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Frequently Asked Questions: Why Do Bad Things Happen to Good People?

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  • - Bil Cornelius: Some people
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  • say, "I'm going through
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  • such hell, I'm going through
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  • such difficult--God, can you
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  • just come back and take us
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  • all home?"
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  • Wouldn't that be easier?
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  • Wouldn't that be
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  • the loving thing for God to do
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  • right now in the middle
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  • of your mess, right?
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  • Actually, that would not be
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  • the loving thing to do.
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  • Let me tell you why.
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  • 'Cause the moment he does that,
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  • the person that you love
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  • that you've been trying
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  • to witness to that doesn't know
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  • Jesus yet, no longer has
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  • a chance.
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  • - Bil: You are the church
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  • - Bil: Welcome.
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  • Great to have you here today!
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  • Thanks for joining us.
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  • We're continuing
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  • the series called,
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  • "Frequently Asked Questions,"
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  • you know.
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  • It's been a really fun series
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  • and we're talking
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  • about the question today.
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  • It's one of the biggest
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  • questions people have,
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  • is that why is life unfair?
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  • Why does the jerk at work get
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  • the promotion?
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  • Why does the good guy get
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  • dumped?
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  • Why does
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  • the hell-raising party animal
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  • person never have a problem
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  • and then the nun gets hit
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  • by a bus, right?
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  • And so, it's very tough
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  • to figure out because there's
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  • not a one-to-one correspondence
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  • of good or bad that happens
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  • in our lives
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  • based upon whether we're
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  • good or bad.
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  • And so this makes it difficult
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  • to understand.
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  • And so, why is it that life
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  • really is unfair at times?
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  • Let's look
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  • at our first key verse
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  • for today, John 16:33.
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  • It says, "I have told you
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  • all this so that you will have
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  • peace of heart and mind.
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  • Here on earth you will have
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  • many trials and sorrows;
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  • but cheer up,
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  • for I have overcome
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  • the world."
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  • Now, the reason why I wanna
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  • start with this is
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  • because I think many of us have
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  • this unwritten contract
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  • in our mind that we think
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  • we've signed and that God
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  • has signed too but he's not.
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  • And the unwritten contract
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  • goes like this.
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  • If I love God and if I'm
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  • a Christian, problems won't
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  • come my way.
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  • But that's
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  • just not in the Bible.
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  • In fact, actually, I would say
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  • that if you really love God
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  • and you're a Christian honoring
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  • him, problems will come
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  • your way because you love God
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  • and because you're a Christian
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  • and because you're trying
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  • to honor him.
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  • So actually, sometimes,
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  • that actually introduces
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  • problems into your lives
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  • because there's
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  • a spiritual enemy that wants
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  • to take you out
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  • because now you're a problem
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  • to him.
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  • Well, let's take it
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  • to the very beginning
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  • in Genesis chapter 1.
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  • Genesis chapter 1,
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  • God said this.
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  • "God saw all that he had made,
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  • and it was very good."
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  • The first thing you need to know
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  • is that everything God made
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  • is good.
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  • And so he did not create
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  • anything evil.
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  • He did not create
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  • a bad circumstance.
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  • God did not send something bad
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  • into your life that he created.
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  • But here's the tricky part.
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  • When God created us, he did not
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  • make you and I robots.
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  • We are people with choices.
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  • And so God gave us
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  • the scariest gift of all time,
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  • was one simple thing.
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  • He gave you and I the ability
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  • to choose.
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  • He gave you and I free choice.
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  • And when he gave
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  • you and I free will, that was
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  • the scariest gift of all.
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  • But the only way we can
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  • really love someone is
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  • if we can love them freely.
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  • Otherwise, it's not love.
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  • The only way we can ever choose
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  • God is to have the ability
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  • to choose not to follow God.
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  • The only way we can ever choose
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  • to worship him is be able
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  • to choose not to.
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  • The only way you know
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  • if your kids are good or bad is
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  • if they have a choice.
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  • You really don't know
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  • if your kids are good or bad
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  • until you've done what?
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  • Taken those keys
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  • to that newly turned 16-year-old
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  • and dropped them
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  • in their hands.
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  • And they can drive off
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  • and, at some point, do
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  • what they want.
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  • And you're not around to see it,
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  • good or bad, right?
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  • And so, in the same way God gave
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  • us free choice.
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  • It's a scary thing
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  • 'cause when he did that he knew
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  • some of us would choose,
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  • well, actually all of us would
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  • choose at some point to do
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  • something wrong also.
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  • And Adam and Eve
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  • did that, right?
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  • God said, "Hey, you got
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  • this whole garden.
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  • Everything's plush.
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  • It's beautiful.
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  • It's awesome.
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  • Adam, here's your beautiful
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  • naked wife, right?"
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  • And so Adam clearly was
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  • an idiot.
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  • He's got a naked woman
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  • in front of him and he goes
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  • and tries to find some fruit
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  • to eat.
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  • What are you thinking, dude?
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  • That's a whole 'nother issue,
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  • but Adam and Eve
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  • eventually found
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  • the forbidden fruit and Eve was
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  • tempted by the devil to eat it.
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  • She then enticed her husband
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  • to join and so they both
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  • took part in this sin
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  • and so now they brought sin
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  • into the world.
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  • Now, before you give them
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  • too hard of a time,
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  • if it would have been you or I,
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  • we'd have done the same thing.
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  • 'Cause here's the thing.
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  • Adam had the ability to do
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  • nothing but right
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  • and so did Eve.
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  • But we all know that they
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  • weren't gonna do nothing
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  • but right, right?
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  • So they had the ability to be
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  • perfect but we know they weren't
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  • going to be.
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  • Jesus, by the way, when he was
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  • born into the world,
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  • had the ability to sin,
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  • but we knew he wasn't going to.
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  • See how that works?
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  • So Adam had the ability to be
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  • perfect, but he was not
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  • going to.
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  • Jesus had the ability to be
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  • not perfect but he was
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  • not going to.
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  • And so that's
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  • kind of how that works
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  • and so, basically, Adam and Eve
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  • entered this world.
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  • They sinned and when they
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  • sinned, that created
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  • consequence.
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  • A consequence of the sin is not
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  • just the fact that God is not
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  • happy with us
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  • but also that introduced evil
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  • into the world.
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  • Now, there are two kinds of evil
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  • and here's where things get
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  • a little bit complicated.
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  • The first kind of evil is
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  • moral evil.
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  • This one's kind of easy
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  • to figure out, right?
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  • This is when we choose to do
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  • the wrong thing.
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  • This is when we lie, cheat,
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  • steal, betray someone, right?
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  • This is why there's groups
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  • called ISIS, this is why there's
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  • evil men like Adolf Hitler
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  • or this is why there are people,
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  • you know, like Gacy who killed
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  • a bunch of people,
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  • that's why there's people who do
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  • horrible things, right?
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  • Because of moral evil.
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  • Because people make choices.
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  • Romans 3:23 says,
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  • "For all have sinned and fall
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  • short of the glory of God."
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  • And so, this is how evil entered
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  • the world.
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  • Deuteronomy 11:26 says, "Today
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  • I am giving you the choice
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  • between a blessing and a curse!"
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  • This is what God says to you
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  • and me.
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  • He said "You will be blessed
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  • if you obey the commands
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  • of the Lord your God
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  • that I am giving you today.
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  • You will receive a curse
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  • if you reject the commands
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  • of the Lord your God
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  • and turn from his way."
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  • So he says, "Look, the choice
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  • is yours.
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  • You can honor me
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  • and you'll be blessed.
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  • You can not honor me
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  • and you will be cursed."
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  • This is not that different,
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  • parents, than what we do
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  • with our kids.
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  • "Okay, I need
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  • the room cleaned, right?
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  • And so you can choose,
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  • blessings or curses, right?
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  • I'm gonna come back in an hour.
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  • I need that room clean.
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  • If it's not clean, there will be
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  • curses coming your way, right?
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  • If it is clean, there will be
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  • blessings coming
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  • your way, right?"
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  • This is not really different
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  • than what God has done
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  • for you and I.
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  • Now, here's where it gets
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  • a little more complicated today.
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  • So we got moral evil but there's
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  • also natural evil.
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  • This is where life seems unfair.
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  • Romans 8:22 says, "For we know
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  • that up to the present time
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  • all of creation groans with pain
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  • like the pain of childbirth."
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  • Look at Genesis chapter 3,
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  • verse 17.
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  • Because Adam and Eve chose
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  • to sin, right, that plush garden
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  • was no longer gonna be
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  • that plush anymore.
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  • In fact, look what it says.
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  • It says, "Cursed is the ground
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  • because of you;
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  • through painful toil you will
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  • eat of it all the days
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  • of your life.
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  • It will produce thorns
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  • and thistles for you,
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  • and you will eat the plants
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  • of the field."
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  • Now, thorns and thistles
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  • were not there until Adam
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  • and Eve chose to sin.
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  • It says, "By the sweat
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  • of your brow you will eat
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  • your food until you return
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  • to the ground, since from it you
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  • were taken; for dust you are
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  • and to dust you will return."
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  • So he says, "Hey, look, before,
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  • the Garden was always perfect.
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  • The soil was just right to plant
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  • anything you wanted.
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  • It grew beautiful vegetation.
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  • It grew beautiful, you know,
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  • fruits and flowers
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  • and all kinds of stuff.
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  • But now, Adam,
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  • the ground's gonna be hard.
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  • It's not gonna be as easy
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  • as it once was.
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  • Adam and Eve
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  • in their relationship,
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  • used to be real natural,
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  • always good, always great
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  • and all of a sudden
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  • it says what?
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  • Eve, you're gonna think
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  • you need Adam more than you do.
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  • He's gonna rule you.
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  • It didn't say that
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  • until after this, right?
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  • Now, he was always to lead her
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  • but not rule her, not run her,
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  • not dominate her.
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  • And when sin enters
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  • a relationship,
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  • someone tries to dominate
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  • the other person, right?
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  • And so this is
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  • where--how we know sin has
  • 00:07:32.210 --> 00:07:33.200
  • entered the world.
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  • So we understand the moral side
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  • but the tricky part is
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  • the natural side.
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  • And so here's the thing that's
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  • crazy.
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  • Go with me here, if you will,
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  • okay?
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  • When they chose to sin, the seed
  • 00:07:40.240 --> 00:07:43.240
  • of their sin entered creation.
  • 00:07:44.170 --> 00:07:47.170
  • So now the ground that was soft
  • 00:07:47.170 --> 00:07:49.100
  • is now hard.
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  • Now the ground that was perfect
  • 00:07:50.200 --> 00:07:52.040
  • now has earthquakes.
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  • Now there's such things
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  • as hurricanes.
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  • Now there's--now when we have
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  • kids, we're not
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  • just passing down our genes
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  • that have no sin in them,
  • 00:07:59.030 --> 00:08:00.230
  • now we're passing down our genes
  • 00:08:00.230 --> 00:08:02.060
  • that have sin in them,
  • 00:08:02.060 --> 00:08:03.240
  • which means what?
  • 00:08:03.240 --> 00:08:04.220
  • Now you've got birth defects.
  • 00:08:04.220 --> 00:08:06.080
  • Now you've got cancer.
  • 00:08:06.080 --> 00:08:07.180
  • Now you've got disease.
  • 00:08:07.180 --> 00:08:09.020
  • Now you have
  • 00:08:09.020 --> 00:08:09.170
  • debilitating problems.
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  • Does this make sense, guys?
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  • And so that gets passed down
  • 00:08:12.150 --> 00:08:13.200
  • from generation to generations.
  • 00:08:13.200 --> 00:08:15.100
  • And this is why someone
  • 00:08:15.100 --> 00:08:16.070
  • who seemingly is all healthy,
  • 00:08:16.070 --> 00:08:18.010
  • goes to gym every day,
  • 00:08:18.010 --> 00:08:19.040
  • eats salads every day for lunch
  • 00:08:19.040 --> 00:08:20.080
  • and they get cancer?
  • 00:08:20.080 --> 00:08:22.000
  • What?
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  • This doesn't make sense.
  • 00:08:22.210 --> 00:08:24.050
  • This seems unfair,
  • 00:08:24.050 --> 00:08:26.180
  • but, again, if you're
  • 00:08:26.180 --> 00:08:27.210
  • just looking in that one person
  • 00:08:27.210 --> 00:08:28.220
  • and the way they live
  • 00:08:28.220 --> 00:08:29.090
  • in that one moment in a vacuum,
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  • okay, I'll give you
  • 00:08:31.010 --> 00:08:31.170
  • the unfairness.
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  • But if you look at it
  • 00:08:32.260 --> 00:08:33.230
  • from the world perspective
  • 00:08:33.230 --> 00:08:34.190
  • of the fact that sin enters
  • 00:08:34.190 --> 00:08:35.170
  • the world and entered
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  • into our genes and then entered
  • 00:08:36.150 --> 00:08:37.060
  • into all of creation,
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  • then it's a crapshoot, guys.
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  • It really is.
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  • And there's a lot of bad stuff
  • 00:08:44.270 --> 00:08:45.230
  • that happens in the world today
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  • and if you're like me, I look
  • 00:08:46.190 --> 00:08:47.140
  • at all the bad and the evil
  • 00:08:47.140 --> 00:08:48.270
  • in the world, I'm, like,
  • 00:08:48.270 --> 00:08:49.180
  • "Man, Lord, this is just bad."
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  • Now, some of the evil we
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  • can stop.
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  • I mean, if you're saying,
  • 00:08:52.130 --> 00:08:53.070
  • "Man, God, if you're
  • 00:08:53.070 --> 00:08:54.040
  • such a God of love
  • 00:08:54.040 --> 00:08:54.190
  • then why is ISIS there?"
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  • I think instead of us saying
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  • to God, "God, why is ISIS
  • 00:08:57.130 --> 00:08:58.280
  • killing people," I think God
  • 00:08:58.280 --> 00:09:00.040
  • would look back at us and say,
  • 00:09:00.040 --> 00:09:00.290
  • "Yeah, why are you letting that
  • 00:09:00.290 --> 00:09:01.250
  • happen?"
  • 00:09:01.250 --> 00:09:04.020
  • I really believe that and I'm
  • 00:09:04.020 --> 00:09:04.250
  • gonna set aside my opinions
  • 00:09:04.250 --> 00:09:05.210
  • on that for now, but the reality
  • 00:09:05.210 --> 00:09:08.090
  • is that there are some evils
  • 00:09:08.090 --> 00:09:09.270
  • we can do something about,
  • 00:09:09.270 --> 00:09:11.090
  • that we can stop, right?
  • 00:09:11.090 --> 00:09:13.030
  • But then there's also some evils
  • 00:09:13.030 --> 00:09:14.240
  • that we just--we can't stop.
  • 00:09:14.240 --> 00:09:17.010
  • And I've discovered, and you've
  • 00:09:17.010 --> 00:09:18.260
  • probably discovered this
  • 00:09:18.260 --> 00:09:19.220
  • already too that there's--
  • 00:09:19.220 --> 00:09:20.250
  • no one's immune to this.
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  • You can't be rich
  • 00:09:22.160 --> 00:09:23.260
  • enough to avoid disease.
  • 00:09:23.260 --> 00:09:25.270
  • Life isn't fair to everybody.
  • 00:09:25.270 --> 00:09:28.020
  • None of us have it
  • 00:09:28.020 --> 00:09:29.120
  • perfectly fair all the time.
  • 00:09:29.120 --> 00:09:32.020
  • And so, moral evil is reality
  • 00:09:32.020 --> 00:09:33.280
  • and so is natural evil.
  • 00:09:33.280 --> 00:09:36.030
  • Look at 2 Corinthians 7,
  • 00:09:36.030 --> 00:09:37.070
  • verse 10, "For God sometimes
  • 00:09:37.070 --> 00:09:39.050
  • uses sorrow in our lives
  • 00:09:39.050 --> 00:09:40.110
  • to help us turn away from sin
  • 00:09:40.110 --> 00:09:41.210
  • and seek eternal life.
  • 00:09:41.210 --> 00:09:42.230
  • We should never regret
  • 00:09:42.230 --> 00:09:43.220
  • his sending it."
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  • Now, he sends sorrow,
  • 00:09:45.000 --> 00:09:47.030
  • which means that's an emotion.
  • 00:09:47.030 --> 00:09:48.080
  • He doesn't send the evil
  • 00:09:48.080 --> 00:09:49.020
  • that may have caused it.
  • 00:09:49.020 --> 00:09:50.150
  • But he knows since we live
  • 00:09:50.150 --> 00:09:51.130
  • in an evil world,
  • 00:09:51.130 --> 00:09:52.090
  • it's going to happen.
  • 00:09:52.090 --> 00:09:52.280
  • So here's the good news
  • 00:09:52.280 --> 00:09:54.150
  • about your bad situation.
  • 00:09:54.150 --> 00:09:56.230
  • The good news
  • 00:09:56.230 --> 00:09:57.250
  • about your bad news is it leads
  • 00:09:57.250 --> 00:09:59.200
  • you to look to the good news
  • 00:09:59.200 --> 00:10:01.040
  • So the truth is, is most of us
  • 00:10:03.150 --> 00:10:04.170
  • would not be Christians today
  • 00:10:04.170 --> 00:10:05.190
  • if it was not for the fact
  • 00:10:05.190 --> 00:10:06.190
  • that things went bad
  • 00:10:06.190 --> 00:10:07.150
  • in our lives and made us
  • 00:10:07.150 --> 00:10:08.140
  • call out to God.
  • 00:10:08.140 --> 00:10:10.210
  • Most of us came to Jesus
  • 00:10:10.210 --> 00:10:11.230
  • because we were,
  • 00:10:11.230 --> 00:10:12.150
  • like, "Man, life is not working
  • 00:10:12.150 --> 00:10:14.100
  • for me very well.
  • 00:10:14.100 --> 00:10:15.200
  • Things are not going good.
  • 00:10:15.200 --> 00:10:16.290
  • My life is crumbling.
  • 00:10:16.290 --> 00:10:17.280
  • I need something else,"
  • 00:10:17.280 --> 00:10:19.130
  • and so we show up at church,
  • 00:10:19.130 --> 00:10:20.280
  • hoping there's something more
  • 00:10:20.280 --> 00:10:22.070
  • beyond us and then we discover
  • 00:10:22.070 --> 00:10:23.090
  • there is.
  • 00:10:23.090 --> 00:10:24.240
  • And that's how most of us found
  • 00:10:24.240 --> 00:10:25.160
  • Christ, is because of bad things
  • 00:10:25.160 --> 00:10:28.060
  • in our lives.
  • 00:10:28.060 --> 00:10:29.100
  • This verse helps me a lot,
  • 00:10:29.100 --> 00:10:30.180
  • Romans 8:28.
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  • I hope this helps you too.
  • 00:10:31.200 --> 00:10:33.210
  • "And we know that in all things
  • 00:10:33.210 --> 00:10:34.100
  • God works for the good
  • 00:10:34.100 --> 00:10:35.110
  • of those who love him,
  • 00:10:35.110 --> 00:10:36.120
  • who have been called
  • 00:10:36.120 --> 00:10:37.080
  • according to his purpose."
  • 00:10:37.080 --> 00:10:38.270
  • So God even uses some bad things
  • 00:10:38.270 --> 00:10:40.190
  • in our lives to get
  • 00:10:40.190 --> 00:10:41.220
  • his purpose done.
  • 00:10:41.220 --> 00:10:42.160
  • For example, there's
  • 00:10:42.160 --> 00:10:43.160
  • probably someone you
  • 00:10:43.160 --> 00:10:44.140
  • really thought you were
  • 00:10:44.140 --> 00:10:45.110
  • in love with and was the person
  • 00:10:45.110 --> 00:10:46.190
  • for you and then they broke up
  • 00:10:46.190 --> 00:10:47.190
  • with you.
  • 00:10:47.190 --> 00:10:48.070
  • But if they wouldn't have,
  • 00:10:48.070 --> 00:10:48.230
  • you wouldn't be
  • 00:10:48.230 --> 00:10:49.080
  • with your spouse now.
  • 00:10:49.080 --> 00:10:51.130
  • So the reality is,
  • 00:10:51.130 --> 00:10:52.040
  • is that if they would have been
  • 00:10:52.040 --> 00:10:53.000
  • faithful or if they would have
  • 00:10:53.000 --> 00:10:54.030
  • been nice or if they wouldn't
  • 00:10:54.030 --> 00:10:55.070
  • have betrayed you,
  • 00:10:55.070 --> 00:10:56.030
  • if they wouldn't have broke up
  • 00:10:56.030 --> 00:10:56.250
  • with you, you wouldn't be with
  • 00:10:56.250 --> 00:10:57.210
  • who you are now.
  • 00:10:57.210 --> 00:10:59.150
  • Does that make sense?
  • 00:10:59.150 --> 00:11:01.180
  • Sometimes it's easy to see
  • 00:11:01.180 --> 00:11:02.110
  • God's protection if you missed
  • 00:11:02.110 --> 00:11:03.170
  • a flight and you found out later
  • 00:11:03.170 --> 00:11:05.010
  • the plane went down.
  • 00:11:05.010 --> 00:11:06.100
  • "Oh, wow, thank you,
  • 00:11:06.100 --> 00:11:07.030
  • Lord," right?
  • 00:11:07.030 --> 00:11:08.080
  • But most of us don't get to see
  • 00:11:08.080 --> 00:11:09.200
  • the other side of that.
  • 00:11:09.200 --> 00:11:11.040
  • We just see that something
  • 00:11:11.040 --> 00:11:12.020
  • didn't work out but you
  • 00:11:12.020 --> 00:11:12.220
  • don't know what God protected
  • 00:11:12.220 --> 00:11:13.100
  • you from.
  • 00:11:13.100 --> 00:11:15.000
  • I love
  • 00:11:15.000 --> 00:11:15.150
  • what Pastor Rick Warren says.
  • 00:11:15.150 --> 00:11:17.020
  • Maybe you're in the middle
  • 00:11:17.020 --> 00:11:17.270
  • of crisis.
  • 00:11:17.270 --> 00:11:18.120
  • He says, "When people ask me
  • 00:11:18.120 --> 00:11:19.220
  • in anger and frustration,
  • 00:11:19.220 --> 00:11:20.200
  • 'Where is God in all of this?'"
  • 00:11:20.200 --> 00:11:22.140
  • Whenever they're going
  • 00:11:22.140 --> 00:11:22.290
  • through something.
  • 00:11:22.290 --> 00:11:23.180
  • And he always smiles and says,
  • 00:11:23.180 --> 00:11:24.090
  • "In the Christians
  • 00:11:24.090 --> 00:11:25.060
  • all around you, helping you."
  • 00:11:25.060 --> 00:11:27.280
  • That's where God is
  • 00:11:27.280 --> 00:11:28.140
  • in all of this.
  • 00:11:28.140 --> 00:11:29.250
  • So you can trust that God
  • 00:11:29.250 --> 00:11:30.180
  • really is there,
  • 00:11:30.180 --> 00:11:31.140
  • even when things don't
  • 00:11:31.140 --> 00:11:32.250
  • seem to make sense.
  • 00:11:32.250 --> 00:11:35.120
  • Joseph in the Bible was betrayed
  • 00:11:35.120 --> 00:11:37.060
  • by his brothers
  • 00:11:37.060 --> 00:11:38.140
  • for the only reason he was
  • 00:11:38.140 --> 00:11:39.080
  • betrayed is 'cause his daddy
  • 00:11:39.080 --> 00:11:40.080
  • liked him more and that's
  • 00:11:40.080 --> 00:11:41.220
  • not really fair that his daddy
  • 00:11:41.220 --> 00:11:42.250
  • liked him more but sometimes
  • 00:11:42.250 --> 00:11:43.230
  • you think, "Oh, it must be nice
  • 00:11:43.230 --> 00:11:44.180
  • 'cause his daddy liked him
  • 00:11:44.180 --> 00:11:45.150
  • more," but actually, I think
  • 00:11:45.150 --> 00:11:46.140
  • that was probably worse
  • 00:11:46.140 --> 00:11:47.090
  • on him than better
  • 00:11:47.090 --> 00:11:48.230
  • 'cause his brothers hated him
  • 00:11:48.230 --> 00:11:49.240
  • for it, right?
  • 00:11:49.240 --> 00:11:51.010
  • And so then what happens?
  • 00:11:51.010 --> 00:11:52.260
  • His brothers betrayed him
  • 00:11:52.260 --> 00:11:54.110
  • and sold him into slavery.
  • 00:11:54.110 --> 00:11:55.240
  • I mean, you think you had
  • 00:11:55.240 --> 00:11:56.110
  • sibling rivalry.
  • 00:11:56.110 --> 00:11:57.120
  • Can you imagine your sibling
  • 00:11:57.120 --> 00:11:58.090
  • selling you to someone else?
  • 00:11:58.090 --> 00:12:01.010
  • Like, that's a problem.
  • 00:12:01.010 --> 00:12:02.240
  • So 30 years later, now he's
  • 00:12:02.240 --> 00:12:04.160
  • an adult and he's in Egypt
  • 00:12:04.160 --> 00:12:06.080
  • where he was sold into slavery
  • 00:12:06.080 --> 00:12:07.190
  • and now he's become a free man
  • 00:12:07.190 --> 00:12:09.040
  • and he's now leading
  • 00:12:09.040 --> 00:12:10.010
  • all of Egypt and he's--
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  • literally saves all their lives
  • 00:12:10.290 --> 00:12:12.050
  • including his brothers
  • 00:12:12.050 --> 00:12:12.270
  • 'cause there was
  • 00:12:12.270 --> 00:12:13.210
  • a massive famine.
  • 00:12:13.210 --> 00:12:14.190
  • His brothers come to him
  • 00:12:14.190 --> 00:12:15.140
  • to apologize.
  • 00:12:15.140 --> 00:12:16.040
  • "Hey, we're really sorry
  • 00:12:16.040 --> 00:12:16.200
  • about selling you into slavery."
  • 00:12:16.200 --> 00:12:18.110
  • Like, what do you think he's
  • 00:12:18.110 --> 00:12:18.280
  • gonna say, like, "Oh,
  • 00:12:18.280 --> 00:12:19.150
  • no problem, we're good."
  • 00:12:19.150 --> 00:12:20.170
  • Like, that's
  • 00:12:20.170 --> 00:12:21.020
  • a pretty big thing, right?
  • 00:12:21.020 --> 00:12:23.020
  • What does Joseph say?
  • 00:12:23.020 --> 00:12:23.290
  • Look at the wisdom in this.
  • 00:12:23.290 --> 00:12:24.290
  • Genesis 50, verse 20.
  • 00:12:24.290 --> 00:12:26.020
  • He said, "You intended to harm
  • 00:12:26.020 --> 00:12:27.000
  • me, but God intended it for good
  • 00:12:27.000 --> 00:12:29.270
  • to accomplish what is now
  • 00:12:29.270 --> 00:12:30.260
  • being done, the saving
  • 00:12:30.260 --> 00:12:31.240
  • of many lives."
  • 00:12:31.240 --> 00:12:33.230
  • So the world will hurt you
  • 00:12:33.230 --> 00:12:35.180
  • and harm you and people
  • 00:12:35.180 --> 00:12:36.240
  • will hurt you and harm you,
  • 00:12:36.240 --> 00:12:37.290
  • but God will even use that harm
  • 00:12:37.290 --> 00:12:40.160
  • to get you where you're
  • 00:12:40.160 --> 00:12:41.080
  • supposed to be.
  • 00:12:41.080 --> 00:12:42.170
  • The year was 1996.
  • 00:12:42.170 --> 00:12:44.210
  • I was in seminary.
  • 00:12:44.210 --> 00:12:45.080
  • I was finishing up school.
  • 00:12:45.080 --> 00:12:47.020
  • And my wife was working
  • 00:12:47.020 --> 00:12:48.040
  • as a teacher and she,
  • 00:12:48.040 --> 00:12:49.220
  • like, had the baby bug bad.
  • 00:12:49.220 --> 00:12:52.120
  • And you guys know
  • 00:12:52.120 --> 00:12:52.270
  • what I'm talking about
  • 00:12:52.270 --> 00:12:53.120
  • if you're married.
  • 00:12:53.120 --> 00:12:53.270
  • The baby bug is,
  • 00:12:53.270 --> 00:12:54.160
  • like, a very real deal.
  • 00:12:54.160 --> 00:12:55.150
  • She wanted a kid now, right?
  • 00:12:55.150 --> 00:12:57.050
  • Which I was all for the process.
  • 00:12:57.050 --> 00:12:58.070
  • That was all great.
  • 00:12:58.070 --> 00:12:59.080
  • I was all great with that.
  • 00:12:59.080 --> 00:13:01.200
  • But eventually, we got pregnant
  • 00:13:01.200 --> 00:13:02.240
  • and one day,
  • 00:13:02.240 --> 00:13:04.020
  • there was a problem.
  • 00:13:04.020 --> 00:13:05.120
  • She called me from work.
  • 00:13:05.120 --> 00:13:06.030
  • She said, "Honey, I need you
  • 00:13:06.030 --> 00:13:06.200
  • to get home.
  • 00:13:06.200 --> 00:13:07.060
  • I'm--I don't know what's
  • 00:13:07.060 --> 00:13:07.260
  • going on."
  • 00:13:07.260 --> 00:13:08.110
  • And so she was spotting.
  • 00:13:08.110 --> 00:13:09.230
  • And some of you know
  • 00:13:09.230 --> 00:13:10.180
  • what this leads to, you know,
  • 00:13:10.180 --> 00:13:12.220
  • and we didn't understand
  • 00:13:12.220 --> 00:13:14.010
  • so we were just told to go
  • 00:13:14.010 --> 00:13:15.180
  • to the doctor, you know,
  • 00:13:15.180 --> 00:13:16.070
  • and they ran some tests
  • 00:13:16.070 --> 00:13:17.030
  • and we went in and the doctor
  • 00:13:17.030 --> 00:13:18.180
  • was unavailable
  • 00:13:18.180 --> 00:13:19.030
  • so it was just this other person
  • 00:13:19.030 --> 00:13:20.120
  • that was running the tests
  • 00:13:20.120 --> 00:13:21.020
  • and they're rubbing jelly
  • 00:13:21.020 --> 00:13:22.050
  • all over her belly and they
  • 00:13:22.050 --> 00:13:23.280
  • start to do little tests
  • 00:13:23.280 --> 00:13:25.030
  • and they're trying to find
  • 00:13:25.030 --> 00:13:25.290
  • the heartbeat and we're
  • 00:13:25.290 --> 00:13:27.210
  • in this room and this girl
  • 00:13:27.210 --> 00:13:29.190
  • just keeps looking and we said,
  • 00:13:29.190 --> 00:13:31.090
  • "Okay, did you find
  • 00:13:31.090 --> 00:13:31.290
  • the heartbeat yet?"
  • 00:13:31.290 --> 00:13:32.140
  • She's, like, "Give me a second,
  • 00:13:32.140 --> 00:13:33.030
  • give me a second."
  • 00:13:33.030 --> 00:13:33.190
  • She's looking around
  • 00:13:33.190 --> 00:13:34.100
  • and, "What's up?
  • 00:13:34.100 --> 00:13:35.140
  • Did you find it yet?"
  • 00:13:35.140 --> 00:13:36.000
  • And she starts to put
  • 00:13:36.000 --> 00:13:37.070
  • her equipment down.
  • 00:13:37.070 --> 00:13:37.220
  • We said, "Whoa, whoa, you didn't
  • 00:13:37.220 --> 00:13:38.110
  • tell us what's going on.
  • 00:13:38.110 --> 00:13:38.280
  • What's happened?"
  • 00:13:38.280 --> 00:13:39.250
  • She goes, "You need to go see
  • 00:13:39.250 --> 00:13:40.130
  • your doctor right now."
  • 00:13:40.130 --> 00:13:41.030
  • We're, like, "No, no, no, no,
  • 00:13:41.030 --> 00:13:41.290
  • no, you need to tell me what's
  • 00:13:41.290 --> 00:13:42.170
  • going on."
  • 00:13:42.170 --> 00:13:43.090
  • And she just hung her head
  • 00:13:43.090 --> 00:13:43.280
  • and said, "I'm sorry."
  • 00:13:43.280 --> 00:13:44.190
  • I said, "Check it again,
  • 00:13:44.190 --> 00:13:46.200
  • one more time."
  • 00:13:46.200 --> 00:13:48.090
  • And she did.
  • 00:13:48.090 --> 00:13:50.240
  • She said, "I'm really sorry.
  • 00:13:50.240 --> 00:13:53.000
  • There's no heartbeat."
  • 00:13:53.000 --> 00:13:55.250
  • So now my wife's crying.
  • 00:13:55.250 --> 00:13:57.200
  • And I'm mad.
  • 00:13:57.200 --> 00:13:59.060
  • I'm not crying, I'm angry.
  • 00:13:59.060 --> 00:14:01.130
  • So I'm driving home.
  • 00:14:01.160 --> 00:14:04.160
  • And we go the next day
  • 00:14:04.160 --> 00:14:05.100
  • to the doctor and then we get
  • 00:14:05.100 --> 00:14:07.080
  • to experience
  • 00:14:07.080 --> 00:14:07.250
  • this wonderful thing
  • 00:14:07.250 --> 00:14:08.130
  • where they get to take
  • 00:14:08.130 --> 00:14:09.010
  • a dead baby out of you.
  • 00:14:09.090 --> 00:14:12.090
  • And so she's bawling
  • 00:14:12.090 --> 00:14:13.210
  • her head off.
  • 00:14:13.210 --> 00:14:14.120
  • She's on this gurney and they're
  • 00:14:14.120 --> 00:14:15.100
  • dragging her in.
  • 00:14:15.100 --> 00:14:17.010
  • And I'm helpless to help her.
  • 00:14:17.010 --> 00:14:18.010
  • There's nothing I can do.
  • 00:14:18.010 --> 00:14:20.170
  • Surgery goes on, fine, and we go
  • 00:14:20.170 --> 00:14:22.230
  • back home.
  • 00:14:22.230 --> 00:14:24.290
  • And then she's crying
  • 00:14:24.290 --> 00:14:25.180
  • throughout the day.
  • 00:14:25.180 --> 00:14:26.070
  • I gather my stuff 'cause I've
  • 00:14:26.070 --> 00:14:28.020
  • gotta go back to school.
  • 00:14:28.020 --> 00:14:29.290
  • And as I'm driving to seminary,
  • 00:14:29.290 --> 00:14:30.230
  • I go to seminary, I get to hear
  • 00:14:30.230 --> 00:14:31.200
  • the professor talk
  • 00:14:31.200 --> 00:14:32.150
  • about how God's in control
  • 00:14:32.150 --> 00:14:33.130
  • and the God of love
  • 00:14:33.130 --> 00:14:34.070
  • and I'm, like, "Oh yeah,
  • 00:14:34.070 --> 00:14:35.180
  • right, sure.
  • 00:14:35.180 --> 00:14:36.140
  • Sure, God's in control."
  • 00:14:36.290 --> 00:14:39.290
  • And I had this crisis of faith,
  • 00:14:39.290 --> 00:14:40.260
  • driving home from seminary.
  • 00:14:40.260 --> 00:14:42.070
  • I remember pulled the car over.
  • 00:14:42.070 --> 00:14:45.010
  • I remember just yelling to God.
  • 00:14:45.010 --> 00:14:46.110
  • I said, "God, this is
  • 00:14:46.110 --> 00:14:47.210
  • so not right.
  • 00:14:47.210 --> 00:14:49.150
  • All my friends graduated
  • 00:14:49.150 --> 00:14:50.150
  • college.
  • 00:14:50.150 --> 00:14:51.070
  • Already making money.
  • 00:14:51.070 --> 00:14:52.090
  • I'm still broke, I'm in college.
  • 00:14:52.090 --> 00:14:54.150
  • I'm going to seminary for you
  • 00:14:54.150 --> 00:14:56.130
  • and I'm gonna go start a church
  • 00:14:56.130 --> 00:14:57.120
  • which means I'm gonna be broke
  • 00:14:57.120 --> 00:14:58.170
  • even longer and I'm trying
  • 00:14:58.170 --> 00:14:59.100
  • to honor you and I'm trying
  • 00:14:59.100 --> 00:15:00.090
  • to give my life for you
  • 00:15:00.090 --> 00:15:01.080
  • and all we want is a baby
  • 00:15:01.080 --> 00:15:02.230
  • and you let this happen to me.
  • 00:15:02.230 --> 00:15:04.040
  • How can you let this happen?
  • 00:15:05.040 --> 00:15:08.040
  • If you're such a God of love,
  • 00:15:08.040 --> 00:15:10.160
  • why is my wife crying?
  • 00:15:11.100 --> 00:15:14.100
  • Where were you when we lost
  • 00:15:14.100 --> 00:15:16.210
  • our child?
  • 00:15:16.210 --> 00:15:18.020
  • Where were you?"
  • 00:15:20.020 --> 00:15:23.020
  • And in that moment, I sensed
  • 00:15:23.020 --> 00:15:23.250
  • the Spirit of God speak to me
  • 00:15:23.250 --> 00:15:26.220
  • and say, "Well, I was
  • 00:15:26.220 --> 00:15:27.120
  • in the same place I was
  • 00:15:27.120 --> 00:15:28.210
  • when I sent my child to die
  • 00:15:28.210 --> 00:15:31.100
  • for you."
  • 00:15:32.060 --> 00:15:35.060
  • Life is unfair.
  • 00:15:35.060 --> 00:15:37.190
  • But God is still good.
  • 00:15:39.100 --> 00:15:42.100
  • You can trust him.
  • 00:15:44.150 --> 00:15:47.150
  • 2 Corinthians 1:4 really helped
  • 00:15:48.220 --> 00:15:51.220
  • me through that time.
  • 00:15:51.220 --> 00:15:54.060
  • It says, "God helps us
  • 00:15:54.060 --> 00:15:54.260
  • in our troubles, so we are able
  • 00:15:54.260 --> 00:15:57.030
  • to help others who have
  • 00:15:57.030 --> 00:15:58.160
  • all kinds of troubles, using
  • 00:15:58.160 --> 00:16:00.020
  • the same help that we ourselves
  • 00:16:00.020 --> 00:16:01.050
  • have received from God."
  • 00:16:01.050 --> 00:16:03.250
  • What I didn't know was
  • 00:16:03.250 --> 00:16:04.290
  • how many couples I would end up
  • 00:16:04.290 --> 00:16:06.260
  • ministering to over decades
  • 00:16:07.120 --> 00:16:10.120
  • who have faced,
  • 00:16:10.120 --> 00:16:10.280
  • or maybe are facing right now,
  • 00:16:10.280 --> 00:16:12.190
  • the same thing.
  • 00:16:12.190 --> 00:16:14.230
  • In the same way,
  • 00:16:14.230 --> 00:16:15.130
  • I will tell you this.
  • 00:16:15.130 --> 00:16:15.280
  • You know
  • 00:16:15.280 --> 00:16:16.140
  • the best drug counselors I know,
  • 00:16:16.140 --> 00:16:18.170
  • guess what they used to do?
  • 00:16:18.170 --> 00:16:20.170
  • Drugs.
  • 00:16:20.170 --> 00:16:22.280
  • The good news
  • 00:16:22.280 --> 00:16:24.030
  • about your current misery is it
  • 00:16:24.030 --> 00:16:26.000
  • will become your future ministry
  • 00:16:26.210 --> 00:16:29.210
  • as you'll be able to help people
  • 00:16:29.210 --> 00:16:31.190
  • because of the help you yourself
  • 00:16:31.190 --> 00:16:33.090
  • have received.
  • 00:16:33.090 --> 00:16:33.250
  • Now, the good news about that
  • 00:16:33.250 --> 00:16:34.200
  • also means that you're
  • 00:16:34.200 --> 00:16:35.110
  • gonna overcome
  • 00:16:35.110 --> 00:16:35.280
  • whatever you're dealing with.
  • 00:16:35.280 --> 00:16:37.270
  • So that you can help
  • 00:16:37.270 --> 00:16:39.290
  • someone else overcome
  • 00:16:39.290 --> 00:16:40.280
  • the very same thing.
  • 00:16:41.070 --> 00:16:44.070
  • Number two, would you
  • 00:16:44.070 --> 00:16:44.220
  • write this down?
  • 00:16:44.220 --> 00:16:46.180
  • "Bad things are still bad,
  • 00:16:46.180 --> 00:16:48.090
  • but God can use them
  • 00:16:48.090 --> 00:16:49.100
  • to accomplish
  • 00:16:49.100 --> 00:16:49.280
  • his good purposes."
  • 00:16:49.280 --> 00:16:52.130
  • Doesn't change the fact
  • 00:16:52.130 --> 00:16:53.020
  • that bad things are bad.
  • 00:16:53.020 --> 00:16:54.260
  • But God will use those
  • 00:16:54.260 --> 00:16:55.260
  • to accomplish his good
  • 00:16:55.260 --> 00:16:57.260
  • purposes in your life.
  • 00:16:57.260 --> 00:16:59.270
  • What I'm trying to tell you
  • 00:16:59.270 --> 00:17:00.160
  • is that God never wastes a hurt.
  • 00:17:00.160 --> 00:17:03.100
  • He recycles the pain you have
  • 00:17:03.100 --> 00:17:05.010
  • so you can help others with it.
  • 00:17:05.010 --> 00:17:07.280
  • And you're able to help
  • 00:17:07.280 --> 00:17:08.130
  • those who've gone through
  • 00:17:08.130 --> 00:17:09.270
  • difficulties.
  • 00:17:09.270 --> 00:17:10.170
  • You know, I've been betrayed
  • 00:17:10.170 --> 00:17:11.040
  • and that betrayal has helped me
  • 00:17:11.040 --> 00:17:12.100
  • help you through your betrayal.
  • 00:17:12.100 --> 00:17:15.060
  • I've been hurt and lied about
  • 00:17:15.060 --> 00:17:16.140
  • unfairly so that you can, what?
  • 00:17:16.140 --> 00:17:18.290
  • Receive help when you're hurt
  • 00:17:18.290 --> 00:17:20.180
  • and lied about unfairly
  • 00:17:20.180 --> 00:17:22.140
  • from a pastor who gets it.
  • 00:17:22.140 --> 00:17:25.030
  • Does that make sense?
  • 00:17:25.030 --> 00:17:26.190
  • I mean, how do you think you can
  • 00:17:26.190 --> 00:17:27.130
  • help your teenagers
  • 00:17:27.130 --> 00:17:28.040
  • through their awkward years?
  • 00:17:28.040 --> 00:17:28.260
  • 'Cause you went
  • 00:17:28.260 --> 00:17:29.110
  • through 'em, right?
  • 00:17:29.110 --> 00:17:31.110
  • That's how we can help 'em.
  • 00:17:31.110 --> 00:17:32.080
  • They don't think we can
  • 00:17:32.080 --> 00:17:33.060
  • And so the truth is, is you're
  • 00:17:35.280 --> 00:17:36.250
  • able to use that pain
  • 00:17:36.250 --> 00:17:38.150
  • and that difficulty that you
  • 00:17:38.150 --> 00:17:39.180
  • yourselves have
  • 00:17:39.180 --> 00:17:40.280
  • also gone through.
  • 00:17:40.280 --> 00:17:42.260
  • Jesus is who Jesus is
  • 00:17:42.260 --> 00:17:44.130
  • because of the cross.
  • 00:17:44.140 --> 00:17:47.140
  • In the same way, you and I
  • 00:17:47.140 --> 00:17:48.160
  • become who we are and we become
  • 00:17:48.160 --> 00:17:50.210
  • more like Christ
  • 00:17:50.210 --> 00:17:51.190
  • because of the crosses
  • 00:17:51.190 --> 00:17:52.280
  • that we bear,
  • 00:17:52.280 --> 00:17:54.250
  • because of the pain
  • 00:17:54.250 --> 00:17:55.140
  • and difficulties in our lives.
  • 00:17:56.030 --> 00:17:59.030
  • Life is hard, but God is good
  • 00:17:59.030 --> 00:18:02.020
  • and he really can be trusted.
  • 00:18:02.190 --> 00:18:05.190
  • 1 Corinthians 13:12, I think
  • 00:18:05.190 --> 00:18:08.070
  • this can really help you
  • 00:18:08.070 --> 00:18:08.290
  • 'cause it helps me to know this.
  • 00:18:08.290 --> 00:18:10.290
  • It says, "In the same way,
  • 00:18:10.290 --> 00:18:11.290
  • we can see and understand
  • 00:18:11.290 --> 00:18:12.290
  • only a little about God now,
  • 00:18:12.290 --> 00:18:14.210
  • as if we were peering
  • 00:18:14.210 --> 00:18:15.180
  • at his reflection
  • 00:18:15.180 --> 00:18:16.150
  • in a poor mirror; but someday we
  • 00:18:16.150 --> 00:18:18.240
  • are going to see him
  • 00:18:18.240 --> 00:18:19.290
  • in his completeness,
  • 00:18:19.290 --> 00:18:20.240
  • face-to-face.
  • 00:18:20.240 --> 00:18:22.080
  • Now all that I know is hazy
  • 00:18:22.080 --> 00:18:23.200
  • and blurred, but then I will see
  • 00:18:23.200 --> 00:18:25.070
  • everything clearly,
  • 00:18:25.070 --> 00:18:26.190
  • just as clearly as God sees
  • 00:18:26.190 --> 00:18:28.060
  • into my heart right now."
  • 00:18:28.060 --> 00:18:31.040
  • The truth is if you're looking
  • 00:18:31.040 --> 00:18:32.100
  • to fully understand why you're
  • 00:18:32.100 --> 00:18:33.270
  • going through what you're
  • 00:18:33.270 --> 00:18:34.290
  • going through right now,
  • 00:18:34.290 --> 00:18:35.260
  • you're probably not going
  • 00:18:35.260 --> 00:18:36.260
  • to understand it completely
  • 00:18:36.260 --> 00:18:38.050
  • on this side of eternity.
  • 00:18:38.050 --> 00:18:40.290
  • We all need to have in our minds
  • 00:18:40.290 --> 00:18:42.150
  • a file that we file
  • 00:18:42.150 --> 00:18:44.200
  • away the "why" questions
  • 00:18:44.200 --> 00:18:46.080
  • in, not because we're not gonna
  • 00:18:46.080 --> 00:18:47.130
  • get them answered but we
  • 00:18:47.130 --> 00:18:48.080
  • just may not get them
  • 00:18:48.080 --> 00:18:49.010
  • answered now.
  • 00:18:49.010 --> 00:18:51.020
  • But when we see God face
  • 00:18:51.020 --> 00:18:52.080
  • to face, not only are we gonna
  • 00:18:52.080 --> 00:18:53.090
  • see who he is in all his glory,
  • 00:18:53.090 --> 00:18:55.030
  • but we'll also immediately,
  • 00:18:55.030 --> 00:18:56.130
  • because of his completeness
  • 00:18:56.130 --> 00:18:57.220
  • and his knowledge,
  • 00:18:57.220 --> 00:18:58.150
  • we'll immediately see
  • 00:18:58.150 --> 00:18:59.110
  • and understand why the things
  • 00:18:59.110 --> 00:19:02.010
  • that have happened in our lives
  • 00:19:02.010 --> 00:19:02.240
  • have happened.
  • 00:19:02.240 --> 00:19:04.270
  • So I really can't tell you
  • 00:19:04.270 --> 00:19:06.090
  • why you lost your child.
  • 00:19:06.090 --> 00:19:09.070
  • I really can't tell you
  • 00:19:09.070 --> 00:19:09.250
  • why someone betrayed you.
  • 00:19:09.250 --> 00:19:11.020
  • I really can't tell you
  • 00:19:11.020 --> 00:19:11.200
  • why that accident happened
  • 00:19:11.200 --> 00:19:14.020
  • and took your right arm
  • 00:19:14.020 --> 00:19:15.130
  • or your left eye
  • 00:19:15.130 --> 00:19:17.000
  • or whatever had happened to you.
  • 00:19:17.130 --> 00:19:20.130
  • I really don't have
  • 00:19:20.130 --> 00:19:20.280
  • a great reason.
  • 00:19:20.280 --> 00:19:23.150
  • In fact, is there
  • 00:19:23.150 --> 00:19:24.000
  • really a good reason
  • 00:19:24.000 --> 00:19:25.020
  • for someone to be abused?
  • 00:19:25.020 --> 00:19:27.010
  • I mean, is there really gonna be
  • 00:19:27.010 --> 00:19:27.240
  • an answer, you're gonna go,
  • 00:19:27.240 --> 00:19:28.190
  • "Oh, well, that makes sense
  • 00:19:28.190 --> 00:19:29.140
  • why I was sexually abused,
  • 00:19:29.140 --> 00:19:30.130
  • yeah, sure."
  • 00:19:30.130 --> 00:19:32.100
  • I don't think
  • 00:19:32.100 --> 00:19:32.250
  • that really exists.
  • 00:19:32.250 --> 00:19:35.040
  • I don't think there's
  • 00:19:35.040 --> 00:19:35.190
  • a good reason that someone
  • 00:19:35.190 --> 00:19:38.150
  • would go through
  • 00:19:38.150 --> 00:19:40.160
  • some kind of horrible experience
  • 00:19:40.160 --> 00:19:43.080
  • but I think we can trust
  • 00:19:43.080 --> 00:19:44.000
  • that God,
  • 00:19:44.000 --> 00:19:45.240
  • in his infinite wisdom,
  • 00:19:45.240 --> 00:19:48.040
  • can show us the purpose
  • 00:19:48.040 --> 00:19:48.270
  • through it.
  • 00:19:48.270 --> 00:19:50.250
  • 2 Corinthians 4:17 says,
  • 00:19:50.250 --> 00:19:52.070
  • "For our light
  • 00:19:52.070 --> 00:19:52.270
  • and momentary troubles
  • 00:19:52.270 --> 00:19:53.250
  • are achieving for us
  • 00:19:53.250 --> 00:19:54.260
  • an eternal glory
  • 00:19:54.260 --> 00:19:55.220
  • that far outweighs them all."
  • 00:19:55.220 --> 00:19:58.070
  • Or as the Bible teacher
  • 00:19:58.070 --> 00:19:59.030
  • Beth Moore says,
  • 00:19:59.030 --> 00:20:00.180
  • "I believe that your pain
  • 00:20:00.180 --> 00:20:01.170
  • creates greater glory for God."
  • 00:20:02.060 --> 00:20:05.060
  • Whatever you're going through,
  • 00:20:05.060 --> 00:20:06.030
  • it really does create
  • 00:20:06.030 --> 00:20:07.150
  • a greater glory.
  • 00:20:07.200 --> 00:20:10.200
  • 2 Peter 3:9 says, "The Lord
  • 00:20:10.200 --> 00:20:12.250
  • is not slow
  • 00:20:12.250 --> 00:20:13.170
  • in keeping his promise,
  • 00:20:13.170 --> 00:20:14.180
  • as some understand slowness.
  • 00:20:14.180 --> 00:20:16.120
  • He is patient with you,
  • 00:20:16.120 --> 00:20:17.210
  • not wanting anyone to perish,
  • 00:20:17.210 --> 00:20:19.000
  • but everyone to come
  • 00:20:19.000 --> 00:20:20.160
  • to repentance."
  • 00:20:20.160 --> 00:20:22.160
  • Reason I wanna mention this,
  • 00:20:22.160 --> 00:20:23.050
  • 'cause some people say,
  • 00:20:23.050 --> 00:20:24.000
  • "I'm going through such hell,
  • 00:20:24.000 --> 00:20:25.150
  • I'm going through
  • 00:20:25.150 --> 00:20:26.000
  • such difficult--God, can you
  • 00:20:26.000 --> 00:20:26.290
  • just come back
  • 00:20:26.290 --> 00:20:27.220
  • and take us all home?"
  • 00:20:27.220 --> 00:20:29.120
  • Wouldn't that be easier if God
  • 00:20:29.120 --> 00:20:30.170
  • just took away all this pain
  • 00:20:30.170 --> 00:20:32.030
  • right now and just zapped us
  • 00:20:32.030 --> 00:20:33.130
  • up to heaven and we were done?
  • 00:20:33.130 --> 00:20:35.220
  • Wouldn't that be
  • 00:20:35.220 --> 00:20:36.070
  • the loving thing for God to do
  • 00:20:36.070 --> 00:20:37.270
  • right now in the middle
  • 00:20:37.270 --> 00:20:38.160
  • of your mess, right?
  • 00:20:38.160 --> 00:20:40.050
  • Actually, that would not be
  • 00:20:40.050 --> 00:20:40.230
  • the loving thing to do.
  • 00:20:40.230 --> 00:20:41.240
  • Let me tell you why.
  • 00:20:41.240 --> 00:20:42.280
  • 'Cause the moment he does that,
  • 00:20:42.280 --> 00:20:44.200
  • the person that you love
  • 00:20:44.200 --> 00:20:45.110
  • that you've been trying
  • 00:20:45.110 --> 00:20:46.040
  • to witness to that doesn't know
  • 00:20:46.040 --> 00:20:46.270
  • Jesus yet, no longer has
  • 00:20:46.270 --> 00:20:48.010
  • a chance.
  • 00:20:48.010 --> 00:20:50.070
  • So the loving thing is
  • 00:20:50.070 --> 00:20:52.170
  • to let the world continue
  • 00:20:52.170 --> 00:20:53.220
  • with ISIS and tornadoes
  • 00:20:53.220 --> 00:20:56.140
  • and floods and shooters
  • 00:20:56.140 --> 00:20:58.240
  • in malls and schools
  • 00:20:58.240 --> 00:21:00.110
  • and someone betraying you
  • 00:21:00.110 --> 00:21:01.210
  • at work and cancer
  • 00:21:01.210 --> 00:21:03.060
  • still around and pain
  • 00:21:03.060 --> 00:21:04.250
  • in your life because all of that
  • 00:21:04.250 --> 00:21:06.150
  • he is hoping and praying
  • 00:21:06.150 --> 00:21:08.090
  • that in the middle
  • 00:21:08.090 --> 00:21:08.290
  • of all the world's chaos
  • 00:21:08.290 --> 00:21:10.240
  • and crisis and difficulty
  • 00:21:10.240 --> 00:21:11.210
  • that more people will come
  • 00:21:11.210 --> 00:21:13.150
  • to Jesus.
  • 00:21:13.150 --> 00:21:15.290
  • That's why he has not
  • 00:21:15.290 --> 00:21:16.210
  • taken you out.
  • 00:21:19.130 --> 00:21:22.130
  • Last verse I wanna share
  • 00:21:22.130 --> 00:21:23.030
  • with you is Psalm 34:18.
  • 00:21:23.030 --> 00:21:24.250
  • It says, "The Lord is close
  • 00:21:24.250 --> 00:21:25.250
  • to the brokenhearted and saves
  • 00:21:25.250 --> 00:21:27.080
  • those who are crushed
  • 00:21:27.080 --> 00:21:28.030
  • in spirit."
  • 00:21:28.030 --> 00:21:30.060
  • Sometimes I think I pray,
  • 00:21:30.060 --> 00:21:30.240
  • "O God, I wanna be close
  • 00:21:30.240 --> 00:21:31.200
  • to you."
  • 00:21:31.200 --> 00:21:32.070
  • And I think God says,
  • 00:21:32.070 --> 00:21:32.250
  • "You don't know
  • 00:21:32.250 --> 00:21:33.210
  • what you're asking."
  • 00:21:33.210 --> 00:21:36.040
  • 'Cause to really be close
  • 00:21:36.040 --> 00:21:37.000
  • to Jesus is to share
  • 00:21:37.000 --> 00:21:38.280
  • in his sufferings.
  • 00:21:38.280 --> 00:21:41.120
  • Is to share in the pain
  • 00:21:41.120 --> 00:21:42.030
  • that he has undergone for you
  • 00:21:42.120 --> 00:21:45.120
  • and for me.
  • 00:21:45.120 --> 00:21:47.000
  • Number three,
  • 00:21:47.000 --> 00:21:47.150
  • would you write this down?
  • 00:21:47.150 --> 00:21:49.010
  • "Understand that you're not
  • 00:21:49.010 --> 00:21:50.120
  • going to completely understand
  • 00:21:50.120 --> 00:21:52.260
  • until the end."
  • 00:21:52.260 --> 00:21:55.020
  • You've gotta learn to understand
  • 00:21:55.020 --> 00:21:56.250
  • that you're not gonna
  • 00:21:56.250 --> 00:21:57.160
  • completely understand
  • 00:21:57.160 --> 00:21:59.200
  • until the end.
  • 00:21:59.200 --> 00:22:00.160
  • Hopefully, today has given you
  • 00:22:00.160 --> 00:22:01.180
  • a little more understanding
  • 00:22:01.180 --> 00:22:02.200
  • of the chaos and crisis
  • 00:22:02.200 --> 00:22:03.180
  • in your life but it doesn't mean
  • 00:22:03.180 --> 00:22:04.150
  • that you're necessarily leaving
  • 00:22:04.150 --> 00:22:05.280
  • here, going,
  • 00:22:05.280 --> 00:22:06.150
  • "Oh, I'm cool with it now."
  • 00:22:06.150 --> 00:22:09.080
  • I don't think we're all
  • 00:22:09.080 --> 00:22:10.030
  • just cool with pain
  • 00:22:10.030 --> 00:22:11.270
  • or great with difficulty
  • 00:22:11.270 --> 00:22:13.070
  • or betrayal
  • 00:22:13.070 --> 00:22:14.160
  • or whatever your trial
  • 00:22:14.160 --> 00:22:15.080
  • happens to be, right?
  • 00:22:15.080 --> 00:22:17.110
  • But it does help you
  • 00:22:17.110 --> 00:22:18.090
  • to know this.
  • 00:22:18.090 --> 00:22:19.170
  • Listen.
  • 00:22:19.170 --> 00:22:20.040
  • Jesus never promised you would
  • 00:22:20.040 --> 00:22:21.240
  • not have trials and pain
  • 00:22:21.240 --> 00:22:23.250
  • or tragedy.
  • 00:22:23.250 --> 00:22:24.200
  • He promised to get you
  • 00:22:24.200 --> 00:22:26.100
  • through them.
  • 00:22:26.100 --> 00:22:28.160
  • He's with you through it.
  • 00:22:28.190 --> 00:22:31.190
  • Back in 1818 in France there was
  • 00:22:31.190 --> 00:22:33.180
  • a little boy named Louis.
  • 00:22:33.180 --> 00:22:36.050
  • Louis wanted to be
  • 00:22:36.050 --> 00:22:36.280
  • just like his daddy.
  • 00:22:36.280 --> 00:22:38.050
  • He was 9 years old
  • 00:22:38.050 --> 00:22:38.290
  • and, like most little boys,
  • 00:22:38.290 --> 00:22:39.220
  • he looked up to his dad.
  • 00:22:39.220 --> 00:22:41.150
  • His dad was a craftsman
  • 00:22:41.150 --> 00:22:42.240
  • by trade.
  • 00:22:42.240 --> 00:22:43.150
  • He was very good with his hands.
  • 00:22:43.150 --> 00:22:45.020
  • He was always building things
  • 00:22:45.020 --> 00:22:46.000
  • and selling them.
  • 00:22:46.000 --> 00:22:47.110
  • One day, he was in his shop
  • 00:22:47.110 --> 00:22:48.220
  • and he was working on something
  • 00:22:48.220 --> 00:22:49.210
  • and he had heated up
  • 00:22:49.210 --> 00:22:50.270
  • some iron ore and he was
  • 00:22:50.270 --> 00:22:52.120
  • banging out some metal
  • 00:22:52.120 --> 00:22:53.250
  • and he was shaping something
  • 00:22:53.250 --> 00:22:54.280
  • and he was building
  • 00:22:54.280 --> 00:22:55.270
  • and Louis said,
  • 00:22:55.270 --> 00:22:56.250
  • "Daddy, can I help?"
  • 00:22:56.250 --> 00:22:57.210
  • He said, "Sure, of course."
  • 00:22:57.210 --> 00:22:59.130
  • He said, "Go get your hammer.
  • 00:22:59.130 --> 00:23:00.130
  • You're gonna build something
  • 00:23:00.130 --> 00:23:01.000
  • beside me."
  • 00:23:01.000 --> 00:23:01.220
  • And so he went and he got
  • 00:23:01.220 --> 00:23:02.100
  • his little hammer and he had
  • 00:23:02.100 --> 00:23:03.040
  • a little piece and he heated up
  • 00:23:03.040 --> 00:23:04.090
  • a little bit and he said,
  • 00:23:04.090 --> 00:23:04.290
  • "Okay, now, get right up, now.
  • 00:23:04.290 --> 00:23:06.030
  • Okay, now, now hit it
  • 00:23:06.030 --> 00:23:06.260
  • just right here."
  • 00:23:06.260 --> 00:23:07.290
  • And so little Louis at age 9 has
  • 00:23:07.290 --> 00:23:09.250
  • a little hammer in his hand,
  • 00:23:09.250 --> 00:23:10.230
  • he was just wanting to be
  • 00:23:10.230 --> 00:23:11.200
  • like his daddy.
  • 00:23:11.200 --> 00:23:12.230
  • And he took the hammer and he
  • 00:23:12.230 --> 00:23:14.000
  • swung it real hard and he hit
  • 00:23:14.000 --> 00:23:15.010
  • what he was supposed to hit,
  • 00:23:15.010 --> 00:23:16.140
  • but what no one was prepared for
  • 00:23:16.140 --> 00:23:17.160
  • was that there was
  • 00:23:17.160 --> 00:23:18.010
  • a little piece on the side
  • 00:23:18.010 --> 00:23:19.160
  • that was just barely attached
  • 00:23:19.160 --> 00:23:22.110
  • and when he hit it it flew up
  • 00:23:22.110 --> 00:23:23.250
  • into his eye, blinded him
  • 00:23:23.250 --> 00:23:26.100
  • immediately in that eye.
  • 00:23:26.100 --> 00:23:28.220
  • Well, 2 or 3 years later,
  • 00:23:28.220 --> 00:23:29.190
  • unbeknownst to them, Louis went
  • 00:23:29.190 --> 00:23:31.220
  • blind in his other eye
  • 00:23:31.220 --> 00:23:32.250
  • and they don't really know why.
  • 00:23:32.250 --> 00:23:35.120
  • So now, he's a teenager,
  • 00:23:35.120 --> 00:23:37.150
  • totally blind.
  • 00:23:37.150 --> 00:23:39.060
  • It's hard enough being
  • 00:23:39.060 --> 00:23:39.210
  • a teenager, but try being
  • 00:23:39.210 --> 00:23:40.230
  • a teenager blind.
  • 00:23:40.230 --> 00:23:43.060
  • And so here he is,
  • 00:23:43.060 --> 00:23:43.270
  • he has no sight.
  • 00:23:43.270 --> 00:23:46.020
  • He's wallowing in frustration
  • 00:23:46.020 --> 00:23:47.060
  • like anyone would be.
  • 00:23:47.060 --> 00:23:49.070
  • One day, a friend of his
  • 00:23:49.070 --> 00:23:49.250
  • comes by to see him.
  • 00:23:49.250 --> 00:23:51.170
  • Louis heard him
  • 00:23:51.170 --> 00:23:52.030
  • and he said, "Hey."
  • 00:23:52.030 --> 00:23:52.230
  • He knew who he was immediately
  • 00:23:52.230 --> 00:23:53.170
  • just by the sound of his walk
  • 00:23:53.170 --> 00:23:54.200
  • 'cause that's what happens
  • 00:23:54.200 --> 00:23:55.180
  • when you're blind, by the way,
  • 00:23:55.180 --> 00:23:56.120
  • is you have
  • 00:23:56.120 --> 00:23:56.270
  • a heightened sensitivity
  • 00:23:56.270 --> 00:23:58.120
  • in other areas like your hearing
  • 00:23:58.120 --> 00:23:59.120
  • and your touch.
  • 00:23:59.120 --> 00:24:01.060
  • And so he
  • 00:24:01.060 --> 00:24:01.230
  • immediately said, "Hey."
  • 00:24:01.230 --> 00:24:03.110
  • He knew who he was.
  • 00:24:03.110 --> 00:24:04.150
  • And he said, "What do you hold
  • 00:24:04.150 --> 00:24:05.040
  • in your hand?"
  • 00:24:05.040 --> 00:24:06.180
  • He said, "Oh, I got
  • 00:24:06.180 --> 00:24:07.030
  • some pine cones,"
  • 00:24:07.030 --> 00:24:07.240
  • and Louis said,
  • 00:24:07.240 --> 00:24:08.140
  • "Can I have one?"
  • 00:24:08.140 --> 00:24:09.140
  • He said, "Sure."
  • 00:24:09.140 --> 00:24:10.030
  • So he put a pine cone
  • 00:24:10.030 --> 00:24:10.230
  • in his hand.
  • 00:24:10.230 --> 00:24:11.090
  • Of course, they're prickly,
  • 00:24:11.090 --> 00:24:12.020
  • you know, they're sharp
  • 00:24:12.020 --> 00:24:12.260
  • and he put it in his hand.
  • 00:24:12.260 --> 00:24:13.150
  • He's, "Ooh, ow," 'cause he had
  • 00:24:13.150 --> 00:24:14.270
  • heightened sensitivity
  • 00:24:14.270 --> 00:24:16.060
  • in his fingers and he began
  • 00:24:16.060 --> 00:24:17.180
  • to hold the pine cone
  • 00:24:17.180 --> 00:24:18.180
  • and as he sat there for a while,
  • 00:24:18.180 --> 00:24:19.170
  • quietly, his friend said,
  • 00:24:19.170 --> 00:24:20.120
  • "Are you okay?"
  • 00:24:20.120 --> 00:24:21.180
  • He said, "I got a great idea."
  • 00:24:21.180 --> 00:24:23.180
  • He said, "What?"
  • 00:24:23.180 --> 00:24:25.060
  • He goes, "Can you get
  • 00:24:25.060 --> 00:24:25.210
  • a piece of paper?"
  • 00:24:25.210 --> 00:24:27.230
  • "Sure."
  • 00:24:27.230 --> 00:24:29.080
  • "Get a pencil."
  • 00:24:29.080 --> 00:24:30.240
  • So he got it.
  • 00:24:30.240 --> 00:24:32.090
  • And right there, a teenage boy
  • 00:24:32.160 --> 00:24:35.160
  • named Louis Braille began
  • 00:24:35.160 --> 00:24:37.090
  • to create an alphabet
  • 00:24:37.090 --> 00:24:39.270
  • from the bumps he felt
  • 00:24:39.270 --> 00:24:41.150
  • on a pine cone.
  • 00:24:41.150 --> 00:24:43.270
  • And because of his pain
  • 00:24:43.270 --> 00:24:45.250
  • and because of his difficulty,
  • 00:24:45.250 --> 00:24:48.240
  • millions of blind people get
  • 00:24:48.240 --> 00:24:50.180
  • to enter into a world of books.
  • 00:24:50.180 --> 00:24:53.140
  • And I'm a little jealous
  • 00:24:53.140 --> 00:24:54.030
  • 'cause when Mom and Dad say
  • 00:24:54.030 --> 00:24:55.030
  • to turn the lights off,
  • 00:24:55.030 --> 00:24:55.260
  • they can keep reading.
  • 00:24:59.220 --> 00:25:02.240
  • So you can wallow in your pain
  • 00:25:02.240 --> 00:25:05.090
  • or you can say,
  • 00:25:05.090 --> 00:25:06.120
  • "God, as Job did, 'Though he
  • 00:25:06.120 --> 00:25:09.070
  • slay me, I will worship him.'
  • 00:25:10.000 --> 00:25:13.000
  • I don't understand why I'm going
  • 00:25:13.000 --> 00:25:13.260
  • through this, God, but I will
  • 00:25:13.260 --> 00:25:15.200
  • worship you, I will find
  • 00:25:15.200 --> 00:25:16.190
  • my purpose in this anyways.
  • 00:25:16.190 --> 00:25:19.020
  • I will be helpful to a world
  • 00:25:19.020 --> 00:25:21.020
  • in need, even though I myself
  • 00:25:21.020 --> 00:25:22.190
  • need help, I will try to make
  • 00:25:22.190 --> 00:25:25.040
  • a difference.
  • 00:25:25.040 --> 00:25:26.220
  • I will live my purpose.
  • 00:25:26.220 --> 00:25:28.120
  • I will honor you."
  • 00:25:28.120 --> 00:25:30.130
  • - Bil: Hey, thanks so much for
  • 00:25:36.240 --> 00:25:37.170
  • watching the program today.
  • 00:25:37.170 --> 00:25:39.060
  • I got a question for you.
  • 00:25:39.060 --> 00:25:40.170
  • Have you asked Jesus Christ
  • 00:25:40.170 --> 00:25:41.220
  • to be your Lord and Savior?
  • 00:25:41.220 --> 00:25:43.200
  • Have you prayed a simple prayer
  • 00:25:43.200 --> 00:25:45.070
  • that guarantees that you will
  • 00:25:45.070 --> 00:25:46.280
  • go to heaven because you know
  • 00:25:46.280 --> 00:25:48.090
  • Jesus?
  • 00:25:48.090 --> 00:25:49.210
  • Would you pray this prayer with
  • 00:25:49.210 --> 00:25:50.140
  • me right now?
  • 00:25:50.140 --> 00:25:51.160
  • You can just say this out loud.
  • 00:25:51.160 --> 00:25:52.100
  • You can say,
  • 00:25:52.100 --> 00:25:52.290
  • "Dear Jesus, I realize I need
  • 00:25:52.290 --> 00:25:55.040
  • you.
  • 00:25:55.040 --> 00:25:56.050
  • I believe you died on the cross
  • 00:25:56.050 --> 00:25:57.070
  • for me to pray the price
  • 00:25:57.070 --> 00:25:58.150
  • for my sins and I believe
  • 00:25:58.150 --> 00:26:00.080
  • you rose again.
  • 00:26:00.080 --> 00:26:01.150
  • Please come into my heart,
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  • be my Lord and be my Savior.
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  • Thank you, Jesus, for saving me.
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  • - female announcer: Excuses may
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  • be the only thing keeping you
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  • from who God has called you
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  • to be.
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  • In his new DVD message,
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  • Pastor Bil teaches us
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  • how to overcome
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  • the most common excuses
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  • - Bil: You see God what
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  • he speaks over you is the truth.
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  • Don't let the devil label you
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  • because a label becomes a libel,
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  • it becomes a lie.
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  • It's not what the devil says
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  • you are or what you have done
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  • that matters.
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  • It's what God says you are
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  • and he says you're his child
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  • Make Some Noise."
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