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Marriage Made EZ: Follow Through on Your Investment

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January 31, 2017
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Living by Faith with Mike & DeeDee Freeman

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Marriage Made EZ: Follow Through on Your Investment

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  • So for you to not talk back to her,
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  • when she says something that you've been
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  • used to talking back in and move into another level
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  • to say "I'm gonna deny myself.
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  • "I'm not gonna say anything back to her."
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  • Man that's uncomfortable because you are
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  • not now in control of where this thing can go.
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  • You haven't seen life like this before.
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  • But if you continue to do what you are doing,
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  • with respect to talking back,
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  • you're never gonna grow.
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  • Today, on Living by Faith...
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  • Wisdom is literally Sophilia in the Greek or Hebrew.
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  • In the Hebrew, Sophilia, her.
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  • Love her and she,
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  • and that's how men can literally give birth.
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  • Because when we go after wisdom,
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  • wisdom will give us creative ways
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  • to go after whatever we want in life.
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  • - Tell 'em about that time
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  • how you used to come home,
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  • well, just one time.
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  • But you came home and you wanted something to eat.
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  • - That's a long time ago.
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  • - A long time ago.
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  • You don't ask me that now?
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  • - Okay, but dig this.
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  • Yeah, watch this.
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  • Don't try to embarrass me in front of these people.
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  • (congregation laughs)
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  • That's not wisdom.
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  • - You told me that's a choice.
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  • - [Pastor] And sometimes wisdom will tell you
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  • don't say anything right now.
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  • - [DeeDee] Wisdom didn't tell me that.
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  • - Wisdom is always trying to tell you stuff.
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  • - You gotta be listening though.
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  • - The Bible says "She'll cry out at them all."
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  • - Mmm hmm, in the busy streets.
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  • - She'll cry out at the busy streets.
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  • No, that's what this scripture says
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  • concerning wisdom.
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  • Wisdom is always trying to talk to you.
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  • God dog.
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  • And the Bible says "If any man lack."
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  • You know lack by your results.
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  • If you're not getting the right results
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  • because the scripture says,
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  • "He who wins is wise."
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  • And if you're not winning, you're not wise.
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  • And wisdom is saying.
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  • That's what the scripture said.
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  • "If any man lack wisdom, let him ask God."
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  • Okay, assignment number one.
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  • I want, especially man.
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  • Every male man.
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  • I want every man in this church right now,
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  • in the sound of my voice.
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  • Every single day waking up.
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  • And I don't care what you gotta do
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  • to remind yourself.
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  • Post it somewhere.
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  • You brush your teeth every day?
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  • Okay, post it somewhere where you brush your teeth.
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  • You eat every day right?
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  • You go to the refrigerator?
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  • Okay by the looks of things you do.
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  • Post it on the refrigerator, put it in your car.
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  • I am to ask wisdom for her help today.
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  • The Bible says, "If any man lack wisdom,
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  • "let him ask of God and He'll give it to us freely."
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  • I would come in the house years ago man.
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  • Hungry, both of us worked outside of the home.
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  • And I would bust in there boy.
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  • She would get home a little sooner than I.
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  • And I would bust in there and say,
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  • "Come on man, you ain't cook yet?!"
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  • - [DeeDee] Somebody say what?
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  • - How many of you know at that tone and rate,
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  • I may never get to eat?
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  • How many of y'all know that?
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  • Okay, (imitates buzzer) wrong technique.
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  • I know I'm hungry right?
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  • I know I'm hungry.
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  • I know she hadn't cooked.
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  • Wisdom would say, "Man, listen,
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  • "you ain't gonna ever eat if you
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  • "keep going in that kitchen acting like that."
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  • No, wisdom crying out.
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  • So I hear her and I said, "Well what you think I should do?"
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  • Go in there and ask her what does
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  • she think about us going into the kitchen together
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  • to see what we can cook up.
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  • - [Voiceover] Amen!
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  • (congregation laughs)
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  • - See how wisdom strikes?
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  • Amen!
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  • She got that in quick boy.
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  • I would look at her, I'd say "DeeDee, hey baby
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  • "let's go in the kitchen and see
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  • "what we can come up with together.
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  • "Man, certainly we can find something in here,
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  • "we'll do it together.
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  • "Oh Mike, that's so sweet baby, okay."
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  • And I'm thinking, "This ain't what I really wanna do."
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  • I ain't really wanna do that.
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  • I ain't really wanna do that.
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  • That's what wisdom said.
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  • Wisdom said I love them that love me.
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  • Okay, well I'm gonna love you so
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  • you can love up on me.
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  • Because I know in wisdom this technique I win.
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  • I win every time.
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  • See, any fool can mess up anything.
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  • Any fool can mess up anything.
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  • And so, I would go in the kitchen
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  • and I would try to get my act together
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  • and go in the cabinets and that kind of thing.
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  • And I'm pulling out pots and pans
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  • and throwing things.
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  • - And leaving the cabinets open.
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  • - And she can't stand for cabinet doors
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  • to be left open.
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  • I'm saying, I may have to go back in it.
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  • Why in the world should I shut it
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  • when I may.
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  • It doesn't make plenty of sense.
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  • It's a waste.
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  • Come on brothers, don't leave me
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  • out here by myself.
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  • So if I gotta go back in it, you know.
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  • That's the way I used to feel about my bed.
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  • What we gonna make it up for?
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  • I'm gonna get right back in it later on.
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  • - [Voiceover] Preach it, preach it!
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  • - Oh I got some help.
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  • - No.
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  • - No, that has drastically changed.
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  • - Yeah that has changed.
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  • Now he knows.
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  • He makes the bed up.
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  • - But I was there.
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  • - Yeah, and it's the same way with me.
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  • There were times when--
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  • But wait, wait, I ain't finished.
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  • You told me no.
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  • - Okay I thought you was finished that story.
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  • You told me to jump in.
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  • - You told me to bring it up.
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  • - You told me jump in this.
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  • (congregation laughs)
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  • - So she would look at me and she said,
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  • "Hey hey Mike, baby, that's all right.
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  • "Why don't you just go sit down."
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  • And I'm saying, "Dang!"
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  • (congregation laughs)
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  • That's the believers way of cussing.
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  • I'm saying "Dang!"
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  • I was so excited, I was like,
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  • "All right, that's cool."
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  • And I'm walking to my seat I'm thinking,
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  • that's exactly what I wanted to do!
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  • (congregation laughs)
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  • Now so, wisdom is one thing,
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  • but is understanding is an entirely different ball game.
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  • Because you can have wisdom for that situation,
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  • not understood what you just did,
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  • and you will not be able to repeat what you did
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  • to get the same result.
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  • So every day I'm like, "Hey baby, what you wanna cook?
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  • "You wanna cook something?"
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  • She said, "No, just go in there."
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  • 'Cause she remember how I open the pots and the pans
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  • and that kind of thing.
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  • And I'm thinking, "This whole thing is working."
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  • Hey wisdom, that's what's up!
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  • We can do some things together you know?
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  • No, and this was an ongoing process with our lives.
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  • And it literally, that technique,
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  • caused me to be able to eat.
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  • Didn't cause any disruption or strife in her,
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  • and they lived happily ever after.
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  • - [DeeDee] And so now--
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  • - Even to the point, of where you don't have to cook nor I,
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  • because God has increased us - [DeeDee] Aren't you glad.
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  • to that degree. - [DeeDee] Has provoked us.
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  • - [Pastor] That's powerful.
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  • - Can I--
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  • - [Pastor] Go right ahead.
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  • So the same thing had to apply to me as well.
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  • You know that right?
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  • Well, I liked stuff fixed right away.
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  • I don't like stuff to just be broke.
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  • If it's a washing machine, a stove, a dryer,
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  • whatever it is.
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  • I mean thank God we've gotten to the place
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  • now he's the same or he's probably worse than I am.
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  • But back in our lean days, say lean days.
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  • - [Congregation] Lean days.
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  • - Back in our lean days, if he didn't get to it,
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  • guess who was doing it?
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  • - Mama.
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  • - I was pulling out everything.
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  • I remember one time I had the dryer just tore up.
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  • I took everything--
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  • - The dryer, I'm talking about big ole machine!
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  • I walk in there and pieces of the dryer
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  • are all over the place!
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  • The front cover is off, I'm like what have you done?!
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  • I ain't messing with that DeeDee.
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  • Sugar, you gonna cause us that problem?
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  • I mean it's lean days.
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  • You can't go fixing stuff!
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  • You don't know how to fix this!
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  • - I'm in there, I have been asking him.
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  • I knew exactly what was wrong with it.
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  • I had went to Triples and got the parts to fix the thing
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  • and I'm telling him I know what's wrong.
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  • - She played me.
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  • - And all you have to is fix it.
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  • - She played me.
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  • - Well he wouldn't fix it so I got down there
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  • and I started trying to fix it.
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  • I knew if I got my hands dirty,
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  • and if I prolonged it enough.
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  • I stayed in that room long enough
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  • he was gonna come in there.
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  • And guess who end up fixing the machine!?
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  • He did!
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  • But that was wisdom.
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  • Wisdom said you just go ahead and initiate it.
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  • You go ahead and get started
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  • and then he'll come in there and go.
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  • I don't have to nag.
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  • You know there was a survey taken
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  • by 100 psychologists from.
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  • Yeah, they had 100 psychologists
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  • or medical health professionals,
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  • and they took this survey to see
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  • what was one of the highest on the charts
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  • to cause divorce.
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  • Of course you all know it's communication, sex, and money.
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  • Well they said the number one issue was communication.
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  • And in that communication they were
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  • talking about how men and women communicate differently
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  • in what their problem is.
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  • Which is the highest problem out of them all.
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  • And men always said it was nagging.
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  • Of course y'all would agree with that.
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  • - Okay backup because I'm kinda lost.
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  • - I confuse you?
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  • Okay so they took a survey.
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  • - [Pastor] There's a survey right.
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  • - From like 100--
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  • - Regardless.
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  • - Okay, okay.
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  • And they said one of the highest,
  • 00:10:51.110 --> 00:10:53.100
  • the main reason for divorce, separation
  • 00:10:53.100 --> 00:10:57.070
  • is communication.
  • 00:10:57.070 --> 00:10:58.130
  • And then they talked about how the difference
  • 00:10:58.130 --> 00:11:00.270
  • between men and women.
  • 00:11:00.270 --> 00:11:02.130
  • What was the men's issue and what was the women's issues.
  • 00:11:02.130 --> 00:11:05.170
  • And with the men, they said their problem
  • 00:11:05.170 --> 00:11:08.130
  • or their challenge with their wives is that
  • 00:11:08.130 --> 00:11:10.260
  • women are always nagging.
  • 00:11:10.260 --> 00:11:12.290
  • So, if that's the case,
  • 00:11:12.290 --> 00:11:15.030
  • then if we can operate in wisdom
  • 00:11:15.030 --> 00:11:17.140
  • to say exactly what we wanna say
  • 00:11:17.140 --> 00:11:20.080
  • to get the job done, it won't be nagging.
  • 00:11:20.080 --> 00:11:23.120
  • - No, no, wait, y'all--
  • 00:11:25.240 --> 00:11:27.080
  • - Yes.
  • 00:11:27.080 --> 00:11:28.130
  • - No, no, no, it still can be nagging.
  • 00:11:28.130 --> 00:11:31.010
  • - No, not if you operate in wisdom.
  • 00:11:31.010 --> 00:11:33.170
  • That's our whole point.
  • 00:11:33.170 --> 00:11:34.200
  • - Oh so you're asking wisdom--
  • 00:11:34.200 --> 00:11:35.280
  • - It's changing our techniques.
  • 00:11:35.280 --> 00:11:37.230
  • - You're asking wisdom for what to say that one time.
  • 00:11:37.230 --> 00:11:41.260
  • - Yes, that one time.
  • 00:11:41.260 --> 00:11:44.090
  • Or if not what to say what to do.
  • 00:11:44.090 --> 00:11:47.160
  • - Because it doesn't require saying something all the time,
  • 00:11:49.000 --> 00:11:52.170
  • but wisdom will guide you in that respect.
  • 00:11:52.170 --> 00:11:55.020
  • - Will guide you.
  • 00:11:55.020 --> 00:11:56.050
  • I'll give you another story.
  • 00:11:56.050 --> 00:11:57.150
  • When we first got married,
  • 00:11:57.150 --> 00:11:59.050
  • Lord knows, I didn't know he hang up his clothes.
  • 00:11:59.050 --> 00:12:02.190
  • I didn't know that.
  • 00:12:03.250 --> 00:12:05.030
  • - I didn't know you was gonna tell the world.
  • 00:12:05.030 --> 00:12:07.000
  • (congregation laughs)
  • 00:12:07.000 --> 00:12:09.120
  • - Yeah.
  • 00:12:09.120 --> 00:12:10.110
  • I'm telling it.
  • 00:12:12.060 --> 00:12:13.190
  • So I didn't know he didn't hang up his clothes.
  • 00:12:15.000 --> 00:12:16.160
  • So he would take off his clothes
  • 00:12:16.160 --> 00:12:18.000
  • and you know in the beginning you're
  • 00:12:18.000 --> 00:12:19.170
  • all excited about being married
  • 00:12:19.170 --> 00:12:20.290
  • so you just go pick up the clothes.
  • 00:12:20.290 --> 00:12:22.160
  • You just pick it up and then you do
  • 00:12:22.160 --> 00:12:23.290
  • whatever you gotta do.
  • 00:12:23.290 --> 00:12:25.150
  • "Oh it's so exciting, I'll pick up his drawers okay."
  • 00:12:25.150 --> 00:12:27.210
  • Well after a while, I'm like,
  • 00:12:29.060 --> 00:12:32.060
  • "Okay, so is this how it's gonna be?"
  • 00:12:32.060 --> 00:12:34.150
  • I ain't know this is how it was gonna be forever.
  • 00:12:35.210 --> 00:12:37.180
  • Just thought maybe in the beginning.
  • 00:12:37.180 --> 00:12:39.200
  • Well, I begin to let a little pile,
  • 00:12:39.200 --> 00:12:43.180
  • you know, develop.
  • 00:12:43.180 --> 00:12:45.250
  • I started letting the stuff just pile up.
  • 00:12:47.090 --> 00:12:50.110
  • I mean it was just growing too.
  • 00:12:50.110 --> 00:12:51.260
  • I could see it now--
  • 00:12:51.260 --> 00:12:53.040
  • - She lying.
  • 00:12:53.040 --> 00:12:54.030
  • - No I'm not.
  • 00:12:54.030 --> 00:12:55.050
  • No I'm not, no I'm not.
  • 00:12:55.050 --> 00:12:57.250
  • That pile begin to grow.
  • 00:12:57.250 --> 00:12:59.110
  • - Ain't nothing like a lying woman in church.
  • 00:12:59.110 --> 00:13:01.040
  • - Listen.
  • 00:13:01.040 --> 00:13:02.000
  • - A lying first lady.
  • 00:13:02.000 --> 00:13:03.010
  • - I know, I know, but listen.
  • 00:13:03.010 --> 00:13:04.110
  • That pile begin to grow so much so,
  • 00:13:04.110 --> 00:13:07.040
  • I'll walk past it and I'll be fired up, just going through.
  • 00:13:07.040 --> 00:13:10.280
  • I mean all kind of emotions, just.
  • 00:13:10.280 --> 00:13:13.040
  • - I don't even remember what you talking about.
  • 00:13:13.040 --> 00:13:14.160
  • - Yeah I know okay.
  • 00:13:14.160 --> 00:13:15.280
  • And I clearly remember Holy Spirit asking me.
  • 00:13:15.280 --> 00:13:19.220
  • "Who is this pile bothering the most?"
  • 00:13:19.220 --> 00:13:23.220
  • - Obviously it wasn't me.
  • 00:13:25.100 --> 00:13:26.230
  • (congregation laughs)
  • 00:13:26.230 --> 00:13:30.020
  • - Totally, it wasn't him.
  • 00:13:30.020 --> 00:13:32.160
  • I said "It's bothering me."
  • 00:13:33.210 --> 00:13:35.140
  • He said, "Okay well you can fix it."
  • 00:13:36.180 --> 00:13:38.180
  • So I said, "Okay, that's what I'll do if it's bothering me.
  • 00:13:40.020 --> 00:13:42.270
  • "Let me just go on and pick it up and hang it up."
  • 00:13:42.270 --> 00:13:45.140
  • So I begin to just pick it back up again.
  • 00:13:45.140 --> 00:13:48.040
  • And what I realized, that I was
  • 00:13:48.040 --> 00:13:50.050
  • training him in the process of knowing
  • 00:13:50.050 --> 00:13:53.020
  • exactly what I like.
  • 00:13:53.020 --> 00:13:55.020
  • And what I would require.
  • 00:13:55.020 --> 00:13:57.010
  • And so after I begin to do it
  • 00:13:57.010 --> 00:13:58.270
  • for such a time, or for so long of a time,
  • 00:13:58.270 --> 00:14:02.090
  • he begin to see what I like.
  • 00:14:02.090 --> 00:14:05.060
  • And now he begin to pick up his own clothes
  • 00:14:05.060 --> 00:14:08.060
  • and pick up his own stuff,
  • 00:14:08.060 --> 00:14:09.240
  • because he saw that this was something
  • 00:14:09.240 --> 00:14:11.120
  • that I didn't want to be done.
  • 00:14:11.120 --> 00:14:13.210
  • So a lot of times you think you're nagging
  • 00:14:13.210 --> 00:14:16.140
  • or you're fussing or you're getting at 'em--
  • 00:14:16.140 --> 00:14:19.180
  • - Or striking.
  • 00:14:19.180 --> 00:14:21.170
  • - Striking.
  • 00:14:21.170 --> 00:14:22.170
  • - You went on strike.
  • 00:14:22.170 --> 00:14:23.230
  • - Yeah or striking is gonna help.
  • 00:14:23.230 --> 00:14:25.140
  • It doesn't.
  • 00:14:25.140 --> 00:14:26.170
  • You're gonna have to find out
  • 00:14:26.170 --> 00:14:28.070
  • what will work for your house.
  • 00:14:28.070 --> 00:14:30.170
  • - What would wisdom do?
  • 00:14:30.170 --> 00:14:32.280
  • - What would wisdom do in your house.
  • 00:14:34.040 --> 00:14:37.110
  • Because I can tell you what I do
  • 00:14:38.140 --> 00:14:40.070
  • or what I've done,
  • 00:14:40.070 --> 00:14:41.250
  • and that may not work for your relationship.
  • 00:14:41.250 --> 00:14:44.080
  • So it's important that we all seek wisdom.
  • 00:14:45.130 --> 00:14:47.070
  • Say wisdom.
  • 00:14:47.070 --> 00:14:48.030
  • - [Congregation] Wisdom.
  • 00:14:48.030 --> 00:14:49.020
  • - Say exchange your techniques.
  • 00:14:49.020 --> 00:14:50.140
  • - [Congregation] Exchange your techniques.
  • 00:14:50.140 --> 00:14:52.040
  • - And then we have another one here,
  • 00:14:52.040 --> 00:14:53.220
  • it's exchange of qualities.
  • 00:14:53.220 --> 00:14:56.230
  • Let's talk about exchange of qualities.
  • 00:14:56.230 --> 00:14:58.160
  • You wanna go into that? - [Pastor] Move onto that.
  • 00:14:58.160 --> 00:14:59.210
  • - [Pastor] Yes ma'am.
  • 00:14:59.210 --> 00:15:00.280
  • - [DeeDee] Exchange of qualities.
  • 00:15:00.280 --> 00:15:02.120
  • - [Pastor] 'Cause we don't have much more time.
  • 00:15:02.120 --> 00:15:04.010
  • - [DeeDee] All right, let me find it.
  • 00:15:04.010 --> 00:15:06.000
  • I thought you was gonna go into it.
  • 00:15:06.000 --> 00:15:07.250
  • - [Pastor] That's what you get
  • 00:15:09.190 --> 00:15:10.170
  • while you're talking about that.
  • 00:15:10.170 --> 00:15:12.010
  • - [DeeDee] That's what I get?
  • 00:15:12.010 --> 00:15:13.070
  • - [Pastor] Yeah.
  • 00:15:13.070 --> 00:15:14.140
  • - [DeeDee] Why, what's what I get?
  • 00:15:14.140 --> 00:15:15.270
  • - [Pastor] 'Cause you thought I was gonna do something
  • 00:15:15.270 --> 00:15:16.210
  • you should of done.
  • 00:15:16.210 --> 00:15:17.280
  • That was the wrong technique wasn't it?
  • 00:15:17.280 --> 00:15:19.080
  • - [DeeDee] When?
  • 00:15:19.080 --> 00:15:20.060
  • Just then? That was a wisdom.
  • 00:15:20.060 --> 00:15:21.230
  • - No it wasn't.
  • 00:15:21.230 --> 00:15:23.010
  • - I know, you just demonstrating it.
  • 00:15:23.010 --> 00:15:24.190
  • - Yeah just demonstrating.
  • 00:15:24.190 --> 00:15:26.050
  • - Okay, I just thought you wanted to make that clear.
  • 00:15:26.050 --> 00:15:28.210
  • - I think we discovered where,
  • 00:15:29.240 --> 00:15:33.020
  • because I've been talking about
  • 00:15:33.020 --> 00:15:34.140
  • this for quite some time, time now.
  • 00:15:34.140 --> 00:15:38.160
  • We were playing this basketball game.
  • 00:15:40.230 --> 00:15:43.260
  • And we were discussing it
  • 00:15:45.030 --> 00:15:47.090
  • just the other day.
  • 00:15:47.090 --> 00:15:49.140
  • And discovered
  • 00:15:50.180 --> 00:15:53.220
  • where we both believe
  • 00:15:53.220 --> 00:15:55.200
  • that that game was played for years,
  • 00:15:55.200 --> 00:15:58.070
  • I didn't know where that game was played.
  • 00:15:58.070 --> 00:16:00.250
  • And it was played.
  • 00:16:00.250 --> 00:16:02.240
  • Pastor Tony, his mom had a basketball court
  • 00:16:03.290 --> 00:16:07.280
  • in her backyard.
  • 00:16:07.280 --> 00:16:10.080
  • And that's where we both believe
  • 00:16:11.170 --> 00:16:13.210
  • we played this game.
  • 00:16:13.210 --> 00:16:15.070
  • I was checking DeeDee and I enjoyed checking her.
  • 00:16:17.020 --> 00:16:21.090
  • And she would grab the ball
  • 00:16:26.170 --> 00:16:28.210
  • and just run all around the court.
  • 00:16:29.260 --> 00:16:31.120
  • And I'm thinking, we having fun so no big deal.
  • 00:16:32.230 --> 00:16:35.070
  • But then when she ran off the court,
  • 00:16:37.040 --> 00:16:40.000
  • all under the swing set and the monkey bars,
  • 00:16:41.130 --> 00:16:45.080
  • I'm thinking, "You know what DeeDee, I quit."
  • 00:16:45.080 --> 00:16:48.160
  • And she looked at me and she said,
  • 00:16:49.210 --> 00:16:51.060
  • "You quitting because you gonna lose,
  • 00:16:51.060 --> 00:16:54.070
  • "that's why you quitting."
  • 00:16:54.070 --> 00:16:55.080
  • I said, "No baby."
  • 00:16:55.080 --> 00:16:56.280
  • And I'm getting a little flustered
  • 00:16:56.280 --> 00:16:58.250
  • and I said "Baby I'm not quitting because
  • 00:16:58.250 --> 00:17:01.000
  • "I think I'm gonna lose.
  • 00:17:01.000 --> 00:17:02.120
  • "I'm quitting because obviously
  • 00:17:02.120 --> 00:17:04.050
  • "you don't realize that this game
  • 00:17:04.050 --> 00:17:06.180
  • "is supposed to be played between
  • 00:17:06.180 --> 00:17:09.100
  • "these lines that are on the dog gone ground."
  • 00:17:09.100 --> 00:17:13.000
  • And at first I didn't mind playing with you.
  • 00:17:17.290 --> 00:17:22.120
  • - [DeeDee] But I kept on going.
  • 00:17:22.120 --> 00:17:24.020
  • - But when you kept at it.
  • 00:17:24.020 --> 00:17:25.170
  • See, some of you have gotten to the point
  • 00:17:27.110 --> 00:17:30.070
  • where you didn't mind stuff at first.
  • 00:17:30.070 --> 00:17:32.170
  • - Oh.
  • 00:17:32.170 --> 00:17:33.190
  • - But then I told her, I said, "This game is supposed
  • 00:17:35.120 --> 00:17:37.280
  • "to be played between the lines."
  • 00:17:37.280 --> 00:17:39.220
  • And the spirit of God brought that game,
  • 00:17:39.220 --> 00:17:42.030
  • everything to me is a life lesson.
  • 00:17:42.030 --> 00:17:44.200
  • And Holy Spirit has used my life lessons
  • 00:17:45.260 --> 00:17:48.060
  • or episodes in my life to teach me a lot of things.
  • 00:17:48.060 --> 00:17:51.230
  • And He said, "You know how DeeDee ran
  • 00:17:53.130 --> 00:17:56.200
  • "all outside of the lines when you were playing basketball?"
  • 00:17:56.200 --> 00:18:00.090
  • I said, "Yes sir, I'll never forget."
  • 00:18:00.090 --> 00:18:02.200
  • He said, "You remember how you just refused
  • 00:18:03.250 --> 00:18:05.280
  • "to play after a while?"
  • 00:18:05.280 --> 00:18:07.180
  • I said, "Yes sir, I'll never forget."
  • 00:18:08.280 --> 00:18:10.200
  • He says, "I'm the same way.
  • 00:18:10.200 --> 00:18:13.020
  • "When you wanna run all outside of the lines
  • 00:18:13.020 --> 00:18:16.210
  • "and play this game based upon
  • 00:18:16.210 --> 00:18:19.080
  • "the rules you wanna play,
  • 00:18:19.080 --> 00:18:21.100
  • "and you wanna do life the way you wanna do life,
  • 00:18:21.100 --> 00:18:24.240
  • "Mike Freeman I'm not gonna run all around
  • 00:18:24.240 --> 00:18:27.150
  • "trying to play your games.
  • 00:18:27.150 --> 00:18:29.160
  • "I will only play with you when you return
  • 00:18:29.160 --> 00:18:32.110
  • "back on this court."
  • 00:18:32.110 --> 00:18:34.080
  • Are you hearing what I'm saying?
  • 00:18:35.100 --> 00:18:36.150
  • There are some rules to this game.
  • 00:18:36.150 --> 00:18:39.070
  • This is one of the rules, this wisdom piece.
  • 00:18:39.070 --> 00:18:42.260
  • And if you don't start applying
  • 00:18:42.260 --> 00:18:45.190
  • and appropriating wisdom
  • 00:18:45.190 --> 00:18:47.140
  • and creating techniques that's gonna win your wife
  • 00:18:47.140 --> 00:18:50.120
  • or win your spouse,
  • 00:18:50.120 --> 00:18:52.020
  • then God isn't gonna keep playing your games.
  • 00:18:52.020 --> 00:18:54.210
  • And just like this couple that has
  • 00:18:54.210 --> 00:18:57.010
  • been married for 20 years.
  • 00:18:57.010 --> 00:18:59.140
  • I don't even know how you become so
  • 00:18:59.140 --> 00:19:02.150
  • complacent in such a situation
  • 00:19:02.150 --> 00:19:06.090
  • where it doesn't even matter anymore
  • 00:19:06.090 --> 00:19:08.120
  • if you grow or not.
  • 00:19:08.120 --> 00:19:10.120
  • I told him, I said, "You all are gonna be all right,
  • 00:19:10.120 --> 00:19:13.030
  • "even if you don't change.
  • 00:19:13.030 --> 00:19:14.150
  • "You aren't going anywhere.
  • 00:19:14.150 --> 00:19:16.030
  • "You've been together this long, nobody's made this change."
  • 00:19:16.030 --> 00:19:19.000
  • But why spend the rest of your years?
  • 00:19:19.000 --> 00:19:22.060
  • - Yes, yes.
  • 00:19:22.060 --> 00:19:23.240
  • - Oh Lord Jesus.
  • 00:19:23.240 --> 00:19:25.020
  • I hope someone is hearing my heart.
  • 00:19:25.020 --> 00:19:26.210
  • Why spend the rest of your years
  • 00:19:26.210 --> 00:19:28.280
  • when you can improve everything
  • 00:19:28.280 --> 00:19:30.230
  • about your relationship through wisdom?
  • 00:19:30.230 --> 00:19:33.050
  • Now, exchange of quality.
  • 00:19:33.050 --> 00:19:34.280
  • - Can I give some barriers to change?
  • 00:19:34.280 --> 00:19:37.240
  • - Yes ma'am.
  • 00:19:37.240 --> 00:19:38.280
  • - All right, feelings of failure.
  • 00:19:38.280 --> 00:19:42.000
  • - Barriers?
  • 00:19:43.010 --> 00:19:43.290
  • - Mmm hmm, barriers to change.
  • 00:19:43.290 --> 00:19:45.120
  • Because we talking about exchanging techniques,
  • 00:19:45.120 --> 00:19:48.040
  • exchanging qualities, all of these changes.
  • 00:19:48.040 --> 00:19:50.210
  • So people don't change because fear of failure.
  • 00:19:51.280 --> 00:19:54.170
  • Feelings of failure.
  • 00:19:54.170 --> 00:19:56.150
  • You need full control.
  • 00:19:56.150 --> 00:19:58.130
  • Pride.
  • 00:19:59.120 --> 00:20:00.240
  • Selfishness.
  • 00:20:00.240 --> 00:20:02.130
  • Insecurity.
  • 00:20:03.100 --> 00:20:04.150
  • Anger and bitterness.
  • 00:20:05.130 --> 00:20:07.060
  • - You left out one.
  • 00:20:08.060 --> 00:20:09.050
  • - What?
  • 00:20:09.050 --> 00:20:09.280
  • - Fear.
  • 00:20:09.280 --> 00:20:10.200
  • - Fear.
  • 00:20:10.200 --> 00:20:11.270
  • Well I guess I put that under fear of failure.
  • 00:20:11.270 --> 00:20:14.130
  • - All of them are fear based anyway.
  • 00:20:14.130 --> 00:20:15.230
  • - Totally.
  • 00:20:15.230 --> 00:20:17.030
  • - When you get to the place.
  • 00:20:18.060 --> 00:20:19.260
  • See, whatever you have been doing
  • 00:20:19.260 --> 00:20:22.060
  • has created a level of comfort for you.
  • 00:20:22.060 --> 00:20:24.280
  • And that position is comfortable.
  • 00:20:26.170 --> 00:20:28.200
  • Like I gotta tell you,
  • 00:20:28.200 --> 00:20:31.200
  • when we were in Anacostia High School
  • 00:20:31.200 --> 00:20:34.050
  • just talking about ministry
  • 00:20:34.050 --> 00:20:35.200
  • because all of it is you know,
  • 00:20:35.200 --> 00:20:38.270
  • relatable.
  • 00:20:40.070 --> 00:20:41.170
  • When we were in Anacostia High School
  • 00:20:41.170 --> 00:20:43.140
  • and they started talking about moving.
  • 00:20:43.140 --> 00:20:45.220
  • Although I was in faith,
  • 00:20:45.220 --> 00:20:47.060
  • there was some apprehension
  • 00:20:47.060 --> 00:20:49.050
  • that was gong on in my head boy.
  • 00:20:49.050 --> 00:20:52.010
  • Man you gonna go out here
  • 00:20:52.010 --> 00:20:53.250
  • and you gotta do this
  • 00:20:53.250 --> 00:20:55.050
  • and you're gonna have to put up that money
  • 00:20:55.050 --> 00:20:56.190
  • and so forth and so on.
  • 00:20:56.190 --> 00:20:58.040
  • Any time you talking about going to another level,
  • 00:20:58.040 --> 00:21:01.210
  • there's always gonna be some apprehension there
  • 00:21:02.270 --> 00:21:07.170
  • that's going to create.
  • 00:21:07.170 --> 00:21:09.250
  • And that's a level of fear that's going to literally
  • 00:21:09.250 --> 00:21:12.250
  • try to force you back into the place
  • 00:21:12.250 --> 00:21:16.080
  • that you are most comfortable with.
  • 00:21:16.080 --> 00:21:19.270
  • Anytime you talk about moving out of into a new place,
  • 00:21:19.270 --> 00:21:24.130
  • there's always gonna be some challenges there
  • 00:21:24.130 --> 00:21:27.250
  • because there's a lot of discomfort.
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  • As a matter of fact, I can use one
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  • that's a little bit more closer
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  • than an Anacostia episode.
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  • Moving FICWFM, the fellowship.
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  • First of all, changing the name
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  • and then moving to the nations capital.
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  • Man, we got pastors all over the country
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  • talking about, "Man I don't know
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  • "if we should be going to DC.
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  • "DC is just a dah dah dah dah."
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  • You know what's happening in all of that?
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  • Fear.
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  • Fear is literally causing them
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  • to have all of these anxieties,
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  • because I'm bringing you out of a place
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  • that you have established a level of comfort.
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  • So for you to not talk back to her,
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  • when she says something that you've been
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  • used to talking back in and move into another level
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  • to say "I'm gonna deny myself.
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  • "I'm not gonna say anything back to her."
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  • Man that's uncomfortable because you are
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  • not now in control of where this thing can go.
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  • You haven't seen life like this before.
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  • But if you continue to do what you are doing,
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  • But if you continue to do what you are doing,
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  • with respect to talking back,
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  • you're never gonna grow.
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  • you're never gonna grow.
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  • And exchanges are the very
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  • tenants of the covenant, exchanges.
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  • When the Wimm's family got together
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  • and the Bird's family got together,
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  • the only way that they were gonna become
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  • the Wimm's Bird family
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  • was exchanging different qualities.
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  • There were things that she could do
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  • that I could not do.
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  • There were things that I could do
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  • that she could not do.
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  • And we exchanged those qualities
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  • and those techniques in order to push
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  • our relationship to another level.
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  • And that's what covenant has been established to do.
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  • But you're gonna have to identify these qualities
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  • and begin to exchange those qualities.
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  • - That's good, because one thing
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  • you and I always talk about is like,
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  • there's usually always one person
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  • who's better at it than the other in the relationship.
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  • Whatever it is.
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  • You know, sometimes you'll have
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  • at least one person who's better at handling the finances.
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  • Or one person who's better at being
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  • the planner for the family.
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  • And you have to identify--
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  • - I thought you were better at handling the finances.
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  • I really do - [DeeDee] Until the last
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  • - [DeeDee] time when I told you.
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  • - Yeah I asked her for a financial report not too long ago.
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  • And she said, "Can I have about three months?"
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  • (DeeDee laughs)
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  • You need three months for?
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  • "I need about three months to show you a financial report."
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  • And I'm thinking I better get that money from that girl.
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  • Any time you need three months
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  • you've been doing some hefty spending.
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  • - After 30 years you all right, you all right.
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  • And so you always have to identify who's
  • 00:24:15.020 --> 00:24:17.040
  • better at it so you can exchange those qualities.
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  • Allow that person to go. - [Pastor] And let it go.
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  • - [DeeDee] But you know, we're always bias
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  • in our own opinions of ourselves.
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  • It's like we always see ourselves as the better person.
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  • And so pride really has to be dealt with
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  • to say, "Okay I am not the better person at this."
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  • - And I know I'm good at it.
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  • I help govern multiple millions of dollars
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  • here in this ministry along with the board of directors.
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  • But at the house, I don't even wanna fool with that.
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  • That's not something I wanna do.
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  • So that's a quality she has that we have identified,
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  • that most people don't even take time.
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  • And, the worst part about it,
  • 00:24:58.030 --> 00:25:00.040
  • you get to the point where you say,
  • 00:25:00.040 --> 00:25:02.080
  • "Well I'll just keep my money,
  • 00:25:02.080 --> 00:25:04.110
  • "you'll keep your money.
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  • "And I'll give my half for the mortgage,
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  • "you give your half."
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  • I think that is the worst set up.
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  • I mean for my house.
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  • It may work for your house, I don't know.
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  • I've watched wives come borrow money from their husband.
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  • DeeDee, Lord DeeDee.
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  • DeeDee she will just grab.
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  • She pulled out my checkbook the other day
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  • and said, "Sign this."
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  • And so I went to look at it
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  • and it was blank.
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  • (congregation laughs)
  • 00:25:42.260 --> 00:25:47.210
  • How you tell somebody sign a blank check?
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  • Guess what I did?
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  • - [Everyone] Signed it.
  • 00:25:54.190 --> 00:25:56.000
  • - How y'all know like that?
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  • Signed it.
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  • I signed, sealed, and delivered that sucker.
  • 00:26:00.220 --> 00:26:02.100
  • Boy, I signed that check and walked away from it
  • 00:26:02.100 --> 00:26:05.040
  • and later on she told me what it was all about.
  • 00:26:05.040 --> 00:26:07.170
  • Well, that's the technique and the quality
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  • that we have discovered.
  • 00:26:09.270 --> 00:26:11.060
  • Now exploring and examining fear habits.
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  • A lot of you have established fear habits
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  • and that's why your relationship is not growing.
  • 00:26:16.140 --> 00:26:18.270
  • And if you don't identify them, explore them,
  • 00:26:18.270 --> 00:26:21.210
  • find out what's keeping you from moving
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  • to the next level, and start implementing
  • 00:26:23.250 --> 00:26:26.010
  • faith habits in the place of fear habits,
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  • you're not gonna grow.
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  • We gotta stop.
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  • I'm way beyond my time.
  • 00:26:31.040 --> 00:26:33.060
  • And that's enough information.
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  • If you pick up the CD. - [DeeDee] That was good,
  • 00:26:35.220 --> 00:26:37.070
  • - [DeeDee] 'Cause you went to the last one, that was good.
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  • - If you pick up the CD and you sit down
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  • and share what you have heard tonight,
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  • because some of y'all just listening.
  • 00:26:44.050 --> 00:26:46.060
  • It is hot, you tired, you going to sleep.
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  • I watch somebody and they was like this.
  • 00:26:50.290 --> 00:26:54.130
  • (congregation laughs)
  • 00:26:54.130 --> 00:26:57.160
  • Almost made me tired.
  • 00:26:57.160 --> 00:26:58.270
  • I looked at 'em, so long to him.
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  • That's why you gotta hang with people
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  • who stay up.
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  • - Hey, why don't you come and hang out
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  • with us on Periscope sometime?
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  • That is a very intimate way to get to know DeeDee and I.
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  • I mean, she is just off the hook.
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  • She behaves pretty well
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  • when we're on television,
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  • but there are moments where we have on Periscope
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  • that are so intimate and so engaging.
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  • And if you're not following us,
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  • you need to follow us on Periscope
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  • to see some of the behind the scene antics
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  • - [DeeDee] See how he acts. - of this one.
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  • Absolutely.
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  • So, join us.
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  • I'll see you on Periscope.
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