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January 13, 2017
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Lures: The Lure of Money

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  • - Bil Cornelius: It doesn't say
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  • God's gonna meet your needs
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  • according to the latest
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  • barrel of oil rate.
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  • It doesn't say God's gonna meet
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  • your needs based upon
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  • natural gas prices.
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  • God's not gonna meet your needs
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  • based upon what the real estate
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  • cycle is.
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  • No, it's just God's gonna meet
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  • your needs based upon his
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  • glorious riches in Christ Jesus.
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  • And that's nothing to do
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  • with this world.
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  • So I don't know about you, but I
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  • choose for religious reasons not
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  • to partake in today's economy.
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  • I choose instead to partake
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  • in God's economy.
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  • [music]
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  • - Bil: You are the church
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  • - Bil: Welcome.
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  • Good to have you here!
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  • Thanks for joining us.
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  • You know, we're continuing
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  • the series on, "Lures."
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  • And as we talk about lures,
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  • there's a lot of things in this
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  • world that wants to lure us in.
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  • And so we're talking today about
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  • the lure of money 'cause money
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  • really is something that becomes
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  • a lure to us.
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  • So pull out your notes,
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  • if you would, real quick.
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  • You know, this last week, I was
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  • reading this phenomenal book.
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  • It's a mystery, a tragedy,
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  • and a comedy all in one.
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  • It was my checkbook.
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  • And as I was reading it,
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  • I realized that sometimes I'm
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  • all over the map financially.
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  • And do you ever look back at
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  • some of the purchases you made
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  • and thought,
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  • "Why did I buy that?"
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  • You ever done that?
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  • Anyone in here who's done
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  • that before?
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  • And so I know that's happened to
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  • all of us but it's the lure of
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  • money just--it just lures us
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  • into want certain things,
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  • thinking, "Oh, I just gotta have
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  • that."
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  • And then you finally get
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  • whatever that is and realize you
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  • didn't have to have it at all.
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  • And so I think we've all made
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  • those kind of purchases.
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  • Now, before we, you know, kind
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  • of get on all that stuff, before
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  • we do that, let's just admit up
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  • front that we all have certain
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  • things that we just spend
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  • too much money on that
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  • we don't mind, right?
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  • Don't we all have certain items
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  • that we just really like,
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  • that we overspend on but
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  • it's just something we want.
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  • How many of you guys have an
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  • item like that and you're,
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  • like, "Yeah, there is something
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  • I just really spend
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  • too much money on," right?
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  • So we're in Texas.
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  • Probably a lot of guys have
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  • guns, you know, or it may be
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  • golf clubs, maybe a boat,
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  • fishing gear, right, ladies?
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  • Maybe that certain blouse.
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  • I don't know what it is for you,
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  • right?
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  • We all have an item like that.
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  • So I brought my item with me.
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  • I didn't buy it but someone
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  • bought it for me but I gotta
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  • admit, I really like it.
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  • So I was at this event one time
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  • and I was talking to these guys
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  • and this friend of mine invited
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  • me into this circle of guys,
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  • these bunch of executives.
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  • And we were all talking.
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  • I was asking their advice on
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  • some things and this guy was
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  • sitting across from me and he
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  • was giving this great advice
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  • and I was, like, "Man,
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  • do you have a pen?
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  • I need to write some
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  • of this stuff down."
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  • So the guy hands me his pen
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  • and I was, like, "Oh,
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  • it's one of those pens."
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  • And it was a Montblanc pen.
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  • I don't know if you know
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  • what those are but it's like
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  • a really nice pen.
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  • And so if you watch newscasters
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  • and they're flipping their pen,
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  • it's almost always a Montblanc.
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  • And so I just noticed.
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  • I was, like, "Oh,
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  • it's a Montblanc."
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  • I'd never actually seen one or
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  • touched one so I wrote with it
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  • and I was, like,
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  • "Oh, that's so nice."
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  • So this buddy of mine, that
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  • Christmas, he bought me
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  • a Montblanc pen so I have
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  • my Montblanc pen
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  • and I really like my pen.
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  • This is my BMW.
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  • You can't have it.
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  • I like it.
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  • 'Cause they're not cheap, right?
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  • I mean, I wouldn't--I just--I
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  • don't think I'd ever spend this
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  • but, wow, I'm glad someone else
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  • spent it for me.
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  • It's great.
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  • I like my pen, right?
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  • And so we're really not trying
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  • to make you feel guilty
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  • for having a couple
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  • of things you like.
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  • There's nothing wrong with that.
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  • The Bible is very clear that
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  • people that God did bless
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  • and God's hand was on 'em,
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  • had stuff.
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  • There's nothing wrong with
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  • having stuff so please don't
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  • think this is, like,
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  • some anti-rich or anti-wealth
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  • or anti-things message at all.
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  • There's nothing wrong with
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  • having things as long as
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  • the things don't have you.
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  • Did you catch that?
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  • There's nothing wrong with
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  • having things, right?
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  • I mean, we all have certain
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  • things that, you know, we'd be
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  • a little embarrassed if we had
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  • to tell you the truth on what we
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  • actually spent on it, right?
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  • I don't care what your age is.
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  • My boys have got these J's, man.
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  • And they spend some money
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  • on their shoes, right?
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  • And so, you know, or maybe for
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  • you it's a car or a house or,
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  • you know, I dunno what it is
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  • but we all have items.
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  • Again, that's really not what
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  • we're talking about.
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  • What we're talking about is
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  • being good stewards of what
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  • we do have and there's nothing
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  • wrong with enjoying
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  • a few things.
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  • But check this out.
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  • Luke chapter 12, verse 15,
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  • puts it this way.
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  • "Then he said, 'Beware!
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  • Don't be greedy for what you
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  • don't have.
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  • Real life is not measured
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  • by how much we own.'"
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  • Have you ever noticed that
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  • whatever you're earning, you
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  • always wanna earn more?
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  • You always feel like
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  • it's just not quite enough.
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  • "Oh, if I just made this much
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  • money, then I'd be happy.
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  • Or I just had this much stuff,
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  • or just had this much money in
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  • the bank or if I just had this
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  • much square footage in my house.
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  • If I just had this kind of car,"
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  • right?
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  • It's always, like,
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  • one item away.
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  • If I had that,
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  • then I'd be happy.
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  • Remember, it was first,
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  • like, a 32-inch screen TV.
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  • Those were huge, right?
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  • Now you can buy those for
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  • $4.99 at Walmart.
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  • You know what I'm saying?
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  • then it was the 40-inch, then
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  • it was the 50-inch, 60, 70.
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  • Now it's 75, 80-inch TVs.
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  • I understand they're now making
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  • 100-inch television.
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  • This is insane.
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  • They're eventually gonna
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  • just shift to miles.
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  • "I have a mile and a half TV.
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  • What's yours?"
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  • "2.3 miles."
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  • I mean, it's, like,
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  • this is getting insane,
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  • you know what I mean?
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  • It's crazy.
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  • But I mean, it just gets bigger
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  • and bigger and bigger, you know?
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  • And so we always want more,
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  • more, more, more, more, more.
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  • And that's where
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  • the problem comes.
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  • And one of the ways you know
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  • this has become a problem,
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  • money's become a lure to you,
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  • is if you're in debt.
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  • If you've got major debt this
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  • means your--the spending's out
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  • of control.
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  • And that's where we have to be
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  • very careful that we just don't
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  • start spending like crazy,
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  • somehow thinking that this one
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  • new item is gonna make me happy.
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  • Ecclesiastes 5:10 puts it this
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  • way, "Those who love money
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  • will never have enough.
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  • How absurd to think that wealth
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  • brings true happiness!"
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  • Now the Bible does not say that
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  • money is the root of all evil.
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  • People think that.
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  • But actually the Bible does say,
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  • "The love of money
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  • is the root of all evil."
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  • Money is value-neutral.
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  • It's neither good nor bad.
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  • You can do really good things
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  • with money or you can do really
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  • bad things with money.
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  • It'll go both ways.
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  • You can feed starving children
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  • in Africa with money or you can
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  • also roll up a dollar and snort
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  • something with it, right?
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  • Same dollar.
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  • Did you know, by the way,
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  • that 97% of all US dollar bills
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  • have traces of cocaine on 'em?
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  • Ninety-seven percent.
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  • You're, like, "No wonder I get
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  • high when I'm close to money.
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  • Now I know why."
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  • And also today's message is not
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  • about how much you earn, at all.
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  • In fact, actually,
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  • it has nothing to do with what--
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  • the lure of money has nothing
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  • to do with how much you earn.
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  • It has to do with what you do
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  • with what you earn.
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  • Whether it's a little or a lot,
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  • that really is not the issue.
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  • It's what you choose to
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  • do with it.
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  • And so the first thing we need
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  • to remember is this, number one.
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  • Would you write this down?
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  • To break the back of the lure of
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  • money in our life, number one,
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  • refuse to let my identity
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  • be defined by what I own.
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  • Refuse to let my identity
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  • be defined by what I own.
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  • You may have a Beammer
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  • but you are not a Beammer.
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  • You may have a Porsche but
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  • you're not a Porsche.
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  • You may have nice designer
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  • jeans but that doesn't mean
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  • you are the designer jeans.
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  • I mean, we have a tendency to
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  • just--to overcompensate
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  • our self-worth into things,
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  • thinking, "Oh, now I'm somebody.
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  • Now I'm special 'cause I drive
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  • this, or have that, or," you
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  • know, ladies have to have this
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  • kind of purse, you know,
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  • or you wear this kind of watch
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  • or whatever.
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  • And we tend to overcompensate
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  • with things.
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  • Again, there's nothing wrong
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  • with things.
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  • It's okay to have things as long
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  • as the things don't have you.
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  • Now, the goal is not
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  • just to be cheap.
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  • I mean,
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  • that's not the goal either.
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  • It's not just about having more
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  • and saving more.
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  • That's not the goal either.
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  • And so refuse to let your
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  • identity be tied up
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  • in what you own.
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  • That's a big deal.
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  • Now let me just say this too
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  • real quick 'cause I know that,
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  • you know, maybe you are on
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  • the lower economic scale.
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  • I'm not gonna call you poor but
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  • maybe you feel like you are,
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  • okay?
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  • And by the way, none of us are
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  • poor if we live in
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  • air conditioning and we have
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  • two pairs of shoes.
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  • Here in America, that's
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  • virtually every one of us and
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  • that means you're in the top 2%
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  • to 5% wealth and wage-earners
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  • in the world.
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  • See, we keep looking at
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  • the scale just based upon
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  • where we live.
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  • But the Bible was written
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  • to the whole world.
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  • So we are all the rich
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  • young ruler.
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  • We're all the rich people
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  • in the Bible.
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  • We actually are.
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  • We just don't feel like it
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  • but we are.
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  • I mean, most of our biggest
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  • problem with food is that
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  • we eat too much.
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  • Not that we don't have enough,
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  • right?
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  • We need to trade places
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  • with a starving kid for a while.
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  • Like, that would be good for me.
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  • The truth is, is that that's
  • 00:08:07.080 --> 00:08:07.290
  • the problems we have.
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  • The reality is we do have wealth
  • 00:08:09.110 --> 00:08:11.240
  • in our country and really in all
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  • the West and so it's a big deal.
  • 00:08:13.170 --> 00:08:15.060
  • Look at Psalms 24:1.
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  • It says, "The world and
  • 00:08:16.140 --> 00:08:17.180
  • all that is in it belong to
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  • the Lord; and the earth and
  • 00:08:19.020 --> 00:08:20.060
  • all who live on it are his."
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  • So everything we have
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  • is God's already.
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  • All that we own is God's.
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  • I love this Montblanc pen
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  • but it's actually not mine,
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  • it's the Lord's.
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  • It's his pen, right?
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  • And so all that we have,
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  • the shoes you walked in with,
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  • those are the Lord's.
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  • The car you drove up in,
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  • that's the Lord's.
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  • All of it's God's, every bit.
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  • You say, "Well,
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  • this is God's house."
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  • So is your house.
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  • Your house is God's house too.
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  • All of our houses are.
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  • And so all of it is the Lord's
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  • when you remember that.
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  • Look at Deuteronomy 8:18.
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  • It says, "But remember the Lord
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  • your God, for it is he who gives
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  • you the ability to produce
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  • wealth, and so confirms his
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  • covenant, which he swore to your
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  • forefathers, as it is today."
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  • So God gave you the ability
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  • to produce wealth.
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  • Somebody will say, "Now hold on
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  • a second, Pastor.
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  • I went to school.
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  • I worked hard.
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  • I mean, I built my career.
  • 00:09:09.050 --> 00:09:10.210
  • And so I make a good paycheck.
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  • You tell me that's not mine?"
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  • That's exactly what
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  • I'm telling you.
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  • It's not yours.
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  • "But it's my skills,
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  • it's my abilities."
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  • Well, who gave you your
  • 00:09:17.080 --> 00:09:18.040
  • abilities?
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  • "Well, I developed them myself."
  • 00:09:19.150 --> 00:09:20.280
  • Well, who gave you that
  • 00:09:20.280 --> 00:09:21.280
  • heartbeat today so you
  • 00:09:21.280 --> 00:09:23.280
  • could have your abilities?
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  • 'Cause science can't prove
  • 00:09:24.280 --> 00:09:26.250
  • why your heart keeps beating.
  • 00:09:26.250 --> 00:09:29.000
  • It must be that there's a God.
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  • So all that we have, all that
  • 00:09:31.130 --> 00:09:34.090
  • we're able to acquire is
  • 00:09:34.090 --> 00:09:36.130
  • actually because of the Lord.
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  • All wealth, everything,
  • 00:09:40.110 --> 00:09:42.020
  • is actually God's.
  • 00:09:42.020 --> 00:09:44.090
  • And so that's why we have
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  • to hold it all loosely.
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  • Number two, hold everything
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  • loosely because God owns it all.
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  • He does.
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  • Just hold it loosely.
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  • Are you willing to part
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  • with what you love?
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  • Here's a little rule of thumb
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  • for me when I buy a car.
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  • I will not buy any car
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  • I'm not willing to give away.
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  • If I'm not willing to give it
  • 00:10:05.220 --> 00:10:06.200
  • away, not gonna own it.
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  • That's just the biggest ticket
  • 00:10:08.060 --> 00:10:09.280
  • item I could think of, right?
  • 00:10:09.280 --> 00:10:12.020
  • But for you,
  • 00:10:12.020 --> 00:10:13.120
  • maybe it's something else,
  • 00:10:13.120 --> 00:10:13.290
  • maybe it's a boat.
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  • You really want a nice boat.
  • 00:10:14.190 --> 00:10:15.090
  • But are you willing to give that
  • 00:10:15.090 --> 00:10:16.110
  • boat away?
  • 00:10:16.110 --> 00:10:17.020
  • If you're not willing to give
  • 00:10:17.020 --> 00:10:18.030
  • something away, don't buy it.
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  • 'Cause now it owns you,
  • 00:10:19.140 --> 00:10:20.200
  • you don't own it.
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  • Make sense.
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  • You say, "Well, who would give
  • 00:10:24.000 --> 00:10:24.190
  • their car away?"
  • 00:10:24.190 --> 00:10:25.080
  • Well, I know a lot of people
  • 00:10:25.080 --> 00:10:26.000
  • that do.
  • 00:10:26.000 --> 00:10:26.180
  • We've done it multiple times
  • 00:10:26.180 --> 00:10:27.130
  • as a family.
  • 00:10:27.130 --> 00:10:28.070
  • And I know a lot of people
  • 00:10:28.070 --> 00:10:29.230
  • in our church do.
  • 00:10:29.230 --> 00:10:30.150
  • Maybe God just put something on
  • 00:10:30.150 --> 00:10:31.180
  • your heart.
  • 00:10:31.180 --> 00:10:32.060
  • You're, like, you know, I'm
  • 00:10:32.060 --> 00:10:32.250
  • gonna get a new washer/dryer.
  • 00:10:32.250 --> 00:10:33.190
  • I'm gonna give the old one
  • 00:10:33.190 --> 00:10:34.170
  • to someone else.
  • 00:10:34.170 --> 00:10:35.070
  • Or maybe you keep the old one,
  • 00:10:35.070 --> 00:10:36.030
  • you buy a new set
  • 00:10:36.030 --> 00:10:36.270
  • for someone else.
  • 00:10:36.270 --> 00:10:38.000
  • It's a different way of
  • 00:10:38.000 --> 00:10:39.140
  • thinking, isn't it, you know?
  • 00:10:39.140 --> 00:10:41.030
  • Not everything should be
  • 00:10:41.030 --> 00:10:42.060
  • Jesus junk.
  • 00:10:42.060 --> 00:10:43.190
  • You know what Jesus junk is?
  • 00:10:43.190 --> 00:10:44.240
  • It's, like, it's so used,
  • 00:10:44.240 --> 00:10:46.180
  • we'll give it to the church.
  • 00:10:46.270 --> 00:10:49.270
  • But actually,
  • 00:10:49.270 --> 00:10:51.250
  • Jesus gave his best.
  • 00:10:52.140 --> 00:10:55.140
  • What if God says, "I don't want
  • 00:10:55.140 --> 00:10:57.050
  • your used stuff, I want
  • 00:10:57.050 --> 00:10:58.110
  • the nicest item you have."
  • 00:10:58.110 --> 00:11:01.100
  • Or we wanna hold it loosely
  • 00:11:01.100 --> 00:11:02.290
  • and say, "Okay, God.
  • 00:11:02.290 --> 00:11:03.280
  • That watch, that ring, that
  • 00:11:03.280 --> 00:11:06.150
  • diamond necklace, that sea-doo,
  • 00:11:07.130 --> 00:11:10.130
  • that surfboard, that skateboard,
  • 00:11:10.130 --> 00:11:12.210
  • those J's."
  • 00:11:12.210 --> 00:11:14.050
  • Have I hit you yet?
  • 00:11:14.050 --> 00:11:14.280
  • I'll keep going if you like.
  • 00:11:14.280 --> 00:11:16.190
  • I'm gonna hold it loosely.
  • 00:11:16.190 --> 00:11:19.080
  • It's actually yours, God.
  • 00:11:19.080 --> 00:11:20.170
  • It's not mine.
  • 00:11:20.170 --> 00:11:21.220
  • You never know what God may do
  • 00:11:21.220 --> 00:11:22.230
  • to break through to someone
  • 00:11:22.230 --> 00:11:24.130
  • through your generosity.
  • 00:11:24.130 --> 00:11:26.100
  • You've no idea.
  • 00:11:26.100 --> 00:11:27.050
  • And I don't know their story.
  • 00:11:27.050 --> 00:11:27.270
  • I don't know what God's doing in
  • 00:11:27.270 --> 00:11:28.220
  • their heart.
  • 00:11:28.220 --> 00:11:29.120
  • But maybe God's doing something.
  • 00:11:29.120 --> 00:11:30.060
  • And maybe that was something
  • 00:11:30.060 --> 00:11:31.030
  • that was just a sign to them
  • 00:11:31.030 --> 00:11:32.070
  • from God saying, "I'm gonna take
  • 00:11:32.070 --> 00:11:33.090
  • care of you."
  • 00:11:33.090 --> 00:11:34.020
  • But it wasn't about the $60 or
  • 00:11:34.020 --> 00:11:34.270
  • $80, it was about, "Oh,
  • 00:11:34.270 --> 00:11:35.290
  • my goodness, wow!
  • 00:11:35.290 --> 00:11:37.220
  • People still do that
  • 00:11:37.220 --> 00:11:39.000
  • in this world?"
  • 00:11:39.000 --> 00:11:39.290
  • Yes, people still do that.
  • 00:11:39.290 --> 00:11:41.120
  • You can be a blessing to other
  • 00:11:41.120 --> 00:11:42.280
  • people so I don't know what God
  • 00:11:42.280 --> 00:11:44.160
  • will lead you to but hold--
  • 00:11:44.160 --> 00:11:45.090
  • whatever you're holding,
  • 00:11:45.090 --> 00:11:46.110
  • hold it loosely.
  • 00:11:46.110 --> 00:11:47.230
  • Look at Acts chapter 2.
  • 00:11:47.230 --> 00:11:48.220
  • By the way, I think we should
  • 00:11:48.220 --> 00:11:49.170
  • become a traditional church,
  • 00:11:49.170 --> 00:11:51.170
  • I really do.
  • 00:11:51.170 --> 00:11:52.120
  • But I don't wanna go back to
  • 00:11:52.120 --> 00:11:53.140
  • a tradition 50 years ago, like
  • 00:11:53.140 --> 00:11:54.220
  • people think about tradition.
  • 00:11:54.220 --> 00:11:56.080
  • Let's go back, if we're gonna
  • 00:11:56.080 --> 00:11:57.230
  • go back, all the way back 2.000
  • 00:11:57.230 --> 00:11:59.110
  • years ago to Acts chapter 2
  • 00:11:59.110 --> 00:12:01.260
  • and follow their tradition.
  • 00:12:01.260 --> 00:12:03.060
  • Here was their tradition.
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  • Acts chapter 2, verse--Acts
  • 00:12:04.200 --> 00:12:06.040
  • chapter 4, 'scuse me, verse 32,
  • 00:12:06.040 --> 00:12:07.290
  • "All the believers were of
  • 00:12:07.290 --> 00:12:09.030
  • one heart and mind.
  • 00:12:09.030 --> 00:12:10.160
  • And they felt what they owned
  • 00:12:10.160 --> 00:12:13.090
  • was not their own, they
  • 00:12:13.090 --> 00:12:14.230
  • shared everything they had."
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  • Wow!
  • 00:12:17.180 --> 00:12:18.280
  • Who doesn't wanna be a part of
  • 00:12:18.280 --> 00:12:20.020
  • a church like that?
  • 00:12:20.020 --> 00:12:21.250
  • That just meets
  • 00:12:21.250 --> 00:12:23.030
  • each other's needs.
  • 00:12:23.030 --> 00:12:25.000
  • As a need arises, they meet it.
  • 00:12:25.000 --> 00:12:27.120
  • I mean, that's just cool.
  • 00:12:27.120 --> 00:12:28.230
  • Of course the church grew.
  • 00:12:28.230 --> 00:12:31.050
  • Who doesn't wanna be a part of
  • 00:12:31.050 --> 00:12:31.280
  • a group that's that loving?
  • 00:12:31.280 --> 00:12:33.150
  • And that caring?
  • 00:12:33.150 --> 00:12:34.280
  • And that compassionate?
  • 00:12:34.280 --> 00:12:36.050
  • That's what the church
  • 00:12:36.050 --> 00:12:36.290
  • is supposed to look like.
  • 00:12:36.290 --> 00:12:38.140
  • Not a bunch of judgmental pious
  • 00:12:38.140 --> 00:12:39.070
  • religious people.
  • 00:12:39.070 --> 00:12:40.140
  • It's supposed to be about
  • 00:12:40.140 --> 00:12:41.190
  • a bunch of loving, caring people
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  • that have compassion and wanna
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  • meet each other's needs.
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  • That's what we're called to do.
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  • That's what the church
  • 00:12:50.070 --> 00:12:51.080
  • is supposed to look like,
  • 00:12:51.080 --> 00:12:53.130
  • meeting one another's needs.
  • 00:12:53.130 --> 00:12:54.130
  • Now, what about your own needs?
  • 00:12:54.130 --> 00:12:55.220
  • Philippians 4:19 says,
  • 00:12:55.220 --> 00:12:56.290
  • "God will meet all your needs
  • 00:12:56.290 --> 00:12:58.010
  • according to his glorious riches
  • 00:12:58.010 --> 00:12:59.040
  • in Christ Jesus."
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  • I've got some good news for you
  • 00:13:00.080 --> 00:13:01.010
  • today.
  • 00:13:01.010 --> 00:13:01.170
  • It doesn't say God's gonna
  • 00:13:01.170 --> 00:13:02.100
  • meet your needs according to
  • 00:13:02.100 --> 00:13:03.020
  • the latest barrel of oil rate.
  • 00:13:03.020 --> 00:13:05.220
  • It doesn't say God's gonna meet
  • 00:13:05.220 --> 00:13:07.030
  • your needs based upon
  • 00:13:07.030 --> 00:13:08.090
  • natural gas prices.
  • 00:13:08.090 --> 00:13:09.110
  • It doesn't say God's gonna meet
  • 00:13:09.110 --> 00:13:10.120
  • your needs based upon
  • 00:13:10.120 --> 00:13:11.110
  • what the NASDAQ says.
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  • God's not gonna meet your needs
  • 00:13:12.210 --> 00:13:13.190
  • based upon what the real estate
  • 00:13:13.190 --> 00:13:14.260
  • cycle is.
  • 00:13:14.260 --> 00:13:15.170
  • No, it's just God's gonna meet
  • 00:13:15.170 --> 00:13:16.130
  • your needs based upon his
  • 00:13:16.130 --> 00:13:17.190
  • glorious riches in Christ Jesus.
  • 00:13:17.190 --> 00:13:20.150
  • And that's nothing to do with
  • 00:13:20.150 --> 00:13:21.040
  • this world.
  • 00:13:21.040 --> 00:13:22.250
  • 'Cause you're not of this world.
  • 00:13:22.250 --> 00:13:25.120
  • You're in this world
  • 00:13:25.120 --> 00:13:26.250
  • but you're not of it.
  • 00:13:26.250 --> 00:13:28.280
  • So I don't know about you, but I
  • 00:13:28.280 --> 00:13:29.230
  • choose for religious reasons not
  • 00:13:29.230 --> 00:13:31.180
  • to partake in today's economy.
  • 00:13:31.180 --> 00:13:34.170
  • I choose instead
  • 00:13:34.170 --> 00:13:35.240
  • to partake in God's economy.
  • 00:13:35.240 --> 00:13:37.280
  • And he always provides.
  • 00:13:37.280 --> 00:13:40.010
  • He always takes care of us.
  • 00:13:40.010 --> 00:13:41.230
  • But one of the things that this
  • 00:13:41.230 --> 00:13:42.280
  • also means for us and we're
  • 00:13:42.280 --> 00:13:44.020
  • gonna hold everything loosely
  • 00:13:44.020 --> 00:13:45.060
  • is that there's a value here
  • 00:13:45.060 --> 00:13:46.040
  • called sacrifice.
  • 00:13:46.040 --> 00:13:48.150
  • And what this means for us is
  • 00:13:48.150 --> 00:13:49.040
  • that we give up things we love
  • 00:13:49.040 --> 00:13:50.020
  • for the things we love more.
  • 00:13:50.020 --> 00:13:51.220
  • We wanna be a people of
  • 00:13:51.220 --> 00:13:54.080
  • sacrifice.
  • 00:13:54.080 --> 00:13:54.270
  • When is the last time sincerely
  • 00:13:54.270 --> 00:13:55.220
  • you know you sacrificed
  • 00:13:55.220 --> 00:13:57.250
  • something for another?
  • 00:13:57.250 --> 00:13:59.260
  • For someone else?
  • 00:13:59.260 --> 00:14:01.130
  • That you gave up something
  • 00:14:01.130 --> 00:14:03.290
  • for someone else?
  • 00:14:03.290 --> 00:14:05.110
  • That's an honor, it's
  • 00:14:05.110 --> 00:14:06.170
  • a privilege to do that,
  • 00:14:06.170 --> 00:14:07.210
  • to make a sacrifice.
  • 00:14:07.210 --> 00:14:10.010
  • You know, my parents
  • 00:14:10.010 --> 00:14:11.160
  • are in the room today.
  • 00:14:11.160 --> 00:14:13.030
  • They're very sacrificial people.
  • 00:14:13.030 --> 00:14:14.230
  • My dad, for years, we used to
  • 00:14:14.230 --> 00:14:16.260
  • make fun of his computer until
  • 00:14:16.260 --> 00:14:18.060
  • it finally dawned on me, "I'm
  • 00:14:18.060 --> 00:14:19.180
  • making fun of his computer but
  • 00:14:19.180 --> 00:14:20.170
  • the reason it's so old is 'cause
  • 00:14:20.170 --> 00:14:21.260
  • he keeps putting all of his kids
  • 00:14:21.260 --> 00:14:22.260
  • through college."
  • 00:14:22.260 --> 00:14:24.230
  • Very powerful.
  • 00:14:24.230 --> 00:14:26.060
  • Contrast it with another buddy
  • 00:14:26.060 --> 00:14:27.080
  • of mine that his dad told him,
  • 00:14:27.080 --> 00:14:28.290
  • "You're on your own
  • 00:14:28.290 --> 00:14:29.260
  • with college.
  • 00:14:29.260 --> 00:14:30.110
  • We can't afford it."
  • 00:14:30.110 --> 00:14:31.120
  • But when I drove up to that
  • 00:14:31.120 --> 00:14:32.050
  • friend of mine's house, his dad
  • 00:14:32.050 --> 00:14:33.220
  • had this, you know, I dunno what
  • 00:14:33.220 --> 00:14:35.020
  • it cost but it was a lot of
  • 00:14:35.020 --> 00:14:35.280
  • money, a real fancy boat
  • 00:14:35.280 --> 00:14:36.170
  • out front.
  • 00:14:36.170 --> 00:14:37.260
  • I was, like, "Wow," you know?
  • 00:14:38.040 --> 00:14:41.040
  • I just grew up with parents
  • 00:14:41.040 --> 00:14:42.150
  • that really sacrificed
  • 00:14:42.150 --> 00:14:43.260
  • for their kids.
  • 00:14:43.260 --> 00:14:44.260
  • The good news about that
  • 00:14:44.260 --> 00:14:45.210
  • is it taught me to do it.
  • 00:14:45.210 --> 00:14:46.190
  • It taught me to do that
  • 00:14:46.190 --> 00:14:47.130
  • for my kids.
  • 00:14:47.130 --> 00:14:48.010
  • I don't even think about it.
  • 00:14:48.010 --> 00:14:48.230
  • I'm not trying to say I'm
  • 00:14:48.230 --> 00:14:49.170
  • so holy.
  • 00:14:49.170 --> 00:14:50.080
  • I just have a great mom and dad
  • 00:14:50.080 --> 00:14:51.100
  • who taught me how to do that.
  • 00:14:51.230 --> 00:14:54.230
  • It's a sacrifice.
  • 00:14:54.230 --> 00:14:56.070
  • But here's the deal.
  • 00:14:56.070 --> 00:14:57.190
  • If we hold everything loosely,
  • 00:14:57.190 --> 00:14:59.220
  • we recognize what it is, is an
  • 00:14:59.220 --> 00:15:01.010
  • opportunity for us to bless and
  • 00:15:01.010 --> 00:15:02.100
  • be a blessing to other people.
  • 00:15:02.100 --> 00:15:03.160
  • And I don't know what God may
  • 00:15:03.160 --> 00:15:04.250
  • be leading you to do.
  • 00:15:04.250 --> 00:15:05.150
  • Maybe you have two of something
  • 00:15:05.150 --> 00:15:06.100
  • and it's time to give one away.
  • 00:15:06.100 --> 00:15:07.220
  • That's great.
  • 00:15:07.220 --> 00:15:08.190
  • What's God leading you to do?
  • 00:15:08.190 --> 00:15:10.010
  • How's he leading you to make
  • 00:15:10.010 --> 00:15:11.090
  • a sacrifice?
  • 00:15:11.090 --> 00:15:12.130
  • Hey, we gave you some Smarties.
  • 00:15:12.130 --> 00:15:14.030
  • Would you get those out
  • 00:15:14.030 --> 00:15:14.250
  • real quick?
  • 00:15:14.250 --> 00:15:15.110
  • Did you guys get your Smarties?
  • 00:15:15.110 --> 00:15:16.260
  • Go ahead, you can eat those
  • 00:15:16.260 --> 00:15:17.180
  • now by the way.
  • 00:15:17.180 --> 00:15:19.000
  • I hear a little rattling here.
  • 00:15:19.000 --> 00:15:20.040
  • Here they go.
  • 00:15:20.040 --> 00:15:21.090
  • Good, everybody do it together.
  • 00:15:21.090 --> 00:15:22.120
  • I like that, yeah.
  • 00:15:22.120 --> 00:15:23.060
  • So everyone gets
  • 00:15:23.060 --> 00:15:23.250
  • the Smarties--aren't they good?
  • 00:15:23.250 --> 00:15:24.140
  • He gets a--can I have a Smartie?
  • 00:15:24.140 --> 00:15:26.050
  • Do you mind if I have just one?
  • 00:15:26.050 --> 00:15:27.060
  • Oh, not the whole thing.
  • 00:15:27.060 --> 00:15:27.260
  • Just one of the Smartie--I just
  • 00:15:27.260 --> 00:15:28.250
  • need one.
  • 00:15:28.250 --> 00:15:29.130
  • Can I have--do you have some
  • 00:15:29.130 --> 00:15:30.080
  • Smarties?
  • 00:15:30.080 --> 00:15:30.270
  • Can I just have one?
  • 00:15:30.270 --> 00:15:31.200
  • Go ahead and get 'em open.
  • 00:15:31.200 --> 00:15:32.090
  • You guys have some.
  • 00:15:32.090 --> 00:15:33.000
  • This is great.
  • 00:15:33.000 --> 00:15:33.190
  • Oh, thanks, man.
  • 00:15:33.190 --> 00:15:34.080
  • I appreciate that.
  • 00:15:34.080 --> 00:15:34.270
  • Your hands are clean, right?
  • 00:15:34.270 --> 00:15:35.210
  • Okay, good.
  • 00:15:35.210 --> 00:15:36.190
  • Thank you.
  • 00:15:36.190 --> 00:15:37.290
  • I appreciate that.
  • 00:15:37.290 --> 00:15:38.230
  • Thank you very much.
  • 00:15:38.230 --> 00:15:39.130
  • This is great.
  • 00:15:39.130 --> 00:15:40.060
  • Oh, I love it.
  • 00:15:40.060 --> 00:15:40.280
  • Thank you, ma'am.
  • 00:15:40.280 --> 00:15:41.210
  • Can you hook me up, man?
  • 00:15:41.210 --> 00:15:42.220
  • Oh, man, you--oh, you give me
  • 00:15:42.220 --> 00:15:43.170
  • two.
  • 00:15:43.170 --> 00:15:44.090
  • Wow!
  • 00:15:44.090 --> 00:15:44.260
  • Thank you, man.
  • 00:15:44.260 --> 00:15:45.200
  • That's awesome.
  • 00:15:45.200 --> 00:15:46.120
  • I love Smarties.
  • 00:15:46.120 --> 00:15:47.050
  • So good.
  • 00:15:47.050 --> 00:15:47.260
  • Let me give you a little insight
  • 00:15:47.260 --> 00:15:48.180
  • into your Smarties that you're
  • 00:15:48.180 --> 00:15:49.150
  • eating.
  • 00:15:49.150 --> 00:15:50.100
  • I actually bought them for you.
  • 00:15:50.100 --> 00:15:53.050
  • You're welcome.
  • 00:15:53.050 --> 00:15:54.110
  • I went in--thank you very much.
  • 00:15:54.110 --> 00:15:55.180
  • I went in this week
  • 00:15:55.180 --> 00:15:56.240
  • to the financial offices.
  • 00:15:56.240 --> 00:15:57.230
  • I said, "How much is it gonna
  • 00:15:57.230 --> 00:15:58.220
  • cost to buy 10.000 people
  • 00:15:58.220 --> 00:16:01.000
  • Smarties?"
  • 00:16:01.000 --> 00:16:02.090
  • They went online, figured it
  • 00:16:02.090 --> 00:16:03.190
  • out, gave me the number, and I
  • 00:16:03.190 --> 00:16:05.000
  • went in and wrote a check so I
  • 00:16:05.000 --> 00:16:06.210
  • did it through the church, you
  • 00:16:06.210 --> 00:16:07.290
  • know, I wanna get my tax credit
  • 00:16:07.290 --> 00:16:08.280
  • but I still paid for
  • 00:16:08.280 --> 00:16:09.230
  • your Smarties.
  • 00:16:09.290 --> 00:16:12.290
  • I mean, I'm not dumb.
  • 00:16:12.290 --> 00:16:14.180
  • I mean, I wanna be generous but
  • 00:16:14.180 --> 00:16:16.030
  • I'm still gonna get
  • 00:16:16.030 --> 00:16:16.280
  • the write-off, you know.
  • 00:16:16.280 --> 00:16:18.140
  • But the reality is this.
  • 00:16:18.140 --> 00:16:20.120
  • I bought your Smarties.
  • 00:16:20.120 --> 00:16:22.220
  • And here's where I wanna
  • 00:16:22.220 --> 00:16:23.180
  • bring it up.
  • 00:16:23.180 --> 00:16:24.100
  • You know, some people say,
  • 00:16:24.100 --> 00:16:25.050
  • "Well, wow, Bil, I mean, these
  • 00:16:25.110 --> 00:16:28.110
  • people are trying to eat their
  • 00:16:28.110 --> 00:16:29.100
  • candy and you're just
  • 00:16:29.100 --> 00:16:30.000
  • going round asking
  • 00:16:30.000 --> 00:16:30.230
  • for a portion of it.
  • 00:16:30.230 --> 00:16:32.010
  • That's really rude for you to
  • 00:16:32.010 --> 00:16:33.080
  • ask them for a portion
  • 00:16:33.080 --> 00:16:34.150
  • of their candy."
  • 00:16:34.150 --> 00:16:35.290
  • But it's not their candy.
  • 00:16:35.290 --> 00:16:37.140
  • I bought their candy so it's
  • 00:16:37.140 --> 00:16:40.030
  • actually rude for them not to be
  • 00:16:40.030 --> 00:16:41.230
  • comfortable giving me a portion
  • 00:16:41.230 --> 00:16:42.270
  • when I own the very candy
  • 00:16:42.270 --> 00:16:44.290
  • you're eating.
  • 00:16:47.110 --> 00:16:50.110
  • But yet, we get offended when
  • 00:16:50.150 --> 00:16:53.150
  • churches and preachers and God
  • 00:16:53.150 --> 00:16:55.250
  • asks us to give a portion of
  • 00:16:55.250 --> 00:16:57.160
  • what we think is ours when
  • 00:16:57.160 --> 00:17:00.100
  • actually God afforded it
  • 00:17:00.100 --> 00:17:03.040
  • for you.
  • 00:17:03.250 --> 00:17:06.250
  • So we just--God asks for
  • 00:17:06.250 --> 00:17:09.030
  • a portion back.
  • 00:17:09.030 --> 00:17:11.160
  • Enjoy all the Smarties you want.
  • 00:17:11.160 --> 00:17:12.280
  • Have a sugar high all day long.
  • 00:17:12.280 --> 00:17:15.030
  • But just give a portion back to
  • 00:17:15.030 --> 00:17:16.080
  • God.
  • 00:17:16.080 --> 00:17:17.190
  • And if you begin to give a
  • 00:17:17.190 --> 00:17:18.130
  • portion of your Smarties back to
  • 00:17:18.130 --> 00:17:19.060
  • God, he'll give you another set
  • 00:17:19.060 --> 00:17:19.290
  • of Smarties and then he'll give
  • 00:17:19.290 --> 00:17:21.060
  • you a whole bag of Smarties.
  • 00:17:21.060 --> 00:17:22.190
  • He will dump a wheelbarrow of
  • 00:17:22.190 --> 00:17:24.080
  • Smarties on you if he knows that
  • 00:17:24.080 --> 00:17:25.170
  • you'll prove faithful
  • 00:17:25.170 --> 00:17:27.050
  • with the Smarties you got.
  • 00:17:27.050 --> 00:17:29.140
  • And he'll give you more
  • 00:17:29.140 --> 00:17:31.030
  • and then more and more.
  • 00:17:31.030 --> 00:17:32.050
  • If you just prove faithful.
  • 00:17:32.050 --> 00:17:33.050
  • But if you don't prove
  • 00:17:33.050 --> 00:17:33.250
  • faithful--see, with my kids at
  • 00:17:33.250 --> 00:17:34.280
  • home, if I were to pile a bunch
  • 00:17:34.280 --> 00:17:36.020
  • of Smarties on the table, they'd
  • 00:17:36.020 --> 00:17:38.080
  • be gone in, what, 20 minutes,
  • 00:17:38.080 --> 00:17:39.160
  • Cole?
  • 00:17:39.160 --> 00:17:40.110
  • Be about it?
  • 00:17:40.110 --> 00:17:41.130
  • All the candy would be gone like
  • 00:17:41.130 --> 00:17:42.030
  • that, right?
  • 00:17:42.030 --> 00:17:42.240
  • And so I've learned, I don't
  • 00:17:42.240 --> 00:17:43.290
  • put out all the candy
  • 00:17:43.290 --> 00:17:44.270
  • in front of my kids.
  • 00:17:44.270 --> 00:17:45.250
  • Why?
  • 00:17:45.250 --> 00:17:46.150
  • They devour it, right?
  • 00:17:46.150 --> 00:17:47.250
  • And so I've learned,
  • 00:17:47.250 --> 00:17:49.080
  • don't do that.
  • 00:17:49.080 --> 00:17:49.280
  • So what I've had to do is I have
  • 00:17:49.280 --> 00:17:50.280
  • to just dole it out in slow
  • 00:17:50.280 --> 00:17:52.130
  • increments 'cause I know what's
  • 00:17:52.130 --> 00:17:54.020
  • good for them versus what
  • 00:17:54.020 --> 00:17:55.110
  • they think is good for them.
  • 00:17:55.110 --> 00:17:57.260
  • Could it be that the Lord would
  • 00:17:57.260 --> 00:17:59.050
  • love to load you up but you're
  • 00:17:59.050 --> 00:18:01.290
  • so fast to consume everything
  • 00:18:01.290 --> 00:18:03.250
  • he gives you that
  • 00:18:03.250 --> 00:18:06.090
  • he has to slow it down?
  • 00:18:06.270 --> 00:18:09.270
  • Could it be that God wants to
  • 00:18:09.270 --> 00:18:11.210
  • give you more but you gotta
  • 00:18:11.210 --> 00:18:13.280
  • prove faithful with it, that
  • 00:18:13.280 --> 00:18:16.130
  • you're trustworthy with it.
  • 00:18:16.130 --> 00:18:17.180
  • I'll load you up.
  • 00:18:17.180 --> 00:18:19.190
  • I just need you to be faithful
  • 00:18:19.190 --> 00:18:21.250
  • with it, to be trustworthy
  • 00:18:21.250 --> 00:18:22.270
  • with it.
  • 00:18:22.270 --> 00:18:23.260
  • That's what God says in
  • 00:18:23.260 --> 00:18:25.000
  • his Word.
  • 00:18:25.000 --> 00:18:26.220
  • Now check out the next verse.
  • 00:18:26.220 --> 00:18:27.150
  • Luke chapter 16, verse 11.
  • 00:18:27.150 --> 00:18:28.230
  • It says, "If you are
  • 00:18:28.230 --> 00:18:29.210
  • trustworthy--" If you are,
  • 00:18:29.210 --> 00:18:31.030
  • 'scuse me, "If you were
  • 00:18:31.030 --> 00:18:32.020
  • untrustworthy about worldly
  • 00:18:32.020 --> 00:18:33.080
  • wealth, who will trust you with
  • 00:18:33.080 --> 00:18:34.210
  • the true riches of heaven?
  • 00:18:34.210 --> 00:18:36.090
  • And if you are not faithful with
  • 00:18:36.090 --> 00:18:37.190
  • other people's money, why should
  • 00:18:37.190 --> 00:18:39.110
  • you be trusted with money of
  • 00:18:39.110 --> 00:18:40.090
  • your own?"
  • 00:18:40.090 --> 00:18:41.090
  • So remember, it's all God's so
  • 00:18:41.090 --> 00:18:41.290
  • he entrusts you with a certain
  • 00:18:41.290 --> 00:18:43.290
  • percentage and he wants you to
  • 00:18:43.290 --> 00:18:45.270
  • handle it well and, if you do
  • 00:18:45.270 --> 00:18:48.090
  • that, then he'll give you
  • 00:18:48.090 --> 00:18:49.050
  • more of the pie.
  • 00:18:49.050 --> 00:18:50.210
  • He'll give you more Smarties if
  • 00:18:50.210 --> 00:18:52.040
  • you are trustworthy with it.
  • 00:18:52.060 --> 00:18:55.060
  • So it's important we learn
  • 00:18:55.060 --> 00:18:55.230
  • to be trustworthy.
  • 00:18:55.230 --> 00:18:56.150
  • I have a friend name
  • 00:18:56.150 --> 00:18:58.090
  • Rick Warren.
  • 00:18:58.090 --> 00:18:59.250
  • Some of you guys may know
  • 00:18:59.250 --> 00:19:00.190
  • who he is.
  • 00:19:00.190 --> 00:19:01.060
  • He's written a book called
  • 00:19:01.060 --> 00:19:01.280
  • "The Purpose-Driven Life."
  • 00:19:01.280 --> 00:19:02.230
  • It's a very powerful book.
  • 00:19:02.230 --> 00:19:03.210
  • In fact, it was a number one
  • 00:19:03.210 --> 00:19:04.160
  • bestselling book of all time.
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  • Crazy.
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  • He sold 35 million copies
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  • of this book.
  • 00:19:09.150 --> 00:19:10.260
  • Incredible.
  • 00:19:10.260 --> 00:19:11.130
  • So I was talking to him one day.
  • 00:19:11.130 --> 00:19:12.250
  • We had lunch and this is after
  • 00:19:12.250 --> 00:19:14.120
  • the sale of his book had
  • 00:19:14.120 --> 00:19:15.140
  • just come out and it just was--
  • 00:19:15.140 --> 00:19:16.280
  • went crazy.
  • 00:19:16.280 --> 00:19:17.210
  • He personally made
  • 00:19:17.210 --> 00:19:19.150
  • $400 million on that book.
  • 00:19:19.200 --> 00:19:22.200
  • He reverse tithes, by the way.
  • 00:19:23.020 --> 00:19:26.020
  • He gives 90% away and lives on
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  • 10%, which is still pretty good.
  • 00:19:28.190 --> 00:19:29.270
  • But he gives 90% away.
  • 00:19:29.270 --> 00:19:32.050
  • No wonder God can bless him
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  • like that.
  • 00:19:34.110 --> 00:19:35.170
  • I mean, that's amazing.
  • 00:19:35.170 --> 00:19:37.280
  • He drives a 10-year-old Ford
  • 00:19:37.280 --> 00:19:39.020
  • Expedition, by the way,
  • 00:19:39.020 --> 00:19:40.070
  • faded paint job.
  • 00:19:40.070 --> 00:19:41.200
  • That's what he drives.
  • 00:19:41.200 --> 00:19:43.150
  • He doesn't--he's not into stuff.
  • 00:19:43.150 --> 00:19:44.280
  • So he told me something that
  • 00:19:44.280 --> 00:19:46.000
  • was really powerful.
  • 00:19:46.000 --> 00:19:46.190
  • He said, "You know what?
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  • When you get a little extra
  • 00:19:47.130 --> 00:19:48.050
  • money, never use it on things.
  • 00:19:48.240 --> 00:19:51.240
  • Use it to be a giver,
  • 00:19:51.240 --> 00:19:52.190
  • of course."
  • 00:19:52.190 --> 00:19:53.140
  • He said, "And also use it to
  • 00:19:53.140 --> 00:19:54.190
  • enhance your relationships."
  • 00:19:54.190 --> 00:19:57.160
  • So I said, "Pastor, can you
  • 00:19:57.160 --> 00:19:58.260
  • explain what do you mean
  • 00:19:58.260 --> 00:19:59.180
  • by that?"
  • 00:19:59.180 --> 00:20:00.070
  • He said, "For example,
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  • take some stress away.
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  • Get some house help.
  • 00:20:02.210 --> 00:20:04.060
  • Get someone to mow the lawn.
  • 00:20:04.060 --> 00:20:05.170
  • Take more extended vacations
  • 00:20:05.170 --> 00:20:07.210
  • with your kids.
  • 00:20:07.210 --> 00:20:09.050
  • Time away."
  • 00:20:09.050 --> 00:20:10.100
  • And so my wife and I have really
  • 00:20:10.100 --> 00:20:12.050
  • taken that to heart and so,
  • 00:20:12.050 --> 00:20:13.230
  • you know, the one area that I
  • 00:20:13.230 --> 00:20:14.240
  • unapologetically tell you that
  • 00:20:14.240 --> 00:20:16.070
  • we spend a little more than
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  • most is when we go on trips
  • 00:20:17.120 --> 00:20:18.220
  • with our kids.
  • 00:20:18.220 --> 00:20:19.120
  • I love that.
  • 00:20:19.120 --> 00:20:20.060
  • Because those are memories
  • 00:20:20.060 --> 00:20:21.060
  • we're gonna have.
  • 00:20:21.060 --> 00:20:21.260
  • I'd rather have that
  • 00:20:21.260 --> 00:20:22.200
  • than a fancier car.
  • 00:20:22.200 --> 00:20:24.100
  • I'd rather have that than
  • 00:20:24.100 --> 00:20:25.120
  • more house or nicer clothing.
  • 00:20:25.120 --> 00:20:28.090
  • And so just simple things
  • 00:20:28.090 --> 00:20:29.040
  • like that really can make
  • 00:20:29.040 --> 00:20:30.100
  • a huge impact.
  • 00:20:30.100 --> 00:20:31.150
  • And so what Rick has really
  • 00:20:31.150 --> 00:20:33.030
  • taught the world is what it
  • 00:20:33.030 --> 00:20:34.240
  • is to be a good manager.
  • 00:20:34.240 --> 00:20:35.180
  • Deuteronomy 14:23 says,
  • 00:20:35.180 --> 00:20:37.090
  • "The purpose of tithing is
  • 00:20:37.090 --> 00:20:38.040
  • to teach you to always fear
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  • the Lord your God."
  • 00:20:39.210 --> 00:20:40.290
  • See, the real issue with
  • 00:20:40.290 --> 00:20:41.230
  • tithing, giving a tenth of all
  • 00:20:41.230 --> 00:20:43.050
  • you earn, the Bible says,
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  • "Give 10% of your earnings
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  • to the Lord."
  • 00:20:45.160 --> 00:20:46.090
  • It doesn't say to give 10% of
  • 00:20:46.090 --> 00:20:48.070
  • your net, 10% of your gross.
  • 00:20:48.070 --> 00:20:50.140
  • It just says, "Of your
  • 00:20:50.140 --> 00:20:51.070
  • increase," whatever that
  • 00:20:51.070 --> 00:20:52.060
  • increase happens to be.
  • 00:20:52.060 --> 00:20:53.140
  • And so the bottom line is that
  • 00:20:53.140 --> 00:20:54.250
  • God wants us to become tithers.
  • 00:20:54.250 --> 00:20:56.120
  • This is important.
  • 00:20:56.120 --> 00:20:57.140
  • You know, we don't tithe because
  • 00:20:57.140 --> 00:20:59.010
  • the church needs the money.
  • 00:20:59.010 --> 00:21:00.080
  • We don't tithe because God
  • 00:21:00.080 --> 00:21:01.060
  • needs the money.
  • 00:21:01.060 --> 00:21:02.000
  • He doesn't need the money.
  • 00:21:02.000 --> 00:21:02.220
  • We tithe because
  • 00:21:02.220 --> 00:21:03.180
  • we need to be blessed.
  • 00:21:03.180 --> 00:21:05.090
  • And it teaches us
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  • to fear the Lord.
  • 00:21:06.120 --> 00:21:07.160
  • 2 Corinthians 9:7 says,
  • 00:21:07.160 --> 00:21:09.110
  • "You must each
  • 00:21:09.110 --> 00:21:09.260
  • make up your own mind
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  • as to how much you should give.
  • 00:21:11.080 --> 00:21:12.270
  • Don't give reluctantly or
  • 00:21:12.270 --> 00:21:13.240
  • in response to pressure
  • 00:21:13.240 --> 00:21:15.020
  • for God loves a person
  • 00:21:15.020 --> 00:21:16.010
  • who gives cheerfully.
  • 00:21:16.010 --> 00:21:17.080
  • The word cheerfully means
  • 00:21:17.080 --> 00:21:17.260
  • hilariously.
  • 00:21:17.260 --> 00:21:18.270
  • We give it, like [laughing]
  • 00:21:18.270 --> 00:21:21.200
  • That's how we're supposed
  • 00:21:21.200 --> 00:21:22.090
  • to give.
  • 00:21:22.090 --> 00:21:23.120
  • We're supposed to
  • 00:21:23.120 --> 00:21:24.010
  • give 'til it feels good,
  • 00:21:24.010 --> 00:21:24.200
  • not give 'til it hurts.
  • 00:21:24.200 --> 00:21:25.210
  • Give 'til it feels good.
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  • So I wanna encourage you
  • 00:21:27.100 --> 00:21:28.090
  • to become a cheerful giver.
  • 00:21:28.090 --> 00:21:31.050
  • And so God wants us to learn
  • 00:21:31.050 --> 00:21:32.220
  • to manage what we have
  • 00:21:32.220 --> 00:21:34.080
  • and also to be a giver.
  • 00:21:34.080 --> 00:21:35.230
  • What does this mean,
  • 00:21:35.230 --> 00:21:36.080
  • number three?
  • 00:21:36.080 --> 00:21:36.230
  • We need to learn to be
  • 00:21:36.230 --> 00:21:37.250
  • a good manager.
  • 00:21:37.250 --> 00:21:39.250
  • So if you've been keeping up
  • 00:21:39.250 --> 00:21:40.210
  • with me, number one is refuse
  • 00:21:40.210 --> 00:21:41.180
  • to let my identity be defined
  • 00:21:41.180 --> 00:21:42.170
  • by what I own.
  • 00:21:42.170 --> 00:21:43.150
  • Number two, hold everything
  • 00:21:43.150 --> 00:21:44.240
  • loosely because God owns it all.
  • 00:21:44.240 --> 00:21:47.000
  • Number three, learn to be a good
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  • manager because you're actually
  • 00:21:49.210 --> 00:21:51.000
  • managing not your resources.
  • 00:21:51.000 --> 00:21:52.240
  • You're managing God's resources.
  • 00:21:52.240 --> 00:21:54.250
  • God owns all of it.
  • 00:21:54.250 --> 00:21:56.290
  • Did you know, the research
  • 00:21:56.290 --> 00:21:57.230
  • indicates that the average
  • 00:21:57.230 --> 00:21:58.250
  • American spends 10% annually
  • 00:21:58.250 --> 00:22:00.250
  • more than they make?
  • 00:22:00.250 --> 00:22:02.160
  • That means the more you make,
  • 00:22:02.160 --> 00:22:04.120
  • the more trouble you're
  • 00:22:04.120 --> 00:22:05.130
  • getting in.
  • 00:22:05.130 --> 00:22:07.050
  • God has a better way.
  • 00:22:07.050 --> 00:22:09.190
  • He wants you to be set free.
  • 00:22:09.190 --> 00:22:10.210
  • One of the things--one of the
  • 00:22:10.210 --> 00:22:11.100
  • reasons we're teaching on this,
  • 00:22:11.100 --> 00:22:12.030
  • guys, is 'cause God wants you to
  • 00:22:12.030 --> 00:22:12.280
  • learn to be planted because when
  • 00:22:12.280 --> 00:22:14.250
  • things happen and you get hit,
  • 00:22:14.250 --> 00:22:17.030
  • you can stabilize
  • 00:22:17.030 --> 00:22:18.220
  • and take the hit.
  • 00:22:18.220 --> 00:22:19.220
  • You know, right now,
  • 00:22:19.220 --> 00:22:20.210
  • the economy's bad.
  • 00:22:20.210 --> 00:22:21.120
  • But if you've been doing what
  • 00:22:21.120 --> 00:22:22.220
  • God wants you to do with your
  • 00:22:22.220 --> 00:22:23.210
  • money, then you can take the hit
  • 00:22:23.210 --> 00:22:24.200
  • and keep standing.
  • 00:22:24.200 --> 00:22:26.070
  • But if you're just
  • 00:22:26.070 --> 00:22:27.070
  • barely making it.
  • 00:22:27.070 --> 00:22:28.140
  • You just got too much debt
  • 00:22:28.140 --> 00:22:29.100
  • compared to your income,
  • 00:22:29.100 --> 00:22:30.210
  • then one hit with the economy
  • 00:22:30.210 --> 00:22:32.170
  • and you're over.
  • 00:22:32.170 --> 00:22:34.190
  • Happens every day.
  • 00:22:34.190 --> 00:22:36.050
  • Businesses close
  • 00:22:36.050 --> 00:22:36.240
  • for this reason.
  • 00:22:36.240 --> 00:22:37.130
  • Churches close for this reason.
  • 00:22:37.130 --> 00:22:39.260
  • And so we gotta create this
  • 00:22:39.260 --> 00:22:40.230
  • thing that most of us don't like
  • 00:22:40.230 --> 00:22:41.280
  • to talk about called margin
  • 00:22:41.280 --> 00:22:43.280
  • where we spend less
  • 00:22:43.280 --> 00:22:45.050
  • than we earn.
  • 00:22:45.050 --> 00:22:46.070
  • There's a principle
  • 00:22:46.070 --> 00:22:47.080
  • I learned from my parents.
  • 00:22:47.080 --> 00:22:48.090
  • My parents learned this from
  • 00:22:48.090 --> 00:22:49.160
  • some financial gurus and I've
  • 00:22:49.160 --> 00:22:50.200
  • applied it in my life
  • 00:22:50.200 --> 00:22:52.210
  • because of them.
  • 00:22:52.210 --> 00:22:53.080
  • Here's the principle.
  • 00:22:53.080 --> 00:22:54.130
  • It's the 10-10-80 plan.
  • 00:22:54.130 --> 00:22:56.250
  • This has really changed my life
  • 00:22:56.250 --> 00:22:58.090
  • and it can change yours too.
  • 00:22:58.090 --> 00:22:59.140
  • It's so simple.
  • 00:22:59.140 --> 00:23:00.090
  • I told you last week I was gonna
  • 00:23:00.090 --> 00:23:01.270
  • tell you how you can completely
  • 00:23:01.270 --> 00:23:03.030
  • change your financial situation,
  • 00:23:03.030 --> 00:23:04.260
  • virtually overnight.
  • 00:23:04.260 --> 00:23:06.070
  • Here's how.
  • 00:23:06.070 --> 00:23:07.000
  • 10-10-80.
  • 00:23:07.000 --> 00:23:07.220
  • Give 10% to God.
  • 00:23:07.220 --> 00:23:09.200
  • That commands a blessing
  • 00:23:09.200 --> 00:23:11.190
  • based upon Deuteronomy.
  • 00:23:11.190 --> 00:23:12.170
  • It commands a blessing
  • 00:23:12.170 --> 00:23:14.020
  • on the 90%.
  • 00:23:14.020 --> 00:23:15.230
  • Did you know that?
  • 00:23:15.230 --> 00:23:16.220
  • God's commanded blessing on
  • 00:23:16.220 --> 00:23:17.270
  • your 90% is better than
  • 00:23:17.270 --> 00:23:19.060
  • your unblessed 100%.
  • 00:23:19.060 --> 00:23:21.110
  • So 10% to God.
  • 00:23:21.110 --> 00:23:22.220
  • Then 10% to savings.
  • 00:23:22.220 --> 00:23:25.030
  • Save 10% of every paycheck.
  • 00:23:25.030 --> 00:23:26.270
  • Give 10% to God.
  • 00:23:26.270 --> 00:23:27.270
  • The next 10%
  • 00:23:27.270 --> 00:23:28.210
  • goes to your own savings.
  • 00:23:28.210 --> 00:23:30.100
  • You're giving to yourself
  • 00:23:30.100 --> 00:23:30.280
  • second.
  • 00:23:30.280 --> 00:23:32.210
  • So God first, then you second.
  • 00:23:32.210 --> 00:23:33.130
  • And you live on the 80%, all
  • 00:23:33.130 --> 00:23:35.200
  • your bills, all the expenses of
  • 00:23:35.200 --> 00:23:37.010
  • everything else out of you--80%.
  • 00:23:37.010 --> 00:23:38.240
  • Some of you right now are
  • 00:23:38.240 --> 00:23:39.120
  • thinking, "Pastor,
  • 00:23:39.120 --> 00:23:40.090
  • I can't do it.
  • 00:23:40.090 --> 00:23:40.260
  • There's just no way
  • 00:23:40.260 --> 00:23:41.150
  • I could live on 80%."
  • 00:23:41.150 --> 00:23:42.190
  • But 5 years ago,
  • 00:23:42.190 --> 00:23:43.070
  • you were living on 80%.
  • 00:23:43.070 --> 00:23:45.200
  • That's where your paycheck was.
  • 00:23:45.200 --> 00:23:46.200
  • It was probably 80% about
  • 00:23:46.200 --> 00:23:47.220
  • what it is today.
  • 00:23:47.220 --> 00:23:48.190
  • So you proved
  • 00:23:48.190 --> 00:23:50.170
  • that you can do it.
  • 00:23:50.170 --> 00:23:51.090
  • We just keep upgrading
  • 00:23:51.090 --> 00:23:52.120
  • everything, right?
  • 00:23:52.120 --> 00:23:54.230
  • You stay in your house
  • 00:23:54.230 --> 00:23:55.120
  • a few more years.
  • 00:23:55.120 --> 00:23:56.150
  • Drive that car a few more years.
  • 00:23:56.150 --> 00:23:58.230
  • And you can easily do this.
  • 00:23:58.230 --> 00:24:00.110
  • It's very, very doable.
  • 00:24:00.110 --> 00:24:01.060
  • 10-10-80 really is
  • 00:24:01.060 --> 00:24:02.150
  • a game-changer.
  • 00:24:02.150 --> 00:24:04.040
  • There are two ways in which a
  • 00:24:04.040 --> 00:24:05.020
  • Christian may view his money.
  • 00:24:05.020 --> 00:24:06.240
  • Here's the two questions
  • 00:24:06.240 --> 00:24:07.260
  • we can ask.
  • 00:24:07.260 --> 00:24:08.270
  • How much of my money shall
  • 00:24:08.270 --> 00:24:10.110
  • I use for God?
  • 00:24:10.110 --> 00:24:11.140
  • Or how much of God's money
  • 00:24:11.140 --> 00:24:12.070
  • shall I use for myself?
  • 00:24:12.070 --> 00:24:14.110
  • See, money has a way of making
  • 00:24:14.110 --> 00:24:16.040
  • us only about ourselves.
  • 00:24:16.130 --> 00:24:19.130
  • That's why Jesus said,
  • 00:24:19.130 --> 00:24:20.070
  • "It's harder for a rich man
  • 00:24:20.070 --> 00:24:23.030
  • to get to heaven."
  • 00:24:23.030 --> 00:24:24.010
  • What's he really saying?
  • 00:24:24.010 --> 00:24:24.240
  • It's harder for you to think
  • 00:24:24.240 --> 00:24:26.050
  • beyond yourself that there is
  • 00:24:26.050 --> 00:24:27.130
  • a God who loves you,
  • 00:24:27.130 --> 00:24:28.130
  • that you need.
  • 00:24:28.130 --> 00:24:29.290
  • When we're smug, when
  • 00:24:29.290 --> 00:24:31.270
  • we have everything we need,
  • 00:24:31.270 --> 00:24:32.280
  • we don't look to God.
  • 00:24:32.280 --> 00:24:33.280
  • But whenever we suddenly have
  • 00:24:33.280 --> 00:24:34.290
  • a need, "Oh, Lord, I need you."
  • 00:24:34.290 --> 00:24:37.120
  • A lot of prayers happen
  • 00:24:37.120 --> 00:24:39.090
  • in bankruptcy court.
  • 00:24:39.090 --> 00:24:42.080
  • Not a lot of prayers happen in
  • 00:24:42.080 --> 00:24:43.040
  • the suites of the fancy hotels
  • 00:24:43.040 --> 00:24:45.050
  • when you got all the money
  • 00:24:45.050 --> 00:24:47.140
  • flowing.
  • 00:24:47.140 --> 00:24:48.200
  • My challenge for you is this.
  • 00:24:48.200 --> 00:24:51.060
  • If you will trust the Lord with
  • 00:24:51.060 --> 00:24:53.190
  • your finances, and be a good
  • 00:24:53.190 --> 00:24:55.270
  • steward, if you will obey God
  • 00:24:55.270 --> 00:24:58.010
  • with what you have,
  • 00:24:59.030 --> 00:25:02.050
  • there is no amount of money
  • 00:25:02.050 --> 00:25:04.010
  • God won't give you.
  • 00:25:04.010 --> 00:25:06.110
  • D'you hear that?
  • 00:25:06.110 --> 00:25:08.220
  • If you continue to obey
  • 00:25:08.220 --> 00:25:10.120
  • him with it.
  • 00:25:10.130 --> 00:25:13.130
  • But you have to be faithful to
  • 00:25:13.130 --> 00:25:14.260
  • the Lord with it by handling it
  • 00:25:14.260 --> 00:25:17.110
  • correctly, giving, and saving,
  • 00:25:17.110 --> 00:25:20.090
  • and living a disciplined
  • 00:25:20.090 --> 00:25:21.190
  • financial life.
  • 00:25:21.190 --> 00:25:23.070
  • And if you'll do those things,
  • 00:25:23.070 --> 00:25:24.170
  • or as Dave Ramsey puts it,
  • 00:25:24.170 --> 00:25:26.050
  • I love this famous quote, "If
  • 00:25:26.050 --> 00:25:27.280
  • you'll today live like no other,
  • 00:25:27.280 --> 00:25:29.200
  • then one day you'll live like
  • 00:25:29.200 --> 00:25:31.110
  • no other."
  • 00:25:31.110 --> 00:25:32.270
  • It's a great quote.
  • 00:25:33.070 --> 00:25:36.070
  • We gotta do things differently.
  • 00:25:36.070 --> 00:25:37.060
  • We gotta break the back
  • 00:25:37.060 --> 00:25:38.070
  • - Bil: Hey, thanks so much for
  • 00:25:48.100 --> 00:25:49.090
  • watching the program today.
  • 00:25:49.090 --> 00:25:50.240
  • I've got a question for you.
  • 00:25:50.240 --> 00:25:51.290
  • Have you asked Jesus Christ
  • 00:25:51.290 --> 00:25:53.090
  • to be your Lord and Savior?
  • 00:25:53.090 --> 00:25:54.240
  • Have you prayed a simple prayer
  • 00:25:54.240 --> 00:25:56.180
  • that guarantees that you will
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  • go to heaven because
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  • you know Jesus?
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  • Would you pray this prayer with
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  • me right now?
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  • You can just say this out loud.
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  • You can say, "Dear Jesus,
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  • I realize I need you.
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  • I believe you died on the cross
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  • for me to pay the price for
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  • my sins and I believe
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  • you rose again.
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  • Please come into my heart,
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  • be my Lord and be my Savior.
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  • Thank you, Jesus, for saving me.
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  • - female announcer: All of us
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  • have someone in our lives
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  • who drives us crazy.
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  • In his new DVD message,
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  • Pastor Bil teaches us how to
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  • deal with the difficult people
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  • - Bil: These are the kind of
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  • people that everyone else avoids
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  • in your office,
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  • everyone else avoids at church,
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  • everyone else avoids
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  • in your small group,
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  • everyone else avoids them
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  • at your family reunion,
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  • but instead of avoiding them
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  • we need to be like Jesus
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  • - announcer: As a thank you
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  • for your gift of any amount
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  • to Bil Cornelius Ministries,
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  • we would like to send you
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  • a copy of "You Drive Me Crazy:
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  • Dealing with Difficult People."
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  • For a gift of $40 or more, you
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  • can receive the complete series
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  • of "You Drive Me Crazy," which
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  • To request your copy of,
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  • "You Drive Me Crazy," series,
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