --> 00:23:50.210
  • AND REALLY ONCE YOU START TO
  • 00:23:50.210 --> 00:23:51.260
  • ESTABLISH A FEW HEALTHY HABITS,
  • 00:23:52.230 --> 00:23:55.230
  • YOU CRAVE THEM.
  • 00:23:55.230 --> 00:23:56.290
  • MATT HAGEE: WELL,
  • 00:23:56.290 --> 00:23:57.220
  • AND A LITTLE GOES A LONG WAY.
  • 00:23:57.220 --> 00:23:59.000
  • DR. MEG MEEKER: YES, IT DOES.
  • 00:23:59.000 --> 00:24:00.090
  • MATT HAGEE: YOU KNOW IF YOU CAN
  • 00:24:00.090 --> 00:24:01.090
  • REALLY GET IN A PEACEFUL PLACE,
  • 00:24:01.090 --> 00:24:02.010
  • YOU DON'T HAVE TO STAY THERE
  • 00:24:02.010 --> 00:24:02.240
  • ALL WEEK.
  • 00:24:02.240 --> 00:24:03.150
  • YOU CAN STAY THERE A DAY
  • 00:24:03.150 --> 00:24:04.140
  • AND IT'LL CHARGE YOU UP
  • 00:24:04.140 --> 00:24:05.100
  • FOR THE REST OF THE WEEK.
  • 00:24:05.100 --> 00:24:06.060
  • DR. MEG MEEKER: EXACTLY.
  • 00:24:06.060 --> 00:24:06.290
  • MATT HAGEE: YOU KNOW
  • 00:24:06.290 --> 00:24:07.250
  • THAT'S KIND OF THE BALANCE OF
  • 00:24:07.250 --> 00:24:08.230
  • THE CIRCADIAN RHYTHM IS
  • 00:24:08.230 --> 00:24:09.200
  • SIX YOU WORK AND ONE YOU REST;
  • 00:24:09.200 --> 00:24:10.180
  • YOU KNOW?
  • 00:24:10.180 --> 00:24:11.110
  • DR. MEG MEEKER: YES.
  • 00:24:11.110 --> 00:24:12.030
  • MATT HAGEE: BUT IN THE TIME WE
  • 00:24:12.030 --> 00:24:12.260
  • HAVE LEFT,
  • 00:24:12.260 --> 00:24:13.170
  • THE REASON I WANTED TO BRING UP
  • 00:24:13.170 --> 00:24:14.080
  • THE TEN HABITS OF HAPPY MOTHERS
  • 00:24:14.080 --> 00:24:15.160
  • IS BECAUSE I THINK
  • 00:24:15.160 --> 00:24:16.100
  • A VERY IMPORTANT POINT
  • 00:24:16.100 --> 00:24:17.180
  • FOR THE VIEWERS
  • 00:24:17.180 --> 00:24:18.100
  • WHO ARE WATCHING AT HOME,
  • 00:24:18.100 --> 00:24:19.220
  • IS THAT FATHERHOOD AND
  • 00:24:19.220 --> 00:24:20.200
  • MOTHERHOOD ARE NOT COMPETING
  • 00:24:20.200 --> 00:24:22.130
  • RELATIONSHIPS;
  • 00:24:22.130 --> 00:24:23.200
  • THEY'RE COMPLIMENTING
  • 00:24:23.200 --> 00:24:24.190
  • RELATIONSHIPS.
  • 00:24:24.190 --> 00:24:25.220
  • AND WE KIND OF LIVE IN A WORLD
  • 00:24:25.220 --> 00:24:26.230
  • THAT HAS MADE IT ONE
  • 00:24:26.230 --> 00:24:27.210
  • OR THE OTHER.
  • 00:24:27.210 --> 00:24:28.100
  • DR. MEG MEEKER: YES,
  • 00:24:28.100 --> 00:24:29.030
  • VERY BLACK AND WHITE.
  • 00:24:29.030 --> 00:24:30.020
  • AND YOU'RE ABSOLUTELY RIGHT.
  • 00:24:30.020 --> 00:24:30.260
  • AND I THINK THAT MY HOPE
  • 00:24:30.260 --> 00:24:33.010
  • AND PRAYER FOR THE MILLENNIALS
  • 00:24:33.010 --> 00:24:34.220
  • NOW IS THAT THEY'LL START
  • 00:24:34.220 --> 00:24:36.050
  • TO REALIZE,
  • 00:24:36.050 --> 00:24:36.250
  • GEE WHIZ; YOU KNOW THERE ARE
  • 00:24:36.250 --> 00:24:37.230
  • A LOT OF MISTAKES MADE
  • 00:24:37.230 --> 00:24:39.000
  • IN FAMILIES IN THE PAST.
  • 00:24:39.000 --> 00:24:40.050
  • A LOT OF THESE MILLENNIALS HAVE
  • 00:24:40.050 --> 00:24:41.090
  • GROWN UP IN BROKEN HOMES.
  • 00:24:41.090 --> 00:24:43.030
  • AND WHAT I HEAR FROM
  • 00:24:43.030 --> 00:24:43.250
  • MILLENNIALS THAT SAY,
  • 00:24:43.250 --> 00:24:44.270
  • "I WILL NEVER PUT MY KIDS
  • 00:24:44.270 --> 00:24:45.240
  • THROUGH THAT;
  • 00:24:45.240 --> 00:24:47.000
  • I WILL DO WHATEVER I CAN
  • 00:24:47.000 --> 00:24:48.180
  • TO KEEP FROM HURTING MY KIDS
  • 00:24:48.180 --> 00:24:50.080
  • THAT WAY,"
  • 00:24:50.080 --> 00:24:51.040
  • BUT A WHAT THAT'S GOING TO
  • 00:24:51.040 --> 00:24:52.030
  • MEAN IS THAT WOMEN HAVE TO LIVE
  • 00:24:52.030 --> 00:24:53.200
  • IN THEIR FULLNESS AND MEN HAVE
  • 00:24:53.200 --> 00:24:55.040
  • TO LIVE IN THEIR FULLNESS.
  • 00:24:55.040 --> 00:24:56.150
  • MATT HAGEE: APART FROM EACH
  • 00:24:56.150 --> 00:24:57.060
  • OTHER.
  • 00:24:57.060 --> 00:24:57.250
  • DR. MEG MEEKER: APART FROM EACH
  • 00:24:57.250 --> 00:24:58.200
  • OTHER, BUT TOGETHER.
  • 00:24:58.200 --> 00:24:59.180
  • AND WE HAVE TO SHOW THEM THE
  • 00:24:59.180 --> 00:25:00.270
  • BIBLICAL MODEL OF HOW YOU DO
  • 00:25:00.270 --> 00:25:02.090
  • THAT.
  • 00:25:02.090 --> 00:25:03.040
  • IT ISN'T THE 1950'S
  • 00:25:03.040 --> 00:25:04.100
  • RELATIONSHIP WHERE DAD JUST IS
  • 00:25:04.100 --> 00:25:05.220
  • THE BIG BOSS.
  • 00:25:05.220 --> 00:25:06.260
  • AND IT ISN'T THE 1970'S AND
  • 00:25:06.260 --> 00:25:08.170
  • 80'S RELATIONSHIP WHERE MOM
  • 00:25:08.170 --> 00:25:10.250
  • IS DOMINATING.
  • 00:25:10.250 --> 00:25:12.010
  • IT'S REALLY WHERE YOU HAVE TWO
  • 00:25:12.010 --> 00:25:13.140
  • STRONG PEOPLE COMING TOGETHER
  • 00:25:13.140 --> 00:25:15.000
  • AND IN CHRIST BE WOVEN TOGETHER
  • 00:25:15.000 --> 00:25:17.060
  • IN HIM THROUGH PRAYER,
  • 00:25:17.060 --> 00:25:19.060
  • DOING THE BEST WE CAN
  • 00:25:19.060 --> 00:25:20.110
  • FOR OUR KIDS.
  • 00:25:20.110 --> 00:25:21.020
  • AND HERE'S THE GREAT THING;
  • 00:25:21.020 --> 00:25:22.170
  • YOU KNOW WE'RE GOING TO EACH
  • 00:25:22.170 --> 00:25:24.000
  • MAKE MISTAKES,
  • 00:25:24.000 --> 00:25:25.100
  • BUT WE'RE GOING TO EACH GET
  • 00:25:25.100 --> 00:25:26.130
  • SOME THINGS RIGHT.
  • 00:25:26.130 --> 00:25:27.160
  • AND AS LONG AS MOMS AND DADS
  • 00:25:27.160 --> 00:25:30.000
  • VENTURE TO GET THE BIG STUFF
  • 00:25:30.000 --> 00:25:31.180
  • RIGHT,
  • 00:25:31.180 --> 00:25:32.120
  • THAT'S REALLY ALL WE NEED TO DO.
  • 00:25:32.120 --> 00:25:34.070
  • MATT HAGEE: YEAH.
  • 00:25:34.070 --> 00:25:35.090
  • WELL, MY DAD HAS FOR MANY YEARS
  • 00:25:35.090 --> 00:25:36.090
  • MADE THE STATEMENT THAT
  • 00:25:36.090 --> 00:25:37.060
  • YOU KNOW GOD GIVES EVERY CHILD
  • 00:25:37.060 --> 00:25:38.140
  • TWO PARENTS,
  • 00:25:38.140 --> 00:25:39.060
  • BECAUSE THE TWO OF THEM,
  • 00:25:39.060 --> 00:25:40.090
  • THEY GET ONE GOOD ONE; YOU KNOW?
  • 00:25:40.090 --> 00:25:42.100
  • DR. MEG MEEKER: AND THEN WE GET
  • 00:25:42.100 --> 00:25:43.080
  • A GREAT BACKUP,
  • 00:25:43.080 --> 00:25:44.000
  • GOD, THE FATHER.
  • 00:25:44.000 --> 00:25:44.270
  • MATT HAGEE: YEAH.
  • 00:25:44.270 --> 00:25:45.250
  • AND REALLY THAT'S -- YOU KNOW
  • 00:25:45.250 --> 00:25:47.010
  • YOU TALK ABOUT THESE YOUNG
  • 00:25:47.010 --> 00:25:47.280
  • PEOPLE THAT ARE CRAVING THIS
  • 00:25:47.280 --> 00:25:49.290
  • RELATIONSHIP IN THEIR LIFE.
  • 00:25:49.290 --> 00:25:51.060
  • IT'S THE CHURCH'S
  • 00:25:51.060 --> 00:25:52.010
  • RESPONSIBILITY TO CONNECT THEM
  • 00:25:52.010 --> 00:25:53.110
  • WITH GOD THE FATHER,
  • 00:25:53.110 --> 00:25:54.220
  • BECAUSE HE'S TRULY THE ONLY ONE
  • 00:25:54.220 --> 00:25:56.190
  • WHO CAN FILL THE VOID.
  • 00:25:56.190 --> 00:25:57.270
  • KENDAL HAGEE: THAT'S RIGHT.
  • 00:25:57.270 --> 00:25:58.210
  • MATT HAGEE: A MAN OF GOD,
  • 00:25:58.210 --> 00:25:59.170
  • A PASTOR, A LEADER,
  • 00:25:59.170 --> 00:26:00.280
  • HE MIGHT BE AN APPLICATION
  • 00:26:00.280 --> 00:26:02.140
  • OF GOD'S HAND.
  • 00:26:02.140 --> 00:26:03.210
  • HE MIGHT BE AN APPLICATION
  • 00:26:03.210 --> 00:26:04.270
  • OF GOD'S VOICE.
  • 00:26:04.270 --> 00:26:06.060
  • THERE MIGHT BE SOME WOMEN
  • 00:26:06.060 --> 00:26:07.030
  • IN THE CHURCH THAT MENTOR OTHER
  • 00:26:07.030 --> 00:26:08.080
  • YOUNG WOMEN THAT PROVE
  • 00:26:08.080 --> 00:26:10.050
  • AND DEMONSTRATE AN APPLICATION
  • 00:26:10.050 --> 00:26:12.140
  • OF THE FEET AND THE BODY
  • 00:26:12.140 --> 00:26:14.240
  • OF CHRIST.
  • 00:26:14.240 --> 00:26:15.270
  • BUT IT'S REALLY GOING TO HAVE
  • 00:26:15.270 --> 00:26:16.280
  • TO BE THE LOVE OF GOD THE FATHER
  • 00:26:16.280 --> 00:26:18.280
  • THAT FILLS THE HEART THAT'S
  • 00:26:18.280 --> 00:26:20.060
  • ACHING FOR FATHERHOOD.
  • 00:26:20.060 --> 00:26:22.100
  • BECAUSE I'M THE FATHER
  • 00:26:22.100 --> 00:26:23.190
  • OF FOUR CHILDREN.
  • 00:26:23.190 --> 00:26:24.180
  • I CANNOT PATERNALLY WRAP
  • 00:26:24.180 --> 00:26:26.260
  • MY ARMS AROUND ANY OTHER FOUR
  • 00:26:26.260 --> 00:26:28.200
  • THAN THOSE FOUR.
  • 00:26:28.200 --> 00:26:29.230
  • YOU KNOW I CAN LOVE THEM,
  • 00:26:29.230 --> 00:26:31.030
  • BUT I CAN'T DO FOR THEM WHAT
  • 00:26:31.030 --> 00:26:33.010
  • A FATHER CAN.
  • 00:26:33.010 --> 00:26:34.010
  • AND THAT'S WHERE GOD THE FATHER
  • 00:26:34.010 --> 00:26:35.070
  • HAS TO STEP IN.
  • 00:26:35.070 --> 00:26:36.100
  • DR. MEG MEEKER: EXACTLY.
  • 00:26:36.100 --> 00:26:37.060
  • YOU KNOW ISN'T IT WONDERFUL
  • 00:26:37.060 --> 00:26:38.070
  • THAT WE HAVE THAT?
  • 00:26:38.070 --> 00:26:38.290
  • WHAT DO PEOPLE DO
  • 00:26:38.290 --> 00:26:39.230
  • WHO DON'T HAVE GOD THE FATHER
  • 00:26:39.230 --> 00:26:41.010
  • TO COME IN AND SAY,
  • 00:26:41.010 --> 00:26:41.260
  • YOU KNOW,
  • 00:26:41.260 --> 00:26:42.150
  • I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO HERE,
  • 00:26:42.150 --> 00:26:43.270
  • I DON'T KNOW WHAT DECISION,
  • 00:26:43.270 --> 00:26:45.030
  • I DON'T KNOW WHAT COLLEGE YOU
  • 00:26:45.030 --> 00:26:46.000
  • SHOULD GO TO,
  • 00:26:46.000 --> 00:26:46.160
  • I DON'T KNOW WHAT CAREER,
  • 00:26:46.160 --> 00:26:47.170
  • BUT I'M GOING TO PETITION
  • 00:26:47.170 --> 00:26:48.240
  • GOD THE FATHER TO HELP YOU.
  • 00:26:48.240 --> 00:26:50.140
  • AND AS WIVES AND AS HUSBANDS,
  • 00:26:50.140 --> 00:26:52.080
  • AND I THINK WHEN KIDS GROW UP
  • 00:26:52.080 --> 00:26:54.090
  • SEEING MOM AND DAD
  • 00:26:54.090 --> 00:26:55.210
  • LEANING ON GOD,
  • 00:26:55.210 --> 00:26:56.230
  • AND REACHING FOR GOD,
  • 00:26:56.230 --> 00:26:58.010
  • AND ASKING FOR HELP,
  • 00:26:58.010 --> 00:26:59.090
  • THAT'S WHAT REALLY GIVES THEM
  • 00:26:59.090 --> 00:27:00.160
  • STRONG CHARACTER.
  • 00:27:00.160 --> 00:27:01.150
  • MATT HAGEE: AND IT GIVES THEM
  • 00:27:01.150 --> 00:27:02.100
  • HOPE,
  • 00:27:02.100 --> 00:27:03.110
  • BECAUSE IF THEY RUN OUT
  • 00:27:03.110 --> 00:27:04.040
  • OF ANSWERS,
  • 00:27:04.040 --> 00:27:04.250
  • THEY KNOW WHERE TO TURN FOR
  • 00:27:04.250 --> 00:27:05.170
  • AN ANSWER.
  • 00:27:05.170 --> 00:27:06.050
  • DR. MEG MEEKER: EXACTLY.
  • 00:27:06.050 --> 00:27:06.250
  • MATT HAGEE: YOU KNOW IF YOU'RE
  • 00:27:06.250 --> 00:27:07.160
  • LOOKING FOR AN ANSWER FOR YOUR
  • 00:27:07.160 --> 00:27:08.100
  • FAMILY TODAY,
  • 00:27:08.100 --> 00:27:09.030
  • I WANT TO RECOMMEND
  • 00:27:09.030 --> 00:27:09.270
  • DR. MEG MEEKER'S BOOKS,
  • 00:27:09.270 --> 00:27:11.010
  • " HERO" AND
  • 00:27:11.010 --> 00:27:12.020
  • " TEN HABITS OF A HAPPY MOTHER."
  • 00:27:12.020 --> 00:27:14.190
  • I ASSURE YOU THEY'LL BE
  • 00:27:14.190 --> 00:27:15.170
  • A BLESSING IN YOUR LIFE.
  • 00:27:15.170 --> 00:27:16.200
  • AND I WANT THESE RESOURCES
  • 00:27:16.200 --> 00:27:18.160
  • TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE
  • 00:27:18.160 --> 00:27:19.110
  • IN YOUR HOUSEHOLD.
  • 00:27:19.110 --> 00:27:20.090
  • THANK YOU FOR WATCHING.
  • 00:27:20.090 --> 00:27:21.290
  • MUSIC
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