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Jonathan and Alena Pitts and Chrystal Evans Hurst | Losing A Loved One

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September 5, 2019
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Jonathan and Alena Pitts and Chrystal Evans Hurst | Losing A Loved One

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  • Announcer: WITHIN FOUR HOURS OF SUBMITTING
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  • THE FINAL MANUSCRIPT OF THEIR MARRIAGE BOOK, EMPTIED ,
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  • WYNTER PITTS PASSED AWAY FROM HEART FAILURE.
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  • - WITH EVERYTHING I HAVE INSIDE OF ME
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  • AND EVERYTHING THAT I SEE IN FRONT OF ME,
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  • THAT WYNTER SERVED THE PURPOSES THAT GOD GAVE HER
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  • AND I'M CONFIDENT OF THAT.
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  • I DON'T KNOW WHY MY DAUGHTERS' MOM COULDN'T BE HERE LONGER.
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  • I DON'T KNOW WHY I COULDN'T BE MARRIED TO HER FOR
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  • 30 YEARS, AS OPPOSED TO 15 OR 45.
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  • BUT ULTIMATELY, I JUST TRUST THAT GOD HAD A PURPOSE
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  • FOR HER TO BE HERE AND SHE SERVED THAT OUT,
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  • AND SERVED IT OUT QUITE WELL.
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  • Announcer: NEXT ON LIFE TODAY !
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  • Randy: WELCOME TO LIFE TODAY .
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  • I'M RANDY ROBISON.
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  • THIS IS SHEILA WALSH.
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  • Sheila: HEY!
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  • Randy: YOU KNOW, SHEILA,
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  • IT'S BEEN ALMOST TWO YEARS
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  • WYNTER PITTS ON LIFE TODAY .
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  • Sheila: I REMEMBER, RANDY.
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  • IT WAS GREAT; TALKING ABOUT
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  • RAISING THEIR GIRLS.
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  • AND THEN...
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  • Randy: WE DIDN'T KNOW.
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  • Sheila: NO, WE HAD NO IDEA
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  • THAT JUST ABOUT A YEAR AGO,
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  • JUST OVER A YEAR AGO
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  • THERE WOULD BE THIS SUDDEN
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  • TRAGEDY IN THEIR LIFE.
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  • AND THE BEAUTIFUL WYNTER
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  • APPARENTLY HAD FINISHED
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  • HER RACE AND GONE HOME.
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  • Randy: YEAH, IT'S TOUGH
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  • AT A YOUNG AGE.
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  • JONATHAN IS BACK WITH US.
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  • THEIR OLDEST DAUGHTER,
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  • ALENA IS WITH US.
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  • AND THEN CHRYSTAL EVANS HURST
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  • WHO SHE DESCRIBES AS
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  • HER "SISTER COUSIN"
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  • IS WITH US.
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  • WOULD YOU WELCOME THEM
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  • Sheila: I WANT TO APOLOGIZE.
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  • I WAS NOT EXPECTING THAT
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  • BUT I JUST REMEMBER --
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  • I REMEMBER I WAS AT HOME
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  • AND I GOT THIS MESSAGE
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  • FROM PRISCILLA,
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  • AND IT WAS SO SHOCKING.
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  • I WONDERED, CAN YOU TAKE US
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  • BACK TO WHAT WAS GOING ON
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  • IN YOUR LIFE?
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  • BECAUSE THE THING
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  • THAT'S AMAZING TO ME IS THAT
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  • YOU AND WYNTER HAD JUST
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  • FINISHED THIS AMAZING BOOK
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  • CALLED, EMPTIED
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  • THAT YOU HAD WRITTEN
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  • ABOUT YOUR MARRIAGE.
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  • SO TELL US WHAT HAPPENED.
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  • OUR LIVES WERE COMPLETELY
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  • WHAT I WOULD CALL ORIENTED.
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  • ALL WAS WELL IN THE WORLD.
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  • I WAS DOING WELL
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  • WAS IN AN EXECUTIVE ROLE
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  • AND WAS TRANSITIONING FROM
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  • AN EXECUTIVE ROLE FOR
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  • PRISCILLA'S DAD, TONY EVANS
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  • IN HIS MINISTRY
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  • TO CHURCH MINISTRY AND BEING
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  • EXECUTIVE PASTOR AT
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  • CHURCH IN THE CITY
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  • IN FRANKLIN, TENNESSEE.
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  • AT THE SAME TIME WYNTER WAS,
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  • HER MINISTRY WAS FLOURISHING.
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  • FOR GIRLS LIKE YOU ,
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  • HER MAGAZINE, HER WRITINGS
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  • WERE ALL FLOURISHING.
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  • WE'D WRITTEN THE PARENTING
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  • BOOK WE DID TOGETHER,
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  • THEN WE WERE WRITING
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  • A MARRIAGE BOOK TOGETHER.
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  • WE JUST WERE EXCITED.
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  • LIFE WAS GOOD, AND OUR GIRLS
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  • WERE GOOD AND WE WERE
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  • IN THIS BIG MOVE AND REALLY
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  • EXCITED ABOUT WHAT
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  • GOD HAD FOR OUR FUTURE.
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  • SO WE WOULD MOVE TO NASHVILLE
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  • ON JULY 9th, AND THEN BUY
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  • OUR HOUSE, MOVE IN JULY 10th
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  • AND THEN GO BACK TO MAKE
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  • A COUPLE OF TRIPS AND ENDED UP
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  • BACK IN DALLAS FOR ME
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  • TO FINISH UP MY ROLE AND FOR
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  • WYNTER TO FINISH THE LAST BOOK
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  • SHE WAS WORKING ON.
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  • ON JULY 24th, 2018,
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  • I WOULD GO TO WORK.
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  • I WOULD TURN IN ACTUALLY
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  • THAT FINAL EDITED MANUSCRIPT
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  • FOR THAT BOOK, EMPTIED
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  • AT ABOUT 3:45, AND ABOUT
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  • 7:45 THAT NIGHT I'D GO HOME
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  • AND MAKE DINNER.
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  • WYNTER TOOK A NAP.
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  • SHE WOULD HAVE A CARDIAC,
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  • WHAT'S CALLED A CARDIAC
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  • DYSRHYTHMIA, WHICH WOULD
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  • BE LIKE, JUST HER HEART
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  • RHYTHM WOULD GET OFF.
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  • WHAT I LIKE TO SAY ABOUT
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  • THAT EVENT IS THAT IT WAS
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  • ABOUT AS TRAUMATIC --
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  • WAS THE MOST TRAUMATIC EVENT
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  • I'VE EVER EXPERIENCED
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  • IN MY LIFE.
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  • BUT FOR HER IT WAS THE MOST
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  • GLORIOUS AND SHE WOULD
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  • GO HOME TO BE WITH HER SAVIOR
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  • RATHER QUICKLY
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  • AND RATHER PAIN FREE.
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  • I'VE TALKED ABOUT IT A LOT
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  • SO IT'S A LITTLE BIT EASIER
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  • FOR ME TO TALK ABOUT
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  • RIGHT NOW BUT YEAH,
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  • IT WAS INCREDIBLY --
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  • IT WAS LIFE-ALTERING,
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  • LIFE-CHANGING FOR ME, FOR
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  • MY GIRLS, FOR OUR MINISTRY,
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  • FOR A LOT OF PEOPLE
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  • THAT KNEW US WELL.
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  • IN DALLAS AT THAT POINT?
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  • BECAUSE I'M THINKING,
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  • YOU HAVE A BIG FAMILY.
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  • THERE WERE A LOT OF MINI
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  • MIRACLES, I CALL THEM
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  • IN OUR LIVES,
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  • AND THEY'RE STILL OCCURRING.
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  • BUT ONE OF THEM WAS THE FACT
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  • THAT WE HAD SOLD THE HOUSE
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  • WE WERE IN THAT WE LOVED,
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  • IT WAS OUR FAVORITE HOME
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  • WE EVER HAD; WE HAD SOLD THAT
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  • AND MOVED INTO
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  • THIS NEW HOME IN NASHVILLE.
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  • WE ONLY SPENT ABOUT
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  • FOUR NIGHTS THERE TOGETHER
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  • AND ALL OF IT WAS LIKE MOVING
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  • AND I DON'T EVEN KNOW
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  • IF WE HAD SHEETS ON OUR BED
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  • FOR THE FOUR NIGHTS
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  • THAT WE SLEPT THERE.
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  • SO FOR US TO BE BACK HOME
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  • AND WE WERE ACTUALLY STAYING
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  • AT CHRYSTAL'S SISTER'S HOUSE,
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  • PRISCILLA'S HOUSE.
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  • SO WE'RE IN A PLACE THAT WAS
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  • REALLY COMFORTABLE BUT
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  • IN A PLACE THAT WAS DISTANCED
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  • ENOUGH AND ALL OF OUR FAMILY
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  • WAS AROUND.
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  • WHEN WE WENT TO THE HOSPITAL,
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  • IT WAS JUST EVERYTHING
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  • YOU COULD THINK OF, AMBULANCE,
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  • ALL OF THAT.
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  • BUT BEFORE I COULD EVEN
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  • REALLY GET MY BEARINGS,
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  • ALL OF OUR FAMILY WAS
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  • SURROUNDING US,
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  • INCLUDING DR. EVANS, WHO IS
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  • MY BOSS BUT ALSO MY SPIRITUAL
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  • MENTOR, INCLUDING CHRYSTAL
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  • AND A COUPLE OF HER SIBLINGS,
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  • AND ALL OF OUR FAMILY.
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  • SO WE WERE SURROUNDED.
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  • Sheila: CHRYSTAL, CAN YOU
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  • TALK US THROUGH WHAT
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  • THAT WAS LIKE FOR YOU?
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  • BECAUSE I REMEMBER WHAT
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  • I THINK WAS JUST A NIGHT
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  • AFTER WYNTER WENT HOME
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  • TO BE WITH JESUS SOMETHING
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  • PRETTY REMARKABLE HAPPENED
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  • IN THE CHURCH.
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  • Chrystal: WE WERE IN THE
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  • MIDDLE OF A SUMMER SERIES
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  • AND THAT WEDNESDAY NIGHT
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  • WE HAD CYCLED THROUGH A LOT
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  • OF THINGS -- THAT WEDNESDAY
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  • NIGHT THOUGH WAS TALKING
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  • ABOUT WHEN YOU DON'T
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  • WHAT DO YOU NOT UNDERSTAND
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  • ABOUT GOD?
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  • WHEN GOD SEEMS HARD
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  • TO UNDERSTAND.
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  • TONY EVANS IS TONY EVANS
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  • SO HE WAS STILL GOING TO GO
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  • ON WEDNESDAY NIGHT
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  • AND SHARE SOMETHING.
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  • WE WERE ALL, MY SIBLINGS
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  • AND I, WE WERE JUST LIKE,
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  • "DAD, WELL, YOU CAN'T GO
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  • AND TALK ABOUT THEORY.
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  • LIKE WE HAVE HAD SOMETHING
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  • WITHIN 24 HOURS THAT'S
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  • TOTALLY ROCKED OUR WORLD
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  • AND THAT'S WHAT
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  • WE DON'T UNDERSTAND."
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  • I DON'T EVEN KNOW IF I'VE
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  • TOLD YOU BUT PRISCILLA HAD
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  • CALLED ME, AND I DIDN'T
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  • SEE THE CALL.
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  • THEN I SAW, WHEN I FINALLY
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  • PICKED UP MY PHONE
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  • IT WAS 911.
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  • SO THE WHOLE WAY TO THE
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  • HOSPITAL, I'D BEEN PRAYING.
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  • AND THEN I JUST SAID, GOD,
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  • IF SHE'S GONE, BRING HER BACK.
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  • SO THAT'S WHERE I WAS
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  • WHEN THE NEXT NIGHT WE WERE
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  • SUPPOSED TO TALK TO MY DAD
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  • ABOUT THIS.
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  • I WAS THE PERSON INTERVIEWING
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  • HIM THOSE WEDNESDAY NIGHTS
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  • FOR THAT FORMAT.
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  • I TOLD HIM, "I CAN'T.
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  • IT'S NOT GOOD.
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  • IT WOULDN'T BE GOOD
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  • IF I DID IT."
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  • PRISCILLA SAID, "I'LL DO IT."
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  • WE WENT FOR SUPPORT TO SIT
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  • IN THE BACK AND FIVE MINUTES
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  • BEFORE SERVICE STARTED
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  • MY BROTHERS AND MY SISTER
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  • AND I, WE ALL CAME OUT JUST
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  • TO BE THERE FOR SUPPORT.
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  • THAT RAW AUTHENTIC INTERVIEW
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  • WHERE WE'RE CRYING
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  • AND YOU'VE GOT FOUR KIDS
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  • TALKING TO THEIR DAD WITH
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  • ALL DIFFERENT EXPERIENCES,
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  • "I'M TRYING TO BELIEVE GOD."
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  • PRISCILLA IS STEADY, AND
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  • ANTHONY, MY BROTHER IS LIKE,
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  • "I'M NOT GOOD RIGHT NOW."
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  • JUST THAT MOMENT, WATCHING
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  • MY DAD STRUGGLE, TEARS,
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  • ALL THAT, THAT ENDED UP
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  • ON YOUTUBE.
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  • SO MANY PEOPLE, HUNDREDS
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  • OF THOUSANDS OF PEOPLE
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  • HAVE WATCHED THAT VIDEO
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  • AND HAVE SAID OVER AND OVER
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  • AGAIN, THANK YOU BECAUSE
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  • WE CAN FEEL THAT INTERVIEW
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  • AND IT IS REAL.
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  • THE ABILITY TO HEAR YOU ALL'S
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  • FAITH IN THE MIDST OF THAT
  • 00:07:00.290 --> 00:07:02.060
  • DIFFICULTY WAS STRENGTHENING
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  • AND HELPFUL.
  • 00:07:04.150 --> 00:07:06.090
  • SO GOD DID WHAT HE DOES.
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  • Randy: I REFERENCED THAT YOU
  • 00:07:08.180 --> 00:07:09.210
  • REFERRED TO WYNTER AS
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  • YOUR "SISTER COUSIN."
  • 00:07:10.280 --> 00:07:12.010
  • WHAT DOES THAT MEAN?
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  • Chrystal: IT MEANS MORE LIKE
  • 00:07:13.190 --> 00:07:14.210
  • SISTERS BUT ACTUALLY COUSINS.
  • 00:07:14.210 --> 00:07:17.150
  • THEY MOVED TO DALLAS THE WEEK
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  • I HAD MY SECOND SON.
  • 00:07:20.050 --> 00:07:22.150
  • Y'ALL CAME OVER, SHE HELD
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  • MY MIDDLE SON AND YOU CAME
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  • TO LIVE THERE.
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  • YOU GUYS WERE LITTLE.
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  • YOU WEREN'T EVEN ONE.
  • 00:07:28.210 --> 00:07:30.290
  • SO WE ALL WERE HAVING BABIES
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  • AT THE SAME TIME,
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  • RAISING OUR KIDS,
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  • GOING TO THE PARK,
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  • DOING FIELD TRIPS,
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  • KILLING TIME.
  • 00:07:37.040 --> 00:07:38.080
  • THAT WAS LIFE AND WE LIVED
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  • 15 YEARS JUST LIVING LIFE
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  • LIKE THAT.
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  • Randy: HOW HAS IT BEEN WITH
  • 00:07:43.060 --> 00:07:44.190
  • THE HOLE IN YOUR LIFE?
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  • Chrystal: WELL...
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  • AND I'M SURE YOU GUYS
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  • CAN ATTEST TO THIS.
  • 00:07:50.270 --> 00:07:52.130
  • I HEAR HER VOICE IN MY HEAD.
  • 00:07:52.130 --> 00:07:55.020
  • THEY WERE MOVING SO THERE WAS
  • 00:07:55.020 --> 00:07:56.110
  • ALREADY THIS SETTLED,
  • 00:07:56.110 --> 00:07:59.060
  • THEY WON'T BE HERE FEELING.
  • 00:07:59.060 --> 00:08:02.060
  • BUT WHEN I'M REMINDED OF
  • 00:08:02.060 --> 00:08:04.010
  • THE FACT THAT SHE IS
  • 00:08:04.010 --> 00:08:05.070
  • PHYSICALLY NOT WITH US
  • 00:08:05.070 --> 00:08:06.130
  • ON THIS EARTH ANYMORE,
  • 00:08:06.130 --> 00:08:07.200
  • THAT DOESN'T STOP ME
  • 00:08:07.200 --> 00:08:08.290
  • FROM HEARING HER IN MY HEAD
  • 00:08:08.290 --> 00:08:10.200
  • AND FROM KNOWING WHAT
  • 00:08:10.200 --> 00:08:11.260
  • SHE WOULD SAY RIGHT NOW.
  • 00:08:11.260 --> 00:08:13.260
  • Jonathan: CAN I SHARE
  • 00:08:13.260 --> 00:08:15.020
  • ANOTHER MINI MIRACLE?
  • 00:08:15.020 --> 00:08:16.120
  • SO BECAUSE WE WERE MOVING,
  • 00:08:16.120 --> 00:08:18.070
  • PEOPLE WERE ALREADY GETTING
  • 00:08:18.070 --> 00:08:19.120
  • ONE OF THE THINGS,
  • 00:08:20.200 --> 00:08:21.200
  • TWO THINGS THAT HAPPENED,
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  • ONE WAS ALL OF THE COUSINS,
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  • AND MY SISTER-IN-LAW
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  • AND BROTHER-IN-LAW CAME
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  • A BOOK OF GOOD-BYE LETTERS.
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  • AND THEN THERE WAS ANOTHER
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  • PICTURE BOOK THAT WAS MADE
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  • THAT HAD PICTURES OF ALL
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  • OF OUR 14 PLUS DOCUMENTED
  • 00:08:35.040 --> 00:08:36.180
  • YEARS TOGETHER FROM
  • 00:08:36.180 --> 00:08:38.050
  • OUR BABIES GETTING BATHS
  • 00:08:38.050 --> 00:08:39.130
  • TOGETHER IN TUBS AND ALL
  • 00:08:39.130 --> 00:08:40.140
  • THOSE THINGS THAT YOU DO
  • 00:08:40.140 --> 00:08:41.140
  • AS FAMILY.
  • 00:08:41.140 --> 00:08:42.170
  • SO WYNTER WAS ABLE
  • 00:08:42.170 --> 00:08:43.230
  • TO ACTUALLY READ THOSE NOTES
  • 00:08:43.230 --> 00:08:44.240
  • AND SEE THOSE PICTURES.
  • 00:08:44.240 --> 00:08:45.290
  • THAT WEEK SHE PASSED AWAY,
  • 00:08:45.290 --> 00:08:47.050
  • I THINK SHE SAW
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  • THE PICTURE BOOKS.
  • 00:08:48.060 --> 00:08:49.070
  • Chrystal: THE TIMING
  • 00:08:49.070 --> 00:08:50.120
  • WAS IMPECCABLE.
  • 00:08:50.120 --> 00:08:51.150
  • IF YOU CAN SAY THAT ABOUT
  • 00:08:51.150 --> 00:08:52.150
  • HIS FINGERPRINTS WERE
  • 00:08:53.220 --> 00:08:55.090
  • ALL OVER IT AND EVEN IN
  • 00:08:55.090 --> 00:08:57.050
  • THE DIFFICULTY OF THAT
  • 00:08:57.050 --> 00:08:59.220
  • IT WAS VERY CLEAR THAT HE WAS
  • 00:08:59.220 --> 00:09:00.270
  • SO VERY GRACIOUS TO GIVE US
  • 00:09:02.170 --> 00:09:03.290
  • THE OPPORTUNITY TO SAY
  • 00:09:03.290 --> 00:09:05.210
  • WHAT WE HAD TO SAY.
  • 00:09:05.210 --> 00:09:07.180
  • Sheila: ALENA, I WANT
  • 00:09:07.180 --> 00:09:08.220
  • TO ASK YOU, YOU'RE THE OLDEST
  • 00:09:08.220 --> 00:09:10.140
  • OF THE FOUR GIRLS.
  • 00:09:10.140 --> 00:09:12.080
  • I REMEMBER THE LAST TIME
  • 00:09:12.080 --> 00:09:13.110
  • RANDY AND I INTERVIEWED
  • 00:09:13.110 --> 00:09:15.030
  • YOUR MOM AND DAD AND JUST
  • 00:09:15.030 --> 00:09:16.130
  • HOW MUCH SHE ADORED YOU ALL.
  • 00:09:16.130 --> 00:09:19.070
  • I JUST WANT TO, HOW ARE YOU
  • 00:09:19.070 --> 00:09:20.250
  • DOING IN THE MIDST
  • 00:09:20.250 --> 00:09:22.000
  • OF ALL THIS?
  • 00:09:22.000 --> 00:09:23.290
  • Alena: I DON'T -- LIKE ME
  • 00:09:23.290 --> 00:09:25.120
  • AND MY DAD SAY THIS
  • 00:09:25.120 --> 00:09:26.140
  • ALL THE TIME.
  • 00:09:26.140 --> 00:09:27.190
  • I DON'T KNOW HOW PEOPLE
  • 00:09:27.190 --> 00:09:28.260
  • DO THIS WITHOUT JESUS.
  • 00:09:28.260 --> 00:09:30.090
  • I'D BE A MESS.
  • 00:09:30.090 --> 00:09:32.000
  • SO I FEEL LIKE RIGHT NOW
  • 00:09:32.000 --> 00:09:33.200
  • I'M IN A TIME OF LIKE
  • 00:09:33.200 --> 00:09:34.240
  • GOD IS LIKE, I GUESS,
  • 00:09:34.240 --> 00:09:36.000
  • REJUVENATING ME
  • 00:09:36.000 --> 00:09:37.080
  • AND LIKE RESTORING ME.
  • 00:09:37.080 --> 00:09:38.190
  • I CAN FEEL GOD LIKE WORKING
  • 00:09:38.190 --> 00:09:39.270
  • AND SO THROUGH IT ALL
  • 00:09:41.000 --> 00:09:42.030
  • HE'S BEEN WITH ME SO I'M ABLE
  • 00:09:42.030 --> 00:09:43.160
  • TO STAND UP HERE
  • 00:09:43.160 --> 00:09:44.190
  • AND SAY TRUTHFULLY, I'M DOING
  • 00:09:44.190 --> 00:09:46.240
  • THEIR MOM TEN MONTHS AGO.
  • 00:09:48.140 --> 00:09:51.010
  • Sheila: HOW ARE YOU ABLE
  • 00:09:51.010 --> 00:09:52.080
  • TO HELP YOUR YOUNGER SISTERS
  • 00:09:52.080 --> 00:09:53.120
  • BECAUSE YOU'RE THE OLDEST
  • 00:09:53.120 --> 00:09:54.140
  • OF FOUR?
  • 00:09:54.140 --> 00:09:55.190
  • Jonathan: FOR ONE, SHE DID
  • 00:09:55.190 --> 00:09:56.210
  • ALL THEIR HAIR THIS WEEK,
  • 00:09:56.210 --> 00:09:57.240
  • WHICH I'M GRATEFUL FOR.
  • 00:09:57.240 --> 00:09:58.290
  • [Laughter]
  • 00:09:58.290 --> 00:10:00.100
  • Alena: YEAH.
  • 00:10:00.100 --> 00:10:01.160
  • IT WAS ACTUALLY AUNT CHRYSSY,
  • 00:10:01.160 --> 00:10:02.250
  • THE NIGHT THAT MY MOM PASSED,
  • 00:10:02.250 --> 00:10:03.280
  • I REMEMBER HER WHISPERING
  • 00:10:03.280 --> 00:10:05.000
  • IN MY EAR LIKE,
  • 00:10:05.000 --> 00:10:06.060
  • "BE THEIR SISTER."
  • 00:10:06.060 --> 00:10:07.120
  • SO I'VE KIND OF TAKEN THAT
  • 00:10:07.120 --> 00:10:09.110
  • WITH ME BECAUSE THEY WANT ME
  • 00:10:09.110 --> 00:10:11.140
  • TO BE THEIR SISTER AND NOT
  • 00:10:11.140 --> 00:10:13.070
  • LIKE SOME MOTHER OR LIKE
  • 00:10:13.070 --> 00:10:16.010
  • YES, I'M SUPPOSED TO DO
  • 00:10:16.010 --> 00:10:17.080
  • THEIR HAIR AND BE THERE
  • 00:10:17.080 --> 00:10:18.110
  • FOR THEM, BUT ULTIMATELY,
  • 00:10:18.110 --> 00:10:19.230
  • THEY WANT SOMEONE THEY CAN
  • 00:10:19.230 --> 00:10:20.260
  • CONFIDE IN AND TALK TO
  • 00:10:20.260 --> 00:10:22.100
  • AS A SISTER.
  • 00:10:22.100 --> 00:10:24.240
  • Jonathan: SHE'S AN
  • 00:10:24.240 --> 00:10:26.060
  • AMAZING SISTER.
  • 00:10:27.140 --> 00:10:30.140
  • Sheila: I WANT TO ASK YOU,
  • 00:10:30.140 --> 00:10:31.250
  • JONATHAN, WHEN YOU WALKED
  • 00:10:31.250 --> 00:10:34.120
  • -- I MEAN YOU'RE A PASTOR.
  • 00:10:34.120 --> 00:10:35.210
  • WHEN YOU WALK THROUGH
  • 00:10:35.210 --> 00:10:36.260
  • SOMETHING LIKE THIS, DOES IT
  • 00:10:36.260 --> 00:10:38.120
  • CHANGE WHAT YOU BELIEVE
  • 00:10:38.120 --> 00:10:40.000
  • OR DOES IT REINFORCE
  • 00:10:40.000 --> 00:10:41.060
  • WHAT YOU ALREADY BELIEVED?
  • 00:10:41.060 --> 00:10:43.010
  • Jonathan: I'LL SAY IT
  • 00:10:43.010 --> 00:10:44.080
  • TWO WAYS.
  • 00:10:44.080 --> 00:10:45.140
  • ONE, YOU THINK ABOUT JUST
  • 00:10:45.140 --> 00:10:46.260
  • THE HOUSE BUILT ON THE SAND
  • 00:10:46.260 --> 00:10:49.250
  • VERSUS THE HOUSE BUILT
  • 00:10:49.250 --> 00:10:51.010
  • ON THE ROCK.
  • 00:10:51.010 --> 00:10:52.050
  • WHAT'S FUN FOR ME IS
  • 00:10:52.050 --> 00:10:53.120
  • TO REALIZE, O GOD,
  • 00:10:53.120 --> 00:10:54.190
  • THIS IS REAL.
  • 00:10:54.190 --> 00:10:55.240
  • LIKE I REALLY BELIEVE
  • 00:10:55.240 --> 00:10:56.250
  • WHAT I BELIEVE.
  • 00:10:56.250 --> 00:10:58.000
  • SO LIKE THERE ARE SOME DAYS
  • 00:10:58.000 --> 00:10:59.020
  • WHERE I COGNITIVELY BELIEVE IT
  • 00:10:59.020 --> 00:11:00.060
  • AND EMOTIONALLY
  • 00:11:00.060 --> 00:11:01.130
  • I DON'T BELIEVE IT.
  • 00:11:01.130 --> 00:11:02.160
  • THEN THERE ARE SOME DAYS THAT
  • 00:11:02.160 --> 00:11:03.190
  • WHERE MY COGNITION AND
  • 00:11:03.190 --> 00:11:04.220
  • MY EMOTIONS LINE UP.
  • 00:11:04.220 --> 00:11:05.230
  • AND ON THOSE DAYS I JUST FEEL
  • 00:11:05.230 --> 00:11:06.230
  • LIKE EVERYTHING IS RIGHT.
  • 00:11:06.230 --> 00:11:07.280
  • SO THERE ARE TOUGH DAYS BUT
  • 00:11:07.280 --> 00:11:09.010
  • WHAT I BELIEVE IS TRUE.
  • 00:11:09.150 --> 00:11:12.150
  • WITH AS MUCH CONFIDENCE I CAN
  • 00:11:12.150 --> 00:11:14.020
  • SAY, IT'S TRUE, IT'S TRUE.
  • 00:11:14.020 --> 00:11:16.200
  • CHRYSTAL'S DAD, DR. EVANS
  • 00:11:16.200 --> 00:11:19.150
  • TO ME, HE USED TO QUOTE,
  • 00:11:20.170 --> 00:11:21.170
  • LIKE WHEN HE WOULD SPEAK,
  • 00:11:21.170 --> 00:11:22.190
  • I'D TRAVEL WITH HIM
  • 00:11:22.190 --> 00:11:23.210
  • ALL THE TIME AND I'D HEAR HIM
  • 00:11:23.210 --> 00:11:24.220
  • HUNDREDS OF TIMES PROBABLY
  • 00:11:24.220 --> 00:11:25.230
  • SAY, ACTS 13:36, THAT DAVID
  • 00:11:25.230 --> 00:11:26.240
  • FOR HIS GENERATION
  • 00:11:27.260 --> 00:11:28.260
  • AND THEN HE FELL ASLEEP.
  • 00:11:28.260 --> 00:11:30.040
  • HE ALWAYS TALKED ABOUT
  • 00:11:30.040 --> 00:11:31.080
  • PEOPLE SERVING GOD'S PURPOSES.
  • 00:11:31.080 --> 00:11:32.140
  • AND WITH EVERYTHING I HAVE
  • 00:11:32.140 --> 00:11:33.150
  • INSIDE OF ME AND EVERYTHING
  • 00:11:33.150 --> 00:11:34.180
  • I SEE IN FRONT OF ME THAT
  • 00:11:34.180 --> 00:11:35.210
  • WYNTER SERVED THE PURPOSES
  • 00:11:35.210 --> 00:11:36.210
  • THAT GOD GAVE HER
  • 00:11:36.210 --> 00:11:37.240
  • AND I'M CONFIDENT OF THAT.
  • 00:11:37.240 --> 00:11:38.290
  • I'M NOT -- I DON'T KNOW WHY
  • 00:11:38.290 --> 00:11:40.130
  • MY DAUGHTERS' MOM COULDN'T
  • 00:11:40.130 --> 00:11:41.120
  • BE HERE LONGER.
  • 00:11:41.120 --> 00:11:42.150
  • I DON'T KNOW WHY I COULDN'T BE
  • 00:11:42.150 --> 00:11:43.230
  • MARRIED TO HER FOR 30 YEARS,
  • 00:11:43.230 --> 00:11:44.250
  • AS OPPOSED TO 15 OR 45.
  • 00:11:44.250 --> 00:11:45.270
  • BUT ULTIMATELY, I JUST TRUST
  • 00:11:45.270 --> 00:11:46.290
  • THAT GOD HAD A PURPOSE FOR HER
  • 00:11:46.290 --> 00:11:48.240
  • TO BE HERE AND SHE SERVED
  • 00:11:48.240 --> 00:11:49.270
  • THAT OUT AND SERVED IT OUT
  • 00:11:49.270 --> 00:11:51.070
  • QUITE WELL.
  • 00:11:51.070 --> 00:11:52.110
  • Randy: DESCRIBE HER.
  • 00:11:52.110 --> 00:11:53.140
  • ALL OF YOU, DESCRIBE WYNTER
  • 00:11:53.140 --> 00:11:54.160
  • IN A FEW WORDS.
  • 00:11:54.190 --> 00:11:57.190
  • Jonathan: THE BEST WORD
  • 00:11:57.190 --> 00:11:58.250
  • I COULD USE TO DESCRIBE
  • 00:11:58.250 --> 00:11:59.290
  • WYNTER WOULD BE "STILL."
  • 00:11:59.290 --> 00:12:01.170
  • SHE WAS QUIET, BUT SHE WAS
  • 00:12:01.170 --> 00:12:04.080
  • DETERMINED --
  • 00:12:04.080 --> 00:12:05.170
  • SHE WASN'T MOVABLE.
  • 00:12:05.170 --> 00:12:06.230
  • STILL.
  • 00:12:06.230 --> 00:12:08.130
  • Sheila: THAT'S A GOOD WORD.
  • 00:12:08.130 --> 00:12:09.140
  • I LIKE THAT.
  • 00:12:09.140 --> 00:12:10.210
  • WHAT DID YOU LEARNED
  • 00:12:10.210 --> 00:12:11.270
  • FROM HER?
  • 00:12:11.270 --> 00:12:13.000
  • I'M SURE IF SHE WAS HERE
  • 00:12:13.000 --> 00:12:14.000
  • SHE WOULD TELL US EVERYTHING
  • 00:12:14.000 --> 00:12:14.290
  • SHE LEARNED FROM YOU.
  • 00:12:14.290 --> 00:12:16.000
  • BUT WHAT WAS THE LEGACY
  • 00:12:16.000 --> 00:12:17.030
  • SHE LEFT ON YOUR HEART?
  • 00:12:17.030 --> 00:12:18.150
  • Chrystal: I ALWAYS SAY THAT
  • 00:12:18.150 --> 00:12:19.230
  • WHAT IT LOOKS LIKE TO WORK
  • 00:12:20.240 --> 00:12:21.270
  • FROM A PLACE OF REST.
  • 00:12:21.270 --> 00:12:24.010
  • IN FOUR YEARS SHE GOT
  • 00:12:24.010 --> 00:12:25.100
  • TEN BOOKS DONE.
  • 00:12:25.100 --> 00:12:27.030
  • I DON'T UNDERSTAND.
  • 00:12:28.070 --> 00:12:29.170
  • I'M KILLING MYSELF OVER HERE
  • 00:12:29.170 --> 00:12:31.120
  • TRYING TO GET ONE BOOK DONE
  • 00:12:31.120 --> 00:12:32.200
  • AND IT'S TAKING ME...
  • 00:12:32.200 --> 00:12:33.260
  • AND SHE WOULD SAY, "WELL,
  • 00:12:33.260 --> 00:12:35.000
  • YOU GO AHEAD AND LEARN
  • 00:12:35.000 --> 00:12:36.010
  • ALL THE THINGS,
  • 00:12:36.010 --> 00:12:37.010
  • DO ALL THE MARKETING.
  • 00:12:37.010 --> 00:12:38.010
  • I'M GOING TO GO TAKE A NAP
  • 00:12:38.010 --> 00:12:39.020
  • AND THEN I'LL LEARN FROM YOU
  • 00:12:39.020 --> 00:12:40.060
  • WHAT YOU'RE GOING TO DO."
  • 00:12:40.060 --> 00:12:41.160
  • BUT SHE WAS VERY CLEAR
  • 00:12:41.160 --> 00:12:42.240
  • ON HER PURPOSE AND SHE WAS
  • 00:12:42.240 --> 00:12:44.010
  • VERY OPEN TO WHAT GOD WANTED
  • 00:12:44.010 --> 00:12:45.090
  • TO DO IN AND THROUGH HER.
  • 00:12:45.090 --> 00:12:48.010
  • AND SHE JUST RECEIVED, TOOK
  • 00:12:48.010 --> 00:12:49.120
  • DICTATION AND POURED OUT --
  • 00:12:49.120 --> 00:12:51.250
  • AND WITHOUT STRIVING.
  • 00:12:51.250 --> 00:12:54.000
  • SHE WAS THE MOST NAPPING
  • 00:12:54.000 --> 00:12:55.090
  • PERSON I'VE EVER MET.
  • 00:12:55.090 --> 00:12:57.110
  • Sheila: I LOVE THAT
  • 00:12:57.110 --> 00:12:58.150
  • IN A WOMAN!
  • 00:12:58.150 --> 00:12:59.200
  • Chrystal: I MEAN SHE JUST
  • 00:12:59.200 --> 00:13:00.250
  • BELIEVED IN TAKING NAPS.
  • 00:13:00.250 --> 00:13:01.290
  • BUT THAT DID NOT ALTER
  • 00:13:01.290 --> 00:13:02.290
  • HER PRODUCTIVITY IN THE
  • 00:13:02.290 --> 00:13:04.060
  • PRESENT HERE AND
  • 00:13:04.060 --> 00:13:05.070
  • NOW IN THE PHYSICAL AND ALSO
  • 00:13:05.070 --> 00:13:06.110
  • FOR ETERNITY; THERE'S A LOT
  • 00:13:06.110 --> 00:13:07.260
  • Sheila: ALENA, I LOVE --
  • 00:13:09.150 --> 00:13:11.020
  • I WENT ONLINE TODAY AND I WAS
  • 00:13:11.020 --> 00:13:12.150
  • LOOKING AT THE MAGAZINE
  • 00:13:12.150 --> 00:13:14.010
  • THAT YOUR MOM STARTED.
  • 00:13:14.010 --> 00:13:16.080
  • LIVING ON THROUGH YOU.
  • 00:13:17.130 --> 00:13:18.150
  • TELL US A LITTLE BIT
  • 00:13:18.150 --> 00:13:19.150
  • ABOUT THAT.
  • 00:13:19.150 --> 00:13:20.290
  • BETTER AT EXPLAINING
  • 00:13:22.040 --> 00:13:23.080
  • THE MINISTRY BUT I'M ABLE
  • 00:13:23.080 --> 00:13:24.170
  • TO LIKE WRITE AND DO
  • 00:13:24.170 --> 00:13:25.240
  • Q AND A'S AND THINGS
  • 00:13:25.240 --> 00:13:27.120
  • LIKE HER MAGAZINE LIVES ON
  • 00:13:29.140 --> 00:13:31.100
  • AND LIKE PEOPLE ARE
  • 00:13:31.100 --> 00:13:32.120
  • STILL WORKING ON IT.
  • 00:13:32.120 --> 00:13:33.180
  • AND WE HAVE A WHOLE TEAM
  • 00:13:33.180 --> 00:13:34.170
  • THAT DOES IT NOW.
  • 00:13:34.170 --> 00:13:35.230
  • AND SO LIKE EVEN THOUGH
  • 00:13:35.230 --> 00:13:36.260
  • SHE IS NOT HERE PHYSICALLY,
  • 00:13:36.260 --> 00:13:37.280
  • LIKE YOU CAN SEE
  • 00:13:37.280 --> 00:13:38.290
  • HER FINGERPRINTS ALL OVER
  • 00:13:38.290 --> 00:13:40.110
  • EVERYTHING THAT SHE DOES,
  • 00:13:40.110 --> 00:13:41.160
  • OR THAT SHE DID.
  • 00:13:41.160 --> 00:13:42.210
  • Sheila: THERE IS A QUOTE
  • 00:13:42.210 --> 00:13:43.210
  • THAT YOU HAVE ON THAT PAGE
  • 00:13:43.210 --> 00:13:44.230
  • THAT I READ THAT WAS
  • 00:13:44.230 --> 00:13:45.260
  • ACTUALLY FROM PRISCILLA'S
  • 00:13:45.260 --> 00:13:46.260
  • DEVOTIONAL, AWAKEN .
  • 00:13:46.260 --> 00:13:48.000
  • DO YOU REMEMBER WHAT
  • 00:13:48.000 --> 00:13:49.010
  • THAT QUOTE WAS?
  • 00:13:49.010 --> 00:13:50.010
  • IF NOT I CAN HELP YOU OUT.
  • 00:13:50.010 --> 00:13:51.060
  • Jonathan: YOU CAN HELP ME.
  • 00:13:51.060 --> 00:13:52.130
  • Sheila: BUT IT IS TO
  • 00:13:52.130 --> 00:13:53.160
  • THE EFFECT THAT YOU DON'T
  • 00:13:53.160 --> 00:13:54.170
  • ALWAYS GET TO LIVE TO SEE ALL
  • 00:13:54.170 --> 00:13:55.270
  • -- A JOB FINISHED.
  • 00:13:55.270 --> 00:13:57.090
  • Jonathan: YEAH, THAT
  • 00:13:57.090 --> 00:13:58.130
  • FINISHING WELL SOMETIMES
  • 00:13:58.130 --> 00:13:59.160
  • MEANS NOT FINISHING.
  • 00:13:59.160 --> 00:14:00.240
  • Sheila: YEAH!
  • 00:14:00.240 --> 00:14:02.010
  • BUT THE LEGACY THAT SHE HAS
  • 00:14:02.010 --> 00:14:03.080
  • LEFT, BECAUSE AREN'T YOU
  • 00:14:03.080 --> 00:14:04.120
  • A WRITER NOW TOO, YOUNG WOMAN?
  • 00:14:04.120 --> 00:14:05.230
  • Alena: YES, MA'AM. I AM.
  • 00:14:05.230 --> 00:14:07.060
  • Randy: AND AN ACTRESS.
  • 00:14:07.060 --> 00:14:08.110
  • PEOPLE MIGHT RECOGNIZE HER
  • 00:14:08.110 --> 00:14:09.110
  • FROM WAR ROOM.
  • 00:14:09.110 --> 00:14:10.270
  • PHENOMENAL MOVIE AND YOU WERE
  • 00:14:10.270 --> 00:14:12.000
  • ABSOLUTELY INCREDIBLE IN IT.
  • 00:14:13.050 --> 00:14:16.050
  • I WANTED TO ASK YOU
  • 00:14:16.050 --> 00:14:17.110
  • ABOUT LIFE NOW.
  • 00:14:17.110 --> 00:14:19.260
  • HOW DOES LIFE FEEL NOW?
  • 00:14:19.260 --> 00:14:21.110
  • YOU'RE IN THIS PASTORAL
  • 00:14:21.110 --> 00:14:22.130
  • POSITION, YOU'RE IN NASHVILLE,
  • 00:14:22.130 --> 00:14:23.250
  • IT'S PROBABLY A GRACE THAT
  • 00:14:23.250 --> 00:14:25.200
  • YOU DON'T REALLY HAVE MEMORIES
  • 00:14:25.200 --> 00:14:26.270
  • IN YOUR NEW HOUSE.
  • 00:14:26.270 --> 00:14:28.110
  • IN A NEW PLACE.
  • 00:14:29.140 --> 00:14:30.160
  • Jonathan: WE WERE MOVING
  • 00:14:30.160 --> 00:14:32.080
  • SO FAST I HONESTLY DON'T HAVE
  • 00:14:32.080 --> 00:14:33.210
  • ANY MEMORIES OF US REALLY
  • 00:14:33.210 --> 00:14:35.010
  • TOGETHER IN THAT HOME
  • 00:14:35.010 --> 00:14:36.060
  • OTHER THAN BUYING IT.
  • 00:14:36.060 --> 00:14:37.100
  • OPENING THE FRONT DOOR
  • 00:14:38.140 --> 00:14:39.150
  • IN A SHIRT THAT SAYS
  • 00:14:39.150 --> 00:14:40.170
  • "NOT TODAY SATAN."
  • 00:14:40.170 --> 00:14:42.020
  • ALL FOUR OF MY GIRLS
  • 00:14:42.020 --> 00:14:43.060
  • ARE STANDING IN FRONT.
  • 00:14:43.060 --> 00:14:44.160
  • THE BEAUTIFUL THING FOR ME
  • 00:14:44.160 --> 00:14:45.210
  • IS THAT WYNTER WAS ABLE TO
  • 00:14:45.210 --> 00:14:46.210
  • SIGN OFF ON EVERY ASPECT
  • 00:14:46.210 --> 00:14:47.220
  • THE GIRL'S SCHOOL, MY JOB.
  • 00:14:48.230 --> 00:14:49.220
  • SHE WAS EXCITED ABOUT
  • 00:14:49.220 --> 00:14:50.220
  • EVERYTHING THAT WAS
  • 00:14:50.220 --> 00:14:51.220
  • ABOUT TO HAPPEN.
  • 00:14:51.220 --> 00:14:52.230
  • AND FOR WHATEVER REASON
  • 00:14:52.230 --> 00:14:53.250
  • SHE COULDN'T JOIN US.
  • 00:14:53.250 --> 00:14:54.270
  • WAS ABLE TO SIGN OFF ON IT.
  • 00:14:56.000 --> 00:14:57.020
  • AND IT IS ALSO LIKE ONE
  • 00:14:57.020 --> 00:14:58.060
  • OF THE GREATEST BLESSINGS.
  • 00:14:58.060 --> 00:14:59.090
  • SO I FEEL LIKE WITH MY WORK
  • 00:14:59.090 --> 00:15:00.130
  • INSIDE OF THE EVANS FAMILY
  • 00:15:00.130 --> 00:15:01.150
  • OF MINISTRY, GRIEVING WOULD
  • 00:15:01.150 --> 00:15:02.200
  • HAVE BEEN REALLY DIFFICULT,
  • 00:15:02.200 --> 00:15:03.240
  • LIKE IN THAT PLACE,
  • 00:15:03.240 --> 00:15:05.050
  • FAMILY MIXED WITH WORK,
  • 00:15:05.050 --> 00:15:06.060
  • MIXED WITH IT ALL BEING
  • 00:15:06.060 --> 00:15:07.060
  • RIGHT THERE.
  • 00:15:07.060 --> 00:15:08.070
  • SO IT WAS REALLY ONE OF GOD'S
  • 00:15:08.070 --> 00:15:09.080
  • GREATEST GIFTS TO ME
  • 00:15:09.080 --> 00:15:10.090
  • WAS JUST ALLOWING ME AND
  • 00:15:10.090 --> 00:15:11.170
  • THE BEAUTIFUL PLACE IN
  • 00:15:11.170 --> 00:15:12.200
  • NASHVILLE TO WORK OUT GRIEF.
  • 00:15:12.200 --> 00:15:15.160
  • Sheila: THE BOOK THAT
  • 00:15:15.160 --> 00:15:16.190
  • LITERALLY YOU SAID FOUR HOURS
  • 00:15:16.190 --> 00:15:18.150
  • BEFORE WYNTER MET JESUS
  • 00:15:18.150 --> 00:15:20.010
  • FACE TO FACE, YOU TURNED
  • 00:15:20.010 --> 00:15:21.180
  • YOUR MANUSCRIPT IN.
  • 00:15:21.180 --> 00:15:22.210
  • TELL US A LITTLE BIT ABOUT
  • 00:15:22.210 --> 00:15:23.240
  • WHAT YOU AND WYNTER POURED
  • 00:15:23.240 --> 00:15:24.270
  • INTO THIS CALLED, EMPTIED .
  • 00:15:24.270 --> 00:15:26.230
  • Jonathan: EMPTIED IS REALLY
  • 00:15:26.230 --> 00:15:27.240
  • BASED ON PHILIPPIANS
  • 00:15:27.240 --> 00:15:28.240
  • CHAPTER TWO VERSES SEVEN
  • 00:15:28.240 --> 00:15:29.270
  • AND EIGHT WHICH SAYS
  • 00:15:29.270 --> 00:15:30.290
  • ALTHOUGH JESUS WAS EQUAL
  • 00:15:30.290 --> 00:15:32.050
  • WITH GOD, HE DIDN'T CONSIDER
  • 00:15:32.050 --> 00:15:33.070
  • EQUALITY WITH GOD SOMETHING
  • 00:15:33.070 --> 00:15:34.080
  • TO BE GRASPED BUT TOOK ON
  • 00:15:34.080 --> 00:15:35.090
  • THE FORM OF A SERVANT,
  • 00:15:35.090 --> 00:15:36.140
  • EMPTIED HIMSELF TO A FORM OF
  • 00:15:36.140 --> 00:15:37.220
  • A SERVANT -- EVEN UNTO DEATH.
  • 00:15:38.020 --> 00:15:41.020
  • ULTIMATELY, THAT BOOK IS,
  • 00:15:41.020 --> 00:15:43.110
  • US FIGURING OUT WHAT IT LOOKS
  • 00:15:43.110 --> 00:15:44.190
  • LIKE TO DO MARRIAGE WELL,
  • 00:15:44.190 --> 00:15:45.250
  • WHICH IS BASICALLY LIVING
  • 00:15:45.250 --> 00:15:46.280
  • LIKE JESUS, WHICH IS BASICALLY
  • 00:15:46.280 --> 00:15:48.020
  • EMPTYING YOURSELF OF ALL
  • 00:15:48.020 --> 00:15:49.080
  • THAT YOU THINK THAT THE VALUE
  • 00:15:49.080 --> 00:15:50.250
  • THAT YOU HAVE IN ORDER
  • 00:15:50.250 --> 00:15:51.270
  • TO SERVE SOMEONE ELSE.
  • 00:15:51.270 --> 00:15:53.080
  • JESUS DID IT QUITE LITERALLY,
  • 00:15:53.080 --> 00:15:55.010
  • IN A MARRIAGE WE DO IT
  • 00:15:55.010 --> 00:15:56.060
  • QUITE FIGURATIVELY,
  • 00:15:56.060 --> 00:15:57.110
  • AND SOMETIMES QUITE LITERALLY.
  • 00:15:57.110 --> 00:15:58.170
  • BUT JUST BEING POURED OUT.
  • 00:15:58.170 --> 00:15:59.260
  • AND YOU'RE POURED OUT SO THAT
  • 00:15:59.260 --> 00:16:01.010
  • YOU CAN BE FILLED UP.
  • 00:16:01.010 --> 00:16:02.030
  • AND IN THE BOOK IT TALKS
  • 00:16:02.030 --> 00:16:03.060
  • ABOUT WHAT WE'RE FILLED UP
  • 00:16:03.060 --> 00:16:04.090
  • WITH WHICH IS THE HOLY SPIRIT,
  • 00:16:04.090 --> 00:16:05.130
  • AND THE FRUITS OF THE SPIRIT,
  • 00:16:05.130 --> 00:16:06.170
  • LOVE, JOY, PEACE, PATIENCE,
  • 00:16:06.170 --> 00:16:07.180
  • KINDNESS, GOODNESS, GENTLENESS
  • 00:16:07.180 --> 00:16:08.190
  • FAITHFULNESS, SELF-CONTROL.
  • 00:16:08.190 --> 00:16:09.220
  • SO ABOVE SUCH THINGS
  • 00:16:09.220 --> 00:16:10.250
  • THERE IS NO LAW.
  • 00:16:10.250 --> 00:16:12.010
  • TO THE DEGREE THAT YOU CAN
  • 00:16:12.010 --> 00:16:13.040
  • BE FULL OF THOSE THINGS IS
  • 00:16:13.040 --> 00:16:14.070
  • THE DEGREE THAT YOU CAN SERVE
  • 00:16:14.070 --> 00:16:15.120
  • LIKE CHRIST SERVED.
  • 00:16:15.120 --> 00:16:16.130
  • SO THAT'S WHAT IT'S ABOUT.
  • 00:16:16.130 --> 00:16:17.170
  • IT'S REALLY OUR JOURNEY.
  • 00:16:17.170 --> 00:16:18.180
  • IT IS NOT A HOW-TO.
  • 00:16:18.180 --> 00:16:19.220
  • IT IS A "JOIN US
  • 00:16:19.220 --> 00:16:20.230
  • IN THIS JOURNEY."
  • 00:16:20.230 --> 00:16:21.250
  • WE WERE 15 YEARS,
  • 00:16:21.250 --> 00:16:22.290
  • WHAT I LOVE IS THAT WE MADE IT
  • 00:16:22.290 --> 00:16:23.280
  • 15 YEARS AND 27 DAYS.
  • 00:16:23.280 --> 00:16:25.020
  • WE GOT MARRIED ON JUNE 27th
  • 00:16:25.020 --> 00:16:26.050
  • AND WE MADE IT 27 DAYS PAST
  • 00:16:26.050 --> 00:16:27.060
  • OUR 15-YEAR ANNIVERSARY.
  • 00:16:27.060 --> 00:16:28.110
  • WHICH IS ANOTHER GIFT TO ME
  • 00:16:28.110 --> 00:16:29.140
  • THAT WE MADE IT THAT FAR.
  • 00:16:29.140 --> 00:16:30.150
  • I'M GRATEFUL.
  • 00:16:30.150 --> 00:16:31.180
  • Sheila: THAT'S BEAUTIFUL.
  • 00:16:31.180 --> 00:16:32.220
  • Randy: ONE OF THE WORDS
  • 00:16:32.220 --> 00:16:33.250
  • IS INTENTIONALITY.
  • 00:16:34.280 --> 00:16:35.290
  • YOU TALK ABOUT BEING
  • 00:16:35.290 --> 00:16:37.030
  • INTENTIONAL IN YOUR MARRIAGE.
  • 00:16:37.030 --> 00:16:38.280
  • I'M GUESSING THAT LOOKING
  • 00:16:38.280 --> 00:16:41.060
  • HOW YOUR WIFE WAS
  • 00:16:42.220 --> 00:16:44.070
  • INTENTIONAL IN HER LIFE.
  • 00:16:44.070 --> 00:16:46.150
  • WHEN YOU LOOK BACK AT IT,
  • 00:16:46.150 --> 00:16:48.100
  • YOU GO, 38 YEARS IS SHORT
  • 00:16:48.100 --> 00:16:50.040
  • ON OUR ACCOUNT BUT
  • 00:16:50.040 --> 00:16:51.150
  • THERE'S A FULLNESS WHEN
  • 00:16:51.150 --> 00:16:53.020
  • THERE'S INTENTIONALITY TO IT.
  • 00:16:53.020 --> 00:16:55.130
  • AM I RIGHT IN PERCEIVING
  • 00:16:55.130 --> 00:16:56.160
  • SOME OF THAT?
  • 00:16:56.160 --> 00:16:57.180
  • Jonathan: I WOULD SAY
  • 00:16:57.180 --> 00:16:58.200
  • THAT WYNTER LIVED AS LONG
  • 00:16:58.200 --> 00:16:59.280
  • AS SOMEBODY TWICE HER AGE
  • 00:16:59.280 --> 00:17:02.140
  • WOULD HAVE LIVED IN TERMS
  • 00:17:02.140 --> 00:17:03.170
  • OF PRODUCTIVITY
  • 00:17:03.170 --> 00:17:04.200
  • FOR THE KINGDOM,
  • 00:17:04.200 --> 00:17:05.260
  • WHICH I'M GRATEFUL FOR.
  • 00:17:05.260 --> 00:17:06.290
  • BUT IT REALLY IS A LIFE
  • 00:17:06.290 --> 00:17:08.000
  • OF DILIGENCE.
  • 00:17:08.000 --> 00:17:09.000
  • I ALWAYS SAY INTENTIONALITY
  • 00:17:09.000 --> 00:17:10.010
  • AND GOOD INTENTIONS
  • 00:17:10.010 --> 00:17:11.030
  • ARE TWO DIFFERENT THINGS.
  • 00:17:11.030 --> 00:17:12.020
  • YOU CAN HAVE GOOD INTENTIONS
  • 00:17:12.020 --> 00:17:13.020
  • ALL DAY BUT INTENTIONALITY
  • 00:17:13.020 --> 00:17:14.060
  • IS STEP AFTER STEP AFTER STEP
  • 00:17:14.060 --> 00:17:15.080
  • WHEN YOU DON'T FEEL LIKE IT,
  • 00:17:15.080 --> 00:17:16.090
  • WHEN YOU DO FEEL LIKE IT
  • 00:17:16.090 --> 00:17:17.100
  • AND JUST CONTINUING TO WALK.
  • 00:17:17.100 --> 00:17:18.170
  • THE THING I'M GRATEFUL FOR,
  • 00:17:18.170 --> 00:17:19.190
  • I GO TO MY COUNSELOR,
  • 00:17:19.190 --> 00:17:20.210
  • I DON'T GO AS MUCH AS
  • 00:17:20.210 --> 00:17:21.230
  • I USED TO, BUT WHEN I GO TO
  • 00:17:21.230 --> 00:17:22.250
  • MY COUNSELOR I'M GRATEFUL
  • 00:17:22.250 --> 00:17:23.260
  • THAT I CAN SIT IN THAT CHAIR
  • 00:17:23.260 --> 00:17:24.280
  • AND NOT BE JUST FEELING REGRET
  • 00:17:26.010 --> 00:17:29.010
  • FOR A JOB UNDONE.
  • 00:17:29.010 --> 00:17:30.020
  • I FEEL LIKE OUR INTENTIONALITY
  • 00:17:30.020 --> 00:17:31.040
  • TOGETHER IN MARRIAGE
  • 00:17:31.040 --> 00:17:32.090
  • AND IN PARENTING, I FEEL LIKE
  • 00:17:32.090 --> 00:17:33.140
  • WE FINISHED THE JOB.
  • 00:17:33.140 --> 00:17:34.190
  • AND WE WEREN'T PERFECT
  • 00:17:34.190 --> 00:17:35.200
  • OBVIOUSLY, BUT WE FINISHED
  • 00:17:35.200 --> 00:17:36.250
  • THE JOB.
  • 00:17:36.250 --> 00:17:38.010
  • Randy: I'M GLAD YOU SAY THAT
  • 00:17:38.010 --> 00:17:39.140
  • YOU'RE SEEING A COUNSELOR
  • 00:17:39.140 --> 00:17:41.000
  • BECAUSE HAVING LOST
  • 00:17:41.070 --> 00:17:44.070
  • A LOVED ONE AT A YOUNG AGE,
  • 00:17:44.070 --> 00:17:47.020
  • I UNDERSTAND.
  • 00:17:47.020 --> 00:17:48.100
  • I THINK FOR CHRISTIANS
  • 00:17:48.100 --> 00:17:49.160
  • THE TENDENCY SOMETIMES CAN BE
  • 00:17:49.160 --> 00:17:50.200
  • TO GLOSS OVER IT.
  • 00:17:50.200 --> 00:17:53.020
  • AND CERTAINLY, WE DON'T GRIEVE
  • 00:17:53.020 --> 00:17:54.090
  • AS THOSE WHO HAVE NO HOPE.
  • 00:17:54.090 --> 00:17:56.230
  • BUT YOU'RE NOT IN DENIAL
  • 00:17:56.230 --> 00:17:59.070
  • OF THE PAIN THAT'S THERE
  • 00:17:59.070 --> 00:18:00.140
  • AND THE DIFFICULTY.
  • 00:18:00.140 --> 00:18:01.250
  • YOU'RE FACING IT
  • 00:18:01.250 --> 00:18:02.290
  • AND YOU'RE GETTING COUNSEL.
  • 00:18:02.290 --> 00:18:04.080
  • IS THAT THEN A KEY COMPONENT
  • 00:18:04.080 --> 00:18:06.040
  • Jonathan: YEAH. FOR ME, I FEEL
  • 00:18:07.190 --> 00:18:09.060
  • A LOT BUT I DON'T NECESSARILY
  • 00:18:09.060 --> 00:18:10.190
  • KNOW WHAT I'M FEELING.
  • 00:18:10.190 --> 00:18:11.270
  • SO TO BE ABLE TO SIT DOWN
  • 00:18:11.270 --> 00:18:12.290
  • WITH SOMEBODY AND PROCESS
  • 00:18:12.290 --> 00:18:14.000
  • SO LIKE WHEN I'M FRUSTRATED,
  • 00:18:15.250 --> 00:18:17.020
  • I DON'T REALLY GET ANGRY
  • 00:18:17.020 --> 00:18:18.050
  • SO LIKE WHEN I'M FRUSTRATED,
  • 00:18:18.050 --> 00:18:19.070
  • OH I'M LIKE OH THAT'S ANGER.
  • 00:18:19.070 --> 00:18:20.080
  • YOU'RE ABLE TO LEARN THESE
  • 00:18:20.080 --> 00:18:21.170
  • THINGS ABOUT YOURSELF THAT
  • 00:18:21.170 --> 00:18:22.210
  • OTHERWISE I WOULDN'T
  • 00:18:22.210 --> 00:18:23.270
  • BE ABLE TO PROCESS.
  • 00:18:23.270 --> 00:18:25.220
  • FINGERPRINTS OVER EVERYTHING
  • 00:18:26.290 --> 00:18:28.210
  • THAT'S GOING ON.
  • 00:18:28.210 --> 00:18:29.260
  • AND EVEN IN YOUR BOOK HERE,
  • 00:18:29.260 --> 00:18:31.000
  • CHRYSTAL, YOUR DEDICATION,
  • 00:18:31.000 --> 00:18:32.070
  • THIS IS CHRYSTAL'S NEW BOOK,
  • 00:18:33.090 --> 00:18:34.090
  • SHOW UP FOR YOUR LIFE :
  • 00:18:34.090 --> 00:18:35.100
  • WHAT THE GIRL YOU'LL BE
  • 00:18:35.100 --> 00:18:36.130
  • TOMORROW WANTS YOU
  • 00:18:36.130 --> 00:18:37.150
  • TO KNOW TODAY.
  • 00:18:37.150 --> 00:18:38.270
  • BUT I LOVE THIS DEDICATION.
  • 00:18:38.270 --> 00:18:40.030
  • IT IS TO YOU, ALENA.
  • 00:18:40.030 --> 00:18:41.130
  • "WHEN I WONDERED WHAT IT LOOKS
  • 00:18:41.130 --> 00:18:42.150
  • LIKE FOR A YOUNG WOMAN
  • 00:18:42.150 --> 00:18:43.160
  • TO SHOW UP FOR HER LIFE,
  • 00:18:43.160 --> 00:18:44.280
  • I THINK OF YOU.
  • 00:18:44.280 --> 00:18:46.120
  • KEEP SHOWING UP.
  • 00:18:46.120 --> 00:18:47.190
  • KEEP DOING YOU.
  • 00:18:47.190 --> 00:18:49.020
  • KEEP RESTING AND BELIEVING
  • 00:18:49.020 --> 00:18:50.050
  • IN THE BEAUTY OF WHO YOU ARE.
  • 00:18:50.050 --> 00:18:52.150
  • AND FOR WYNTER, THIS BOOK
  • 00:18:52.150 --> 00:18:54.120
  • IS FOR GIRLS, JUST LIKE YOU."
  • 00:18:54.120 --> 00:18:57.060
  • I JUST THINK
  • 00:18:57.060 --> 00:18:58.120
  • YOUR WHOLE FAMILY IS A GIFT
  • 00:18:58.120 --> 00:19:00.140
  • TO THE BODY OF CHRIST.
  • 00:19:00.140 --> 00:19:03.020
  • YOUR MOM AND DAD,
  • 00:19:03.020 --> 00:19:04.080
  • PRISCILLA, ANTHONY
  • 00:19:04.080 --> 00:19:05.180
  • AND HIS RIDICULOUS VOICE!
  • 00:19:05.180 --> 00:19:07.110
  • [Laughter]
  • 00:19:07.110 --> 00:19:09.000
  • BUT JUST I CANNOT WAIT
  • 00:19:09.000 --> 00:19:11.010
  • TO SEE, ALENA, WHAT GOD
  • 00:19:11.010 --> 00:19:12.230
  • WILL DO THROUGH YOUR LIFE.
  • 00:19:12.230 --> 00:19:15.200
  • IT IS GOING TO BE
  • 00:19:15.200 --> 00:19:17.030
  • QUITE SPECTACULAR.
  • 00:19:17.030 --> 00:19:19.000
  • SO I WOULD ASK OUR VIEWERS
  • 00:19:19.000 --> 00:19:20.200
  • TO CONTINUE TO HOLD
  • 00:19:20.200 --> 00:19:21.240
  • THIS FAMILY UP IN PRAYER
  • 00:19:21.240 --> 00:19:24.010
  • AND IN THANKSGIVING.
  • 00:19:24.010 --> 00:19:25.280
  • AND PRAY FOR GOD'S COVERING
  • 00:19:25.280 --> 00:19:27.080
  • ON THESE FOUR ADORABLE GIRLS
  • 00:19:27.080 --> 00:19:29.220
  • THAT WYNTER LOVED SO MUCH.
  • 00:19:29.220 --> 00:19:31.200
  • AND IT'S VERY MUCH THE HEART
  • 00:19:31.200 --> 00:19:32.260
  • OF US HERE AT LIFE
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  • IS THAT WHEN GOD HAS MET US
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  • IN HARD PLACES
  • 00:19:35.120 --> 00:19:36.180
  • FOR SOME OTHER PEOPLE.
  • 00:19:38.090 --> 00:19:39.160
  • THIS IS ONE OF THE PROJECTS
  • 00:19:39.160 --> 00:19:41.150
  • THAT WE ABSOLUTELY LOVE.
  • 00:19:41.150 --> 00:19:43.140
  • SOME OF THE PROJECTS
  • 00:19:43.140 --> 00:19:44.250
  • WE DO ARE DESPERATELY HARD.
  • 00:19:44.250 --> 00:19:47.030
  • THIS IS SUCH A JOY
  • 00:19:47.030 --> 00:19:48.280
  • TO BE ABLE TO PUT SHOES
  • 00:19:48.280 --> 00:19:50.280
  • ONTO THE FEET OF A CHILD
  • 00:19:50.280 --> 00:19:52.100
  • THAT HAS NEVER WORN SHOES.
  • 00:19:52.100 --> 00:19:54.100
  • WHEN CHILDREN ARE WALKING
  • 00:19:54.100 --> 00:19:55.190
  • OVER THESE HARD SURFACES
  • 00:19:55.190 --> 00:19:56.250
  • AND THEY GET CUTS
  • 00:19:56.250 --> 00:19:58.050
  • IN THEIR FEET
  • 00:19:58.050 --> 00:19:59.150
  • AND THEN THEY GET DISEASES,
  • 00:19:59.150 --> 00:20:00.240
  • IT LITERALLY IS
  • 00:20:00.240 --> 00:20:02.030
  • A MATTER OF LIFE AND DEATH.
  • 00:20:02.030 --> 00:20:03.130
  • I CAN'T EVEN IMAGINE
  • 00:20:03.130 --> 00:20:04.210
  • WHAT IT'S LIKE FOR A CHILD
  • 00:20:04.210 --> 00:20:06.000
  • TO NEVER IN THEIR LIFE
  • 00:20:06.000 --> 00:20:07.070
  • HAD A PAIR OF SHOES.
  • 00:20:07.070 --> 00:20:08.190
  • YOU MIGHT THINK, WOW,
  • 00:20:08.190 --> 00:20:09.260
  • IT'S A LITTLE EARLY
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  • COMING WITH CHRISTMAS SHOES
  • 00:20:11.100 --> 00:20:12.190
  • AND SMILES!
  • 00:20:12.190 --> 00:20:13.260
  • BUT THE REASON IS
  • 00:20:13.260 --> 00:20:15.010
  • THAT WE NEED TO BE ABLE
  • 00:20:15.010 --> 00:20:16.090
  • TO GET THE HELP IN NOW
  • 00:20:16.090 --> 00:20:17.150
  • SO THAT WE CAN GET
  • 00:20:17.150 --> 00:20:18.210
  • ALL THE SHOES ORDERED.
  • 00:20:18.210 --> 00:20:20.000
  • WE HAVE PARTNERS ON THE GROUND
  • 00:20:20.000 --> 00:20:21.080
  • WAITING FOR
  • 00:20:21.080 --> 00:20:22.160
  • THESE CHRISTMAS SHOES
  • 00:20:22.160 --> 00:20:23.180
  • TO BE DELIVERED.
  • 00:20:23.180 --> 00:20:24.250
  • RANDY, OVER THE YEAR SO FAR,
  • 00:20:24.250 --> 00:20:26.070
  • WE HAVE HELPED
  • 00:20:26.070 --> 00:20:27.120
  • TWO MILLION CHILDREN.
  • 00:20:27.120 --> 00:20:29.100
  • Randy: ISN'T THAT AMAZING!
  • 00:20:29.100 --> 00:20:30.280
  • Sheila: BUT THIS CHRISTMAS
  • 00:20:30.280 --> 00:20:32.110
  • WE HAVE A NEW GOAL.
  • 00:20:32.110 --> 00:20:33.210
  • Randy: 150.000 PAIRS OF SHOES
  • 00:20:33.210 --> 00:20:35.120
  • FOR 150.000 CHILDREN.
  • 00:20:35.120 --> 00:20:36.250
  • AND WE CAN DO IT
  • 00:20:36.250 --> 00:20:38.030
  • IF YOU WILL PARTNER WITH US,
  • 00:20:38.030 --> 00:20:40.030
  • THEN THE SURGERIES
  • 00:20:40.030 --> 00:20:41.060
  • WHERE WE GO IN AND CORRECT
  • 00:20:41.060 --> 00:20:42.150
  • THE CLEFT PALATE
  • 00:20:42.150 --> 00:20:43.230
  • AND GIVE THAT CHILD
  • 00:20:43.230 --> 00:20:44.280
  • NOT ONLY A REASON TO SMILE
  • 00:20:44.280 --> 00:20:46.100
  • BUT THE ABILITY TO SMILE
  • 00:20:46.100 --> 00:20:48.260
  • IS $500 ON AVERAGE
  • 00:20:48.260 --> 00:20:50.110
  • WITH THE SURGEONS
  • 00:20:50.110 --> 00:20:51.140
  • WE HAVE AROUND THE WORLD.
  • 00:20:51.140 --> 00:20:53.020
  • SO WON'T YOU PUT SOME SMILES
  • 00:20:53.020 --> 00:20:54.230
  • ON SOME CHILDREN'S FACES
  • 00:20:54.230 --> 00:20:55.290
  • THIS CHRISTMAS SEASON?
  • 00:20:55.290 --> 00:20:57.190
  • WON'T YOU PUT SOME SHOES
  • 00:20:57.190 --> 00:20:59.020
  • ON THEIR FEET?
  • 00:20:59.020 --> 00:21:00.190
  • REACH OUT WITH US,
  • 00:21:00.190 --> 00:21:02.250
  • WITH ARMS OF LOVE
  • 00:21:02.250 --> 00:21:04.100
  • AROUND THE WORLD
  • 00:21:04.100 --> 00:21:06.030
  • AND GIVE THESE CHILDREN SHOES
  • 00:21:06.030 --> 00:21:08.110
  • POVERTY IS A KILLER
  • 00:21:11.230 --> 00:21:13.250
  • AND BECAUSE OF IT CHILDREN NEEDLESSLY SUFFER,
  • 00:21:13.280 --> 00:21:16.210
  • NOT ONLY FROM A LACK A FOOD AND CLEAN WATER
  • 00:21:16.240 --> 00:21:18.250
  • BUT ALSO FROM A LACK OF THINGS
  • 00:21:18.280 --> 00:21:20.250
  • WE OFTEN TAKE FOR GRANTED
  • 00:21:20.280 --> 00:21:22.250
  • LIKE A SIMPLE PAIR OF SHOES.
  • 00:21:22.280 --> 00:21:25.050
  • FAR TOO MANY CHILDREN LIVING IN EXTREME POVERTY
  • 00:21:25.080 --> 00:21:27.220
  • HAVE NEVER OWNED A NEW PAIR OF SHOES.
  • 00:21:27.250 --> 00:21:30.080
  • AND WHILE THAT MAY SEEM MINOR IN LIGHT OF ALL THEIR NEEDS,
  • 00:21:30.110 --> 00:21:32.240
  • WALKING WITH BARE FEET
  • 00:21:32.270 --> 00:21:34.240
  • PUTS THEM AT RISK OF LIFE-THREATENING INFECTIONS AND DISEASE
  • 00:21:34.270 --> 00:21:37.230
  • THAT COULD LEAD TO CRIPPLING CONSEQUENCES AND EVEN DEATH.
  • 00:21:37.260 --> 00:21:41.160
  • BY RESPONDING TODAY YOU CAN HELP IMMEDIATELY SECURE
  • 00:21:41.190 --> 00:21:44.150
  • AND BEGIN SHIPPING CHRISTMAS SHOES
  • 00:21:44.180 --> 00:21:46.160
  • TO 150.000 CHILDREN AROUND THE WORLD
  • 00:21:46.190 --> 00:21:49.140
  • JUST IN TIME FOR THE HOLIDAYS.
  • 00:21:49.170 --> 00:21:52.020
  • YOUR GIFT OF $36 WILL HELP PROVIDE TEN PAIRS OF SHOES.
  • 00:21:52.050 --> 00:21:55.180
  • A GIFT OF $72 WILL PROVIDE 20-PAIR
  • 00:21:55.210 --> 00:21:58.070
  • AND A GIFT OF $180
  • 00:21:58.100 --> 00:22:00.100
  • WILL HELP PROVIDE 50 PAIRS OF CHRISTMAS SHOES
  • 00:22:00.130 --> 00:22:02.140
  • FOR CHILDREN IN NEED.
  • 00:22:02.170 --> 00:22:04.140
  • AS A THANK YOU FOR YOUR GIFT OF SUPPORT,
  • 00:22:04.170 --> 00:22:06.140
  • BE SURE TO REQUEST THIS BEAUTIFULLY CRAFTED
  • 00:22:06.170 --> 00:22:08.140
  • GREEN CRYSTAL SHOE ORNAMENT,
  • 00:22:08.170 --> 00:22:10.140
  • A TREASURE TO DISPLAY AT EACH CHRISTMAS.
  • 00:22:10.170 --> 00:22:12.270
  • WITH YOUR GIFT OF $100 OR MORE
  • 00:22:13.000 --> 00:22:15.000
  • YOU MAY ALSO REQUEST THIS KEEPSAKE BOXED SET
  • 00:22:15.030 --> 00:22:17.110
  • OF LIFE'S CHRISTMAS SHOE ORNAMENTS.
  • 00:22:17.140 --> 00:22:19.220
  • FINALLY, PLEASE CONSIDER A GIFT OF $1.000 OR MORE
  • 00:22:19.250 --> 00:22:22.190
  • TO HELP PROVIDE OVER 275 PAIRS OF SHOES
  • 00:22:22.220 --> 00:22:26.000
  • OR TWO CHILDREN WITH CORRECTIVE CLEFT PALATE SURGERIES.
  • 00:22:26.030 --> 00:22:29.050
  • AND YOU MAY REQUEST THE BEAUTIFUL
  • 00:22:29.080 --> 00:22:31.050
  • "SAFE IN THE SHEPHERD'S ARMS" BRONZE SCULPTURE.
  • 00:22:31.080 --> 00:22:34.040
  • PLEASE CALL, WRITE, OR MAKE YOUR GIFT ONLINE TODAY!
  • 00:22:34.070 --> 00:22:38.290
  • Randy: PLEASE DO MAKE
  • 00:22:39.100 --> 00:22:42.100
  • THE BEST GIFT YOU CAN AND
  • 00:22:42.100 --> 00:22:44.000
  • KNOW THAT YOU WILL BE MAKING
  • 00:22:44.000 --> 00:22:45.080
  • CHRISTMAS VERY SPECIAL
  • 00:22:45.080 --> 00:22:46.270
  • FOR CHILDREN THIS YEAR.
  • 00:22:46.270 --> 00:22:48.160
  • SHEILA, WHAT AN INCREDIBLE
  • 00:22:48.160 --> 00:22:50.180
  • SHOW, AN INCREDIBLE GROUP
  • 00:22:50.180 --> 00:22:51.200
  • OF GUESTS.
  • 00:22:51.200 --> 00:22:53.010
  • Sheila: WYNTER AND JONATHAN'S
  • 00:22:53.010 --> 00:22:54.110
  • BOOK, EMPTIED , PHENOMENAL.
  • 00:22:54.110 --> 00:22:55.260
  • CHRYSTAL'S BOOK IS CALLED,
  • 00:22:55.260 --> 00:22:57.020
  • BUT ALSO THIS GREAT WEBSITE
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  • FOR TEENAGE GIRLS,
  • 00:22:59.220 --> 00:23:01.010
  • IT'S CALLED...
  • 00:23:01.010 --> 00:23:02.220
  • Jonathan: FOR
  • 00:23:02.220 --> 00:23:03.260
  • GIRLSLIKEYOU.COM.
  • 00:23:03.260 --> 00:23:05.000
  • Sheila: PLEASE, WILL YOU THANK
  • 00:23:05.000 --> 00:23:06.060
  • OUR AMAZING GUESTS?
  • 00:23:06.060 --> 00:23:07.130
  • THANK YOU SO MUCH
  • 00:23:07.130 --> 00:23:08.210
  • THANKS FOR BEING WITH US.
  • 00:23:11.290 --> 00:23:13.070
  • AND WE'LL SEE YOU NEXT TIME
  • 00:23:13.070 --> 00:23:14.100
  • HIGHER THAN THE MOUNTAINS THAT I FACE
  • 00:23:27.040 --> 00:23:33.120
  • AND ITS STRONGER THAN THE POWER OF THE GRAVE
  • 00:23:33.150 --> 00:23:40.060
  • CONSTANT IN THE TRIAL AND THE CHANGE
  • 00:23:40.090 --> 00:23:45.170
  • THIS ONE THING REMAINS
  • 00:23:45.200 --> 00:23:50.160
  • YOUR LOVE NEVER FAILS, IT NEVER GIVES UP
  • 00:23:52.270 --> 00:23:56.020
  • NEVER RUNS OUT ON ME
  • 00:23:56.050 --> 00:23:58.250
  • YOUR LOVE NEVER FAILS, IT NEVER GIVES UP
  • 00:23:58.280 --> 00:24:02.140
  • NEVER RUNS OUT ON ME
  • 00:24:02.170 --> 00:24:04.260
  • GOD, YOUR LOVE NEVER FAILS, IT NEVER GIVES UP
  • 00:24:04.290 --> 00:24:08.170
  • NEVER RUNS OUT ON ME
  • 00:24:08.200 --> 00:24:11.070
  • YOUR LOVE
  • 00:24:11.100 --> 00:24:13.130
  • WELL, ON AND ON AND ON AND ON IT GOES
  • 00:24:17.220 --> 00:24:23.140
  • IT OVERWHELMS AND SATISFIES MY SOUL
  • 00:24:23.170 --> 00:24:29.200
  • AND I'LL NEVER, EVER, HAVE TO BE AFRAID
  • 00:24:29.230 --> 00:24:35.040
  • THIS ONE THING REMAINS
  • 00:24:35.070 --> 00:24:41.080
  • THIS ONE THING REMAINS
  • 00:24:41.110 --> 00:24:47.290
  • YOUR LOVE NEVER FAILS, IT NEVER GIVES UP
  • 00:24:48.020 --> 00:24:51.100
  • IT NEVER RUNS OUT ON ME
  • 00:24:51.130 --> 00:24:54.010
  • YOUR LOVE NEVER FAILS, IT NEVER GIVES UP
  • 00:24:54.040 --> 00:24:57.110
  • IT NEVER RUNS OUT ON ME
  • 00:24:57.140 --> 00:24:59.270
  • GOD, YOUR LOVE NEVER FAILS, IT NEVER GIVES UP
  • 00:25:00.020 --> 00:25:03.100
  • IT NEVER RUNS OUT ON ME
  • 00:25:03.130 --> 00:25:06.010
  • YOUR LOVE
  • 00:25:06.040 --> 00:25:08.290
  • YOUR LOVE
  • 00:25:09.020 --> 00:25:12.080
  • IN DEATH, IN LIFE,
  • 00:25:12.110 --> 00:25:15.020
  • I'M CONFIDENT AND COVERED BY
  • 00:25:15.050 --> 00:25:18.090
  • THE POWER OF YOUR GREAT LOVE
  • 00:25:18.120 --> 00:25:24.040
  • MY DEBT IS PAID
  • 00:25:24.070 --> 00:25:27.070
  • THERE'S NOTHING THAT CAN SEPARATE MY HEART
  • 00:25:27.100 --> 00:25:31.170
  • FROM YOUR GREAT LOVE
  • 00:25:31.200 --> 00:25:39.070
  • YOUR LOVE NEVER FAILS, IT NEVER GIVES UP
  • 00:25:39.100 --> 00:25:42.140
  • IT NEVER RUNS OUT ON ME
  • 00:25:42.170 --> 00:25:45.060
  • YOUR LOVE NEVER FAILS, IT NEVER GIVES UP
  • 00:25:45.090 --> 00:25:48.190
  • IT NEVER RUNS OUT ON ME
  • 00:25:48.220 --> 00:25:51.060
  • GOD, YOUR LOVE NEVER FAILS, IT NEVER GIVES UP
  • 00:25:51.090 --> 00:25:54.180
  • IT NEVER RUNS OUT ON ME
  • 00:25:54.210 --> 00:25:57.080
  • YOUR LOVE WILL NEVER FAIL ME
  • 00:25:57.110 --> 00:26:03.110
  • YOUR LOVE WILL NEVER FAIL ME
  • 00:26:03.140 --> 00:26:09.080
  • YOUR LOVE WILL NEVER FAIL ME
  • 00:26:09.110 --> 00:26:15.100
  • YOUR LOVE WILL NEVER FAIL ME
  • 00:26:15.130 --> 00:26:22.020
  • 00:26:25.260 --> 00:26:30.280
  • 00:26:34.040 --> 00:26:41.110
  • 00:26:50.110 --> 00:26:57.040
  • NEXT WEEK, JOHN WAYNE WALDING AND JOHNNY WILSON,
  • 00:27:02.220 --> 00:27:05.190
  • TWO AMERICAN HEROES HONORED FOR THEIR SERVICE AND SACRIFICE.
  • 00:27:05.220 --> 00:27:08.250
  • WATCH AS ONE GETS SURPRISED WITH A SPECIAL GIFT!
  • 00:27:08.280 --> 00:27:11.200
  • - LIFE TODAY IS MADE POSSIBLE BY THE SUPPORTERS OF LIFE OUTREACH INTERNATIONAL .
  • 00:27:12.200 --> 00:27:16.020
  • YOUR GIFT WILL BE USED EXCLUSIVELY FOR THE EXEMPT PURPOSES OF LIFE .
  • 00:27:16.050 --> 00:27:19.050
  • THE MINISTRY FEATURES SPECIFIC OUTREACHES
  • 00:27:19.080 --> 00:27:21.070
  • AS EXAMPLES OF THE PROGRAMS IT SUPPORTS AND CONDUCTS.
  • 00:27:21.100 --> 00:27:23.090
  • GIFTS ARE CONSIDERED TO BE WITHOUT RESTRICTION
  • 00:27:23.120 --> 00:27:25.110
  • AS TO USE UNLESS EXPLICITLY STIPULATED BY THE DONOR.
  • 00:27:25.140 --> 00:27:27.150
  • THE MINISTRY IS A MEMBER OF THE E.C.F.A.
  • 00:27:27.180 --> 00:27:29.250