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Lysa TerKeurst | The Pathway to Healing

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November 25, 2020
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The author of Forgiving What You Can’t Forget discusses how she found healing through forgiveness and counseling.

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Lysa TerKeurst | The Pathway to Healing

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  • - I HAD HADA CONVERSATION WITH ART
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  • WHERE I HAD TO SAY,"I CAN LOVE YOU,
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  • AND I WILL WORK ONFORGIVING YOU
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  • BUT I WILLNOT SHARE YOU."
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  • I REALLY THOUGHTOUR MARRIAGE WAS OVER
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  • BECAUSE OF CHOICES THATI FINALLY REALIZED
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  • I CAN'T WORK HARDER ON HIMTHAN HE'S WORKING ON HIM.
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  • AFTER LYSA TERKEURST ENDUREDDEVASTATING HEARTBREAK,
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  • SHE REALIZED THE PROCESSAND GOAL OF FORGIVENESS.
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  • Sheila: WELCOME TO LIFE TODAY .
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  • Sheila: WELCOME TO LIFE TODAY .I'M SHEILA WALSH.
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  • Sheila: WELCOME TO LIFE TODAY .I'M SHEILA WALSH.I'M SO GLAD YOU'RE JOINING US.
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  • I'M SHEILA WALSH.I'M SO GLAD YOU'RE JOINING US.ONE OF THE PERKS OF THE JOB,
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  • I'M SO GLAD YOU'RE JOINING US.ONE OF THE PERKS OF THE JOB,IF YOU LIKE, IS THAT SOMETIMES
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  • COPY OF A BOOK.
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  • COPY OF A BOOK.THIS BOOK JUST CAME OUT
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  • COPY OF A BOOK.THIS BOOK JUST CAME OUTAND YOU CAN GRAB A COPY TODAY.
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  • THIS BOOK JUST CAME OUTAND YOU CAN GRAB A COPY TODAY.BUT WHEN I READ THIS BOOK,
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  • AND YOU CAN GRAB A COPY TODAY.BUT WHEN I READ THIS BOOK,I MEAN PARTS OF IT
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  • BUT WHEN I READ THIS BOOK,I MEAN PARTS OF ITMADE ME SMILE BUT A LOT OF IT
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  • I MEAN PARTS OF ITMADE ME SMILE BUT A LOT OF ITBROUGHT ME TO TEARS.
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  • MADE ME SMILE BUT A LOT OF ITBROUGHT ME TO TEARS.AND A LOT OF IT I HAD TO SAY,
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  • BROUGHT ME TO TEARS.AND A LOT OF IT I HAD TO SAY,OKAY, I'M PUTTING THAT DOWN
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  • AND A LOT OF IT I HAD TO SAY,OKAY, I'M PUTTING THAT DOWNFOR A MINUTE BECAUSE
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  • OKAY, I'M PUTTING THAT DOWNFOR A MINUTE BECAUSEI NEED TO THINK ABOUT THIS.
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  • FOR A MINUTE BECAUSEI NEED TO THINK ABOUT THIS.IT'S THAT KIND OF BOOK.
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  • I NEED TO THINK ABOUT THIS.IT'S THAT KIND OF BOOK.SO PLEASE WELCOME MY GUEST
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  • IT'S THAT KIND OF BOOK.SO PLEASE WELCOME MY GUESTLYSA TERKEURST, FORGIVING
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  • SO PLEASE WELCOME MY GUESTLYSA TERKEURST, FORGIVINGWHAT YOU CAN'T FORGET .
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  • LYSA TERKEURST, FORGIVINGWHAT YOU CAN'T FORGET .Lysa: THANK YOU, SHEILA.
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  • WHAT YOU CAN'T FORGET .Lysa: THANK YOU, SHEILA.Sheila: HOW LONG DID IT
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  • Lysa: WELL, I SPENT ABOUT
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  • Lysa: WELL, I SPENT ABOUTSIX MONTHS RESISTANT
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  • SIX MONTHS RESISTANTTO WANTING TO FORGIVE SO
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  • TO WANTING TO FORGIVE SOTHAT WAS NOT VERY CONVENIENT
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  • A BOOK ON FORGIVENESS BUT
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  • A BOOK ON FORGIVENESS BUTREFUSING TO FORGIVE MYSELF
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  • A BOOK ON FORGIVENESS BUTREFUSING TO FORGIVE MYSELFAND TRYING TO WALK
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  • REFUSING TO FORGIVE MYSELFAND TRYING TO WALKTHROUGH THE PROCESS.
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  • AND TRYING TO WALKTHROUGH THE PROCESS.BUT FEELING LIKE SURELY
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  • THROUGH THE PROCESS.BUT FEELING LIKE SURELYTHERE IS AN EXCEPTION.
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  • BUT FEELING LIKE SURELYTHERE IS AN EXCEPTION.SURELY THERE IS A LOOPHOLE
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  • THERE IS AN EXCEPTION.SURELY THERE IS A LOOPHOLEIN THE BIBLE.
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  • SURELY THERE IS A LOOPHOLEIN THE BIBLE.GOD REALLY CAN'T HAVE
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  • IN THE BIBLE.GOD REALLY CAN'T HAVEGIVEN US THIS PRINCIPLE,
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  • GOD REALLY CAN'T HAVEGIVEN US THIS PRINCIPLE,THIS CORNERSTONE OF
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  • GIVEN US THIS PRINCIPLE,THIS CORNERSTONE OFOUR FAITH, OF FORGIVENESS.
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  • THIS CORNERSTONE OFOUR FAITH, OF FORGIVENESS.SURELY HE DIDN'T MEAN ALWAYS .
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  • OUR FAITH, OF FORGIVENESS.SURELY HE DIDN'T MEAN ALWAYS .SO I SPENT OVER 1.000 HOURS
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  • SURELY HE DIDN'T MEAN ALWAYS .SO I SPENT OVER 1.000 HOURSSTUDYING WHAT THE BIBLE
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  • SO I SPENT OVER 1.000 HOURSSTUDYING WHAT THE BIBLEACTUALLY DOES SAY
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  • STUDYING WHAT THE BIBLEACTUALLY DOES SAYAND DOES NOT SAY
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  • ACTUALLY DOES SAYAND DOES NOT SAYABOUT FORGIVENESS.
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  • AND DOES NOT SAYABOUT FORGIVENESS.AND FORGIVENESS IS
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  • ABOUT FORGIVENESS.AND FORGIVENESS ISA COMMAND BY GOD BUT
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  • AND FORGIVENESS ISA COMMAND BY GOD BUTIT IS NOT A CRUEL COMMAND.
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  • A COMMAND BY GOD BUTIT IS NOT A CRUEL COMMAND.IT IS ACTUALLY
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  • IT IS NOT A CRUEL COMMAND.IT IS ACTUALLYHIS DIVINE MERCY.
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  • IT IS ACTUALLYHIS DIVINE MERCY.BUT IT TOOK ME ABOUT
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  • HIS DIVINE MERCY.BUT IT TOOK ME ABOUTSIX MONTHS TO EVEN WARM UP
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  • BUT IT TOOK ME ABOUTSIX MONTHS TO EVEN WARM UPTO THAT IDEA BECAUSE
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  • SIX MONTHS TO EVEN WARM UPTO THAT IDEA BECAUSEI WAS SO HURT.
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  • TO THAT IDEA BECAUSEI WAS SO HURT.AND THEN IT TOOK ME ABOUT
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  • I WAS SO HURT.AND THEN IT TOOK ME ABOUTANOTHER EIGHT MONTHS
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  • AND THEN IT TOOK ME ABOUTANOTHER EIGHT MONTHSTO WRITE IT.
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  • ANOTHER EIGHT MONTHSTO WRITE IT.Sheila: I WONDERED
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  • TO WRITE IT.Sheila: I WONDEREDAT WHAT POINT IN YOUR JOURNEY
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  • Sheila: I WONDEREDAT WHAT POINT IN YOUR JOURNEYBECAUSE YOUR JOURNEY WASN'T,
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  • AT WHAT POINT IN YOUR JOURNEYBECAUSE YOUR JOURNEY WASN'T,AS YOU SAID ON
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  • BECAUSE YOUR JOURNEY WASN'T,AS YOU SAID ONTHE OTHER PROGRAM,
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  • AS YOU SAID ONTHE OTHER PROGRAM,A DEVASTATING SITUATION
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  • THE OTHER PROGRAM,A DEVASTATING SITUATIONOF REPENTANCE
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  • A DEVASTATING SITUATIONOF REPENTANCEAND A RESTORATION.
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  • OF REPENTANCEAND A RESTORATION.IT WAS A LONG PROCESS.
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  • AND A RESTORATION.IT WAS A LONG PROCESS.WHEN DID YOU ACTUALLY
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  • IT WAS A LONG PROCESS.WHEN DID YOU ACTUALLYDETERMINE TO PURSUE
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  • WHEN DID YOU ACTUALLYDETERMINE TO PURSUEFORGIVENESS?
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  • DETERMINE TO PURSUEFORGIVENESS?Lysa: WELL, I DID NOT DECIDE
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  • FORGIVENESS?Lysa: WELL, I DID NOT DECIDETO PURSUE FORGIVENESS.
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  • Lysa: WELL, I DID NOT DECIDETO PURSUE FORGIVENESS.I DECIDED I NEEDED HELP.
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  • TO PURSUE FORGIVENESS.I DECIDED I NEEDED HELP.AND SO I WENT TO MY COUNSELOR.
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  • I DECIDED I NEEDED HELP.AND SO I WENT TO MY COUNSELOR.THIS WAS AFTER, I THINK
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  • AND SO I WENT TO MY COUNSELOR.THIS WAS AFTER, I THINKIT WAS STILL VERY MUCH
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  • THIS WAS AFTER, I THINKIT WAS STILL VERY MUCHIN THE TRAUMA SEASON
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  • IT WAS STILL VERY MUCHIN THE TRAUMA SEASONOF MY MARRIAGE WHERE
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  • IN THE TRAUMA SEASONOF MY MARRIAGE WHEREI THOUGHT WE WERE ABOUT DONE
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  • OF MY MARRIAGE WHEREI THOUGHT WE WERE ABOUT DONEWITH HEALING FROM THE AFFAIR
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  • I THOUGHT WE WERE ABOUT DONEWITH HEALING FROM THE AFFAIRAND THE ADDICTIONS THAT
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  • WITH HEALING FROM THE AFFAIRAND THE ADDICTIONS THATMY HUSBAND HAD CHOSEN THAT
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  • AND THE ADDICTIONS THATMY HUSBAND HAD CHOSEN THATWERE SO OUT OF HIS CHARACTER.
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  • MY HUSBAND HAD CHOSEN THATWERE SO OUT OF HIS CHARACTER.IT WAS JUST SHOCKING
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  • WERE SO OUT OF HIS CHARACTER.IT WAS JUST SHOCKINGON EVERY LEVEL.
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  • IT WAS JUST SHOCKINGON EVERY LEVEL.I HAD HAD A CONVERSATION
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  • ON EVERY LEVEL.I HAD HAD A CONVERSATIONWITH ART WHERE I HAD TO SAY,
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  • I HAD HAD A CONVERSATIONWITH ART WHERE I HAD TO SAY,"I CAN LOVE YOU AND I WILL
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  • WITH ART WHERE I HAD TO SAY,"I CAN LOVE YOU AND I WILLWORK ON FORGIVING YOU
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  • "I CAN LOVE YOU AND I WILLWORK ON FORGIVING YOUBUT I WILL NOT SHARE YOU."
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  • WORK ON FORGIVING YOUBUT I WILL NOT SHARE YOU."AND I REALLY THOUGHT
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  • BUT I WILL NOT SHARE YOU."AND I REALLY THOUGHTOUR MARRIAGE WAS OVER BECAUSE
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  • AND I REALLY THOUGHTOUR MARRIAGE WAS OVER BECAUSEOF CHOICES THAT I FINALLY
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  • OUR MARRIAGE WAS OVER BECAUSEOF CHOICES THAT I FINALLYREALIZED I CAN'T WORK
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  • OF CHOICES THAT I FINALLYREALIZED I CAN'T WORKHARDER ON HIM THAN
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  • REALIZED I CAN'T WORKHARDER ON HIM THANHE IS WORKING ON HIM.
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  • HARDER ON HIM THANHE IS WORKING ON HIM.SO I WENT TO MY COUNSELOR.
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  • HE IS WORKING ON HIM.SO I WENT TO MY COUNSELOR.I WAS DEVASTATED.
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  • SO I WENT TO MY COUNSELOR.I WAS DEVASTATED.I HADN'T TAKEN A SHOWER
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  • I WAS DEVASTATED.I HADN'T TAKEN A SHOWERIN SEVERAL DAYS.
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  • I HADN'T TAKEN A SHOWERIN SEVERAL DAYS.I COULDN'T REMEMBER
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  • IN SEVERAL DAYS.I COULDN'T REMEMBERWHEN THE LAST TIME IT WAS
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  • I COULDN'T REMEMBERWHEN THE LAST TIME IT WASTHAT I'D WASHED MY HAIR.
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  • WHEN THE LAST TIME IT WASTHAT I'D WASHED MY HAIR.SO IT WAS ONE OF
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  • THAT I'D WASHED MY HAIR.SO IT WAS ONE OFTHOSE SEASONS OF LIFE.
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  • SO IT WAS ONE OFTHOSE SEASONS OF LIFE.Sheila: IT'S JUST SO NOT YOU.
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  • THOSE SEASONS OF LIFE.Sheila: IT'S JUST SO NOT YOU.Lysa: IT'S SO NOT ME.
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  • Sheila: IT'S JUST SO NOT YOU.Lysa: IT'S SO NOT ME.I REMEMBER WALKING INTO
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  • Lysa: IT'S SO NOT ME.I REMEMBER WALKING INTOTHE COUNSELOR'S OFFICE
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  • I REMEMBER WALKING INTOTHE COUNSELOR'S OFFICEAND THINKING, I DON'T EVEN
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  • THE COUNSELOR'S OFFICEAND THINKING, I DON'T EVENKNOW WHEN THE LAST TIME
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  • AND THINKING, I DON'T EVENKNOW WHEN THE LAST TIMEWAS THAT I ACTUALLY
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  • KNOW WHEN THE LAST TIMEWAS THAT I ACTUALLYPUT DEODORANT ON
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  • WAS THAT I ACTUALLYPUT DEODORANT ONAND THAT'S NOT ACCEPTABLE.
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  • PUT DEODORANT ONAND THAT'S NOT ACCEPTABLE.SO I WENT INTO THE BATHROOM
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  • AND THAT'S NOT ACCEPTABLE.SO I WENT INTO THE BATHROOMAND FOUND SOME PEACH
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  • SO I WENT INTO THE BATHROOMAND FOUND SOME PEACHAIR FRESHENER UNDER THE SINK.
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  • AND FOUND SOME PEACHAIR FRESHENER UNDER THE SINK.I'M A RESOURCEFUL PERSON
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  • AIR FRESHENER UNDER THE SINK.I'M A RESOURCEFUL PERSONSO I WENT INTO THAT
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  • I'M A RESOURCEFUL PERSONSO I WENT INTO THATCOUNSELLING SESSION SMELLING
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  • SO I WENT INTO THATCOUNSELLING SESSION SMELLINGLIKE A FRESHLY BAKED
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  • COUNSELLING SESSION SMELLINGLIKE A FRESHLY BAKEDPEACH COBBLER.
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  • LIKE A FRESHLY BAKEDPEACH COBBLER.MY COUNSELOR LOOKED AT ME
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  • PEACH COBBLER.MY COUNSELOR LOOKED AT MEAND HE SAID, "LYSA,
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  • MY COUNSELOR LOOKED AT MEAND HE SAID, "LYSA,DO YOU WANT TO HEAL?"
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  • AND HE SAID, "LYSA,DO YOU WANT TO HEAL?"I SAID, "YES. I DO."
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  • DO YOU WANT TO HEAL?"I SAID, "YES. I DO."AND HE SAID, "THEN TODAY
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  • I SAID, "YES. I DO."AND HE SAID, "THEN TODAYIS A GREAT DAY TO START
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  • AND I REMEMBER LOOKING AT HIM
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  • AND I REMEMBER LOOKING AT HIMAND THINKING, ARE YOU CRAZY?
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  • AND THINKING, ARE YOU CRAZY?ARE YOU HIGH?
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  • ARE YOU HIGH?LIKE IF YOU SAID TODAY
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  • ON MY PERSONAL HYGIENE,
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  • ON MY PERSONAL HYGIENE,I WOULD SAY YES, YOU ARE
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  • ON MY PERSONAL HYGIENE,I WOULD SAY YES, YOU AREA GOOD COUNSELOR.
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  • I WOULD SAY YES, YOU AREA GOOD COUNSELOR.YOU'RE AN INTUITIVE COUNSELOR.
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  • A GOOD COUNSELOR.YOU'RE AN INTUITIVE COUNSELOR.YES, I NEED TO WORK ON THAT.
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  • YOU'RE AN INTUITIVE COUNSELOR.YES, I NEED TO WORK ON THAT.BUT FORGIVENESS?
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  • YES, I NEED TO WORK ON THAT.BUT FORGIVENESS?ABSOLUTELY NOT.
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  • BUT FORGIVENESS?ABSOLUTELY NOT.I DON'T KNOW HOW THIS STORY
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  • ABSOLUTELY NOT.I DON'T KNOW HOW THIS STORYIS GOING TO TURN OUT YET.
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  • I DON'T KNOW HOW THIS STORYIS GOING TO TURN OUT YET.I DON'T EVEN THINK
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  • IS GOING TO TURN OUT YET.I DON'T EVEN THINKTHAT HE IS SORRY.
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  • I DON'T EVEN THINKTHAT HE IS SORRY.I DON'T THINK THAT
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  • THAT HE IS SORRY.I DON'T THINK THATIT IS GOING TO BE POSSIBLE
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  • I DON'T THINK THATIT IS GOING TO BE POSSIBLEFOR US TO RECONCILE.
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  • IT IS GOING TO BE POSSIBLEFOR US TO RECONCILE.I'M NOT DONE HURTING.
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  • FOR US TO RECONCILE.I'M NOT DONE HURTING.AND ALSO, I'M NOT EVEN SURE
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  • I'M NOT DONE HURTING.AND ALSO, I'M NOT EVEN SURETHAT I WANT TO FORGIVE.
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  • AND ALSO, I'M NOT EVEN SURETHAT I WANT TO FORGIVE.IF I FORGIVE IS THAT
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  • THAT I WANT TO FORGIVE.IF I FORGIVE IS THATME SAYING THAT WHAT HAPPENED
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  • IF I FORGIVE IS THATME SAYING THAT WHAT HAPPENEDDIDN'T MATTER?
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  • ME SAYING THAT WHAT HAPPENEDDIDN'T MATTER?BECAUSE IT DOES MATTER.
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  • DIDN'T MATTER?BECAUSE IT DOES MATTER.OR IS THAT ME BETRAYING
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  • BECAUSE IT DOES MATTER.OR IS THAT ME BETRAYINGMYSELF AND SAYING I REALLY
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  • OR IS THAT ME BETRAYINGMYSELF AND SAYING I REALLYWASN'T HURT BY THIS?
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  • MYSELF AND SAYING I REALLYWASN'T HURT BY THIS?BECAUSE I WAS DEVASTATED
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  • WASN'T HURT BY THIS?BECAUSE I WAS DEVASTATEDBY THIS.
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  • BECAUSE I WAS DEVASTATEDBY THIS.AND SO IF I FORGIVE
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  • BY THIS.AND SO IF I FORGIVEDOESN'T THAT MEAN THAT
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  • AND SO IF I FORGIVEDOESN'T THAT MEAN THATAT THAT POINT I'M SAYING
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  • DOESN'T THAT MEAN THATAT THAT POINT I'M SAYINGIT IS OKAY?
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  • AT THAT POINT I'M SAYINGIT IS OKAY?IT WASN'T OKAY. SO NO!
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  • IT IS OKAY?IT WASN'T OKAY. SO NO!I REMEMBER LOOKING AT
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  • IT WASN'T OKAY. SO NO!I REMEMBER LOOKING ATMY COUNSELOR SAYING,
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  • I REMEMBER LOOKING ATMY COUNSELOR SAYING,ABSOLUTELY NOT.
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  • MY COUNSELOR SAYING,ABSOLUTELY NOT.I'M NOT GOING TO WORK
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  • ABSOLUTELY NOT.I'M NOT GOING TO WORKON FORGIVENESS.
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  • I'M NOT GOING TO WORKON FORGIVENESS.THAT'S WHEN HE LOOKED AT ME
  • 00:05:34.824 --> 00:05:35.992
  • ON FORGIVENESS.THAT'S WHEN HE LOOKED AT MEAND SAID, "OKAY, LYSA,
  • 00:05:35.992 --> 00:05:37.393
  • THAT'S WHEN HE LOOKED AT MEAND SAID, "OKAY, LYSA,LET'S START WITH THE PAIN.
  • 00:05:37.393 --> 00:05:40.363
  • AND SAID, "OKAY, LYSA,LET'S START WITH THE PAIN.LET'S START WITH YOUR PAIN."
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  • LET'S START WITH THE PAIN.LET'S START WITH YOUR PAIN."HE HANDED ME THIS LITTLE STACK
  • 00:05:41.998 --> 00:05:43.132
  • LET'S START WITH YOUR PAIN."HE HANDED ME THIS LITTLE STACKOF THREE BY FIVE CARDS,
  • 00:05:43.132 --> 00:05:44.200
  • HE HANDED ME THIS LITTLE STACKOF THREE BY FIVE CARDS,IT ACTUALLY WASN'T LITTLE.
  • 00:05:44.200 --> 00:05:45.768
  • OF THREE BY FIVE CARDS,IT ACTUALLY WASN'T LITTLE.IT WAS PRETTY TALL.
  • 00:05:45.768 --> 00:05:47.603
  • IT ACTUALLY WASN'T LITTLE.IT WAS PRETTY TALL.HE SAID, "JUST START WRITING
  • 00:05:47.603 --> 00:05:49.071
  • IT WAS PRETTY TALL.HE SAID, "JUST START WRITINGHOW YOU HURT AND JUST WRITE
  • 00:05:49.071 --> 00:05:50.573
  • HE SAID, "JUST START WRITINGHOW YOU HURT AND JUST WRITEONE THING ON EACH CARD
  • 00:05:50.573 --> 00:05:51.774
  • HOW YOU HURT AND JUST WRITEONE THING ON EACH CARDAND THEN LAY THE CARD
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  • ONE THING ON EACH CARDAND THEN LAY THE CARDDOWN ON THE FLOOR."
  • 00:05:53.309 --> 00:05:54.544
  • AND THEN LAY THE CARDDOWN ON THE FLOOR."WELL, SHEILA, I HAD
  • 00:05:54.544 --> 00:05:56.479
  • DOWN ON THE FLOOR."WELL, SHEILA, I HADSO MUCH HURT.
  • 00:05:56.479 --> 00:06:00.349
  • WELL, SHEILA, I HADSO MUCH HURT.SO MUCH HURT AND SO FINALLY
  • 00:06:00.349 --> 00:06:01.551
  • SO MUCH HURT.SO MUCH HURT AND SO FINALLYWHEN I'VE WRITTEN THE VERY
  • 00:06:01.551 --> 00:06:02.885
  • SO MUCH HURT AND SO FINALLYWHEN I'VE WRITTEN THE VERYLAST THING DOWN, I COULDN'T
  • 00:06:02.885 --> 00:06:05.188
  • WHEN I'VE WRITTEN THE VERYLAST THING DOWN, I COULDN'TTHINK OF ANOTHER THING,
  • 00:06:05.188 --> 00:06:06.355
  • LAST THING DOWN, I COULDN'TTHINK OF ANOTHER THING,I LOOKED, THERE WERE
  • 00:06:06.355 --> 00:06:09.325
  • THINK OF ANOTHER THING,I LOOKED, THERE WERECARDS ALL OVER THE FLOOR.
  • 00:06:09.325 --> 00:06:10.560
  • I LOOKED, THERE WERECARDS ALL OVER THE FLOOR.AND I LOOKED OVER
  • 00:06:10.560 --> 00:06:11.828
  • CARDS ALL OVER THE FLOOR.AND I LOOKED OVERAT MY COUNSELOR.
  • 00:06:11.828 --> 00:06:13.696
  • AND I LOOKED OVERAT MY COUNSELOR.AND HE DID THE BEST THING
  • 00:06:13.696 --> 00:06:16.232
  • AT MY COUNSELOR.AND HE DID THE BEST THINGTHAT SOMEONE CAN DO WHEN
  • 00:06:16.232 --> 00:06:17.767
  • AND HE DID THE BEST THINGTHAT SOMEONE CAN DO WHENSOMEONE IS HURTING BECAUSE
  • 00:06:17.767 --> 00:06:19.435
  • THAT SOMEONE CAN DO WHENSOMEONE IS HURTING BECAUSEOF THEIR LIFE BEING SHATTERED
  • 00:06:19.435 --> 00:06:21.003
  • SOMEONE IS HURTING BECAUSEOF THEIR LIFE BEING SHATTEREDLIKE MINE WAS.
  • 00:06:21.003 --> 00:06:22.405
  • OF THEIR LIFE BEING SHATTEREDLIKE MINE WAS.AND HE SIMPLY LOOKED BACK
  • 00:06:22.405 --> 00:06:23.906
  • LIKE MINE WAS.AND HE SIMPLY LOOKED BACKAT ME WITH TEARS IN HIS EYES
  • 00:06:23.906 --> 00:06:27.009
  • AND HE SIMPLY LOOKED BACKAT ME WITH TEARS IN HIS EYESAND HE SAID, "I BELIEVE YOU."
  • 00:06:27.009 --> 00:06:29.078
  • AT ME WITH TEARS IN HIS EYESAND HE SAID, "I BELIEVE YOU."AND IT WAS SUCH A GIFT
  • 00:06:29.078 --> 00:06:32.048
  • AND HE SAID, "I BELIEVE YOU."AND IT WAS SUCH A GIFTTO MY HEART.
  • 00:06:32.048 --> 00:06:34.484
  • AND IT WAS SUCH A GIFTTO MY HEART.HE SAID, "LYSA, WHAT HAS
  • 00:06:34.484 --> 00:06:36.953
  • TO MY HEART.HE SAID, "LYSA, WHAT HASHAPPENED TO YOU WAS WRONG
  • 00:06:36.953 --> 00:06:39.288
  • HE SAID, "LYSA, WHAT HASHAPPENED TO YOU WAS WRONGAND IT WAS HURTFUL."
  • 00:06:39.288 --> 00:06:40.823
  • HAPPENED TO YOU WAS WRONGAND IT WAS HURTFUL."AND I GUESS I JUST WANT
  • 00:06:40.823 --> 00:06:43.593
  • AND IT WAS HURTFUL."AND I GUESS I JUST WANTTO SAY TODAY TO ANYONE
  • 00:06:43.593 --> 00:06:46.929
  • AND I GUESS I JUST WANTTO SAY TODAY TO ANYONEWHO MIGHT BE REALLY TRACKING
  • 00:06:46.929 --> 00:06:49.232
  • TO SAY TODAY TO ANYONEWHO MIGHT BE REALLY TRACKINGWITH MY STORY, MAYBE
  • 00:06:49.232 --> 00:06:51.167
  • WHO MIGHT BE REALLY TRACKINGWITH MY STORY, MAYBEYOUR STORY ISN'T LIKE MINE.
  • 00:06:51.167 --> 00:06:53.236
  • WITH MY STORY, MAYBEYOUR STORY ISN'T LIKE MINE.MAYBE IT IS JUST THAT
  • 00:06:53.236 --> 00:06:56.439
  • YOUR STORY ISN'T LIKE MINE.MAYBE IT IS JUST THATYOU'VE BEEN HURT TOO.
  • 00:06:56.439 --> 00:06:59.809
  • MAYBE IT IS JUST THATYOU'VE BEEN HURT TOO.YOU DESERVE TO STOP SUFFERING
  • 00:06:59.809 --> 00:07:01.077
  • YOU'VE BEEN HURT TOO.YOU DESERVE TO STOP SUFFERINGBECAUSE OF WHAT OTHER PEOPLE
  • 00:07:01.077 --> 00:07:02.612
  • YOU DESERVE TO STOP SUFFERINGBECAUSE OF WHAT OTHER PEOPLEHAVE DONE TO YOU.
  • 00:07:02.612 --> 00:07:04.213
  • BECAUSE OF WHAT OTHER PEOPLEHAVE DONE TO YOU.AND IF NO ONE ELSE
  • 00:07:04.213 --> 00:07:05.648
  • HAVE DONE TO YOU.AND IF NO ONE ELSEIN THIS WORLD HAS DARED
  • 00:07:05.648 --> 00:07:07.416
  • AND IF NO ONE ELSEIN THIS WORLD HAS DAREDTO BEAR WITNESS TO YOUR PAIN,
  • 00:07:07.416 --> 00:07:09.719
  • IN THIS WORLD HAS DAREDTO BEAR WITNESS TO YOUR PAIN,I WILL.
  • 00:07:09.719 --> 00:07:11.153
  • TO BEAR WITNESS TO YOUR PAIN,I WILL.WHAT HAPPENED TO YOU
  • 00:07:11.153 --> 00:07:12.588
  • I WILL.WHAT HAPPENED TO YOUWAS WRONG.
  • 00:07:12.588 --> 00:07:14.323
  • WHAT HAPPENED TO YOUWAS WRONG.AND I'M SO SORRY.
  • 00:07:14.323 --> 00:07:15.691
  • WAS WRONG.AND I'M SO SORRY.I'M SO SORRY FOR HOW
  • 00:07:15.691 --> 00:07:17.059
  • AND I'M SO SORRY.I'M SO SORRY FOR HOWTHEY HURT YOU.
  • 00:07:17.059 --> 00:07:18.427
  • I'M SO SORRY FOR HOWTHEY HURT YOU.I'M SO SORRY THEY DIDN'T
  • 00:07:18.427 --> 00:07:19.829
  • THEY HURT YOU.I'M SO SORRY THEY DIDN'TLOVE YOU THE WAY
  • 00:07:19.829 --> 00:07:22.331
  • I'M SO SORRY THEY DIDN'TLOVE YOU THE WAYYOU SHOULD HAVE BEEN LOVED.
  • 00:07:22.331 --> 00:07:24.300
  • LOVE YOU THE WAYYOU SHOULD HAVE BEEN LOVED.I JUST WANT TO SAY TO YOU
  • 00:07:24.300 --> 00:07:26.035
  • YOU SHOULD HAVE BEEN LOVED.I JUST WANT TO SAY TO YOUFORGIVENESS IS NOT
  • 00:07:26.035 --> 00:07:27.870
  • I JUST WANT TO SAY TO YOUFORGIVENESS IS NOTANOTHER HARD THING
  • 00:07:27.870 --> 00:07:29.672
  • FORGIVENESS IS THE PATHWAY
  • 00:07:31.007 --> 00:07:33.175
  • FORGIVENESS IS THE PATHWAYTO HEALING AND I WANT
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  • TO HEALING AND I WANTTO SHOW YOU IT IS POSSIBLE.
  • 00:07:35.011 --> 00:07:38.080
  • Sheila: ONE OF THE THINGS
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  • Sheila: ONE OF THE THINGSTHAT MOST RESONATED WITH ME
  • 00:07:44.387 --> 00:07:45.721
  • THAT MOST RESONATED WITH MEAS AN EMOTION, YOU SAID
  • 00:07:45.721 --> 00:07:48.357
  • IT IS HYSTERICAL,
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  • IT IS HYSTERICAL,IT IS HISTORICAL.
  • 00:07:52.328 --> 00:07:54.330
  • IT IS HYSTERICAL,IT IS HISTORICAL.I JUST PUT THE BOOK DOWN
  • 00:07:54.330 --> 00:07:55.665
  • IT IS HISTORICAL.I JUST PUT THE BOOK DOWNAT THAT POINT BECAUSE
  • 00:07:55.665 --> 00:07:56.866
  • I JUST PUT THE BOOK DOWNAT THAT POINT BECAUSEI THOUGHT OF THE NUMBER
  • 00:07:56.866 --> 00:07:58.234
  • AT THAT POINT BECAUSEI THOUGHT OF THE NUMBEROF TIMES I'VE REACTED
  • 00:07:58.234 --> 00:07:59.535
  • I THOUGHT OF THE NUMBEROF TIMES I'VE REACTEDTO SOMETHING BARRY, MY HUSBAND
  • 00:07:59.535 --> 00:08:02.705
  • OF TIMES I'VE REACTEDTO SOMETHING BARRY, MY HUSBANDHAS DONE OUT OF ALL PROPORTION
  • 00:08:02.705 --> 00:08:04.407
  • TO SOMETHING BARRY, MY HUSBANDHAS DONE OUT OF ALL PROPORTIONTO ACTUALLY WHAT HE'S DONE.
  • 00:08:04.407 --> 00:08:06.842
  • HAS DONE OUT OF ALL PROPORTIONTO ACTUALLY WHAT HE'S DONE.AND IT MAKES ME REALIZE --
  • 00:08:06.842 --> 00:08:08.010
  • TO ACTUALLY WHAT HE'S DONE.AND IT MAKES ME REALIZE --AT WHAT POINT IN YOUR JOURNEY
  • 00:08:08.010 --> 00:08:09.278
  • AND IT MAKES ME REALIZE --AT WHAT POINT IN YOUR JOURNEYDID YOU GET THAT,
  • 00:08:09.278 --> 00:08:10.413
  • AT WHAT POINT IN YOUR JOURNEYDID YOU GET THAT,THAT THIS IS NOT JUST
  • 00:08:10.413 --> 00:08:12.582
  • DID YOU GET THAT,THAT THIS IS NOT JUSTALL ABOUT ART?
  • 00:08:12.582 --> 00:08:14.817
  • THAT THIS IS NOT JUSTALL ABOUT ART?Lysa: I THINK IT WAS,
  • 00:08:14.817 --> 00:08:16.752
  • ALL ABOUT ART?Lysa: I THINK IT WAS,JUST LIKE YOU DESCRIBED,
  • 00:08:16.752 --> 00:08:18.888
  • Lysa: I THINK IT WAS,JUST LIKE YOU DESCRIBED,WHEN SOMETHING HAPPENS AND
  • 00:08:18.888 --> 00:08:20.256
  • JUST LIKE YOU DESCRIBED,WHEN SOMETHING HAPPENS ANDYOU HAVE AN OUT-OF-PROPORTION
  • 00:08:20.256 --> 00:08:21.924
  • WHEN SOMETHING HAPPENS ANDYOU HAVE AN OUT-OF-PROPORTIONREACTION.
  • 00:08:21.924 --> 00:08:26.162
  • YOU HAVE AN OUT-OF-PROPORTIONREACTION.I'M NOT USUALLY A PERSON
  • 00:08:26.162 --> 00:08:28.331
  • REACTION.I'M NOT USUALLY A PERSONTHAT GETS SO EMOTIONALLY
  • 00:08:28.331 --> 00:08:30.366
  • I'M NOT USUALLY A PERSONTHAT GETS SO EMOTIONALLYCHARGED THAT I LOSE IT.
  • 00:08:30.366 --> 00:08:32.535
  • THAT GETS SO EMOTIONALLYCHARGED THAT I LOSE IT.THAT'S JUST NOT USUALLY
  • 00:08:32.535 --> 00:08:34.403
  • CHARGED THAT I LOSE IT.THAT'S JUST NOT USUALLYWHAT HAPPENS TO ME.
  • 00:08:34.403 --> 00:08:36.906
  • THAT'S JUST NOT USUALLYWHAT HAPPENS TO ME.BUT IT KEPT HAPPENING TO ME.
  • 00:08:36.906 --> 00:08:38.774
  • WHAT HAPPENS TO ME.BUT IT KEPT HAPPENING TO ME.I KEPT GETTING TRIGGERED
  • 00:08:38.774 --> 00:08:40.543
  • BUT IT KEPT HAPPENING TO ME.I KEPT GETTING TRIGGEREDIN MY PAIN AND WHAT I STARTED
  • 00:08:40.543 --> 00:08:43.012
  • I KEPT GETTING TRIGGEREDIN MY PAIN AND WHAT I STARTEDTO REALIZE IS TRIGGERS
  • 00:08:43.012 --> 00:08:44.647
  • IN MY PAIN AND WHAT I STARTEDTO REALIZE IS TRIGGERSARE VERY INCONVENIENT.
  • 00:08:44.647 --> 00:08:45.815
  • TO REALIZE IS TRIGGERSARE VERY INCONVENIENT.IT IS NOT LIKE I CAN
  • 00:08:45.815 --> 00:08:46.916
  • ARE VERY INCONVENIENT.IT IS NOT LIKE I CANSCHEDULE THEM ON MY CALENDAR.
  • 00:08:46.916 --> 00:08:48.050
  • IT IS NOT LIKE I CANSCHEDULE THEM ON MY CALENDAR.LIKE ON TUESDAY EVENING
  • 00:08:48.050 --> 00:08:49.251
  • SCHEDULE THEM ON MY CALENDAR.LIKE ON TUESDAY EVENINGI'LL BE SITTING IN THE BATHTUB
  • 00:08:49.251 --> 00:08:50.786
  • LIKE ON TUESDAY EVENINGI'LL BE SITTING IN THE BATHTUBAND I'LL HAVE MY OWN
  • 00:08:50.786 --> 00:08:53.055
  • I'LL BE SITTING IN THE BATHTUBAND I'LL HAVE MY OWNCOMMUNION SET UP.
  • 00:08:53.055 --> 00:08:55.057
  • AND I'LL HAVE MY OWNCOMMUNION SET UP.IT'S LIKE NOBODY CAN SEE ME
  • 00:08:55.057 --> 00:08:56.692
  • COMMUNION SET UP.IT'S LIKE NOBODY CAN SEE MESO YES, IN THAT MOMENT
  • 00:08:56.692 --> 00:08:58.027
  • IT'S LIKE NOBODY CAN SEE MESO YES, IN THAT MOMENTI'LL GET TRIGGERED IN MY PAIN
  • 00:08:58.027 --> 00:08:59.128
  • SO YES, IN THAT MOMENTI'LL GET TRIGGERED IN MY PAINAND BE BY MYSELF
  • 00:08:59.128 --> 00:09:00.363
  • I'LL GET TRIGGERED IN MY PAINAND BE BY MYSELFAND DEAL WITH IT.
  • 00:09:00.363 --> 00:09:01.564
  • AND BE BY MYSELFAND DEAL WITH IT.THAT'S NOT HOW IT HAPPENS.
  • 00:09:01.564 --> 00:09:03.032
  • AND DEAL WITH IT.THAT'S NOT HOW IT HAPPENS.TRIGGERS HAPPEN WHEN
  • 00:09:03.032 --> 00:09:04.367
  • THAT'S NOT HOW IT HAPPENS.TRIGGERS HAPPEN WHENI'M STANDING IN THE GROCERY
  • 00:09:04.367 --> 00:09:06.102
  • TRIGGERS HAPPEN WHENI'M STANDING IN THE GROCERYSTORE LINE AND MY PHONE
  • 00:09:06.102 --> 00:09:07.336
  • I'M STANDING IN THE GROCERYSTORE LINE AND MY PHONESENDS ME ONE OF THOSE
  • 00:09:07.336 --> 00:09:09.138
  • STORE LINE AND MY PHONESENDS ME ONE OF THOSEMEMORY MOVIES FROM
  • 00:09:09.138 --> 00:09:10.239
  • SENDS ME ONE OF THOSEMEMORY MOVIES FROM"HERE'S WHAT HAPPENED
  • 00:09:10.239 --> 00:09:13.476
  • MEMORY MOVIES FROM"HERE'S WHAT HAPPENEDFOUR YEARS AGO ON THIS DAY."
  • 00:09:13.476 --> 00:09:14.944
  • "HERE'S WHAT HAPPENEDFOUR YEARS AGO ON THIS DAY."THOSE KIND OF MEMORIES
  • 00:09:14.944 --> 00:09:18.481
  • FOUR YEARS AGO ON THIS DAY."THOSE KIND OF MEMORIESARE PRECIOUS UNTIL THEY CAUSE
  • 00:09:18.481 --> 00:09:20.316
  • THOSE KIND OF MEMORIESARE PRECIOUS UNTIL THEY CAUSESO MUCH GRIEF AND THEY'RE
  • 00:09:20.316 --> 00:09:22.818
  • ARE PRECIOUS UNTIL THEY CAUSESO MUCH GRIEF AND THEY'REREMINDERS OF SO MUCH LOSS
  • 00:09:22.818 --> 00:09:24.487
  • SO MUCH GRIEF AND THEY'REREMINDERS OF SO MUCH LOSSTHAT THEY TRIGGER YOU.
  • 00:09:24.487 --> 00:09:25.788
  • REMINDERS OF SO MUCH LOSSTHAT THEY TRIGGER YOU.AND I REMEMBER ONE TIME
  • 00:09:25.788 --> 00:09:27.156
  • THAT THEY TRIGGER YOU.AND I REMEMBER ONE TIMEI WAS AT THE GROCERY STORE
  • 00:09:27.156 --> 00:09:28.958
  • AND I REMEMBER ONE TIMEI WAS AT THE GROCERY STOREAND I GOT SO TRIGGERED
  • 00:09:28.958 --> 00:09:30.359
  • I WAS AT THE GROCERY STOREAND I GOT SO TRIGGEREDBY SOMETHING THAT NO ONE ELSE
  • 00:09:30.359 --> 00:09:31.527
  • AND I GOT SO TRIGGEREDBY SOMETHING THAT NO ONE ELSEIN THE WORLD WOULD HAVE
  • 00:09:31.527 --> 00:09:32.828
  • BY SOMETHING THAT NO ONE ELSEIN THE WORLD WOULD HAVEEVER KNOWN WOULD HAVE
  • 00:09:32.828 --> 00:09:34.163
  • IN THE WORLD WOULD HAVEEVER KNOWN WOULD HAVECAUSED AN INTERNAL
  • 00:09:34.163 --> 00:09:35.531
  • EVER KNOWN WOULD HAVECAUSED AN INTERNALEMOTIONAL MELT DOWN IN ME.
  • 00:09:35.531 --> 00:09:36.999
  • CAUSED AN INTERNALEMOTIONAL MELT DOWN IN ME.AND I LITERALLY JUST LAID
  • 00:09:36.999 --> 00:09:38.634
  • EMOTIONAL MELT DOWN IN ME.AND I LITERALLY JUST LAIDACROSS THE BANANAS LIKE
  • 00:09:38.634 --> 00:09:39.802
  • AND I LITERALLY JUST LAIDACROSS THE BANANAS LIKEIN THE MIDDLE OF THE PRODUCE
  • 00:09:39.802 --> 00:09:41.404
  • ACROSS THE BANANAS LIKEIN THE MIDDLE OF THE PRODUCEAISLE AND I WAS WEEPING.
  • 00:09:41.404 --> 00:09:42.471
  • IN THE MIDDLE OF THE PRODUCEAISLE AND I WAS WEEPING.YOU KNOW, THEY DO NOT PAY
  • 00:09:42.471 --> 00:09:43.572
  • AISLE AND I WAS WEEPING.YOU KNOW, THEY DO NOT PAYTHE PRODUCE GUY ENOUGH MONEY
  • 00:09:43.572 --> 00:09:44.740
  • YOU KNOW, THEY DO NOT PAYTHE PRODUCE GUY ENOUGH MONEYTO DEAL WITH SOMEBODY
  • 00:09:44.740 --> 00:09:46.042
  • THE PRODUCE GUY ENOUGH MONEYTO DEAL WITH SOMEBODYLIKE THIS.
  • 00:09:46.042 --> 00:09:47.209
  • TO DEAL WITH SOMEBODYLIKE THIS.AND HE CAME UP AND SAID,
  • 00:09:47.209 --> 00:09:48.477
  • LIKE THIS.AND HE CAME UP AND SAID,"CAN I HELP YOU?"
  • 00:09:48.477 --> 00:09:49.545
  • AND HE CAME UP AND SAID,"CAN I HELP YOU?"I REMEMBER STANDING IN
  • 00:09:49.545 --> 00:09:50.846
  • "CAN I HELP YOU?"I REMEMBER STANDING INTHE GROCERY STORE, AND
  • 00:09:50.846 --> 00:09:51.947
  • I REMEMBER STANDING INTHE GROCERY STORE, ANDI'M SURE HE IS LIKE, WOMAN,
  • 00:09:51.947 --> 00:09:54.150
  • THE GROCERY STORE, ANDI'M SURE HE IS LIKE, WOMAN,YOU ARE BRUISING OUR BANANAS.
  • 00:09:54.150 --> 00:09:55.251
  • I'M SURE HE IS LIKE, WOMAN,YOU ARE BRUISING OUR BANANAS.Sheila: YOU WILL ONLY EAT
  • 00:09:55.251 --> 00:09:57.153
  • YOU ARE BRUISING OUR BANANAS.Sheila: YOU WILL ONLY EATA BANANA THAT IS NOT BRUISED.
  • 00:09:57.153 --> 00:09:58.354
  • Sheila: YOU WILL ONLY EATA BANANA THAT IS NOT BRUISED.I REMEMBER THAT ABOUT YOU.
  • 00:09:58.354 --> 00:09:59.455
  • A BANANA THAT IS NOT BRUISED.I REMEMBER THAT ABOUT YOU.Lysa: I WAS A WALKING
  • 00:09:59.455 --> 00:10:00.856
  • I REMEMBER THAT ABOUT YOU.Lysa: I WAS A WALKINGCONTRADICTION IN EVERY ASPECT.
  • 00:10:00.856 --> 00:10:01.991
  • Lysa: I WAS A WALKINGCONTRADICTION IN EVERY ASPECT.BUT I REMEMBER HIM SAYING,
  • 00:10:01.991 --> 00:10:03.225
  • CONTRADICTION IN EVERY ASPECT.BUT I REMEMBER HIM SAYING,"CAN I HELP YOU?"
  • 00:10:03.225 --> 00:10:04.293
  • BUT I REMEMBER HIM SAYING,"CAN I HELP YOU?"AND I JUST LOOKED BACK AT HIM
  • 00:10:04.293 --> 00:10:05.661
  • "CAN I HELP YOU?"AND I JUST LOOKED BACK AT HIMAND SAID, "I WISH YOU COULD."
  • 00:10:05.661 --> 00:10:06.829
  • AND I JUST LOOKED BACK AT HIMAND SAID, "I WISH YOU COULD."AND I HAD TO LEAVE MY CART,
  • 00:10:06.829 --> 00:10:09.098
  • AND SAID, "I WISH YOU COULD."AND I HAD TO LEAVE MY CART,LEAVE THE GROCERY STORE.
  • 00:10:09.098 --> 00:10:11.067
  • AND I HAD TO LEAVE MY CART,LEAVE THE GROCERY STORE.AND SO YES, I LIKE THAT
  • 00:10:11.067 --> 00:10:12.601
  • LEAVE THE GROCERY STORE.AND SO YES, I LIKE THATMY COUNSELOR EQUIPPED ME
  • 00:10:12.601 --> 00:10:14.136
  • AND SO YES, I LIKE THATMY COUNSELOR EQUIPPED MEWITH THAT SAYING,
  • 00:10:14.136 --> 00:10:15.204
  • MY COUNSELOR EQUIPPED MEWITH THAT SAYING,WHEN IT IS HYSTERICAL,
  • 00:10:15.204 --> 00:10:16.439
  • WITH THAT SAYING,WHEN IT IS HYSTERICAL,NOT LIKE HYSTERICAL,
  • 00:10:16.439 --> 00:10:17.540
  • WHEN IT IS HYSTERICAL,NOT LIKE HYSTERICAL,LIKE HA-HA FUNNY,
  • 00:10:17.540 --> 00:10:19.275
  • NOT LIKE HYSTERICAL,LIKE HA-HA FUNNY,BUT HYSTERICAL AS IN
  • 00:10:19.275 --> 00:10:20.876
  • LIKE HA-HA FUNNY,BUT HYSTERICAL AS INA FLOOD OF EMOTIONS
  • 00:10:20.876 --> 00:10:22.978
  • BUT HYSTERICAL AS INA FLOOD OF EMOTIONSTHAT YOU JUST CAN'T REIN IN,
  • 00:10:22.978 --> 00:10:24.113
  • A FLOOD OF EMOTIONSTHAT YOU JUST CAN'T REIN IN,WHEN IT IS HYSTERICAL
  • 00:10:24.113 --> 00:10:25.381
  • THAT YOU JUST CAN'T REIN IN,WHEN IT IS HYSTERICALIT IS HISTORICAL.
  • 00:10:25.381 --> 00:10:26.582
  • FROM THE PAST WILL TRAVEL
  • 00:10:28.884 --> 00:10:31.654
  • FROM THE PAST WILL TRAVELAND FIND THE PRESENT HURTS
  • 00:10:31.654 --> 00:10:32.888
  • AND FIND THE PRESENT HURTSOF TODAY, AND IT WILL
  • 00:10:32.888 --> 00:10:35.458
  • WHATEVER THAT STORY IS
  • 00:10:36.659 --> 00:10:37.960
  • WHATEVER THAT STORY ISTHAT WE'RE TELLING OURSELF.
  • 00:10:37.960 --> 00:10:39.095
  • WHATEVER THAT STORY ISTHAT WE'RE TELLING OURSELF.AND WE ALL HAVE A STORY
  • 00:10:39.095 --> 00:10:40.296
  • THAT WE'RE TELLING OURSELF.AND WE ALL HAVE A STORYTHAT WE'RE LIVING AND THEN
  • 00:10:40.296 --> 00:10:41.397
  • AND WE ALL HAVE A STORYTHAT WE'RE LIVING AND THENWE ALL HAVE A STORY THAT
  • 00:10:41.397 --> 00:10:42.698
  • THAT WE'RE LIVING AND THENWE ALL HAVE A STORY THATWE'RE TELLING OURSELVES.
  • 00:10:42.698 --> 00:10:44.333
  • WE ALL HAVE A STORY THATWE'RE TELLING OURSELVES.WE'VE JUST GOT TO MAKE SURE
  • 00:10:44.333 --> 00:10:45.668
  • WE'RE TELLING OURSELVES.WE'VE JUST GOT TO MAKE SURETHAT THE STORY THAT
  • 00:10:45.668 --> 00:10:47.069
  • WE'VE JUST GOT TO MAKE SURETHAT THE STORY THATWE'RE TELLING OURSELVES
  • 00:10:47.069 --> 00:10:48.170
  • THAT THE STORY THATWE'RE TELLING OURSELVESACTUALLY LINES UP WITH TRUTH
  • 00:10:48.170 --> 00:10:49.271
  • WE'RE TELLING OURSELVESACTUALLY LINES UP WITH TRUTHBECAUSE MOST OF THE TIME
  • 00:10:49.271 --> 00:10:51.073
  • ACTUALLY LINES UP WITH TRUTHBECAUSE MOST OF THE TIMEIT DOESN'T.
  • 00:10:51.073 --> 00:10:52.708
  • BECAUSE MOST OF THE TIMEIT DOESN'T.Sheila: YOU TALK ABOUT
  • 00:10:52.708 --> 00:10:54.710
  • IT DOESN'T.Sheila: YOU TALK ABOUTA FATHER THAT WAS VERY ABSENT
  • 00:10:54.710 --> 00:10:56.011
  • Sheila: YOU TALK ABOUTA FATHER THAT WAS VERY ABSENTWHEN YOU WERE GROWING UP.
  • 00:10:56.011 --> 00:10:57.279
  • A FATHER THAT WAS VERY ABSENTWHEN YOU WERE GROWING UP.YOU TALK ABOUT ABUSE
  • 00:10:57.279 --> 00:10:59.582
  • WHEN YOU WERE GROWING UP.YOU TALK ABOUT ABUSEFROM A NEIGHBOR.
  • 00:10:59.582 --> 00:11:00.883
  • YOU TALK ABOUT ABUSEFROM A NEIGHBOR.AND IT WAS INTERESTING BECAUSE
  • 00:11:00.883 --> 00:11:02.017
  • FROM A NEIGHBOR.AND IT WAS INTERESTING BECAUSETHROUGH THIS WHOLE BOOK AND
  • 00:11:02.017 --> 00:11:03.753
  • AND IT WAS INTERESTING BECAUSETHROUGH THIS WHOLE BOOK ANDTHIS JOURNEY YOU TALK ABOUT
  • 00:11:03.753 --> 00:11:06.889
  • THROUGH THIS WHOLE BOOK ANDTHIS JOURNEY YOU TALK ABOUTSTILL AT YOUR AGE AND...
  • 00:11:06.889 --> 00:11:07.957
  • THIS JOURNEY YOU TALK ABOUTSTILL AT YOUR AGE AND...EVERY SINGLE ONE OF YOUR BOOKS
  • 00:11:07.957 --> 00:11:09.024
  • STILL AT YOUR AGE AND...EVERY SINGLE ONE OF YOUR BOOKSIS A NEW YORK TIMES
  • 00:11:09.024 --> 00:11:10.226
  • EVERY SINGLE ONE OF YOUR BOOKSIS A NEW YORK TIMESBESTSELLER.
  • 00:11:10.226 --> 00:11:11.594
  • IS A NEW YORK TIMESBESTSELLER.YOU HAVE THIS PHENOMENAL GIFT
  • 00:11:11.594 --> 00:11:13.429
  • BUT YOU MADE SOME COMMENT
  • 00:11:14.830 --> 00:11:15.998
  • BUT YOU MADE SOME COMMENTIN THERE THAT SOMETIMES
  • 00:11:15.998 --> 00:11:17.399
  • IN THERE THAT SOMETIMESYOU STILL QUESTION
  • 00:11:17.399 --> 00:11:18.934
  • YOU STILL QUESTIONWHETHER YOU'RE WORTH LOVING.
  • 00:11:18.934 --> 00:11:21.837
  • IN THE MIDST OF THIS PROCESS,
  • 00:11:23.706 --> 00:11:26.275
  • IN THE MIDST OF THIS PROCESS,HAS THE DETERMINATION
  • 00:11:26.275 --> 00:11:28.711
  • Lysa: YOU KNOW, I THINK
  • 00:11:32.481 --> 00:11:34.550
  • Lysa: YOU KNOW, I THINKWHAT ALL THIS THAT
  • 00:11:34.550 --> 00:11:36.318
  • Lysa: YOU KNOW, I THINKWHAT ALL THIS THATI'VE LEARNED WITH FORGIVENESS
  • 00:11:36.318 --> 00:11:38.654
  • WHAT ALL THIS THATI'VE LEARNED WITH FORGIVENESSHAS DONE FOR ME,
  • 00:11:38.654 --> 00:11:41.390
  • I'VE LEARNED WITH FORGIVENESSHAS DONE FOR ME,IT HAS EMPOWERED ME
  • 00:11:41.390 --> 00:11:44.293
  • HAS DONE FOR ME,IT HAS EMPOWERED METO UNDERSTAND I DON'T HAVE
  • 00:11:44.293 --> 00:11:46.495
  • IT HAS EMPOWERED METO UNDERSTAND I DON'T HAVETO LIVE AS A VICTIM
  • 00:11:46.495 --> 00:11:49.198
  • TO UNDERSTAND I DON'T HAVETO LIVE AS A VICTIMTO ALL OF THE ABUSE
  • 00:11:49.198 --> 00:11:51.066
  • TO LIVE AS A VICTIMTO ALL OF THE ABUSEAND HEARTBREAK
  • 00:11:51.066 --> 00:11:52.768
  • TO ALL OF THE ABUSEAND HEARTBREAKAND CIRCUMSTANCES
  • 00:11:52.768 --> 00:11:54.804
  • AND HEARTBREAKAND CIRCUMSTANCESTHAT I DIDN'T CHOOSE.
  • 00:11:54.804 --> 00:11:56.472
  • AND CIRCUMSTANCESTHAT I DIDN'T CHOOSE.AND I THINK THAT'S WHAT
  • 00:11:56.472 --> 00:11:59.175
  • THAT I DIDN'T CHOOSE.AND I THINK THAT'S WHATHAS BEEN SO FREEING FOR ME
  • 00:11:59.175 --> 00:12:01.043
  • AND I THINK THAT'S WHATHAS BEEN SO FREEING FOR MEIS BECAUSE FOR SO LONG
  • 00:12:01.043 --> 00:12:02.878
  • HAS BEEN SO FREEING FOR MEIS BECAUSE FOR SO LONGI FELT LIKE IF OTHER PEOPLE
  • 00:12:02.878 --> 00:12:04.914
  • IS BECAUSE FOR SO LONGI FELT LIKE IF OTHER PEOPLEDIDN'T MAKE DIFFERENT CHOICES
  • 00:12:04.914 --> 00:12:06.115
  • I FELT LIKE IF OTHER PEOPLEDIDN'T MAKE DIFFERENT CHOICESI WOULD NEVER
  • 00:12:06.115 --> 00:12:08.184
  • DIDN'T MAKE DIFFERENT CHOICESI WOULD NEVERBE ABLE TO HEAL.
  • 00:12:08.184 --> 00:12:10.953
  • I WOULD NEVERBE ABLE TO HEAL.I'M REALIZING I CAN UNHITCH
  • 00:12:10.953 --> 00:12:12.955
  • BE ABLE TO HEAL.I'M REALIZING I CAN UNHITCHMY ABILITY TO HEAL
  • 00:12:12.955 --> 00:12:15.524
  • I'M REALIZING I CAN UNHITCHMY ABILITY TO HEALFROM THEIR CHOICES AND LET
  • 00:12:15.524 --> 00:12:17.493
  • MY ABILITY TO HEALFROM THEIR CHOICES AND LETTHEIR CHOICES BE THEIR OWN.
  • 00:12:17.493 --> 00:12:19.094
  • FROM THEIR CHOICES AND LETTHEIR CHOICES BE THEIR OWN.BUT I CAN BE EMPOWERED
  • 00:12:19.094 --> 00:12:20.763
  • THEIR CHOICES BE THEIR OWN.BUT I CAN BE EMPOWEREDTO FORGIVE.
  • 00:12:20.763 --> 00:12:21.964
  • BUT I CAN BE EMPOWEREDTO FORGIVE.AND THAT DAY IN THAT
  • 00:12:21.964 --> 00:12:23.165
  • TO FORGIVE.AND THAT DAY IN THATCOUNSELOR'S OFFICER AFTER
  • 00:12:23.165 --> 00:12:25.601
  • AND THAT DAY IN THATCOUNSELOR'S OFFICER AFTERI LAID OUT ALL OF THOSE CARDS
  • 00:12:25.601 --> 00:12:28.170
  • COUNSELOR'S OFFICER AFTERI LAID OUT ALL OF THOSE CARDSMY COUNSELOR SAID, "NOW THAT
  • 00:12:28.170 --> 00:12:29.605
  • I LAID OUT ALL OF THOSE CARDSMY COUNSELOR SAID, "NOW THATYOU'VE GOTTEN ALL OF THIS
  • 00:12:29.605 --> 00:12:31.907
  • MY COUNSELOR SAID, "NOW THATYOU'VE GOTTEN ALL OF THISPAIN OUT AND YOU CAN SEE IT,
  • 00:12:31.907 --> 00:12:35.177
  • YOU'VE GOTTEN ALL OF THISPAIN OUT AND YOU CAN SEE IT,THIS IS HOW YOU FORGIVE, LYSA.
  • 00:12:35.177 --> 00:12:37.079
  • PAIN OUT AND YOU CAN SEE IT,THIS IS HOW YOU FORGIVE, LYSA.YOU JUST GO CARD BY CARD
  • 00:12:37.079 --> 00:12:39.081
  • THIS IS HOW YOU FORGIVE, LYSA.YOU JUST GO CARD BY CARDBY CARD AND JUST INDIVIDUALLY
  • 00:12:39.081 --> 00:12:40.416
  • YOU JUST GO CARD BY CARDBY CARD AND JUST INDIVIDUALLYHAVE A MARKED MOMENT WHERE
  • 00:12:40.416 --> 00:12:43.953
  • BY CARD AND JUST INDIVIDUALLYHAVE A MARKED MOMENT WHEREYOU SAY, 'I NOW FORGIVE
  • 00:12:43.953 --> 00:12:46.222
  • HAVE A MARKED MOMENT WHEREYOU SAY, 'I NOW FORGIVETHIS PERSON FOR THIS HURT.'"
  • 00:12:46.222 --> 00:12:47.623
  • YOU SAY, 'I NOW FORGIVETHIS PERSON FOR THIS HURT.'"AND ALL THOSE CARDS THAT DAY
  • 00:12:47.623 --> 00:12:48.924
  • THIS PERSON FOR THIS HURT.'"AND ALL THOSE CARDS THAT DAYWERE AFFILIATED
  • 00:12:48.924 --> 00:12:50.426
  • AND ALL THOSE CARDS THAT DAYWERE AFFILIATEDAND ASSOCIATED WITH THE HURT
  • 00:12:50.426 --> 00:12:51.861
  • WERE AFFILIATEDAND ASSOCIATED WITH THE HURTTHAT I HAD GONE THROUGH
  • 00:12:51.861 --> 00:12:53.662
  • AND ASSOCIATED WITH THE HURTTHAT I HAD GONE THROUGHWITH MY MARRIAGE.
  • 00:12:53.662 --> 00:12:55.998
  • THAT I HAD GONE THROUGHWITH MY MARRIAGE.BUT I COULD ALSO SEE,
  • 00:12:55.998 --> 00:12:57.266
  • WITH MY MARRIAGE.BUT I COULD ALSO SEE,SOMETIMES I WOULD GET TO
  • 00:12:57.266 --> 00:12:58.834
  • BUT I COULD ALSO SEE,SOMETIMES I WOULD GET TOA CARD AND I COULD SEE,
  • 00:12:58.834 --> 00:13:00.603
  • SOMETIMES I WOULD GET TOA CARD AND I COULD SEE,OH THIS ISN'T JUST ABOUT ART.
  • 00:13:00.603 --> 00:13:01.770
  • A CARD AND I COULD SEE,OH THIS ISN'T JUST ABOUT ART.THIS IS ABOUT ART.
  • 00:13:01.770 --> 00:13:02.905
  • OH THIS ISN'T JUST ABOUT ART.THIS IS ABOUT ART.THIS IS ABOUT MY DAD.
  • 00:13:02.905 --> 00:13:04.240
  • THIS IS ABOUT ART.THIS IS ABOUT MY DAD.THIS IS ABOUT MY GRANDFATHER.
  • 00:13:04.240 --> 00:13:05.474
  • THIS IS ABOUT MY DAD.THIS IS ABOUT MY GRANDFATHER.THIS IS ABOUT THE BOY
  • 00:13:05.474 --> 00:13:06.709
  • THIS IS ABOUT MY GRANDFATHER.THIS IS ABOUT THE BOYIN HIGH SCHOOL THAT SAID
  • 00:13:06.709 --> 00:13:08.510
  • THIS IS ABOUT THE BOYIN HIGH SCHOOL THAT SAIDSOMETHING THAT I HAVE
  • 00:13:08.510 --> 00:13:09.945
  • IN HIGH SCHOOL THAT SAIDSOMETHING THAT I HAVEREMEMBERED TO THIS DAY
  • 00:13:09.945 --> 00:13:11.714
  • SOMETHING THAT I HAVEREMEMBERED TO THIS DAYTHAT HURT ME SO DEEPLY;
  • 00:13:11.714 --> 00:13:13.582
  • REMEMBERED TO THIS DAYTHAT HURT ME SO DEEPLY;THAT TAINTED THE WAY THAT
  • 00:13:13.582 --> 00:13:14.683
  • THAT HURT ME SO DEEPLY;THAT TAINTED THE WAY THATI EVEN TALK TO MYSELF
  • 00:13:14.683 --> 00:13:16.518
  • THAT TAINTED THE WAY THATI EVEN TALK TO MYSELFIN MY OWN HEAD.
  • 00:13:16.518 --> 00:13:18.153
  • I EVEN TALK TO MYSELFIN MY OWN HEAD.SO IT WAS SO FREEING.
  • 00:13:18.153 --> 00:13:20.422
  • IN MY OWN HEAD.SO IT WAS SO FREEING.BUT FORGIVENESS, I THINK
  • 00:13:20.422 --> 00:13:21.924
  • SO IT WAS SO FREEING.BUT FORGIVENESS, I THINKWHAT I DIDN'T UNDERSTAND
  • 00:13:21.924 --> 00:13:23.993
  • BUT FORGIVENESS, I THINKWHAT I DIDN'T UNDERSTANDFOR SO LONG IS I THOUGHT
  • 00:13:23.993 --> 00:13:25.227
  • WHAT I DIDN'T UNDERSTANDFOR SO LONG IS I THOUGHTFORGIVENESS ADDED
  • 00:13:25.227 --> 00:13:27.263
  • FOR SO LONG IS I THOUGHTFORGIVENESS ADDEDTO MY SUFFERING.
  • 00:13:27.263 --> 00:13:28.631
  • FORGIVENESS ADDEDTO MY SUFFERING.BUT IN REALITY IT IS
  • 00:13:28.631 --> 00:13:30.399
  • TO MY SUFFERING.BUT IN REALITY IT ISTHE ONLY WAY, FORGIVENESS
  • 00:13:30.399 --> 00:13:32.101
  • BUT IN REALITY IT ISTHE ONLY WAY, FORGIVENESSIS THE ONLY WAY WE CAN SEVER
  • 00:13:32.101 --> 00:13:34.336
  • THE ONLY WAY, FORGIVENESSIS THE ONLY WAY WE CAN SEVERTHE SOURCE OF SUFFERING
  • 00:13:34.336 --> 00:13:37.006
  • IS THE ONLY WAY WE CAN SEVERTHE SOURCE OF SUFFERINGSO WE CAN START HEALING.
  • 00:13:37.006 --> 00:13:38.307
  • BY CARD AND SAID I FORGIVE
  • 00:13:40.843 --> 00:13:42.511
  • BY CARD AND SAID I FORGIVETHIS PERSON FOR THIS.
  • 00:13:42.511 --> 00:13:43.946
  • THIS PERSON FOR THIS.BUT MY COUNSELOR EQUIPPED ME
  • 00:13:43.946 --> 00:13:45.781
  • BUT MY COUNSELOR EQUIPPED MEWITH THIS ADDED STATEMENT.
  • 00:13:45.781 --> 00:13:47.816
  • MY FEELINGS WILL NOT
  • 00:13:48.918 --> 00:13:50.452
  • MY FEELINGS WILL NOTYET ALLOW FOR, THE BLOOD
  • 00:13:50.452 --> 00:13:52.388
  • MY FEELINGS WILL NOTYET ALLOW FOR, THE BLOODOF JESUS WILL SURELY COVER."
  • 00:13:52.388 --> 00:13:54.056
  • YET ALLOW FOR, THE BLOODOF JESUS WILL SURELY COVER."Sheila: OH! I LOVE THAT. WOW!
  • 00:13:54.056 --> 00:13:55.357
  • OF JESUS WILL SURELY COVER."Sheila: OH! I LOVE THAT. WOW!Lysa: AND THE REASON THAT'S
  • 00:13:55.357 --> 00:13:57.092
  • Sheila: OH! I LOVE THAT. WOW!Lysa: AND THE REASON THAT'SSO IMPORTANT IS BECAUSE
  • 00:13:57.092 --> 00:13:58.327
  • Lysa: AND THE REASON THAT'SSO IMPORTANT IS BECAUSEI WANTED TO FORGIVE BUT
  • 00:13:58.327 --> 00:14:01.196
  • SO IMPORTANT IS BECAUSEI WANTED TO FORGIVE BUTI DIDN'T WANT TO FEEL FAKE.
  • 00:14:01.196 --> 00:14:02.765
  • I WANTED TO FORGIVE BUTI DIDN'T WANT TO FEEL FAKE.I WOULD COME UPON SOME THINGS,
  • 00:14:02.765 --> 00:14:04.233
  • I DIDN'T WANT TO FEEL FAKE.I WOULD COME UPON SOME THINGS,A LOT OF THINGS
  • 00:14:04.233 --> 00:14:05.567
  • I WOULD COME UPON SOME THINGS,A LOT OF THINGSAND MY FEELINGS WERE NOT YET
  • 00:14:05.567 --> 00:14:08.070
  • A LOT OF THINGSAND MY FEELINGS WERE NOT YETSIGNING ON TO THIS PROCESS.
  • 00:14:08.070 --> 00:14:09.305
  • AND MY FEELINGS WERE NOT YETSIGNING ON TO THIS PROCESS.AND I DIDN'T WANT TO JUST SAY
  • 00:14:09.305 --> 00:14:10.539
  • SIGNING ON TO THIS PROCESS.AND I DIDN'T WANT TO JUST SAYI'M DOING THIS BECAUSE
  • 00:14:10.539 --> 00:14:11.740
  • AND I DIDN'T WANT TO JUST SAYI'M DOING THIS BECAUSEI'M CHECKING OFF THIS
  • 00:14:11.740 --> 00:14:13.008
  • I'M DOING THIS BECAUSEI'M CHECKING OFF THISGOOD CHRISTIAN CHECKLIST
  • 00:14:13.008 --> 00:14:14.343
  • I'M CHECKING OFF THISGOOD CHRISTIAN CHECKLISTOF THINGS LIKE BE NICE,
  • 00:14:14.343 --> 00:14:15.511
  • GOOD CHRISTIAN CHECKLISTOF THINGS LIKE BE NICE,FORGIVE, DON'T CUSS,
  • 00:14:15.511 --> 00:14:17.413
  • OF THINGS LIKE BE NICE,FORGIVE, DON'T CUSS,PLAY CHRISTIAN MUSIC.
  • 00:14:17.413 --> 00:14:18.614
  • FORGIVE, DON'T CUSS,PLAY CHRISTIAN MUSIC.Sheila: MY TOP FOUR!
  • 00:14:18.614 --> 00:14:20.416
  • PLAY CHRISTIAN MUSIC.Sheila: MY TOP FOUR!Lysa: RIGHT?
  • 00:14:20.416 --> 00:14:21.717
  • Sheila: MY TOP FOUR!Lysa: RIGHT?SO I DIDN'T WANT TO FEEL
  • 00:14:21.717 --> 00:14:23.018
  • Lysa: RIGHT?SO I DIDN'T WANT TO FEELLIKE I WAS FAKING IT,
  • 00:14:23.018 --> 00:14:24.119
  • SO I DIDN'T WANT TO FEELLIKE I WAS FAKING IT,ESPECIALLY NOT
  • 00:14:24.119 --> 00:14:25.187
  • LIKE I WAS FAKING IT,ESPECIALLY NOTIN FRONT OF GOD.
  • 00:14:25.187 --> 00:14:27.189
  • ESPECIALLY NOTIN FRONT OF GOD.BUT I REALIZED THAT'S
  • 00:14:27.189 --> 00:14:28.357
  • IN FRONT OF GOD.BUT I REALIZED THAT'STHE BEAUTY OF WHAT
  • 00:14:28.357 --> 00:14:30.092
  • BUT I REALIZED THAT'STHE BEAUTY OF WHATJESUS DID FOR US.
  • 00:14:30.092 --> 00:14:31.293
  • THE BEAUTY OF WHATJESUS DID FOR US.WE CAN MAKE THE DECISION
  • 00:14:31.293 --> 00:14:33.062
  • JESUS DID FOR US.WE CAN MAKE THE DECISIONTO FORGIVE BECAUSE OF
  • 00:14:33.062 --> 00:14:34.563
  • WE CAN MAKE THE DECISIONTO FORGIVE BECAUSE OFWHAT HE DID.
  • 00:14:34.563 --> 00:14:36.065
  • TO FORGIVE BECAUSE OFWHAT HE DID.AND WHATEVER MY FEELINGS
  • 00:14:36.065 --> 00:14:37.166
  • WHAT HE DID.AND WHATEVER MY FEELINGSWILL NOT YET ALLOW FOR
  • 00:14:37.166 --> 00:14:38.367
  • AND WHATEVER MY FEELINGSWILL NOT YET ALLOW FORTHE BLOOD OF JESUS
  • 00:14:38.367 --> 00:14:39.802
  • WILL NOT YET ALLOW FORTHE BLOOD OF JESUSWILL SURELY COVER IT.
  • 00:14:39.802 --> 00:14:41.170
  • THE BLOOD OF JESUSWILL SURELY COVER IT.SO THAT IS HOW I MADE
  • 00:14:41.170 --> 00:14:42.705
  • WILL SURELY COVER IT.SO THAT IS HOW I MADETHE DECISION TO FORGIVE.
  • 00:14:42.705 --> 00:14:44.039
  • SO THAT IS HOW I MADETHE DECISION TO FORGIVE.BUT ALSO, SHEILA,
  • 00:14:44.039 --> 00:14:45.174
  • THE DECISION TO FORGIVE.BUT ALSO, SHEILA,HAVE YOU EVER BEEN IN
  • 00:14:45.174 --> 00:14:46.608
  • BUT ALSO, SHEILA,HAVE YOU EVER BEEN INA SITUATION WHERE, OKAY
  • 00:14:46.608 --> 00:14:47.710
  • HAVE YOU EVER BEEN INA SITUATION WHERE, OKAYYOU'VE MADE THE DECISION
  • 00:14:47.710 --> 00:14:48.811
  • A SITUATION WHERE, OKAYYOU'VE MADE THE DECISIONTO FORGIVE.
  • 00:14:48.811 --> 00:14:50.012
  • YOU'VE MADE THE DECISIONTO FORGIVE.NO ONE CAN TAKE
  • 00:14:50.012 --> 00:14:51.213
  • TO FORGIVE.NO ONE CAN TAKETHAT AWAY FROM YOU.
  • 00:14:51.213 --> 00:14:52.548
  • NO ONE CAN TAKETHAT AWAY FROM YOU.YOU'VE BEEN OBEDIENT TO GOD.
  • 00:14:52.548 --> 00:14:54.283
  • THAT AWAY FROM YOU.YOU'VE BEEN OBEDIENT TO GOD.BUT THEN THAT PERSON SAYS
  • 00:14:54.283 --> 00:14:56.819
  • YOU'VE BEEN OBEDIENT TO GOD.BUT THEN THAT PERSON SAYSSOMETHING OR DOES SOMETHING
  • 00:14:56.819 --> 00:14:58.220
  • BUT THEN THAT PERSON SAYSSOMETHING OR DOES SOMETHINGAND EVEN THOUGH YOU'VE
  • 00:14:58.220 --> 00:14:59.254
  • SOMETHING OR DOES SOMETHINGAND EVEN THOUGH YOU'VEFORGIVEN THEM YOU'RE LIKE,
  • 00:14:59.254 --> 00:15:00.956
  • AND EVEN THOUGH YOU'VEFORGIVEN THEM YOU'RE LIKE,OH NO YOU DIDN'T!
  • 00:15:00.956 --> 00:15:02.691
  • FORGIVEN THEM YOU'RE LIKE,OH NO YOU DIDN'T!AND ALL THOSE FEELINGS,
  • 00:15:02.691 --> 00:15:03.892
  • OH NO YOU DIDN'T!AND ALL THOSE FEELINGS,THE ANXIETY, AND FRUSTRATION,
  • 00:15:03.892 --> 00:15:05.027
  • AND ALL THOSE FEELINGS,THE ANXIETY, AND FRUSTRATION,ANGER, THEY JUST
  • 00:15:05.027 --> 00:15:06.862
  • THE ANXIETY, AND FRUSTRATION,ANGER, THEY JUSTFLOOD BACK ON TOP OF YOU.
  • 00:15:06.862 --> 00:15:09.031
  • ANGER, THEY JUSTFLOOD BACK ON TOP OF YOU.SO ALSO WE HAVE TO REMEMBER
  • 00:15:09.031 --> 00:15:10.199
  • FLOOD BACK ON TOP OF YOU.SO ALSO WE HAVE TO REMEMBERWE MAKE THE DECISION TO
  • 00:15:10.199 --> 00:15:11.500
  • SO ALSO WE HAVE TO REMEMBERWE MAKE THE DECISION TOFORGIVE BUT WE ALSO HAVE
  • 00:15:11.500 --> 00:15:12.701
  • WE MAKE THE DECISION TOFORGIVE BUT WE ALSO HAVETO WALK THROUGH
  • 00:15:12.701 --> 00:15:13.902
  • FORGIVE BUT WE ALSO HAVETO WALK THROUGHTHE PROCESS OF FORGIVENESS.
  • 00:15:13.902 --> 00:15:15.137
  • TO WALK THROUGHTHE PROCESS OF FORGIVENESS.Sheila: I THINK THAT'S HUGE!
  • 00:15:15.137 --> 00:15:16.271
  • THE PROCESS OF FORGIVENESS.Sheila: I THINK THAT'S HUGE!Lysa: IT'S REALLY HUGE.
  • 00:15:16.271 --> 00:15:17.573
  • Sheila: I THINK THAT'S HUGE!Lysa: IT'S REALLY HUGE.AND IT HELPED ME SO MUCH.
  • 00:15:17.573 --> 00:15:18.640
  • Lysa: IT'S REALLY HUGE.AND IT HELPED ME SO MUCH.JUST BECAUSE YOU HAVE THOSE
  • 00:15:18.640 --> 00:15:19.808
  • AND IT HELPED ME SO MUCH.JUST BECAUSE YOU HAVE THOSEFEELINGS THAT COME BACK,
  • 00:15:19.808 --> 00:15:21.043
  • JUST BECAUSE YOU HAVE THOSEFEELINGS THAT COME BACK,THAT DOESN'T MAKE YOU
  • 00:15:21.043 --> 00:15:22.511
  • FEELINGS THAT COME BACK,THAT DOESN'T MAKE YOUA FORGIVENESS FAILURE.
  • 00:15:22.511 --> 00:15:23.679
  • THAT DOESN'T MAKE YOUA FORGIVENESS FAILURE.IT MEANS YOU FORGAVE FOR
  • 00:15:23.679 --> 00:15:25.347
  • A FORGIVENESS FAILURE.IT MEANS YOU FORGAVE FORTHE FACT OF WHAT HAPPENED;
  • 00:15:25.347 --> 00:15:26.548
  • IT MEANS YOU FORGAVE FORTHE FACT OF WHAT HAPPENED;THAT WAS A DECISION AND
  • 00:15:26.548 --> 00:15:27.616
  • THE FACT OF WHAT HAPPENED;THAT WAS A DECISION ANDTHAT WAS YOUR OBEDIENCE
  • 00:15:27.616 --> 00:15:28.984
  • THAT WAS A DECISION ANDTHAT WAS YOUR OBEDIENCETO GOD.
  • 00:15:28.984 --> 00:15:30.152
  • THAT WAS YOUR OBEDIENCETO GOD.BUT NOW YOU HAVE TO WALK
  • 00:15:30.152 --> 00:15:31.320
  • TO GOD.BUT NOW YOU HAVE TO WALKTHROUGH THE PROCESS
  • 00:15:31.320 --> 00:15:32.721
  • BUT NOW YOU HAVE TO WALKTHROUGH THE PROCESSOF FORGIVING FOR THE IMPACT,
  • 00:15:32.721 --> 00:15:34.156
  • THROUGH THE PROCESSOF FORGIVING FOR THE IMPACT,THE EMOTIONAL COST THAT
  • 00:15:34.156 --> 00:15:35.991
  • OF FORGIVING FOR THE IMPACT,THE EMOTIONAL COST THATTHAT HAD ON YOU WAS GREAT,
  • 00:15:35.991 --> 00:15:37.459
  • THE EMOTIONAL COST THATTHAT HAD ON YOU WAS GREAT,AND THE PROCESS OF FORGIVENESS
  • 00:15:37.459 --> 00:15:38.927
  • THAT HAD ON YOU WAS GREAT,AND THE PROCESS OF FORGIVENESSCAN TAKE A LONG TIME.
  • 00:15:38.927 --> 00:15:40.763
  • AND THE PROCESS OF FORGIVENESSCAN TAKE A LONG TIME.BUT WHEN YOU GET TRIGGERED,
  • 00:15:40.763 --> 00:15:42.998
  • CAN TAKE A LONG TIME.BUT WHEN YOU GET TRIGGERED,YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE HIJACKED
  • 00:15:42.998 --> 00:15:44.299
  • BUT WHEN YOU GET TRIGGERED,YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE HIJACKEDBY THAT TRIGGER.
  • 00:15:44.299 --> 00:15:45.501
  • YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE HIJACKEDBY THAT TRIGGER.YOU CAN HAVE ANOTHER
  • 00:15:45.501 --> 00:15:47.269
  • BY THAT TRIGGER.YOU CAN HAVE ANOTHERMARKED MOMENT AND YOU CAN SAY,
  • 00:15:47.269 --> 00:15:48.971
  • YOU CAN HAVE ANOTHERMARKED MOMENT AND YOU CAN SAY,OKAY, I NOW FORGIVE
  • 00:15:48.971 --> 00:15:50.973
  • MARKED MOMENT AND YOU CAN SAY,OKAY, I NOW FORGIVETHIS PERSON FOR THE IMPACT
  • 00:15:50.973 --> 00:15:52.174
  • OKAY, I NOW FORGIVETHIS PERSON FOR THE IMPACTTHAT THEY'VE HAD ON ME
  • 00:15:52.174 --> 00:15:53.342
  • THIS PERSON FOR THE IMPACTTHAT THEY'VE HAD ON MEAND WHATEVER MY FEELINGS
  • 00:15:53.342 --> 00:15:54.643
  • THAT THEY'VE HAD ON MEAND WHATEVER MY FEELINGSWILL NOT YET ALLOW FOR
  • 00:15:54.643 --> 00:15:55.744
  • AND WHATEVER MY FEELINGSWILL NOT YET ALLOW FORTHE BLOOD OF JESUS
  • 00:15:55.744 --> 00:15:57.146
  • WILL NOT YET ALLOW FORTHE BLOOD OF JESUSWILL SURELY COVER IT.
  • 00:15:57.146 --> 00:15:58.280
  • THAT I FOUND VERY HEALING
  • 00:16:00.082 --> 00:16:01.283
  • THAT I FOUND VERY HEALINGABOUT SOME OF THE THINGS
  • 00:16:01.283 --> 00:16:03.519
  • ABOUT SOME OF THE THINGSYOU WROTE WAS WHEN I,
  • 00:16:03.519 --> 00:16:05.020
  • YOU WROTE WAS WHEN I,AS YOUR FRIEND FIRST HEARD,
  • 00:16:05.020 --> 00:16:06.488
  • TO FLY THERE AND I'M GOING
  • 00:16:08.390 --> 00:16:09.625
  • TO FLY THERE AND I'M GOINGTO HURT HIM AND THEN ASK
  • 00:16:09.625 --> 00:16:11.193
  • TO FLY THERE AND I'M GOINGTO HURT HIM AND THEN ASKJESUS TO FORGIVE ME.
  • 00:16:11.193 --> 00:16:12.594
  • TO HURT HIM AND THEN ASKJESUS TO FORGIVE ME.[Laughing]
  • 00:16:12.594 --> 00:16:13.862
  • JESUS TO FORGIVE ME.[Laughing]BUT YOU TALK ABOUT
  • 00:16:13.862 --> 00:16:15.130
  • [Laughing]BUT YOU TALK ABOUTYOU REALIZING THAT YOU BOTH
  • 00:16:15.130 --> 00:16:16.298
  • BUT YOU TALK ABOUTYOU REALIZING THAT YOU BOTHHAD THINGS THAT YOU NEEDED
  • 00:16:16.298 --> 00:16:17.466
  • YOU REALIZING THAT YOU BOTHHAD THINGS THAT YOU NEEDEDFORGIVENESS FOR.
  • 00:16:17.466 --> 00:16:19.201
  • HAD THINGS THAT YOU NEEDEDFORGIVENESS FOR.THAT'S -- THAT'S MOVING
  • 00:16:19.201 --> 00:16:20.769
  • FORGIVENESS FOR.THAT'S -- THAT'S MOVINGWAY FURTHER DOWN THE LINE.
  • 00:16:20.769 --> 00:16:21.937
  • THAT'S -- THAT'S MOVINGWAY FURTHER DOWN THE LINE.BECAUSE WHEN SOMEBODY
  • 00:16:21.937 --> 00:16:23.038
  • WAY FURTHER DOWN THE LINE.BECAUSE WHEN SOMEBODYHAS OBVIOUSLY DECIMATED
  • 00:16:23.038 --> 00:16:24.706
  • BECAUSE WHEN SOMEBODYHAS OBVIOUSLY DECIMATEDYOUR LIFE THEN THEY ARE
  • 00:16:24.706 --> 00:16:26.141
  • HAS OBVIOUSLY DECIMATEDYOUR LIFE THEN THEY ARETHE BAD GUY.
  • 00:16:26.141 --> 00:16:27.342
  • YOUR LIFE THEN THEY ARETHE BAD GUY.BUT YOU SAW THINGS
  • 00:16:27.342 --> 00:16:28.644
  • THE BAD GUY.BUT YOU SAW THINGSIN A DIFFERENT PERSPECTIVE.
  • 00:16:28.644 --> 00:16:29.945
  • BUT YOU SAW THINGSIN A DIFFERENT PERSPECTIVE.Lysa: WELL, I COULDN'T
  • 00:16:29.945 --> 00:16:31.780
  • IN A DIFFERENT PERSPECTIVE.Lysa: WELL, I COULDN'TAT FIRST.
  • 00:16:31.780 --> 00:16:33.582
  • Lysa: WELL, I COULDN'TAT FIRST.AND I THINK IN COUNSELING
  • 00:16:33.582 --> 00:16:35.084
  • AT FIRST.AND I THINK IN COUNSELINGWHENEVER ART WOULD SAY
  • 00:16:35.084 --> 00:16:36.285
  • AND I THINK IN COUNSELINGWHENEVER ART WOULD SAYSOMETHING LIKE, "WELL,
  • 00:16:36.285 --> 00:16:37.486
  • WHENEVER ART WOULD SAYSOMETHING LIKE, "WELL,YOU KNOW, LYSA, YOU NEED
  • 00:16:37.486 --> 00:16:39.221
  • SOMETHING LIKE, "WELL,YOU KNOW, LYSA, YOU NEEDTO WORK ON THINGS TOO"
  • 00:16:39.221 --> 00:16:40.589
  • YOU KNOW, LYSA, YOU NEEDTO WORK ON THINGS TOO"I WAS SO RESISTANT TO IT
  • 00:16:40.589 --> 00:16:42.391
  • IF I SAID, "YES, I HAVE THINGS
  • 00:16:44.159 --> 00:16:45.627
  • IF I SAID, "YES, I HAVE THINGSTO WORK ON TOO" THAT
  • 00:16:45.627 --> 00:16:47.196
  • TO WORK ON TOO" THATI WAS SAYING THAT BECAUSE
  • 00:16:47.196 --> 00:16:48.931
  • I WAS SAYING THAT BECAUSEI HAD THINGS TO WORK ON THAT
  • 00:16:48.931 --> 00:16:50.332
  • LIKE IT WAS OKAY
  • 00:16:51.533 --> 00:16:52.901
  • LIKE IT WAS OKAYTO HAVE AN AFFAIR.
  • 00:16:52.901 --> 00:16:55.671
  • LIKE IT WAS OKAYTO HAVE AN AFFAIR.AFFAIRS ARE NEVER OKAY.
  • 00:16:55.671 --> 00:16:57.406
  • TO HAVE AN AFFAIR.AFFAIRS ARE NEVER OKAY.SO WHAT I DID WOULD HAVE
  • 00:16:57.406 --> 00:16:58.740
  • AFFAIRS ARE NEVER OKAY.SO WHAT I DID WOULD HAVEBEEN A GOOD CALL FOR
  • 00:16:58.740 --> 00:17:00.209
  • SO WHAT I DID WOULD HAVEBEEN A GOOD CALL FORCOUNSELING HELP BUT IT DID
  • 00:17:00.209 --> 00:17:01.777
  • BEEN A GOOD CALL FORCOUNSELING HELP BUT IT DIDNOT JUSTIFY THE AFFAIR.
  • 00:17:01.777 --> 00:17:02.945
  • COUNSELING HELP BUT IT DIDNOT JUSTIFY THE AFFAIR.AND THEN I REMEMBER IN
  • 00:17:02.945 --> 00:17:04.480
  • NOT JUSTIFY THE AFFAIR.AND THEN I REMEMBER INONE PARTICULAR COUNSELING
  • 00:17:04.480 --> 00:17:05.814
  • AND THEN I REMEMBER INONE PARTICULAR COUNSELINGSESSION, I DID A LOT
  • 00:17:05.814 --> 00:17:07.182
  • ONE PARTICULAR COUNSELINGSESSION, I DID A LOTOF COUNSELLING ON MY OWN,
  • 00:17:07.182 --> 00:17:08.283
  • SESSION, I DID A LOTOF COUNSELLING ON MY OWN,BUT EVERY NOW AND THEN
  • 00:17:08.283 --> 00:17:09.485
  • OF COUNSELLING ON MY OWN,BUT EVERY NOW AND THENWE WOULD HAVE
  • 00:17:09.485 --> 00:17:11.286
  • BUT EVERY NOW AND THENWE WOULD HAVECOUNSELING TOGETHER.
  • 00:17:11.286 --> 00:17:12.354
  • WE WOULD HAVECOUNSELING TOGETHER.MANY TIMES THOSE
  • 00:17:12.354 --> 00:17:13.589
  • COUNSELING TOGETHER.MANY TIMES THOSEDID NOT GO WELL.
  • 00:17:13.589 --> 00:17:14.923
  • MANY TIMES THOSEDID NOT GO WELL.BUT ON THIS ONE TIME,
  • 00:17:14.923 --> 00:17:16.058
  • DID NOT GO WELL.BUT ON THIS ONE TIME,THE COUNSELOR LOOKED AT ART
  • 00:17:16.058 --> 00:17:17.593
  • BUT ON THIS ONE TIME,THE COUNSELOR LOOKED AT ARTAND SAID, "YOU NEED
  • 00:17:17.593 --> 00:17:19.094
  • THE COUNSELOR LOOKED AT ARTAND SAID, "YOU NEEDTO FREE HER TO WORK ON
  • 00:17:19.094 --> 00:17:20.896
  • AND SAID, "YOU NEEDTO FREE HER TO WORK ONWHAT SHE NEEDS TO WORK ON
  • 00:17:20.896 --> 00:17:22.598
  • TO FREE HER TO WORK ONWHAT SHE NEEDS TO WORK ONBY OWNING THAT THERE WAS
  • 00:17:22.598 --> 00:17:25.434
  • WHAT SHE NEEDS TO WORK ONBY OWNING THAT THERE WASNO EXCUSE FOR THE AFFAIR."
  • 00:17:25.434 --> 00:17:27.503
  • BY OWNING THAT THERE WASNO EXCUSE FOR THE AFFAIR."AND HE DID THAT.
  • 00:17:27.503 --> 00:17:28.770
  • NO EXCUSE FOR THE AFFAIR."AND HE DID THAT.THAT WAS A VERY COURAGEOUS
  • 00:17:28.770 --> 00:17:30.305
  • AND HE DID THAT.THAT WAS A VERY COURAGEOUSTHING FOR ART TO DO
  • 00:17:30.305 --> 00:17:32.207
  • THAT WAS A VERY COURAGEOUSTHING FOR ART TO DOAND HE OWNED IT.
  • 00:17:32.207 --> 00:17:33.909
  • THING FOR ART TO DOAND HE OWNED IT.AND SLOWLY, I STARTED
  • 00:17:33.909 --> 00:17:37.012
  • AND HE OWNED IT.AND SLOWLY, I STARTEDTO BE ABLE TO FEEL LIKE
  • 00:17:37.012 --> 00:17:38.313
  • AND SLOWLY, I STARTEDTO BE ABLE TO FEEL LIKEOKAY, I CAN WORK ON
  • 00:17:38.313 --> 00:17:39.748
  • TO BE ABLE TO FEEL LIKEOKAY, I CAN WORK ONSOME OF MY STUFF TOO.
  • 00:17:39.748 --> 00:17:41.150
  • OKAY, I CAN WORK ONSOME OF MY STUFF TOO.AND WHAT I STARTED TO REALIZE
  • 00:17:41.150 --> 00:17:43.552
  • SOME OF MY STUFF TOO.AND WHAT I STARTED TO REALIZEIS IF I FOREVER SAW MYSELF
  • 00:17:43.552 --> 00:17:44.820
  • AND WHAT I STARTED TO REALIZEIS IF I FOREVER SAW MYSELFAS THE SAINT
  • 00:17:44.820 --> 00:17:46.054
  • IS IF I FOREVER SAW MYSELFAS THE SAINTAND ART AS THE SINNER,
  • 00:17:46.054 --> 00:17:47.122
  • AS THE SAINTAND ART AS THE SINNER,I WOULDN'T BE ABLE
  • 00:17:47.122 --> 00:17:48.924
  • AND ART AS THE SINNER,I WOULDN'T BE ABLETO FORGIVE HIM.
  • 00:17:48.924 --> 00:17:50.159
  • I WOULDN'T BE ABLETO FORGIVE HIM.BUT WHEN I STARTED
  • 00:17:50.159 --> 00:17:51.426
  • TO FORGIVE HIM.BUT WHEN I STARTEDTO RECOGNIZE, JESUS ONLY
  • 00:17:51.426 --> 00:17:53.762
  • BUT WHEN I STARTEDTO RECOGNIZE, JESUS ONLYCALLS US BOTH TO BE SERVANTS.
  • 00:17:53.762 --> 00:17:55.931
  • TO RECOGNIZE, JESUS ONLYCALLS US BOTH TO BE SERVANTS.AND IN THE LORD'S PRAYER
  • 00:17:55.931 --> 00:17:57.366
  • CALLS US BOTH TO BE SERVANTS.AND IN THE LORD'S PRAYERIN MATTHEW CHAPTER SIX,
  • 00:17:57.366 --> 00:17:59.001
  • AND IN THE LORD'S PRAYERIN MATTHEW CHAPTER SIX,ISN'T IT INTERESTING
  • 00:17:59.001 --> 00:18:00.769
  • IN MATTHEW CHAPTER SIX,ISN'T IT INTERESTINGHOW CONFESSION COMES
  • 00:18:00.769 --> 00:18:02.638
  • ISN'T IT INTERESTINGHOW CONFESSION COMESBEFORE FORGIVENESS?
  • 00:18:02.638 --> 00:18:06.008
  • THE SINS I HAVE DONE
  • 00:18:07.776 --> 00:18:09.478
  • THE SINS I HAVE DONEAS I FORGIVE OTHERS FOR THE
  • 00:18:09.478 --> 00:18:11.213
  • THE SINS I HAVE DONEAS I FORGIVE OTHERS FOR THEDEBTS THAT THEY'VE CREATED,
  • 00:18:11.213 --> 00:18:12.915
  • CONFESSION WITH GOD.
  • 00:18:15.250 --> 00:18:16.718
  • CONFESSION WITH GOD.IF I THINK I NEED FORGIVENESS
  • 00:18:16.718 --> 00:18:17.920
  • CONFESSION WITH GOD.IF I THINK I NEED FORGIVENESSAND I KNOW I NEED FORGIVENESS,
  • 00:18:17.920 --> 00:18:19.087
  • IF I THINK I NEED FORGIVENESSAND I KNOW I NEED FORGIVENESS,THAT'S HOW HIS FORGIVENESS
  • 00:18:19.087 --> 00:18:20.389
  • AND I KNOW I NEED FORGIVENESS,THAT'S HOW HIS FORGIVENESSFLOWS TO ME.
  • 00:18:20.389 --> 00:18:21.557
  • THAT'S HOW HIS FORGIVENESSFLOWS TO ME.AND THEN FORGIVENESS IS
  • 00:18:21.557 --> 00:18:23.192
  • FLOWS TO ME.AND THEN FORGIVENESS ISHOW IT CAN FLOW THROUGH ME.
  • 00:18:23.192 --> 00:18:25.694
  • AND THEN FORGIVENESS ISHOW IT CAN FLOW THROUGH ME.CONFESSION IS SO BEAUTIFUL.
  • 00:18:25.694 --> 00:18:27.329
  • HOW IT CAN FLOW THROUGH ME.CONFESSION IS SO BEAUTIFUL.IT QUIETS THE CHAOS
  • 00:18:27.329 --> 00:18:28.964
  • CONFESSION IS SO BEAUTIFUL.IT QUIETS THE CHAOSINSIDE OF ME
  • 00:18:28.964 --> 00:18:30.232
  • IT QUIETS THE CHAOSINSIDE OF MEAND FORGIVENESS QUIETS
  • 00:18:30.232 --> 00:18:33.435
  • INSIDE OF MEAND FORGIVENESS QUIETSTHE CHAOS BETWEEN US.
  • 00:18:33.435 --> 00:18:34.536
  • AND FORGIVENESS QUIETSTHE CHAOS BETWEEN US.Sheila: AS YOU CAN SEE,
  • 00:18:34.536 --> 00:18:35.637
  • THE CHAOS BETWEEN US.Sheila: AS YOU CAN SEE,YOU'RE GOING TO WANT
  • 00:18:35.637 --> 00:18:36.939
  • Sheila: AS YOU CAN SEE,YOU'RE GOING TO WANTTO GET A HOLD OF THIS BOOK
  • 00:18:36.939 --> 00:18:38.040
  • YOU'RE GOING TO WANTTO GET A HOLD OF THIS BOOKAND I WILL BE GLAD
  • 00:18:38.040 --> 00:18:39.141
  • TO GET A HOLD OF THIS BOOKAND I WILL BE GLADTO SEND IT TO YOU.
  • 00:18:39.141 --> 00:18:40.242
  • AND I WILL BE GLADTO SEND IT TO YOU.BUT I WOULD LOVE IF YOU
  • 00:18:40.242 --> 00:18:41.343
  • TO SEND IT TO YOU.BUT I WOULD LOVE IF YOUWOULD HELP US DO SOMETHING.
  • 00:18:41.343 --> 00:18:42.444
  • BUT I WOULD LOVE IF YOUWOULD HELP US DO SOMETHING.AS YOU KNOW HERE AT
  • 00:18:42.444 --> 00:18:43.545
  • WOULD HELP US DO SOMETHING.AS YOU KNOW HERE ATLIFE TODAY WE'RE VERY
  • 00:18:43.545 --> 00:18:44.613
  • AS YOU KNOW HERE ATLIFE TODAY WE'RE VERYCOMMITTED TO TAKING CARE OF
  • 00:18:44.613 --> 00:18:45.681
  • LIFE TODAY WE'RE VERYCOMMITTED TO TAKING CARE OFSOME OF THE VERY REAL NEEDS
  • 00:18:45.681 --> 00:18:47.049
  • COMMITTED TO TAKING CARE OFSOME OF THE VERY REAL NEEDSAROUND THE WORLD.
  • 00:18:47.049 --> 00:18:48.217
  • SOME OF THE VERY REAL NEEDSAROUND THE WORLD.EVEN AS I SIT HERE
  • 00:18:48.217 --> 00:18:49.518
  • MOTHERS SITTING WITH
  • 00:18:51.220 --> 00:18:52.387
  • THEIR CHILDREN TAKING
  • 00:18:52.387 --> 00:18:53.555
  • THEIR LAST BREATH BECAUSE
  • 00:18:53.555 --> 00:18:54.823
  • THEY DON'T HAVE ENOUGH FOOD.
  • 00:18:54.823 --> 00:18:56.124
  • ONE OF THE THINGS THAT
  • 00:18:56.124 --> 00:18:57.292
  • SURPRISED ME THAT I DID NOT
  • 00:18:57.292 --> 00:18:58.994
  • ANTICIPATE WAS THE SILENCE
  • 00:18:58.994 --> 00:19:00.495
  • OF THE BROKEN.
  • 00:19:00.495 --> 00:19:01.863
  • YOU EXPECT THAT THE CHILD
  • 00:19:01.863 --> 00:19:03.031
  • IS IN PAIN OR THE CHILD
  • 00:19:03.031 --> 00:19:04.299
  • IS SUFFERING THEN
  • 00:19:04.299 --> 00:19:06.468
  • THERE WOULD BE NOISE.
  • 00:19:06.468 --> 00:19:07.703
  • BUT SO MANY OF THESE
  • 00:19:07.703 --> 00:19:08.804
  • LITTLE ONES WHO ARE LAYING
  • 00:19:08.804 --> 00:19:10.005
  • IN THESE BEDS
  • 00:19:10.005 --> 00:19:11.440
  • IN THE MALNUTRITION CLINIC,
  • 00:19:11.440 --> 00:19:13.075
  • THERE WAS NO NOISE AT ALL.
  • 00:19:13.075 --> 00:19:14.309
  • IF ANYTHING, IT WAS
  • 00:19:14.309 --> 00:19:15.744
  • THE MOTHERS WHO ARE CRYING.
  • 00:19:15.744 --> 00:19:16.912
  • AND THE CHILDREN ARE JUST
  • 00:19:16.912 --> 00:19:18.513
  • SIMPLY USING ALL THE ENERGY
  • 00:19:18.513 --> 00:19:20.082
  • THEY HAD JUST TO TAKE
  • 00:19:20.082 --> 00:19:22.284
  • ONE MORE BREATH.
  • 00:19:22.284 --> 00:19:23.919
  • AND IT WAS JUST HORRIFYING
  • 00:19:23.919 --> 00:19:25.087
  • TO ME.
  • 00:19:25.087 --> 00:19:26.255
  • AND THEN THE NEXT DAY
  • 00:19:26.255 --> 00:19:27.789
  • GOING TO A VILLAGE WHERE
  • 00:19:27.789 --> 00:19:28.991
  • WE ALREADY HAVE SET UP
  • 00:19:28.991 --> 00:19:30.392
  • MISSION FEEDING AND LOOKING
  • 00:19:30.392 --> 00:19:31.593
  • AT THE CHILDREN THE WAY
  • 00:19:31.593 --> 00:19:32.861
  • YOU WOULD LOOK AT CHILDREN
  • 00:19:32.861 --> 00:19:34.229
  • PLAYING AT SCHOOL.
  • 00:19:34.229 --> 00:19:35.831
  • HAPPY, THEIR BRIGHT FACES,
  • 00:19:35.831 --> 00:19:37.266
  • JUST INTERACTING
  • 00:19:37.266 --> 00:19:38.467
  • WITH ONE ANOTHER.
  • 00:19:38.467 --> 00:19:40.168
  • AND ALL BECAUSE OF
  • 00:19:40.168 --> 00:19:41.837
  • MISSION FEEDING.
  • 00:19:41.837 --> 00:19:42.971
  • WE HAVE SOME AMAZING PARTNERS
  • 00:19:42.971 --> 00:19:44.139
  • ON THE GROUND WHO ARE
  • 00:19:44.139 --> 00:19:45.807
  • WAITING RIGHT NOW BECAUSE
  • 00:19:45.807 --> 00:19:47.609
  • THE COMMITMENT THAT WE HAVE
  • 00:19:47.609 --> 00:19:49.044
  • MADE TO THEM IS THAT WE WILL
  • 00:19:49.044 --> 00:19:50.245
  • PROVIDE ENOUGH FOOD FOR
  • 00:19:50.245 --> 00:19:53.315
  • 350.000 CHILDREN THIS YEAR.
  • 00:19:53.315 --> 00:19:54.683
  • THAT SOUNDS LIKE A LOT BUT
  • 00:19:54.683 --> 00:19:56.018
  • IT IS SO DOABLE BECAUSE
  • 00:19:56.018 --> 00:19:58.720
  • $30 WILL FEED THREE CHILDREN
  • 00:19:58.720 --> 00:20:00.055
  • FOR THREE MONTHS.
  • 00:20:00.055 --> 00:20:01.356
  • I MEAN YOU COULDN'T GET
  • 00:20:01.356 --> 00:20:03.258
  • ONE MEAL FOR THREE CHILDREN
  • 00:20:03.258 --> 00:20:06.094
  • FOR $30 NOW BUT IN AFRICA,
  • 00:20:06.094 --> 00:20:07.629
  • THAT'S HOW FAR IT GOES.
  • 00:20:07.629 --> 00:20:09.298
  • $50 FEEDS FIVE CHILDREN.
  • 00:20:09.298 --> 00:20:11.867
  • $100 FEEDS TEN CHILDREN.
  • 00:20:11.867 --> 00:20:13.902
  • SO PLEASE, WILL YOU CALL NOW?
  • 00:20:13.902 --> 00:20:15.304
  • WILL YOU GIVE THE VERY BEST
  • 00:20:15.304 --> 00:20:17.539
  • GIFT YOU CAN AND LET'S GET
  • 00:20:17.539 --> 00:20:19.474
  • THE HELP OUT TO THOSE CHILDREN
  • 00:20:19.474 --> 00:20:21.376
  • NOW IN JESUS' NAME?
  • 00:20:21.376 --> 00:20:22.544
  • THANK YOU!
  • 00:20:22.544 --> 00:20:22.678
  • TODAY ON TOP OF THE DAILYFIGHT FOR LIFE AND FOOD,
  • 00:20:23.679 --> 00:20:26.982
  • FAMILIES AND CHILDRENACROSS AFRICA ARE NOW FORCED
  • 00:20:27.082 --> 00:20:29.851
  • TO DEAL WITH THE CHALLENGESOF A GLOBAL HEALTH CRISIS.
  • 00:20:29.951 --> 00:20:32.921
  • BECAUSE OF COVID-19,
  • 00:20:33.021 --> 00:20:34.923
  • FOOD SCARCITY HASINCREASED DRASTICALLY
  • 00:20:35.023 --> 00:20:36.925
  • AND THE FEAR OF DYINGFROM LACK OF FOOD
  • 00:20:37.025 --> 00:20:39.428
  • IS FAR GREATERTHAN THE VIRUS ITSELF.
  • 00:20:39.528 --> 00:20:42.164
  • EVEN IN THESEUNPRECEDENTED TIMES,
  • 00:20:42.264 --> 00:20:44.266
  • MISSION FEEDINGWON'T STOP.
  • 00:20:44.366 --> 00:20:46.268
  • WITH YOUR HELP,MISSION FEEDINGWILL CONTINUE TO BE
  • 00:20:46.368 --> 00:20:48.670
  • A DAILY SOURCE OF FOOD,ENCOURAGEMENT, AND HEALTH
  • 00:20:48.770 --> 00:20:51.373
  • FOR THE 350.000 CHILDRENCOUNTING ON US.
  • 00:20:51.473 --> 00:20:55.310
  • CALL NOW WITH YOURLIFESAVING GIFT
  • 00:20:55.410 --> 00:20:57.312
  • OF $30, $50,OR $100
  • 00:20:57.412 --> 00:20:59.314
  • THAT WILL HELPFEED AND CARE
  • 00:20:59.414 --> 00:21:01.316
  • FOR THREE, FIVEOR TEN CHILDREN
  • 00:21:01.416 --> 00:21:03.318
  • FOR THREEFULL MONTHS.
  • 00:21:03.418 --> 00:21:05.454
  • WITH YOUR GIFTWE'LL SEND YOU
  • 00:21:05.554 --> 00:21:07.456
  • 40 DAYSOF HEALING PROMISES.
  • 00:21:07.556 --> 00:21:09.458
  • THIS BEAUTIFULHARDCOVER DEVOTIONAL
  • 00:21:09.558 --> 00:21:11.460
  • WILL ENCOURAGE YOUIN YOUR FAITH
  • 00:21:11.560 --> 00:21:13.462
  • AS YOU DIVE DEEP INTOTHE HEALING PROMISES
  • 00:21:13.562 --> 00:21:15.464
  • THAT ARE YOURSIN JESUS' NAME.
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  • WITH YOUR GIFTOF $100 OR MORE
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  • PLEASE REQUEST THE"BLESSINGS FOR YOUR HOME"
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  • BOWLS ANDTEA TOWEL SET.
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  • THIS SET OF BOWLSAND TWO BEAUTIFULLY DESIGNEDTEA TOWELS
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  • WILL MAKE A WONDERFULADDITION TO YOUR HOME
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  • AND SERVEAS A REMINDER OF YOUR HELPIN BLESSING OTHERS
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  • AS A FRIENDOF LIFE .
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  • FINALLY, WITH YOUR GIFTOF $1.000 OR MORE
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  • TO HELP FEED AND CAREFOR 100 CHILDREN
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  • BE SURE TO REQUESTOUR COMMEMORATIVEBRONZE SCULPTURE,
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  • "A MOTHER'SSTRENGTH."
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  • PLEASE CALL, WRITE, OR MAKEYOUR GIFT ONLINE TODAY.
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  • Sheila: THANK YOU SO SO MUCH.
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  • Sheila: THANK YOU SO SO MUCH.IF THE LINES ARE BUSY,
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  • Sheila: THANK YOU SO SO MUCH.IF THE LINES ARE BUSY,KEEP CALLING.
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  • IF THE LINES ARE BUSY,KEEP CALLING.LET'S DO THIS.
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  • KEEP CALLING.LET'S DO THIS.AND REMEMBER, FOR ANY GIFT
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  • LET'S DO THIS.AND REMEMBER, FOR ANY GIFTAT ALL WE WILL SEND YOU
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  • AND REMEMBER, FOR ANY GIFTAT ALL WE WILL SEND YOULYSA'S BOOK, FORGIVING
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  • AT ALL WE WILL SEND YOULYSA'S BOOK, FORGIVINGWHAT YOU CAN'T FORGET .
  • 00:22:04.413 --> 00:22:05.714
  • LYSA'S BOOK, FORGIVINGWHAT YOU CAN'T FORGET .THIS BOOK WEIGHS A LOT
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  • WHAT YOU CAN'T FORGET .THIS BOOK WEIGHS A LOTBECAUSE IT COST YOU A LOT
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  • THIS BOOK WEIGHS A LOTBECAUSE IT COST YOU A LOTBUT I JUST WANT TO THANK YOU
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  • BECAUSE IT COST YOU A LOTBUT I JUST WANT TO THANK YOUFOR THE WAY THAT YOU'RE GOING
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  • BUT I JUST WANT TO THANK YOUFOR THE WAY THAT YOU'RE GOINGTO HELP SO MANY OF US
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  • FOR THE WAY THAT YOU'RE GOINGTO HELP SO MANY OF USMOVE FORWARD IN OUR JOURNEY
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  • TO HELP SO MANY OF USMOVE FORWARD IN OUR JOURNEYTO HEALING.
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  • MOVE FORWARD IN OUR JOURNEYTO HEALING.Lysa: THANK YOU, SHEILA.
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  • TO HEALING.Lysa: THANK YOU, SHEILA.Sheila: SO THANKS
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  • Lysa: THANK YOU, SHEILA.Sheila: SO THANKSFOR BEING WITH US.
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  • Sheila: SO THANKSFOR BEING WITH US.YOU MIGHT WANT TO GET
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  • FOR BEING WITH US.YOU MIGHT WANT TO GETTWO COPIES, GET ONE
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  • YOU MIGHT WANT TO GETTWO COPIES, GET ONEFOR A FRIEND.
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  • TWO COPIES, GET ONEFOR A FRIEND.IF YOU KNOW SOMEBODY WHO IS
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  • FOR A FRIEND.IF YOU KNOW SOMEBODY WHO ISHURTING AND CAN'T FORGIVE,
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  • IF YOU KNOW SOMEBODY WHO ISHURTING AND CAN'T FORGIVE,THIS WILL BE AN IDEAL GIFT.
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  • HURTING AND CAN'T FORGIVE,THIS WILL BE AN IDEAL GIFT.SO UNTIL NEXT TIME,
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  • THIS WILL BE AN IDEAL GIFT.SO UNTIL NEXT TIME,I'M SHEILA WALSH SAYING
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  • ♪ EVERYTHING ELSECAN WAIT ♪
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  • ♪ I'VE COMETO SEEK YOUR FACE ♪
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  • ♪ SO EVERYTHING ELSECAN WAIT ♪
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  • ♪ I'M HEREFOR YOU ♪
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  • ♪ I WANT TO ♪
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  • ♪ JUST BEHERE AT YOUR FEET ♪
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  • ♪ JUST BE HEREON MY KNEES ♪
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  • ♪ HERE INYOUR PRESENCE ♪
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  • ♪ I AM COMPLETE ♪
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  • ♪ JESUS, YOU'RE ALLTHAT I NEED ♪
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  • ♪ EVERYTHING ELSECAN WAIT ♪
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  • ♪ I'VE COMETO SEEK YOUR FACE ♪
  • 00:23:58.560 --> 00:24:05.066
  • ♪ SO EVERYTHING ELSECAN WAIT ♪
  • 00:24:05.166 --> 00:24:08.403
  • ♪ I'M HEREFOR YOU ♪
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  • ♪ I WANT TO ♪
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  • ♪ JUST BEHERE AT YOUR FEET ♪
  • 00:24:16.611 --> 00:24:23.385
  • ♪ JUST BE HEREON MY KNEES ♪
  • 00:24:23.485 --> 00:24:31.159
  • ♪ HERE INYOUR PRESENCE ♪
  • 00:24:31.259 --> 00:24:34.329
  • ♪ I AM COMPLETE ♪
  • 00:24:34.429 --> 00:24:37.265
  • ♪ JESUS, YOU'RE ALLTHAT I NEED ♪
  • 00:24:37.365 --> 00:24:42.304
  • ♪ THERE'S NOTHINGI WANT MORE ♪
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  • ♪ 'CAUSE NOTHINGMATTERS MORE ♪
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  • ♪ THERE'S NOTHINGI WANT MORE, GOD ♪
  • 00:25:00.088 --> 00:25:04.359
  • ♪ 'CAUSE NOTHINGMATTERS MORE, NO ♪
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  • ♪ THERE'S NOTHINGI WANT MORE, NO ♪
  • 00:25:13.435 --> 00:25:20.075
  • ♪ 'CAUSE NOTHINGMATTERS MORE ♪
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  • ♪ THAN YOU,THAN YOU, GOD ♪
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  • ♪ THERE'S NOTHINGI WANT MORE, NO ♪
  • 00:25:26.781 --> 00:25:33.288
  • ♪ 'CAUSE NOTHINGMATTERS MORE ♪
  • 00:25:33.388 --> 00:25:37.859
  • ♪ I'LL JUST BEHERE AT YOUR FEET ♪
  • 00:25:37.959 --> 00:25:43.965
  • ♪ JUST BEHERE ON MY KNEES ♪
  • 00:25:44.065 --> 00:25:51.473
  • ♪ HERE INYOUR PRESENCE ♪
  • 00:25:51.573 --> 00:25:54.509
  • ♪ I AM COMPLETE ♪
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  • ♪ JESUS, YOU'RE ALLTHAT I NEED, OH ♪
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  • ♪ I'LL JUST BEHERE AT YOUR FEET ♪
  • 00:26:04.119 --> 00:26:09.591
  • ♪ OH I'LL JUST BEHERE ON MY KNEES ♪
  • 00:26:09.691 --> 00:26:18.099
  • ♪ HERE INYOUR PRESENCE ♪
  • 00:26:18.199 --> 00:26:21.102
  • ♪ I AM COMPLETE ♪
  • 00:26:21.202 --> 00:26:23.838
  • ♪ JESUS, YOU'RE ALLTHAT I NEED ♪
  • 00:26:23.938 --> 00:26:27.776
  • ♪ JESUS, YOU'RE ALLTHAT I NEED ♪
  • 00:26:31.012 --> 00:26:36.084
  • ♪ OH JESUS,YOU'RE ALL THAT I NEED ♪
  • 00:26:36.184 --> 00:26:44.125
  • - IT IS AT THE PLACEOF SURRENDER
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  • THAT PURPOSEIS FOUND.
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  • SAM COLLIER TELLS HIS STORYOF ABANDONMENT AND RESCUE.
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  • NEXT WEEK!
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  • LIFE TODAY IS MADEPOSSIBLE BY THE SUPPORTERS OFLIFE OUTREACH INTERNATIONAL.
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  • YOUR GIFT WILL BE USEDEXCLUSIVELY FOR THE EXEMPTPURPOSES OF LIFE.
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  • THE MINISTRY FEATURESSPECIFIC OUTREACHES
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  • AS EXAMPLES OF THE PROGRAMSIT SUPPORTS AND CONDUCTS.
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  • GIFTS ARE CONSIDEREDTO BE WITHOUT RESTRICTION
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  • AS TO USE UNLESS EXPLICITLYSTIPULATED BY THE DONOR.
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  • THE MINISTRY IS A MEMBEROF THE E.C.F.A.
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