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September 30, 2019
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Are you ready for a radical faith journey? Who are your Biblical heroines of faith? | TBN Prayer Line: 1-888-731-1000

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  • - We believe without seeing, but are we ready
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  • for radical faith, like Mary the mother of Jesus?
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  • Come on, let's talk about it.
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  • (inspirational music)
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  • - You know, I love the whole idea and thought
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  • of radical faith.
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  • Maybe about 17 years ago, they told me that I had
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  • rheumatoid arthritis. - Oh, wow.
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  • - Right, and that my feet, I would never
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  • wear heels again, my feet were swelling up so bad,
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  • so it would always hurt.
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  • So I remember just trusting and believing God
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  • and now I stand here, or sit here today
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  • and I'm wearing heels because look...
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  • (overlapping talk)
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  • - I trusted God.
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  • And then, I used that faith episode to help me
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  • with the whole diagnosis of hypothyroidism,
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  • they told me my thyroids were hyperactive.
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  • I was losing so much weight, didn't mind that so much.
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  • (laughter)
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  • - I didn't like the whole idea, but
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  • when I went to the doctor, they told me that,
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  • you could take radiation and take a pill
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  • for the rest of your life, or take a pill
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  • for the rest of your life.
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  • Or have it just removed and then
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  • take a pill for the rest of your life.
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  • And I said well, okay I don't like
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  • any of those options either.
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  • And I remember what God did for me
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  • with the rheumatoid, and so I said,
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  • "God I'm gonna trust you now with this thyroid issue."
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  • And so it made me think about how
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  • there's this big wedge, or big gulf if you will
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  • between healing and sickness, or salvation and a sinner,
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  • poverty and wealth, and the only thing
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  • that could bridge that gap or fill that gap
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  • is our radical faith.
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  • Because it's so far from the natural man
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  • to think that we could be healed of anything,
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  • or you know, even me if you will,
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  • because I didn't come up in an environment of faith
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  • or wasn't raised as a child in church.
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  • And so now I had to really begin to trust a God
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  • that I had never knew anything about,
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  • you know growing up.
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  • And I thought about just my own life,
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  • and how I just felt always so unworthy, if you will.
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  • Like, you know, God you wouldn't do this for me.
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  • You know, who I am and how I feel about myself.
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  • And so to be able to trust a God
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  • who is faithful to his word is just
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  • amazing to me and the whole radicalness,
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  • if you will, of being able to just
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  • jump out there and say,
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  • "God, yes, you are true to your word."
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  • And it really makes me think about Mary.
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  • So many people don't think about Mary,
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  • you know, the mother of Jesus as having
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  • radical faith, but here this is a girl,
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  • I mean to me, just like my story.
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  • This peasant, if you will, this poor little girl,
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  • who now has to trust a God who comes in
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  • and talk about, you know, you are highly favored,
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  • when the angel come.
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  • And she's looking confused, like
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  • "What do you mean?
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  • "You can't be talkin' to me."
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  • And he's like,
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  • "Yeah, no, it is you."
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  • And so for her to just say, "Be it unto me,
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  • "Your word, be it unto me."
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  • It was like, that's a radical move
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  • for an ordinary girl to meet an extraordinary God.
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  • - Yeah.
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  • - For them two to collide, and then to see
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  • the fruit of what God would do in her life,
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  • that's amazing to me.
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  • And so, you know I'm just honored
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  • to be able to be in this body,
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  • and to be able to have this radical faith.
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  • You know the scripture doesn't say to step out in faith,
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  • or get in faith, it tells us to live in faith.
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  • So everything I do, every moment,
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  • every second of my life is consumed with faith.
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  • Faith isn't something that I pick up
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  • when I'm believing God for something.
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  • Faith is what I walk by.
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  • The Bible says, "The just shall live by faith."
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  • That means we breathe by faith,
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  • we walk by faith, we believe by faith,
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  • we do everything by faith.
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  • Just get consumed with living a life full of faith.
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  • - I love that you said, you paused,
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  • because I think sometimes even in the story of Mary,
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  • you know how it says, "Mary went with haste, to Elizabeth."
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  • And we're like, she was radical, she went with haste.
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  • That doesn't mean in a hurry.
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  • - Right.
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  • - Chris and I were talking about this earlier.
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  • The Greek word used there means she went eagerly.
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  • But it's 100 miles, a little more so from Hebron
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  • to Nazareth, so she had to think about that.
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  • She had to consider, okay just like when they said,
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  • "Here's your options."
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  • You went to the doctor.
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  • - Mmhmm.
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  • - You considered your options, you were prayerful,
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  • you prayed about it, so it's not this random,
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  • reckless, I'm gonna be radical faith today.
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  • - Oh no.
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  • - It's like actually to have radical faith
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  • is to go, "Whatever he's called me to,
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  • "I'm gonna trust that he's gonna do it.
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  • "It may be a sacrifice for me."
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  • Somebody the other day said, "Oh that was so radical."
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  • And they were talking about when I changed lanes
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  • because the hot sign was on at Krispy Kreme.
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  • (laughter)
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  • - I'm like, this has nothing to do with faith.
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  • Nothing whatsoever to do with faith.
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  • Radical faith is not an emotive response.
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  • Radical faith is, "I believe he is who he says he is.
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  • "I believe he healed me the first time.
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  • "So I am going to consider what he's called me to do.
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  • "I'm gonna count the cost because
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  • "it's gonna cost me something.
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  • "And then I'm gonna move in that direction."
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  • That's what I really love about
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  • when you brought up Mary with Elizabeth is,
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  • there was this very deliberate,
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  • I'm gonna be radical.
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  • But it wasn't reckless.
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  • Sometimes I think reckless is used in a great context,
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  • but by reckless I mean random, I mean just
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  • goin' off without thinkin' about it,
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  • without prayin' about it.
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  • I think sometimes we hear the word radical
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  • and we think, just go for it.
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  • And it's like well, yes absolutely go for it.
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  • But pause to pray for a moment,
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  • or you may have already prayed about it
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  • and then God gives you the green light immediately.
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  • But to be radical does not mean to charge a hill
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  • and have no idea what you charge when you get to the top.
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  • It means being prayerful.
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  • We talked about Mary and Elizabeth,
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  • and we talked about how radical it was,
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  • it was this unmarried, pregnant young girl.
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  • She traveled to her cousin Elizabeth
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  • to tell her she was pregnant with baby Jesus.
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  • What we usually forget is, that distance
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  • was over 100 miles.
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  • So Mary didn't just jump on her donkey and go.
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  • She had to think, how am I gonna get there,
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  • how long am I gonna stay?
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  • Who's gonna travel with me?
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  • So it was a prayerful decision,
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  • there was a lot of intentionality in that.
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  • And that's really the point that I was trying to make,
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  • is radical faith does not mean irresponsible faith.
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  • It's not a random kind of a move.
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  • It is, "God I'm gonna go guns blazing,
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  • "I'm gonna go all in, but I'm gonna make sure
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  • "that you're agreeing as I go in this direction."
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  • So I'm gonna at least pray on the way.
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  • I'm not gonna do something just based out of emotions.
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  • - And the whole radical part, even for me,
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  • is just the thought of, you know
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  • what others wouldn't do.
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  • - Sure.
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  • - You know, so you would think it's radical,
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  • but for me it's not radical.
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  • I'm just taking a man at his word.
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  • - That's right.
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  • - This is what he said, and this is
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  • what I believe that I can have.
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  • But so many others would judge it as something
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  • radical, you know and so that's why I use
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  • even the word, radical.
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  • But even in my situation.
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  • I wouldn't say, because I have to make this clear
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  • cause a lot of times people say,
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  • "Oh well what did she do, she didn't take a pill?"
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  • I don't have a problem with taking pills.
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  • - Sure.
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  • - You know and I would tell anybody,
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  • if you need a pill, take a pill.
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  • Don't try to use my faith story
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  • and apply it to your life because it's
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  • according to your faith.
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  • And so I wanted to make that clear.
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  • I don't want you to stop taking
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  • what you are prescribed to do.
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  • It's just like, but I chose to use
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  • my first episode of victory to now walk into
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  • this second episode that the enemy
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  • tried to throw at me and say, this is what's gonna happen.
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  • And I got victory out of it.
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  • Never had to take a pill, never had radiation,
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  • never had any surgery.
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  • And so I think it's like,
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  • - And wear good looking shoes. - when we get to the place.
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  • - And still get to wear heels.
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  • - You know I didn't always have this strong faith
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  • and was able to just believe and trust God for everything.
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  • I thank God for a husband who really took his time
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  • and sat me down and showed me through
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  • the word of God how to trust God,
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  • how to believe God.
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  • He showed me that God was faithful through the word.
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  • You know, I wasn't raised in a home
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  • where faith was taught or I wasn't even
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  • goin' to church growing up.
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  • And so I had to get to a place
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  • where I was determined to sit down
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  • and just learn about this faithful God.
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  • And that's how I began to develop
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  • who I happen to be in this faith process.
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  • - But I love those moments, you know those moments
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  • I think are the currency of heaven,
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  • when it says, "Do not do this, do not do this,
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  • "do not do this."
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  • We're doin' this.
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  • (laughter)
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  • And that's where you sign, and it looks
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  • so different in all of our lives
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  • and the things that we all carry out.
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  • I mean, what Propel and A21 and all of that,
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  • is so amazing, you know?
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  • And all the different facets of where
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  • God really uses, you know one of the things
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  • in our life, I'll tell real quick,
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  • is when we left TBN back in 1992,
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  • my husband and I worked here,
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  • God just called us out.
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  • And I moved my two little boys.
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  • - Wow.
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  • - To Hollywood, and that's the last place
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  • on the planet I would have moved my children.
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  • But man, that was that, do not do this,
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  • do not do this, but if you do,
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  • I'll show you something, you know?
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  • And now we're back here and I think
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  • it's only because we left.
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  • - Totally.
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  • - That we can sustain here, that God taught us there
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  • what we needed to know to bring back.
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  • But it looks different to all of us.
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  • - It's so personal.
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  • - I just remember Matt sayin' to me,
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  • he said "We'll know really soon
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  • whether we're really called to be up here."
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  • But everybody in our life, our pastors,
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  • any prophetic voices in our lives,
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  • our dear friends that we submitted to,
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  • they were all just,
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  • "Go put your foot in Hollywood,
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  • "see what God will do for you."
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  • And we did, and it was a huge,
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  • huge step for us.
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  • And he met us there and he was so faithful.
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  • And I love that about God because
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  • all he wants us to do is just take the first step,
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  • and then he meets us wherever we're at.
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  • - Radical faith looks like anything
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  • that you're willing to believe God for
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  • that others don't agree with.
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  • That's all radical faith is,
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  • because anything that you believe God for
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  • is only faith, all of it is just faith.
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  • But it becomes radical when it looks like
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  • something that's impossible.
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  • But to us, and to God, there's nothing impossible.
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  • So let's get radical.
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  • - You can stream Better Together episodes on the go.
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  • - Download the TBN app to watch our latest conversations.
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  • (inspirational music)
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  • - And everyone won't get it.
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  • That's what I love about your story, Dee,
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  • it's like you can talk to the doctors
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  • and they're like, "This doesn't make sense,
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  • "the feasibility study, this doesn't make sense."
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  • But you're following what God is leading you to do.
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  • - Right.
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  • - And what he's saying to you or what he's saying
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  • to you or someone else is completely different.
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  • I love how personal that is.
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  • And when you understand how personal it is,
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  • then it's okay if other people don't get it.
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  • - Yeah.
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  • - But I love the example in Mary even,
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  • there will be people that do, and there will be
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  • people that they see that and they go,
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  • "I agree with what God's doing in you."
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  • - Right.
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  • - And she goes to Elizabeth, Elizabeth says,
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  • "Blessed is she that has believed
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  • "that the Lord would fulfill his promises to her."
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  • - That's right.
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  • - And so it's like God will align
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  • these believers in your life on this journey
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  • that make that fulfillment, that promise
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  • come to life for you to keep that faith strong
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  • even if there's a lot of people that don't understand.
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  • Because it is different.
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  • - I think sometimes in those big, huge moments
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  • of faith that change your life, that maybe
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  • your circle of friends maybe go down
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  • to just a few, you know, your pastor
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  • or your parents or people close to you
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  • that have a word in your ear.
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  • But I don't think that's really open to opinion
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  • when God tells you something down deep in your heart
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  • that you're supposed to move
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  • and go somewhere, or do something.
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  • I'm not sure that it's real wise to just tell everybody.
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  • It kinda goes back to Joseph.
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  • It probably would have made his life
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  • just a little bit easier had he just
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  • not shared all of his dreams.
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  • So, getting counsel from just a few,
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  • and heeding that and of course
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  • the Holy Spirit will lead and guide you.
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  • - The relationship between her and Elizabeth.
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  • You know they were probably cousins.
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  • So here's Elizabeth that's older.
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  • - Right.
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  • - She's probably sixty-some, you know.
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  • Here's Mary who is maybe 16.
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  • - Right.
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  • - Elizabeth's finally pregnant, but then
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  • here comes Mary with Jesus.
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  • - She's like, "I see that you're pregnant,
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  • "and I raised you, I have the savior of the world."
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  • - And instantly she confirms her,
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  • she doesn't have to overshine her.
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  • - Right.
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  • - She recognizes, "You're carrying Jesus."
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  • - Right.
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  • - It's huge.
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  • - And I love that relationship.
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  • (overlapping talk)
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  • - Elizabeth had a choice there.
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  • She could have been like, "What have you been doin'
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  • "after, like, football games?"
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  • Or she could go, "I believe God is a good God."
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  • It gets right back to relationship.
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  • - Or she could have looked at her and said,
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  • "Girl you're not pregnant, go home."
  • 00:13:50.270 --> 00:13:52.160
  • - That's right.
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  • - I love that John the Baptist confirmed it.
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  • - Yes, he leaps.
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  • - Right?
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  • - The fact that he was doin' somersaults
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  • in her tummy is just like, how kind is that?
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  • - And she stayed there, the Bible says,
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  • for about three months.
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  • I just think even spiritually,
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  • when there's this sense, you've got to get
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  • the right people around you,
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  • because the enemy will always try to abort that dream
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  • and normally, most women,
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  • you know I had a miscarriage.
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  • Too often it happens in the first trimester.
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  • - That's right.
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  • - The enemy will come very early on
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  • to try to steal it, so to me it's interesting
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  • that she stays and also that you've got,
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  • Elizabeth is a grandmother, you know, Mary's a teenager.
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  • Now in order to birth God, in order to conceive God
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  • through the power of the Holy Spirit,
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  • that's supernatural and it requires a miracle,
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  • which is what faith is.
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  • Well in order to be an older woman
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  • whose eggs have dried up, so whether
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  • you're old and barren, or whether you are young and fertile,
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  • to actually produce the God dream,
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  • you need a supernatural miracle.
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  • - Yes.
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  • - So I think what we have to remember,
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  • when something requires faith it's because
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  • God wants to birth something through the power
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  • of his Holy Spirit in your life.
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  • And so, here is Elizabeth, this old, barren woman.
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  • And she had wanted to have a child,
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  • and couldn't have a child.
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  • And so she's old and barren, so in order to conceive,
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  • she needs a miracle.
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  • So Mary's young and fertile, so sometimes you can think,
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  • in my own strength I can do whatever.
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  • But if it's the God dream, you still need faith.
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  • - Yes, yes.
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  • - It doesn't matter how fertile,
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  • gifted, talented, awesome you are.
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  • To do the God thing is gonna require a faith that,
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  • it says "The Holy Spirit overshadowed her."
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  • And that's how it happened.
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  • And so we all require, for something to be truly of faith,
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  • and to truly plant something on the earth
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  • that is supernatural and eternal,
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  • then it needs the power of the Holy Spirit
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  • no matter who you are.
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  • And I think even for all of us,
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  • cause some women watching this show,
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  • they feel like maybe they're older like Elizabeth,
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  • and go, "I've missed it, I'm barren.
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  • "My life was just this dead, empty desert."
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  • And it never was because she even in her old age
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  • conceived John the Baptist who,
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  • her greatest miracles were in her old age.
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  • Mary was a young teenager that needed faith
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  • and in the same case, what is impossible
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  • with man is possible with God.
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  • And I'm gonna hope that what we wanna do
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  • is stir people on.
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  • For Mary it was to carry God to her generation, Jesus.
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  • All of us are called to carry God to our generation,
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  • and I'm like, so you need supernatural faith.
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  • You know for me, impossible is when
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  • you can do something only in God's strength.
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  • It doesn't matter how gifted you are,
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  • how talented you are.
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  • It lies outside of the realms
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  • of scientific possibility, mathematical possibility,
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  • economic possibility, environmental possibility,
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  • physical possibility, medical possibility,
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  • it is not possible to happen in any natural way.
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  • And I love that, because it means that
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  • the odds are against you, but the odds are for God.
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  • And with God, impossible is where he starts.
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  • - I love the example that you always used,
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  • because we want the miracle but then
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  • we do everything we can to insulate ourselves
  • 00:16:51.060 --> 00:16:53.030
  • from where miracles occur.
  • 00:16:53.030 --> 00:16:54.080
  • Right, like I do this in my life,
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  • I want the miracle, I want the God story,
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  • but then I'm gonna control every single detail
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  • of my life to where nothing is impossible.
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  • And I just remember even over the last few months,
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  • and I've talked to you about this, Chris,
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  • but in praying for my baby on the way.
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  • And the Lord was just really clear with me,
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  • be honest about your desires for a daughter.
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  • And I was like, "Oh but I can't control that."
  • 00:17:13.040 --> 00:17:14.130
  • And you just feel vulnerable, like,
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  • I want to say the right thing.
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  • Like, I'm happy either way.
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  • Cause I am, I'm thrilled to be pregnant
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  • and all those things but I remember
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  • just the utter amazement that I had
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  • after this journey when the nurse called
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  • and said, "You're having a girl,"
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  • after I prayed and desired a daughter
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  • my entire life as long as I can remember.
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  • And I felt God say to me, "Christy, I could perform
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  • "miracles in your life like this way more often
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  • "if you would let me."
  • 00:17:36.000 --> 00:17:36.250
  • - If you would let me.
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  • - You're amazed by this because you couldn't control it
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  • but you control every other detail of your life.
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  • If you would let go of some of the control,
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  • you would be amazed at what I can do
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  • in more ways than this.
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  • - You probably would have had a girl a long time ago.
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  • - Yeah.
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  • (laughter)
  • 00:17:49.080 --> 00:17:50.180
  • - And that was a breakthrough moment for me,
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  • to realize that I can bring my desires to God.
  • 00:17:51.270 --> 00:17:54.290
  • And even if you look at scripture.
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  • A blind man would come to Jesus.
  • 00:17:56.230 --> 00:17:58.120
  • And before Jesus would heal him of his blindness,
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  • he asked him, "What do you want me to do for you?"
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  • He loves to draw out those desires.
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  • There's something in our connection with the Father
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  • as he draws out those desires and says,
  • 00:18:07.210 --> 00:18:10.080
  • "Bring those to me, bring them to the foot of the throne.
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  • "Trust me with them.
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  • "It doesn't mean I'm a genie in a bottle
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  • "and you're gonna get everything you want, no.
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  • "But let's acknowledge what your heart wants.
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  • "Because I already know what it wants,
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  • "so why don't you acknowledge before me
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  • "what it is that you want."
  • 00:18:24.230 --> 00:18:26.120
  • And that was the beginning of an incredible journey
  • 00:18:26.120 --> 00:18:28.150
  • where, in some moments of faith, I felt the Lord
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  • push me even further and ask me to buy something
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  • for my daughter, before I knew it was a girl.
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  • Now keep in mind, I have two boys, okay?
  • 00:18:38.050 --> 00:18:40.040
  • So the chances of having another boy
  • 00:18:40.040 --> 00:18:41.040
  • are very, very high.
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  • I had done everything I could to protect myself
  • 00:18:42.200 --> 00:18:44.280
  • and insulate myself, and "Oh I'll be fine either way,
  • 00:18:44.280 --> 00:18:47.010
  • "it's totally fine if we have a boy,
  • 00:18:47.010 --> 00:18:48.060
  • "we'll be so excited about a boy."
  • 00:18:48.060 --> 00:18:49.250
  • But I felt God say, "Buy something for her."
  • 00:18:49.250 --> 00:18:51.220
  • And this is when I was 10 weeks pregnant,
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  • and did not know the gender of my baby.
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  • And I felt crazy, and I went to Target,
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  • and I was digging through the little footie pajamas,
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  • and I wanted something that said something
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  • about a girl, like Daddy's Girl, or something
  • 00:19:02.140 --> 00:19:04.140
  • and I couldn't find anything with words.
  • 00:19:04.140 --> 00:19:06.120
  • And I was digging to the very back,
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  • And I saw this little footie pajama,
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  • I pulled it out, and it said Little Sister.
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  • And it was pink and I just started weeping.
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  • And when I saw that footie pajama,
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  • it was like I knew, I knew before the doctors told me,
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  • I knew before there were any test results,
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  • I knew before any ultrasound.
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  • I knew that God was gonna give me a girl.
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  • And then God nudged me even further the next week
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  • and said, "I want you to write her a letter."
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  • And so in my journal I wrote a letter to her,
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  • and I don't even remember what I wrote
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  • but it was pages of just speaking life
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  • over who I hoped she would become
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  • and the last thing I wrote in that letter was,
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  • "Baby girl, what I want you to know
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  • "above all else is that your Mama is a woman of faith
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  • "and you will be a woman of faith as well."
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  • All of this occurred before I got the call.
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  • And don't you know when I got the call
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  • from the nurse that it was a girl,
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  • I was hysterical.
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  • Doubled over, I even said to her through sobs,
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  • "Can you say it again so I can hear you say it
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  • "just one more time?"
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  • But it's amazing what a miracle
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  • that felt like in my life because it is something
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  • I could not control.
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  • Yet God decided to give me in all of his goodness
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  • and all of his faithfulness.
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  • And after that amazement, after this unbelievable
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  • awe that God could be so good and so faithful.
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  • I felt the Lord say, "You know Christy
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  • "I could do this more.
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  • "I could perform more miracles in your life
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  • "if you didn't control this.
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  • "You found this amazing not because you're having a girl,
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  • "but because I did something you wanted so bad
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  • "that you couldn't control.
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  • "If you would release control in other areas
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  • "of your life, I could perform miracles
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  • there as well."
  • 00:20:37.070 --> 00:20:38.150
  • - And my husband always makes this comment
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  • about, "If it's not God's will, it'll be your bill."
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  • You know, in the sense of, whatever you create,
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  • you're gonna have to pay for it.
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  • You're gonna have to suffer the consequences of it,
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  • or whatever.
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  • - Isn't that the truth?
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  • - And the whole faith movement, or faith teaching
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  • has been under such an attack because
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  • there's no balance.
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  • You know, we pray for process opposed to
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  • praying for promise, and nowhere in the scripture
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  • did he tell us to pray for process.
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  • And when you don't see it happening
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  • the way you want it to happen,
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  • now you want to back out.
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  • What he said is the promises of God
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  • are "Yes" and "Amen."
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  • - That's right.
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  • - You know and so when we really realize
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  • that we all have been dealt the measure of faith,
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  • the same measure of faith.
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  • Like the same things you could produce,
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  • the same things Mary could've produced,
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  • the same things Elizabeth could produce,
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  • is the same thing that all of the women
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  • that are watching today can produce.
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  • It's like whatever we desire,
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  • if we would just take God at his word,
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  • like Mary said, "At your word," you know,
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  • "Be it unto me."
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  • When do we sit back and say,
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  • "God, okay I'm gonna take you at your word,
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  • so it can be unto me what I wanna see in my life."
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  • - God is the same, he's the same God of the Bible,
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  • he's the same God of Mary.
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  • And you say this all the time, Chris,
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  • but he's the same God today, he can perform
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  • the same miracles today, but we think,
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  • oh God was different back then.
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  • He performed miracles, he doesn't do that today.
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  • But in your example, in your example,
  • 00:21:58.220 --> 00:22:00.210
  • he's the same God today that he was back then.
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  • - Ordinary girl meets an extraordinary God.
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  • - Beautiful things, right?
  • 00:22:06.240 --> 00:22:08.060
  • (laughter)
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  • - You know I don't know what you may be
  • 00:22:10.030 --> 00:22:11.220
  • experiencing right now, or what challenges
  • 00:22:11.220 --> 00:22:14.160
  • that you may be facing, but I do know this,
  • 00:22:14.160 --> 00:22:17.130
  • that we serve a God that is faithful.
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  • All we have to do is believe and to trust him,
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  • and I guarantee you, you're gonna see
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  • exactly what he has promised you.
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  • Let me pray for you.
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  • Father, in the name of Jesus, I pray for all of those
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  • that are believing and trusting you for whatever it is
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  • that they want to see manifest in their life.
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  • I add my faith to their faith, and I call it forth now
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  • in the name of Jesus.
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  • Satan we serve you notice, you have no power,
  • 00:22:44.090 --> 00:22:46.280
  • no authority, nothing to do with
  • 00:22:46.280 --> 00:22:49.250
  • what they're trusting God for.
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  • So we bind you now in Jesus' name.
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  • Go and do and see what God has promised you.
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  • right now to talk to a prayer partner.
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  • 7 days a week.
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  • We love you, and most importantly, God loves you.
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  • - Today my faith got stirred up.
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  • I guess my biggest takeaway is that
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  • God is who he says he is,
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  • God can do what he says he can do,
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  • and God is just looking for us to stir up
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  • that gift of faith that he's given us
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  • so that we can believe him to be
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  • as big as he is.
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  • We've gotta remember, impossible is where God starts.
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  • Miracles is what God does.
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  • - For me, the top three habits that have helped me
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  • be successful in my life and do what I've done,
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  • or got to where I've gotten,
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  • number one for sure would be hard work.
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  • You just cannot underestimate the value of hard work,
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  • of putting in the day to day grind.
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  • There's no such thing as an overnight success,
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  • and if you just show up day in and day out,
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  • and do the hard work, even the things that
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  • aren't really impressive, it's amazing
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  • how that hard work over time pays off.
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  • So for sure, hard work, you can't bypass it,
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  • it's critical to any type of success in anything,
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  • business, parenting, marriage, it takes hard work.
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  • So first is hard work.
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  • The second thing I would say is humility.
  • 00:24:13.070 --> 00:24:15.120
  • Now humility, as CS Lewis said,
  • 00:24:15.120 --> 00:24:17.170
  • is not thinking less of yourself
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  • but thinking of yourself less.
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  • And this is something so important
  • 00:24:21.100 --> 00:24:23.060
  • as you become more successful,
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  • as you have more opportunities,
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  • as you meet more people and have more power
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  • or control or responsibility, to realize
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  • you are a steward.
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  • All those things that you're doing,
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  • all those things that you have,
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  • all those things you're responsible for
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  • or in control of are things that are truly God's.
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  • And he's using you as a vessel
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  • to steward those things well.
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  • And I think having that heart and that posture
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  • and that perspective of humility is critical to success.
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  • Now we all see people that become very successful
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  • that are not humble, and they're also not very likable,
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  • and they're not someone that we want to be like.
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  • So I think humility, and remembering that
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  • at any stage of your journey, at any level of success,
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  • or perceived level of success,
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  • that every single bit of it is God's.
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  • Even my work ethic is God's.
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  • Even the fact that I know God is a gift from God.
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  • So when you realize everything starts
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  • and ends with God, it's pretty easy to be humble
  • 00:25:15.230 --> 00:25:17.270
  • because you realize it's not about you,
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  • it's about what God's doing through you.
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  • So the first one would be hard work,
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  • the second one would be humility,
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  • and the third one would certainly be a faith in God.
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  • I am so limited as a human being.
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  • I am so limited in my skills and my talents
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  • and my knowledge and what I can control and do.
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  • But when you add God to the equation and you
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  • invite him into your life to lead you and direct you
  • 00:25:37.250 --> 00:25:41.040
  • and pray into his will, not my will but your will,
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  • it's amazing how the impossible really does become possible.
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  • And you're dreams, you realize are too small.
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  • I love how the Bible says, "He will give you
  • 00:25:51.180 --> 00:25:53.250
  • "more than you could ever ask or imagine."
  • 00:25:53.250 --> 00:25:56.000
  • So people ask me, "Oh have you always dreamed of
  • 00:25:56.000 --> 00:25:58.060
  • "becoming an author or speaking or doing these things?"
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  • No, no, if you look at my diary from high school,
  • 00:26:00.270 --> 00:26:03.170
  • my dreams were tiny, they were so small
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  • and ridiculous compared to what God is doing now.
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  • But that's why you wanna lean in to God
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  • and what he's doing for you because
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  • he has things for you that are more
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  • than you could ever ask or imagine.
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  • So hard work, humility and a faith
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  • in the God that can do all things.
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