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Abandonment Anxiety

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June 16, 2019
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  • [audience applauding]
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  • Creflo Dollar: Many people grow up with fears
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  • of rejection or abandonment.
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  • They worry they'll be rejected by peers, partners, schools,
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  • companies, or social circles.
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  • And for some, these fears aren't fully realized until they enter
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  • into a romantic relationship.
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  • Things could be going along smoothly, and all of a sudden,
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  • they get hit with the insecurity that their partner will distance
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  • themselves, ignore, and eventually leave them.
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  • They often anticipate rejection and search for signs of
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  • disinterest from their partner,
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  • and then, ultimately, they'll sabotage their relationship
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  • by driving them away,
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  • thereby bringing to pass the very abandonment they fear.
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  • Today, you're going to meet a woman who's faced abandonment
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  • and rejection her whole life.
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  • Tameka Anderson: I spent my entire childhood in foster care.
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  • Creflo: Being passed from one foster home
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  • to another as a child.
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  • Creflo: How many different foster homes
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  • were you actually sent off to?
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  • Tameka: Fourteen. Creflo: Fourteen?
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  • Creflo: Crafting a world in which
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  • she's unlovable and unwanted.
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  • This has followed her into her adult life, into her romantic
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  • relationships, and she's here today to try and break the toxic
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  • cycle of rejecting before being rejected.
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  • Tameka: I didn't wanna deal with that.
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  • I didn't wanna deal with the hurt.
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  • I didn't wanna deal with the pain.
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  • So, I would push people away from me.
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  • Creflo: And coming to terms with her past
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  • and her fear of abandonment.
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  • Tameka: 'Cause I felt like,
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  • "You're not gonna leave me again.
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  • I'm tired of this."
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  • So, I ran behind her, and I didn't even hear
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  • the bullets whizzing past me.
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  • Creflo: And y'all could've been killed, right?
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  • Tameka: Exactly.
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  • And so, all of a sudden, I hear a woman's voice,
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  • and she's screaming.
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  • She says, "Stop shooting, the baby is running behind her."
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  • I remember, my mother didn't even turn around to get me.
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  • Creflo: I'm gonna help her today.
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  • I'm Creflo Dollar, and this is "Your World."
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  • [audience applauding]
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  • Changing one life, time after time.
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  • Oh, Lord, we do it all for you.
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  • Through the trials I see, I'll always believe
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  • a new life starts with you.
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  • Oh, change your world today.
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  • Change is gonna come your way.
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  • Change, and get an understanding
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  • his grace will transform you.
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  • [audience applauding]
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  • Creflo: Our guest today is fighting the loneliness from
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  • feelings of abandonment spawned from her biological parents,
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  • her foster parents,
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  • and her unsuccessful relationships since.
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  • Now, please welcome today Tameka to "Your World."
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  • It's gonna be an awesome time. Tameka?
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  • Hey, hello, hello, hello.
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  • Thank you for being here today.
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  • This is awesome.
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  • I'm excited about gettin' into this.
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  • You were absolutely right when you termed this,
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  • "An issue of abandonment."
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  • We call it, "Abandonment anxiety."
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  • I will say that abandonment anxiety is a result of some type
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  • of childhood trauma dealing with bonding.
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  • And so, with that in mind, take us to how you were raised, and
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  • point out some of those things that you would agree with me
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  • that may have been a part of what you're dealing with today.
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  • Tameka: Okay, so, I was born addicted to crack cocaine.
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  • I was immediately placed in foster care.
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  • Creflo: Did y'all get that? Wow.
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  • Tameka: Yeah.
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  • Creflo: So, how did you feel when you were given that story,
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  • given that piece of information?
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  • Tameka: I've always felt lost, you know?
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  • I've always felt alone, unloved, unwanted, and I was even angry
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  • at God because I felt like he set me up to fail.
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  • Like, "Why did I have to be born addicted to crack cocaine?"
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  • You know?
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  • So, once I found out, it was not pretty, I'll tell ya that.
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  • Creflo: How old were you when you found that out?
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  • And describe some of the feelings you had
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  • as a result of that.
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  • Tameka: So, let me just take you back
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  • to when I was placed in foster care.
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  • I spent my entire childhood in foster care, and I stayed there,
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  • being bounced back and forth, me and my siblings, from foster
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  • home back to my mom and my dad, when he was still alive,
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  • until I was nine.
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  • And then I was just, like, "I don't wanna keep
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  • going back to this."
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  • And I told the courts I didn't wanna go back home.
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  • I was tired of feeling like I was just unloved,
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  • like I didn't matter, you know?
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  • I always felt like I had to fight for my mother's attention,
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  • her love, everything.
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  • And one point, one time in particular, I was about seven,
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  • and I remember my mom, when we would go back with her, the
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  • periods that we were with her, she would leave us wherever.
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  • And this one particular time, she left us with,
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  • apparently, a drug dealer.
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  • And so, she came back, and he was furious with her.
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  • He got to arguin' and fightin' with her, and then,
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  • all of a sudden, he pulls out a gun.
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  • My mom-- Creflo: And how old were you?
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  • Tameka: I was about seven. Creflo: Yeah.
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  • Tameka: My mom, you know, she hops over the banister and just
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  • takes off runnin' in the alley.
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  • I took off runnin' behind her 'cause I felt like, "You're not
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  • gonna leave me again.
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  • I'm tired of this."
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  • So, I ran behind her, and I didn't see or hear anything.
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  • I didn't even hear the bullets whizzing past me.
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  • Like, I guess I was in a zone, but I was just like,
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  • "Don't leave, don't leave."
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  • Creflo: And y'all could've been killed, right?
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  • Tameka: Exactly. Creflo: Yeah.
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  • Tameka: And so, all of a sudden, I hear a woman's voice,
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  • and she's screaming.
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  • She says, "Stop shooting, the baby is running behind her."
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  • So, I remember, my mother didn't even turn around to get me.
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  • So I was feeling very sad.
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  • Creflo: You know, it's interesting that you would
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  • identify those particular incidents that happened in the
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  • past because one of the issues with abandonment anxiety
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  • is when a child has not been able to depend
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  • on the bonding of a parent.
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  • Bonding, at that age, has to be somethin'
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  • that that child can depend on.
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  • Bonding is something that a baby that's born,
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  • they've got to--they grow to depend on that.
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  • And it doesn't appear that that ever happened the way
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  • it needed to happen where you're concerned.
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  • Tameka: It didn't.
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  • Creflo: Which is now the very reason that, you know,
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  • you may be encountering and experiencing some of the things
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  • you're experiencing right now.
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  • What do you think about that?
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  • Tameka: I would agree with a that wholeheartedly.
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  • Because, like I said, I was always angry because I didn't
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  • get, to me, was the most basic human need, which is my mom.
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  • Creflo: Abandonment anxiety is a result
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  • of what you didn't get as a child.
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  • And I want people to know that.
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  • It's going back to that childhood, reexamining what
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  • happened, or, in this case, what did not happen there, and then,
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  • I think you can begin to deal with the issues of rejection
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  • before you're actually rejected because of what you didn't get.
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  • Yeah, there was no dependence there.
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  • How has that impacted relationships
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  • that you've found yourself in in your life?
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  • Tameka: So, if I felt like there was some just, you know,
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  • something in the water that wasn't right, or, you know,
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  • maybe he wasn't feelin' me or somethin',
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  • I was like, "I gotta be out,"
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  • 'cause I felt like, "You're not gonna reject me.
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  • I will reject you before that happens,"
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  • because I didn't wanna deal with that.
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  • I didn't wanna deal with the hurt.
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  • I didn't wanna deal with the pain.
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  • So, I would push people away from me.
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  • Creflo: So, what are you afraid of?
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  • Tameka: Not bein' wanted.
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  • Creflo: So, it appears like your strategy is, "Before that
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  • is a reality, I'm no going to allow myself to be impacted
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  • by this reality that I carry, the reality of I'm afraid
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  • that I'm not gonna be accepted."
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  • What else are you afraid of?
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  • Tameka: Not bein' valuable. I was always told I was bad.
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  • So, just feelin' like, you know, I wasn't of value.
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  • Creflo: Have you found yourself accepting certain
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  • things that were bad for you
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  • because you devalued your own self?
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  • Tameka: Absolutely.
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  • Creflo: Okay, did you also find that sometimes you allowed
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  • other people to devalue you?
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  • Tameka: Absolutely.
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  • Creflo: Okay, again, you may have not termed it this way, but
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  • that childhood trauma, and that's what I wanna look at it,
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  • that childhood trauma of not being able to depend on parents
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  • being there, and being rejected, and sent off to foster--how many
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  • different foster homes were you actually sent off to?
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  • Tameka: Fourteen.
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  • Creflo: Fourteen? Think of that.
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  • Fourteen from the day you were born until what?
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  • Tameka: I aged out.
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  • Creflo: Wow, that in itself spells this whole syndrome
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  • of rejection.
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  • Have you ever been able to get a grip of this,
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  • or is it impacting still relationships?
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  • Tameka: Definitely still impacting
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  • because I have a cycle.
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  • I've just realized I have a cycle where, after I get out
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  • of a bad relationship, I'll kinda put myself on punishment
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  • and I won't date for years.
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  • Creflo: Hmm, so you, in a sense, reject yourself.
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  • Tameka: I guess.
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  • Creflo: And so, what are you telling yourself
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  • about why you're doing this?
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  • Tameka: That maybe I am bad.
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  • Creflo: Yeah, and you know that's not true.
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  • Tameka: Yeah.
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  • Creflo: And I think that's what happens.
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  • Now, let's talk about the solution for a moment.
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  • With abandonment anxiety, the tendency is to do what you're
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  • doin' now, stay away from relationships.
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  • And you stay away for a while, until you see a relationship
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  • that appears to be safe.
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  • But even when you get into a relationship that appears to be
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  • safe, then you now internalize this rejection, and you'll begin
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  • to reject that relationship before it gets off
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  • to be what it needs to be.
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  • Like, let me describe it to you. You tell me if this is true.
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  • Now, let's take Susan, and Susan goes out on a date,
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  • and they have a really good time on the date.
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  • The date's over with.
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  • Everything was great, but she got home,
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  • she hasn't heard from him.
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  • She was expecting a text or somethin' like that.
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  • She didn't get the text. She didn't get the call.
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  • So, three hours, you're thinkin' somethin's wrong.
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  • Well, and now you're lookin' at yourself, "What did I do wrong?
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  • Maybe I was too pushy. Maybe I didn't talk enough.
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  • Maybe I talked too much."
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  • Does that kinda describe what's goin' on internally
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  • on the inside of you?
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  • Tameka: Yes, guilty as charged.
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  • Creflo: So, by engaging in these relationships rather than
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  • avoiding them, you give yourself an opportunity to begin to say
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  • and to practice this: "I'm okay."
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  • And, you know, when the anxiety comes up,
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  • "No, no, we're cool, we're good."
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  • But you can't do that avoiding relationships.
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  • The way you get over this and get to the next point,
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  • "I'm gonna engage in relationships,"
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  • and you might wanna begin to practice this in relationships
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  • with friends, relationships with coworkers.
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  • So that, if you find yourself blaming you or become anxious
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  • about, "Oh, they spoke to me yesterday, but didn't say
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  • anything to me today."
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  • Don't do that.
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  • That's a way you can say, "I'm good."
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  • And you've got to convince yourself.
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  • And really, this is the best way to convince yourself.
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  • This is what helped me: "I'm in Christ, I'm good.
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  • You're good in God's sight, you're awesome."
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  • And you start recognizing when that occurs in your thinking,
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  • and you start dealing with that.
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  • Tameka: Yeah, I definitely, like, agree.
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  • I've been like that, where it's just like, "What did I do?"
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  • It's always, if somethin' is wrong,
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  • I always immediately say, "What did I do?"
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  • And in the past, I've been, like, angry to say, "Okay,
  • 00:13:51.220 --> 00:13:56.280
  • something's wrong with me," 'cause I heard that all my life.
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  • Or, "You're bad, you're bad," you know?
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  • I was never adopted.
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  • My sister was adopted, but I wasn't.
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  • And, you know, my foster mom was like
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  • "Oh, you're too bad," you know?
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  • And so, I would internalize that in these relationships and say,
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  • "Well, okay, well, maybe I am bad."
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  • Creflo: Okay, so let's stop right there.
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  • So, now, let's resolve that issue.
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  • You heard it. People said it.
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  • You built it in your subconscious.
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  • You began to think it.
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  • You get made when you even consider that.
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  • How would you turn that around?
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  • Tameka: I would think about how God sees me.
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  • Creflo: And how does God see you?
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  • Tameka: As the apple of his eye.
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  • Creflo: You better go on, now.
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  • Tameka: [laughing]
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  • Creflo: You better go on, now.
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  • Now, the reason why I'm bringin' it up like this is because, you
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  • know, psychology considers the mental and the emotional,
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  • but not the spirit.
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  • And your spirit man is filled with everything that you need.
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  • Now, I used to teach on takin' authority with your thoughts
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  • by openin' up your mouth.
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  • You're literally gonna have to open your mouth up and say,
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  • "There's nothing wrong with me. I'm the apple of God's eye.
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  • God loves me. I'm in Christ Jesus.
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  • And in him, according to Colossians, I'm perfect."
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  • And it'll shut that up.
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  • So, you gotta start turnin' that switch off by turning your mouth
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  • on and saying what God has to say about you.
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  • Let's try that.
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  • Say what God has to say about you.
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  • Tameka: [laughing]
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  • That I'm the apple of God's eye.
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  • Creflo: And wear that out too, what else?
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  • Tameka: [laughing]
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  • That I am not condemned.
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  • Creflo: Right, "And I'm prosperous."
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  • Tameka: I'm prosperous.
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  • Creflo: "And God loves me--
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  • Tameka: God loves me.
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  • Creflo: "With an everlasting love, and he made me.
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  • I'm a good and perfect gift 'cause I come from God."
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  • And then go and list some things, you know,
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  • about what he said about you.
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  • Write 'em down.
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  • Put 'em in a tablet closet to your bed.
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  • Read 'em out loud to you.
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  • Carry a little card with you because you're responding
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  • to years of hearing, "I'm bad, I'm bad, I'm bad."
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  • No, no, no more. No more believing that.
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  • You've been believin' a lie. You're in Christ.
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  • "The bad is gone. The good is here.
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  • All is well with me." Say that.
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  • Tameka: The bad is gone. The good is here.
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  • All is well with me. I'm in Christ.
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  • Creflo: Yeah, those thoughts have to line up with that.
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  • That's the power of dealing with this issue from the spirit than
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  • just from the mental and the emotional place.
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  • You see now why I say it's gotta come to the point
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  • where you are okay with who you are?
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  • And that you can learn how to love yourself?
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  • Now, let's talk about some exercises you can do.
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  • I remember when I went to the movies by myself.
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  • And then after the movie, I went to dinner by myself.
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  • Why?
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  • I needed to let me know that I'm all right with me,
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  • and I don't need somebody to define my identity.
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  • And it was a big deal for me to go by myself.
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  • Do you know I have come to enjoy by-myself time?
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  • You have to be whole to be able to do that,
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  • and I believe you can be whole.
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  • So, here's what I want you to do.
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  • I want you to take yourself out.
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  • It may not be a movie, or whatever it is.
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  • I want you to take yourself out all by yourself, and you can
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  • start participating in these exercises, and that takes you
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  • yet to another level of saying, "I'm okay, I'm okay."
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  • And capturing those thoughts: "I'm not bad,
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  • I'm okay, I'm okay."
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  • Now, as you begin to make progress in that area,
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  • watch what happens.
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  • The level of your self-esteem is going to determine
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  • the type of people you draw to you.
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  • When people see confidence, then they're gonna be attracted
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  • to that confidence and how you carry yourself.
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  • Now, you're seated on this couch right now.
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  • You look like a very confident professional woman, okay?
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  • But you don't wanna let your insides remain the same,
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  • because that's what's gonna come out.
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  • See, that's a stronghold in your mind.
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  • Basically, we're dealing with a stronghold in your mind, and
  • 00:18:44.170 --> 00:18:47.000
  • we're gonna take apart that house constructed of thoughts,
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  • gonna tear it down, demo it.
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  • And by doing these exercises, you're going to rebuild that
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  • house, and it's not gonna be like the old house.
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  • It'll be the house that says, "You're good, all is well,
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  • you're awesome.
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  • You love you. You're okay with who you are."
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  • And that's an amazing feeling.
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  • When you're okay with you, you can look at yourself
  • 00:19:12.210 --> 00:19:16.030
  • in the mirror and say, "I am okay with me."
  • 00:19:16.040 --> 00:19:19.050
  • In fact, do that in the mirror: "I'm okay with me."
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  • When you can do that, and you graduate to the next
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  • relationship, not avoid 'em, go towards 'em, and maybe you meet
  • 00:19:25.240 --> 00:19:30.090
  • the man of your dream, and it'll be real tempting then.
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  • "Somethin's wrong with me.
  • 00:19:33.190 --> 00:19:34.280
  • I didn't--" No, no, no, no, no, no, no, "He didn't have to come
  • 00:19:34.290 --> 00:19:37.220
  • and take me out to dinner if he didn't want to.
  • 00:19:37.230 --> 00:19:40.140
  • Obviously, it was somethin' he was interested in."
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  • And look at yourself in the mirror and say,
  • 00:19:43.140 --> 00:19:45.020
  • "Go, girl," and you keep goin' on.
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  • You follow what I'm sayin'?
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  • Yeah, it's kinda funny, but this is how this
  • 00:19:49.050 --> 00:19:51.160
  • works, and this is how we can get to the place
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  • where we can resolve this.
  • 00:19:53.260 --> 00:19:56.020
  • But most of all, remember, God's love has to be received.
  • 00:19:56.030 --> 00:20:02.020
  • It's more than saying, "God, I love you."
  • 00:20:02.030 --> 00:20:04.040
  • It's, do you believe in the love that God has for you?
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  • And start practicing that.
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  • Questions?
  • 00:20:10.070 --> 00:20:11.200
  • Tameka: Okay, so, like, I'm a woman, okay?
  • 00:20:11.210 --> 00:20:14.220
  • You don't understand what we get as women
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  • if we're goin' out by ourself.
  • 00:20:18.090 --> 00:20:20.080
  • Guys come up, "Oh, so, what's wrong with you?
  • 00:20:20.090 --> 00:20:22.010
  • Why are you single?"
  • 00:20:22.020 --> 00:20:23.260
  • Then that further confirms, like,
  • 00:20:23.270 --> 00:20:26.010
  • "Is there somethin' wrong with me?
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  • Why am I single?"
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  • Creflo: Well, first of all, that would be fear, okay?
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  • And fear tolerated is faith contaminated.
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  • You cannot make progress in your life being afraid
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  • of what other people are gonna think about you.
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  • You're not doing this for them. You're doing this for you.
  • 00:20:41.170 --> 00:20:46.020
  • You don't owe anybody an explanation of why.
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  • If I see somebody at the movie, I don't owe them an explanation.
  • 00:20:49.140 --> 00:20:53.040
  • I'm not gonna--I see 'em in the movie and I just wanna say,
  • 00:20:53.050 --> 00:20:56.170
  • "Well, you know, Taffi's kinda busy so I came
  • 00:20:56.180 --> 00:20:58.020
  • to the movies by myself."
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  • First of all, it ain't none of your business.
  • 00:20:59.130 --> 00:21:00.290
  • I didn't plan on seein' you in the movies in the first place.
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  • I don't owe you an explanation. What is that demonstrating?
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  • Confidence in who you are.
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  • You could turn that back around.
  • 00:21:08.110 --> 00:21:10.050
  • "Somethin' must be wrong with you
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  • 'cause you always by yourself."
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  • You follow what I'm sayin'?
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  • Don't allow that fear to come in to where somethin' you're doing
  • 00:21:15.210 --> 00:21:20.240
  • for you, you can't successfully do it, because you're concerned
  • 00:21:20.250 --> 00:21:24.290
  • about what somebody else thinks.
  • 00:21:25.000 --> 00:21:27.070
  • Doesn't that define society today?
  • 00:21:27.080 --> 00:21:29.180
  • Everybody's so afraid of what somebody else thinks about them,
  • 00:21:29.190 --> 00:21:33.140
  • so it prevents them from doing the thing that's good for them.
  • 00:21:33.150 --> 00:21:37.110
  • But that's some dude who probably liked you
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  • in the first place.
  • 00:21:40.210 --> 00:21:42.000
  • That was the only reason he brought it up.
  • 00:21:42.010 --> 00:21:43.130
  • "Somethin' wrong with you. You by yourself."
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  • "Somethin' wrong with you?" "Somethin's right with me.
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  • I'm confident enough to go eat by myself.
  • 00:21:48.100 --> 00:21:52.000
  • I'm secure enough to go to a movie by myself.
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  • I don't need somebody with me to give me confidence and security.
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  • I gotta take care of it between me and me before I can take care
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  • of it between me and somebody else.
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  • I can't depend on somebody else to make me feel good
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  • about myself or to feel okay about myself.
  • 00:22:10.290 --> 00:22:13.150
  • I depend on God, yes, and I depend on God to help me to
  • 00:22:13.160 --> 00:22:18.120
  • accomplish and achieve what I need to accomplish and achieve.
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  • Does that make sense?
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  • I wanna give you something as a reminder of what we talked about
  • 00:22:25.050 --> 00:22:29.030
  • here today, and I think this will be an excellent reminder.
  • 00:22:29.040 --> 00:22:32.060
  • It's a Grace Covenant, and it's: "Presented on this day
  • 00:22:32.070 --> 00:22:35.200
  • to Tameka Anderson."
  • 00:22:35.210 --> 00:22:37.180
  • It says: "I, Tameka Anderson, accept this Grace Covenant
  • 00:22:37.190 --> 00:22:40.150
  • provided to me by Creflo Dollar, and agree with the following
  • 00:22:40.160 --> 00:22:43.090
  • statements: I believe Jesus loves me,
  • 00:22:43.100 --> 00:22:46.120
  • and nothing will ever change that.
  • 00:22:46.130 --> 00:22:48.130
  • I believe that grace in the person of Jesus Christ has
  • 00:22:48.140 --> 00:22:51.060
  • already provided everything I will ever need to have
  • 00:22:51.070 --> 00:22:54.140
  • a healthy, fulfilling, and prosperous life.
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  • I believe everything in my past is in my past.
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  • Jesus has chosen not to remember it, and neither will I.
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  • I will daily proclaim, 'I'm the righteousness of God.'
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  • I will daily live by the belief of understanding
  • 00:23:07.170 --> 00:23:10.140
  • grace-empowering change to better equip myself
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  • for success, and to better serve those individuals around me.
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  • I will daily flood my life with the Word of God and the praises
  • 00:23:17.070 --> 00:23:21.110
  • of his saints."
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  • And I'm gonna sign right above "Pastor and Encourager,"
  • 00:23:22.260 --> 00:23:27.100
  • and I want you to sign above "The righteousness of God"
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  • because that is exactly who you are.
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  • Put it up where you can see it and remind yourself
  • 00:23:33.000 --> 00:23:35.290
  • of who you are, amen.
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  • Can you conquer the fear of abandonment?
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  • Well, yeah, you can. You can do it.
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  • You can fight your fears and win.
  • 00:23:44.110 --> 00:23:46.210
  • You can begin by taking the first step in unmasking the
  • 00:23:46.220 --> 00:23:50.070
  • source of fear, realizing that you may have created an
  • 00:23:50.080 --> 00:23:54.020
  • environment for your insecurities to thrive.
  • 00:23:54.030 --> 00:23:57.230
  • Now, trauma such as what Tameka has been through can take over
  • 00:23:57.240 --> 00:24:01.270
  • your whole life, leaving you bitter and weary of friendships
  • 00:24:01.280 --> 00:24:07.020
  • and relationships and trust, or you can grow through them.
  • 00:24:07.030 --> 00:24:11.110
  • Now, it's time to face the emotional baggage
  • 00:24:11.120 --> 00:24:13.130
  • and to start thriving through the grace of God,
  • 00:24:13.140 --> 00:24:17.060
  • who will never reject or forsake you.
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  • I wanna thank my guest, Tameka, for joining us today.
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  • It was fun.
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  • I felt like we just whooped the devil together, amen?
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  • I really do.
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  • Listen, if there's something going on in your world and you
  • 00:24:32.020 --> 00:24:35.170
  • need help, or if you know someone who needs help,
  • 00:24:35.180 --> 00:24:38.140
  • please reach out and connect with us online at
  • 00:24:38.150 --> 00:24:41.060
  • YourWorldWithCreflo.com.
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  • Stay connected with me on Facebook, Twitter, and
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  • Instagram, and know that I'd love to hear from you.
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  • I'll see you next time right here on "Your World."
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  • [audience applauding]
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