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May 26, 2019
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Your World with Creflo

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  • her wedding dress to renew her marriage vows,
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  • our guest today was the driver in a severe car accident
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  • with her husband, her two young daughters,
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  • her nephew and her best friend's two young boys.
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  • One moment, one mistake, and lives are changed forever.
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  • All the passengers suffered injuries
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  • and some were very severe.
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  • And tragically, her best friend's ten-year-old son
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  • was killed as he was ejected from the car
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  • as it rolled over four times.
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  • Her best friend has never forgiven her and our guest
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  • has never been able to forgive herself.
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  • Over the years she has tried to commit suicide multiple times.
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  • She's here today to share what happened and receive
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  • the counseling and God's grace to come to terms
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  • with this horrible tragedy.
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  • That's next.
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  • This is "Your World."
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  • Changing one life, time after time
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  • Oh, Lord, we do it all for you
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  • Through the trials I see, I'll always believe
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  • a new life starts with you
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  • Oh, change your world today
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  • Change is gonna come your way
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  • Change, you get an understanding
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  • his grace will transform you
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  • Creflo: Our guest today wants desperately to forgive herself
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  • but has no idea how.
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  • She's here today to try to move past the nightmares and grief
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  • she's felt since the terrible accident that took the life
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  • of her best friend's son who was in her car.
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  • Would you please welcome with me Dorothy to
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  • the "Your World" show today.
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  • Creflo: Thank you so much for coming.
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  • Dorothy Span: Thank you for having me.
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  • Creflo: We're gonna give you some things to help you get
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  • to a place where I believe you'll be glad.
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  • Dorothy: Cheers.
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  • Creflo: So I wanna start off this way.
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  • The whole situation before we get to the accident,
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  • I understand you got married at a courthouse and you were
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  • in the process of planning for your wedding.
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  • Tell me about that, take us into your world,
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  • and then I guess we'll see from that how we got
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  • in the situation to set up this accident.
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  • Dorothy: It was like a great day first,
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  • that day, with my kids.
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  • And I was with my husband and my two daughters,
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  • my nephew and my best friend's two sons and we were just
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  • having a good time and I was gonna--renewing my vows
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  • and having, like, a real church wedding.
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  • And it was great and the sun was out, everything.
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  • And we were singing with the radio and just having
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  • a good old time.
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  • And when I got over, I went around a truck.
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  • Next thing I know we lost control and we started flipping.
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  • And I got knocked out in the first flip and my husband
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  • at the time said we flipped, like, four or five times.
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  • Creflo: Did you hit anything? What caused the flipping?
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  • Dorothy: I didn't hear anything.
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  • It just--once we got in the lane it just started--
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  • I lost control and we started flipping.
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  • Creflo: Wow, wow.
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  • So what was the condition of the people who were in the car?
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  • Dorothy: First thing I remember when I came to,
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  • I was just, like, "Oh my God, what happened?
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  • What just happened?"
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  • And my husband shook me, like, "They need you.
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  • The kids need you."
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  • And I came back and I got the other kids and my baby girl,
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  • Ayanna, and her bone was sticking out her leg and if
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  • I hadn't have been in the CNA, a Certified Nursing Assistant,
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  • I would have picked her up and then she could have lost
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  • her leg.
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  • But all I could do is just sit beside her while she bleeding
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  • out of her face and everything else and with the other kids,
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  • so.
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  • Creflo: So when did you discover that I think
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  • his nickname was Tee.
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  • Dorothy: My best friend's son, one of her oldest child,
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  • the ten-year-old.
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  • Creflo: When did you discover that he had passed during this?
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  • Dorothy: I looked over and my husband was getting out of
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  • the car and I was just--it was just--I liked to have lost
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  • my mind because it was, like, once I seen all of that and
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  • that he was dead and it was, just like, "Oh my God,
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  • he dead," and do you know, like, just blacked out
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  • and I just thought of walking away and just,
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  • like, I don't know, I just-- I felt terrible
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  • and just hurting like this happened to me.
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  • I don't--why me, you know? So I was just out my mind.
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  • I was just--I was just, like, devastated because I just--
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  • I don't know, because I didn't--
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  • just was still like it all couldn't believe that
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  • it happened, you know.
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  • And then that her son was gone and I was,
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  • you know, the one that was driving and,
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  • yeah, it was just--
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  • Creflo: So here's the deal, you know,
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  • we're gonna take a little journey here to look at this
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  • because I know you've put a lot of pressure on yourself.
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  • And we're gonna take you down a little road
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  • so you can reevaluate this a little differently than
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  • what you've been evaluating it.
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  • So tell me about the first encounter with Tee's mother
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  • which was your, really, best friend, best--okay.
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  • Dorothy: Betty was in the hospital waiting on us so when
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  • they seen us come in, getting out the mercy wagon we came in,
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  • they met us.
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  • And they, her and my oldest sister greeted me
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  • with a hug and were, like, "It's not your fault,
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  • it's not your fault."
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  • And I was just, like-- they were, like,
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  • "It could happen with anybody now," like,
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  • but it didn't, it happened with me.
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  • And I was just, like, everywhere,
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  • all over the place because I was the driver and with the police
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  • all of a sudden then it's my daughter's in the room
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  • and they had me pulling everywhere.
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  • And I had to do a drug test and all, so.
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  • Creflo: This issue today is an issue of not just forgiveness
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  • but how do I forgive myself and let it go on.
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  • And you'll be surprised and our audience will be surprised
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  • that there are not many books out on accidental deaths.
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  • And a lot of times, people don't know except for testimonies
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  • of what happened to them, even how to deal with it.
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  • You know, the victim, that's one side but the person
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  • that was responsible, you very rarely hear anything about that.
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  • And so when did it turn when, you know, it went from,
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  • "Everything's okay, it could have happened to anybody,"
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  • to "I don't forgive you"?
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  • Dorothy: I left the hospital, left Ayanna at the hospital
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  • and I went to pay my respects before the funeral and
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  • when I got there was a lot of whispering and going on like,
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  • "What's she doing here?"
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  • and this, that, and other.
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  • And so she pulled me aside, like, "Let's go talk."
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  • And we went.
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  • We went outside to talk.
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  • Her--we started talking but her mom came out and interrupted,
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  • like, "What's she doing here?
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  • She killed my grandson," and this, that, and other.
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  • And so we really didn't get a chance to talk and it, like,
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  • real chaos us.
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  • And my husband was, like, "Get out of here.
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  • We've gotta get out of here. She don't deserve this."
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  • And I left.
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  • And that was the last time I really, like,
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  • seen or talked with her about any of that.
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  • Creflo: Accidental deaths will produce,
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  • regardless of who you are, and regardless of what
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  • the situation, it will always produce this feeling of guilt
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  • and shame.
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  • And you've experienced that, right,
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  • this feeling of guilt and shame.
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  • Now, how long has this been from the time it happened to today?
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  • Dorothy: It was 16 years ago.
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  • Creflo: Sixteen years ago.
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  • Now, about 18 years ago I was almost killed
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  • in an accident and, in fact, the lady who hit us, she died.
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  • And it was a, you know, it was a kind of a weird feeling,
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  • you know?
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  • It was an accident but none of us died
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  • and we were grateful to be alive.
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  • And for me, you know, there was a little guilt that she had
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  • to die and that but not nearly as what you're talking
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  • about right now.
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  • And so you're having issues with forgiving yourself because
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  • no matter what anybody says, you were driving,
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  • it should not have happened, and in your mind you think,
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  • "Well, I let 'em down and they're just kids
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  • and I was supposed to be there to protect them."
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  • That's all noble but I gotta be very honest with you.
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  • You've gotta be very careful how you blame yourself for something
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  • you feel like, "Well, this bad thing happened.
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  • Somebody needs to accept responsibility for it
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  • and I'll accept responsibility for it."
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  • Now, we are not at all making light of the fact
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  • that somebody's life was lost in this situation.
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  • That's not what we're doing.
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  • But what we are saying is you've gotta be very careful about
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  • beating yourself up so bad that years go by and you don't even
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  • recognize how violent you have been to yourself emotionally.
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  • Now, if you go back to the accident, you mentioned
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  • that it was a mechanical issue that took place.
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  • And so I ask you to question, you know,
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  • so tell me what did you do-- what did you do
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  • to cause this to happen?
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  • How would you answer that?
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  • Dorothy: I guess, I didn't-- I can't say I did anything
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  • but I don't know.
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  • Creflo: Well, it's almost as if I would ask a kid
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  • who was molested at 12, if I asked a kid,
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  • "Well, you know, what did you do to make that happen?"
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  • He would say, "Nothing," you know,
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  • because he was a victim of this whole situation.
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  • And if you look at what did you do,
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  • it's not like you went out and on purpose, you know,
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  • caused this to happen.
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  • That's why we call it a accidental death.
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  • And while it is rough, it's tough and it's tough on the
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  • emotions because the guilt comes and the shame comes and somebody
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  • lost their life, the pressure came because that was always
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  • on your mind, that's what you thought about and the hurt from,
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  • you know, your friend and have y'all even spoken
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  • since that day?
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  • Dorothy: No.
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  • Creflo: And I mean you guys were pretty close, right?
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  • I mean, that was a part of your life that was removed
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  • out of your life.
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  • And so what we've got to do is, we gotta set a course
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  • towards forgiveness of self.
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  • We've gotta set a course towards,
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  • okay, either I'm gonna continue to beat myself up for another
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  • 16 years or--because it feels as if it happened yesterday.
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  • Dorothy: Yes.
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  • Creflo: And that's amazing about--people don't understand.
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  • When you're in a accident where lives were on the line,
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  • I mean, it was 18 years ago when that happened to me
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  • and it still seems like it was, like, last week sometime.
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  • But you have got to forgive yourself.
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  • Now let me tell you why.
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  • God has already forgiven us.
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  • Now, here's what I'm saying.
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  • This is so awesome.
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  • Since he has already forgiven us,
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  • we need to forgive ourselves.
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  • So you can believe that God has forgiven you, right?
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  • Dorothy: Yes.
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  • Creflo: So now we gotta deal with what's real.
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  • It is the abuse that you are dealing yourself.
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  • Would you agree with that?
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  • Dorothy: Yes.
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  • Creflo: You are beating your brains out over this thing.
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  • And there comes a time and there comes a point in time
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  • where you've got to be willing to say, "It did happen.
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  • I am so, so sorry that it happened but there is nothing
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  • I can do about what has already taken place."
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  • And what happens is the enemy just will take that thing
  • 00:12:42.270 --> 00:12:45.170
  • because it's a way to break you and depress you and to
  • 00:12:45.180 --> 00:12:50.010
  • open you up and, you know, all right,
  • 00:12:50.020 --> 00:12:53.050
  • you start going around, "Where was God?
  • 00:12:53.060 --> 00:12:55.010
  • How come that had to happen to me?
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  • Why it couldn't happen to somebody else?"
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  • Because your emotions are feelings on the inside,
  • 00:12:58.160 --> 00:13:00.240
  • they're designed to move you in a direction.
  • 00:13:00.250 --> 00:13:03.030
  • And if you don't take authority over your emotions,
  • 00:13:03.040 --> 00:13:05.210
  • your emotions will take authority over your life.
  • 00:13:05.220 --> 00:13:08.070
  • So we all have emotions but we can't let the emotions have you
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  • and over the last 16 years you've allowed your emotions
  • 00:13:11.120 --> 00:13:14.090
  • to take charge of your life.
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  • So what we wanna do today is reverse this.
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  • We want you to take charge of your emotions,
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  • rather than your emotions taking charge of your life.
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  • Are you ready to do that?
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  • Dorothy: Yes, that's why I'm here.
  • 00:13:25.260 --> 00:13:27.090
  • Creflo: Yeah, today we're gonna take charge
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  • of those emotions, okay?
  • 00:13:29.020 --> 00:13:32.060
  • Now, I don't know what will happen with your former friend
  • 00:13:32.070 --> 00:13:36.290
  • but that's not the issue now.
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  • You still love here, you still hate that this thing happened,
  • 00:13:38.200 --> 00:13:43.010
  • but at the same time, if you don't take charge
  • 00:13:43.020 --> 00:13:45.190
  • of your emotions, this type of negativity will kill you and rob
  • 00:13:45.200 --> 00:13:50.130
  • the rest of your family of the opportunity to get to know you
  • 00:13:50.140 --> 00:13:54.010
  • so the first step is you've got to go forward.
  • 00:13:54.020 --> 00:13:58.140
  • You've got to go forward.
  • 00:13:58.150 --> 00:14:00.170
  • Now, describe to me, rather than going forward or even when you
  • 00:14:00.180 --> 00:14:03.240
  • try to go forward what are some of the things you have to deal
  • 00:14:03.250 --> 00:14:06.270
  • with when you think you've really made your mind up
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  • to go forward?
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  • What happens?
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  • Dorothy: There are thoughts of everything and
  • 00:14:12.030 --> 00:14:13.210
  • just replay about I look at my daughter's leg and I,
  • 00:14:13.220 --> 00:14:17.110
  • like, I'm the reason-- I caused it.
  • 00:14:17.120 --> 00:14:21.210
  • Creflo: So now, the first thing,
  • 00:14:21.220 --> 00:14:23.070
  • you know, you have to do in order to go forward,
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  • you got to take authority over those thoughts, right?
  • 00:14:24.200 --> 00:14:27.150
  • So how do we do that because Bible talks about that we can
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  • take every thought into captivity and make it obey
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  • the Word of God.
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  • So I want you to count from one to ten to yourself, ready?
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  • Go.
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  • Now say your name.
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  • Dorothy: Dorothy.
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  • Creflo: What happened to your counting?
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  • Dorothy: I stopped.
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  • Creflo: You had to stop so you can hear what's come
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  • out of your mouth.
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  • So that's how you're gonna do those negative thoughts.
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  • Every time those thoughts come back to remind you
  • 00:14:52.250 --> 00:14:55.140
  • of what you've done, then you open your mouth up and say,
  • 00:14:55.150 --> 00:14:58.240
  • "God's forgiven me, I've forgiven myself,
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  • and all is well," okay?
  • 00:15:01.020 --> 00:15:04.170
  • So this is what happens.
  • 00:15:07.070 --> 00:15:10.050
  • A little bit at a time, you're gonna see that those thoughts
  • 00:15:10.060 --> 00:15:13.110
  • will come less and less because you've taken authority.
  • 00:15:13.120 --> 00:15:17.090
  • And it's kind of like those thoughts know,
  • 00:15:17.100 --> 00:15:19.260
  • "It ain't no use us messing her 'cause she's gonna say the same
  • 00:15:19.270 --> 00:15:21.180
  • thing she say to us everything, 'God has forgiven us,
  • 00:15:21.190 --> 00:15:24.170
  • I forgive myself, and all is well with me,
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  • and I'm not going back there.'" You take authority
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  • over thoughts with words.
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  • You don't take authority over thoughts with thoughts.
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  • You take authority of thoughts with your words.
  • 00:15:34.290 --> 00:15:36.180
  • So that's where we start right there.
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  • We--number one, we make a decision to forgive ourselves.
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  • Second thing we do is we take authority over
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  • every negative thought that goes against that decision.
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  • And you occupy your mind with the Word of God.
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  • You occupy--that's why I tell people it's so important to get
  • 00:15:52.210 --> 00:15:55.100
  • into a church that preaches the Word because if you get the Word
  • 00:15:55.110 --> 00:15:59.210
  • going in and you're thinking on that Word,
  • 00:15:59.220 --> 00:16:01.290
  • then you have something to think about.
  • 00:16:02.000 --> 00:16:03.290
  • So you get that Word and the objective is to get your mind
  • 00:16:04.000 --> 00:16:09.020
  • and your life going in the direction to achieve
  • 00:16:09.030 --> 00:16:12.180
  • and to fulfill the will of God for your life.
  • 00:16:12.190 --> 00:16:15.220
  • What's been happening over the last 16 years is the enemy says,
  • 00:16:15.230 --> 00:16:19.090
  • "Oh, I have something in her emotions that I can use
  • 00:16:19.100 --> 00:16:23.210
  • to stop her from fulfilling the call of God in her life."
  • 00:16:23.220 --> 00:16:28.020
  • Now remember what emotions are: feelings on the inside
  • 00:16:28.030 --> 00:16:31.110
  • that are designed to move you in a direction.
  • 00:16:31.120 --> 00:16:34.180
  • So your emotions over the last 16 years,
  • 00:16:34.190 --> 00:16:37.210
  • I mean, they've been moving you in the direction away from life
  • 00:16:37.220 --> 00:16:41.280
  • and away from what God's called you to.
  • 00:16:41.290 --> 00:16:44.140
  • And sometimes we think, "Well, it's just automatic."
  • 00:16:44.150 --> 00:16:47.130
  • No, it's not.
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  • You have authority over emotions.
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  • They can't take you somewhere that you don't wanna go.
  • 00:16:50.200 --> 00:16:53.240
  • So you have got to master and take charge over your emotions
  • 00:16:53.250 --> 00:16:59.020
  • because 16 years, that's a long time to be beating yourself up.
  • 00:16:59.030 --> 00:17:05.280
  • And listen, I can relate to you with that.
  • 00:17:05.290 --> 00:17:07.250
  • I was in--
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  • Dorothy: Just didn't know how to speak if I talked to
  • 00:17:09.200 --> 00:17:12.060
  • anyone else because the way I was raised up,
  • 00:17:12.070 --> 00:17:16.080
  • everything we did or whatever we had going on,
  • 00:17:16.090 --> 00:17:19.100
  • it stayed in the house.
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  • You don't take your business out in the public,
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  • in--so that's why I was so--it's so hard for me to find the--
  • 00:17:23.220 --> 00:17:28.260
  • Creflo: I did a show recently where we were talking
  • 00:17:28.270 --> 00:17:31.000
  • about brokenness and how to deal with brokenness.
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  • And one of the things I said to our guest was,
  • 00:17:36.160 --> 00:17:38.280
  • "Your pain is private but your healing is corporate,"
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  • which means you don't run away from people and relationships
  • 00:17:46.080 --> 00:17:51.210
  • because they have brokenness in their life and they have hurts
  • 00:17:51.220 --> 00:17:55.200
  • in their life and a lot of people, you'd be surprised,
  • 00:17:55.210 --> 00:17:58.270
  • they'll come to church and they're coming to church
  • 00:17:58.280 --> 00:18:00.250
  • with unforgiveness in their heart against themselves.
  • 00:18:00.260 --> 00:18:04.070
  • Well, what happens as you begin to share your story,
  • 00:18:04.080 --> 00:18:08.050
  • as God begins to heal you, you'll find out that what you're
  • 00:18:08.060 --> 00:18:12.280
  • going through can now be used--
  • 00:18:12.290 --> 00:18:16.120
  • Dorothy: To help someone else.
  • 00:18:16.130 --> 00:18:18.030
  • Creflo: There you go. There you go.
  • 00:18:18.040 --> 00:18:19.270
  • So it can't be private pain.
  • 00:18:19.280 --> 00:18:21.150
  • And I know what you're talking about,
  • 00:18:21.160 --> 00:18:23.100
  • the family that we keep our stuff in the house.
  • 00:18:23.110 --> 00:18:25.050
  • Well, that's just that whole mask and that phoniness
  • 00:18:25.060 --> 00:18:27.120
  • and all that stuff.
  • 00:18:27.130 --> 00:18:29.060
  • The thing about hurt and brokenness is
  • 00:18:29.070 --> 00:18:30.220
  • it peels back all of that stuff.
  • 00:18:30.230 --> 00:18:33.010
  • And you become vulnerable, yes, but at the same time people
  • 00:18:33.020 --> 00:18:36.190
  • begin to see a part of you that they never get a chance to see.
  • 00:18:36.200 --> 00:18:41.250
  • And it can minister to folks, but even then it requires you
  • 00:18:41.260 --> 00:18:45.220
  • taking charge of your emotions, to master your emotions enough
  • 00:18:45.230 --> 00:18:49.270
  • to, say, "Share your testimony," to help people to do
  • 00:18:49.280 --> 00:18:54.160
  • what need to be done, so.
  • 00:18:54.170 --> 00:18:56.030
  • Dorothy: And that'll help me heal a little bit.
  • 00:18:56.040 --> 00:18:57.260
  • Creflo: It helps you more?
  • 00:18:57.270 --> 00:18:59.080
  • Dorothy: I said, "And that should help me
  • 00:18:59.090 --> 00:19:00.200
  • heal a little bit more.
  • 00:19:00.210 --> 00:19:02.000
  • Creflo: Exactly. Why?
  • 00:19:02.010 --> 00:19:03.120
  • Because you're--
  • 00:19:03.130 --> 00:19:04.220
  • Dorothy: Speaking on it.
  • 00:19:04.230 --> 00:19:06.090
  • Creflo: Yeah, your focus is not on you all the time.
  • 00:19:06.100 --> 00:19:07.250
  • It's not on you and on that same situation.
  • 00:19:07.260 --> 00:19:10.200
  • And that's painful. I wanna be very straight.
  • 00:19:10.210 --> 00:19:14.090
  • You have beat the snot out of you over these last 16 years
  • 00:19:14.100 --> 00:19:18.060
  • and it's time to stop.
  • 00:19:18.070 --> 00:19:19.260
  • And yet, the grace of God--the grace of God is over your life,
  • 00:19:19.270 --> 00:19:25.110
  • has been taking care of you.
  • 00:19:25.120 --> 00:19:27.090
  • You've tried to figure out how in the world am I--
  • 00:19:27.100 --> 00:19:29.190
  • have I been able to do the things I've been able to do
  • 00:19:29.200 --> 00:19:32.080
  • because in your weakness he's made strong.
  • 00:19:32.090 --> 00:19:36.050
  • But he's been made strong so you don't have to stay weak.
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  • You follow me?
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  • Dorothy: Yes, I do.
  • 00:19:41.070 --> 00:19:42.230
  • Creflo: So if you had an opportunity to meet your friend
  • 00:19:42.240 --> 00:19:46.190
  • and she still hadn't forgiven you,
  • 00:19:46.200 --> 00:19:49.050
  • how would you respond to that?
  • 00:19:49.060 --> 00:19:51.090
  • Dorothy: I would just have to forgive myself and let her know
  • 00:19:51.100 --> 00:19:54.100
  • that, you know, regardless if you forgive me or not,
  • 00:19:54.110 --> 00:19:57.010
  • I forgive myself because it wasn't my fault
  • 00:19:57.020 --> 00:20:00.240
  • and God has me covered.
  • 00:20:00.250 --> 00:20:03.200
  • Creflo: Sounds good to me. Sounds good to me.
  • 00:20:03.210 --> 00:20:09.120
  • As they say on the movie, "Boom, I'm done with this."
  • 00:20:09.130 --> 00:20:13.100
  • Listen, the number of people that come to church,
  • 00:20:13.110 --> 00:20:17.150
  • come around other people, you would probably be surprised the
  • 00:20:17.160 --> 00:20:21.080
  • number of people who are walking in unforgiveness
  • 00:20:21.090 --> 00:20:24.030
  • against themselves.
  • 00:20:24.040 --> 00:20:26.140
  • I just wanna believe that today is the first day of you walking
  • 00:20:26.150 --> 00:20:31.010
  • away from that unforgiveness.
  • 00:20:31.020 --> 00:20:35.020
  • Dorothy: And healing begins today.
  • 00:20:35.030 --> 00:20:36.220
  • Creflo: Exactly. Your healing begins today.
  • 00:20:36.230 --> 00:20:40.100
  • Healing begins today.
  • 00:20:40.110 --> 00:20:43.280
  • Your healing begins today.
  • 00:20:43.290 --> 00:20:46.050
  • What would you say to a person just like you and what advice
  • 00:20:46.060 --> 00:20:51.290
  • would you give them based on what you've gone through?
  • 00:20:52.000 --> 00:20:54.050
  • I want you to look at-- where's my camera?
  • 00:20:54.060 --> 00:20:56.240
  • Look at this camera right here and I want you to speak
  • 00:20:56.250 --> 00:20:59.160
  • to that person who's going through exactly
  • 00:20:59.170 --> 00:21:01.060
  • what you're going through.
  • 00:21:01.070 --> 00:21:02.160
  • What would you say to them?
  • 00:21:02.170 --> 00:21:03.260
  • You got it.
  • 00:21:03.270 --> 00:21:05.180
  • Dorothy: You gotta open up and forgive yourself
  • 00:21:05.190 --> 00:21:09.050
  • and just let go and let God and just say, "I'm healed.
  • 00:21:09.060 --> 00:21:17.150
  • I'm healing myself.
  • 00:21:17.160 --> 00:21:19.060
  • I need to go through and use my problems to help someone else
  • 00:21:19.070 --> 00:21:22.060
  • and to make a difference in other people life."
  • 00:21:22.070 --> 00:21:25.120
  • And you probably couldn't change other people life to make
  • 00:21:25.130 --> 00:21:28.240
  • a big difference, you never know.
  • 00:21:28.250 --> 00:21:31.000
  • Creflo: I take it. I take it, yeah.
  • 00:21:31.010 --> 00:21:38.160
  • I wanna give you something to kind of help you to keep
  • 00:21:38.170 --> 00:21:40.240
  • your mind straight on something.
  • 00:21:40.250 --> 00:21:42.170
  • I've got--this is my grace covenant.
  • 00:21:42.180 --> 00:21:44.050
  • I love giving it to some of my guests.
  • 00:21:44.060 --> 00:21:46.190
  • "To Dorothy Span, I accept this grace covenant provided to me
  • 00:21:46.200 --> 00:21:50.110
  • by Creflo Dollar and agree with the following statements:
  • 00:21:50.120 --> 00:21:53.280
  • I believe Jesus loves me and nothing will ever change that.
  • 00:21:53.290 --> 00:21:57.050
  • I believe that grace in the person of Jesus Christ
  • 00:21:57.060 --> 00:21:59.140
  • has already provided everything I will ever need to have
  • 00:21:59.150 --> 00:22:02.290
  • a healthy, fulfilling, and prosperous life.
  • 00:22:03.000 --> 00:22:05.180
  • I believe everything in my past is in my past.
  • 00:22:05.190 --> 00:22:09.150
  • Jesus has chosen not to remember it and neither will I.
  • 00:22:09.160 --> 00:22:13.090
  • I will daily proclaim I'm the righteousness of God.
  • 00:22:13.100 --> 00:22:16.020
  • I will daily live by the belief of understanding grace
  • 00:22:16.030 --> 00:22:18.290
  • empowering change to better equip myself for excess,
  • 00:22:19.000 --> 00:22:21.230
  • and to better serve those individuals around me.
  • 00:22:21.240 --> 00:22:25.040
  • I will daily flood my life with the Word of God
  • 00:22:25.050 --> 00:22:28.110
  • and the praises of his saints."
  • 00:22:28.120 --> 00:22:30.220
  • And I'm gonna sign right above "Pastor and Encourager,"
  • 00:22:30.230 --> 00:22:33.230
  • and then I want you to sign right above
  • 00:22:33.240 --> 00:22:36.110
  • "The Righteousness of God," because that's who you are.
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  • You are the Righteousness of God, amen?
  • 00:22:39.150 --> 00:22:43.000
  • Amen, yeah.
  • 00:22:43.010 --> 00:22:47.230
  • God wants to forgive you the same way he would any person
  • 00:22:47.240 --> 00:22:51.190
  • who earnestly seeks him.
  • 00:22:51.200 --> 00:22:53.240
  • He doesn't want you to condemn yourself and
  • 00:22:53.250 --> 00:22:55.190
  • revisit the situation, the act, the mistake or sin ever,
  • 00:22:55.200 --> 00:23:00.050
  • ever again.
  • 00:23:00.060 --> 00:23:01.240
  • So regardless of the mistake, he is faithful to forgive you.
  • 00:23:01.250 --> 00:23:05.230
  • He's already promised you forgiveness because
  • 00:23:05.240 --> 00:23:07.210
  • of the blood of Jesus Christ and, if you believe,
  • 00:23:07.220 --> 00:23:10.180
  • you are forgiven.
  • 00:23:10.190 --> 00:23:12.020
  • Don't carry around the guilt of your past mistakes.
  • 00:23:12.030 --> 00:23:16.080
  • That's self-condemnation and God has set us free from it.
  • 00:23:16.090 --> 00:23:19.140
  • Now, when you accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior
  • 00:23:19.150 --> 00:23:22.050
  • by faith, you are made righteous.
  • 00:23:22.060 --> 00:23:25.100
  • I wanna thank my guest, Dorothy, today.
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  • You did a real good job.
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  • I believe today is the first day of your life walking
  • 00:23:28.220 --> 00:23:32.090
  • in this forgiveness.
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  • Dorothy: Thanks so much.
  • 00:23:34.120 --> 00:23:36.180
  • Creflo: Yes.
  • 00:23:36.190 --> 00:23:37.290
  • Now, listen, if there's something going on in your world
  • 00:23:38.000 --> 00:23:40.100
  • and you need help or if you know someone who needs help,
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  • male announcer: Are you still carrying the pain of
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  • healing, and restoration.
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  • As you listen to this message, you'll learn how to gain control
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  • frustration, or anguish again.
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  • Then you will be ready to listen to his next message,
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  • "Your New Life by Grace," on another two-disc set.
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  • In this powerful teaching, Creflo will step you through
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  • how to access the grace of God through faith to get you
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  • to the other side.
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  • It's time to finally rise above your emotions and receive
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  • Dorothy: Since I talked to Dr. Creflo Dollar,
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  • I, like, having been putting for everything that he told me
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  • in my life situation.
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  • Me and my daughter-- my daughters have grown,
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  • like, closer together where they're thinking about going
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  • to therapy and it's like it's bringing a lot of light
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  • to my life and I don't blame myself as much anymore.
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  • Thank you, Dr. Dollar, for everything.
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  • I really appreciate all that you told me
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  • and all the knowledge you have given me.
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  • I really appreciate you so much.
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  • Dorothy: It was like a honor because Dr. Creflo,
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  • he's like a celebrity and everything and being now
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  • that he signed me a certificate and it's like a blessing to me.
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  • I'm going in the right direction and I'm graduating to something
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  • and I actually have a certificate wall
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  • and it's up there on my wall.
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